Christian Dating Talk
Christian Dating Talk
Is It God or Just a Vibe?
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Dating with discernment means questioning whether a connection is truly from God or merely a vibe based on chemistry and emotions. Kingdom-minded singles must prioritize confirmation over feelings to avoid counterfeit relationships.
• Not every connection is a covenant—some are just temporary vibes
• Christians must ask whether a potential partner pushes them closer to God or into compromise
• Seek legitimate confirmation rather than manufacturing signs to justify what you want
• Look for fruit, not just feelings, when evaluating a potential relationship
• Avoid emotional fornication by setting proper boundaries with time, touch, and talk
• Stop looking for perfection in a partner—Jesus is already married to the church
• We attract what we are and what we tolerate in relationship dynamics
• Healing personal voids is essential before pursuing Kingdom marriage
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hello, hello, hello. How's it going everyone? I've missed y'all so much. Welcome to today's podcast episode. Well, I just wanted to just touch bases, see how y'all doing. Thanks for all the fan mail, thanks for all the emails, thanks for all the love, thanks for purchasing the merch, thanks for purchasing the book 10 reasons whyasons why I Hate Christian Dating. Y'all have been killing it and I do apologize, I've been kind of I haven't been really putting out content recently, just because a lot of family stuff happening. But we back, we back and we live and we got a lot of great things that are coming.
Speaker 1:And so stay tuned, y'all. Stay locked in, stay tuned, because it's my heart to watch you become who God calls you to become, to watch you become a kingdom spouse. Be it, you are like God. I am a biblical woman waiting for my husband, or you are a man of God, a man of God who follow me too. God, I'm waiting for my biblical wife, and what Christian Day and Talk is all about is helping build and birth kingdom marriages.
Speaker 1:So welcome back to today's episode and we're going to hop into it. You know, if you know me, you know, and some of you have been following me for two years and I'm so thankful for you. If you know me, you know, listen up, we're going to just get into this because I got to teach y'all some stuff. Okay, I want you to ask this question because a lot of times I don't think you really sit in this question when you meet somebody. I want you to begin to ask yourself when you met somebody that you are potentially interested in, I want to know have you asked the Lord, is this you or is this just a vibe? Is this God or is it just a vibe? That's today's episode, and so, listen, you got to get real clear on. Do I know the voice of God? You got to get past all the butterflies, all that stuff, and you got to focus on more confirmation than you do chemistry, because the chemistry sometimes can make you throw you off a little bit, especially in a situation as far as dating, because, if you rolling with me, you know up front, we don't date to play, we date to mate. Okay, we're dating to be married one day, to be kingdom couples, to grow kingdom families, for covenant, and so you want to make sure it's not just about oh, he make me feel good, oh, she make me feel good. Oh, I'm having so much fun, but it's this guy, so let's hop into it. I got some notes over here. We're going to roll through this, okay.
Speaker 1:So have you ever met somebody and you instantly said, oh my God, we just clicked, we just connected. Oh my God, this is it. The connection was unreal. You're like man. This is amazing. I feel like this might be my soulmate. Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever felt that way?
Speaker 1:But then, three months later, you're in confusion and your peace is gone and you don't know and you're praying for clarity and you're like God. Is this someone that you really sent me clarity? And you're like God, is this the one that you really sent me? If that's where you at listen, that might just be a vibe. Okay, let's get to the scripture, cause you know me, baby, it's all about the word of God over here. Proverbs 14, 12 says there is a way that seems right to a man but in the end, leads to death. What is that saying? That's saying that not every door is from the Lord. Not every man that comes into your life is from the Lord. Okay, it's this.
Speaker 1:Okay, bro, you need to make sure you know the voice of God that you are checking and doing your due diligence in this dating arena. And I ain't gonna lie, y'all got it real hard out here. I ain't gonna even hold y'all. Y'all got it real hard out here. I ain't going to even hold y'all. Y'all got it real hard out here. And I'll be praying over y'all. I'll be praying that you remain steadfast. I'll be praying that you don't be deceived into a counterfeit when you wait on your covenant. I'll be praying for y'all because, my goodness, y'all, y'all got it hard. But guess what? God's with you. As long as God's with you, you're going to be all right. Okay, so not every connection is a covenant and we're going to stop going into a thing and turning that thing into oh, we're going to get married.
