Surrendering Control: The Hardest Part of Saying Goodbye
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"I am sunny with a chance of tornadoes." - Yvette LeFlore
š§ Intuitive energy healer Yvette LaFleur opens up about her deeply personal caregiving journey through love, loss, and healing. As the caregiver for her late husband Walter, who bravely battled stage four lung cancer, Yvette shares profound lessons on self-care, anticipatory grief, surrendering control, and honoring the wishes of a loved one.
Natalie and JJ explore with Yvette:
- š The emotional toll of caregiving for someone with a terminal illness
- š§āāļø The importance of maintaining identity and practicing self-care
- š Letting go of control and accepting help from others
- š¢ Navigating grief, loss, and life after caregiving
- ā¤ļøāš„ Finding humor, strength, and spiritual growth through adversity
About Yvette:
Yvette LeFlore is an Intuitive Energy Healer and Reiki Master Teacher. Before opening her energy healing business, Yvette led a team for a popular direct sales company; she was also a teacher in prisons and drug rehabilitation centers. Over a decade ago, she found the benefit of energy healing for herself and others. When she was dating, she intended that the man she next met would be open to energy and healing work. Enter Walter. The man who not only understood and worked with energy but also supported her in building her business and leaving her 29-year career with the direct sales company. As you will hear, Walter now joins her from the spirit world in her energy healing sessions.
Social Media:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/healingwithyvette
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yvette-leflore-9683336/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healingwithyvette
Website: www.healingwithyvette.com
Are you a caregiver, or grieving a loss, or seeking emotional and spiritual insight? This heartfelt conversation offers comfort, wisdom, and connection.
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You Canāt Make This Up! Sister Updates
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āCaregiving never ends. No, it never stops.ā - Natalie and JJ
Caregiving is a journeyāfull of love, lessons, and letās be honest, a few laughs along the way. In this candid conversation, we dive into the realities of caregiving: navigating skilled nursing facilities, managing emotional and financial stress, and finding strength in community. Weāre also sharing whatās in store for 2025 and beyond. Too good to miss!
š” This episode is a reminder that youāre not aloneāand that support, humor, and honest conversations make all the difference.
š Key Takeaways:
- Caregiving is toughābut also deeply rewarding.
- Teamwork and community support are everything.
- Humor helps lighten the load.
- Advocacy mattersāso do financial tools like qualified income trusts.
- Self-care isnāt optional.
- Your story mattersāletās share it.
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Caring Through Chaos: A Journey with Frontotemporal Dementia
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
āI was in therapy, that was a lifeline.ā - Allyson Schrier
This is a powerful one! Natalie and JJ sit down with Allyson Schrier as she opens up about her deeply personal and emotional journey caring for her husband, who was diagnosed with Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD).
Allison candidly shares the early signs of FTD, the heartbreaking misdiagnosis, and the uphill battle of navigating a complex healthcare system. From the shifting family dynamics to the emotional weight of caregiving, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what it really means to care for a loved one with dementia.
š¼ Key Takeaways:
- Recognizing early behavioral changes in FTD
- Coping with misdiagnosis and delayed answers
- The emotional toll and resilience required of caregivers
- The importance of self-care and community support
- How Zinnia TV is transforming dementia care through thoughtful, therapeutic content
About Allyson:
Allyson Schrier, co-founder and President of ZinniaTV was a caregiver for her husband with dementia, who turned that experience into a career focused on helping both people with dementia and those who care for them. Allyson became a dementia educator teaching both family and professional caregivers about best practices around supporting people with dementia. Following that, Allyson helped launch, then managed an education program at the University of Washington to equip primary and allied healthcare providers to better diagnose and support patients living with dementia. Allyson was honored to be a recipient of a 2020 Maudeās Awards for Innovation in Alzheimerās Care, and was named Visionary Caregiver of 2020 by caregiving.com. She sits on the Health and Medical subcommittee of the Washington State Dementia Action Collaborative, facilitates support groups for spouses of people with dementia, and lectures on topics about dementia caregiving.
Social Media:
Instagram: Al.lyson80
Instagram: zinnia_tv
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/avschrier/
Website: www.zinniatv.com
Allisonās story offers both inspiration and practical wisdom for professionals, family members and friends alike
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Faith, Culture & Raising a Child with Special Needs
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
āNever say never in your journey.ā - Eleni Paris
Natalie and JJ sit down with Eleni Paris, a licensed therapist and devoted mom, as she shares her deeply personal journey raising her daughter Sophia, who has cognitive and speech impairments.
Eleni opens up about navigating cultural expectations, emotional burnout, and the realities of parenting a child with developmental delaysāall while juggling her professional identity. From the search for a diagnosis to managing anxiety in public spaces, she speaks candidly about grief, joy, faith, and the power of vulnerability.
If you're a caregiver, a parent of a child with special needs, or simply looking for real talk about love, resilience, and finding purpose through challengesāthis oneās for you.
š§ Topics Covered:
- The emotional highs and lows of caregiving
- Cultural impacts on care in the Greek-American community
- Why self-care isnāt selfishāitās survival
- Faith, family, and building a support system
- Coping with the evolving needs of a child with disabilities
Eleni Paris is a licensed marriage and family therapist, proud Greek-American, and devoted mother of two daughtersāone of whom is cognitively disabled and speech impaired. Born and raised in Northern Virginia, Eleni holds both undergraduate and graduate degrees from Virginia Tech. She grew up surrounded by a vibrant āBig Fat Greekā family culture while also enjoying the rhythms of a classic American upbringingāa blend she considers a true blessing.
