In this profoundly moving episode, Victoria speaks with Amr Nawwar, a VSA graduate and professional dog trainer based in Dubai. Born in a small village in Egypt and once fearful of dogs, Amr’s transformation is a testament to courage, curiosity, and conviction. With a background in pharmacy and a deep respect for science, Amr’s journey led him to question traditional training methods rooted in punishment and dominance. Now a vocal advocate for positive reinforcement, he discusses his challenges navigating cultural stereotypes about dogs and masculinity—especially within male-dominated, punishment-heavy training circles in the Middle East. He also shares insights on the power of effective social media communication and the ethical responsibility of trainers. This episode highlights the intersection of compassion, faith, and evidence-based practice, offering hope for a kinder future in dog training across the globe.
Amr's contact information:
Molly's Dog House
Instagram: @dubaidogstrainer
Arabic Content: Tik Tok
In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Victoria Stilwell speaks with Neika Smessaert, a veterinary technician, certified dog trainer, and trailblazer for inclusivity within the dog training and veterinary worlds. Neika shares her journey from working in small animal clinics to becoming a vital advocate for deaf and hard-of-hearing trainers.
With humor and humility, she recounts how learning ASL during the pandemic led her to mentor VSA’s first deaf student, Leah, opening the door for broader accessibility within the program. Together, they co-created the Puppy Progress Planner—a 12-week confidence-building resource for puppies and their humans—and launched a beautifully inclusive e-course designed to support learners of all backgrounds. Neika candidly discusses the importance of community, the emotional impact of hearing loss, and how curiosity—rather than perfection—is the true key to inclusion. This episode isn’t just about dog training. It’s about seeing each other fully and creating spaces where everyone belongs.
To find out more about Neika, visit Vet Tech Coach.
In this episode, Victoria reconnects with Yaz Porritt to discuss the uncomfortable truths behind what they witnessed at Crufts 2025. They begin by acknowledging the backlash they’ve received for attending and supporting the event, despite their intentions to promote ethical training and welfare-centered education. Yaz shares how her Your Dog’s Pain Diary is being used by both pet parents and professionals to identify hidden pain, setting the stage for the broader conversation about canine well-being in public spaces like dog shows.
As the episode unfolds, they describe shocking scenes of aversive handling in the show ring in front of spectators and cameras. Victoria and Yaz suggest practical reforms, agreeing that education, not condemnation, is the key to change.
The conversation turns toward the Kennel Club’s complicated role—on one hand, providing crucial breed health data and influencing legislation; on the other, falling short on meaningful enforcement and transparency. Victoria and Yaz propose helping the Kennel Club pilot a welfare initiative that includes impartial monitoring, better judge training, and a visible commitment to ethical practices.
Despite the problems, both women stress their admiration for well-bred, well-handled dogs and the beauty of events like police demos, agility, and heelwork to music. Their hope is to preserve and improve dog showing—not dismantle it. With both criticism and compassion, they invite the Kennel Club and listeners alike to join them in creating a Crufts that’s not just the biggest, but truly the greatest.
To learn more or reach out to Yaz, visit Yorkshire Pooches Therapies.
Victoria opens the episode by introducing the talented cast of trainers from The Bad Dog Academy, sharing how the show has taken off across the UK—and beyond—for its honest, emotional approach to training. Kamal reflects on how the show felt like something truly special from the start, allowing space for deep vulnerability in the human-dog bond. Sean emphasizes how emotionally intense the work is, even comparing it to the pressure of playing professional rugby. Jo shares how surprised she was to be selected, and how grateful she feels knowing the show prioritizes ethics and transparency in every case.
The trainers laugh about some of the show’s lighter moments—like Jo’s fan-favorite hair and Sean’s rising “mountain man sex symbol” status—while also discussing the overwhelming pressure they faced behind the scenes. But beyond the laughs, they reveal just how much unseen preparation goes into each case, including lengthy planning meetings that often get upended the moment the dog walks in.
