Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy Boulware

Tip 21: Control is an Illusion

January 09, 2024 Season 3
Tip 21: Control is an Illusion
Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy Boulware
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Fearless Tips and Talks with Christy Boulware
Tip 21: Control is an Illusion
Jan 09, 2024 Season 3

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How do you know if you are struggling with surrender? See if any of these statements ring true for your life:

·  I think I can change people.

·  I worry more often than I’m at peace.

·  I like to hover over people and make sure they are doing things to my expectations.

·  I have a hard time being in the passenger seat.

·  I have confidence in myself but not in others.

·  I trust myself more than I trust God. 

·  I often tell people how things will go and leave no room for other options.

·  I rarely consult God. 

·  I compare myself to other people.

·  I question the validity of God’s Word.  

·  I would rather do things myself than ask God for help.  

·  I don’t think God has my best interest at heart. 

·  I control my children because I don’t want them to make mistakes.  

·  I don’t want God’s will in my life; I would rather do things my way.

·  I’m confused about my purpose in life.

*I feel like my plan is the most important.


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Show Notes

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How do you know if you are struggling with surrender? See if any of these statements ring true for your life:

·  I think I can change people.

·  I worry more often than I’m at peace.

·  I like to hover over people and make sure they are doing things to my expectations.

·  I have a hard time being in the passenger seat.

·  I have confidence in myself but not in others.

·  I trust myself more than I trust God. 

·  I often tell people how things will go and leave no room for other options.

·  I rarely consult God. 

·  I compare myself to other people.

·  I question the validity of God’s Word.  

·  I would rather do things myself than ask God for help.  

·  I don’t think God has my best interest at heart. 

·  I control my children because I don’t want them to make mistakes.  

·  I don’t want God’s will in my life; I would rather do things my way.

·  I’m confused about my purpose in life.

*I feel like my plan is the most important.


Christy's Book on Amazon
Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here

What is a Soul Shepherd/Mental Health Advocate? Learn here


Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here:

Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box

On Social Media?

Connect with Christy and on Instagram: @christymboulware
Connect with Fearless Unite and on Instagram: @fearlessunite

Send us your feedback, questions, encouragement and anxiety tip ideas: podcast@fearlessunite.com


Click here to subscribe to Podcast Plus