#136: Loud Silence

In which Lauren & Mattias dig deeper into Mattias possible OCD and sing patriotic songs. They review their recent movie night films and discuss various topics such as pocket spaghetti and illegal fun.

Content:

• Opening
  • National anthem
• Fan mail
• Weekly check in
  • Instructor course weekend
• OCD test for Mattias
• Intermission
• Movie on!
  • Tango and Cash
  • Vi Hade Iallafall Tur Med Vädret
• Some American news headlines
• Patriotic Mad Libs Karaoke
• Wrap up
  • What's ruining our lives
  • Live Mad Libs! July 12, 2025 8pm CET/2pm EST on Twitch @roastytoastyghostypodcast

Chapters

• 0:00 Episode Introduction and National Anthem
• 6:16 Weekend Adventures and Spontaneous Training Courses
• 14:50 A Day at the Beach and Woodland Walks
• 24:07 Taking the OCD Test
• 33:33 Movie Night: Tango and Cash
• 42:27 Swedish Film "Vi hade i alla fall tur med vädret"
• 50:57 American Independence Day Headlines
• 55:02 Mad Libs: Patriotic Songs Edition
• 1:02:20 Final Thoughts and What's Ruining Our Lives

Transcript

Episode Introduction and National Anthem

Speaker 1 0:06

In a world where everything is unscripted. This is Roasty Toasty.

Speaker 2 0:12

Ghost, I'm going to sing a song for you. Alright, can you do the music for me? Sure, okay, thank you.

Speaker 1 0:22

What do you want?

Speaker 2 0:23

Do I just Trumpets? True Ba-ba-ba, ba-ba. Thank you, uh, what do you want? Do I just trumpets? Oh, come all ye faithful, that's the wrong song because I get them mixed up sometimes. Um, that's christmas. Oh, come all faithful, that's not the national anthem. Oh say, can you see by the dawn's early light what so proudly we hailed, or something, as the twilight's last gleaming? I don't know who brought stripes and black stars, bright stars. Who brought stripes and black stars, bright stars, stars, to the something where they went, and the land of the free and the home of the brave. Thank you.

Speaker 1 1:18

Thank you. Yeah.

Speaker 2 1:19

I rehearsed.

Speaker 1 1:22

You know the lyrics to everything.

Speaker 2 1:24

I know.

Speaker 1 1:35

Yeah, rehearsed.

Speaker 2 1:37

Yeah, you know the lyrics to everything I know, uh, yeah, oh yeah, that, that's uh what you said, uh, I don't know so much at the green day concert I thought that was the lyrics I don't know. Maybe, I am the American idiot. It's Independence Day.

Speaker 1 1:53

It is.

Speaker 2 1:54

For the Americans, so that's exciting. Yeah. You're an American, I guess. Yeah, I guess, I guess. So Only half American now.

Speaker 1 2:04

Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 2:05

I'm also a Swedish citizen, I guess, I guess, so Only half American now? Oh yeah, I'm also a Swedish citizen, a Swedish Swedish Swedish.

Speaker 1 2:11

A Swiss Swedish Swedish, swedish Swedish.

Speaker 2 2:15

Right.

Speaker 1 2:15

You're Swedish. Yeah, yes, yeah, very cool. Ja, ja, it's Independence Day, so this is the episode. We're gonna speak Swedish.

Speaker 2 2:26

Right, one day it'll come along.

Speaker 1 2:29

Yeah.

Speaker 2 2:30

Would you like to open this up? Yeah, okay, I'm not speaking.

Speaker 1 2:34

Are you having a stroke? I'm having issues. Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 2:37

Yeah. That's just tough. I'm healthy. I only drink water. Now, I am that. Yeah, I don't know the rules.

Speaker 1 2:49

No, no one knows the rules anyway, hello, and welcome to roasty toasty ghosty. My name is matthias and I am lauren yeah, and then what?

Speaker 2 3:00

and then what?

Speaker 1 3:02

we are gonna be your besties for besties, for an hour or so, and some people say that this is the bed pod the bed pod, bed pod. This is time to go and time to go to the bed pod uh yeah why? Why is this line so difficult for me? I don't know. But some people say that this is the best podcast ever yeah. Some people say that, yeah. Listen to those people.

Speaker 2 3:35

They seem to know what they're talking about. Yeah.

Speaker 1 3:37

And listen to us too.

Speaker 2 3:38

We know what we're talking about.

Speaker 1 3:41

And then I have a question.

Speaker 2 3:43

Oh, is it a pop quiz.

Speaker 1 3:45

Maybe, Okay. We can pretend that it is.

Speaker 2 3:57

Okay, how are you? I'm good, good. How are you? I'm also good, good, all right, yeah, you know what I want to get into the fan mail early right now.

Speaker 1 4:02

Okay.

Speaker 2 4:02

Because, well, it wasn't really fan mail. It was more of a direct message to me from someone I met over the weekend. Huh, it was flattering, to say the least.

Speaker 1 4:15

So this is no one I know.

Speaker 2 4:18

No, they told me that I have a beautiful and pleasant voice.

Speaker 1 4:24

Okay, do you agree? Yeah.

Speaker 2 4:26

Is my voice nice to listen to.

Speaker 1 4:29

Sure.

Speaker 2 4:31

Sure, sure. Whatever it works, it's the bare minimum, yeah.

Speaker 1 4:39

But so is this just from talking to you, or did this person listen to the podcast? They?

Speaker 2 4:48

responded to a soundbite.

Speaker 1 4:50

Okay.

Speaker 2 4:51

Yeah, the last episode's soundbite. Okay Cool, which is nice, because I always think that I have an annoying voice.

Speaker 1 5:00

When oh yeah, shut up. Yeah, I don't disagree, no, I'm kidding. So yeah, that, yeah, shut up. Yeah, I don't disagree, no, I'm kidding.

Speaker 2 5:07

So, yeah, that was that. Speaking of this person, would you like to talk to me about?

Speaker 1 5:15

No, not really.

Speaker 2 5:18

Would you like to hear more? Oh, my god.

Speaker 1 5:20

I can't Moi. Would you like to hear moi, moi of this?

Speaker 2 5:26

I can't 't, I can't. If you can do better, then please I can do braille um I. I want you to tell me about your week okay, is what? I'm really trying to say oh oh, that's what you meant.

Speaker 1 5:42

Um. So on Saturday I stayed a home A home, a home.

Speaker 2 5:48

You didn't be anything else. No, okay, I stayed a home, yeah your house.

Speaker 1 5:56

I'm a home. I'm a home.

Speaker 2 5:58

You're a hoe.

Speaker 1 5:59

I'm a home.

Speaker 2 6:00

Home.

Speaker 1 6:01

Home.

Speaker 2 6:02

All right, so you didn't do anything exciting no, I over the weekend I edited did you have fika? Not on saturday sunday then yeah yeah, what did you have for fika we?

Weekend Adventures and Spontaneous Training Courses

Speaker 1 6:15

didn't have cake because they're waiting with the cake for you, that's so funny I'm like where's the cake? They're like lauren's not here no, uh.

Speaker 2 6:28

Yeah, that's kind of funny that I met your mom at the cafe and she was saying that I have to come over for pika sometime because there was a cake yeah, I was like well, I'm available right now.

Speaker 1 6:42

Let's go, yeah, but Matias isn't. He's working why?

Speaker 2 6:48

are you always working? Don't you have anything better to do Like eat cake?

Speaker 1 6:52

Yeah, true.

Speaker 2 6:53

I mean, can't you just go up to the boss and be like hey, I have to go home and eat cake?

Speaker 1 6:58

You know cake.

Speaker 2 7:00

You get it right, I have better things to do.

Speaker 1 7:04

You can't do that.

Speaker 2 7:05

But cake, what about the cake? The cake cannot wait.

Speaker 1 7:11

Nope.

