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All She Do Is Rap
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Wes and DeLaw talk about their "Rapper" ex girlfriends as they discuss suitable date conversation topics to not be boring and money being thrown into professional sports
Discussing Female Rappers and Archetypes
Speaker 1Hey everybody , welcome back to another episode of the Accordion to Wes podcast . As always , got D-Law here , d-law here .
Speaker 2Yeah , cold as shit , but I'm here .
Speaker 1Got me me too , as I say me Wes as well . I don't know I fucked that up . You have me Wes as well . Those here Cold as a motherfucker too . It's cold as shit in the basement and sometimes my wife be sneaking in touch with the thermostat and I go . She ain't know what happened because she cleaned up and got hat . That's usually what it is . Oh , I stopped moving around and got hat , I'm like , so you freeze me down here in the basement , yeah .
Speaker 1I'm like yo , I'm like yo , I'm on . That's exactly what you do your wife's free with a fan , my wife's free with a fan , cellophane and the AC on low Like damn we sleep with .
Speaker 2I don't know if I just got used to it , but we have a cellophane that we use , that we use , but that's more or less for me the cellophane for you .
Speaker 2Yeah , honestly , the cellophane that we got when we moved to was for me . When we moved to the house around the corner we it was a cellophane in the room and it came in handy . It's on like on really really hot days and then on really cold days that the heat was blasting , it was really hot , it came in handy . So when we moved in here , there was no cellophane . Okay , so there was no cellophane or nothing . It was just yeah , it was yeah , it was what it was . No , I got you . I was like , yeah , we're moving in here , we need to get a cellophane . And she was like why we need a cellophane ? And I was like we need a cellophane because there's going to be some days where it gets really really hot and that AC ain't going to cool us off and it's going to be some days that is really really hot and because it's cold outside , you ain't going to want to turn the heat down .
Speaker 1Yeah , oh , cellophane , yeah , I don't get why people some people think cellophane is a tacky or just don't belong in the house . I'm like yo , cellophane are the best , yeah , the fucking best . They're going to be used incorrectly . They also generate heat and circulate the heat around in your room . It's a little switch on there , we don't know . One sucks , one pushes air up , one pushes air down . I think I did that . Yeah , what ? Because of the way it rotates . Basically it rotates counterclockwise . Yeah , engineering , scientific . But yeah , utilize those cellophanes .
Speaker 2You know you can't talk nourishment to a lot of people because they don't understand it , but it's all good , it's all good .
Speaker 1Yeah , it's all good . How the fuck did I forget the name of the movie that damn fast ? Because you , what's the movie with the vampires ? Surely it was all about the white lady kicking ass . Last one , I'm like just talking about it . Last one was about werewolves , lichens and shit like that . You know what I'm talking about ? What the fuck name of that movie .
Speaker 2Name of a movie or someone being a , I would just fucking look it up . God damn it , you got a smartphone .
Speaker 1Yeah , I do , kate Beckinsale . So , kate Beckinsale , fuck , I knew that . Underworld , the vampire movie , underworld .
Speaker 2Oh , that's true , Kate , that's Kate .
Speaker 1Beckinsale . So shorty had a birthday party . She turned 50 . That was a long ago and , yeah , she had a rapper there , even a rapper , big Balls Vett Don't know what it is . Do you Exactly the D-Logging old Big Balls Vett ? Right , I think Better name , that's her name , big Balls Vett . Anywho , I forgot why I bring that up , but yes , the videos are twerking , performing their songs , stuff like that , and blah , blah , blah , blah . So I had me thinking like in a Twilight Zone type situation . Right , let's just say , back in 2009 , rose of Reverse , most of the women that you date drug dealers or rappers , just like most of the men that women dated back then was drug dealers . What are you rappers Back then ? What would have been your style , what would have been your archetype of the girl you was dating at that time ? But you got the name of female rapper .
Speaker 2Oh God , exactly , there wasn't many of them .
Speaker 1No , it could be a current female rapper . Now I'm saying back then , what person ? Do you understand what I'm trying to say ? What person , what female rapper would have been the type of girl you was dating back then , just like the style , the presence , all that other stuff ? What you're probably about to say is I know no female rappers .
Speaker 2I was thinking Eve , eve . Yeah , I was thinking Eve . Why ?
Speaker 1Eve , I like Eve . That's not the I like Eve . I like Eve too , but that's not how this question goes .
Speaker 2Hey look , stop asking .
Speaker 1You were dating a girl . You were dating a girl . You was dating . You had a team or whatever , Eve , Someone on that team or someone that you dated around that time . What female rapper now , in the past or current would have been the archetype for that woman ? You can't get yourself in trouble . You just describe a girl that you already dated . I already came up with my fucking album . I'm just describing the type of girl that I dated over . It's been fucking 15 years .
Speaker 2I don't know , probably still Eve , as far as a rapper , a female rapper .
Speaker 1You were dating a girl that not that resembled Eve , but just had the personification of Eve .
Speaker 2Like the personality and persona , not that look like her . I like Eve . Eve's cool , she's cool .
Female Rappers and Social Media Algorithm
Speaker 1I'm getting the feeling you don't know so many female rappers .
Speaker 2Nope , not at all . I got you . The closest I come to knowing any of the recent female rappers is Lada . That's the closest I get Somebody called Megan , Megan Astalian or something that's about it . I mean , you know the fuck that is , besides your Cardi B's and your Nicki Minaj's yeah , I don't know too many of them .
Speaker 1I don't know what made me come over that question , but mine would have been Rico Nasty . That is a girl , a woman , I know the name I know the name . So mine would have been Rico Nasty . You know , she from DC , what's your from Maryland ? Oh , okay , and at one time I was dating this hood ass chick . So I'm gonna say Rico Nasty and Kamaya from uh think , kamaya from Oakland . So them two Shout out to them In no particular order .
