Christian Dating Talk
Christian Dating Talk
Building a Home on Sacred Foundations
Understanding the path to becoming a godly wife requires personal growth, spiritual closeness to God, and a deep understanding of biblical principles. This episode dives into essential aspects of preparing for marriage, focusing on identity, purpose, submission, and community support.
• Opening prayer for those affected by natural disasters
• Importance of individual growth while preparing to become a wife
• Building a strong relationship with God
• Emphasizing purpose and identity in Christ over societal pressures
• Characteristics of inner beauty and humility
• Understanding biblical submission and love
• Cultivating patience, self-control, and effective communication
• Engaging with mentors and community for growth
• The significance of prayer for personal preparation and future spouses
• The necessity of preparing for marriage rather than just a wedding
Hello, hello, hello. How's it going? Hey, my beautiful Covenant crew members, my beautiful people. I love y'all so much. I've been praying over you guys as we enter into this new year.
Speaker 1:I want to start this podcast out a little different today. I want to pray for California and everything that's happening in that region. Father, god, in the name of Jesus, I just ask that you just would go and find every one of our amazing sisters and brothers that are out in California, that have been displaced, that are just brokenhearted, that are just really just feeling such grief and just such going through such sorrow right now. God, father, I pray that you just would send angels to surround everyone impacted by this devastation, by this natural disaster. God, I pray that you just would send provision, god, that you will restore what the enemy has stolen and that you would bring all comfort. It is in your name we pray, amen. And so I just want to start the podcast off just letting you guys know we're thinking about you guys, we're praying for you guys and we just really know and hope that God is going to restore and God's going to right what's been wrong, and the Lord is going to just really. The Lord just has a big heart for his people and I just want you guys to know that we're praying with you, and I just want you guys to know that we're praying with you. And so today, as we move forward into this podcast, we're going to just jump right into this.
Speaker 1:The subject today is how do you become a wife I'm speaking to the women today how do you become that wife? And so becoming a godly wife really begins with your own growth spiritually and mentally and emotionally, and you got to make sure that while you're growing, you align with biblical principles about marriage. And I just gotta be real, real quick, especially being an American, that I can speak for Americans. I'm a black American myself. Um, as an American, we honestly don't have a clue. We honestly are raised in like a Jezebelic society where we're trained to be these boss queens Get up and go get it. You get it on your own. We're not really I can't speak for 100% of us, but I know a large majority of us are raised in a way that does not prepare us for biblical wifedom. That's what I could call being a wife Like you see, kingdom. I call it wifedom. I know my little words, but I just want to deal with. How do you become a wife? What do you do in the waiting as you becoming that wife? Because the Bible is very clear he who finds a wife meaning she was a wife before he got there, so that means she was preparing before he arrived.
Speaker 1:We're going to talk about that today, and so we want to start by embracing God's vision for a wife in marriage. Do you know what that means? Have you spent any time in the Bible seeking the Lord about what exactly does that mean? If not, I want to encourage you to do so. Okay, and so let's hop into it.
Speaker 1:The first thing you want to do, when you are preparing to be a wife, like when you are becoming that wife and you're doing and putting things in place you need to be developing a strong relationship with God. And putting things in place, you need to be developing a strong relationship with God. You are a queen and a high priestess of your house. As a wife, you are called to pray and intercede and cover. As a wife, I've been a wife going on almost six years in March. It's been probably the most rewarding, but also one of the hardest things I've ever done in my life, because you're called to submit to a husband with a vision and he may not know what the vision quite is.
Speaker 1:And so when your husband I'm just going to be real, because my husband, when we got together, he kind of knew what God wanted him to do, but he was running from it and in running he lost the vision and he didn't really know what to do, and so we were just kind of out there willy nilly. And if you're like me, you're like a visionary, you're like an entrepreneur type, you got like a like really strong, you really you want something, you need something to do. When you don't have no mission to work towards to help your husband build on, you will begin to make him into a project, you will begin to overanalyze, to tear apart, to begin to dissect him. You will find yourself in a place where you are irritated, you are frustrated, you begin to doubt yourself, you begin to want a refund on your marriage. I'm just being real. And so the reason I'm saying all this is because the number one thing that kept me able to stay covered while my husband is working out his ability to lead and figuring out what his mission of his life is and he has it now, but initially he had him.