Speaker 2 7:11

Actually it has attitude. I have to go now. What did you have for Pika then?

Speaker 1 7:17

Vinaigrette oh Danish.

Speaker 2 7:19

Danish is.

Speaker 1 7:20

Mmm.

Speaker 2 7:21

Mmm, I wish I was there.

Speaker 1 7:23

Yeah.

Speaker 2 7:24

So good. Ugh alright I wish I was there. Yeah, so good, all right.

Speaker 1 7:26

I don't hate Danish.

Speaker 2 7:28

No, I want to tell you about my weekend.

Speaker 1 7:31

Okay, yeah, that's more interesting than my weekend.

Speaker 2 7:34

It was interesting and it was very last minute. So last Thursday I got a call from the guy who runs the spinning instructor courses and he asked me since I only did the digital course, he asked me if I wanted to be a part of the physical course as well that they were going to have like an hour or so away. Um, during the weekend he was like there's also a core course. Uh, core course, core course the day before. So saturday, the spinning was going to be on sunday, the core was on saturday, and, um, he could arrange a hotel and I was like, oh well, I mean, that sounds really good, I'm going to have to think about it. He's like let me know by tomorrow. The next day was Friday. Yeah.

Speaker 2 8:33

I was like okay. So I talked to my life partner a bit and he was like, okay, bye. So I let the instructor guy know. He left.

Speaker 2 8:45

He just got up and walked away, so I assume that was a yes. Yeah, that it was okay so you both left we both turned around and walked away left the kids at home that's how we have conversations nowadays. If we don't want to talk, talk about it, then we just get up and leave yeah, okay, bye yeah, bye, and then I just assume that it's okay. Yeah, um, so, yeah, uh.

Speaker 1 9:15

On saturday I went to the core course I voice crack I got a ride to the place oh yeah, you said that was a little bit scary or what, that you just went into a car with a stranger right well I I got a ride to the station the train station okay instead of taking the train.

Speaker 2 9:41

Okay, because the train was gonna take like four hours. I'd have to leave at like 6 30 in the morning and get there around 10, but I got a ride which was only a bit over an hour and a half maybe. Okay, ish, um, so that cut down my travel time quite a bit. And then I got in a car with another guy who didn't speak great Swedish. He spoke mostly English with me.

Speaker 1 10:10

Okay.

Speaker 2 10:11

Which was okay.

Speaker 1 10:12

Yeah, and then you know English, right? I think so Okay.

Speaker 2 10:15

And then there was another girl who got into the car, who was going to the same course, and of course of course, and it turned out she was also american, which was funny and where was she from? She was from. She said new york, philadelphia, which are two different places, but I think they might. She said upstate new york and philadelphia, so I don't know which one.

Speaker 1 10:42

Okay.

Speaker 2 10:42

Really.

Speaker 1 10:43

Yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 2 10:45

I don't know, Okay. So yeah, we went to the place where we were going to have the course, which ended up being it looked like an old farmhouse that got turned into a gym. Okay. It was in the middle of nowhere, but it was really nice. It was a nice gym. It wasn't big, nowhere, but it was really nice. It was a nice gym. It wasn't big, but it had like everything sounds pretty cool.

Speaker 2 11:08

Yeah, it was really cool, very fancy, and so, yeah, we did this course. We did some uh theory and then some like actual physical uh training yeah, I'll say that. And we had lunch there, which was nice, and, yeah, afterwards I got a ride from this guy who messaged me and we went to our hotels and while and then the instructor guy invited the two of us and the guy who drove the car- who couldn't speak Swedish very well. No.

Speaker 2 11:53

We all went out to a really fancy restaurant. Oh, really fancy, I wasn't prepared for really fancy. I packed training clothes and regular clothes, comfy clothes. Hmm. So I was underdressed for this place, yeah, and oh my God, I spent 182 kronor on a Caesar salad.

Speaker 1 12:16

Oh, wow, yeah, that's a bit much. I'd say yeah.

Speaker 2 12:23

For a basic salad. Part of me was hoping that he would cover the bill, but he didn't.

Speaker 1 12:29

Whatever, yeah, Like can I suck on a napkin or something?

Speaker 2 12:35

I'll just have water. Thank you, I came all this way for water, yeah. So it got pretty late there, and so a hotel guy and I went for a walk around the town because I had never been there and neither had he. So we walked around and we looked at the square and everything and we walked along some water and it was really nice we went back to the hotel and went to bed pretty much.

Speaker 2 13:02

I had a really hard time sleeping, though, because there was a whole bunch of hungarian guys who were staying at the same hotel and apparently they don't sleep no, they were up like all night and they talked really loudly and for some reason they felt the need to hang out in the hallways like on two different ends of the hallways and like yell at each other the next day on sunday I had breakfast yeah, at the hotel and then I went for a walk and then we went to the spinning course okay, which was basically the same, yeah.

Speaker 2 13:41

Then I went back to the train station and got picked up there by my life partner and we went to McDonald's on the way home and, yeah, then we went home and that was it. But I had a lot of fun during this weekend. I learned a lot, I got a lot of inspiration and it was really good. I had a really good time. Good, yeah, I think that's all I have to say about that. That's good. It was a random adventure that was really random and good. That's how I would summarize my weekend.

Speaker 1 14:20

Yeah.

Speaker 2 14:21

A random and good adventure, which is how adventures should be.

Speaker 1 14:25

Yeah, yeah, that's true.

Speaker 2 14:27

The best ones are the spontaneous ones. I think, Okay, there's also some good ones that are planned.

Speaker 1 14:33

Yeah, I'm thinking I like the planned ones better.

Speaker 2 14:37

Okay, tell me about the rest of your week.

A Day at the Beach and Woodland Walks

Speaker 1 14:39

I was working Monday and Tuesday I was working Okay. Wednesday I was working Right right, and then I met you for the first time, right, yeah hey, I just met you. This is crazy uh, you can pause me whenever, because maybe you have something to say about the days I don't. Well, I mean, I do, but I'll take it when it's my turn okay, so we're gonna give you more on what happened when we met on wednesday later for the first time. Yeah, yeah for the first time ever ever.

Speaker 2 15:15

Yeah, yeah, I'll give you that story this week, just this week.

Speaker 1 15:22

So Thursday I was working and then Friday.

Speaker 2 15:27

We're not there yet. No. No, well, we are no no.

Speaker 1 15:31

I might have been working, but we'll come to that later, I guess yeah we'll get to your work day later, yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 15:38

On Monday I didn't really do anything, okay. I cleaned a whole bunch of things and it was was rainy and it wasn't great outside, so we stayed inside, okay. And then my life partner and I went to the trail in the woods and we walked that two times while my oldest was at boxing. Oh yeah.

Speaker 2 15:59

I guess it was better weather then. It was still wet, but it was meh. And then Tuesday was a really nice day. It was really warm and summery, so we had a summer day. I decided that okay so I started off the day by making three packs of bacon. Oh, we had three packs of bacon. They needed to be cooked, so I cooked them. And when?

Speaker 1 16:22

you ate?

Speaker 2 16:23

I ate some of them and served the rest of them okay, so who got the last two pieces? Uh, my oldest. I shoved them in his face before we left okay cool two. Uh, we picked strawberries. Okay, yeah, me and my life partner and my daughter and sick child because my oldest was still sleeping.

Speaker 1 16:48

Okay.

Speaker 2 16:49

So I put the plate of bacon next to his face and said we're leaving. Bye. He said okay, bye, and then he complained that the bacon was dry. I didn't soak them in anything. So, I don't know what the problem is here. So we picked strawberries and we got quite a bit. Yep, we did that, and then we went back home and dropped them off and my oldest was suddenly out of bed and ready to go.

Speaker 2 17:17

So we went to the beach okay, and we had some ice cream and we spent most of the day at the beach and and everyone got sunburned. I burnt my back for the fourth time.

