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Join educator and sports mentor Dr. Scott McNeal as he, collegiate student-athletes, and veteran athletes engage in personal, somewhat unscripted monthly conversations about life and faith at the intersection of soul and sport.
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#59 – Where Are They Now? - "$12" Dylan. Anatomy of an Affair.
Special Episode
Returning to studio 1812 after a long absence is Dylan “$12” Barnum. Educator, husband and father of two. And finally, and perhaps most importantly, a man of faith – a Christian.
Dylan and I go back a few moons. That is, years. Back to his early collegiate, student-athlete running days at a D-II school in MO where he was a MIAA conference champion in the 110-meter hurdles.
To learn more about Dylan check out Podcast Episode #27 entitled – White Shorts Controversy.
In our episode today, Dylan and I reflect on a very serious and personal topic – the anatomy of an affair (marital infidelity).
So, let’s get into the head and heart space of our guest, Mr. Barnum.
Quips and Quotes:
- “Think long term if a friend you know is in an affair.” It will take time to walk with him or her.
- “I was insane.”
- “God would understand.” (ex. of affair fog thinking).
Personal Warning Signs:
- Unconfessed sin.
- Started with thoughts.
- Porn.
- Keeping secrets.
- Dishonesty.
- Perceived personal and job insecurity.
- Isolated (limited community).
- Demonize spouse.
Marriage Solutions:
Beyond Affairs. https://www.beyondaffairs.com/about. Brian and Anne Bercht. Highly recommended.
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