Speaker 1:You know how many times I've seen it where a girl, a lot of us Christian women we do this. You need to go get my book. If you do this, okay, 10 reasons why I hate Christian dating because I need to help you right here, cause this is how you will lose a good man. And y'all know I'm all about helping you get your man, but we're going to be crazy about it. Okay, A lot of times, as Christian women. I'm looking at the camera for y'all who listened to me on audio.
Speaker 1:If you go, go to the YouTube Christian dating talk, that Christian dating talk YouTube channel, if you want to see my face stare in your face, okay, a lot of times us Christian women, we'll see a man that's interested in us. He'll invite us a coffee. He'll maybe want to take you to lunch and you get on there and baby you is checking for every little detail. You like ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, what that mean. And you text your friends hey, hey, he just said this, what that mean. Hey, hey, hey, he just said this, what that mean. Hey, hey, he just said that, what that mean.
Speaker 1:Baby, relax, relax, take your detective clothes off, like like calm down, calm down. He just took you for coffee and you on that day and you can't even enjoy yourself and read the room and ask holy spirit, holy spirit, welcome into this space. Help your girl, because you're too busy playing detective. You're too busy already trying to plan out. In that five minutes you've been with him.
Speaker 1:Is this my man? And you're wondering why you always getting deceived. You're wondering why men be ghosting you. You're wondering why men be like you know what? I'm cool, I'm cool, I'm good, I'm cool. Could it be because you want them do too much with me? You want to never run you down the aisle real quick like you. He literally took you on one date and you already overhears talking about some. That's my husband.
Speaker 1:Baby, come pump your brakes. You ain't married till you're married. Baby, you ain't married until the ring on your finger in the contract is signed, period. I don't care and I don't care. Nobody say we not married until we marry. It's not covenant to his covenant.
Speaker 1:And and so until then, calm down, relax yourself, have fun, because if you do too much, I'm telling you right now he gonna run. And you ain't even checking to see if this is who God called you to be with. You was doing too much. And then don't let it be a little chemistry there. Oh my God, we really. Oh Lord, you trying to join a ministry, he in you trying to be in proximity and you trying to cook and clean for the brother. Come all the way down, come down, let him pursue you.
Speaker 1:I understand we are excited, but my goodness, don't do too much too soon. Baby. You're doing the most with the least. He ain't even met your girlfriend yet you already married him in your mind. You didn't totally parked your car and now you're mad when you see him over there talking to somebody else. But he don't belong to you. He is single till he's single. I mean he's single till he married you, hear me. And so he don't owe you anything. And it's your fault that you're in that predicament in your heart, because you did not ask Holy Spirit to come in to help you and you ran off on a thing before you even did anything. So you gotta we gotta really get this together.
Speaker 1:Okay, women of God, we gotta really chill out because we're doing too much, okay, and so not every piece is God's peace. You need to hear that. Like, not every connection is from the Lord, not every little piece of chemistry me, that's my man, or you brothers. Not every bad body I'm not talking about like a bad built body. I'm talking about, like, a woman with a nice body. Not everybody belong to you. You looking at the face in the body, oh my God, it's my wife. Calm down, brother, calm down. You need to be seeking God for show, because he who finds a wife finds a good thing. So so do you even know if she's a good thing. Can she really bring favor? Matter of fact, is she even a wife or a concubine? Okay, we're going to get into that a whole other episode.
Speaker 1:But, men of God, stop choosing wives based off their body, based off their good looks. I understand you just want to look good, but, my God, y'all need to calm down, because y'all out here picking wives because they're pretty, but they ain't got no fruit, they ain't got no power, they ain't got nothing to help you build a mission and vision on your life. And you wondering why you mad as a mug when you get married. You married. I was saying you're like bro, I don't know why I did this. Calm down. You know how many times I've seen men that marry women because of bodies, and they get in there. It's nothing but a body. You better get you somebody that got more than just a body. Okay, y'all getting me already. I'm already going off topic. I'm going to try to get back on.