Speaker 1:It was my deep relationship with the Lord. With the Lord, I had to go cling to the Lord, and so I had to learn how to pray, because most times when you see wives just always bickering at their husbands, always nagging at their husband, it's because she ain't praying. I'll tell you right now if you're not praying, what are you doing? Most times, you nagging or you listening to the serpent. There's usually only two voices that are talking. When a woman is not listening to her husband and not in prayer, it's either the serpent or herself, and that's a very dangerous place to be. Because you are so wise, women, we are very wise, we're very capable. We just really bless. I'm just going to be real. The Lord has really blessed women to be able to do so many things and have so many abilities, and it's a gift.
Speaker 1:But it can also work against you, especially if you don't have strong roots in your relationship and development of intimacy with the lord. And so that's the number one thing you got to do while you're preparing to be a wife, and so you want to seek god first. So in your like, when you're in the waiting room to see a doctor, are you waiting for a concert to start, you begin. It's the same way when you're waiting for to be that wife, to actually become wedded to a spouse. You want to use that time. Yes, you were anticipating the wedding, but you want to use that time to really identify who you are and whose you are. Your identity should be rooted in Christ, not a spouse, okay, and so this is why it's so important because I see it, I see it happen so many times y'all where a woman will get married and that's been her dream, her hope, and she will get in it and find out like dang, like this is not what I thought it was going to be.
Speaker 1:And so you need to spend time in prayer, in Bible study, in community and in worship. And if you ain't doing that while you're single, I'm telling you, when you add a husband and children, you ain't going to do it, then neither. And so I need for you to really start over. Hit the reset button. If you are single and you're waiting for God to send you a husband women, even for you, men get your butt in there and pray. You need to make sure you're developing a strong relationship with the Lord, and you need to begin that first, by seeking God first.
Speaker 1:The second thing you need to do when developing your relationship with the Lord is embrace your purpose. Do you know what God called you to do? Do you have an idea of what God called you to do? And granted, as a wife, I'm going to be real with you. Let me just shoot you straight, real quick. Continue on your goal, continue building your purpose.
Speaker 1:But, like I always say, you don't want to go at anything in life as a believer with a closed off fist or a loosey-goosey. You want to live in what I call the tension of life, meaning like you don't have your hand super tight in a wad, but you also don't have it just just kind of limp. You have to have it extended. And there's tension there because you got to be willing. When God tell you it's time to put down, time to pivot, can God trust you to put down what he asked you to carry? Can God trust you to pivot when he needs you to do something different?
Speaker 1:It was so hard for me y'all to pivot when I was working in a law firm on my way to become a lawyer and the Lord had me to put that down. That was so hard. I was like this is so dumb and I didn't realize if I wouldn't have been had ears to hear the Lord, I would have missed my husband because I went to that interview. That this was, this was a story. If you, if you follow the podcast long enough, you know the story. But if not, basically God said God orchestrated me meeting my husband and because I had developed that intimacy with the father, I had heard his voice, the Lord began to shift my entire life and one day, out the blue, I got a call for an interview to do international business with an amazing company in Tennessee. I went to the interview y'all to tell the folks no, and the CEO told me hey, don't give me an answer right now and go pray about it, because he said he had prayed the next, the Lord, who to hire? And the Lord said hire Faye. And so I went home and I prayed and the Lord confirmed it over and over and over and over.
Speaker 1:And if I wouldn't have ears to hear and I was so bent on getting what I want, which was to become an attorney, I would have missed my husband, I would have missed my amazing four additional kids, I would have missed the lifestyle God has given me to this day, and so you must embrace your purpose. But be okay with the pivots of life. Be okay when God say put down pivot, turn, go left, go right. Listen to him. You won't be able to hear him if you don't have a relationship with him. See what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:And so you want to walk in your God-given calling, focusing on becoming a virtuous woman described as in Proverbs 31. That should be something you read and strive to. Not that you're going to be perfect, but you need to be working on that. Okay, and I understand you know you're busy. You may even sometimes be sad, don't even feel like even dealing with it. But I want to encourage you Don't lose heart in waiting. Do not lose heart, do not give up. Trust God, seek God, let God know how you're feeling, but don't just sit there and wallow in your sorrow. Neither. Go travel, go enjoy yourself, get some friends, get a life.