Speaker 1 17:28

Yeah.

Speaker 2 17:29

Yeah, so, and then we went home and we grilled. So that was our summer day. I did run spinning. I had a spinning class on Tuesday evening and I tested out a new routine.

Speaker 1 17:45

Okay, which was scary that you learned.

Speaker 2 17:48

No, I put it together myself, okay, but I got some inspiration from my course. So, yeah, it didn't go exactly how I had planned it, but that's usually how it goes the first time anyway. So but yeah, it went well. I think overall. Wednesday my oldest had a dentist appointment, but the dentist was running a little late. She was in a rush so she didn't manage to do everything she wanted to do. Okay, so then.

Speaker 1 18:17

Like go to the beach.

Speaker 2 18:19

Right.

Speaker 1 18:21

I can't even go to the beach with you, with me, yeah, she wanted to go to the beach with you, with me.

Speaker 2 18:26

Yeah, she wanted to go to the beach with me.

Speaker 1 18:29

Yeah, okay, but she couldn't.

Speaker 2 18:31

No, she couldn't because she had no time for that. No, if we have a little extra time at the end of this appointment, we'll go to the beach. After the appointment, my oldest and I went to the cafe, and that's where I saw your mom yeah and she teased me with cake yeah and I um we met up with my oldest's dad who was already there and we sat there for a while. I had some coffee and we talked and whatever. It was okay.

Speaker 1 19:09

We went for a walk.

Speaker 2 19:10

That's right, we did go for a walk.

Speaker 1 19:12

We teased that earlier, so we want to give the people what they want to hear, right.

Speaker 2 19:18

Yeah, we each got a beverage at the store and we sat on a swing bench thing. Yeah, and we talked, we did and we sat on a swing bench thing, yeah, and we talked.

Speaker 1 19:26

We did.

Speaker 2 19:27

And we had our beverages.

Speaker 1 19:28

Yeah.

Speaker 2 19:29

And that was nice.

Speaker 1 19:31

Yeah, and then we walked.

Speaker 2 19:33

And then we walked the same trail Twice, twice Again, once For me.

Speaker 1 19:38

Yeah, but not for me. It was twice this week for me. Yes, yes, we went the trail twice.

Speaker 2 19:47

Right, we did two laps.

Speaker 1 19:48

Yes.

Speaker 2 19:49

And then you went home. Yeah yeah, it was nice. It was a really nice walk. There were flies.

Speaker 1 19:56

Yeah.

Speaker 2 19:57

Like crazy and it was awful.

Speaker 1 20:00

But it was really nice. I tried to keep the flies off.

Speaker 2 20:04

You made a helicopter with your jacket.

Speaker 1 20:06

I did.

Speaker 2 20:07

It kind of worked, yeah, and you helped me as well. Yeah. That was cool. They were really annoying though. Yesterday was Thursday, yeah, and I was really irritable all day. Sick child went from like dead asleep to going 100 miles an hour and he didn't really take a break for the entire day so it was just I had enough, yeah, but we went to a big playground with him and, uh, my daughter, yeah and they got to play around there for a while and we got ice cream. Hmm.

Speaker 2 20:49

But it was pink and blue ice cream, so it looked fun.

Speaker 1 20:52

Yeah, I, oh yeah. Yesterday it was storming when I went home.

Speaker 2 20:59

Was it.

Speaker 1 21:00

Yeah, it was raining and windy.

Speaker 2 21:03

Yeah.

Speaker 1 21:03

It was like getting whipped by the rain in the face. It hurt.

Speaker 2 21:09

Yeah, oh, that's not nice.

Speaker 1 21:11

No.

Speaker 2 21:12

Well, we were probably playing a board game during that time playing a board game. During that time, Sick Child has a board game that he likes to play in which you have to like. It's like an I Spy kind of game, but it's like a board game. Okay, yeah, so we played that with my oldest and my daughter All the kids we all played that.

Speaker 1 21:36

What was the name of the board game?

Speaker 2 21:38

Wind Cutten.

Speaker 1 21:40

Oh, yeah, wildcat.

Speaker 2 21:41

Yeah. And then I went to a meeting for this training camp for boxing that my oldest was going to be a part of and I felt like really out of place because I was like I'm not going to chaperone for this. I'm not really sure why I'm here, just for information, I guess. But it was like me and three other women and the leader, but it sounded like the three other women were going to participate in some kind of way and I was just like I'm busy, I'm not going. No.

Speaker 2 22:17

Sorry, I can't help. So yeah, that was that, yeah, and then today's Friday. It is, it is.

Speaker 1 22:25

And you know what?

Speaker 2 22:25

What.

Speaker 1 22:26

I was working.

Speaker 2 22:27

You were working.

Speaker 1 22:28

Dun, dun dun.

Speaker 2 22:31

I, uh, I don't know. We did some cleaning and we grilled for lunch.

Speaker 1 22:37

Okay, Then you picked me up. That's yeah At work.

Speaker 2 22:41

At work.

Speaker 1 22:42

And we had pizza today.

Speaker 2 22:43

We did, we had pizza.

Speaker 1 22:45

That was my idea.

Speaker 2 22:46

Yeah, you got your pizza. Yeah, I shared a pizza with Sick Child. Yeah, it was just enough, I think.

Speaker 1 22:54

It was good. Good yeah, I think that size of pizza is good actually.

Speaker 2 22:59

Yeah.

Speaker 1 23:00

It doesn't have to be bigger than that. No, it really doesn't. And what I was thinking?

Speaker 2 23:09

Okay, the end. Wow, that was a really cool story.

Speaker 1 23:13

No, at work I was thinking about something, and now I'm trying to remember what it was I was thinking about. Okay. But I can't remember. I feel like it had something to do with my OCD.

Speaker 2 23:27

That's a problem. Yeah, but yeah, no, nothing. No, have you had any situations recently where your OCD became a problem? Maybe, okay.

Speaker 1 23:37

Because you know now that we have been talking about it, it's like, oh yeah, maybe this is because I have the OCD that makes it a problem.

Speaker 2 23:47

You're more aware of it now. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 23:50

Yeah, it felt like I was thinking about oh yeah, that's so OCD on me. But, now I don't even remember what I was thinking about. Okay, that's so OCD on me, mm-hmm, but now I don't even remember what I was thinking about.

Taking the OCD Test

Speaker 2 24:01

Okay, that's so OCD, let's do something fun okay. Okay. Just for a little bit. Really really quick here, okay, A quick screening tool, not a diagnosis, okay.

Speaker 1 24:11

Okay.

Speaker 2 24:11

I have 10 questions. You answer each item with how much it disturbs or affects you, so zero being not at all.

Speaker 1 24:23

and four being extremely, oh, okay, so we're doing a test. We're testing you, okay.

Speaker 2 24:27

Yeah, it's only up to four. Okay. Number one I check things more than necessary like locks, stoves and switches. How many times do you check if you lock the door or close the door or whatever?

Speaker 1 24:41

Maybe sometimes, but it's not more than like. It's like I lock the door and then I go back to check it.

Speaker 2 24:50

So would you say that's like a one.

Speaker 1 24:52

Yeah, that's a one.

Speaker 2 24:53

So I'm sorry I only skimmed this. Zero is not at all. One is a little, two is moderately, three is a lot and four is extremely. Okay. Two, I wash my hands more often or longer than necessary.

Speaker 1 25:08

I feel like I wash my hands necessarily.

Speaker 2 25:12

Okay.

Speaker 1 25:13

When I need to.

Speaker 2 25:14

Okay, so that's a zero, not that you don't wash your hands at all. No, but it's not more often or longer than necessary.

Speaker 1 25:21

No, wait, what was two that was?

Speaker 2 25:24

Two was moderately.

Speaker 1 25:27

Isn't that my answer then?

