Day 39: Pushing outside of your comfort zone. [48]

Stop being so in love with your comfort zone so you can reach the goals you want for your life and business. It's time to go to the next level, are you ready?

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It's November 2022, is not over yet. So ready to move. It doesn't mean we can't take a break. It doesn't mean we can't enjoy our holidays like what all is available are starting, ignite your visibility on Instagram, coming up on the 28th of November and that is going to help you streamline your Instagram experience, understand fully know what type of content to be putting on there and understand all the ins and outs real stories. He posts all the things so that you can create a raving fan audience there, make sure you check it out visibility queen.com. Today is Day 39. And today was actually a really good day it was going to the gym. And for the first time in three weeks, let me clarify that and being able to come home or come a business. We on Wednesdays at noon, we have our inner circle call. And we really dove into attractive characters, right? And what's so important about that and how to become one, especially when it comes to content. I've talked before about when we get on video, like the first priority of video is always getting used to it right getting comfortable with it. And then we get to throw in how do we build that? How do we build that influence? How do we build that impact, right, we build that in to build the like know and trust even stronger. And so we really went through that today and created content on the call, which was really nice and had everybody getting a little bit vulnerable. So that was really good just to take them through that journey. And I love pushing and stretching them whenever possible. They may not like it. But I know that's growth, right? When we have a mentor that pushes us when we have a mentor, that doesn't always give us the easy way out, right? They don't always give us the easy assignment, they give us the harder assignment. And that's what we need in business, that's truly how we're going to grow. That's truly how we are going to honestly, that's how that's how we're gonna grow. I mean, the only way we're gonna get to our goal is by stretching outside of our comfort zone, I put a post up today that said, basically, the only way you're gonna get to your goals is to stop being so in love with your comfort zone, because as long as you're going to be in love with your comfort zone, then you're going to struggle, right. And so we get to this point, especially when we get on video, right? So the first goal is always get people on video. That's my first goal. It's just we got to get you on video. And then after that, it's like what do we do next, right, like I can't, you're not going to make the impact, or the influence on anyone. If you literally, you're so used to video and you never do anything new, if you don't get vulnerable, if you don't push yourself, if you don't create the type of content your audience wants to see, like, all of those things are so important, important. And so that's what I want for you or anyone, right? Because if we if it keeps being comfortable, and we just keep doing it, we don't push ourselves, we're not going to have the impact or growth on ourselves. But also our audiences are going to experience it either. And that's not what we want. We want our audience to experience impact and, and all of the amazing things that can come out of growth, right? We're not doing this just to talk on social media just to talk to our audience, right? We're talking with our audience. One of the things I did when I spoke at Queen con. And I did not plan this out, it just kind of happened. I was going to sit on the couch. And the morning of the speech I decided, you know, I'm just we're amusing on the floor. You can sit on the floor, I I feel like this is just where I need to be. And, you know, when you're on this stage, it's like, look, I made it here, right? And I told the audience, I sat down on the floor and looked right at them because it was a very eye level sitting on the floor of the stage. And I looked at them and said, The only reason the only difference between me being up here and you not being up here is I got more uncomfortable. I've gotten uncomfortable more times than you have. That's it, right. And any goal that we want to reach and this everybody may not agree with us and that's okay. You don't have to. But any goal you want to reach. It's not it's not going to happen unless you're willing to get out of your comfort zone. As long as you're in love with your comfort zone. It's just not going to happen. It's Pushing yourself constantly, all the time. It's pushing yourself to be better. Like, even if it's like point 00 5% better than yesterday, right? Each pushing yourself to try something, try new things it's pushing yourself to to get uncomfortable. It's like stretching that comfort zone muscle. And you guys know that I love talking about comfort zones. But I also am quite guilty just like anybody else's. I also love it right? Um, I love my comfort zone, it's comfortable there. So every week just about, I have to recommit to getting uncomfortable because it's like bungee jumping, right? So you stretch, right? You go really far. And then the bungee cord comes back up, and then you're just kind of hanging in there. And by that point, you're not scared anymore. You're like, okay, like, the scary part is over, right? And we're just kind of hanging, we're not stretching anymore. And so we get to keep stretching, right? Just like we would a muscle, we wouldn't go to the gym. And I think I talked about this recently, we wouldn't go to the gym and literally work out for six months and only do a 10 pound weight and never go up, right? Because that's crazy. That's not going to show any changes. It's not going to be hard. It's just being able to say, Oh, I showed up. I had to push myself, but I showed up. So being consistent, is important. Being on video is important. But doing both of those things without pushing yourself without getting uncomfortable, is not going to get you where you want to go. If you're fine being the way you are, what is that quote the Taylor Swift says, My greatest fear is the fear of being average, if you're fine being where you are, and you really have no plans to be a six or seven figure business. And you just want to keep making the same amount that you're getting. And if you're content with that, that is okay. But I want you to think about this. What is your passion? What is your purpose, people who have a purpose in life, and everybody has a purpose in life, they just need to identify it, even if they don't know what it is right in this moment. Those people are happier, those people are more fulfilled. Even if you don't reach your goal, the journey is powerful, the journey is going to help you right, it's going to help you in life, it's going to help you feel more fulfilled, it's going to help you in all the things that you first of all, get to be willing to be uncomfortable. pushing past your comfort zone is going to support you more than anything else. Any advice that I could give you? So the question is, are you willing to do it? Are you willing to put yourself out there? Are you willing? You're the only person that can answer that question. I can't answer it for you. But I can tell you this. It's kinda like that workout that you don't want to go do. You never regret it. We don't want to do it in the moment. But you truly never regret it after it's done. So go do that workout. Go through that scary thing. You're gonna get butterflies, but you're gonna feel like this sense of such accomplishment. And almost possibly get a thrill out of the end of it, right like that bungee jumping feeling. And that's what I want for you. I want you to feel that exhilaration and know that every time you do it, something's going to come out of it, maybe not right away. But the more we do that, and the more we push ourselves, the more results the faster we're gonna get to reaching a goal that we want to reach for ourselves, or business or whatever it might be. I hope you enjoyed this episode, feel free to share it on your favorite platform and tag me I love sharing these and giving you a shout out as well. My goal is to always support you and help you see a transformation. Not only your business, but in your life. We will never outgrow our business. Remember that so we get to work on ourselves and see that transformation come through on both personal and business side. I would love to work with you and 2023 I have loads of opportunities that will fit the pricing and the budget that you have. Let's chat. I'm truly interested in creating an unforgettable experience for you to grow, transform and see how big your business can grow in 2023