Victoria and the team emphasize the intentional authenticity of the show—viewers see real first meetings with clients, genuine training challenges, and a commitment to showing progress, not perfection. Unlike other programs that rely on fast fixes or scripted setups, The Bad Dog Academy offers a transparent, respectful look at both the dogs and people involved. The crew even follows up with clients and their dogs after filming ends, something Jo, Sean, and Victoria say has created lasting bonds.
They also give a shout-out to producer Nick Grimshaw (aka "Grimmy"), whose charm and curiosity helped bridge the gap between the trainers and the viewing audience. The addition of Grimmy brought levity and structure, but most importantly, he stayed true to the show's heart—never pretending to be an expert, just a deeply interested dog lover.
As the episode winds down, the trainers reflect on the emotional impact of their work. From helping owners regain confidence to noticing subtle improvements in fearful or reactive dogs, every case mattered. They wrap with rapid-fire takeaways, laughter, and heartfelt praise for each other and the entire production team. It’s clear this isn’t just a show about dog training—it’s a story about human growth, mutual understanding, and the power of doing things the right way, even when it’s hard.
In this groundbreaking episode, Victoria welcomes Kari Bastyr—a Certified Professional Canine Nutritionist (CPCN) through the Feed Real Institute, certified behavior consultant, and gluten detection dog trainer—to explore the powerful link between canine nutrition, behavior, and emotional well-being. With certifications from the IAABC and VSPDT, and professional memberships with O.D.O.R. Service Dogs, the Pet Professional Guild, and the Animal Behavior Society, Kari brings both science-backed insight and hands-on experience to the table.
Kari opens up about her personal health journey with celiac disease and her dog Birdie—a trained gluten detection dog from Willow Service Dogs, where Kari also completed an internship with trainer Dawn Scheu. She explains how the gut-brain axis, microbiome diversity, and food-based inflammation can profoundly affect a dog’s behavior, contributing to issues like anxiety, fear, reactivity, and cognitive decline.
The conversation also includes practical takeaways, such as how to use prebiotics, probiotics, and fresh food toppers to support your dog’s health and behavioral wellness. Kari shares why minimally processed food matters, how nutrition can make or break a behavior plan, and why food truly affects mood—for both humans and dogs. Whether you're a trainer, pet parent, or someone navigating complex canine behavior challenges, this episode is a must-listen.
To learn more about Kari or to get in touch with her, visit Wag and Train or Celiac Service Dogs.
In this gripping episode, Victoria chats with Jim Crosby—former police officer, canine behavior expert, and forensic investigator—about the heartbreaking and vital work of understanding fatal dog attacks. Jim opens up about his transition from law enforcement to animal behavior and being one of the only experts to combine behavioral science with crime scene investigation. From dogfighting raids to fatality cases, Jim shares powerful stories of real dogs, real outcomes, and real evidence, emphasizing how understanding canine behavior can save both human and animal lives.
They discuss the realities behind canine aggression, how trauma and environment influence behavior, and why breed-specific legislation misses the mark. Jim also dives into the work he's doing with the Canine Brain Project at Harvard, stressing the importance of accurate data collection and individualized assessment over knee-jerk reactions. Whether you're a trainer, pet parent, or policy-maker, this episode is a sobering but essential reminder that behavior is complex, context matters, and prevention starts with listening.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Jamie Diaz, founder of Dynamite Dog Training and a rising star in the dog training world. Jamie shares her journey from starting her Florida-based training business to building a massive online following by showcasing real-time, authentic dog training content. She discusses the challenges of working in an industry often dominated by outdated methods, her strategies for creating meaningful content, and the impact of social media on dog training education. Jamie also highlights the importance of resilience, balancing business with family life, and staying true to her values in the face of online criticism. If you're a trainer, aspiring influencer, or dog lover seeking inspiration, this episode is a must-listen!
