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Marketing in 2026: Why Your "Flaws" are Your Highest Converting Asset

Crissy Conner Season 17 Episode 630

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Stop trying to be perfect. In an era where AI can generate "flawless" content in seconds, perfection has become a commodity, it’s safe, it’s neutral, and it’s becoming invisible. If you’re an introverted CEO using AI as a "shield" to avoid being seen, you aren't just losing your voice; you’re losing your competitive advantage. 

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Right now, your potential clients are being flooded with perfect content. It is grammatically flawless. It sounds amazing. And it's completely soulless. Personally, I've never seen so many dashes on a feed in my life. And if you are trying to compete by being seen as more professional or more polished, you are competing with a machine that honestly doesn't sleep. And you will lose. In 2026, the only thing AI cannot replicate is your mess. uh today I'm showing you why your flaws are your highest converting business assets. Because when people see the real you, they are so much more interested and they understand who you are because it can connect back to who they are. AI has raised the floor of content everywhere. Like everybody has decent content, right? But it has definitely lowered the ceiling because everything sounds the same. Everyone's content is written like a poem, right? You can see it in the little cadences and the way that it is. And honestly, I love AI. I wanna be very clear. I love using AI to improve my content. Every piece of content that I write comes from me. I may use AI to, does this make sense? Is the grammar okay? I really wanna end this strong or I really just need to come back to a framework in the middle of this. How do I make this work? And when we look at content today, it really is very beige. It's safe, it's neutral, and honestly, it's invisible. So many people let chachi bt write their posts because it feels safer than sharing an opinion. It feels safer than sharing a story. It feels safer than putting yourself out there and being a little uncomfortable or a little vulnerable. And honestly, safety is invisibility. The more safe you are, the more invisible you're gonna be. Anyone can type in, can I get five tips for blah, blah, blah from any AI bot? Take your choice, right? But people don't buy necessarily what you know anymore. They buy how you see the world. They buy how you live your life. They buy if you back it up and you have integrity. I see this in my own business because so many people stay in my world for a very long time. I'm always the best student of my work. I'm always improving. And I went to Stripe today and I was looking at something and I saw that my lifetime customer value is $14,000. That means on average, everyone who comes in my world will stay or spend that amount of money with me. That's not a brag, it's not a flex. It's the longevity is there. So the problem I'm gonna see going in the future is that people may get people in through AI, but they're gonna lose them because they don't know their ish. And I don't want that for you. When we mentioned a time that we made a mistake, the video I did years ago about the day that I almost killed my business, like that was so human. A time when we changed our mind or change the hill that we're gonna die on. Remember I used to die on the hill or say I was gonna die on the hill. That live video was the only way to grow your business. But that was before I knew that TikTok and Reels and YouTube shorts were all gonna become a thing. I had no idea that was gonna happen. I had no idea that Facebook was gonna stop prioritizing live videos and delete them after 30 days. YouTube still prioritizes live video. TikTok still prioritizes live video. LinkedIn still prioritizes live video, but Meta doesn't for some reason. And the reason that I also loved live videos because you couldn't overproduce it. It was you get what you get, don't have a fit. It was like, this is who I am. Whether a dog barks or I mess up what I'm saying or I have to... you correct myself live in front of an audience like this is who I am. And this is what happens and this is what comes out. And so when we lead with a human first, right? What I like to call the human luxury era, we show our flaws. I used to believe live video was the only way to grow your business. Video is a huge part of being visible and growing your business, but it is not the only way to be visible. It is a huge part of it. But it is not the only way. There are so many, what we can call deep fakes in the world. Everyone became a content creator overnight when AI hit the scene. Everyone became a video creator because you can create fake videos or behind the scenes videos, right? Without even anything from your camera roll. And I want you to know that trust is the most expensive currency. And we are already seeing people question, what is this? Is this real? Is this not real? And sometimes we've got to remember that flaws can actually sell. saw a school ad. So school is the online platform that does groups to basically compete with Facebook groups and wherever else that you have a group. But I saw that they actually spelled energy wrong. So they were looking for people who were in the energy coaches or energy healers and they spell energy wrong and it's really big and it is totally on purpose. And we gotta remember that flaws are human. Putting in your instead of you apostrophe re, right, you are, are two different words and sometimes we mess up. AIs not going to mess up. We want our content to signal this is a real person. I