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What's Up, and Welcome to Triparency! The Ultimate Guide to Modern Relationships and Culture. Join us as we dive deep into the intricate world of dating, sex, and culture; relentless realism from three raw and transparent point of views from a married, single, and dating perspective.
Get ready for thought-provoking debates, insightful discussions, and a healthy dose of laughter as we navigate the complex landscape of human connections. In each episode, we explore the fascinating intersection of relationships and culture through candid conversations. From deciphering the intricacies of modern dating to exploring the ever-evolving dynamics of intimacy, our podcast is your go-to source for understanding the challenges and triumphs of love, living, and lust in the 21st century.
Our hosts, Bobby Frost, Jus Mystie, and Courtney- Lynn bring a fresh and conversational tone to the table, making you feel like you're catching up at a red cup affair. With a focus on authenticity and openness, we're here to provide valuable insights, share personal experiences, and engage in lively debates that challenge societal norms and beliefs.
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Interracial Love: Dating outside your race.
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Ever wondered if the modern dating landscape is trickier for Black women, or if love should come with a price tag? Grab your headphones, as Misty, Courtney, and Bobby Frost unpack the nuances of relationships, from societal pressures to the pursuit of personal standards—it's the kind of candid conversation you won't want to miss. We've returned from our hiatus, bringing you a refreshingly honest look at the complexities of finding love and making it last in today's world.
This episode isn't just chit-chat; it's about getting real with the ups and downs of managing money in your relationships and the pursuit of personal development. We spill the tea on everything from shopping addictions to the age-old question of whether soulmates actually exist. Dive into our personal milestones and get ready for a rollercoaster ride through the evolving dynamics between power, intimacy, and the all-important self-improvement journey.
But wait, there's more—we're also hitting hard on topics like the state of female rap, with a close look at Nicki Minaj's current controversies, and the intricacies of interracial relationships that are too often left undiscussed. And for those navigating their racial identity while swimming in the dating pool, we're sharing personal anecdotes that'll resonate with your own experiences. Keep up with us beyond the mic; follow our social media and YouTube channels for daily doses of real talk and hearty laughs.
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Challenges of Modern Dating
Speaker 1Yo, yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost. And Bobby Frost Midget presents Try Parency. I'm with the beautiful ladies, just Misty.
Speaker 2Hey, y'all hey.
Speaker 1And Courtney Lynn.
Speaker 2Yo.
Speaker 1And we back after a year. You didn't like that and you don't like it Because you were like yo.
Speaker 2That's not it no, no, I'm starting again.
Speaker 1Oh, we just going to leave it.
Speaker 2OK. That's how she feelin' today. That's how she feelin'. I mean. Courtney always come across dry like this and we ain't even get a drag of the old nothing.
Speaker 1Y'all be talking about. That's the funny part. You know what I'm saying? I'm the mundane guy I said shit, Courtney, coming this bitch every time with the monitor Yo.
Speaker 3Right. I don't have I never had like just a lot of introduction to her.
Speaker 1So when you meet a nigga you just be yo, I'm Courtney. How you doing my name, courtney?
Speaker 3Yeah, with the C, I'm not excited.
Speaker 2You ain't the hell. I'm excited to be me. Hey bro, I'm. My name is Misty. I know, that's just Misty.
Speaker 3That's your personality, mine's, dave.
Speaker 1I wish I would talk to a chick on the first day.
Speaker 3she hit me some shit like that I ain't gonna say no, you're older than a nigga. Any of you coming that bitch?
Speaker 1Hey.
Speaker 3I mean, if you speak to me, I'm gonna be like hey.
Speaker 2What you want me to do. Wouldn't he be excited to see you like? Hey, Courtney, I'm Rob, how are you? You gonna be like, hey, how you doing.
Speaker 3What you want me to do.
Speaker 1Back to it. Hey, waitress, waitress. Yeah, Split that down the middle. We going Dutch Get her out of here.
Speaker 3I shouldn't be with you if I'm like, like, if we go to dinner date. You, not a kid, can't reciprocate my energy.
Speaker 2Maybe he'll be excited to see me.
Speaker 3No, he talk about splitting the bill. I haven't even got that far with you, well, we didn't get that right and I'm saying, hi, what the fuck do you want me to do?
Speaker 2I don't want you to look at me like that, hi.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2I'm out of here. Hell yeah, especially if I do an ad, get the romantic table to the bar.
Speaker 3Get the fuck out my face if I look Damn Better like that.
Speaker 2That's bitches. You know what. We're gonna have to talk about that one day because I over the past weekend I have been realizing that bitches is making really hard for dating, so we're gonna have to talk about that one day.
Speaker 3And then you just gotta read the room and if a girl is cold, show her she don't want you by her. How?