You can connect with Jamie through the following channels:
https://www.instagram.com/dynamitedogtraining/
https://www.tiktok.com/@dynamitedogtraining
In this deeply moving episode, host Victoria Stilwell welcomes renowned author and applied animal behaviorist Patricia McConnell to discuss her impactful career, powerful personal journey, and her unwavering dedication to improving the lives of dogs and their people. Patricia reflects on how her book The Other End of the Leash revolutionized dog training by shifting the focus toward understanding canine communication and building relationships based on empathy and respect.
The conversation delves into Patricia's early experiences navigating a male-dominated industry and her efforts to elevate dog training as a respected profession. Patricia shares personal stories about her struggles with PTSD and how her bond with her dog, Will, played a crucial role in her healing journey. Her book The Education of Will reveals the profound connection between human trauma and canine behavior, showing how kindness and understanding can be transformative forces for both dogs and their people.
Patricia and Victoria also discuss the vital role of play in learning, the challenges facing positive reinforcement trainers in an industry still grappling with outdated methods, and the importance of trainers embracing their role as emotional supporters for clients navigating difficult decisions. Patricia’s heartfelt reflections remind listeners that kindness—not just for dogs but for ourselves—is essential in fostering positive change.
As a pioneer in the dog training world, Patricia’s influence continues to inspire trainers worldwide, encouraging them to embrace science-based methods grounded in compassion. Don’t miss this powerful conversation filled with wisdom, warmth, and inspiration. Be sure to visit Patricia’s blog for invaluable insights into behavior, training, and the magic of the human-animal bond.
In this insightful episode, Victoria talks with Standish Dog Trainer Jo Pay. They dive deep into understanding and managing canine aggression. Drawing from her experiences on The Dog Academy, Jo emphasizes the importance of recognizing subtle body language cues, implementing effective management strategies, and building trust through humane training techniques. She recounts her powerful experience working with Marvin, a Border Collie who transformed from a fearful, reactive dog to a confident companion through patience and structured guidance.
Jo addresses the growing issue of aggression in dogs, linking it to poor breeding practices, lack of proper socialization, and environmental stressors. She offers practical advice for trainers and dog guardians alike, highlighting the value of prevention, clear communication, and compassion in fostering safer, happier lives for dogs and their families. Whether you're a professional trainer or a dedicated dog guardian, Jo's wisdom provides invaluable guidance in navigating challenging behaviors.
Join Victoria, Jo, and all the other amazing speakers at this year’s Dog Behavior Conference.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Sue Ketland, the renowned behavior and training specialist from Woodgreen Pets Charity, and a familiar face from The Dog House on Channel 4. With 35 years of experience in dog welfare, Sue shares behind-the-scenes insights on how the show has reshaped the public’s view of adoption, the complexities of matching dogs with families, and the heartwarming successes that keep her motivated. She also opens up about the emotional challenges of rescue work, the importance of patience in adoption, and the role of positive reinforcement in helping dogs transition into new homes.
Victoria and Sue discuss what it takes to navigate life in front of and behind the camera, ensuring that the realities of dog adoption are accurately portrayed on television. They explore topics like kennel stress, enrichment programs, and how Woodgreen has remained a leader in the rescue community for over 100 years. Plus, listeners get an inside look at the casting process for The Dog House’s upcoming season and how UK families can get involved. Whether you're in the UK or watching from abroad, this episode is packed with wisdom, emotion, and plenty of dog-loving inspiration.
If you would like to apply for the latest series of The Dog House, click here to learn more.
Adolescence can be one of the most challenging stages in a dog's life—and for their caregivers! In this episode, renowned canine behavior expert Sarah Fisher joins Victoria Stilwell to discuss how we can better support adolescent dogs through their period of rapid growth, exploration, and change. Sarah shares insights from her ACE Free Work approach and explains why movement is critical for development, how we often misinterpret mouthing behavior, and why traditional training methods may not always be the best approach.
