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Michael Gillespie dives into six wild Reddit relationship stories and offers his unfiltered advice on everything from extreme weight gain to suspicious houseguests.

• A husband struggling with his wife's 500-pound weight gain and how it's affecting their family
• A daughter who found a mysterious young woman in her father's house while his wife was away
• A woman disappointed by new partners after experiencing an exceptional ex-boyfriend
• Someone trying to recover money from an ex who owes them but won't communicate
• A concerning age-gap relationship with physical restraint and controlling behavior
• A marriage suffering from intimacy problems with a disinterested husband

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you're listening to the wdym , the what do you mean ? Podcast , hamilton's number one podcast . Now sit back and relax . Here's hamilton's own , michael gillespie . See , listening to the intro . I never noticed how 80s the intro sounded . That is circa 1985

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type intro music vibe . You know I was like man . I'm listening to the intro like yo . That sounds straight from the 80s . That's crazy to me . But either way , I love it . I love it . I love it . I love it .

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Welcome to the WDYM podcast . I'm your host , michael Gillespie . Hope everybody's doing good . Hope everybody is doing well . Today's episode .

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We're going a little old school as far as what we're doing today . We are doing a reddit on reddit . I haven't done one this season . I wanted to do one because of the effects of the crystal classic that we just had . Crystal classic is a sleep depriving event that we have here in Fairfield for show choir . That requires almost 20 , 29 , 30 , 31 hours of consistency , staying on your feet , working with people , working with schools and all that jazz . Uh , just get off that . Um , so , sleep deprived . I'm like yo , I gotta do a podcast . Keep the , keep it going , keep everything moving , naturally , and what other , what other thing to do than a Reddit on Reddit . So , without further ado , I got six stories for you and we're going to get straight into it . With the first story titled , the first story from True Concern 1219 .

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My wife , 34 female , is spiraling and I , 36 male , am tired of covering for her . I need her to get her weight under control , but we've been down this road

Reddit on Reddit Format Explained

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before and it always eventually falls apart . How can I help her See , I'm serious and salvage this Now . This is a long read , so with me , here we go . Before I start , I want to make one thing clear I love my wife . She's the mother of my two children . She's intelligent , funny . I've always been , and remain , attracted to her . She's always been a heavier set when we first met . I've never had a problem with that , except in so far . Now , again ,

Story 1: Wife's Weight Spiral

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as I read this is what I'm reading exactly word for word from the reddit on reddit insofar as it affects our family quality of life , I'll explain below for some background .

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We have been married for nine years and she has steadily , steadily gained weight over the course of our marriage . This was particularly exaggerated by the difficult pregnancy which was me , followed by covid , lockdowns and her losing her long-term job . Things continue to get out of hand until early last year when some incidents finally convinced her to see a doctor . Get thing , get control of things . Her weight was well over 500 pounds and her doctor prescribed some zeb bound and recommended she start seeing a therapist . This worked fairly well for a while , though she almost immediately quit therapy and by the end of the last summer by the end of last summer she had lost almost 20 pounds . She had also generally improved her outlook , gotten a part-time job and was much more attractive . We love taking walks together .

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Things took a turn for the worse in two , in two ways last fall . First , my job switch insurance plans , one that didn't cover glp I don't know what that is , uh , glp minus ones for weight loss and second , I can't remember pathway pretty suddenly , which caused a lot of grief and stress . She was home from work for about a month for one bereavement after the passing , and at the same time her binge eating , which had been suppressed by Zip down , returned with a fury . This blend into the holidays , which are obviously not good for anyone's waistline , and this year she basically fallen back into her old habits . I don't know her current weight , but she definitely gained it back plus some . That's where the advice portion starts .

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I've had started adjusting my life in a lot of ways to accommodate her limitations , and the list grows longer each week . While no means exhaustive , this list includes she is unable to put her socks or shoes on or trim her toenails on her own , always need help getting up from the sofa , which is pretty low , or playing with the kids to school , despite working from home myself , because she is too big to safely fit behind the wheel . When friends invite us out , have to make excuses to cancel plans and lie to them to avoid admitting things like no , we can't come out because she can't stand up for too long . Our social life is in a tank . Our romantic life sucks . Basically all dates are stay at home , take out and watch a movie , because she gets so anxious about restaurants , can't fit in movie theaters and can't do most things that involve physical activity .