Speaker 2Well , as you can tell , I don't know too much about the rap game in the females in it , so I bet your wife might be able to school you . I wonder , mrs Smith , you know any of the female rappers ? You know any female rappers ? Know any of the new female rappers ? I think we're in the same boat .
Speaker 1And it's like backyard door .
Speaker 2Yeah , she's like back .
Speaker 1Did she see the backyard front porch performance ? No , I haven't .
Speaker 2I don't think so . I saw the backyard front porch thing . I saw it .
Speaker 2It was pretty good Like and they , you know , and they hit somebody , they , they , they , they classics , Some of the classic beats . I was like , okay , I fucks with this . Yeah , I did , I liked it . I meant like when I got back from Western Maryland I meant to like show it to her . But I was like when I was listening to her I'm pretty sure she , she , didn't heard this , but I hadn't got around to asking her . She heard the backyard front porch segment Shit .
Speaker 1I just recently seen a clip . Everybody kept raving about this juvenile tiny dash joint and I seen it come up on my things .
Speaker 1Oh , that was , that was tough , right Cause I seen this because I'm subscribed to the channel and it well , one of the like , the shorts came up and I was like , yeah , I got to watch this shit in this entirety . I still haven't even watched it yet , but that's shame on me at that and declared the juvenile fade to be the the superior fade in all of Louisiana , for my Louisiana and stuff , you know . Shout out to y'all , shout out to y'all , and don't hurt me if y'all see me If I chose a juvenile old boozey . So shout out to y'all . But yeah , I , I seen that shit and it was dope , though . Dope , dope , dope , dope , dope , dope . Shout out to big balls of that too .
Speaker 2She's making you guys see that clip , I'll send you the clip .
Speaker 1I seen a couple of the tiny tables . No , no , no , big balls of that . That cake back in sales birthday party . I'll send you the clip . All right , it's a short clip , but you'll appreciate the clip nonetheless . Okay , that's all that needs to be said . That's all that needs to be said . Yeah , man Soon , it's going to be one of those things where your algorithm is who you are , because my shit , my shit is my shit is . Stay true to me , it's my algorithm is a Japanese sports cars , cats , basketball , that is it . Maybe some , maybe some big booty joints in there , just just , you know , sprinkled in a little bit , but for the majority part , is those three things .
Speaker 1And I can get on fucking any one of my social media platforms and just like scroll a fucking way . Oh shit , he put some room , he put those type of rooms on there . This car is a 25 years old in Japan . I can import it over here now Like stupid shit , like that . My algorithm is love I love that shit .
Speaker 2When I was with my ex , that's what would happen . She'd be like is your whole Instagram just half-naked chicks ? I was like , yeah , yeah .
Speaker 1I'm gonna lie about it . Yo , I ain't gonna lie about it , never mind . That's why you guys , that's why you got to mix it up right now .
Speaker 2No , I wasn't too interested .
Speaker 1No .
Speaker 2I wasn't too interested in mixing that shit up . I ain't gonna fuck .
Speaker 1So what's your algorithm ? So , is your algorithm that now you still got some of that in there ?
Speaker 2Actually , my algorithm has recently just started putting that back in there . It was pretty much um , WWE wrestling or wrestling clips all together , Right , and then you know where it's like oh you know , you , you , you . You saw , like some of the things that people be doing , like how , all of a sudden , everybody's using these , using the light bulbs and doing these moves off of it . Yeah , that's what my timeline has started being , and I felt some type of way about it Like damn , like this is my timeline . So then I just started looking up big booty hoes and put some variety .
Speaker 1So that's what you're talking about Big booty . I just started like pick up your phone , like uh , what is it ?
Speaker 2Uh , it's like I just started like kind of just randomly just looking for . I just started like looking for like different shit where it was just like let me look up these big booty hoes type shit , oh God , and then like I'll send like one every other day so that it would be like oh okay , he likes big booty hoes , so let's put big booty hoes in his thing .
Speaker 1Okay , For the record , if my wife ever see mine , they come find me . I know that's it don't sound good , but I don't search for them . They show up in my explore page . I don't click on them .
Speaker 2I look at my explore page , my explore page . That is , that's how it is I was talking about as far as reels .
Speaker 1That's the same thing .
Speaker 2Exploring my reels are two different things . How ?
Speaker 1And your explore page are reels . Well , because they're good , go ahead and get yourself .
Speaker 2Like I'll be , I'll be on the jane . And then it might be like , okay , well , here's a big booty hoes . I'm like , oh , all right , cool . And then you know .
Speaker 1all right , that's cool , you know . Whatever , let's get off the big booty hoes topic before we both get in trouble .
Speaker 2So now some way by osmosis Me , my wife . We're just having this whole conversation about , about she was , so she went to I don't want to say she went to brunch but she went to a little wife of them , these brunches .
Speaker 2Today she was . She was by herself , okay , because I had solo dolo . Yeah , Cause I had to . I got called in the word . That's a whole another story . Okay , but I got called and be mind you , I had , I had told them I wasn't coming , but then the chief of the section was like , yeah , you're , you know we need .
Speaker 2Why is it optional for people to come in Blase , blase or come to this place ? You know you guys should be there . So you know , my boss told everybody . Well , the chief said that all you niggas need to be there . He didn't say it like that , but it pretty much came off like he said all you niggas need to be there and it's like , oh , all , right , whatever . So you know , you know me , I don't complain about shit . If you say a nigga need to be there , nigga gonna be there . Period . I'm not about to sit there and argue with nobody that . Make sure , when y'all spend lack of money if you wanna live somewhere better . And so you know I'm there . So she ends up going to church and then going to a brush spot . So she's telling me like , oh well , you know , while I was there , there was this couple there and the guy was doing all this talking and didn't hear the girl any moment to speak . And she's like well , why do guys do that ? So I'm thinking to myself , like are you serious ?
Speaker 1Like because y'all born , so now I'm playing .