With over 27 years of marriage and a lifetime of caregiving experience, Eleni brings deep empathy and lived wisdom to her therapy practice. Her personal journey, particularly in raising a daughter with complex and undiagnosed needs, has shaped her approach to supporting families, couples, and fellow caregivers. Today, Eleni runs a thriving online practice, where she combines clinical expertise with heartfelt understanding to help others navigate lifeās most personal challenges.
Social Media:
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/eleniparislmftllc
Website: www.eleniparislmft.com
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Holding On & Letting Go: A Caregiverās Emotional Journey
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"He chose to keep living." - Amy Shaw
When life takes an unexpected turn, how do you find the strength to carry on? JJ and Nat sit down with Amy Shaw to share her deeply moving story raising a large family, including children with special needs, and navigating the heartbreaking journey of her husband Brianās terminal illness.
From the first signs of illness to the devastating diagnosis of brain cancer, Amy opens up about the raw emotions, challenges, and unwavering love that defined their final moments together. She reveals the lessons learned through caregiving, the impact on family life, and the importance of legacy, hope, and resilience.
š¹ Highlights from our Confession:
š” The first signs of illness & the shocking brain cancer diagnosis
ā¤ļø Navigating the emotional highs and lows of caregiving
šØāš©āš§āš¦ The impact of caregiving on family dynamics & relationships
š Why Amy decided to share her story in a book
šæ The importance of faith, resilience & cherishing every moment
About Amy Shaw:
Amy Shaw didnāt expect to become an end of life concierge. But after years of living abroad, having 10 children (4 biological and 6 adopted), Amy and her husband got the news. He had a terminal illness. Rather than bemoan a diagnosis, Amy and Brian chose to celebrate his life. This is what inspired her Walk the Red program which equips the diagnosed and their caregivers with a powerful protocol to help them end well. Amy says, āweāre all on the red carpet. We all get to decide how we live and how we die.ā In addition to being a John Maxwell certified speaker, Amy is a modern impressionist artist who often combines her artistic abilities with her keynotes and workshops.
Social Media:
- Website: walkthered.com
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-shaw-295270347/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/supportforchristianspousesandcaregivers
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amyshawart/
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When Caregiving Finds You: Navigating Alzheimerās & Family Care
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"You have to be ready to roll with it." - Alfredo Botello
Stepping into the role of caregiver isnāt always a choice, itās a journey filled with love, loss, and unexpected lessons. J.J. and Natalie welcome novelist and screenwriter, Alfredo Botello to open up about caring for his mother after his stepfatherās passing and navigating the challenges of Alzheimerās and assisted living.
š¹ Key Takeaways:
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The emotional toll of caregiving & shifting family dynamics
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Misconceptions about caregiving & lessons learned along the way
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The power of empathy, connection & vulnerability
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Why self-care isnāt selfishāitās necessary
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Finding joy in shared moments, even in difficult times
Alfredo Botello is a novelist and screenwriter who has worked on projects ranging from the indie Sundance Global Short La Revolucion De Iguodala to the studio tent pole Fast and Furious 9. His debut novel, 180 Days, has garnered multiple literary awards. His second novel, Spin Cycle: Notes From A Reluctant Caregiver, was published by Koehler Books on 1.14.25. He is a Fulbright Fellow in architecture and a Nicholl Fellow in screenwriting. In addition to screenplays and the novels, he contributed a chapter to the Amazon bestseller Wellness Through Words, and has written for The San Francisco Examiner Magazine, Metropolis, Diablo, Surface, The Utne Reader, Style, The East Bay Express, and The Monthly. Botello co-owns a cocktail bar in downtown Oakland, Little Bird Bar, and at home dotes on his two Corgis, George and Dotty.
Social Media:
Website: alfredobotello.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/alfredo_botello_author/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551868357118
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfredo-botello-aa16aaa0/
X: https://x.com/alfredobotello
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The Reality of Caregiving: Culture, Family & Technology
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"I wanted to make the most of it." - Dona Kim Murphey
Caregiving is never just about one person, itās about family, culture, and community. Natalie and J.J. sit down with Dr. Dona Kim Murphey, neurologist and caregiver, to explore the deeply personal and often unspoken challenges of caregiving.
From cultural expectations to the emotional and relational toll caregiving takes, this conversation dives into what it truly means to care for a loved oneāespecially from a distance. Dr. Murphey shares her journey shaped by her familyās experiences with illness, offering practical strategies for caregivers, the power of micro moments of self-care, and the evolving role of technology in making caregiving more manageable.
š¹ Key Takeaways:
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The impact of cultural expectations on caregiving roles
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How technology is changing the way we care for loved ones
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The emotional toll of caregiving & ways to protect your well-being
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Micro moments of self-care that make a big difference
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Why community support is essential for every caregiver
Social Media:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/prognosus/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@prognosus
Facebook: Facebook.com/prognosus
Instagram: Instagram.com/weareprognosus
Website: PrognosUs.com
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Military Service to Autism Advocacy: Maureenās Confession
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"I suffered from caregiver fatigue." - Maureen Elias
Maureen shares her journey from a structured military career to the unpredictable world of caregiving. As a mother of children on the autism spectrum, she opens up about the challenges and triumphs of parenting, the impact of military life on family dynamics, and the importance of advocacy and community support. Through personal stories of resilience, she highlights the need for understanding, resources, and the power of acceptance in the face of adversity.