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Most weekdays when she isn't working , she barely leaves bed , leaving me to work full time and to do all the child care at the same time . Once they're home from school , grocery shopping is a nightmare because she can't really stay standing up long enough . But it's too proud to roll around on one of those store scooters , so she stays in the car , calls me airpods and tells me what to get , and if I refuse her anything , suddenly I'm being manipulative or insulting her weight . The whole thing makes me feel like a drug dealer or something . Every week on sunday she basically hypes herself up about how this would be the week to turn everything around , but then she never changes anything . And if I remind her what she said and try to curb her eating choices , I'm not being helpful .

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I'm honestly getting real sick of all this and feel like feel close to snapping . To top everything off , my job is partially funded by federal grant money so , as of two weeks ago , I'm unemployed and looking for work . I can't handle everything that I'm being asked to do and the stress is killing me to a point . I frequently fantasize about running away just to book a plane and leave her to deal with things for a weekend . I would never actually do that , but it makes you feel like a terrible husband and father to even have those thoughts . I feel like I'm living in father to even have those thoughts . I feel like I'm living in a loop of broken promises and plans every week .

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I don't know how to get it to stick . Obviously , I've been heavily considering the health insurance plan for whenever I look into work next , as GLP-1s have been the only thing that really helped so far . How can I show her how much I'm hurting without looking shallow or selfish ? How can I get one of her diet attempts to stick ? While we wait for another opportunity to get the drugs Weight loss drugs , to be specific , for the foreseeable future , I'm going to have to do extra because she can't physically help right now with a lot of things . I a plan and an end in sight . I'm gonna go nuts . So true , concern . 1219 what in the world are you gonna do ? Okay , so here we go . First , one of the day , truly Concerned . 1219, .

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You got yourself into this mess when you married her and you knew she was a little bit plus size . Now , now you know that's plus plus size . We talking 500 pounds , that's a lot . I mean anything with 500, . If it's money , that sounds like a lot . If it's Lego pieces , that sounds like a lot . 500 miles , that like a lot . 500 miles , that's a lot . So you knew what you were getting into when you signed up for it and now it seems like she's gotten used to a life where she can dictate life to you . But again , you said some key things that should be triggering you , like marriage . You are married . Marriage for me is a joining of two people become one . And right now it's 80 20 , her .

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She's up , you got your airpods , is shopping and she's telling you what to get . What is she saying ? Says okay , we're gonna call you Truth concern , get those twinkies over there , Get them now . What is she saying in those airpods hey , you know those ho-hos In the diet section , go ahead , give me some of those . At one point you have to let her know , like , look , this is not what I signed up for . I understand , you should understand .

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In a marriage , things are going to get big , get small , go up , go down . Marriage is a rollerco roller coaster ups and downs and everything . This is part of part of the plan , but at some point you got to put your foot down and stand up . There's certain things that she can't . She can't even put her shoes on , huh , and the thing that concerns me the most , she said you , she can't even trim them toenails . Huh , if you're laying in bed and she turns over and swipe , swipe , you could lose a leg because toenails grow and now those are strong .

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So , my brother . This is what you gotta do , one . You have to force life into her . You gotta go on walks . You gotta get salads . You gotta get vegetables . You gotta get . Don't you buy no pop . Don't you bring no sugary things in the house . Don't you bring those chips in the house . You got to look . I'm here to help you because you need help , because you're my significant other and I care , and I'm letting you know straight up this is what's going to happen . We're going to take walks Three times a week , three times a day , whatever you set , and when you get home you're gonna get us , you're gonna get you a nice healthy , hearty salad with carrots and hype it up carrots , cucumbers , croutons , and that's what we're eating . And guess what ? We're gonna have the nice ices coldest water with a lemon in it .

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Right , start there , put your foot down and let the progress show and you gotta , you gotta be strong , you gotta be headstrong when you do this , because a lot of people you can't change people unless they see that you mean it right . So , start like that , get that going that way and don't don't buckle . Don't buckle because I , from what I could tell , I mean I can't really like her life will fall apart if you're not there . But it seems like you want to be there . You know what I'm saying , but you , you wrote the paragraph that long , so it seems like you want to be there . You have to set those goals for her and for you and be there for her . That's the thing . You have to do it that way . Do that , give it 30 days and see if she can get some progress . But you have to be firm with that . You have to be firm with that . You have to be firm with that . Good luck to you .

