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Black History Month….Encore Presentation with My Grandfather Frank Dinkins

Season 6 Episode 6

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Join me on an encore episode which honors the strength and contributions of my grandfather Frank Dinkins whose experiences echo through generations. Thank you, Pop-Pop for sharing a part of your story!

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Speaker 1

Good afternoon and welcome to everybody . The podcast which shares stories that highlight people in life , that make the world an interesting place , which ultimately ties us all together in unique and wonderful ways . And who am I , you might ask . I would be the headwrapped socialite Weith mom , micro-influencer in the fashion and etiquette world , but on this podcast I will be introducing you to some people who I've had the opportunity to meet along my journey , who have helped enrich me and my life in beautiful ways and who I hope will do the same in yours .

Speaker 2

I'm a good boy too , but I've heard many things with Mr and Mrs . I would go up in the shelf yes , ma'am , and no ma'am . Yes , sir . Good morning , mr Teacher .

Speaker 1

Hmm , I'm a black history mom . I bring you a special snippet from an earlier interview that I had with my grandfather , Frank Dinkins , whose wisdom echoes through generations . I'd also like to take this moment to extend him a birthday wish from us all . Happy birthday , pop-pop . Your legacy and love inspire us all . We love you .

Speaker 3

Most of our parents and grandparents , including Trina's grandfather , attended that school . He was one of the last to attend that school Was operating , and he's in his 90s , and so that piece of history is also important to me .

Speaker 1

I'm down with a true living treasure , an encyclopedia of history . My grandfather , frank Dinkins , joined me as I delve into the remarkable life of a man who has witnessed the world evolve and transform . Over the course of his 95 years . He has lived through pivotal moments , cultural shifts and monumental events that have shaped the fabric of our society . Please join me in welcoming my grandfather , also known as pop-pop , frank Dinkins . Hi Trina , hey pop . Thank you for being here . Can you tell the listeners a little bit about who you are ?

Speaker 2

I was born in Culpeper , virginia , february 28 , 1928 .

Speaker 1

How many brothers and sisters pop did you have ? 16 . 16? .

Speaker 2

Yeah , when I was born , everybody was going to say three of us , chester , eddie , minnie .

Speaker 1

Can you name all of your siblings ?

Speaker 2

My brother's name is Clarence , jim , richard , lars , jurnia , and name Madison , woolly , calvin , eddie , sister . My sister's name was Maple Earl , lena , minnie , fanny , beatrice or Heywood . He died when he was a baby .

Speaker 1

So tell me a little bit about your life . Tell me how it was growing up in Culpepper Virginia .

Speaker 2

I had to get up in the morning early , feed the chickens , feed the hogs , milk the cows .

Speaker 1

How did you come to the North Pop from living in the South ?

Speaker 2

Oh , my father used to be a temple on the streets and every time he shooed he cut this temple . At that time they didn't know it was cancer . They removed it to the doctor in Germachown . They couldn't find it with all of it . But we went back to Culpepper . He had Lord fire and you go pick him up and then tear off his back when you're done . That's how I met Bob at the school in Culpepper . How old were you , pop ? Well , I'm nine , 20 , something like that .

Speaker 1

When you came to go to the doctors , you were nine years old , so you had to stop school .

Speaker 2

No , when I went back to Virginia , I went to school . I had to get up , feed the chickens , all the animals on the farm , mm-hmm , and the song we had Dave , my father , he didn't let nobody . Dave and Bob , me and I had to go to school get the water , but all of us was in a one-room platform .

Speaker 1

Mm , how many students do you think there were Pop ?

Speaker 2

Oh , I had Jackson , nobody , but she's three all together and this one teacher taught all of us .

Speaker 1

Everybody from kindergarten all the way up through high school . Yeah , what were some of your favorite classes ?

Speaker 2

I think it was biology and how you could work in a workshop . I mean furniture , my mother on the coffin table . I was 16 , I thought of working in a sawmill Mm-hmm , cutting the trees down , breaking the horses .

Speaker 1

Mm-hmm , what was that like ?

Speaker 2

Oh yeah , you try to hold them , but most of the time they jump up the tree , mm-hmm . I've known one guy who worked in the sawmill and I was hooked in a mule up to the low and he kicked in on you oh my goodness , because he didn't want to go work .

Speaker 1

Did you want to stay in the South once you got to be older ?

Speaker 2

No , I didn't . It was segregated . I think I had any age . Who was wrong ? Mm-hmm , when I was young , I didn't go in the play . You couldn't walk down the feet . You had certain things to walk . Mm-hmm Restaurant they didn't even care for . These are called . You know the N-word and everything I knew . I didn't want to stay in the South because I thought they may kill me or something . Mm-hmm , I didn't do too much stuff , off too soon .

Speaker 1

For all the listeners who are listening to this podcast . You've always been my hero . Thank you , pop . Thank you for taking this time out to talk with me today . Well , yeah , you Pop .

Speaker 2

Oh , ok , I love you too . Talk to you soon , you coming down this summer .

Speaker 1

Yes , we're going to come down this summer Pop .

Speaker 3

OK .

Speaker 1

Yeah , we're going to come down this summer , for sure .

Speaker 2

So now we're going to be ready for our down in North Carolina . I couldn't swim , so they make me do seminary for Friday . Right , everybody is going Liberty , I'd be just trying to swim . So this black boy from Shiloh man , I'm prepared for Quinn . But he had a gold teeth , as only to tell us , and he took the swimming test for me and I didn't have to go anymore .