Mid-life Men: the mental health podcast
Have you ever felt like you’ve become lost in your own life?
Many men struggle to talk about their problems and mental health and grew up believing that to do can be perceived as a sign of weakness or failure. There is also a lack of open discussion in society around men’s mental health, especially aimed at mid-life men. As a result, at times many men can feel alone and lost in their own lives.
In this podcast series, I talk to mid-life men about their stories; the challenges, the turning points, and the support received to help them find their way so that others who may be suffering in silence or don’t know what to do next, realise that they are not alone and there is help available.
Stories will cover a whole range of challenges faced by mid-life men mainly relating to the causes of mental health issues including feelings of isolation, depression, job dissatisfaction, addiction, PTSD, and long-term illness.
The podcast is NOT a replacement for professional support and we signpost to organisations and their contact details by episode.
If you have a story you would like to share or any feedback on the podcasts, please email me: midlifemen01@gmail.com.
Mid-life Men: the mental health podcast
Hard Choices, Easy Life, with Jerzy Gregorek
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You won’t hear many life stories like this.
Jerzy Gregorek’s life spans teenage alcoholism and suicidal thoughts, elite Olympic-level weightlifting, political exile from communist Poland, serious injury and paralysis, underground resistance work, and the long, unglamorous process of starting again in a new country. More than once.
What makes this episode different is that Jerzy doesn’t romanticise any of it. He speaks plainly about the cost of bad choices, the patience required to rebuild, and the quiet discipline that slowly turns chaos into stability.
Out of that lived experience comes a principle Jerzy is known for, and one that keeps resurfacing throughout this conversation:
Hard choices, easy life.
Easy choices, hard life.
We talk about what that really looks like over decades, not weeks:
- how small, daily decisions quietly compound over time, for better or worse
- why discipline isn’t punishment, but a way out
- how men lose themselves when they chase comfort instead of progress
- why strength, learning, and mentors matter more than motivation
- and why it’s never too late to choose a harder path that leads somewhere better.
Alongside his own journey, Jerzy has spent decades working with others in the US through writing, poetry, and physical training. Through his gym and his book The Happy Body, he brings together strength, philosophy, and lived experience, helping people understand how the body, mind, and daily discipline shape each other over time. This work isn’t theoretical; it’s an extension of the life he’s lived and the principles he’s tested on himself first.
This isn’t a story about quick fixes or overnight transformations. It’s about playing the long game, physically, mentally, and morally, and accepting that meaningful change usually comes from doing difficult things consistently, when no one is watching.
If you want to learn more about Jerzy and his work, visit thehappybody.com.
