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Talk 26: Understanding Abuse in the Church with Remy Diederich

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Today's episode starts a new series called: Resilience in the Pews: Tackling Anxiety and Church Wounds.

The goal of this series is to explore the often-overlooked aspects of anxiety, trauma, and emotional wounds that many individuals experience in their church communities. 

Christy asks Remy 

  • Why do you think there is such a rise in abusive behavior in church settings? 
  • What is the difference between bad leadership or mistreatment and abuse in the Church?
  • “Toxic faith is the soil from which spiritual abuse grows.” Explain that quote.
  • Could there be different degrees of abuse?
  • “Even good people can abuse” Can you explain how you violated people’s right to think for themselves? 
  • Why do most people have such a hard time with using the word “abuse” inside the church? 
  • What do you do if your called to leave or confront? 
  • How would you advise someone feeling held back in the church? 
  • And more! 

Get the book Christy read by Remy called Broken Trust.

Connect with Remy here. 

Other mentions: A Church Called Tov: Forming a Goodness Culture That Resists Abuses of Power and Promotes Healing

Christy's Spiritual Abuse story on Julie Roy's Podcast 

Christy's Book on Amazon
Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here

Mental Health Coaching info and book here.


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