When we talk about turning your pain into power there is a secret to be discovered here…. And it’s managed by you. Your self care is determined by you. Not the emotion that often will try to overwhelm the heart and mind day by day.
First of all, let me say that the enemy often preys on one in a weakened state of mind. He wants to kill, steal and destroy you through this loss. Often you will have thoughts that come from him if he finds an area that you have opened such as a question … "Why God? ... How could you have let this happen? How am I supposed to go on after THIS has happened to me?"
Good self care is not a selfish motive, but it is a healthy way to start processing the pain into positivity for yourself. You have the power to talk through the thought …. think it through… decide how it’s going to affect you.
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