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Unconditional Love: The Teenage Years
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Hello to all. Welcome to Disic Care Network. I am Joyce Banning and I will be your host for this absolutely invigorating robust lifestyle show. I want to thank each one of our listeners that have tuned in live today and the ones that will be listening to the recording on the podcast. I am just so very grateful and thankful for each and every one of you. And you are all in for a very invigorating show today, as I have with me a Diva that has submitted her story about her mother and her daughter her and her daughter's relationship in our mother's, our daughters, Divas That Care book that is soon to be released the first part of May, right before Mother's Day. So how exciting. So, Cheryl, could you please introduce yourself to our listeners today?
SPEAKER_02Certainly. My name is Cheryl Ashton. I grew up in a small town of Tulsomberg here in southwestern Ontario, Canada. I've been married 22 years to my little high school sweetheart. We have two beautiful daughters, and we also now have two beautiful granddaughters. I'm an aesthetician, I'm a life coach, I'm a wellness coach, and I love to make the world laugh and just live life to the fullest.
SPEAKER_01Oh, I love it. Oh girl, you have such a full plate, and oh I love it. The fe the feminine energy runs high in your family with two daughters, two granddaughters, and yourself. I can just I can feel all the energy that's coming from all of you. That is I love it. That's incredible. How vibrant you are today. Oh, I love it. And love to make the world a better place. Oh, that is that is what DivaZ care is all about. And I just love that that women are coming together to help to do that. It is just beautiful.
SPEAKER_02I firmly believe we as women we need to learn to lift each other up and rise rather than tear each other down.
SPEAKER_01Oh, how true that is. That is that is said so very well because it women do not need to be torn down by an anyone and to lift each other up is what it's all about. Oh, that was beautiful. I love that phrase. Well, Cheryl, what was your inspiration to submit your story of you and your d daughters in our mothers, our daughters book for Divas That Care?
SPEAKER_02Okay, well, um, as you know, I work as an esthetician at my job, and I've shared my ups and downs with my troubles that I went through with motherhood uh with my boss, and my boss heard about possibly entering into uh submitter entries because she do, I had a pretty powerful story with my daughter, and um I thought about it and I talked to my daughter, and she's like, Mom, right away, I've always loved to write, um, ever since I was a child. And my whole thing with writing this was when we were going through our ups and downs, some parts of that I felt like I was so alone. You know, you hear everybody talk about all the wonderful things about being a mother, and when you have a child that is, you know, rebelling or or you know, giving you a good run, you ask yourself, what am I doing wrong? Is it me? Like, is there something wrong with me? Like, sh could I change something? And I just thought, you know, I just wanted to talk about not just the good things, but the real things that can happen. So if I could help one mother out there not feel alone when their child is rebelling, because the teen years, in my opinion, they were the hardest years of being a mom altogether. At first I thought, you know, when the baby doesn't sleep through the night, those were hard, but those are actually easy because you know where your child is. When they become a teen, they grow strong little personalities, and it's great because, you know, in some ways you know that child's gonna stick up for themselves, but it's hard when you both are stubborn and you gotta learn to grow together rather than grow apart, and these children don't come with manuals, and I feel that we as mothers we are all trying to figure it out and just putting a story out there to give other mothers hope that it's they're doing it right. You just gotta really listen and grow together, and that was a big thing I I especially learned when I became a life coach because I learned to listen to understand, I didn't listen to respond. And that was a game changer in my growth as a mother and just figuring it out and supporting other moms so they just essentially they didn't feel alone.
SPEAKER_01Oh, wow. Oh that wa that was just so very well put and I love how listen to understand and not just listen to respond. How true that is and how if we could all do that in so many in all circumstances it would be such a different world. Because usually the first thing that yeah, first thing that comes to mind is how am I gonna respond to that? Rather than why are they saying that or trying to understand where they're coming from. Oh, yes, I love that. And I love when you said you both had the s you both were stubborn, I say you were both very strong willed. You were both two uh two feminine minds that were strong willed to terms with each with each other on that and for sure. Yeah, definitely.
