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#59 – Where Are They Now? - "$12" Dylan. Anatomy of an Affair.

Dr. Scott McNeal

Special Episode

Returning to studio 1812 after a long absence is Dylan “$12” Barnum. Educator, husband and father of two. And finally, and perhaps most importantly, a man of faith – a Christian.

Dylan and I go back a few moons. That is, years. Back to his early collegiate, student-athlete running days at a D-II school in MO where he was a MIAA conference champion in the 110-meter hurdles.

To learn more about Dylan check out Podcast Episode #27 entitled – White Shorts Controversy.

In our episode today, Dylan and I reflect on a very serious and personal topic – the anatomy of an affair (marital infidelity).

So, let’s get into the head and heart space of our guest, Mr. Barnum.

Quips and Quotes

  • “Think long term if a friend you know is in an affair.” It will take time to walk with him or her.
  • “I was insane.”
  • “God would understand.” (ex. of affair fog thinking).

Personal Warning Signs:

  • Unconfessed sin.
  • Started with thoughts.
  • Porn.
  • Keeping secrets.
  • Dishonesty.
  • Perceived personal and job insecurity.
  • Isolated (limited community).
  • Demonize spouse.

Marriage Solutions:

Beyond Affairs. https://www.beyondaffairs.com/about. Brian and Anne Bercht. Highly recommended.

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