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144. Parenting Moments That Make You Say “I Told You So”

Katie Fenske - Mom of 3 | Potty Training Coach | Former Teacher | Mama Mentor | Boy Mom | Imperfect Mom | Lover of Mom Chats Episode 144

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Have you ever warned your kids about something… watched them ignore you… and then found yourself dealing with the exact disaster you predicted?

Welcome to motherhood.

In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I’m sharing a few classic “I told you so” moments from my own house, including the time Jett put putty in his hair after I specifically told him not to, and the time my boys decided to go ding dong ditching and ended up in trouble with the neighbors. At the time, I was furious. Embarrassed. Exhausted. Wondering why I even bother giving warnings in the first place.

But now? I can laugh about it.

This episode is about those moments when our kids don’t listen, when consequences become the teacher, and when motherhood reminds us that sometimes lessons have to be lived, not explained. We’ll talk about why kids ignore us, why those moments feel so personal as moms, and how we can move from anger to humor once the chaos settles.

If you’ve ever thought, Why do I even talk? — this one is for you.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

  • The infamous putty-in-the-hair incident
  • The ding dong ditch disaster and the dreaded neighbor apology
  • Why kids don’t listen even when we’re clearly right
  • Why “I told you so” moments hit us emotionally as moms
  • The difference between warnings and real-life consequences
  • How time turns frustrating parenting moments into funny family stories
  • Giving ourselves grace when parenting doesn’t go perfectly

The Big Takeaway

Kids aren’t ignoring you because you’re failing.
 They’re learning. Testing boundaries. Figuring things out the messy way.

And sometimes, motherhood looks like being really mad in the moment… and laughing about it later.

Let’s Keep the Momversation Going

I would love to hear your own “I told you so” moments.
Send me a message or share this episode with a friend who is currently living through her own parenting prediction gone wrong.


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