The Freedom of Turning 40: Boundaries, Dating & What No One Told Us (But Should Have)

Turning 40 changes everything — especially the way we see ourselves, our relationships, and the expectations the world keeps putting on women. In this episode of the One More Book Podcast, I sit down with my lifelong friend Pie to talk about what truly shifts when you enter your forties: the bold “no”, the freedom from external opinions, the unexpected joy of dating yourself, and the reality of dating in your 40s.

We talk about the myths we grew up with, the pressure women still face, and why so many of us learn to choose peace over people-pleasing. Pie also shares a refreshingly honest look at single motherhood, financial independence, emotional boundaries, and why travelling with your child might be the most empowering therapy there is.