Unlicensed

UN-aligned with Shae Primus

Jillian Newton Season 5 Episode 2

In this week’s episode of Unlicensed, Jill is joined by professional matchmaker and dating coach Shae Primus for a deep dive into the tension between chemistry and compatibility. Shae breaks down why two people can feel an intense spark yet still be completely unaligned, and how that mismatch can create confusion, frustration, and even heartbreak.They explore the dangers of relying on chemistry alone, what it looks like when chemistry or compatibility is one-sided, and why so many women are taught to chase excitement instead of emotional safety and shared values. Shae also explains which aspects of compatibility matter most for long-term happiness, and how dating can help women better understand themselves, ultimately making it easier to recognize the partner who fits, not just the partner who feels thrilling. Consider this your soft launch into therapy!