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care."},{"startTime":714.59,"endTime":716.45,"body":"And then later on when such a child"},{"startTime":716.45,"endTime":719.11,"body":"says, I do not want to talk about it."},{"startTime":719.11,"endTime":720.7,"body":"I do not want to talk to you."},{"startTime":720.9,"endTime":723.63,"body":"What you did to me is unacceptable."},{"startTime":723.68,"endTime":725.22,"body":"They, they go crazy."},{"startTime":725.84,"endTime":729.25,"body":"They normalize the most abnormal thing."},{"startTime":729.27,"endTime":733.01,"body":"And that is the existence of a sexual"},{"startTime":733.01,"endTime":736.81,"body":"bond between a child and their parent."},{"startTime":737.11,"endTime":737.93,"body":"With that, let's bring"},{"startTime":737.93,"endTime":739.06,"body":"this episode to an end."},{"startTime":739.12,"endTime":740.34,"body":"I hope you liked it."},{"startTime":740.48,"endTime":741.82,"body":"I'll talk to you in the next one."},{"startTime":741.82,"endTime":743.34,"body":"And then as always, let the"},{"startTime":743.34,"endTime":745.11,"body":"healing begin and continue."}]}