Speaker 1:Bro, are you sitting there just waiting for a husband? Oh, he ain't found me yet, but you ain't even going outside. You don't even getting yourself cute. You wearing bonnets to the airport. You don't never know where your man gonna find you at, and so you need to be looking good, smelling good, feeling good. That mean, get up, get out, get active, okay, and so let me keep going. Next, you wanna cultivate your inner beauty and so you want to look good, feel good and all that good stuff we just talked about. But you need to be focusing on your spiritual qualities, like humility, baby, because you're going to have to be humble as a wife, especially if you're coming in as a strong woman of God.
Speaker 1:I'm here telling you flat footed right now that you're gonna have to, like, deal with any pride. Gotta gotta die any insecurities. Gotta die any of that strong, independent woman stuff, that jezebel that we all grew up on. And if you from america, this song independent, that i-e-d-e-p-e-n-t-e-n-t. Do you know I can't spell it, but you know, you know that song. That song was sowing a seed of Jezebel into us and we didn't even realize it. And now it's birthed.
Speaker 1:All these single moms who can make a lot of money but can't keep a man you see what I'm saying. It's birthed in the harvest of that seed has literally destroyed an entire generation of wives who don't even have a clue on what submission look like who. Every time you think about serving a man or submitting to a man we literally almost like break out in hives. And so you got to unlearn all that. You got to be transformed by the renewing of your mind and it ain't going to be easy for you, woman of God, and you got to begin right now to allow God to deal with that stuff. It's going to show up in your marriage and possibly destroy it, but we're going to go before the enemy now in the name of Jesus, and come against every lie, every word, curse, every demonic agenda or attack that's going to come after your future marriage and your family and we're going to send it to the pits now. In Jesus name, god, send your host to begin to defend these women of God and Lord, I thank you for raising up a generation of righteous wives who would love their husbands, who will serve their husbands, who will be who you call us to be in the earth for our families. I thank you, lord, lord, for bringing the wife home, for bringing the woman home to be seated back on her seat of influence in her house, not in manipulation, but of influence, where she's able to help cultivate and give birth to the mission and vision on her husband's life. In Jesus' name, god, I thank you that she'll be there to protect and nurture her children, that she will be the one that will sow love and sow integrity, and sow character and sow holiness into their life so they will see God the way he needs to be seen. I thank you, lord, for what you're doing in the earth. Hallelujah, let's keep going.
Speaker 1:So, number two you need to be studying biblical marriage principles. One you got to understand submission, baby Submission. We a lot of times don't understand what that is and that's a whole nother episode we're going to deal with. But biblical submission is about a mutual respect and support, as seen in Ephesians 5, 22 to 33. And some of you women I know I had to do this too. I had to go and eat, sleep and breathe that scripture verse, ephesians, chapter 5, verse 22 to 33. Because it's not about being inferior or less than it's about aligning as a team under God's leadership. And God has the hierarchy of a family and of a marriage already picked out. And God don't care about your feelings when it comes to what he wants, his will, because his will works. Your feelings don't. And so this is why you got to go become a student of what submission really looks like, because that's what messes us up.
Speaker 1:Every time I do a video y'all or I get to get a chance to teach or talk, I can see Jezebel stand up in different women, and even in men too. I can see her when that spirit tries to stand up, because when I talk about submitting, I always get the woman. Are you talking about serving him, submitting him? Why wouldn't you want to serve the man that you chose to be with? Why wouldn't you want to submit to the man that God put in your life? Why wouldn't you want to serve and submit? That's what Jesus did, and so we're going to deal with that later. I ain't going to even get into that. I can feel myself going on a tangent, it's okay.
Speaker 1:And so you want to also learn to love sacrificially, and so that means you got to learn to literally illuminate and just ooze the love of Christ by being patient and forgiving and having grace in all your relationships. You better practice that mug right now, because I'm telling you being married is about quick to forgive. If you don't know 1 Corinthians 13, that, what love is? Patient, love is kind, get that scripture out right now and you read it every day and let it become a part of you, because that's what it patient love is. Kind. Get that scripture out right now and you read it every day until they become a part of you, because that's what it's like being a wife.