Speaker 2I didn't say it like that . I'm a player , I'm a player . I didn't say it like that . I pretty much said yeah , I complain about us not saying shit .
Speaker 1Not saying anything , or we are boring , or you know , I'm just talking .
Speaker 2I feel like we don't have those substance and it's like oh all right , cool , you know . So I said not only are you , I said , not only do you guys , one , yeah , yeah , yeah , complain about the shit that we do do . Ok , right , I complain about what we do and then when we try to do the things , I complain about that too . So , no matter what , we just can't win as it is anyway . So I told her I said for guys we've been , you know , in this dating phase we don't we meet so many women that If we're not and she was , so what she said he was talking about who's talking about ? Pretty much . She said he was talking about his status Cars , buying property , what , else , that's different .
Speaker 1I'm not . I ain't going to do too much of that type of talking because I don't want to know , I don't want you to be like , oh , this is a comma , so I ain't talk . I ain't really talking about any of that shit .
Gendered Communication Differences
Speaker 2Here's the funny part about it . It was she said the chick was just sitting there and I say nothing . I'm not , as I always say she is , added it . Put a little sauce on it . I'm pretty sure she's .
Speaker 1Yeah well , yeah well , woman , don't put a little sauce on any and every situation that you just that she come across as he is impossible .
Speaker 2She was just like , yeah , you know he was talking about this , he's talking about that and he just wasn't saying nothing and eventually he says so you coming over , you staying spending the night tonight . So she was like I think he was talking about they were fucking or whatever . I said , well , I said I look at it this way for a guy to date a woman , we have to check off boxes . Do we got the money to deal with them ? Do we have this ? Do we have that ? Do we have all this stuff ?
Speaker 2When in reality you guys , if we checked off those same boxes , happy I wouldn't get chose . You know special , I'm not going to say have them , but a lot of them who don't have a lot of you know anything going from the stuff and stuff where they're pretty facing they can suck a fuck you . Yeah , I wouldn't get chose . So we feel , because of how we had to , how we have to , kind of deal with a lot of women Sometimes you talk about just that is the peak there and their interest in being with you versus you being interested in us on just naturally , just because you like us , and so we get into this whole conversation . So eventually I get done with that topic and I start talking about how I don't know how I flipped it , but I flipped it so smoothly . She got mad , but she didn't get mad . But I pretty much said I said you , she's like you know , guys just need to keep it short .
Speaker 2I said , well , you know , you tell guys need to what keep it short and sweet when we're talking to them or talk about things that's interesting .
Speaker 1Yo , why don't we talk ?
Speaker 2about this . She's like why don't we , why don't you talk about , like how they stopped the firming of action ? How about we talk about this ? How about we talk about so ?
Speaker 1So guys do talk about that . See , here's the crazy thing . That's some shit that I will probably talk about . But if I was , if I was , I wouldn't . I wouldn't about like that . That's not something women want , that's not some , that's not something the majority of women want to hear . Right , they want to talk about the surface level shit and this , this and that and blah , blah , blah , blah , blah . Like what stuff like that ? I talked to my wife about stuff like that now , but that's because we built that report . I'm damn sure I damn sure wasn't talking about that when I first met her , even though I had those interests and stuff like that . Like I'm , you know , I'm layered and shit . Like I do read , I read for the fuck of it and do research for the fuck of it sometimes . But hell , now I'm not doing that on any dates . You ain't even my , you ain't even my .
Speaker 2You're my girl , but if I'm just fucking you .
Speaker 1I'm definitely not doing that .
Speaker 2Like you , fuck my way through my breath for All right , and that's and that's what I told her . I was like you know I said as much as you . It sounds good to hear you say all that . And reality . I said and I had to tell her . I was like think about it .
Speaker 2Like when I started talking to you about my day , you , you asked me a question . You know when we do , when you do ask questions how was your day ? And I started telling you about my day . You're like nigga , like you just talking , like make it quick . But then I got , then I got to turn around and listen to your long , your whole day and it ain't like it's a different day every day , it's the same fucking thing every day . And I told her . I said I said I could tell you a story about what happened at work three weeks ago . And when I turn around and tell you three weeks later , all you can tell me is like you've already told me the story and like if you , if you don't want to be in that situation , then you need to move on . But you don't hear me say that when you tell me the same story every day for two whole weeks and do it for 30 to 40 minutes , you don't hear me say like , like , can you make this quick ? Can you give me the short version ?
Speaker 2I listened to your whole damn story . Knowing good and goddamn well , I really could give two shits about it . Right , she was like . She was like , really , is that how you feel ? I said , yeah , I'm like , you tell me your stories and I don't say nothing , but as soon as I'm talking , it's like you closing the door , like I don't really want to talk about this , like this is boring me .
Speaker 2And she's like , oh , she can say it was . Oh well , I didn't know . That's how you felt , Nick , I done told you that's how I felt , you just choose to ignore me to ignore it . And now you're telling me , now you're complaining about a chick who was , who was in a situation where a guy is talking to her and you're like why , you know , guys need to have more substance to him . And then I'm like so it ?
Speaker 1sounds like , sounds like Mrs Smith was projecting . What if ? What if that ? You know ? What if shorty just couldn't wait for him to like stop talking and like all right , is he going to invite me back to the house ? Well , what ? So he can be like , so he can be a be in my guts ? Like women are like that , Like sometimes they just do want to like shut up , and it's like I want you for one thing . This is why I'm here . I'm here to eat . Yeah , I'll entertain all the shit that you saying right now oh , that's cute , this , this and that , but yo , when are you ? When are you ? When are we getting back to what we do ? Right , I can't say that I've ever been in this situation like that , but hey , you know what I mean .
Speaker 2But that's what I told her . I said you . I said you don't , I see you , you're sitting here .
Speaker 1Sounds like she won one of those conversations like that with you , but from what I , from what I ? Yeah , but y'all , had those conversations , though you do , so what I know ?