Speaker 2 25:30

Well, no, you don't wash your hands more often or longer than necessary at all.

Speaker 1 25:35

Okay, that's what that would mean, oh.

Speaker 2 25:37

Or would you think that it's a little bit more?

Speaker 1 25:39

Okay, yeah, let's say it's a little bit more One on that.

Speaker 2 25:43

Okay, Number three I get upset if things aren't arranged a certain way.

Speaker 1 25:50

That could be more my style.

Speaker 2 25:53

So if I put the microphone over here instead, would that upset you?

Speaker 1 25:57

Not very much, but a little bit yeah.

Speaker 2 26:00

Okay.

Speaker 1 26:00

Because it wouldn't make sense.

Speaker 2 26:03

If you were assigned a different spot at the table?

Speaker 1 26:07

or the couch that would upset you. Yeah, that's not fun. I don't like that.

Speaker 2 26:12

Okay, so if I have, these two papers that are not arranged.

Speaker 1 26:17

Oh, that's not good yeah.

Speaker 2 26:18

No, you have to have them next to each other right. Yeah, okay, okay, two or three Moderately, or a lot. Do you moderately get upset?

Speaker 1 26:29

Yeah, I wouldn't get overly upset.

Speaker 2 26:32

Okay, I can give you a two here. Yeah, hmm, I repeatedly think or worry about things I don't want to like harming someone or something bad happening.

Speaker 1 26:44

I do feel like that sometimes, that something bad could happen. But yeah, I think that's also moderately Okay.

Speaker 2 26:54

I repeat actions like rereading, redoing. Okay, I repeat actions like rereading, redoing, recounting, to feel just right. Yeah, that's the one, two, three kind of thing. Mm-hmm, wait, one, two, three, that was a movie. There was one movie where, like they had to do it like one, two, three, one, two, three, like they had to say something three times, oh, yeah, or else they like freaked out they like freaked out.

Speaker 1 27:16

Yeah, that was a.

Speaker 2 27:16

Bruce Willis movie, right, mm-hmm? You know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 27:20

It feels familiar, mm-hmm. Yes, maybe I should go with three on that one.

Speaker 2 27:25

Okay, I avoid situations because they trigger intrusive thoughts.

Speaker 1 27:30

Intrusive thoughts.

Speaker 2 27:32

Thoughts you can't control. They're usually negative.

Speaker 1 27:35

No, not really.

Speaker 2 27:37

All right, I'm going to put a zero there.

Speaker 1 27:38

Yeah.

Speaker 2 27:39

I feel a strong need to confess or seek reassurance.

Speaker 1 27:43

Yeah, that's a three, or is it a four?

Speaker 2 27:46

I don't know.

Speaker 1 27:47

What would you say?

Speaker 2 27:48

Well, in what kind of way, though, do you mean confessing or reassurance?

Speaker 1 27:53

Uh, reassurance, I think.

Speaker 2 27:56

Well, yeah, okay, yeah, am I doing this right? Is this okay? Is this good enough?

Speaker 1 28:01

Yeah, yeah Me helping with food.

Speaker 2 28:05

Yeah, that is a lot. I'm going to put a three there, are you okay? With that yeah. Okay, I am afraid I'll act on unwanted thoughts, even though I never have. Are you afraid you'll actually push me in front of a car, a moving car, or into the bushes?

Speaker 1 28:21

No, am I afraid that I would do it, because I know I won't do it.

Speaker 2 28:27

Yeah, is there a part of you that's kind of nervous that you might, even though you've never done it?

Speaker 1 28:32

A little bit maybe.

Speaker 2 28:33

Okay, I'll give you a one. I experience frequent unwanted thoughts that are disturbing or violent.

Speaker 1 28:40

No.

Speaker 2 28:41

I spend a lot of time neutralizing thoughts or doing rituals to make anxiety go away.

Speaker 1 28:47

Doing like rituals and like to.

Speaker 2 28:51

I don't have much anxiety you don't have like a routine to make anxiety go away.

Speaker 1 28:56

No, not really.

Speaker 2 28:58

Okay, I'll give you a zero there too. That was it.

Speaker 1 29:01

Okay, you're a psychopath.

Speaker 2 29:03

Okay, you got a 13 out of 40. Okay 13 to 20 is mild OCD tendencies. Okay.

Speaker 2 29:11

So what this means? According to Open Eyes, matias falls just into the mild range, suggesting he may have some compulsions or intrusive thoughts that affect him occasionally, especially around rituals, things needing to feel just right and reassurance seeking, but it's not severe or widespread. No, this doesn't confirm ocd, but it's enough that if if he feels distressed, stuck, it could be worth a chat with a psychologist for tools to manage it, especially since checking, repeating and needing things just right are standing out.

Speaker 1 29:49

Yeah, would you do better?

Speaker 2 29:51

I don't know. I feel like I've gotten better. I've definitely been worse, yeah.

Speaker 1 29:57

Is it any of these? You feel like you're extreme let's see or were I?

Speaker 2 30:04

check things more than necessary. I'd probably, uh, maybe a few times more than necessary, but that's just because and here's my excuse I don't trust my memory. It's not like I have to lock the door three times before I leave. No, it's more like, did I actually lock the door? I'm just gonna I'm gonna push the button a few times just to make sure. Yeah, um, I don't think I wash my hands more often or longer than necessary if things aren't arranged a certain way. I've gotten better with that.

Speaker 1 30:39

Okay.

Speaker 2 30:39

Okay. I repeatedly think or worry about things I don't want to like harming someone or something bad happening. Yes, that's a yes.

Speaker 1 30:48

Harming someone.

Speaker 2 30:50

Uh, yes, okay, Repeating actions like rereading, redoing and recounting. So it's just right. I don't think I've ever actually done that. Okay, avoiding situations, because I've ever actually done that. Okay, avoiding situations because they trigger intrusive thoughts yes, mostly anxiety, though, so I don't think that's OCD. No, okay, I feel a strong need to confess or seek reassurance. I need reassurance constantly. But that's just like do you still like me? Why don't you like me? Like, what have I done wrong? You know that kind of reassurance is what I need, yeah all the time.

Speaker 1 31:26

Well, it's mostly like why don't you like me?

Speaker 2 31:30

yeah, why don't you like me? Because you assume that yeah, I assume that everyone doesn't like me. Yeah, somehow.

Speaker 1 31:36

Somehow the person or me in this case just Decided.

Speaker 2 31:41

Yeah, it was an off switch.

Speaker 1 31:42

No, I don't like Lauren anymore, so then you have to ask. I think it's jokingly too, though. Yeah, mostly yeah.

Speaker 2 31:52

But the fact that I do need reassurance, like I just need you to tell me that you do still like me. Yeah. All the time. But yeah, I am afraid I'll act on unwanted thoughts, even though I never have. Yes, that's a yes. I experience frequent unwanted thoughts that are disturbing or violent.

Speaker 1 32:11

Uh, frequent, maybe not no, but it does happen. It happens sometimes. That's the same for me. But yeah, I mean violent. I mean it's not overly violent, it's not like it's a bloodbath or anything.

Speaker 2 32:27

Right. Not, really, no, I spend a lot of time neutralizing thoughts or doing rituals to make anxiety go away. What do I do to make anxiety go away? Not much. A lot of my mental issues, I just ride them out. I don't actually, uh, try to cure them okay or make it better no I'll try to hide from it okay like physically hide myself in like a room.

Speaker 1 32:56

But but your thoughts are still there, right, yeah?

Speaker 2 33:00

but I think I really just want to deal with it by myself yeah and just wait for it to go away, because I know I mean this isn't gonna last forever. I'll get over it and get hungry at some point and leave. Yeah, uh, now that we're here, would you maybe like to take a break?

Speaker 1 33:17

yeah, maybe, maybe we should We've been here for an hour oh my God, yeah, let's take a break, we'll be right back, okay, bye, bye.