Maureen Elias, a former U.S. Army counterintelligence agent, transitioned from military service to a life dedicated to advocacy and caregiving. After a medical separation in 2006, she spent 11 years as a stay-at-home mom while her husband, a 21-year Army veteran, served overseas.
Raising three children on the autism spectrum, Maureen pursued a masterās in mental health counseling, leading to roles in top veteran service organizations, the House Committee on Veterans Affairs, and the Department of Veterans Affairs. She also teaches storytelling to veterans and has recently embraced off-roading as a newfound passion.
Social Media
Linkedin www.linkedin.com/in/maureenelias
Twitter: @maureenelias2
Instagram: @maureenelias2
Highlights:
š¹ Parenting & Autism ā Insights into raising children on the autism spectrum and the triumphs along the way.
š¹ Military Life & Family Dynamics ā How structured service life shaped her approach to caregiving.
š¹ Challenges & Resilience ā Overcoming obstacles with strength, understanding, and support.
š¹ The Power of Community ā Why caregivers need advocacy, resources, and a strong support system.
š¹ Acceptance & Education ā How awareness and compassion transform lives.
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This heartfelt conversation is a must-watch for caregivers, military families, and anyone passionate about autism awareness.
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The Juggle: Kyle Daquannaās Journey as a Caregiver, Father, and Advocate
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"Life is really short and it changes." - Kyle Daquanna
JJ and Natalie sit down with Kyle Daquanna, a male caregiver, as he shares his powerful journey of balancing work, family, and caregiving responsibilities after his fatherās stroke. Kyle opens up about the emotional and logistical challenges of caregiving, the impact of family dynamics, and the difficult medical decisions caregivers face. The discussion highlights the importance of advocacy in navigating insurance systems, preparing for future caregiving needs, and finding community support. Whether you're a caregiver or supporting a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights into resilience, personal growth, and the complexities of the caregiving experience.
Kyle is a 3rd generation Floridian who lives in Sarasota Florida. He's a passionate single father of 2 boys, Adam and Kai who are 9 and 7 and he's an active Dad! Kyle coaches football, baseball and loves to take the boys camping, fishing and anything else outside! Kyle is a family man and was the 1st in his family to ever go to college. He works at Empathy where he serves as the Director of Employer Solutions. Kyle is active in his church and serves with the kids and "Next generation" - something he's very passionate about.
š„ In This Powerful Episode, Youāll Discover:
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A Male Caregiverās Perspective ā Kyle shares his unique experiences stepping into the caregiver role.
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Emotional & Logistical Challenges ā The reality of balancing work, family, and caregiving.
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Advocating for Loved Ones ā Tips on navigating medical decisions and insurance roadblocks.
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Lessons in Resilience ā How caregiving fosters personal growth and strengthens family bonds.
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Building a Support Network ā Why community and preparation are crucial for caregivers.
Social Media:
Website: hicleo.com
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kyle-daquanna/
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š” Why Watch? If youāre navigating caregiving or supporting a loved one, this episode offers real-life insights, hard-earned wisdom, and practical strategies to help you on your journey.
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Beyond the Uniform: A Military Wifeās Caregiving Journey
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"I forgot how to care for myself." - Tara Ross
In this powerful episode of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver, hosts Natalie and JJ welcome guest, Tara Ross to dive deep into the raw realities of caregivingāespecially within military families. Tara opens up about her journey from falling in love with John, a dedicated Navy submariner, to facing the life-altering challenges of his traumatic brain injury.
This emotional conversation unpacks the hidden struggles of caregivers, from burnout and emotional exhaustion to the fight for proper health advocacy. Tara shares how relocating to Ohio, navigating caregiving through COVID-19, and coping with personal loss shaped her resilience. She also reveals hard-earned lessons on self-care, setting boundaries, and maintaining personal identity while supporting a loved one.
š” In this episode, youāll discover:
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The emotional toll of caregiving and how to avoid burnout š§ š
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The importance of health advocacy and speaking up for your loved one š„š¢
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How COVID-19 reshaped caregiving responsibilities šāļø
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Strategies for balancing self-care while supporting others šāāļøāØ
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Why setting boundaries is essential for long-term resilience š§š”ļø
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The power of a strong support system and community š¤ā¤ļø
Learn more about Tara Ross:
Born and raised in the San Francisco Bay Area, Tara Ross split time between Marin County and the Haight-Ashbury district following their parentsā divorce. Growing up in a creative household, they were drawn to the arts, ultimately choosing graphic design as a career path.
In 2006, while attending community college, Tara met John. After a year of dating, he made the life-changing decision to join the Navy, enlisting in the Submarine Serviceāa choice that initially seemed to offer a sense of security from the dangers of military life. With a grandfather and uncle who had served, Tara was no stranger to the physical and emotional toll the military could take on both service members and their families.
The couple married in 2008, embarking on a journey that took them from Groton, Connecticut, to San Diego, California, where they built their life together amid the challenges and sacrifices of military service.
Social Media:
- Website: https://www.thecaregiverdoula.care/
- Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecaregiverdoula
- LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/tara-ross-ba220066
- Books/E-Book/Resource: How To Ask For Help - Free Sheets
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Itās Complicated! Navigating Caregiving and Difficult Family Relationships
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"He needed us more than we needed him." - Nick Gaylord
This is a powerful one! Hosts Natalie and JJ sit down with Nick Gaylord to explore the raw realities of caregiving, grief, and complex family dynamics. Nick opens up about the emotional toll of caring for his father, the struggles of managing a difficult relationship, and the conflicting emotions of loss, relief, and anger after his passing.