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True concern 12 , 19 . Boy , you said 500 pounds , bro . There's nothing wrong . There's nothing wrong with liking things big and stuff we all like things . Be big Mac . We don't go to McDonald'sdonald's for a little mac or mac jr . Wow , you know . Hey , teach us on again . I ain't judging , but I'll give you some advice the best way I can

Story 2: Dad's Mysterious House Guest

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Topic number two , by unaccomplished gear 736 I , 33 , female . Caught my dad , 63 , male , cheating question mark . All right , here we go . I went to my dad's house today while his wife 58 , and half-sister , 23 , were away on a trip . I never had a mother , so he's the only parent I've ever had question mark . Now let me stop right there . What ? Okay , I've always looked up to him when I walk in .

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A woman I've never seen before was lounging on the couch wearing only an oversized shirt , which looked like his , with no pants , casually dyeing her hair . There were high heels tossed at the entrance . She didn't speak my language , stared at me in a in a halfway that felt bold , like I was the one intruding in my own home . I asked her who she was . Instead of giving me a normal response , she dodged the question and just said her name in english . No explanation , no attempt at basic manners .

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My dad , who's 63 , walked in a few minutes later and introduced me to her in english , but she still didn't acknowledge me until he literally had to say hello to get her to react . Then she just got up barefoot and walked to the bathroom like he's , like she owned the place . He even asked if she , if she , wanted him to help dye the back of her hair . I pulled him aside and asked Dad , who is she ? He said a friend of a friend . I asked what friend ? And he just threw out some random person's name , someone none of us ever heard of .

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When I asked why is she here , he gave me a half-assed story about her being a refugee that this supposed friend asked him to help . Asked him straight up if she is a cheese worker Again , quick pause and explanation . This is a G show . You won't have to substitute what the cheese really means . But if you know the show and you know Reddit on Reddit , you know what cheese is . And he laughed and said no way . I asked so is she staying here because she has nowhere to go ? He immediately said no , no , no , nothing like that , just a favor for a friend . So then , why is she here ? But my dad has no connection to refugees , and definitely not to young women like her . And even if that was somewhat true , why is she half naked in our house , with freshly dyed hair ?

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To make things even weirder , he called me at 1130 pm last night asking if I was still at the house . I didn't think much about it at the time , but now it's obvious he was checking to make sure I wasn't there . The whole thing made me sick the way she was so comfortable , the way he talked to her and the fact that she looked my age or younger . When I left I said goodbye . She didn't say anything back . She sat there like I was irrelevant . I was so disgusted I texted my dad afterwards . Tell your quote unquote friend that his basic manners is to say goodbye instead of ignoring me .

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I called my half sister , who's 23 , because at first I thought maybe it was one of her friends . But when I described what I saw , she was just as shocked as I was . She had no idea who this woman was . We talked on the phone and I nearly cried . We've always seen our dad as a good , humble man . This is just horrifying . For now I asked her not to say anything to her mom until we know more . We don't know what to do . I don't know how to even look at him . Now I really feel sad and disgusted . I guess I'm posting this just to get support and sympathy , because I feel like the only parent I have is gone . I feel so disgusted with him and wondering how to get past this situation .

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So accomplish gear 7 , 3 , 6 . I got a sound bite for you , ready , here you go . My mom told me to tell you to mind your damn business . Look here , your dad is 63 . I mean , from what you're telling me , his wife is 58 . And your half-sister is 23 . Everybody is adults in the house , right ? Do you not think his wife knows something ? Or knows that this person is in the house , or something like that ? Do you really think your dad is out there running streets with a young lady who's about your age , at 33 ? That's weird . And for you to just be all heartbroken and , oh my dad , what are you doing ? And here you go . My mom told me to tell you , to mind your damn mind , he has grown 63 . He's grown . Leave him alone . Listen , he is obligated . He is married , 58-year-old wife , I mean you , 33-year-old female .