Speaker 2 33:33

Are we back?

Speaker 1 33:34

We're back.

Speaker 2 33:35

All right, cool, I did mention it's Friday. Yeah, it is July 4th. Yeah, happy independence day to the americans not you.

Speaker 1 33:45

You are not american I am not, I am, you are, yeah, but I love american movies they are good yeah sometimes, yeah, sometimes yeah yeah, there are some that are really good, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 33:59

So since it's Friday, we watched movies.

Speaker 1 34:04

Yeah.

Speaker 2 34:05

Would you like to movie on?

Speaker 1 34:07

Let's movie on.

Speaker 2 34:08

All right, we're going to do that.

Speaker 1 34:10

Yeah.

Speaker 2 34:10

Because tonight we watched Tango and Cash.

Speaker 1 34:13

Yep.

Speaker 2 34:14

Which I've been waiting like three or four years to watch this movie.

Speaker 1 34:19

Yeah.

Speaker 2 34:20

We also watched.

Speaker 1 34:21

Am I saying?

Speaker 2 34:22

I think yes.

Speaker 1 34:23

Yes, okay, we had the Alfa 2 Mavadret.

Speaker 2 34:26

We.

Speaker 1 34:28

We at least had.

Speaker 2 34:30

Luck.

Speaker 1 34:30

With the weather.

Speaker 2 34:31

Yeah.

Speaker 1 34:32

We at least had good weather. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 34:35

We got lucky with the weather. Yeah. Something like that, yeah.

Speaker 3 34:38

Yeah, we got lucky with the weather. Yeah, something like that. Yeah, I think you get it, yeah.

Speaker 2 34:41

But I'm going to start by telling you about Tango and Cash. Yes. This is a movie with Sylvester Stallone. We haven't seen him in a long time.

Speaker 1 34:50

No, and we're starting now.

Speaker 2 34:53

Oh, we're watching Stallone now, yeah.

Speaker 1 34:55

Cool, like for for now, once a month. Oh okay, we're only gonna watch him once a month, yeah, until like january then we're gonna watch him more.

Speaker 2 35:08

Yeah, okay, we have watched quite a few stallone movies before. Yeah, but that was like early movie nights yeah that was after we watched Schwarzenegger, which was the first phase we had yeah. And then it was Stallone. Mm-hmm, that was several years ago.

Speaker 1 35:25

Yeah, it was.

Speaker 2 35:27

So many, so many years ago.

Speaker 1 35:29

So many.

Speaker 2 35:30

It was before the podcast, it was like four years ago, mm-hmm, yeah, so also Kurt Russell is in this movie.

Speaker 1 35:39

Yeah.

Speaker 2 35:40

We watched a movie with him last week too. Yeah, but he was a completely different person in that movie.

Speaker 1 35:45

Oh yes, what a coincidence that he was in movies two weeks in a row.

Speaker 2 35:53

Yeah, what a coincidence.

Speaker 1 35:56

It wasn't planned at all.

Speaker 2 35:57

No, these things are never planned. There's never planned at all. No, these things are never planned. There's never anything behind anything.

Speaker 1 36:03

No.

Speaker 2 36:03

Ever. Yeah. So Stallone and Kurt Russell are cops.

Speaker 1 36:11

Yeah.

Speaker 2 36:12

They're like big time cops, I guess, or maybe infamous in a way. Yeah, they're good, but maybe for the wrong reasons or whatever. I don't know, but they team up to catch a bad guy.

Speaker 1 36:29

Yeah.

Speaker 2 36:31

A boss kind of guy, and they also beat up some bad guys.

Speaker 1 36:37

Yeah, they get framed.

Speaker 2 36:38

Oh yeah, they did get framed and then they went to jail for that, and then they escaped jail and beat up some bad guys yeah.

Speaker 1 36:50

That's accurate.

Speaker 2 36:51

Thank you. Do I need to say more?

Speaker 1 36:55

No, I think you summed it up pretty good.

Speaker 2 36:58

Good, good. What do you think about this movie?

Speaker 1 37:02

should I take it first or should you answer that question?

Speaker 2 37:05

I think we have the same answer, okay. Okay, I'm saying that in advance, so go ahead I hate this movie no I feel the same.

Speaker 1 37:16

No, I love this movie. This, oh, I can't.

Speaker 2 37:24

Where do you start?

Speaker 1 37:25

Yeah, where do I start? I mean, I love this one so much, I even even my notification for texts. That's a quote from this movie.

Speaker 2 37:40

But the thing is, is that it really bothered me? It was really weird, because you heard the line yeah. Yeah, but there were no mouths moving.

Speaker 1 37:52

No.

Speaker 2 37:53

So that was a huge disappointment with that line.

Speaker 1 37:56

Okay.

Speaker 2 37:57

I mean it was a big deal because it was your notification and I've been hearing this notification for years now and no one said the line. It was just you heard it, but it's supposed to be Kurt Russell.

Speaker 1 38:10

I think it was added in post. Yeah, like no, not ad-lib, uh, it's um, uh, yeah, where where they record it afterwards, because I I think that moment probably was spontaneous and then they wanted to like add a line to that what he did, yeah and uh, so they did and it is kurt russell saying it.

Speaker 2 38:40

It is okay uh, it's probably just him in a recording booth yeah, yeah because he didn't say it which made it seem like so out of place yeah, okay, I love this movie I really like this movie okay. Okay, it was really good. It was funny. I liked how Kurt Russell and Stallone were like opposites in personalities.

Speaker 1 39:06

Yeah.

Speaker 2 39:07

And I liked the comebacks as well.

Speaker 1 39:09

Yeah.

Speaker 2 39:10

And even like quick reactions.

Speaker 1 39:14

Yeah.

Speaker 2 39:15

It was really funny yeah.

Speaker 1 39:17

Yeah, just, it was really funny.

Speaker 2 39:19

Yeah, yeah, I mean like Stallone, he's this well-dressed.

Speaker 1 39:24

Fancy, guy Fancy, and he doesn't have to be a cop Like he says in the movie. He likes the action part of being a cop.

Speaker 2 39:32

Yeah.

Speaker 1 39:33

And Kurt Russell. He's like the sleazy he doesn't dress well, he's he could walk around in a bag, like you said. A complete opposite. And he's very spontaneous, whereas Stallone is more.

Speaker 2 39:49

Strategic.

Speaker 1 39:50

Yeah and yeah. They're funny together, have great chemistry. And oh yeah, the opening scene. What did you think about that? Because it's a homage to a jackie chan movie yeah.

Speaker 2 40:05

The police story yeah, that was pretty cool. Yeah, but I have a feeling that the stuntmen were a bit more protected.

Speaker 1 40:14

Yeah the this one. This one was planned it was planned um, so yeah, and what's funny is that in this one spoiler alert, when they break out of jail they do the like zip lining, and jackie took that scene in uh police story 3 oh, okay, where they are zip lining and that was made after this movie, so they kind of back and forth yeah that's kind of funny that is cool yeah, fun fact yeah.

Speaker 1 40:46

I did kind of a jokey thing. I said okay, let's do this. Or okay, let's do it. And because that's the first line he says in the movie Stallone. And the funny thing is the first line he says in the movie Stallone. And the funny thing is the first time ever I saw this, and that was when my grandma lived at home. We were about to see this movie and then I said, okay, let's do it. Or in Swedish, and that was the first thing he said and we're like that's funny, yeah. So I guess that's the thing for me. I have to say that line.

Speaker 2 41:25

Yeah. Before watching this movie I guess, so that's funny.

Speaker 1 41:30

Yeah, so I mean that must have been like 20 years ago. So because my grandma moved in 2006 okay, and this was before that. So if not 20, it's close to 20 yeah, yeah. Yeah, mm. Um, okay, that was that.