Speaker 1:That man that you are dating, that you are engaged to, that you want to date, that ain't the man you're going to marry. Okay, because he got to take a different role in your life, and so you got to understand that. You're going to get a chance to smell when his breath stank. You're going to get a chance to smell when his breath stank. You don't get a chance to see him at his total worst. You're going to be like he was so fine, but right now he getting on my last nerve. You got to be okay when he's learning how to lead, how to not try to be his mom and allow him to make those mistakes and you not throw it in his face. That's a whole nother conversation.
Speaker 1:We're going to deal with this down the line, and so these are things you need to be working on. How do you begin to work on them? You begin to build what I love to tell my other white friends hey, honey, you got to build your fruit so big. Your fruit of the spirit got to be so juicy boy, them fruits got to be. Juicy meaning big meaning. You got lots of patience. You got lots of love. You got lots of gentleness. You have long suffering. See what I'm saying. You better, you got to work these things out. You got to allow them to be tested right now. So in what areas of your life can you begin to grow? In that Some of y'all. When you're driving in your car, somebody cut you off baby, you about cuss them out. Cut them off too. You got to get that under control. That's going to help you become that wife. Okay, so let's keep going.
Speaker 1:You also got to understand your role. You got to begin to study the scriptures of what a helper is. Start at Genesis 2, 18. And you got to understand what a partner who builds her home is, according to Proverbs 14, 1. And so if you're a person who's disgusting, you don't have to clean. Guess what that ain't going to cut it. Go learn how to get a system of decluttering going.
Speaker 1:If you can't cook your girl meat, I could not cook, and so I had to go learn my little six recipes, and I'm for real y'all. I can only cook six recipes and my husband love them too. And so go learn how to cook. Go learn how to clean. Go learn how to change your diaper. Go babysit, go. If you don't have no maternal instincts right now, go learn what that look like. Okay, you need to go and spend time with the elders women. Go spend time with wives, go have these conversations, go see what their life look like, so you can begin to learn and understand the role of a wife, the role of a wife, y'all.
Speaker 1:It's probably one of the most beautiful things I ever understood in my life, when I finally got into scriptures and I understood the wife is like an example of the Holy Spirit in the flesh, like the wife is literally like a living, breathing example of what the Holy Spirit is in all of our life. Holy Spirit, he's a gentleman and, granted, he be bold too, don't get me wrong. He don't mind telling you what it is, but he's a helper, he's a teacher, he's a nurturer, he's gentle. He will talk to you so sweetly, even when you know you out of order. Holy Spirit will be like hey, get it together now. And so if you begin to learn about Holy spirit, you will begin to learn about what your role is is as a wife, and when I began to see that correlation in the scripture, I cried so hard because I was like, wow, I've never even understood what a true helper is. There's a whole nother episode, so we will keep on going.
Speaker 1:The next thing you got to do is work on your character, honey, meaning practice, patience and self-control. This is something you're going to need. Your fruit of the spirit got to be juicy baby. Get the fruits tight, because you're going to need them. Those fruits of the spirit are your secret weapon and for you, very powerful women who are like boss, queen type, who like go-getters, your special fruit you need to be working on is meekness. That's how you're going to be able to be a beautiful bride who builds up her house, who honors and loves her husband, who nurtures her children, who also builds a business empire. Meekness, power under control, honey. And you got to learn seasons and how to prioritize and how to balance. And you got to learn to seek God, to prioritize and how to balance, and you got to learn to seek God and stay on your face. Y'all. I cannot wait to share with y'all, especially as more people get married, more people start dating. We built it, we built out this community and I'll be able just to really see and pour into you. That's why y'all be joining the the covenant crew, baby, because we're going to be having some real conversations. Honey, if you love this podcast, you need to join that membership like ASAP, because we're about to raise up a generation of wives who will go home and do what God called us to do, who will go into the marketplace and even into ministry and dominate for the kingdom. I'm just so thankful to be a part of what God's doing in the earth. Thank you, lord.
Speaker 1:And so you got to be teachable and humble, honey. You got to be open to growth and feedback and learning to resolve conflict in a Christ-like way. You can't be popping off Every time somebody do something you don't like. You can't be snapping off, going crazy Okay, you need to deal with that right now. And you also can't shut down. You can't just shut down and don't want to talk. That right now. And you also can't shut down. You can't just shut down and don't want to talk. I understand pulling back, but you got to learn how to be humble. You got to learn how to resolve conflict peaceably Okay. Also, you got to be encouraging One of your number one roles as a wife.