Speaker 1:Okay, we're going to do another episode, don't worry about it. We're going to get back to that, okay, and so the next thing I want you to do to figure out is this God or is this just a vibe? Is you got to ask questions, okay, and I'm going to give you three questions. Three questions to ask. If you are unsure, okay, so how you feel in that moment? You got to really be in tune with Holy Spirit and if, for some of y'all, you ain't praying, you ain't in your secret place, you don't deserve to date no ways, because you have not been faithful to the Lord. Okay, let me just help you real quick, because if you're trying to be married, you cannot do this in your own strength. You must have the Lord with you at every point in time on this journey. And if he's not with you, I'm telling you right now you don't qualify. And if you do, it's going to be a train wreck. And so let's start there. You got to begin to ask God and really seek him. And I know it's scary, because what if God tells you, nah, I'll throw it back, how about that? It get real scary. It's like God, he got money. God, he love you. God, he be at church. God, he seem a little deep. And for my man, oh, she pretty, oh she be praying. Oh, she seem to be a good mother. You know, we be looking. We be like oh, I kind of see why I like her Y'all be having these little deep conversations, which I don't believe in all that.
Speaker 1:I don't believe you should have certain conversations until you, like you know some of y'all be doing too much on the first time, y'all being just going to coffee, you hear me, and you are already talking about things of the heart that you should not be unpacking in that moment. You're going to get there, but some of y'all do too much, too fast. You're doing too much. Slow your butt down because you're going to mess yourself up. And the reason I see a lot of women get into sexual immorality, a lot of men get into sexual immorality, it's because you're doing emotional fornication too fast.
Speaker 1:Y'all are all deep in these long drawn-out conversations and you're wondering why you're up there looking crazy. You're wondering, three months in you're like bro, what have I done? You're wondering why. Oh, now I got questions. Now I'm unsure. It's because you're doing too much. Calm down, calm down, seek God. So these are the three questions you got to ask yourself.
Speaker 1:Number one does this connection push me closer to God or pull me into compromise? Because what feel good to the flesh don't always necessarily push you close to the Lord. If you get what I'm saying sometimes, that flesh, baby, that flesh be on fire and you're like man. I just, I just like this. But is that really pushing you to the Lord or are you compromised? Are you now open to the enemy attacking you because you broke the hedge with your compromising fleshly self, because some of you need to repent. I'm just going to be real. Some of you need to repent. You know you having sex, you know you over there doing the most, you playing housewife, you cohabitating, you a concubine now. Oh, so that's what you want? You want to be a concubine, sir. Is that what you want? You don't want a woman that you can truly cover and lead, because you ain't leading her to the Lord Like well.
Speaker 1:You got to really get real and ask these real questions Are they pushing me to Jesus or to they self? And if they're pushing you to they self, that means they're pushing you into your flesh. They're pushing you to accept them and they're pushing you into your flesh. They're pushing you towards compromise. That is not your promise. That is a counterfeit. That's not a covenant. That's a counterfeit, okay, and so if you're praying less, if you're lowering your standards or battling with sexual temptation harder, then that might just be a vibe and definitely not a blessing baby, because that thing is going to take you up out of where you're supposed to be positioned in Christ, do you hear me? And so I'm a need for you, I'm a need for you to go repent, I'm a need for you to go ask the Lord. Lord, help me and I know it might be super scary to ask these questions to the king and really give that lordship. That's what I got in trouble at y'all, because I was like God, I trust you with my salvation, I trust you, you know, I trust you in a way, but I don't trust you, lord, to send no man, because I'm looking around and there ain't no options out here. Lord, I don't like him, I don't like him, I don't like none of them. They funny looking, I don't know, lord. And so I'm going to take this little part right here and I'm gonna do it the way I want to do it and I'm just gonna ask you to bless it on the back end, baby bye. I ended up a homeless, single mom looking stupid, okay, and so I need you to ask this question are they pushing me to Jesus or are they pushing me to themselves and if they push you into themselves. Are you willing to be like you know what? I don't think we should do this, because I love Jesus more and, yes, I want to be married, but I want him more and I need you to really get real about that, like for real. I know it's hard, I know you're like, oh, faith, that's a lot, but you got to get real about this. Do you want Jesus for real or are you just one of them, play play Christians? If you're a play play Christian, I'm telling you right now the end times is too close to be planned. You hear me? Let's keep going.
Speaker 1:Number two the second question you need to ask yourself is did God confirm this, okay, or did I just want this real bad? Yeah, I ain't gonna even lie. My baby daddy, I had several people be like Faye. They ain't it. They hit me with that after I had already fell in love, I had already made my life plans with this brother, and they was like Faye. No, I don't think this is it, bro. And I'm like, oh, y'all don't understand. He's really nice to me, like he's really awesome. Y'all don't see him. I see him, y'all don't see him. Woo, that was a bad mistake, baby. Oh my God, that was a terrible mistake, but I was not trying to get no confirmation. I was not trying to get no confirmation, baby, I'm being real with you. I want it. When I want it when I want it, I got my man. Let's do it. What are we doing? Okay, we can fix this later. We're going to have a little sex, okay, but we'll fix it, we'll clean it up later. You see what I'm saying? Just dumb.