This heartfelt conversation sheds light on:
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The challenges of caregiving for a parent with whom you have a complicated past
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Processing grief, denial, and emotional burnout
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The importance of seeking support and sharing your story
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How forgiveness can lead to healing and personal growth
If you're navigating the ups and downs of caregiving, loss, or strained family relationships, this episode offers honest insights and real-life experiences that can help you feel seen and supported.
Learn more about Nick Gaylord:
Nick has always been driven to help others. With a talent for numbers, he built a 28-year career in pharmaceutical Quality Assurance, ensuring life-changing medicines reach those in need. Yet, he longed for a deeper connection.
In January 2024, Nick launched Our Dead Dads, a podcast that creates a safe space for grief, laughter, and open conversations about losing a parent. Inspired by his own complex relationship with his late father, he hopes to normalize discussions around grief, trauma, and healingāhelping others feel seen, heard, and less alone.
Social Media:
- Website: https://www.ourdeaddads.com/
- Twitter: https://x.com/ourdeaddadspod
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourdeaddadspod
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourdeaddadspod/
- LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ourdeaddadspod/
- YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ourdeaddadspod
- Podcast URL: https://ourdeaddads.buzzsprout.com
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The Hidden Struggles of Caregiving and Dangers of Burnout
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"I was feeling angry, I was feeling resentful." - Kate Washington
JJ and Natalie sit down with author Kate Washington to uncover the emotional, financial, and mental health challenges of caregiving. Kate shares her personal journey of caring for both her mother and husband, revealing the unseen struggles caregivers face, from healthcare system hurdles to burnout and grief. Kate and the sisters, JJ and Natalie reflect on their own caregiving experiences, highlighting family dynamics, systemic issues, and the path toward healing.
š¹ The emotional toll of caregiving
š¹ Navigating healthcare challenges
š¹ The reality of caregiver burnout
š¹ Finding joy amidst the struggle
About Kate Washington:
Kate Washington is the author of Already Toast: Caregiving and Burnout In America (Beacon Press, 2021) and a frequent speaker on the systemic challenges facing family caregivers. Her writing has appeared in The New York Times, TIME, Eater, Catapult, and many other publications. She holds a Ph.D. in Victorian literature from Stanford University and lives in Sacramento with her two daughters, one very friendly dog, and one very unfriendly cat.
Social Media
Website: www.kawashington.com
Twitter: @washingtonkate
Instagram: @washingtonkate
Facebook: facebook.com/katewashington
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/katewashington/
Books/E-Book/Resource: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/659447/already-toast-by-kate-washington/
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0807055522
Media coverage of Already Toast: https://www.beacon.org/Already-Toast-P1645.aspx
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A Career in Human Resources, A Calling in Caregiving
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"Look for the glimmers in caregiving." - Mark Wilson
Hosts JJ and Natalie sit down with Mark Wilson, a former corporate executive who left his successful career to become a full-time caregiver after his motherās Alzheimerās diagnosis.
š¹ Markās Caregiving Journey ā The emotional transition from executive to caregiver
š¹ Building a Support System ā How to create a strong caregiving team
š¹ Lessons in Love & Connection ā The power of family support and resilience
š¹ Solo Caregiver Advice ā Practical strategies for those navigating caregiving alone
Mark shares his personal experiences, from the challenges of balancing career and caregiving to the joys found in daily interactions. After his mother's passing, he became a passionate advocate for Alzheimerās awareness and patient rights, offering hope and guidance for caregivers.
About Mark Wilson:
Mark spent more than 20 years in corporate roles leading training, recognition and rewards programs, leadership and executive development with companies like PepsiCo, Taco Bell and yum brand.
After his mom, Lena, was diagnosed with Alzheimerās he left his career to take care of her time at home.
When his mom received the diagnosis, they were told she had roughly five more years. That was an aha moment where he decided he going to do everything to prove them wrong - she was meant to live a lot longer!
Love, learning, leadership, and getting results is makes āsecret sauceā and heās sharing the recipe today!
Connect with Mark::
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/mark-wilson-
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Media Producer Turned Caregiving Advocate
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"Dementia gave us that gift of closeness." - Katrina Prescott
In this compelling episode of The Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver podcast, hosts JJ and Natalie dive into the world of caregiving with special guest Katrina Prescott, a media producer turned caregiving advocate. š
Katrina opens up about her unexpected journey into caregiving, starting at a young age, and shares invaluable lessons on overcoming the emotional, mental, and systemic challenges caregivers face. From navigating the healthcare maze to advocating for better resources, Katrina's story is both eye-opening and empowering.
Katrina also sheds light on her personal experiences caregiving for individuals with dementia. She discusses the emotional toll, finding moments of joy, and how therapeutic fibbing can help reduce anxiety for both caregivers and those they love. Itās these insights that reveal the importance of shifting societal perceptions of dementia and creating supportive communities for caregivers.
šļø Key Topics in This Episode:
- Katrinaās unexpected caregiving journey and advocacy mission
- Navigating the healthcare system as a caregiver
- The emotional and physical toll of caregiving
- Finding connection, joy, and meaning in caregiving relationships
- How therapeutic fibbing can transform dementia care
- Building awareness and resources for caregivers everywhere
About Katrina:
Katrina Prescott loves a challenge. With a career as a media producer in New York and Vancouver, she found herself stepping into a new role: full-time caregiver. That life-changing shift made her see firsthand how little support is available for caregivers.