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Why are you all in your dad 63-year-old ? Why are you in his business ? This , listen ? This is why you just need to chill and just let him handle his his thing . If , even if , he is playing like that which he shouldn't , which I doubt it . I mean , come on , man , he's 63 and you said she's your age or younger , so let's just say , hypothetically , she's 30 . Ain't no 30 year old woman looking for that , right ? I mean some things called common sense , sense . Common sense has got to come into this situation where you know , you know you and you know your dad ain't playing this , ain't doing this , right ? Plus , this is your dad , right . So you should know your dad actions and behaviors because he's your dad . If your dad has no history of doing this , why is he doing it now and again with someone who is basically the age of his child ? You think you think he's doing something ? You think I don't think so . I just think you need to mind your business because , especially you over his house , I just think you should mind your business on that , on that one , I just think , I just think you , you reaching your business on that , on that one , I just think , I just think you reaching , you reaching , you thinking , you assuming , because mom and half sister were gone , you think he doing dirt guess what ? Not all men do dirt right . And let alone , if he was doing dirt , why would your butt be over there , would you think ? Would you think he'd be better at this ? But maybe because he's 63 , he thought he was , he was clear and he could just do whatever . I don't know . I think you're reaching again . Just mind your business , your dad , your dad , old bro , just just let it go like , like that . You know , don't , don't , don't assume that that's the case .

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Next story by scrambled egg 02 . Here we go . Scrambled egg 02 . How do I , female 22 , enjoy cheese with other people when my ex who who was also male 22 , was so much better . I female 22 , broke up with my ex , male 22 , almost two years ago . The cheese was so indescribably good that I don't know that anyone else will ever be able to live up to it , that anyone else will ever be able to live up to it . It's always disappointing with other people , even ones that I have deep emotional connections , dated one for a year and genuinely really loved .

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I generally think it's because of his girth . I mean , I wasn't expecting this one . Generally think it's because of his baseball bat again , g-show , and how , oh man , and how I should have reread this one . I just looked at the top and read it and went from there Start all over . I generally think it's because of his baseball bat and how just like strong he is . So I got manhandled . Not many other people could do that manhandling part , but of course can't change the baseball bat . How can I get over it ? Is there something specific

Story 3: Baseball Bat Ex-Boyfriend

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I can do that will make it better with other people , or did my ex just ruin cheese for me forever ? All right , scrambled egg Zero two .

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We got some problems here , all right . First off , you're 22 . Okay , you got time to get over this , right ? So you can't . You know , baseball bats are just that baseball bats , it's how you swing the bat . Okay , you gotta let these , let these men know how you like to play baseball in g . Show people .

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I need you guys to think , I mean , there's nothing wrong with the communication . It sounds like a communication issue with whoever you are seeing and dating and stuff like that Is cheese room for you . You could be lactose intolerant , you could be , but you're not . You just got used to something because you're 22 . You are young , you is a puppy . You just started .

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Don something because you're 22 . You are young , you is a puppy , you just started . Don't do that to yourself . What you got to do is one Maybe that's your type and you find that similar type . That's number one . Two Let them know what you , the things you like . You ever play 20 questions . Maybe you should do that . Play some 20 questions and put out hints that , hey , you know I like to play baseball from time to time and you know that's what you like , okay , and then , and then normally normal guys go oh , oh , really , okay , let me take some notes . There's nothing wrong with communicating what you like and see if you can play baseball that way and have cheese together . That's what you should do . I think you should communicate , you know , find your type , communicate that hey , this is how you like to play baseball , and wish you nothing but the best . I mean , there ain't really nothing I could say about that . It's just you're 22 . Quit , quit acting like life is over because you've had things one way . There's multiple ways to crack an egg , scrambled egg , old too . You see what I did there . So , yes , communicate and find what you like . I mean , that's basically how it goes to , and if you can't find it , keep searching . You are 22 , you are a puppy . You will find what you want .

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Next , my 20 year old , 24 year old male ex , 21 year old female owes me money , but we haven't spoken over a month . How do I get it back ? This is from thick distribution for a six . My ex was in bad debt over four months ago . I decided to pay it off for her and she said I'll pay it back

Story 4: Ex-Girlfriend Debt Collection

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to you Once I have enough . The last time we spoke about money , she said she was 1500 in debt and that was two months ago . We broke up since and ended on bad terms . She says she didn't want to talk to me again and we haven't contacted in over a month . I'm currently in a financial situation and you need your money back , but it seems like I won't be getting it back . How would I go about it ? At least asking for it's possible for her to pay me back . Well , this is this is gonna be short you ain't getting your money back . You guys ended on bad terms and you haven't talked in over a month .

