Coffee and the Cross: Love, Life & Money

Joy over Joneses

Season 2 Episode 13

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Real joy comes from: Jesus. But we can practice joy by…

  • Gratitude – When you appreciate what you have instead of constantly chasing what you don’t, life feels fuller.
  • Contentment – Learning to be satisfied with enough instead of always wanting more brings peace.
  • Generosity – When you give, whether it’s your time, talents, or resources, you experience a deeper fulfillment than any shopping spree could bring.
  • Strong Relationships – The best moments in life aren’t about what you own but who you share them with. Investing in relationships over stuff will always pay off.

How do you step out of the comparison game and into a life of joy and financial freedom? Here are five steps to get you started:

  1. Define Your Own Success – What really matters to you? A debt-free life? More time with family? Peace of mind? Get clear on your goals, not someone else’s.
  2. Live Within Your Means – Just because you can afford something doesn’t mean you should buy it. Avoid debt, save wisely, and be intentional with your spending.
  3. Ditch Credit Card Debt – If you’re buried under high-interest debt, it’s time to make a plan. Start with a written budget, cut unnecessary expenses, and tackle that debt with intensity. The sooner you break free, the more peace you’ll have.
  4. Limit Social Media – If scrolling makes you feel like your life isn’t enough, take a break. Social media isn’t reality—it’s the highlight reel.
  5. Practice Gratitude – Each day, find three things you’re thankful for. Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s missing to what’s abundant.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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