Caring for her mother through young onset dementia took Katrina in a new directionācaregiving advocacy and education. Now, as a Caregiver Coach, she draws from her experience, offering judgment-free guidance for others navigating this often isolating, stressful, and unexpectedly meaningful journey.
By sharing her story openly, she hopes to spare others from the challenges she faced, aiming to reduce suffering and unnecessary work for caregivers. Her style is clear, real, and relatable, offering insights that are both effective and manageable.
With her background in producing, Katrina co-created the web series Therapeutic Fibbing, which combines real-life caregiving scenarios with learning and a touch of lightness to connect with caregivers of those living with dementia. The series has resonated with over a million viewers, offering relatable insights. Her latest project, Things Not To Say To A Caregiver, uses humor to highlight the real-life challenges caregivers face, showing these situations in a way that feels both authentic and reflective of their experiences.
In 2023, Katrina was recognized with the Caregiver Advocacy Award from the Canadian Centre for Caregiving Excellence.
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Cultural Expectations in Caregiving: Family, Sacrifice, and Self-Care
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"It's OK not to know everything." - Tracee Loran
In this heartfelt episode of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver, hosts JJ, Natalie, and Tracee Loran dive into the unexpected twists and turns of caregiving. Tracy shares her deeply personal story of stepping into the caregiver role for her grandmother after a serious fall, shedding light on:
š” Family dynamics & cultural expectations
š” Balancing independence & caregiving responsibilities
š” The emotional toll & career impact of caregiving
š” Tips for self-care and preserving creativity as a caregiver
From navigating complex regulations to honoring her grandmother's rich history, Tracee opens up about the challenges, lessons, and growth that come with caregiving. She emphasizes the power of storytelling, the importance of self-care, and finding joy amidst the responsibilities.
Whether you're a caregiver, family member, or simply curious about the realities of caregiving, this episode offers valuable insights and inspiration.
About Tracee Loran:
Tracee Loran is a versatile actress, writer, producer, and content creator based in New York City.Her career took an unexpected turn when, during her first acting role, she was invited to join the writers room, which opened doors to numerous writing and production projects.
Tracee has appeared in national TV commercials for renowned brands such as HBO, FedEx, AT&T, Arbyās, and Sony. For the past six years, she has balanced her time between New York City and Mississippi, where she lovingly cared for her 97-year-old grandmother.
She is the creator of Black History Baddies, a celebrated video series with over 1.5 million views across social media.
Tracee was inspired to create the series during her time in Mississippi after reading about Claudette Colvin, an unsung civil rights pioneer. The series spotlights the achievements of Black women trailblazers who deserve greater recognition. Tracee passionately amplifies these stories to empower and inspire.
In this one-woman show, Tracee takes on multiple roles: she writes, acts, directs, edits, researches, and handles cinematography and costume designāall on her own.
You can connect with Tracee on YouTube, TikTok, X, and Instagram under the handle Tracee
Loran or visit her website at www.traceeloran.com.
Social Media
Website: https://traceeloran.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/traceeloran
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traceeloran/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traceeloran
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracee-loran-2712896/
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Living a Double Life as a Caregiver
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
"I finally found my purpose." - Adrienne Marioles
šļø Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver brings you another raw and relatable episode as hosts Natalie and JJ sit down with Adrienne Marioles, a millennial caregiver with a story thatās equal parts inspiring and real. Adrienne opens up about her leap from the hustle and bustle of New York City to the emotional rollercoaster of caring for her mom, whoās battling Parkinsonās disease.
Expect heartfelt confessions, a few laughs, and some seriously honest moments as Adrienne talks about the isolation, anxiety, and unexpected joys that come with caregiving. She gets real about how therapy and finding a supportive community helped her navigate the ups and downs of this journey.
Adrienne also shares her own experience of caregiving for her mom, touching on the emotional toll, anticipatory grief, and those tough decisions that no one prepares you for. Through it all, she shows how she turned her struggles into a mission to uplift and empower others in the caregiving world.
Itās a conversation full of warmth, wisdom, and a reminder that caregivers are never truly alone.
Adrienne Glusman Marioles is the host of the Young Life Interrupted Podcast, the premier show dedicated to young caregivers. As a professional speaker and advocate for Millennial caregiving, Adrienne shares her personal journey as an only-child caregiver for her mother, Hetty, who lived with Multiple System Atrophy (MSA) before passing away in 2020.
Adrienneās story has been highlighted in the Wall Street Journal's article "The Call to Care for Aging Parents Comes Sooner Now," and featured on podcasts like Next Question with Katie Couric. Her experiences have also been covered in Health magazine, the Toronto Sun, Vox.com, and more.
Connect with Adrienne on Instagram and Facebook @younglifeinterrupted to follow her journey and find support as a young caregiver.
Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/younglifeinterruptedpodcast/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/younglifeinterrupted
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrienneglusman/
Podcast URL:
- Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/young-life-interrupted-a-podcast-for-young-caregivers/id1578015965
- Spotify: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/young-life-interrupted-a-podcast-for-young-caregivers/id1578015965
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The Caregiverās Balancing Act: Family, Life, and Everything In Between
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"Let's not sugarcoat it; it's hard." - Dr. Jacob Kendall
In this episode of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver, JJ and Natalie chat with Dr. Jacob Kendall, who opens up about his life-changing experience as a caregiver after his fatherās health crisis. Itās a conversation filled with heartfelt stories, relatable struggles, and powerful insights into the rollercoaster of caregiving.
