Coffee and the Cross: Love, Life & Money

Authentic Manhood | Book 2 CH 4 | Healing

Your Host - Steve Stauffer

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Think about it. We are all broken and need some kind of healing. But we can't do it alone. We are made for community. Think about it... Jesus took 12 men with him on his journey. Why do we try to go it alone. We need to find our community. 

Start with a mentor: If you don't have a mentor FIND ONE, here's how:

  • Identify someone you respect and ask them
  • Set realistic expectations. They may say no for a ton of reasons that have nothing to do with you and that's OK
  • Remember, he is a mentor, not your dad. Don't expect him to fill that void in your life
  • Develop a plan for your meetings: How often, How will the be structured?
  • Do some activities together: hunting, fishing, camping, golfing

Pray for God to send you some teammates into your life

Spend quality time together and seek to go deeper conversationally. Avoid the surface level conversations.

Learn to ask meaningful questions....

Proverbs 14:12 There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. 

Proverbs 18:1 Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgement.

Proverbs 13:20 Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.

Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. 

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Steve is married to his HS sweetheart for over 35 years, has 4 kids and 4 grand kids. Steve grew up in church and was saved at a young age, but it wasn’t until the last 10 years or so where Steve has been walking closer with Jesus, realizing the importance of ‘Just a closer walk with Him’.

He is a member of Riverside Community Church and is a leader of the Men at the River Mens group. He is also part of the worship team. Thank you to God for allowing me to do this podcast.

Thanks to my wife for encouraging me to do this.

Thank you to Men at the River - Riverside Community Church for continuing to push me to be a better Husband, Father, and Jesus Follower.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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