Speaker 2And what and what I told her . I said you don't need one of them conversations from me , because you be like , oh my Lord , like as soon as I start talking and you get and you're done with what I'm saying , you're like it's probably like you're going in the bathroom and closing door , Like I'm done talking to you , Bye , that's what she do .
Speaker 2But you want me to ? No , she don't do that , but she'll , she'll , she'll . Like , like you know , like I'm not I'm not trying to be rude but like I'm really not interested in hearing what you're talking about , about your day , because right now you just you're talking about this and if you're not willing to change what you're doing , whatever , whatever . But you come and tell me the same damn story and I'm like and I said , and I got , and I don't say nothing , I listen to your story .
Speaker 1The same story , one man . Have a lot of , we'll have a lot of wiggle room with all those double standard type stuff . Oh no , I know you . I know you couldn't dare treat the , the or a situation , any , any situation with a woman like that Straight up .
Speaker 2I said you're sensitive .
Speaker 1You're a diss and this is not . Oh , I told her this .
Speaker 2I told her this is what I'm doing for now on . I said so , and I said so . If I'm if you start talking about the same bullshit early day that you know I don't get two shirts about , but I'm listening to it because you're my wife and you need to get it off your chest I'm going to say to you you done told me the story already and if you're not willing to change it , blase , blase , is that okay ? She said well , you know , if you tell me that , that's fine . I said oh , yeah , you say that now .
Speaker 1Yeah , we say that now you be fine , and then you ain't getting no pussy . That's exactly what's going to happen , and I told her I see it Right .
Speaker 2And I told her I was like you know , and the reason ? And I told her she's like , oh , is this why you don't talk to me about your day ? I said , yeah , I don't talk to you about my day because you have made it clear that you don't get two shirts about what my day consisted of . So really is more of a gesture of you saying how was your day ? And then you ignore me and then find a reason not to talk to me . So argue with me about like how my day was born , how this isn't like , so I just don't tell you about my day . I come in the house , I play my video games , I drink my liquor and I keep the shit rocking . And then you know it seems like , well , if you talk to me about your day , like what's the difference ? I said , well , what if I handle video games and liquor ? I probably would have killed everybody at my job already .
Speaker 1Yo , first of all , first of all , first of all , first of all , I know it was a little extreme .
Speaker 2Allegedly maybe .
Speaker 1Allegedly .
Speaker 2I had a murder and I'm not , you know , so that I was bringing that back .
Speaker 2No , I would not have done all that , but it was I told her . So this is just a point of how . Right now , you're telling me how this guy should have did this , this , this and this , and I brought it right back to you . I brought it right back around to show you that , even though you're saying all this , it's not really what you want . It's literally like a woman saying I want this type of guy , but really they want the opposite of the type of guy they want .
Speaker 1No , no , listen , I'll do you one better . They don't know what they want .
Speaker 2No , they don't .
Speaker 1You know there's no . Here's the thing . This is why they're this is not there . This is why the list is so long , because at any given moment they could want a couple of those things in the list , but not all those things at the same time . Does that make any sense ? I mean , granted the five , six or the six foot , you can't be fast , you know . That's the thing that you got to be , that's up there for most of them . That's , that's a requirement up there . But you get what I mean . Like they want , they want those , they want their people want their partner to have . In my Just a theory , people want their partner to have those attributes because those are attributes that they , you know they attracted to , they find that they like , etc . Etc . Doesn't mean you have to be all those things at once . It doesn't mean you have to be educated all the time , only when it counts .
Speaker 2Only when it counts .
Speaker 1I've learned that the hard way , you know , not just with the educated thing , but just with other things I've learned at the hard way , just just . I've learned to be a multi layered person and educate myself on different things , and when it's when it's time to bring that stuff out , I bring it out . But if we have brunch and we and this whatever , then now we're not talking about affirmative action . This is brunch . Right , you need to talk back some more mimosas and I need to talk back some more mimosas . We want to see what we're about to go do , especially if I'm on a brunch day party date type situation .
Speaker 1Yeah , that's that's , that's that's , that's , that's , that's , that's that's see
Communication and Expectations in Relationships
Speaker 1how that go .
Speaker 2You know , I even took it a step further . Yeah , I even took it a step further . You know , as I had as I had , as she , as she calls it , shamed her For why she said you shamed her though . You said I shamed her . For how does she put she ? She put in a very in a way .
Speaker 1So here's the crazy thing and I'm usually the team Mrs Smith , so she , she is bad at you for expressing your feelings and you saying how you feel , like what you shame is like I'm just telling you how I feel , so I don't have to feel that way , no more . Ma'am , I'm not trying to shame you , I just don't want to feel that way , no more .
Speaker 2I'm just telling you hey , this is , this is what you said . And now you're telling me , now you're mad at somebody , you're talking about somebody else who did the same exact thing . That's how I looked at it . It's like you just you , you're shaming this guy because he's just talking , talking , talking . But I'm looking at you and I'm , and I'm talking , I'm just looking at situations where you pretty much , you pretty much would be mad at me for not talking , or that I am talking to you and or just talking to talk because you're not saying nothing . And so I was just like anytime I want to talk to you , you and I , and I talked to you anytime you hear me say to you fine , you ain't got to worry about me saying nothing else . That's you telling me you don't give a shit about what I'm saying , because whatever I'm saying is unimportant to you and because I'm not willing to change what I'm doing . That blotzy , blotzy , and she's like oh , so that's what you meant when you would say that , yes , motherfucker , that is what I meant .
Speaker 1No , yeah , I can't be going through no shit like this . My cause yeah , I could that .
Speaker 2And so what I told her is I told her , I said , I said but you got to also look at it this way I said now let's just take away that maybe this was like , maybe they've been together for a while , how do you know ?
Speaker 1those conversations they had at home or whatever . Yeah , I got to say it sounded like she was projecting .