Speaker 2 41:50

Yeah.

Speaker 1 41:51

Um next movie. Vi hade I alla fall tur med vädret. Mm-hmm, Do you want me to say it faster?

Speaker 2 41:57

Uh, yes.

Speaker 1 41:58

Vi hade I alla fall tur med vädret.

Speaker 2 42:00

Oh, wow, okay.

Speaker 1 42:01

Vi hade I alla fall tur med vädret. Ja, Uh, vi hade I alla fall tur med vädret. Good Mm, faltur med vädret. Good. Better. So now you can pick and choose which one you want, or if you want to take all of them, you're free to do so.

Speaker 2 42:18

Okay, would you like to tell me a bad summary?

Swedish Film "Vi hade i alla fall tur med vädret"

Speaker 1 42:22

This movie is about a family. It's a Swedish movie, by the way, if you couldn't tell. It's about a family who's out camping, so it's a mom and dad and daughter and son and their grandfather. The mom's dad feels like everything that can go wrong goes wrong, because the only thing that's going their way is the weather. They have good weather. Everything else just goes wrong. It's a funny movie, it's a comedy. I might add that too. Is that good enough? Yeah, yeah, okay. So what did you think about this movie?

Speaker 2 43:04

I've been waiting like 10 years to watch this movie.

Speaker 1 43:07

Yeah, because you've seen this one before.

Speaker 2 43:09

Like 10 years ago. Yeah, I watched it early on when we moved to the town that we're in now, which was about 10 years ago. Okay, give or take some months, but I think this is a funny movie. I was surprised that I didn't find it as funny as I expected to, as I remembered. Okay, that's not saying that it's not funny, no, no. I expected more of a Sune, Sune Sommar kind of vibe. But it feels like that movie got a lot of inspiration from this movie.

Speaker 1 43:51

Yes, and perfected it.

Speaker 2 43:53

Perfected it. That's right. And yeah, did their own spin on it and made it better.

Speaker 1 43:58

Yeah.

Speaker 2 43:59

I guess I can sympathize in a way with the family. I recognize a lot of the issues based off of my own experiences. Okay, We've gone camping a few times with my mom, and sometimes it feels like everything that could go wrong does go wrong yeah I feel like a lot of people have that experience too. Not every trip is perfect no, um, yeah, I agree.

Speaker 1 44:31

Uh, I have to ask you, um, did you remember most of this, or was it because we had been talking about a scene from the movie um before?

Speaker 2 44:45

the car wash scene.

Speaker 1 44:46

Yeah, that I didn't remember and you didn't really seem to remember it when I was referring to that before. Yeah, but the rest of the movie did you?

Speaker 2 44:59

I mostly remembered all the times when the little boy wanted to go swimming. And then when he finally got to go swimming, he didn't want to go swimming anymore. No. Which feels like I've been in that situation many times as well. Okay. I feel like my daughter resonates with that a lot. She will beg to do something and then when we get to that thing and do that thing, there's something else that's wrong and she doesn't like it anymore. She's never satisfied. No, she's difficult to satisfy, yeah.

Speaker 1 45:36

It's a weird thing about this movie though Okay, because it's a very short movie, it's not even an hour it feels like it has a whole act cut from this movie, because in one scene spoiler alert the daughter and the mom is gone from the rest of the family, and then they run off. Yeah, the grandpa disappeared too. He also runs off, and then the dad gets stopped by a police officer. After that scene they all just appear together again.

Speaker 1 46:09

Yeah, you never see them meeting or finding the daughter and the mother and the yeah, it's kind of them the dad and the kids and the mother searching for the grandfather. That's the last scene.

Speaker 2 46:24

Yeah.

Speaker 1 46:24

It feels like it would have been good if we got to see what happened in between those scenes too, and I always thought that was so weird. It felt like in the middle of the movie they're like okay, let's just cut to the end scene now, that's enough, yeah it's okay, I have always thought that was weird, it was really weird. It felt like there was something wrong with yeah, did they run out of money or something?

Speaker 2 46:53

they might have, I don't know.

Speaker 1 46:55

No, yeah they had to shoot on the days that were good. Yeah, if it was raining they couldn't shoot. Well, maybe indoor stuff, but that was just, uh, the trailer which they had to squeeze into anyway, yeah so yeah, I was thinking about that.

Speaker 2 47:16

There was one scene where it was raining, but that was just when they were driving the car. Yeah, and if you don't know Swedish summer, it can rain quite a bit.

Speaker 1 47:26

Oh yeah, but it said it had a short shooting period. Yeah yeah, so I guess. But that still doesn't make sense, because even if they had time restrictions they could still prioritize those scenes who felt kind of important.

Speaker 2 47:54

Anyway, did you say how you felt about this movie?

Speaker 1 47:56

I think it's funny, but I'm agreeing with you that it's not like one of the funniest Swedish movies. It's a pretty funny Swedish movie. It has some really funny scenes, I think, but it's not like a laugh riot. You're laughing straight through the movie. That's what I think of the movie and like the big cut at the end feels so weird.

Speaker 2 48:20

Yeah, it's a bit out of place.

Speaker 1 48:22

Yeah.

Speaker 2 48:23

And leaves you asking questions.

Speaker 1 48:25

Yeah, what happened? Yeah, yes, I agree, yep Yay.

Speaker 2 48:29

Yay, all right, so that was that.

Speaker 1 48:32

That was that.

Speaker 2 48:33

Those were the movies Mm-hmm. Did I mention that it's July 4th? Yes, you did, I think. Did I also mention that it's Independence Day?

Speaker 1 48:43

I don't know For Americans. Independence Day for Americans. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. Yeah, I think you said that actually did you know that, uh? You're an american, I'm an american.

Speaker 2 48:58

Yeah, I didn't know that you didn't know that. I thought you were swedish. Oh okay, yeah, I blend in pretty well. Um, do you know what's going on in the states right now?

Speaker 1 49:06

um no no, nothing good no I was gonna go the political and then now, now it does get political here okay okay, so I have some.

Speaker 2 49:22

Uh, I have five headlines to read to you. Okay, not real ones. Well, they're real things that are happening, but not from actual newspapers or anything okay so um big american headlines from today, july 4th. Cool um, people are celebrating quietly okay, okay, which is americans? Abnormal for americans because, they're very loud, so it must be like loud silence uh, today is independence Day, like Americans, america's birthday, americans birthdays, everyone's birthday is today.

Speaker 2 49:58

Okay, also, america has a birthday. Lots of people are having picnics, watching parades and seeing fireworks with their families, but because some things cost more now, like sparklers and food, fewer parties might happen this year. The thing about sparklers is that you can only buy them here around Christmas.

Speaker 1 50:19

Yeah.

Speaker 2 50:19

And I always forget to buy sparklers.

Speaker 1 50:22

Oh.

Speaker 2 50:23

And save them for today.

Speaker 1 50:25

Okay. So you want to do that, I do Okay.

Speaker 2 50:28

Because that's a 4th of July thing, you would have sparklers. Okay, tomtebloss yeah, I do. Okay, because that's a 4th of July thing, you would have sparklers.

Speaker 1 50:32

Okay, tomte blos yeah, or whatever. Tomte blos yeah.

American Independence Day Headlines

Speaker 2 50:37

That's what I tried to say. Yeah, number two A new big law is being signed. The president wants to sign a new law today that changes taxes and how the government helps with food and health care. Some people think it's good, but others worry it will make things harder for families who need help. We don't really need to get political here no, I'm like an american.

Speaker 1 51:03

I'm gonna stay silent on this okay, loud silence.

Speaker 2 51:07

Yeah, number three I'm silent over here I hear that people are talking and walking with signs, uh also known as protesting yeah uh, some groups have, uh, some groups are using independence day to have peaceful protests with signs like free american, free america. They're saying it's important to keep everyone's rights safe.