Jacob shares what itās really like to juggle the emotional and practical challenges of stepping into a caregiving role, all while trying to keep up with lifeās other demands. Natalie, JJ and Jacob dive into the importance of family dynamics, planning ahead, and how multi-generational living might just be the future of caregiving.
This episode feels like a conversation with old friends as they tackle the messy, rewarding, and sometimes frustrating realities of caregiving. Itās packed with tips, hard-earned lessons, and a reminder that youāre not alone on this journey.
Social Media:
Website: https://jacobevanskendall.com
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacobevanskendall/
** Caregiver Action Network Caregiver Help Desk offers free support to family caregivers via phone, chat, or email Monday through Friday, 8:00 am - 7:00 pm Eastern. Get answers, resources, support group info, or a listening ear. Visit www.caregiveraction.org/helpdesk/ or call 855-277-3640.**
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Triumph Over Grief Through Community Love
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"You can bring back the color and the light." - Kelci Jager
Kelci Jagger shares her powerful and emotional story of overcoming tragic loss and grief through the support of her community and finding power in living in the light. Her incredible journey chronicles a series of tragic events including a dangerous accident with her two sons and her husbandās heart-breaking leukemia diagnosis. Losing a loved one can be one of the most painful experiences we go through in life, and it's often hard to imagine how we can move forward without them.
If you're struggling with grief or loss, Kelciās story is an inspiration in perseverance and love.
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About Kelci Jager:
Kelci Jager is a Certified Life Coach, Grief Coach, Registered Nurse, and Author of the book āA Million Miracles and the One That Never Cameā and found herself navigating the challenging terrain of grief when she lost her 40-year-old husband to leukemia. Left to pick up the pieces of her shattered life as a solo parent to their four sons, Kelci faced the fear of her children losing her too. However, her determination to RISE and thrive became her driving force. With a blend of professional expertise and a deeply personal journey as a widow and solo parent, Kelci possesses a strong foundation and a unique perspective. She is passionately committed to providing support and guiding others on their grief journey.
Links:
Website: RISEwithgrief.com
Social Media:
Facebook: www.facebook.com/kelci.calljager
Instagram: www.instagram.com/kelci.jager/
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kelci-jager-6a3788a0/
Buy The Book āMillion Miracles That Never Cameā
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Sister Confessions 2024: Jingle Bells, Leaky Bladders, and Swiss Cake Rolls
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
In this holiday episode of Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver, we bring humor, honesty, and reflection to our caregiving journey over the last year. Join us as we look back on the highs and lows of caregiving, with no topic off-limits!
Natalie discusses the launch of our new Care Forward initiative, which connects individuals in need with local resources, while JJ shares a heartwarming moment baking brownies with our momāa reminder of both progress and challenges. We also dive into deeper, more complex topics, including anticipatory grief and Jasonās ongoing health concerns.
As always, we balance the tough conversations with some light-hearted fun. The episode wraps up with a "lightning round" where we recount our most challenging, proud, and funny caregiving moments, including the story of our mom stockpiling Swiss Cake Rolls and Cokes at the nursing home.
Looking ahead to 2025, we're excited to continue supporting caregivers with more podcast episodes, caregiver retreats, and ongoing efforts to make a difference in the caregiving community.
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Turning a Mess into a Message with Christina Keys
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
Christina Key's life brimmed with success and vitality. But fate had different plans in store for her. An unexpected phone call shattered her idyllic existence, thrusting her into a whirlwind of chaos and uncertainty. As her mother's health hung in the balance, Christina's role transformed from a thriving tech professional to a devoted caregiver.
Little did she know, this was just the beginning of a journey that would test her resilience, challenge her spirit, and uncover depths of strength she never knew she possessed. Get ready for a captivating story filled with triumph and heartache, where each twist and turn will keep you wanting more.
In this episode, you will be able to:
- Unearth the unique hurdles family caregivers frequently meet and strategies to suitably navigate them.
- Discover the vital role of a supportive community in bolstering a caregiver's experience.
- Grasp how to balance caregiving tasks with essential self-care to maintain well-being.
- Immerse in inspiring tales evidencing the transformative power of supportive connections for caregivers.
About Christina
Christina Keys pursued the American dream: a successful career, travels, financial stability, and happiness. However, everything changed on March 16, 2013, at 3:42 when her mother suffered a life-changing stroke. With just a 1% chance of survival, Christina shifted from a career woman to a devoted caregiver. Over the span of three years, caregiving left her financially, emotionally, mentally, and physically depleted. Doctors even predicted she had just six months to live due to the stress of caregiving. Faced with a crucial decision, Christina chose to not only change her own life but also help other struggling caregivers. She transformed her personal struggle into a mission through her work with "Loving Them Forward," a local nonprofit she co-founded and now presides over as president. Additionally, as the Director of Community Growth for caregiving.com, she leads a team of nearly 200 caregiving.com Champions, fostering positive changes for caregivers across the US. Christina dedicatedly cared for her mother from 2013 to December 2022 when she passed away, and she continues to support her ex-boyfriend, whom she began caring for in 2019.
Connect with Christina
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Unexpected! Finding True Love in Caregiving
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
Charisma Sydnor's path crossed with Cole's at a rehab center following his teenage spinal cord injury; their professional rapport blossomed into romance and they wed in 2020. Taking over from his mother, Charisma adapted to the comprehensive caregiver role, focusing on fostering independence for Cole while ensuring their connection thrives beyond her caregiving responsibilities. They openly celebrate their life together on social networks, challenging preconceptions about disability and relationships. Their shared narrative delves into the seamless transition from dating to matrimony, weaving in the complexities and dedication involved in caregiving. Charisma speaks to establishing a healthy balance of duties and intimacy, highlighting continuous dialogue, self-care, and an optimistic perspective as cornerstones of their unique partnership. She emphasizes that a disability is not a hindrance, but rather a unique aspect of a vibrant and fulfilling life.
