The Ripple Effect of Everyday Decisions [473]

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Transcript

Speaker 1 0:00

The first personal development book I ever read all the way through. Let me clarify that all the way through was the compound effect. I believe it's by Darren Hardy. I want to say it was maybe 11 years ago when I first read it and it blew my mind and it really impacted my life in ways that still to this day I feel like have supported me.

Speaker 1 0:25

I have always said that one of my superpowers is consistent visibility and I believe that from this book it supported me to be consistent and really see that those little teeny things that we do every single day, just a little bit of visibility a day right, can really create a massive impact on your life. The problem typically is that we it's so because we don't see instant results, right, because we don't see, it's like going to the gym. So we're going to the gym and we go on nothing changing, and because we're not seeing the results, it's really easy to not go because what's one day gonna hurt, right. And then it's like what's two days gonna hurt and what's a week gonna hurt and what's eating a whole bag of chips gonna hurt, like. This is like our mentality with just about everything. It's just like visibility and being consistent on social media, being consistent to grow our business, and what happens is like our life is like.

Speaker 1 1:31

Where we're at right now is, I believe, because of the choices we made and the choices of what we've chose to be consistent with as well. Good or bad, right or wrong, like it or not, whatever, however you want to say it right. So where we are in this moment is because of the consistent choices we've made. Now, if we want to be a different place in 90 days, we've got to shift, or we get to, we don't got to do anything. We don't have to do anything. We get to shift. What we're doing every day, how we're showing up because the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results right. So if we realize we're not where we want to be, whether we're being consistent or not being consistent with the right things, we get to look at that and make a decision on what that looks like moving forward.

Speaker 1 2:36

Consistency is a beautiful thing. Habits are a beautiful thing. In atomic habits they talk about that winners and losers which I don't really prefer the word losers, but regardless, that's what it says. Winners and losers, both have goals. The difference is is that he calls consistency, or habits like systems right, like setting yourself up for success, and this is also what I see so much inside of, I think, just being a mentor and a coach. People have goals, but are we doing the things to reach the goals and are we doing the things to check the box, or are we doing things like we mean it? Because these are two different things, my friends. If we don't learn to enjoy the journey, we're never going to be satisfied when we actually reach the goal. Enjoying the journey is like the best advice I can give you Enjoy the process.

Speaker 1 3:39

As I'm just turned in all of my deliverables for my coaching certification. I'm exhausted. I realize how much I haven't been on video. I'm so tired. Did I want to record a podcast? Probably not, but I'm smiling right now. I found the joy in it because of like, I love this, I love this. I went live before this. I came up with a special offer for a program for the first program of 2024. I went and shared it, like there are so many amazing things and it feels good to be back in my element because I don't have the weight of the certification on my shoulders. It was hard to be consistent during this certification. I did the best I could, and there are always going to be seasons, but how you bounce back from those seasons again is just as important as the choices you make and what you are consistent with every single day.