Speaker 1 51:32

Okay, what? No free America? It sounded like it wasn't free.

Speaker 2 51:42

In a way, sometimes it doesn't feel like it's that free.

Speaker 1 51:45

No, I guess.

Speaker 2 51:46

Number four many families are traveling. Number four many families are traveling. Lots of people over 72 million are going on trips this week to see family, or going to the beach or grandparents' house 72 million. That's a lot of people.

Speaker 1 52:01

That's like seven times the people living in Sweden.

Speaker 2 52:07

Yeah, there's more people in the States than in Sweden.

Speaker 1 52:11

Way more. Did you know that? Yeah, a couple more. I think Okay, there's, there's more people in the States than in Sweden.

Speaker 2 52:14

Way more, did you know that. Yeah, a couple more, I think Okay. There's like two more people yeah. Number five Cool places are showing fireworks.

Speaker 1 52:22

Cool places.

Speaker 2 52:23

Cool places. Wow, in New York City there's a big fireworks show over the water like magic in the sky.

Speaker 1 52:31

Oh feelings.

Speaker 2 52:32

Yeah, aliens Banks and post offices are closed today, but grocery stores are open, so people can still shop for food. Okay, that's good. Did you know? I have a fun fact for you.

Speaker 1 52:45

A phone fact.

Speaker 2 52:46

A phone fact yeah.

Speaker 1 52:48

Okay.

Speaker 2 52:49

We have Mad Libs next week.

Speaker 1 52:52

We do.

Speaker 2 52:53

On the 12th July, 12th. Mm-hmm. So would you like to do a couple Mad Libs with me now to warm up for that?

Speaker 1 53:01

Yeah.

Speaker 2 53:01

Okay, I am going to ask for a word.

Speaker 1 53:06

Okay.

Speaker 2 53:06

You are going to give me that word, okay.

Speaker 1 53:08

Okay.

Speaker 2 53:09

I'm going to start with an exclamation.

Speaker 1 53:12

Fun Is that. Could you use that Fun Fun Like having fun.

Speaker 2 53:18

I don't know, would you just scream fun?

Speaker 1 53:20

Yeah.

Speaker 2 53:21

Okay, is that the word you want to use?

Speaker 1 53:23

Is that legal?

Speaker 2 53:24

No, but who cares?

Speaker 1 53:26

Yeah, it's not legal to have fun.

Speaker 2 53:28

I need a country name.

Speaker 1 53:29

Let's see Finland.

Speaker 2 53:31

Okay, that sounds appropriate Verb.

Speaker 1 53:34

Verb Pick.

Speaker 2 53:37

Okay, adverb.

Speaker 1 53:39

Secretly, is that one?

Speaker 2 53:41

Okay, a verb.

Speaker 1 53:43

Crack.

Speaker 2 53:44

Okay, a time of day.

Speaker 1 53:47

Mm-hmm Noon.

Speaker 2 53:50

Noun.

Speaker 1 53:51

Stork.

Speaker 2 53:52

Okay, a plural noun Slugs. Another plural noun.

Speaker 1 53:57

Toilets.

Speaker 2 53:58

Okay, I need another plural noun.

Speaker 1 54:02

Trains.

Speaker 2 54:04

Color.

Speaker 1 54:04

Purple.

Speaker 2 54:06

Adjective.

Speaker 1 54:07

Itchy.

Speaker 2 54:08

Another one.

Speaker 1 54:09

Dirty.

Speaker 2 54:10

Noun.

Speaker 1 54:11

Soda.

Speaker 2 54:12

Okay, so we thought it would be kind of fun to do a karaoke Mad Libs, right.

Speaker 1 54:19

Yeah.

Speaker 2 54:19

Using American patriotic songs. Yeah, we have a couple of them and we just did one. Do you want me to sing this one?

Speaker 1 54:27

Which one is it?

Speaker 2 54:31

It's called God.

Speaker 1 54:31

Bless America. Yeah, you should do that one.

Speaker 2 54:33

Okay, ready.

Speaker 1 54:35

Yes.

Speaker 2 54:36

Fun bless Finland Land that I pick. Stand secretly her and crack her through the noon with a stork from above, from the slugs to the toilets, to the trains, Purple with foam. Fun bless Finland, my itchy, dirty soda.

Speaker 1 55:01

Dirty soda Okay.

Speaker 2 55:02

Dirty soda.

Speaker 1 55:02

Okay, now I get it. That's the grog.

Speaker 2 55:06

Yeah, it's a mixed drink.

Speaker 1 55:09

Yeah, like a cocktail yeah. Dirty soda.

Speaker 2 55:11

Dirty soda.

Speaker 1 55:12

Dirty soda.

Speaker 2 55:14

With the next one. Did you want to do that?

Speaker 1 55:16

Yeah.

Speaker 2 55:17

It's a lot longer.

Speaker 1 55:18

Okay, verb.

Speaker 2 55:20

Zoom.

Speaker 1 55:21

Time of day.

Speaker 2 55:23

Midnight.

Speaker 1 55:25

Adjective.

Speaker 2 55:26

Sparkly.

Speaker 1 55:27

Noun.

Speaker 2 55:28

Floor.

Speaker 1 55:29

Adverb.

Speaker 2 55:30

Soon.

Speaker 1 55:32

Verb past tense Leftor Adverb Soon Verb past tense.

Speaker 2 55:34

Left right Left.

Speaker 1 55:35

Yeah, I left.

Speaker 2 55:36

I came, and then I left.

Speaker 1 55:38

Okay, time of day.

Speaker 2 55:41

Three o'clock, I don't know.

Speaker 1 55:44

Verb ending in ing.

Speaker 2 55:47

Kicking.

Speaker 1 55:49

Adjective Loud, plural noun. Monsters, monsters kicking, adjective loud, plural noun monsters monsters, adjective empty plural noun rain clouds adjective pointy noun electricity plural noun turtles verb past tense.

Speaker 2 56:13

Scratched what.

Speaker 1 56:17

No, I scratched.

Speaker 2 56:18

Oh no, I wasn't thinking of the. I was thinking of the cat.

Speaker 1 56:23

Oh Adverb.

Speaker 2 56:25

Close. Did that one fit, or should I pick a different word?

Speaker 1 56:29

I mean it fits in a way, but I'm not sure it's supposed to be like that. But we can work with that maybe. Verb ending in I-N-G.

Speaker 2 56:39

Reading.

Speaker 1 56:39

Plural noun.

Speaker 2 56:41

Notebooks.

Speaker 1 56:43

Color.

Speaker 2 56:44

Color.

Speaker 1 56:44

Yeah, color Yellow Noun.

Speaker 2 56:47

Boat.

Speaker 1 56:48

Plural noun Aliens, verb ending in I-N-G. Destructing Destructing.

Speaker 2 56:56

That's a verb destructing, Like destruction yeah.

Speaker 1 57:00

D-E To destruct yeah.

Speaker 2 57:02

Or should it be destroying? Maybe, Destroying Place Japan.

Speaker 1 57:10

Abstract noun.

Speaker 2 57:12

I'm just going to give you a noun.

Speaker 1 57:15

Yeah, that looks good, that sounds good.

Speaker 2 57:18

Spider web. That's pretty abstract, I'd say.

Speaker 1 57:21

Okay, noun.

Speaker 2 57:23

Vacuum.

Speaker 1 57:24

Object.

Speaker 2 57:25

Pumpkin, that's a noun.

Speaker 1 57:28

Yeah, why couldn't it just be a noun so?

Speaker 2 57:31

it's not a place or a person, I guess, oh, okay, yeah, why couldn't it just be a noun? So it's not a place or a person, I guess, oh, okay.

Speaker 1 57:35

Oh, why couldn't it be? I don't know. Adjective Gross Noun Paint Verb.

Speaker 2 57:42

Explore.

