76. When a woman believes in herself

when a woman believes in herself she becomes her big brave. Because, no. You cannot trust them…

Not your pastor, your kids, your lover, your boss, your family, your pet, your coaches, your friends, certainly not your imaginary Facebook friends …

And it’s because we can’t trust them, that’s why we have to give up the battle of NOT being who we are!  You CAN show yourself your power to do have and become whatever YOU want.  

You see

as love-wanting humans, we have a tendency to depend on others to “make” us feel good about ourselves

To “green-light” our emotions, BEFORE we can believe we got dah goods (i.e. where we ARE already magnificent creators of our reality)

And today, on the 1 year anniversary of my first book release “Inner Child Healing”, I thought of one of the “BIG-Brave” moments that has changed my life, and so I share this love-soaked message

As a human when we *decide to believe in ourselves

We give up the dependency on other people and things to make us feel worthy enough to FEEL love for ourselves

And don’t feel bad, because I did it too.  I was:

-Waiting for my parents to unlearn THEIR trauma so they could love me “better”

-Waiting to work with the “right’ coach so they could teach me how to FEEL good about myself

-Waiting for friends, family and audience to become paying clients, so they could make me be a “legitimate” entrepreneur

So, Here’s why you can’t trust them 

They cannot FEEL your feelings for you

No coach can teach you enough - for your to believe in yourself

No lover, dog, parent, riches, no power-title can love you enough

Doves, it truly comes down  this simple 2 “acceptances

1. You have a desire for what YOU want and you decide that what YOU want matters

2.  You are ready to experiment (to trial and error it) with learning YOU: observing and testing out your “big-braves” , so that you can GET it

So no, you can’t trust anyone to become YOUR freedom, because only you are capable of living YOUR life

~Of tasting your emotions

~Of becoming SO brave that you defy the masses

~Of practicing the oceans of courage that it takes to make YOUR dreams real

And now, as the gorgeous 2025 - unfolds her wings:

Who are you READY to become?

And who are you UN-willing to remain?

The make YOUR dreams real workshop invites you to join women who become their big-Brave fire, so that you too can live life on your own terms

Here’s the link to join us www.rebelforaspell.com

Sending wild flower-ing freedom,

Wen 
P.S.

[🌱So grateful my book “Inner Child Healing” and this Pod has been helping your sacred journey]

Audio book, Hard copy and e-book are available at Barnes and Nobles, Amazon, Bookshop.org etc.

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