Speaker 2I told her . I said how you know , they weren't just in our argument and she didn't want to talk to him . I said how many times we've been a brunch or gone out somewhere and you've been mad , but you just want the meal and you ain't say shit and all I can do is just sit there and talk , talk , talk , talk , talk , talk , just to make it not awkward . And she was like and this is what she was like . She's like well , you should be pissing me off . Okay , yeah , I see what you mean . I should be mad . Yeah , funny , I was like I said . I said you don't know what their situation was and stuff with them , and you over here talking about how , how God got to talk about this , how God got to talk about that , and blah , blah , blah .
Speaker 1She's right , she's right , but y'all talk , but y'all talk about that , so I don't .
Speaker 2I mean . But you know what she saw it from , like what I . You know , every time we talk about it is always from my perspective . I just kind of listen to , like all right , whatever , but it's a month , you know what she said . It's from y'all perspective From my , it's always from my , it's always from her perspective of , like , how we do all this shit and I was like you know what ? At first I was going to be like I ain't going to bother with this argument . I don't feel like dealing with it .
Speaker 1She's giving you the argument on behalf of all women , and that's how all men are .
Speaker 2And I told her . I said you know what ? So I gave her back to argument and when I , when I broke it down to the new generation , I've been watching the means where they're like so what you doing , how you , how you know what you eat today , nothing , you know what's going on , nothing . And then , as soon as somebody , can I use the charger , yeah , go ahead , nigga , I'll be giving you all my goddamn time . And like that's why I don't want to even get on the phone with you , like I gave you my undivided attention and you over there talking to all these other niggas , he's like well , go ahead and talk to me . What's up ? Like what's going on , what's up ?
Speaker 1And it's like it's listen , life will be easier for men and women Once they understand or once they accept . Once women accept it , like yo , sometimes I just want to be entertained . Actually , I want to be entertained all the time . I feel like it's your job to entertain me . And you're not entertaining me . That's literally what it is . And for men , you got to understand that they act that way . Now I'm not saying as a man , you jump through hoops , literally to entertain this woman , right , but depending on the type of woman that you dealing with and what she likes and this , this , and that that is your job to figure that out . That's going to keep the conversation going . Some women ain't a you know , affirmative action type you know what was going on , and the one Ukraine type woman . Some women ain't like that , and that's just what it is . Some men ain't like that , and that's just what it is .
Speaker 1I got the wrong type of guy If you don't have that type of conversation , and vice versa .
Speaker 2Like I told my wife . I said you know , no one has a place to complain if . If a person talks to you about it and you say their conversation is boring , but they're talking to you but you're not giving them a response back because it's boring to you . If I said guys , do small talk to see what the fuck you want to talk about . So if all you're going to tell me is nothing , then I'm going to just give you whatever conversations on my mind at that time .
Speaker 2So if I say so , how was your day ? What's going on in your life ? Blah , blah , blah , blah . Nothing , nothing , nothing . Guess what you're going to get ? Whatever the fuck is on my mind . So that means , if that means , if all my mind right now is playing 2K and how the new 2K is coming out and 2K24 is going to be amazing , then that is what you're going to get , because guess what you said ain't shit in your mind and that shit that you're doing in your life . So therefore , you got here with the fuck I'm talking about in my random ass shit and , like you know what I'm saying .
Speaker 1You know what I do to my I do not do to my wife but you know what I sometimes say to her .
Speaker 1I just give her , I just say random things , like stuff that I'm interested in . So I'll say some shit like yeah , so let me see if I can think of something else . So GBTIF stock is doing pretty good . She'd be like what ? And I was like , oh , you ain't about to start , and then that just starts a whole car . I know she don't buy stocks , but she knows that I buy stocks . I'm like now's a weed company , blah , blah , blah , blah .
Speaker 1They doing this , this and that she might ask a question this , this and that , blah , blah , blah . I'm gauging her interest at that time because all this shit is situational . They want to hear that shit today . They want to hear the shit today . If they don't , you can kind of get the . You know the vibe of it . But the one thing I love about my wife , like if she gets interested in it , she going to ask some questions . So you better have some motherfucking answers , or else we just ask Alexa a bunch of shit . Sometimes we sit on the sofa for like hours and just be like Alexa blah , blah , blah , blah , blah , blah blah .
Speaker 1They would be talking and this , this and that , and no , alexa stop , alexa stop .
Speaker 2You said my name bitch .
Speaker 1Alexa , stop Damn . I forgot the motherfucking was that .
Speaker 2I forgot , I had one in the basement . You know , you can't say that bitch name without her saying something to you .
Speaker 1Yeah , yeah , yeah , that's true , but you know we be talking and I won't be talking about for hours about anything , only time when one of us checks out . I'm trying to figure out what I check out with her , like if I'm much like I can't fucking do this shit no more , it's probably not much of anything . Well , for her is going to be like computer stuff and certain aspects of cars , but other than that , like it's always like a back and forth and shit .
Speaker 2Yeah , see me and my wife . As much as we do talk to each other , If it doesn't particularly so , we could be engaged in a conversation that both of us are adamant about . But as soon as the conversation goes in a way that isn't her way , she gets real kind of like .
Speaker 1I'm done with this now .
Speaker 2So what you're saying is that , and it's like I'm like , are you serious ? Like I'm just telling you my opinion or the situation ? Well , like , so you're telling me , that blahs it . And I'm , and I'm like , pretty much , this is how our conversation went the day , and I was just like and she's like well , that's not so , that's what you're saying , that's what I do . I'm like , yeah , that's what you do , babe .
Speaker 1And she's like , oh fuck , yeah , you shamed her , now she's angry at you .
Speaker 2Well , if I didn't shame her , she wouldn't have known it . She's still gonna probably do it , but I mean at least now I told her . I said , now that you gave me the green light to just be like all right , well , I'm sorry , well , your day is boring and you're just talking about the same story over and over . Wow , and if you don't want , and if you don't want to be in that situation , go find another situation and get out of it . She said you can say that to me . I said you sure ? And she's like yeah .
