The Marriage Pattern No One Warns You About | Late Night Date Night

Welcome back to Late Nate Date Night. I’m Sergio, and I’m here with my wife, Lizzi.

In this episode, we talk about one of the hardest questions couples face but rarely say out loud: what’s actually harder, marriage or divorce?

We share the real moments when our relationship almost ended before it even began. From taking our rings off in the kitchen, to planning separate lives, to realizing that walking away felt easier than staying and doing the work.

This conversation goes deep into resentment, pressure, communication breakdowns, and the unhealed wounds that don’t disappear just because a relationship ends. We also share how creating a shared vision, learning to manage our own triggers, and taking responsibility for our inner work completely transformed our marriage.

If you’ve ever felt like you were living as a “single married mom,” felt unseen at home, or wondered if leaving would finally bring peace, this episode is for you.

📌 What We Cover

• Is marriage harder than divorce
• Moments we almost walked away
• Taking off wedding rings and planning an exit
• Resentment and emotional disconnection in marriage
• Pressure to provide and entrepreneur stress
• Stay at home mom burnout and feeling alone
• Why unhealed wounds follow you into divorce
• Communication breakdowns and misunderstandings
• How creating a shared vision saved our marriage
• Choosing growth instead of escape
• Why doing the work is harder but worth it

🔥 Helping men married to stay-at-home moms become better husbands.
⚡️Helping sole-provider husbands win at home
💡 Transform your marriage, transform your business.

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