From the emotional and sensory needs of teenage dogs to the importance of rethinking play, enrichment, and our own behavior, this conversation is packed with groundbreaking ideas that challenge conventional thinking. Whether you’re raising a young pup or working with adolescent dogs in training, you won’t want to miss these eye-opening insights.
To learn more about Sarah, visit http://www.tilleyfarm.org.uk.
In this thought-provoking episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Sam Wike, a former police officer and certified explosive detection K9 handler who now dedicates his expertise to companion dog training. Sam discusses the challenges humans create in training due to their need for control and how true partnerships with dogs require understanding their perspective rather than imposing our own. He emphasizes the importance of communication, patience, and respecting dogs as intelligent beings with their own emotional landscapes.
Sam also explores the power of positive reinforcement in high-stakes environments like police work, dismantling the myth that harsh training methods are necessary for reliability. He shares powerful stories from his K9 handling days, explains why ego is one of the biggest obstacles in dog training, and provides valuable guidance on working with aggressive dogs. If you’ve ever wondered how to better connect with your dog, this episode is a must-listen.
To learn more about Sam or get in touch visit https://theinnerdog.com/.
Victoria Stilwell welcomes Zazie Todd, PhD, an award-winning author, animal behavior expert, and founder of Companion Animal Psychology on the podcast to discuss the science of stress in dogs, how to identify signs of anxiety, and the role of medications in behavior modification. The conversation touches on cognitive bias in dogs, optimism vs. pessimism, and how early positive experiences shape a dog’s outlook.
Zazie shares insights on why fear and anxiety in dogs are on the rise, how counter-conditioning works, and why first-time experiences matter so much for a dog’s learning. Zazie also highlights the importance of finding properly qualified trainers who use reward-based methods and why aversive training techniques can have long-term negative effects on a dog’s well-being.
Zazie will be speaking at the 2025 Dog Behavior Conference, where she will present her research on “Firsts and Nice Surprises” in helping fearful dogs.
In this insightful episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes back Andrew Hale to discuss the deep connections between human and canine social experiences. As a certified animal behaviorist and advocate for dog-centric care, Andrew delves into the importance of secure attachments, social safety, and emotional regulation in both species. The conversation challenges traditional views on training, highlighting how reactivity and behavior issues often stem from social processing struggles rather than mere disobedience. They also explore how punishment-based methods can create long-term emotional damage, making a strong case for humane, positive approaches.
Drawing parallels between societal issues and dog behavior, they discuss how stress, insecurity, and fear-based reactions manifest similarly in people and pets. Andrew shares thought-provoking research on social pain, the effects of loneliness on physiological health, and how social exclusion can shape both human and canine behavior. Victoria and Andrew emphasize the need for compassionate training methods that prioritize emotional well-being, reinforcing the idea that true behavior change starts with understanding, safety, and connection. Tune in for a compelling conversation that may change the way you think about dogs—and people.
To learn more about Andrew Hale, visit https://trainpositive.co.uk/.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell interviews Beverley Cuddy, editor of Dogs Today magazine, as it celebrates 35 years of championing dog welfare. Beverley shares her experiences advocating for responsible breeding, her views on the Kennel Club's recent controversies, and the importance of holding organizations accountable. They delve into breed-specific legislation, including the XL Bully ban, and explore how media and education can shape public perception of dog ownership.
Beverley’s candid insights into her career, her advocacy work, and the future of dog welfare offer listeners a mix of inspiration and thought-provoking commentary. Whether you're a pet professional or a devoted dog lover, this episode sheds light on critical issues facing dogs and their owners today.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes Tom Candy, clinical animal behaviourist and founder of Simplifying Shelter Behaviour. Tom shares insights into the current state of shelters in the UK, highlighting the challenges brought on by the pandemic, the cost-of-living crisis, and changing adoption patterns. He delves into the frustrations faced by both dogs and their guardians in shelter and rescue scenarios, emphasizing the importance of innovative solutions like preventive rescue and in-home support programs. Tom also provides a behind-the-scenes look at how shelters are adapting to better serve both dogs and potential adopters.