SPEAKER_02And like a big thing for me as well was when we get older, we're at a different mindset. We get here because we've gone through so much growth. When kids are teenagers, they're still trying to figure it out, and I I found myself I had to dig deep and think back to my mindset when I was a teenager, right? Because where I'm at now is so different to where I was then, and I had to relate that way to some of why my kid would rebel and and like it was a journey. It was a it was a very big journey, but I I'm I'm blessed that we we both figured it out and we grew together and it all comes down to the unconditional love that I talked about in my story because you know, do we love unconditionally or do we love with conditions? And I believe within myself, um, by being there with m for my daughter through every hill, valley, curve, and testament that she went through. Like I was tested, but there was never a condition, and I loved that she knew she could always come to me, and that's essentially I believe that all mothers want that. It's just sometimes we get stuck in our vision of what we think our children should be instead of what they want to be.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, how true that is. We like to kind of mold them in how we'd like 'em to be, and they're an individual with their own unique talents, their own unique gifts, and in those teen years I often feel they're trying to find that. And that it's tough. Those teen years are tough on them and tough on the mother.
SPEAKER_02Most definitely. Oh.
SPEAKER_01But I love grow together and with unconditional love. I had just seen here lately a a post that said that true love is truly unconditional love, and I'm like, Oh, how true that is. Oh Well Most definitely. You have shared so much already, Cheryl, and I know the listeners are already saying, Oh my, I I need to read this story. What is one more golden nugget that you would like to share with our listeners today that will spark their interest even more to want to read your story along with all the other mother-daughter book mother-daughter stories in our mothers or daughters book?
SPEAKER_02I find a great golden nugget is definitely when you hear all these mothers and daughters' stories, just you know, realizing like we're all just trying to figure it out. There's not a one size fits all. It's not a we're all the same, we're all different, unique individuals trying to figure it out, trying to find our way. We all don't come with manuals. So like just not feeling alone, y in some of these stories, some listeners, readers, they may see themselves there and just being able to know, like from myself when I shared my story, um, just to let one mom know that she's not alone meant more to me than anything. And I just think people reading this when they see all the different stories from ladies all over, I think that's just a great inspiration and it may just spread hope.
SPEAKER_01Mm-hmm. Oh, oh yes, I love that to spread hope through these stories, because that is so true because sometimes they can feel that they're the only one going through anything like this, and they read their s read these stories and realize that there is hope. There's others that have had these challenges and gone through it and come out on the other side even more vibrant and beautiful than they were before. So yes, oh that was beautiful. I love to spread the hope.
SPEAKER_02That's that is most definitely and and we as women like we are emotional creatures. We hold baggage of emotions of all sorts. And I just feel like like sticking together, lifting each other up, feeling hope, inspiring each other, it can really change lives.
SPEAKER_01Oh yes. Oh, how very well said. Oh yes, Cheryl, that is beautiful. Well, Cheryl, this has just been a fantastic interview with you. I loved you sharing to our listeners about your story that you have put in in our mothers, our daughters book. And I know you have so much more to share. I would love to in the future have you back on Robust Lifestyle Show and share more about being a life coach, a fitness, health, and wellness coach, and and just different things about that to help inspire other women. Would you be willing to come back on Robust Lifestyle Show sometime and share?
SPEAKER_02Most definitely. I would love that.
SPEAKER_01Oh, awesome. Oh, I am excited. Well, we will definitely connect. And I just want to thank you again, Cheryl, and I want to wish you a very magical rest of your day.
SPEAKER_02Thank you so much, Joyce.
SPEAKER_01You are so welcome. And I would like to thank all of our listeners who listened to this incredible show with our amazing diva, Cheryl Ashton, who has submitted her story about her and her daughter in Our Mother's, our daughter's book with Divas at Care. And the book is on right now for pre-sale on Kobo, Amazon, and Absolute Publishing. So be sure and go to one of those three places and check it out and get your pre-order in. So when it is ready to go, you will have this book in your hand to be able to read it and see other women's stories with their mothers and their daughters and find the hope in yours. So have a wonderful day to all of you. And share all share this show with all your family and friends, and check out all the other hosts and their shows on divasetcare.com. Have a magical day. And remember what Cheryl said. Lift each other up rather than tear each other down. And listen to understand, just not listening to respond. So some great golden nuggets in those two phrases. And have be kind to all, give your animals a hug, and share your love with them until we connect again on Robust Lifestyles. Stay strong and healthy.
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