What Happens When Your Marriage Loses All Sexual Desire (How To Fix It) | Late Night Date Night

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, here with my wife, Lizzi.

In this episode, we talk openly about something most couples never say out loud — what happens when your marriage loses all sexual desire. After having kids, breastfeeding, exhaustion, mom guilt, dad frustration, and emotional disconnection, our intimacy disappeared. And instead of talking about it, we both went deeper into resentment, avoidance, and escape.

I share the moment I realized I didn’t want to live in a sexless marriage — sneaking off to watch porn while Lizzi was upstairs taking care of our baby. Lizzi opens up about feeling like sex did nothing for her, feeling touched out, losing herself as a mom, and feeling like I was just “another child” she had to take care of.

We talk about emotional connection, integrity, trust, honesty, leadership, and the exact steps we took to rebuild desire from the ground up. This is the real truth about marriage, sex, and intimacy after kids — not the Instagram version.

If you’re a husband or wife feeling disconnected, unseen, or stuck in a sexless marriage, this conversation will change you.

TOPICS COVERED

• Sexless marriage after kids
• Porn and honesty in marriage
• Mom guilt and losing identity
• Dad frustration and emotional distance
• Emotional connection before physical intimacy
• How breastfeeding and exhaustion affect desire
• Rebuilding intimacy through trust and integrity
• Scheduling sex and date nights
• Why men must lead emotionally, not just physically
• How to stop repeating toxic marriage cycles

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