Are you visible...but still invisible? [88]

Are you showing up on video but not being heard? Are you showing up on video and not being seen?  Are you showing up on video and not getting reactions from your audience? Do you feel like video isn't working for you?

It's time to make a change.

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It's November 2022 is not over yet. So ready to move. It doesn't mean we can't take a break. It doesn't mean we can't enjoy our holidays like what all is available are starting, ignite your visibility on Instagram coming up on the 28th of November and that is going to help you streamline your Instagram experience, understand fully know what type of content to be putting on there and understand all the ins and outs real stories. He posts all the things so that you can create a raving fan audience there make sure you check it out visibility queen.com Are you visible meaning you're on video? You're showing up on shorts and, and YouTube? And maybe you're all these places and you're on video. But the question is, Are you still feeling invisible? Are you still not getting your audience's attention? Do you still feel like you're not being heard and being seen. Now when we first get on video, I want you to just get on video, I want you to show up on video in any way that you can, right. And that's what I always do. Let's get over the fears. Let's get over the nerves. We just need to be right and that's okay. But once we've been on video a while and we're not really making traction, and we're not really getting our audience pulled in. There comes a time we need to ask ourselves and me to make a switch in our brain. Number 1am I being true and authentic to who I am. Number 2am I making my audience feel something? Am I making them think? Am I giving them a reason to remember what I said? Am I telling a story? Am I doing something so that they're gonna remember the conversation I had with them in this video? Sometimes we can call that triggering, we can call that activating, questioning, questioning our current beliefs, whatever it is, are we doing that with our audience? Because there becomes a time then we're just so so right. I'm likeable. I'm showing up. I have been there. I've been making some pretty bold statements lately. Some people don't like them. That's okay. Once we realize that, number one, we're not for everyone. Number two, we are authentic to our own passions we are when we are authentic to our own selves. People are not always going to like us. You don't go into a room full of 100 people and like 100 people, there are some people that just rub you the wrong way. There are just some people that you just don't, you're not attracted to write. And that's okay. I would rather be a heck yes. Then she's okay. She's friendly. She's likable. I want to challenge my audience to think I want to challenge them to put themselves out there. I want to challenge them to get uncomfortable. If I'm just sitting back, you know, what do you want to get on video, it's fine. You can probably grow your business if you don't. I mean, it'll take a little longer, but it's okay, we got time. That's not challenging you. That's not pushing you. That's not creating any emotion. That's not helping you get uncomfortable. The third thing is when we are passionate about something and we go live or we get on video, our audience sees that passion. They see that passion is confidence. They see that passion as I want what I want what they're having. I want some of that, right. It's like the toddler running around with all the energy. I want some of that your passion brings out energy in you that nothing else can. When you're talking about it you light up. I was talking about this on my visible inner circle call today. There's this light that comes on you still use natural light, but there's this light that just lights you up. It's giving you that glow. Because when you are so passionate about something, your audience sees it, they start to feel it. You're no longer just so so you're somebody to remember. You're somebody that has something to say you're somebody that they want to follow more agree or disagree with you depending on what the topic is, you're challenging their thinking. You're challenging their questions. You're giving them more questions to ask themselves about themselves. And that is powerful. So if you feel like you're visible, but you're still really invisible, and you're not being seen, you're not being heard. We get to change how we're showing up, we get to change our authenticity, we have to change and show up more vulnerable, we get to change and add some of these other elements in to our content. So drop in the comments, what are you going to change? What are you going to do a little bit differently to grab attention? Only you can answer that question. If you need support with this, reach out to me, I'm here, but I want you to be memorable. I want people to know what who you are, what you stand for, and what's important to you. The question is, are you ready to get vulnerable and do it? This is uncomfortable. uncomfortableness equals growth. Are you willing? Are you willing to grow? By getting a little? It's getting hot in here? My armpits are sweating. My heart's beating a little fast, but I'm gonna do it anyhow. Are you willing to have that feeling to get that growth so that you can keep doing the next thing and the next thing and the next thing to stretch yourself and stretch your audience at the same time? Empower your audience, get them asking questions, get them having feelings, show them your passion. And you will stop being invisible on video, you will start lighting up the screen that you're on whatever platform they're watching you on. And it will help your business and help your lead generation too. I hope you enjoyed this episode, feel free to share it on your favorite platform and tag me I love re sharing these and giving you a shout out as well. My goal is to always support you and help you see a transformation. Not only your business, but in your life. We will never outgrow our business. Remember that so we get to work on ourselves and see that transformation come through on both personal and business side. I would love to work with you and 2023 I have loads of opportunities that will fit the pricing and the budget that you have. Let's chat. I'm truly interested in creating an unforgettable experience for you to grow, transform and see how big your business can grow in 2023