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You know the funny thing about money and friends because I know about this experience it doesn't go well . It doesn't blend well at all . No , despite , despite how long the friendship is . And the other thing about this one y'all y'all like to eat cheese together , right ? Y'all just sharing cheese together . How about some provolone , like , oh , let me get some of that mozzarella . Oh , that cheddar was real good . Y'all was just sharing cheese , a platter of cheese . And she says she don't want to talk to you again . You know why ? Because she knows in the back of her mind she owes you money . Friends , girlfriends , cheese lovers all together . You ain't getting this money back . Player , you might as well kiss it goodbye . I know for a fact you ain't getting money . It's just that's what happens . Money and friends never mix . Unfortunately , despite the connection , the bond and everything , money and friends , money and lovers don't mix . It's sad , too , not happening . That was short , easy and straight to the point . You ain't getting a dime back , homie nice , try next one from demonic dream .

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I , 30 year old female , don't know what to do after a fight with my boyfriend , 48 oh 48 male , my boyfriend's 48 of six years and I , 30 , argue over something minor , but the situation escalated quickly . He closed all the doors , not locking them , to prevent me from leaving the house because I wanted to get out of the situation . He spoke to me in an unacceptable tone , which unfortunately happens far too

Story 5: Age-Gap Relationship Drama

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often when we argue . The argument originally started because our dog was excited to see him ran through the flower bed , cross the yard and back into the house . My boyfriend was extremely upset , almost yelled at me . I told him I would clean it up , even though nothing was actually dirty . First I wanted to finish preparing our lunch . When I turned around , he accused me of rolling my eyes at him and started throwing various accusations my way . In response , I told him he could make his own food and that I was going to take the dog out for a walk . That's when the situation escalated . He blocked my way . I threatened to call my parents if he didn't let me leave immediately .

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Maybe it wasn't entirely fair of me to want to leave , but our arguments never lead anywhere . And last for hours . He let me proceed . I put the leash on the dog , but when I wanted to leave , he closed all the doors again , grabbed me by the shoulder and held me back . I repeatedly told him to let me go until I ended up screaming at him and somehow managed to free myself from his grip . I had to walk in the dog . I packed my things , took my dog with me and drove to a friend's place . I wasn't ready to talk to him because I didn't feel safe .

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Since then , he's been texting me . Some messages are full of remorse , while others are calm and objective . He has apologized countless times and begged me to come back . So far I haven't gone home . Unfortunately , we argue a lot about things . He wants me to do more around the house , work more , so that he doesn't have to pay for everything , even though I can't work much due to health reasons . Yet he also complains that when the house isn't clean enough . On top of that , we have issues with cheese from the very beginning . It's very important to him , but not to to me , especially since I experienced some abuse as a child . We won't be able to find a solution for this problem and I'm aware of the logical consequences , but at this point I don't know what to do anymore . Right now . I want to go back . I don't want to go back , but the thought of breaking up with him doesn't feel right either . How do I deal with the best of the situation ? Cue the music , okay .

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So flags have gone , or flags on the field . We have an 18 year . 18 year difference in age . This is what I say . If there's an actual adult between the age gaps , you're too old or you're too young , depending on how you look at it . There's a human between you . You're 30 , the man's 48 . You need to find someone your age . This is a lose-lose situation , because he feels that he has power over you , and he does . He's 18 years older than you . He has experienced a whole bunch of life while you're still experiencing life .

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And I'm never a fan of animals . If the animal can't stay in the cage and just be chill with it , don't want it . Cats , dogs , hamsters , no , no , no one . I'm allergic to cats and dogs and their dander so I don't play like that . No dogs , no cats , no smoking . Those are the things that are flags for me . The way his mannerisms are to you are in my advantage is his advantage of life . He has over you . He grabbed you by the shoulder . Things like that ain't part of a relationship . You know , anytime there is unnecessary physical interaction , it needs to be looked at . Grabbed you over the shoulder , didn't want you to leave . All those type of things to me are flags on the field Penalties . You know those are things that you need to be looking at .