Speaker 2did you get on this date with me? We were saying on a date. I said if you walk up to somebody, if you go into the date and you all meet and he's excited and he's in through, you didn't not say a date. Yes, I did Introduction Because he said your introduction and she's in.
Speaker 3But, she said that oh well, if I'm on a date and if we're not meeting, I'm not dating nobody on the first meet, that's just meeting.
Speaker 2My God, I mean you could be walking up to the car. My point is that when y'all speak, if he's in through.
Speaker 3I'm saying hi.
Speaker 2Right, we got that already. I just was clarifying to you that I said a date and, bitch, if you was looking like that, I'd be like, okay, well, yeah, this gonna be a fast date. She don't even wanna be here, like she like hey, yeah, yeah, I'm realizing that. Like I said, I think that, myself included, I think that Black women particularly, is making it really hard.
Speaker 1I'm glad you said that, because I ain't never wanna come on here and say that shit. But you know I don't wanna get attacked. But yeah, man, man, you know that's real. I be looking at the posts and some of the shit that be viral and be floating around.
Speaker 3Be like man this shit don't make sense. Them just be capping posts.
Speaker 1Listen the posts might be capping, but the posts don't do it for me.
Speaker 3I don't comment and I see motherfuckers like I be like the world. And some of them bitches. Ain't that motherfucking bogey?
Speaker 2Cause they dog the hell out of this boy on TikTok I don't know his name, but he be always on there like, let me get this off my chest real quick, then I'ma get up out of here. He wanna be in a relationship, right? And when I say to women be in his comments I'm like I mean tearing him down and I be like damn, they be like why even follow him?
Speaker 3We?
Speaker 2call him. They be like you, too emotional and like that's why he can't be in a relationship, and I'm like God damn, all he wanna do is be loved.
Speaker 1Like shit. Listen, man, listen niggas. For the most part you know I speak on the behalf of the niggas out there, the males population. It ain't that hard to get us. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2No, it's very.
Speaker 1No, it ain't hard to get us Now. I ain't gonna, I said get. I didn't say keep, I said get. But to get a female at the point in time, man, I can be something on shit going on. I'll be like man, what the fuck? You can't go here Like the one shit that was borrowed a cheesecake factory.
Speaker 2I'm like bitch. I said you said cheesecake factory. Somebody say me to the cheese factory. You should be happy. Yeah, a date is a date. I mean you do have a status.
Speaker 3Listen, listen with that shit. I just really think all that shit is just for social media, because if I'm on a date and you picking me up for one, the bitch was late, like 30 minutes late to the date anyway, and it's like, for one, my new rule when I'm in a date and in a relationship, put that fucking phone up. Like why is you recording anything? Like you just want some type of fucking cloud. Like why is you fucking recording? If I was a dude I would start smacking these phones out, these bitches' hands.
Relationship Dynamics and Shopping Habits
Speaker 1Now this is what I'm saying, Like I'm just be looking at the shit. I seen some shit where the viral this was a viral comment that was talking about when do you ask a man for money, and I'm like damn, it wasn't just per say a man when you asked for some food?
Speaker 3When you in a relationship, when dating, when do you ask for anything?
Speaker 1And you heard what Missy said. Like I seen that shit on there a lot of times, I'm like wait a minute, but that's not.
Speaker 2I'm saying that like, because what you don't realize is that it's motherfuckers that really, really ask for pussy. Like you don't, don't ask me for something you already got coming. Do what the fuck you supposed to do to get to where it was.
Speaker 3That was gonna be another conversation as well. Like do you think the more a man lead, the more a man not controlling but handle things, that's, the more freak? Not freakier, but a girl wanna give herself to.
Speaker 2To me, no To them. Yes, it is yes it is.
Speaker 1Yes, we do. Yes, it is, it's all. It's depend on the female.
Speaker 2Did you hear what she said Daddy, I'm on your baby, listen, fuck. We love that shit.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's a certain female, as is Not just. I ain't gonna go on to it, but why I was talking to y'all before I done seen the situation where motherfuckers doing all that and she still getting her back blow out by another nigga.
Speaker 3So apparently, it wasn't a nothing to give you, it's some shit, that main nigga didn't have. No, good dick. No, that main nigga, she don't like him. This is what you do understand. Like I get you supposed to you're king, you're this, you're not that to her. That's all I'm saying.
Speaker 2you just said to me that's why you're supposed to be equally yoked with somebody. But I feel like we just kinda I feel like us as a woman.
Speaker 1We settle.
Speaker 2we settle Instead of actually finding that person that really literally, is your soulmate. I believe in soulmates. You feel me and I think that everybody is supposed to be with somebody. I don't think it's supposed to be. You know how they be like. Marriage is hard and loving somebody is hard.