Speaker 1:If you are having to make all these justifications and make all these little, you gotta rearrange the scripture to fit your situation. You know you compromise and you know that's just a vibe. Okay, we gotta get real y'all in dating you. When you get to the point where you able to be real, oh, there's so much freedom in just being honest. God, I just want it. I want it, lord, I just want it back. I know you ain Lord, I just want it back. I know you ain't say I can have it, but I really want it. And I'm in a soul tie now, lord, and I don't know what to do. You got to go and really get honest and then you got to be willing to know.
Speaker 1:Are you manufacturing signs of this person being a man of God or being a woman of God? Are you too invested emotionally? See what I'm saying? That's why I be teaching too much time, too much touch, too much talk you about to be in fornication emotional fornication and that's going to lead to the bedroom period. Okay, I don't care what. Nobody tell me. I know people get mad at me for that, but I don't care because I know how the enemy like to play and I don't and I'm not going to sit there and play with no fire.
Speaker 1:Some of y'all you get in trouble because you have to play with the flame. You enjoy, like, like, how close can I get? So, how much can we kiss so, so, so, how far can we go? You asking them questions? You already out of order. You don't deserve a day. Go sit down and get your heart right. Simple facts, okay, okay.
Speaker 1:So you, you saw so literally say like you saw something. And the lord maybe you know in that moment you thought the lord told you something, but then you realize down the line you just wanted it real bad. Okay, you gotta really ask yourself did god, did god, did you tell me that? Or is this just presumption? Am I just being presumptuous in my leading, in dating, okay. So a lot of times, people and I'm slowing down because I want you to really think about this in this moment a lot of times, people, I get people saying this all the time oh God said it's my husband. Oh God said. God said, god said, god said, Did God say that? Or is God silent and still back there where he told you to wait and you just moved on and was like, well, I think God changed his mind. I get so sick and tired of hearing people say what God said with no confirmation. Stop doing that, because you're just setting yourself up. You're setting yourself up, just be honest.
Speaker 1:Maybe I spoke out of presumption, maybe it was me, because there's actually four voices that speak to you all the time, and now it's five. Let's get real. Now we got a little chat GPT, we got a little AI talking to us all the time. Most of us can't think for ourselves because now we want to go and ask hey, little chat, what you feeling? I call chat GPT, little chat. Okay, don't worry about me, worry about yourself, I'm just kidding, but you have the voice of God, you have the voice of the world, you have the voice of yourself. And you got the voice. Don't look at my nails. Mind your beats. No mind, mind. Okay, but you have a voice of God. You got the voice of the enemy. You got the voice of the world. You got the voice of yourself and now you got the voice of AI, okay, technology voice which we can say the world. Put that in the world.
Speaker 1:But you got to really really get like, get very, very sure about is it the voice of God? And ask some real questions, okay. So number three is there fruit or is this just a feeling? Okay, because, according to my Bible, matthew 7, 16 says you will know them by their fruit, and so if the man is fine but inconsistent, charming but spiritually lazy, sis, is that fruitfulness? I'm just saying Okay, because a lot of times we get swept off our feet and caught up by what he's saying, by how he look Me and you too, by how she look and what she's saying. Baby, check the fruits, look at the fruit. The fruit tell you what the root look like. And so we got to get real y'all. These are just three questions, but you need to go seek the Holy Spirit and ask him. What else do I need to be asking you, lord, reveal to me what you need me to see about this person. And, granted, let me go and put this right here, because I already know. I already know I got this type of person that follows me. I know I can already hear you.
Speaker 1:We got people who are looking for Jesus. Listen, listen, jesus is married to the church and it's a metaphor. Okay, jesus is married to the church and it's a metaphor. Okay, jesus is married to the body of Christ. And so a lot of times, us women, we doing too much as it comes to our little checklist. Right, we got a checklist. We like oh, oh, oh, and I'm not saying I have a checklist, don't get me wrong. Okay, get your checklist.
