Attentive While Oblivious Podcast

Why do people want to control you and how to combat it. || Attentive While Oblivious Podcast #029 || David and Rachel

May 19, 2023 David and Rachel Season 1 Episode 29
Why do people want to control you and how to combat it. || Attentive While Oblivious Podcast #029 || David and Rachel
Attentive While Oblivious Podcast
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Attentive While Oblivious Podcast
Why do people want to control you and how to combat it. || Attentive While Oblivious Podcast #029 || David and Rachel
May 19, 2023 Season 1 Episode 29
David and Rachel

This podcast deals with why people want to control you and how not to let them.  Rachel and I go through quite a few reasons why people want control of you and us.  Sometimes just a simple no can be a remedy in most circumstances.  Discussions of:

  • Mic drop
  • Guilt is a subfactor of control
  • Boundaries
  • I don’t like the lunch lady in the line
  • I am the boss of myself
  • Generational
  • Narcissistic
  • No with no explanation
  • You care about yourself more than others feelings
  • Rachel is a people pleaser
  • Touch love
  • Position holder
  • You can be a healer and not be a sucka
  • Electric shock therapy


We feel that the only one that should control you is you.  Make it a point to set simple boundaries at first and go from there.  Good luck with your journey!



Show Notes

This podcast deals with why people want to control you and how not to let them.  Rachel and I go through quite a few reasons why people want control of you and us.  Sometimes just a simple no can be a remedy in most circumstances.  Discussions of:

  • Mic drop
  • Guilt is a subfactor of control
  • Boundaries
  • I don’t like the lunch lady in the line
  • I am the boss of myself
  • Generational
  • Narcissistic
  • No with no explanation
  • You care about yourself more than others feelings
  • Rachel is a people pleaser
  • Touch love
  • Position holder
  • You can be a healer and not be a sucka
  • Electric shock therapy


We feel that the only one that should control you is you.  Make it a point to set simple boundaries at first and go from there.  Good luck with your journey!