Speaker 1I said but it's already , but it's already . So my whole thing is it's already . That's a disaster for both of y'all . Yeah , I should say no , it is .
Speaker 2Well , no , it's a disaster waiting to happen . But think wisely , please , because once it happens , it's like wow , like I'm telling you about my day and that I already know where it's going to go . I already know it's going to go , but it's the principle of the matter of you just said out your mouth that if I was to say that to you because you then told me the same story every day for the last two weeks , that I can say that to you don't be surprised that that shit come out .
Speaker 1I got you , I got you .
Speaker 2That it wasn't . It's not like I'm going to just be like you know what ? Well , guess what Fine new jobs . I'll talk about this dumb shit bitch . I'm not going to say no , shit like that .
Speaker 1Well , lead a bitch part out .
Speaker 2But I mean , that was me , that was me .
Speaker 1But what's wrong . Listen , but yeah , but never mind , don't say any of that . Don't say any of that , please , all right .
Speaker 2I'm going to say it though Leave the bitch out .
Speaker 1I'll leave the bitch out . Jeez man , oh bad , this is bad . But so yo Nadia's Jake Paul , you seen that fight .
Speaker 2So the tribal chief go up against another member from the bloodline ? I did not watch that Jake Paul fight . I watched his little brother wrestle but his mess was wack as shit Like whack , whack yeah .
Speaker 1Like whack , I have not paid for or watched any of those main . You know those type of events , Not that I'm not interested , Just kind of . You know , I guess . Right , Not interested .
Speaker 2Like I mean yeah .
Speaker 1But I see what they're doing and I see how they can make . I see what they're doing . I'm always , I'm always interested in how people are , or even organizations are , trying to get your dollar . You know what I mean , right , like so it's interesting , it's entertaining . No doubt it's entertaining or you know they wouldn't be doing it , but I get it . I seen some steals not some steals , but some clips , and they did is pretty lumped up .
Speaker 2Yeah , and they did from what I saw from the highlights , because it's not that I wouldn't have paid for it , but I wasn't paying for it .
Speaker 1I got you .
Speaker 2But from what I ?
Speaker 1heard you know selectively spending your pay review money on nothing but WWE . I got you .
Speaker 2Well , you know , it's on Peacock . That's stuff on Peacock , so you know , as long as you got Peacock , you can watch it .
Speaker 1WWE .
Speaker 2Yeah .
Speaker 1Pay-per-view stuff .
Speaker 2Yeah , oh , I didn't know that yeah .
Speaker 1I've been thinking about getting back into wrestling . I don't know .
Speaker 2You should , man , you should the tribal chief went to work and came back out , the tribal chief Gotcha , and you know , you just got to acknowledge him . You know he is the tribal chief . You know , as I'm plugging Roman Reigns , yes .
Speaker 1Yeah , I got you as I'm plugging his slogan .
Speaker 2You know , hopefully , you know , maybe the WWE sees this and you know we get a shout out and some followers and possibly a couple million dollars .
WWE Signs and Saudi Money Discussion
Speaker 1Speaking of fucking WWE , I just happened to be on YouTube when I came across this YouTube clip where it was talking about how crazy the WWE of signs used to be back in the day and he said one of the signs there he's talking about one of the signs that Goldberg eats corn the long way and it was like that shit would not get on TV . Now , when I see it , it was just a guy holding a sign and it was a guy , you know , wrestling , trying to stay in the character . He looked at the sign and just kind of stood there for a while .
Speaker 2I was like I had to think about it , like yeah , like do I ?
Speaker 1laugh , do I ?
Speaker 2Do I beat his niggas ass or nah ? You know what ? I'm saying he had to think about it for a quick second .
Speaker 1Goldberg eats corn the long way . But so I found a new . I found a new YouTube page and I'm interested that they talk nothing but wrestling . It's called Lock . So shout out to them for deadlock , deadlock , not lock , deadlock . Shout out to them Think of it , deadlock , yo . So did you hear about , like the ? I know you've been , maybe you haven't , maybe you haven't , but the Saudis kind of just like throwing money at professional sports , like they trying to . It's like they trying to develop their own Super power . Yeah , super power , slash . You know they trying to get into sports , professional sports . They already throwing a bunch of money at soccer players , football players yeah , that's a problem . They got their own . Now they have their own golf league .
Speaker 1They got their own golf league , yeah , so I don't know what . You call it golfing organization . So the , what is it ? The PGLA is ours , right ? Is that a go PLA PGLA ? What is that ?
Speaker 2What is ours ?
Speaker 1Ours is PGA right , pga , where I get LA from . So PGA right . So a while back , a bunch of forget who the group of Saudis were . But they said yo , we're going to put some money together and we're going to call out Drunk to LLB and we want to poach golfers away from the PGA to perform , you know , to play in this little situation . Pga was like if y'all asses go over there , we'll find you in some more shit . And then all these other people was like like the public was like how could they distance in that ? And blah , blah , blah , blah . Turning it back on America , they made it an America thing . So a little maybe , like a couple of months ago , the Saudis was like you know what ? We just want to try to buy the PGA , we want to merge it too . And now they're merged . So the Saudis own pretty much golf , golf right , so you don't hit old people .
Speaker 1I'm going to say old people , would you get what ? I mean ? You don't hit them saying people saying anything now , because now they stop .
Speaker 2Right , because you know the PGA is pretty much every golfer across the country . Yeah , I mean across the world . I'm sorry .
Speaker 1Yeah , so they're trying to get into sports heavy and they just offered this to get the guy's name . But they offered him a billion dollars for one year . Yeah , a billion , I'm not lying . Look you lying .
Speaker 2I know you lying to me I'm not lying when that news came out . When that news ?