Speaker 1:I always tell my mentees, but you can join my mentorship in my community. It's the greatest and most amazing online Christian daily I mean Christian singles community period and you're going to get more connection with me. You're going to get more classes, you're going to get more understanding. You'll get healing, real talk. We're going to help you get ready and get prepared to get married, and so join it. I'm going to put the link in a bio, but join that membership. It's called date different. Why? Because we ain't doing it the worldly way, baby, we doing this kingdom way. I'm going to show you how to get there. Okay, but a lot of times I tell my mentees to you pick 10 things, 10 things.
Speaker 1:Go on onto your list for what you want in your future spouse. The top five are non-negotiables, okay, non-negotiables. And don't even play with me. Some of y'all be like I can date him, he ugly. Stop playing. Put he need to be fine in my eyes on there somewhere.
Speaker 1:Okay, okay, and it need to be on the top, because I don't get mad at you if you shallow, because I'm just going to be honest and y'all going to be like Faye, you was a mess, but it is what it is. I didn't want no ugly man and you shouldn't want no ugly person either. Because guess what, when the rubber meets the road in your wedding day, you hear what I'm saying After the wedding day is over. That's what I meant. When the rubber meets the road and you mad at them, sometimes some good looks come in handy. You're like, oh, you're cute, I can let that slide today.
Speaker 1:And so you need to put what you want, and I'm going to encourage you to be real, because some of y'all do too much. Because some of y'all be looking for Jesus and Jesus is already married to the church and so he going to be human. And so five non-negotiables and five we can work with, we can play around with, okay, and so make your list and stick to that, because some of y'all you want too much. You want what you not Guess what You're going to attract who you are. So if you want somebody who got it all together, do you have it all together? Because if you do this, I'm telling you right now mark my word you're going to be single for a very long time.
Speaker 1:I got friends in my life who did this, who was doing too much, who had all this stuff they wanted and there's nothing wrong with high standards, but, baby, are you that? And because of those standards and what they were taught in that moment, these women are now 50, 50 and single. And I don't know about you, but the reason you own christian dating talks because we want a man, we want a wife, we want a husband, okay, and so you gotta be real. So I'm gonna tell you again stop doing too much. What gets us in trouble as Christians in dating? We do too much.
Speaker 1:We need to calm down, have fun, breathe, breathe, take a breath. Oh my God, 10 things on a list. You ain't looking for Jesus. You're looking for a human that you can help him build and you can come alongside and y'all can build something together. Looking for humans, okay, not Jesus, okay, I had to put that out there, y'all. So y'all just go with me, okay.
Speaker 1:Next, is this God or just a vibe? You got to ask yourself why we confuse vibes for God, okay, so a lot of us confuse vibes with God because we never healed our voids, you've never done the work, and so you don't need a husband. You need to be healed. A lot of times, we're looking for somebody to do for us what only God can do, and when you get married and you have not done that work, you begin to place the weight of eternity on that person and it crushes them and you are let down, they're hurt and let down and it just causes a whole situation. You end up in divorce court. Divorce in the kingdom of God is ridiculous because we do this type of stuff. We do this type of stuff right here, and so you don't need a man of God. You need to become the man or woman of God before you meet that person. You hear me. Ok, and so God has to be first.
Speaker 1:And I've been married six years now and I was a I was a crazy young girl back in the day. Uh, I dated the world way. I got. I became a Christian and I was dating, you know, straddling the fence and then I finally got together and I dated the kingdom way. And I'm telling you right now, if I wouldn't have taken that period to heal and do that work and get it right kingdom way, baby, tell me right now, baby, I'd be divorced. I'd be divorced so quick. Tell you right now, I'd be gone. You hear me.
Speaker 1:But because I allowed God to do the work in me, I didn't fall for another vibe. I had my husband found me because I had the fragrance of a wife. I did the work necessary. I learned how to get over past traumas. I was no longer carrying around anger and hatred towards men because of how baby daddy treated me. I was no longer carrying around I'm an independent woman, hear me, roar. No, I was carrying around a fragrance that invited a strong man of God to want to come and partner with me as a lifelong partner. You see what I'm saying A lot of times.
Speaker 1:We especially if you're in America, talking to my Americans right now you are in America. You got to understand. We are the freest women in the world, but that freedom has like webbed itself with a Jezebelic culture where we want to make strong men, a guy, into Ahabs and that don't work. We have to get ourselves in position and be ready to submit. Okay. And so if you got that strong hear me roar type personality, you got work to do. Got work to do. It's going to be painful, it's going to suck, but guess what? Then got to be able to trust you with a man of God. And if you are a man of God that follows me and I appreciate you for following me you got work to do.
