The Undeniable Leader with Rob Cressy

What If Success Was Your Default?

• Rob Cressy

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What if success was your default state of being, where you always felt successful? In this episode of Built For The Game, Rob Cressy shares an insight that inspired him from Stephen McGhee about Success being a state of being, not something defined by your possessions.

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Hey, before we start the podcast, if you're a return listener who gets value from this show, then spread the love and share this with someone exceptional. Whether you shoot them a text or a DM or share on your social media, it would mean the world to me, and this is how we can help each other grow. Sending tons of good vibes your way. What if all the success that you're looking for is already inside of you? Right now, man, I am radiating gold because I was part of a conversation yesterday led by Stephen McGee as part of the AJC coaching career school led by Ancush Jane, my friend, where somebody asked a question, and Steven brought to the table a possibility that legitimately is going to change my life. And I'm feeling so alive with it right now, like it's such gold, and I'm living my word of the year, gold and undeniable, that I had to share it with you as a possibility for you. And it was all around this. And Steven said, What if you were already successful as you never had to do another thing to be successful? Because your default state of being is being successful. So, with this, so often in life, and I know from my own journey of being an entrepreneur for the last 15 years, there can be a lot of scarcity and not enoughness and lack, right? That you're trying to grasp success or figure it out, or why don't I have something? But what if instead we flip the orientation? What if we came from the perspective that your natural state of being, the DNA of who you are, who you are omnipresently, is success and successful. And anytime that you are not feeling successful, you're actually just further away from who you naturally are. So it's actually more incongruent for you to be unsuccessful than it is to be successful. And as I tried this on for size, man, I just loved the universal nature of this as I started to think about embodying this in my identity, in my mindset, and how this can be true for me. Because then I thought about myself and my wife and my family and my clients and how I show up every single day in my orientation. And what if every single day when I woke up, my default orientation is love? Well, I know that to be true because the first declaration I speak every single day is I am infinite love. Boom, it radiates through me, it courses through me every single day. I know it to be absolutely true. Therefore, any time in life in which I am feeling something other than love, that is further away and incongruent from the true version of who I am. So if you can try this on for size for be success or being love or being abundantly generous or being fearless, all of a sudden you quickly realize that you can design and create the best version of who you are by design, by default, and all the fears, the judgments, the self-limiting beliefs, the lack, the not enoughness, the bad things that happen in life, when they show up, immediately the light bulb goes off in your head, and you're like, whoa, dog, what's up? This is not how I normally get down because my default orientation is love, success, generosity, and fearlessness. And this may seem simple, and this may seem obvious, but so often these are the things that we are going to experience on a moment-to-moment basis. And it's why so often I say this is a mindset, a lifestyle, and a way of being. We can all choose to create the lens how we see the world. That's why every year for me is my best year ever, because I'm choosing to see it that way. And with this, what I love so much about it is I've got a PhD in self-limitation and scarcity and not enoughness for myself, right? The reason why I'm qualified to have conversations like this is because for the first 30 years of my life, I had no self-awareness and no growth mindset, right? So I know what it's like to not have this abundant mindset or even to know what I am declarations or to be able to hold the space of something like this. But now that I have it and I see what's possible, and so often on the journey of air quotes success, we're looking for inches, right? A small little shift, but a small little shift in perspective can create massive impact. Because what if for the rest of your life moving forward, you never again had to wonder to yourself, man, am I being successful, or am I successful? Or you say, wait a second, my default orientation always is I am successful. And it is only when I am not being that that the awareness comes in, and you can quickly say, wait a second, let me shrink my dispersion, get rid of that, and re-anchor myself into the powerful version of who I am. And what I am doing right now is legitimately living and sharing my words of the year gold plus undeniable. This was a piece of gold that I learned and experienced less than 24 hours ago, and it has already had a massive impact in my life. And part of being undeniable is all around the visibility side of things, my ability to transmit and share the things that I am seeing because my purpose is to help the world and spread positive energy in everything that I do. So, why in the world would I hold this thing back? And what you're going to notice and see this year is yes, I can create by design on my calendar formulaically, do this, do this, do this. And at the same time, I can ride that wave of inspiration and being in flow. And when something arrives that I was like, baby, I gotta share this with some people because if this can help even one person, then this is worth it. And that is exactly what this is. So my encouragement for you is to sit with this for a second. I encourage you to ask yourself when you think about being successful, is that an omnipresent state of being for you? Or is that something you are or you are not, or something that your bank account tells you when you're successful, or the house, or your possessions, or can you be open to the possibility that your default state of being is I am successful? And it is only when you're not being it that it's the trigger for you to come back to home and be that best version of who you are. And I would love to hear from you. Does this make sense? Does this vibe with you? Does it resonate in any way? Hit me up at Rob Cressy, would love to support you on your journey. And as always, if you want to be undeniable this year in the way that you show up with that inner gold as well as that business gold in the way that you create with AI and Chat GBT, I encourage you to join us. Go to joinundeniable.com. We have calls every single Tuesday, and it will absolutely change your life. Sending tons of love and good vibes your way. Here's the happen an amazing rest of the day.