Speaker 1came out . The bra was like yo , they do basketball . Like what's going on , like y'all trying to get together and team . I'm lying . I lead this motherfucking heart beat . I'm not lying . I'm not lying . Let me see if I can pull that shit up . Soccer player , your line , because they offered . I think they offered Messi like a 75 hundred half a bill . No , they offered Ronaldo like a half a bill . Hold up .
Speaker 2Yeah , you lying to me .
Speaker 1Mbappe ? There's no way , mbappe .
Speaker 2No , I'm not lying , there's no way they offered somebody a billion dollars to hit a small white ball .
Speaker 1Yes , they said it's enough to , it's enough to , it's enough to like pretty much got all that oil money . Exactly . So why not ? Why not ? Why they got the money before we all switch over to electric Right ? Why the fuck not ?
Speaker 2Who was it who said that they got a red money ? Who's that ?
Speaker 1A lot of them and , but he took the dude is 24 years old . They offer him a billion dollars for like one year , like , come over here , do your thing , and yeah . So my question to you is knowing what you know about that area . If they say you know what D-Law , we like what you do over here in the States , we want to have something like that over here . We don't have anything like that . We want to offer you a quarter million dollars , but you have to be over here for a year and there's no drinking , because there isn't . And yeah , you can bring your family over . No public display of affection , keep that stuff in your household and also don't default on any of the bills , because that is a crime there and you can go to jail for being late on bills . How do you handle that ? Is it really a tough one ? Oh , your wife has to be covered up as well , so she might not go .
Speaker 2But I can tell you no .
Speaker 1She might not go because you know how they their culture and stuff like that when it comes to women .
Speaker 2See , I think if we had grew up in that culture it wouldn't be any sort of real issue . But because we don't or we haven't , I think that's where the issue pretty much . That's where the issue comes about .
Speaker 1We talk about you . What are you doing off the top of your head , man ? We know you didn't grow up in the culture . Do you think ? For a billion dollars ? Okay , put it this way . I said a quarter of a million . Put it this way A quarter of a million . You no longer have the urge to drink alcohol .
Speaker 2For a quarter of a million , probably not , still no , a quarter of a million . Yes 200,000 , that doesn't even pay .
Speaker 1Yo , which I'm basing it off of what your salary is , and I'm just throwing an exorbitant amount . I can't toss a million dollars because they paying them a billion and usually those players get like a hundred , 200 , like well , stuff like that . So I have to say a quarter of a million it's still how many times more money than you're making .
Speaker 2I can't do it . Why not Half or a quarter of a million ?
Speaker 1What are you ?
Speaker 2doing If they gave me a solid million to uproot my life ?
Speaker 1If they gave you a solid million and you keep the urge to drink alcohol . I took it away . Now you have the urge to drink alcohol .
Speaker 2I suck it up . My wife will stay here . I go get that man when I come home . Pay this off , she ain't got work on nothing .
Speaker 1So you think your wife is letting you out of her sight for a year , knowing you balling like a motherfucker over there in the Mrs Smith knows she's got my heart .
Speaker 1Okay , mind to be like yo , I'm coming with you Like this is just , I quit working and shit , we got enough money for you to hold me down while I find another job . That's exactly what mine is going . Exactly what mine is going . See , mine mine a little bit more difficult because if they offer me money for tech stuff like the stuff that I do now , I'll be afraid to take that position Because if I fuck up they might kill me . I'm dealing with cybersecurity and stuff like that . They might be having me do some stuff . And then I get set up Like , yeah , we paid them a fucking million dollars , but he's the fall guy . He didn't know he was going to be the fall guy . I don't know . I would love to take that money , but I'll just be too scared with my profession Right Now . If I was a professional window washer , I'd wash windows for a year and over there . No , I'm selling myself short . What do you think window washers makes ? That's besides the point . A billion dollars is an exorbitant amount of money .
Speaker 1Four years is a third of our dollars for years . Lebron had to work . How long to get that ?
Speaker 2A long time .
Speaker 1Exactly , and that was just a light time situation with Nike . He didn't get that from the league Right .
Speaker 2I don't know man . So you said they're going to . Are they paying podcasts big money like that ?
Speaker 1Oh no . If you're doing something like that over there , you saying what they want you to say there's no freedom , there's no freedom . Is that even worth it ? There's no freedom of speech over there for that .
Speaker 2Yeah , yeah , you're right .
Speaker 1But now it's going to be interesting to see over the next couple of years what that turns into Like if they get a basketball league and stuff like that Shit . I'm still waiting for Vegas to make up their mind as far as like what team is you know ? Is it going to be an expansion and now we want to get a basketball team in Vegas there ? Is a hockey .
Speaker 2Basketball team . Yeah , hockey and football . They got women's basketball .
Speaker 1Yeah , the Aces , right , is it the Aces ? Yeah , yeah , yeah so .
Speaker 2And I think .
Speaker 1I think the isn't . Isn't a baseball team going there too , from Oakland Athletics ? Ain't that athletics from a ? They're from Oakland , yeah , aren't they going there . I thought I heard that . I don't think so . Either way Vegas is going to . You know um um kind of eager to see what that might turn into . I'm not a gambler man .
Speaker 1I mean it's a terrific kind of moment , yeah , usher . So now you got usher , you got professionals force . I'm trying to get there this fall , trying to get there this fall . I don't know about the usher thing you know he breaking up happy homes and shit , but trying to get there this fall I'm joking , I wouldn't even care .
Speaker 2Me personally , I wouldn't even care .
Speaker 1And the only reason why I ain't even gonna say it ? Because you got the family in the room . The only reason why I wouldn't care ? Because if it's the same , if the if I'm putting the same situation , I don't want my wife acting up Like if somebody decided to hit me with one of the little you know , you know midsection shots to the face .
Speaker 1So I'm like yo , she did that , I didn't do that . She put my head in that . I didn't do that , she did that . We just putting on the show . I know I'm not going to get away with it , but you know she got away with usher shit .
