Monday Motivation Minute: Pushing through Fears, We are More Alike Than Different [168]

Pushing through Fears, We are More Alike Than Different.

What is holding you back, fear?

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It's November 2022, is not over yet. So ready to move. It doesn't mean we can't take a break. It doesn't mean we can't enjoy our holidays like what all is available are starting, ignite your visibility on Instagram coming up on the 28th of November and that is going to help you streamline your Instagram experience, understand fully know what type of content to be putting on there and understand all the ins and outs real stories. He posts all the things so that you can create a raving fan audience there, make sure you check it out visibility queen.com goals and fears, we have so many fears when it comes to reaching goals. When it comes to so many things in our lives. We did the changing lives in July challenge. And everyone did at least one uncomfortable thing every single day. And so we had a post every day, and we went and wrote on it. And so on May 31, I started my 100 uncomfortable things that I had to get done in 100 days, or I was going to donate $10,000 to a nonprofit. Well, for about a week, I have been dreading adding this all up. So obviously with my social media content, my stories, I can tell what I've done and what I've written down and I had a list already. But I had missed all of those things in July. And granted a lot of the things in July, I did multiple a day, not just one. But he still didn't feel like I was anywhere close to 100. And so I look on yesterday, over the weekend, I decided to first of all see how many days I had left and had 12 days left. I was 80 days in. And I'm like okay, well I have 12 days to get whatever it is I haven't gotten done completed. And so I start going through July. I start going through August, my August notes. And I realized I had already hit it days ago, probably a week ago. But because I let my fear cripple me and paralyze me into thinking I was so far off. I didn't do it. And it's kind of one of those things. It was on my mind. And I knew I wanted to do it. But I wasn't doing so subconsciously it was affecting so many other parts of my life, because I chose not to just get over myself and figure it out. So I want you to ask yourself, what is keeping you paralyzed? What is this big fear? That's not even that bad? You're gonna come through the other side, and you realize, wow, why was I so afraid of that? Why was I so scared to do that? Why was it so uncomfortable to do that? And now I feel amazing. After I've done this. I looked back at my years. In July 2020. I wanted to hit 100 Live videos. I did 115 in July of 2021. I wanted to do 200 Live videos, I needed to have five, why would I not think I would exceed this I have 12 days left. I will have over 100 Uncomfortable actions completed. When I say I play big, I play big. So why on earth did I let this silly little thing of adding these up? caused so much fear in my life? Why did I allow it to paralyze me? Why did I allow it to stop me from doing the math? I was so afraid of a math it was numbers. It was numbers. And the worst case scenario I could have renegotiated if I had two days left and needed 30 more, right. But I let it paralyze me. Add up the numbers, do the thing get uncomfortable. It's so silly after we do it. It's so silly. It's never as bad as we make it up in our mind. My mentors do the same thing. Your mentors do the same thing. We're all guilty of it. We all allow us. We all allow ourselves to play small because of fear. It's just whenever you decide to get over it and start playing bigger. Is it going to be in a day in an hour in a week? a month? A quarter? Or a year? Or never? You get to make that decision. What is it going to be my friend? I hope you enjoyed this episode. Feel free share it on your favorite platform and tag me I love re sharing these and giving you a shout out as well. My goal is to always support you and help you see a transformation. Not only your business but in your life. We will never outgrow our business. Remember that so we get to work on ourselves and see that transformation come through on both personal and business side. I would love to work with you and 2023 I have loads of opportunities that will fit the pricing and the budget that you have. Let's chat. I'm truly interested in creating an unforgettable experience for you to grow, transform and see how big your business can grow and 2023