About Charisma:
Charisma Sydnor, 29, has lived most of her life as a native of Richmond, Virginia. Before becoming an entrepreneur, she pursued her masterās in Occupational Therapy at Shenandoah University.
The success of her and her husbandās business led her down a new and exciting path where she was able to use her platform for a broader purpose.
Together they started their vlog to bring people into their lives, their relationship, to answer some questions about how they navigate the world with some of the behind-the-scenes stuff people typically don't see, and hopefully raise awareness surrounding accessibility and dating in a wheelchair.
Outside of their channel, Charisma uses her Instagram to share what it is like being a caregiver to her husband, as well as tips and tricks to maintain a healthy mind, body, and soul while caring for someone.
Connect with Charisma
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/happilycharisma/?hl=en
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charisma-sydnor-96632411b/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA5Zfb-OOm7eDHHa8iu9izQ
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Caregiving Wisdom Beyond His Years: Lessons from a 16-Year-Old Trailblazer
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
This weekās episode gives us a powerful and insightful look into the life of Aditya Akella, a 16-year-old caregiver for his younger brother with autism. Aditya's story is one of resilience, responsibility, and a deep commitment to his family. From navigating cultural differences in caregiving between India and England to balancing his academic and social life, Aditya's experiences offer a rare and valuable perspective on the challenges and triumphs of being a young carer.
Aditya demonstrates a level of wisdom and maturity that belies his young age. He eloquently articulates the importance of understanding the unique needs of each young carer, rather than making assumptions or providing one-size-fits-all solutions. Aditya's advocacy efforts, including speaking at the House of Lords and participating in a documentary, further highlight his dedication to raising awareness and creating positive change for young carers like himself.
Aditya touches on the importance of self-care and finding balance as a caregiver. He shares his personal strategies, such as spending time with his beloved dog and indulging in the occasional video game or hot chocolate, as ways to recharge and maintain his own well-being. Adityaās story serves as an inspiration to other young carers, reminding them that they are not alone and that their experiences, though challenging, can also be a source of strength and personal growth.
About Aditya:
A self-described āregular teenager in Englandā, Aditya is interested in cars, public speaking, sports and politics. He is a proud older brother for his younger brother, age 11, who has severe autism, ADHD, and is non-verbal. Aditya share, āA lot of carers fall into the trap of feeling insecure or restricted by their role, though being a carer is more of a launchpad than it is a wellā.
Connect with Aditya:
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aditya-akella-349297267/
Blog: https://akellatech.blogspot.com/
** The sisters proudly partner with the Caregiver Action Network. CAN's Caregiver Help Desk offers free support to family caregivers via phone, chat, or email Monday through Friday, 8:00 am - 7:00 pm Eastern. Get answers, resources, support group info, or a listening ear. Visit www.caregiveraction.org/helpdesk/ or call 855-277-3640.**
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When "I Do" Means Caring Through Illness: A Story of Devotion
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
Marty Schreiber has dedicated his life to advocating for Alzheimer's patients and their caregivers. As the former governor of Wisconsin and author of the acclaimed memoir "My Two Elaine's", Marty draws from his own deeply personal experience as a caregiver for his wife of 61 years, Elaine. For eight years, Marty cared for Elaine in their home as her Alzheimer's progressed, but he now admits he was unprepared for the physical and emotional toll it would take. Marty candidly shares his struggles, from trying to keep Elaine in his world to nearly working himself to exhaustion. He also opens up about difficult decisions like placing Elaine in assisted living and the guilt he still feels over not supporting his children through the process. However, Marty channels his regrets into wisdom, urging caregivers to accept help, join their loved one's reality, and focus on living fully themselves to best support their person.
Through humor, heartache, and hard-won insight, he offers invaluable insights aimed at aiding fellow caregivers to embrace support, understand the dual realities of their loved ones, and nurture their own well-being for more effective care.
About Marty:
Former Wisconsin Gov. Martin J. Schreiber is an award-winning crusader for Alzheimerās caregivers and persons with dementia. Reaching audiences nationwide at live events and through various forms of media, Marty uses humor and compassion as he shares lessons from his ongoing, decade-plus journey as a caregiver.
His speaking tour takes him to conferences, civic organizations, senior communities, libraries, and more around the country. He has given more than 300 presentations since launching his awareness campaign in late 2016. Whether in Texas, Idaho, New York, Missouri, Florida, Ohio, or closer to home, caregivers tell Marty that his message encourages them and hope that they can manage their challenging situation.
Martyās book, My Two Elaines: Learning, Coping, and Surviving as an Alzheimerās Caregiver, is winning acclaim from caregivers across the country. It was rated as the No. 11 āBest Alzheimerās Book of All Timeā by bookauthority.org and was named to Caring.comās list of āBest Caregiving Booksā of both 2017 and 2018.
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Renovating Lives: How Renovation Alliance is Transforming Lives through Home Renovation
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Kendall Cloeter's passion for affordable housing and community revitalization shines through in her work with the Renovation Alliance. As a self-described "social worker by trade," Kendall brings a deep understanding of the challenges low-income homeowners face in the Roanoke Valley and a commitment to making a difference.