Speaker 2It don't kind of did that in my life .
Speaker 1It don't work that way , I know .
Speaker 2No , I don't work that way , like I'm trying to adjust her to get it on her way .
Speaker 1It don't work that way . It's the double standard shit .
Speaker 2Of course , what else would it be ? That's still around , that Piff is around , but not around what ?
Speaker 1does that mean ?
Speaker 2They've been . They have been brought out or partnered with another entity to put their music out .
Speaker 1That is dead job .
Speaker 2So I don't I forgot who they partnered with or who is is now like their business partner to put out their music . But I found that out when I was trying to download a juicy J mix tape .
Speaker 1So I was like wait .
Speaker 2I was like oh , wait , a minute . Like that Piff , like what's going on ?
Speaker 1RIP that .
Speaker 2Piff , I know it was dead .
Speaker 1I can't remember the last time I downloaded a mix tape .
Speaker 2I download mix tapes on time .
Older Rappers and Mix Tape Remixes
Speaker 2Hey look , man , sometimes these these mix tape rap . You know these these older mix tape rappers . I know , man , or these older rappers , they be having some some fire remixes to these people's beats that beats up or can't rap on them . You know what I'm saying , you know , explain , explain . So think of it this way , like , think about everybody .
Speaker 1No , explain , no , explain one that you've heard . I know what you're saying , but I listen .
Speaker 2Who ? Let's see , it's probably popcorn . So so I've heard a little Wayne rap over a couple of beats that .
Speaker 1I didn't know .
Speaker 2I don't know the names of these beats , I just know he done rap .
Speaker 1Besides , wayne don't count , because Wayne is Wayne .
Speaker 2Wayne is Wayne . Hey , you said names so okay , he don't count . And so I know Wayne is a he don't count . Wrapped over a few of them and when I hear the regular song I'm like oh , this song was trash .
Speaker 1but Wayne does not count . Wayne does not count . Wayne counts . No , he doesn't because this guy has gave us like multiple mix tapes throughout our teenage to adulthood . Does that don't count ? Well low .
Speaker 2He knows how to do it . No , he doesn't . The mix tape came out when I was like in college , so the squad of mixed tastes . I wasn't a Wayne fan , then I even come away .
Speaker 1So that's what you , that's what you need to count , though , man . But yo all right , man , listen , squad up was in high school , yeah .
Speaker 2Squad wasn't .
Speaker 1And then there was a mix tape way before squad actually squad up was .
Speaker 2For me was my first year college .
Speaker 1It couldn't have been .
Speaker 2You know it's not because squad up , because squad up came up , came out after the law is multiple squad up mix tapes . What was the first squad of mixed ?
Speaker 1tapes . I hope I can find it Because it was a nappy roots fucking freestyle . Wayne killed on that motherfucker . So you tell me when you heard nappy roots for the first time .
Speaker 2Nappy roots was the on my life .
Speaker 1I've been po , but it really don't matter , but the first song that they came out with .
Speaker 2What was the first one ?
Speaker 1No , don't worry about it . Squad up started in 2002 .
Speaker 22002 .
Speaker 1Maybe , maybe 1999 . Maybe no , I wasn't on 1999 .
Speaker 2You don't believe me . The cash money was still taking over for the nine .
Speaker 1Okay , okay , okay , you're right , Maybe not 1999 . So let's just say , let's say 2002 . I give you 2002 at the latest .
Speaker 2I would say 2005 .
Speaker 1It's not to know , because I'm looking , I'm looking , I'm looking and to squad , squad up for was 2002 . There was two . There was three others before that , so I'm giving you 2002 . You were still in high school , I was just making it to high school . I was just making it to high school . I forget the point that I was trying to make . The prefix was 2004 .
Speaker 2The prefix was 2004? .
Speaker 1Yeah , the drought 2004 ? Yeah , I was in college ?
Speaker 2Yeah , because I graduated 2005 . But what I'm saying is mixed state , we easy 2002 .
Speaker 1Mixed state we easy was tough . I like mixed state we easy . That's the only me we easy ever . So I'm not gonna say that . But so I say that to say when Wayne don't count , so you're not getting out of this . What other older rapper you were hearing on beats with you like damn , because I know that's not true .
Speaker 2I heard .
Speaker 1Well .
Speaker 2I see Cassidy got on the Yo okay , we are excluding Cassidy and Wayne .
Speaker 1You shouldn't even boy him up .
Speaker 2We got Cassidy .
Speaker 1It's not even a real song .
Speaker 2It's always a real song of Cass is on it , Yo , yo okay . It's always a real song of just say you .
Speaker 1just say I might have misspoke . There are any real old school rappers still rapping and doing mixed tapes ? Just say that , hey .
Speaker 2I will not pay any of the All right .
Speaker 1So I want that argument .
Speaker 2So I'm not saying that .
Speaker 1That is dead . Everyone goes to YouTube to check out the YouTube channel . That's what happens because it's free and they don't have to pay that Piff to host this shit . That's all it was . Was you paying that Piff , like 10,000 or 5000 , like yo ? Here's my thing promoted , if you can , this , this and that . Like I used to go on that Piff for a while was the only thing I was getting off that Piff was currency stuff . That was about it because I love currency and now I just get on YouTube and sometimes I download it . Not I said too much , listen , I would acquire the music legally . But yes , I guess . Yes , I say all that to say it's been nice talking to you guys and for some educational purposes . Check out Triller . Triller is about the IPO for the verses and all that other shit and the fight club and the bare knuckle fighting .
Speaker 2Yeah , I want to get into that ? What's the one that now ?
Speaker 1Yeah , yeah , I want to get into that . Triller is about the IPO . Get on that early . Don't know what the price they IPO on that , but I think they're trying to value the company at five bills , so that might be like $20 a share . Don't ask me how I know that . I read the research . Look into it . But thank everybody for tuning in . See you next time .