Speaker 1 57:44

Verb.

Speaker 2 57:45

Jump.

Speaker 1 57:46

Emotion.

Speaker 2 57:47

Depression, depression or depressed, yeah, animal plural Depression or depressed, yeah.

Speaker 1 57:52

Animal plural Lions, lions, lions.

Speaker 2 57:57

Which song did we rewrite?

Speaker 1 57:59

The National Anthem of the United States.

Speaker 2 58:03

All right, I already sang this song today.

Speaker 1 58:05

Yeah.

Speaker 2 58:06

Perfectly actually.

Speaker 1 58:08

Mm.

Speaker 2 58:08

Mm, I guess I'll do it again.

Speaker 1 58:10

Yeah.

Speaker 2 58:11

Okay, actually I guess I'll do it again, yeah, okay. Oh say, can you zoom by the midnight's sparkly floor? What so soon we left at the three o'clock's last kicking whose loud monsters and empty rain clouds through the pointy electricity or the turtles we scratched were song reading and the notebooks yellow boat the aliens destroying in japan gave spiderweb through the vacuum that our pumpkin was still there. Oh say, does that gross paint explore yet jump. Or the land of the depressed and the Home of the Lions. Okay, well, that was that.

Speaker 1 59:19

That was that.

Speaker 2 59:20

I think we got it right.

Speaker 1 59:23

Yeah, we got it right, I think, so Now it's good.

Speaker 2 59:26

We're like coming to the end of the episode. Oh yeah, I am pretty much out of sips.

Speaker 1 59:33

So am I, and you know what.

Speaker 2 59:35

What.

Speaker 1 59:36

That means we're all out of episode.

Speaker 2 59:38

All right, okay, okay, would you like to wrap this up?

Speaker 1 59:41

Let's wrap this up.

Speaker 2 59:42

All right. Can you just tell me what is currently ruining your life?

Speaker 1 59:47

What is ruining my life? What's ruining my life? Um, I was thinking about this and I do have something ruining my life and I do have to remember what that was interesting yeah it's that bad it's so bad that you forgot about it. Yeah, okay.

Speaker 2 1:00:11

I thought that was my stomach. Okay, it wasn't.

Speaker 1 1:00:14

It sounded like wind. Wind is stomach. I was thinking about it at work today. I've been thinking about so much things at work today and I forget all of the things I've been thinking about. Not good, no, was something.

Speaker 2 1:00:43

Was it me.

Speaker 1 1:00:44

That's ruining my life.

Speaker 2 1:00:46

Yeah.

Speaker 1 1:00:46

Maybe no, I think that it's so warm at work that's really ruining my life because, um, I'm so sweaty and my, uh, my, my feet get really sweaty. And it's so funny because, you know, for my headphones I have this rubber band and it's like all.

Speaker 2 1:01:16

Broken.

Speaker 1 1:01:17

Broken.

Speaker 2 1:01:17

now See, this is what he did to it, it broke your rubber band. Yeah, that's sad.

Speaker 1 1:01:24

It's a sad rubber band.

Speaker 2 1:01:26

Yeah.

Speaker 1 1:01:26

It's all.

Speaker 2 1:01:28

Sad All right.

Speaker 1 1:01:31

Was that what you wanted?

Speaker 2 1:01:33

Yeah, okay, I wanted it.

Speaker 1 1:01:35

That's yours now.

Speaker 2 1:01:36

Thank you, I broke it again. Look at that, it's like spaghetti.

Speaker 1 1:01:39

Yeah, see, that's what we're dealing with at work now.

Speaker 2 1:01:44

You have spaghetti in your pocket.

Speaker 1 1:01:46

Yeah.

Speaker 2 1:01:47

It's all sticky, oh God.

Speaker 1 1:01:48

Should I taste it? Yeah, it's all sticky, should I?

Speaker 2 1:01:49

taste it. Yeah, no, it doesn't look like healthy spaghetti.

Speaker 1 1:01:53

No, I'm not that drunk.

Speaker 2 1:01:54

Okay, good so. So, the spaghetti in your pants is what's ruining your life.

Speaker 1 1:02:00

Yeah, okay, what's ruining your?

Final Thoughts and What's Ruining Our Lives

Speaker 2 1:02:03

life Right now it's at this very, very second. It's how long this episode is so far, and also I know that I'm going to be busy tomorrow so I won't have that much time to edit. So we'll see how Sunday goes for me. And now I have sticky spaghetti in my hand. Also, what's ruining my life is palates. I started to try to take a palette apart today, yeah, and I couldn't even get one board off.

Speaker 1 1:02:37

So I gave up and threw it to the side.

Speaker 2 1:02:39

I got bored. Yeah, I was like I'm done, I don't care anymore, so that's that Okay. Fun fact, I lost 2.2 kilos this week.

Speaker 1 1:02:49

Okay, cool.

Speaker 2 1:02:50

Not that I was at a very low number to begin with, but it was a fun fact.

Speaker 1 1:02:55

Yeah, fun fact. Fun fact I don't have those kinds of fun facts.

Speaker 2 1:03:00

No, that's too bad.

Speaker 1 1:03:01

Yeah, maybe next week We'll see.

Speaker 2 1:03:03

Maybe next week we might be brave enough to tell you our numbers.

Speaker 1 1:03:09

Yeah.

Speaker 2 1:03:09

Yeah, the listeners, I mean.

Speaker 1 1:03:11

Yeah, no me, you enough to tell you our numbers. Yeah, yeah, the listeners.

Speaker 2 1:03:13

I mean, yeah, no me, you next week I might be brave enough, yeah, to tell you your numbers. Yep, um, anything else?

Speaker 1 1:03:21

no, I think I will, I think I'll be good okay, all right, thank you for listening.

Speaker 2 1:03:28

This has been a lot of fun.

Speaker 1 1:03:29

Yeah.

Speaker 2 1:03:30

Spending 4th of July with you and the listeners and it's been fun hanging out.

Speaker 1 1:03:38

Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 2 1:03:39

So thanks for hanging out with us.

Speaker 1 1:03:41

Thank you.

Speaker 2 1:03:42

Hang out with us some more on July 12th on Twitch. 8 pm CET. That's our time, the Swedish time, and then 2 pm EST, that's Eastern Standard Time in the States.

Speaker 1 1:03:59

Yay.

Speaker 2 1:04:00

Yeah, we'll be playing Mad Libs and hanging out with you people, and it's always a good time, so why not join us, grab your sips and play Mad Libs with us?

Speaker 1 1:04:14

Yeah, let's have some fun.

Speaker 2 1:04:16

Let's have some fun. Yeah, yeah, do you have anything to say?

Speaker 1 1:04:22

No, we'll be back.

Speaker 2 1:04:25

We'll be back. Send us a text if you have anything cool to say, please do Only cool things, though? Yeah, I don't though, yeah. I don't want uncool things.

Speaker 1 1:04:33

No, that's boring. Send us the coolest thing you can.

Speaker 2 1:04:37

Yeah, how did you spend your 4th of July? And also tell me something else. One other thing. Yeah. Yeah, that's your prompt for this week yeah, not more than two things though.

Speaker 1 1:04:51

No, no, yeah, that's your prompt for this week. Yeah, not more than two things, though no, no, that's it.

Speaker 2 1:04:56

That's too much. Yeah, anything more is too much, that's it. Yeah, thank you all right all right we'll be back next tuesday, yes, with a brand new episode.

Speaker 1 1:05:06

Yay, also goodbye bye-bye thank you for listening to the Roasty Toasty Ghosty Podcast if you kinda liked our episode, follow us on the social medias.

Speaker 2 1:05:18

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Speaker 1 1:05:40

And we'll be back with another one next Tuesday on a podcast provider near you.

Speaker 2 1:05:46

Goodbye Mattias, goodbye Lauren.