Under Kendall's leadership, the Renovation Alliance has grown from a small group of 50 volunteers rebuilding just five homes 25 years ago to an organization that now aims to serve 100 homes annually. Kendall's dedication to preserving affordable housing and empowering homeowners to age in place with dignity is genuinely inspiring. Through a combination of volunteer labor and skilled professional partnerships, the Renovation Alliance tackles a wide range of critical home repairs, from simple tasks like installing grab bars to more complex projects like HVAC replacements.
Kendall's insights into the impact of the Renovation Alliance's work are both heartwarming and eye-opening. By preserving homeownership and the equity that comes with it, the organization is helping to address issues of generational wealth and social justice. Moreover, the Renovation Alliance's focus on prioritizing the needs of older adults, individuals with disabilities, veterans, and single-parent households with young children underscores their holistic approach to community revitalization. Kendall's passion for this work shines through as she shares the stories of homeowners who have regained their independence and sense of pride in their homes while strengthening the fabric of the Roanoke community.
About Kendall:
Kendall Cloeter, a native of Roanoke, Virginia, is deeply connected to her community, where she now raises her family. Holding a Master of Social Work degree, Kendall discovered her passion for affordable housing while serving in AmeriCorps with Renovation Alliance, the organization she proudly rejoined in 2023. Her work in AmeriCorps ignited her commitment to preserving affordable housing and enhancing housing quality.
During her time in Richmond, Virginia, Kendall spent five years addressing housing and homelessness issues with the Virginia Department of Housing and Community Development. This experience broadened her understanding of housing challenges and strengthened her dedication to making a difference. Returning to Renovation Alliance, Kendall applies her expertise to support her community and advocate for improved housing solutions.
Kendall resides in Roanoke County with her husband, two children, and their dog, Franklin.
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Unbreakable Bond: How a Father's Love Transcends Adversity
Confessions of a Reluctant Caregiver
Thom Deleuw's story reflects dedication and a father's love. After a 34-year career in law enforcement, Thom found his true purpose when his son, Jack, had a serious motorcycle accident that left him paralyzed from the chest down. Thom became Jack's full-time caregiver, viewing it as a "willing obligation" that highlights their strong bond.
Thom's journey has been marked by resilience and adaptability. He prepared for the ānew roleā by taking online courses and utilizing the VA caregiver support program, ensuring he was equipped to provide the specialized care Jack required. Despite the challenges, Thom maintains a positive outlook, emphasizing that the work doesn't "seem so bad" when you're caring for someone you love so deeply. His willingness to take on the role, rather than outsourcing it, speaks volumes about his unwavering commitment to his son's well-being.
Throughout their journey, Thom and Jack have faced setbacks, including a second motorcycle accident that left Jack paralyzed from the sternum down. Yet, their unbreakable spirit shines through, with Thom expressing pride in Jack's determination to regain his mobility and independence. The duo's shared sense of humor and camaraderie have been instrumental in navigating the ups and downs, demonstrating the power of a father-son relationship rooted in unconditional love and support.
About Thom:
Thom was born on December 8, 1954, in Norfolk, Virginia, and was raised in a middle-class family where hard work was valued. After spending his early years in Virginia, he moved to Florida for two years before returning to North Carolina, where he graduated from high school in Greensboro in 1973.
With aspirations of becoming a police officer, Thom joined the Army in November 1973 and attended military police school. His first duty station was in West Berlin, Germany, during the time the Berlin Wall was still up, which proved to be a significant adventure.
After three years, Thom returned home, briefly pursued a golf career, and worked as an assistant golf pro before becoming a police officer in Portsmouth, Virginia. In 1984, he moved back to North Carolina, where he began his long and rewarding career in law enforcement, eventually meeting his wife while on duty.
Thom's life took another turn when he became a dedicated father to his son, Jack. Their bond deepened over the years, especially after Thom gained full custody when Jack was 12. Jack followed in his father's footsteps and enlisted in the Army, embarking on his own journey that included both triumphs and challenges.
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Caring Through Chaos: A Journey with Frontotemporal Dementia
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Faith, Culture & Raising a Child with Special Needs
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Holding On & Letting Go: A Caregiverās Emotional Journey
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When Caregiving Finds You: Navigating Alzheimerās & Family Care
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The Reality of Caregiving: Culture, Family & Technology
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Military Service to Autism Advocacy: Maureenās Confession
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The Juggle: Kyle Daquannaās Journey as a Caregiver, Father, and Advocate
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Beyond the Uniform: A Military Wifeās Caregiving Journey
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Itās Complicated! Navigating Caregiving and Difficult Family Relationships
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The Hidden Struggles of Caregiving and Dangers of Burnout
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A Career in Human Resources, A Calling in Caregiving
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Media Producer Turned Caregiving Advocate
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Cultural Expectations in Caregiving: Family, Sacrifice, and Self-Care
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Living a Double Life as a Caregiver
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The Caregiverās Balancing Act: Family, Life, and Everything In Between
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Triumph Over Grief Through Community Love
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Sister Confessions 2024: Jingle Bells, Leaky Bladders, and Swiss Cake Rolls
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Turning a Mess into a Message with Christina Keys
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Unexpected! Finding True Love in Caregiving
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Caregiving Wisdom Beyond His Years: Lessons from a 16-Year-Old Trailblazer
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When "I Do" Means Caring Through Illness: A Story of Devotion
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Renovating Lives: How Renovation Alliance is Transforming Lives through Home Renovation
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Unbreakable Bond: How a Father's Love Transcends Adversity
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