Speaker 1:Your husband's going to get beat on, going to beat up, going to be struggling, going through stuff. He's going to be trying to figure it out. He's going to have so much pressure on him. You are his number one cheerleader. It's either one of two things You're going to either be like Lot's wife, you're going to be like Job's wife, or you're going to be like the God told us to be, the virtuous woman who builds her husband up, who don't tear down her home. And so you got to begin to develop the habit of speaking life and affirming others, especially before your future husband get here. Okay, the next thing you want to do is cultivate practical skills like building a home. That means learn how to create a peaceful and nurturing environment, whether that's through cooking or organizing, budgeting, playing with your kids. If you're a mom, now learn what that means to build a home.
Speaker 1:Like I love. When people come to my house they're like Faye, it's so much peace in here, it's so much love in here. Kids come to my house and they don't want to leave because it's so much peace, it's so much love. I am very intentional about what I allow to come into my house, what I allow to be set in place, the energies and the um and I'm not into all that new age crap, but there are certain energies like anger and all that, all that aggression stuff. We don't let that come up in the house. Get that spirit up out of here. We deal with our emotions, we be honest, but we live peaceably because I want my man coming home, I want my kids coming home. I don't want my kids, when they grow, they burn off and leave and never come back. See what I'm saying. I want my kids to love being home. My teenage daughter, that girl, love being home. Baby, that girl be like mama. I ain't going nowhere, baby, I'm going to be with you, and to have a teenager say that to you, I feel like that is huge for me.
Speaker 1:Okay, you also need to learn how to be a good steward, because, whether you know it or not, you are the manager of the home. Your husband's going to go out and provide and protect and cover, but, more so than not, you're going to be the one managing the home, and so what you got to do is practice managing finances. You got to be resourceful. Learn how to minister the resources of the house. And you got to have timely time, wisdom, how to manage your family's time. These are going to be very critical to your marriage. Also, you got to be effective in your communication. Okay, you got to develop strong communication skills, including active listening and resolving conflict biblically. That's something that I had to learn, that y'all, because I pop off in a minute but that is not of god, that is not of the lord, and you gotta learn how to be quiet and listen to what someone's saying and not always get defensive or shut down, have a little temper tantrum, okay. Next thing you gotta do to prepare to be that wife is prepare your emotions, meaning heal from those past wounds, grow in emotional maturity and practice forgiveness. These things need to be worked out right now. Not that you're going to be a hundred percent, but these are things you can be practicing on and growing on right now.
Speaker 1:Okay, the next thing you need to do is live out Proverbs 31 principles by being industrious. Work hard in your career, in your ministry, in your business, while maintaining balance. You can work hard, go hard, whatever God call you to do. Boss, queen, do it. Also, be generous. Show compassion and generosity to others, modeling Christ's love. You got to model that, okay.
Speaker 1:The next thing you got to do is be wise. You got to seek wisdom in your words and actions and build up. You got to begin to build up a future. So you start saving now, you start being intentional with your resources, with your money, with your time, with even how you look. Take care of your body. Some of you need to go get some vitamin D and some magnesium and some different minerals and take care of your body, because if you're not taking care of your body, your temple that's a house for your babies.
Speaker 1:If you want to be a mom, see what I'm saying. So you got to begin to ask God how do I store every part of me? And that's a part of becoming that wife. Next thing you got to do is seek godly mentorship and community. And we got one right here the covenant crew, the covenant collective. We are a group of people who love Jesus, who want to date and raise up families in a kingdom way. I'm looking to help raise up at least a thousand wives who will become an army of wives, who will be warrior princesses as unto the kingdom of God, who will go home and restore balance, who will begin to raise up children who would honor God, who would love and serve and submit to their husbands as unto God in regards to what he do or don't do. That's what I'm raising up, and so if you want to be a part of that, click the link in the bio and join today. Join right now, and so you need to begin to learn from married women.
Speaker 1:I'm not just telling you what I think I know. I'm telling you what I know. I've been a single mom before. I've been single before and I've been married, happily married, going on six years. I don't know everything, but guess what? I got disciples. I got people who disciple me and pour into me and speak into my marriage and sow into my marriage and help me become a better wife. You can do this too. You can have what you're dreaming of in your heart, and I will help you get to that point. I can't promise you God will send your husband tomorrow, but I can definitely help you become a wife. And so you got to engage in a community meaning like serving your local church, building relationships and friendships. You got to understand what healthy, non-codependent type relationships look like. You got to begin to build those real relationships, okay.