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But it seemed like there was some talking points . If you've been together for six years and now you know you're bringing up the , the abuse , the lactose intolerance , the cheese abuse that you have and everything , you've been together six years , so what's going on with that ? Again , there's only so much I can read into Without knowing everything . So what should you do ? One , you should find you a man . Your age , your age gap is too big for me Personally . Secondly , get rid of the dog . That's what's causing the problem , the dog . It ain't the relationship , it's the daggone dog . Get rid of it . The final look , it's either you or the human , and you're choosing the dog , apparently . And maybe if you just finish that sandwich he would have been cool , but he might have been really hungry , don't know . But yeah , I think you should find somebody more your age and go from there .

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The last one of the day , the last one of the day by oh yeah , your nana , oh five , your nana , oh five says intimacy issues for a male 32 and a female of 28 . How to fix this , they going to say . Me and my husband have been married for five years . We have a baby boy , two years old now . Our intimacy was great before , but currently , for the past months , the intimacy is gone . I was initiating before and he doesn't to me , so I got tired and just stopped doing

Story 6: Marriage Intimacy Issues

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it . Hugs , kisses , cuddles he doesn't give me those needs anymore . He just uses his phone while we have alone time together when baby is asleep .

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Question mark Same problem with our cheese life . He also doesn't initiate and keep on promising that , for example , we would have cheese tonight . Turns out it doesn't happen . So my heart is broken by this . I am so drained . I don't feel loved and desired and I feel insecure . I'm so curious why he doesn't look for it or miss it . It's been a month . Sometimes we have cheese two to three times a month , but the quality of the cheese is very bad . He won't play around . He would just lay side by side last minutes and he's done .

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I talked to him . He said he's just tired at work . I told him how can you be tired ? You only work half a day and no reasons after that . I know he doesn't have any other woman on the side , I'm sure of it . I feel so devastated now . Please give me some advice . I know you will say go to counseling , but please give me some advice . Okay , cue the music . Okay , say go to counseling , but please give me some advice . Okay , cutie music . Okay .

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So married for five years and got the intimacy issues , he's not even trying . And having cheese side by side , that's that's all weird to me . Is it weird to you guys ? Okay , so this is what you do . This is what you do one night . Go all out , 100 percent , the , the uh , negligee the , the romantic mood , set the mood and everything . Get it all together to to evaluate his interests , right . I mean , I'm talking about from the moment you guys wake up text message pictures . Just hype this man up , check the interests , like . Check the interests . If he's like , oh shoot , we having some cheese tonight Okay , macaroni and cheese , that's what we talking about . And if he doesn't match your energy , then you might need to . You might you might need to look something else . If he .

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My question is if he's working half days , why is he so tired ? Like he shouldn't be that tired , he should be energized . Especially if you set them up like this , you set them up a hundred percent . It's like wait till you get home tonight . Or talk some crazy Like when you get home tonight . Or talk some crazy like when you get home , boy , that cheese is gonna be on a spread platter with some ham . That it was where . That's how you're gonna pique the interest for it . If he's like , oh shoot , I'm ready , I'm ready , then then it's something wrong . You just got to communicate , say , look , this is what I want , blah , blah , blah and go on from there .

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If he does not match your energy , I don't know . I mean because y'all married and got a kid and two-year-old kid and you said you said let me find what he said . One he said side by side . That's crazy to me . And then you said let me find what he said . One he said side by side . That's crazy to me . And then you said hold on , let me read it .

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He just uses his phone while we have alone time together and when the baby's sleeping . What do you mean by that ? What do you mean ? He got his phone out . That sounds weird . Is he looking up cheese recipes online ? That needs to be looked at , because that's not the same as eating real cheese .

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I'm just saying so yeah , evaluate the situation . He needs to match your energy and quit the side-by-side . Don't even . That's weird . We having cheese the regular way , we having cheese , no side by side . Who does that ? I don't like that idea . That's terrible . So there you go . That is reddit on reddit . These people are crazy , man . I cannot fathom that some of this stuff is real . I don't . I don't believe it . I believe some of it's real and some of it's just stretched out , pulled to the extreme . But there you go . Well , that is the show . Thank you for tuning in . I don't even know what to say , man . People are crazy . People are absolute crazy . But continue to eat cheese , man , continue to eat that cheese . I'm your host , michael Gillespie of the WDYM . You guys have a great day . I am out . Girl Scout ,

Closing Thoughts on Reddit Stories

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boy Scout . Peace out out .