read a post from a coach that I used to work with the other day and the one thing she said, she was, have never used Chachi Petit to create my content because my whole life is content. And it got me thinking because I have told my clients this for years, everything you do is content. Everything you do can be brought back to your business and how you run your business and your integrity and your beliefs. And where are we missing that? know, AI is this like premium polish mass produced thing. Whereas your brand is luxury. It's handmade. It's scarce. Like there's not. an unlimited amount of you, right? And the thing is, is that we're trying to get rid of our flaws because trust me, I hate when I say um all the time or like or right. Those are my favorite go-to words. I love repeating them and I love saying them over and over. But the truth is, they're me. I am uniquely flawed. And so are you. And people will connect with that. because people connect with people who are like them or who they admire because you have this flaw and you're still doing this. You're still putting yourself out there on video. I want to challenge you to stop looking at... How many ums did I say? I want to challenge you to stop nitpicking everything that you say apart or the way that you sound apart or the way that you look apart. Because one day there is gonna be such a feat and it's already happening of fake. It's like how we used to look at, know, hopefully all of our eyes are open now, but all the airbrushing that was done in magazines, and I'm sure it still is, but we all are very aware of it now, right? That's not real. That's not how they really look. But I don't want that to consume you and overtake your business and like, oh, I can just have an AI twin that will do everything for me, including show up online and build relationships for me. No. You know, sometimes I'll get into using AI and I start to feel dumb. I noticed I let it write my podcast episodes and I'm like, wait a minute. I need to reread this. Like, what was that? What that episode was about? Like, I don't even know if that's what the episode was about. Like I'm actually not using my own brain. And you know, one thing my parents used to tell me all the time when I didn't sing in church or I didn't want to sing in church was if you don't use your voice, you're going to lose it. And the same thing is true with our brains. If we stop using our brains, we're going to lose them. Yes, use AI to make things easier, but don't let it don't use it to become you. We got to remember that our before and after and our transformations are what attract people to us. that messy part, whether it's the beginning or the middle or maybe even the end, people wanna see the mess. They wanna see us go through the mess. They wanna understand what the mess looks like and they wanna connect with the mess. Because nobody is connecting with perfection. Sure, it looks really cool for a minute and then it's like, that's not attainable. Your audience isn't looking for a perfect mentor. They're looking for someone who is a pioneer, a maverick, who is steps ahead of them and is willing to tell them the truth and willing to tell them, like, I want you to do better. I want you to improve. I want to see you reach your goals. And it's gonna be messy and it's not always gonna be pretty, but this is how we're gonna do it. If you want to be visible in 2026, you've got to stop worrying about being the most polished person in the room. You got to stop worrying that you say I'm too much and honestly start being the most human person in the room. Be real, be raw, be vulnerable. Tell your story over and over and over again in many different ways because that is where the impact lives. An impact creates revenue. If we're not impacting lives, it will show up in our bank accounts. Impact more lives by being you, by putting the human luxury movement first, the human luxury era first. Be human above all first. Use AI to make things simpler and to break things down and to do research for you and long tasks. But don't let it start being you. Because if people have to question, did she write this? Did she record this? Is this really her? Trust is broken. If they have to ask themselves that question, trust is broken and we don't want that. Use AI to improve, but then go type the post yourself. Yes, it's easier to copy and paste, but go type it because if you actually have to type it and you say it out loud, you may change a lot of those words. I have a script the day I helped me write for this video, but I'm barely looking at it. It's bullet points. Because at the end of the day, I know my conviction. I know my passion. I know where I want this to go. Yes, it can create an outline for me, but it doesn't have my brain. It knows a lot of the stuff that I know because I fed it into my platforms. But does it know how I'd answer every question? It doesn't know how deep I am with my integrity that I wanna make sure that my person doesn't lose themselves and lose their voice. One of the things I love talking to my clients about is practice using your voice. And if we allow AI to do everything for us, we're going to lose that. Practice using your voice, practice answering in your own grammatical errors. Too many of us are letting AI think for us and do everything for us, and it's hurting us and it's hurting our brand. And then it breaks down our confidence, because I didn't say that. I don't want you to do that anymore. Own what you know, show up. Tap into your passion, tap into your conviction, use AI sparingly, use it to save you time, but don't use it. but don't use it to take over your voice.

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