The conversation extends beyond shelter operations to address pressing issues such as the XL Bully ban, burnout among shelter staff, and the importance of self-care for those in emotionally taxing professions. Victoria and Tom explore the potential benefits and risks of playgroups in shelters and share actionable advice for improving the rehoming process. Whether you're a pet professional, volunteer, or dog enthusiast, this episode offers valuable insights into creating a more compassionate and effective sheltering system.
To learn more about Tom, visit Simplifying Shelter Behaviour's Facebook page.
In this enlightening episode, Victoria Stilwell welcomes the legendary Sue Sternberg, a trailblazer in dog training and behavior. They explore Sue’s journey from 1981 to now, highlighting industry changes, the rise of trainer wars, and the complexities of shelter work. Sue shares candid insights into her groundbreaking HBO documentary, Shelter Dogs, her philosophy on crafting authentic relationships with dogs, and the need for a more holistic approach to canine care.
The conversation takes a deep dive into the difficulties of being a dog in today's world, from the pressures of modern training methods to the challenges of neighborhood walks. Sue emphasizes the importance of understanding canine behavior and adapting to their unique needs. Victoria and Sue also discuss innovative ways to enrich dogs' lives and advocate for better breeding practices to suit modern environments. This episode is a must-listen for dog trainers, pet owners, and advocates alike.
To learn more about Sue Sternberg, visit www.suesternberg.com. Access Sue's books and DVD's at www.Dogwise.com and videos at www.TawzerDog.com.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell sits down with Dr. Maggie O’Brian, a board-certified veterinary behaviorist, to uncover the complexities of animal behavior. They dive deep into the critical role veterinary behaviorists play in addressing issues like aggression, compulsive disorders, and cognitive decline, alongside the importance of collaboration with trainers and vets. Dr. O’Brian also busts myths about pet medication and offers practical advice for traveling with anxious pets during the holidays.
Listeners will gain insights into identifying when to refer pets to a veterinary behaviorist, handling resource guarding, and understanding the nuances of canine cognitive dysfunction. Dr. O’Brian emphasizes a team-based approach to care and explains how science-based strategies and medication can lead to happier, safer pets. Whether you’re a trainer, pet owner, or animal enthusiast, this episode is packed with valuable takeaways!
To learn more about Dr. O'Brian, visit Virtual Veterinary Behavior Medicine or Southeast Animal Behavior and Training.
Join Victoria Stilwell and Holly Firfer as they celebrate 20 years of "It's Me or the Dog." Holly is the VP of programming and Development for ReachTV and Scripps New Anchor. She is a former radio DJ, news correspondent and Victoria's podcast companion for many years.
Victoria shares her journey from acting to dog training, the creation of her groundbreaking TV show, and the evolution of her mission to educate pet owners and trainers worldwide. The episode highlights memorable moments from the show, the challenges of tackling severe behavioral issues, and the joy of fostering relationships between dogs and their humans.
They also delve into Victoria's educational initiatives, from the Victoria Stilwell Academy to online courses designed for dog enthusiasts and trainers. With stories of success, humor, and heartfelt connections, this episode showcases the enduring impact of positive reinforcement training.
In this insightful episode, Victoria interviews dog behavior expert Bob Ryder on the complexities of canine separation anxiety. Bob shares his own journey from avoiding cases of separation anxiety to becoming a certified expert in it. He discusses how separation anxiety is often misunderstood as misbehavior or stubbornness, instead highlighting it as an involuntary and intense fear response. By likening this anxiety to human phobias, he invites listeners to view affected dogs with compassion and patience.
Bob delves into the latest methods for helping dogs with separation anxiety, from suspension of absences to systematic desensitization. He explains how training should focus on reprogramming a dog's response to alone time through gradual, fear-free exposures. Bob also discusses the importance of supporting families in finding creative solutions to avoid leaving their dogs alone while training, showing that successful outcomes rely on both empathy and a well-planned approach.