Speaker 1:And lastly, you need to be praying for your future marriage. Right now, sit in prayers before you, asking God to do a work in your husband, asking God to keep your husband okay, you got to begin to pray for your future spouse and also for God to shape you into the wife he's called you to be. Ask God for wisdom and guidance in preparing you for the role of the marriage. Most of us spend so much time preparing for a wedding when we need to be preparing for marriage, preparing for what God has for us, and so I want to encourage you in your waiting. Do not lose heart. Stop settling for temporary snacks before the entree gets here. Stop letting men come and sleep with you and deposit their seed into you and you, entertaining all this stuff and ended up with nothing.
Speaker 1:Don't go out there and become no single mom if you're not a single mom when you don't have to Wait on God. There's a better way, and I know it might be terrifying. You might be scared Like man. What if you don't have to wait on God? There's a better way, and I know it might be a terrifying man. You might be scared like man. What if God don't never come through? What if I'll never get married? That's the devil lying to you, trying to get you anxious and get you, stop you from thinking critically and seeking God.
Speaker 1:So you think you can take it into your hands and you try to use control and manipulation and use your body to get what you want, which is going to lead you to where I was Homeless, single mom, broken, busted, disgusting ugly looking crazy. And that don't have to be your story. And so I want you just to know that God has you in the palm of his hands. He, he, you're marvelous and beautiful. In his sight, you are the apple of his eye, woman of God, and as you prepare and become that wife, even now I pray over you. Now that God will begin to move in you mightily, woman of God, you will find a group of young women you can disciple. You will find community outreach programs, whatever you can sow into and begin to serve and begin to really just live out your singleness. I don't know if you realize, but right now, in your singleness, this is a gift.
Speaker 1:I know it may seem like a curse. I know it may seem like a curse. I know it may seem like dang, dang man. Everybody has got somebody. I'm the only one out here with nobody.
Speaker 1:No, honey, you are in a space where you get to seek God completely. You ain't got no responsibilities Before I'm able to do anything. I got to make sure my husband's covered. I got to make sure my kids are covered. I got to make sure everybody's taken care of, and by the time I get the opportunity to do this, usually I'm very tired Because I have to give all I got to my family to make sure they're good. And I got. It's a bunch of us, it's five kids and a husband okay.
Speaker 1:And so I want you to understand right now is your time to travel. Right now is your time to take the money and resources that God's giving you right and you can do what you want to do with it right now. Like literally I'm not playing you can literally do what you want to do right now with your money. And, granted, you need to be budgeting and be a steward, but I can't do that. I got a man to answer to. I got God to answer to and my husband to answer to, because he's my covering now. And so why are you crying about not being in a marriage. Think about it.
Speaker 1:And this is another question I got for y'all who told much y'all want to be married, because most of y'all want to get married, just because y'all want to have sex. I'm just being honest, most of y'all just want to have sex and God is the one who gave us that. God gave us a desire. Nothing wrong with it. But what I'm telling you is think about it. Sometimes we want to have sex with a man, but we don't want to give the leadership role, we don't want to give him the driver's seat and move over to the passenger seat.
Speaker 1:Why is it okay for you to have sex with a man or get emotionally intimate with a man, but it's not okay for you to put your money in the same bank account with him? That's a problem, right? That means your priorities are jacked up and you need to go and have a real conversation. And so we got to do some real conversations. We're going to deal with some big, big things. We know up in here. We be real, we be honest, we be practical and we get to it.
Speaker 1:Because I'm not, I'm just. I'm just on a mission, y'all, to raise up women who will honor God, who will honor their husbands and serve him and love him and help him become who God called him to be husbands and serve him and love him and help him become who God called him to be, but at the same time becoming a masterful wife who can pray, who can lead her kids, who can lead other women back to what God called them to be. I don't know if y'all realize it, but a whole generation is lost. There's a whole generation that don't understand what it means to have both their parents in the house. Don't you understand that? There's at least two generations that don't understand what it means to have both their parents in the house. Don't you understand that? There's at least two generations that don't understand that? And I feel like God's doing the work right now to reunite and reunify homes, and it starts with us All right, woman of God, man of God, I love y'all. Like, subscribe, share this with a friend. Y'all take care.