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What Is Controlling Your Life Without You Realising? | Spiritual Growth & Surrender (Nehemiah 6)

Jola Ajelabi Episode 57

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What is influencing your thoughts, decisions, and actions—without you even realising it? 

In this episode of Jola Speaks, we explore Nehemiah 6:17–19 and uncover a powerful truth: sometimes the greatest obstacles are not external, but internal. 

The nobles of Judah were connected to Tobiah, an enemy, and despite knowing his intentions, they continued to share information with him. Why? Because something had a hold on them. 

And the same can happen to us. 

Fear, relationships, past experiences, or even subconscious patterns can begin to shape how we think, act, and respond—often without us noticing. 

This episode will help you: 

  •  Identify hidden influences affecting your decisions 
  •  Understand how subtle “holds” can impact your relationship with God 
  •  Recognise areas where you may not be fully submitted 
  •  Begin the process of realignment and freedom 


If you’ve ever felt stuck, conflicted, or unsure why you respond a certain way, this message will bring clarity.

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