To learn more about Bob, visit https://www.pawstrans.com/.
In this episode, Victoria Stilwell hosts Carolyn Menteith, an award-winning trainer and behaviorist, to discuss the UK Dog Behavior and Training Charter. They explore its importance in setting ethical training standards, the advocacy for banning shock collars, and its broader implications for dogs and trainers. Carolyn shares insights into unifying professional organizations under a common mission and highlights her ongoing efforts to promote science-based, positive reinforcement methodologies.
The episode also dives into the transformative power of ethical training on dogs' welfare, the challenges in influencing legislation, and the inspiring collaboration among organizations to create meaningful change. A must-listen for trainers, dog owners, and advocates of compassionate dog care.
In this episode, host Victoria talks with seasoned dog trainer Julie Schmitt about the evolution of dog training methods from traditional compulsion-based techniques to modern positive reinforcement approaches. Julie shares her transformative journey, starting over 25 years ago with Guide Dogs for the Blind, where food rewards were initially discouraged. She reveals how the field has since shifted to embrace compassionate and scientifically backed training methods that prioritize a dog's mental and emotional well-being.
Julie discusses the importance of empathy and agency in the trainer-dog relationship, likening it to respectful parenting rather than authoritarian control. By highlighting her own growth and ongoing learning, she encourages both new trainers and dog owners to stay curious and open to change. This conversation provides a heartfelt, insightful perspective on the evolving world of dog training and the power of compassion and science to create happier, healthier dogs and trainers alike.
To learn more about Julie, visit https://outnaboutdogtraining.com/.
In this impactful episode, Victoria sits down with Kat Kekel, a seasoned dog trainer and rescue worker, to explore the intense realities of puppy mill rescues, cruelty cases, and the transition of dogs from shelters to homes. Kat shares stories from her years in the field, from managing large-scale rescues to preparing dogs for adoption, offering invaluable insights into the process of rehabilitation and the emotional complexities involved.
Listeners will hear about the challenges of caring for traumatized animals, the importance of understanding a dog's past, and Kat’s advice for creating a bond with rescue dogs. Victoria and Kat discuss how each dog’s unique background influences their needs, behaviors, and potential. This episode is filled with practical tips for pet owners looking to foster, adopt, or understand dogs who’ve experienced trauma.
Click here to learn more about Kat.
In this episode, Victoria and the Positively Team discuss how dogs perceive the world around them, exploring topics such as sensory awareness, contrasts, and how dogs navigate change. With holidays approaching, the group also delves into the effects of holiday activities on dogs, from fireworks to increased guest presence, and offers practical tips to help pet owners prepare their dogs for these changes. They emphasize empathy and proactive steps to create safe, comfortable environments tailored to each dog’s unique needs, ensuring a peaceful season for both pets and owners.
Listeners will gain insight into the importance of understanding how dogs experience the world differently through senses like smell and hearing, and why seemingly small changes can have big impacts on their well-being. Whether it’s planning for holiday gatherings or adjusting daily routines, this episode offers a wealth of advice to help dogs thrive.
In this episode, Victoria sits down with Yaz Porritt, founder of Yorkshire Pooches Therapies, to discuss the complexities of canine pain management. With extensive experience in canine massage therapy and natural pain management, Yaz shares her insights into recognizing pain in dogs, the role of behavior as an indicator, and how the bond between dogs and their guardians can affect both wellness and recovery. She discusses her published book, "Your Dog's Pain Diary, A Blueprint for Monitoring a Pain Trial," which helps pet owners track pain symptoms, providing valuable data for effective vet consultations.
Yaz and Victoria delve into the often overlooked signs of discomfort in dogs and the powerful connection between physical pain and behavioral changes. They also explore the heated debates around species-appropriate nutrition and the role of empathy in animal welfare. Packed with practical advice and insights, this episode is a must for anyone looking to deepen their understanding of dog behavior and health.