Speaker 1:If you're Ahab, if you're super passive, if you don't have a strong walk with Jesus and you're waiting for your wife, your woman, to help you do it, if you don't have yourself together we're able to provide, protect and to lead, you're not ready to be nobody's husband. Okay, if you can't deal with rejection, because a lot of men of God they see women they really are attracted to but they are so afraid of rejection. You got to get past the insecurity, bro. You cannot keep moving this way. A lot of times you just want to be lazy, you just being passive, and I understand it's hard out here for y'all men of God, and I be praying for y'all, baby Ooh, I be praying for y'all. But you got to do work.
Speaker 1:If you still stuck and you see a mighty woman of God that you are interested in, but you want to talk to her because you are afraid, there is a spirit of rejection, there is an orphan spirit on you, there's a spirit of fear, and I'm going to break that off for you now, in the name of Jesus, so that you can move forward and build and walk in that purpose God called you to walk in. You got to really do the work, okay. And so we attract what we tolerate. You see what I'm saying you attract who you are. That ain't no law of attraction stuff, that's Bible, okay. And so you got to learn to discern. You got to learn to be very discerning.
Speaker 1:If you're still dating from desperation, loneliness will always look for confirmation. Did you hear me? If you're still dating from desperation because you're lonely, loneliness always looks for confirmation and so you're not going to be checking, asking God. You're going to be oh my God, friend, what he said, this, what this mean, that's because you got work to do, baby. And so that's my time for today.
Speaker 1:Y'all, I'm not going to go too long, but I want to invite y'all let's talk about it the inside the date different community, and so if you are wrestling with this, you like, hey, I want to learn how to do this. I need you to hear me. You are alone. You are not alone. There's over 10,000 people who follow this podcast. We are in over 1,300 cities worldwide, and the Lord's used this podcast to produce biblical marriages and it's been a beautiful day to watch.
Speaker 1:But I'm just ready to help more kingdom families come together and rise up. Do you hear what I'm saying? And so I want to invite you to join me in the Date Different community, where this we bold, we courageous, we be up in there telling the truth, okay, and you will be a founding member. To be honest, like anybody who joined now, you get a discount and you get become a founding member. So go ahead and jump in now, okay, there's a group for men and for women who are committed to dating god's way, and I'm not telling you to join this because you're gonna find a spouse. Don't hear me say that. Okay, I ain't say none of that.
Speaker 1:If you found a spouse, great is not the goal. The goal here is to point us and focus us on Jesus, but it's going to be a bunch of singles in there too, and so if you find a spouse, great. If not, hey, hey, that's fine. The Lord will do it, okay, but it's in here to teach you how to become, how to be that wife, how to build and be that husband. My husband's actually going to help me do this, because I know I can't teach no man how to do nothing, but my husband's going to be helping me build this thing out too.
Speaker 1:So you will have accountability. You will have weekly discussions about what's happening. You have more access to us to ask your questions. I get people who send me voicemails and always reach out to me my mentees. They reach out like, hey, this is happening right now. You will be able to do that in this community. Get an answer right then on how do I move, how do I navigate. It's gonna be so amazing. You're gonna learn. You're gonna have real q and a's about sex and dating and purity, accountability, baby, and just so much more.
Speaker 1:So join, join the movement, join the community, and know that this is for you. And so I just want to let you know that if you're serious about kingdom love, you don't need no more vibes. Okay, the vibe is secondary, god is first. And so you need a vision, you need strategy and you need community to date God's way Okay, because kingdom relationships don't just feel good, did you hear me? They build you, they align with purpose and they come with peace, clarity and fruit. You don't want to date somebody and it's empty and void and you're broken and you're hurt. Like I know a lot of people who don't recover from heartbreak. I almost didn't recover, to be honest with you. It's by the grace of God that I did, and so stop chasing vibes, honey, did you hear me? Stop chasing those vibes, okay, and start discerning and asking God for divine connections and begin to pray for your future spouse, because God one day will lead that husband to you. If you're a wife and you met a God, god will lead you to your wife and God's going to get the glory from it, and you're going to get the fruit of waiting on God.
Speaker 1:And so y'all, that's my time. I love y'all so much and I will drop the link soon. I'm working on it now. I'll drop the link in here. Just click it. Join the community and let's go. Let's do this thing. I love y'all. Y'all have a good night. Let's take care.