Speaker 3It's not hard, it's not supposed to be hard.
Speaker 1I mean getting we go through shit like that's what's hard, but me loving you should not be fucking hard, right. I feel it so what you been on to Missy, what you been into.
Speaker 2I have not been doing anything. Actually, my birthday just passed on the 30th. You know I went hard that weekend. I am not officially like ain't he as fuck Cougar. So is it Cougar first and then, ain't he? I think it's like ain't he then Cougar? No you.
Speaker 1Cougar. No girl, you out there proud for them, young niggas, they looking at you.
Speaker 2Oh yeah, yep, and I've been tripping too. I had to get it out of my system to speak to that. Yeah, I've been with the young niggas hard. I don't know, it could be a thing because you're getting older.
Speaker 1That's what it is, that Cougar coming out. You're like, you know where was when they get to see the moon for a morning. Turn to where it was. When y'all get to a certain age, that Cougar come out. Y'all get on the proud.
Speaker 2Yeah, I ain't been on shit though, just chilling, you know, still getting my life together. We still at the beginning of the year, still got a lot of work to do, whole lot of days left to accomplish what I gotta accomplish, still waiting for my shit to come out on 2B I'm still at. Y'all know about that city of shadows and you know I'm just still working hard I'm focused on me.
Speaker 1When she blonde, be that nigga on the sideline like yeah, I remember when she was like this y'all Get your yellow ass on.
Speaker 2get security, I'm just man let me stop for that run up.
Speaker 1No just chilling. What's your been on, Courtney?
Speaker 3I been like on the same shit. I'm really being strict. I don't give a fuck who acts or what we're doing, or me spending money. Money is a big issue for me because I have a shopping problem. I don't give a fuck where it's at, what store it's at, I have a problem. So I've been saving money. Men cutting corners on shit, men not going nowhere and my whole discipline thing is I don't care if it's free or anything, I'm trying to be disciplined, not having the urges to do shit because I tell you over there, like pookie when it come to retail.
Speaker 3No, hell yeah. That's all I do at night is shop. That's all I do. My foot is so sorry y'all.
Speaker 1I thought you were saying it for the pookie situation, like it's calling me.
Speaker 2It's shit. No, I don't shop. She has a shopping problem for it. Two of my friends got shopping problems?
Speaker 3I don't. I have trying to be disciplined and not going to a lot of unnecessary places. I don't really need to go because I don't want that urge. So when I start school I'm going to be working less, not having enough money. So I'm just really been saving, staying home and trying to stay disciplined. That's my whole fucking thing is to be disciplined.
Speaker 1I feel you, I ain't been on shit man. I just know I was just drunk as fuck Sunday, that's what I was.
Speaker 2You celebrated my birthday without me.
Speaker 1No, that wasn't that. It was the football. You know what I'm saying? The Lions.
Speaker 3So I am going to go home and get some point, god damn.
Speaker 2One one, one man.
Speaker 1I ain't going to hit the shit because I was. I don't want to do y'all like that because I'm not a Lions fan, I'm a Raiders man.
Speaker 2We don't fucking matter. The Raiders was the Raiders in there.
Speaker 1No, the Ravens was. I was feeling for it, so it don't matter if your team is not in there.
Speaker 2And you from Detroit, nigga, you know the rule.
Speaker 1I'm not from Detroit, I'm from Flint.
Speaker 2Michigan. I'm sorry, I'm messing with you. You quit playing when we fucked up on this page. You go for them.
Speaker 1Listen, this is the first time in my life I ever pulled for the Lions. I literally was pulling for the Lions. It hurt me when they lost. I said damn, I see how y'all feel as a true dedicated Lions fan, because I just wanted them to get through, because I'm like, if they make it to the Super Bowl, I'm going to Vegas. We talked to my dawg, said man, I just going to have to figure this one out right here on the fly. And you know it didn't happen. But it was crazy because I ended up going to rules starting off and I didn't know when I got.
Speaker 1I know, going on Sundays and rules, you're going to see Sundays best, you seen the cowboy hats and the big ass hats from the ladies and shit. And they'd be down there and fly, they'd be stepping. And then I look I said oh shit, they got a birthday coming on, this motherfucker too. So I was in there. I said man, let me get up out of here because I was catching eyes from somebody. Mamas and grandmamas. I said, boy, that'd be just my. Look, nigga, fight your other grandma.
Speaker 2No, for sure.
Speaker 1So I said let me slide on up out this motherfucker. One came and said can I sit by you baby? I said, yeah, you know, ain't nothing wrong. You want to see, because I have to see with the little back support, like you can have to see. Oh, thank you. Then our homegirls just said can my homegirls come sit too?
Speaker 2I'm like, oh, you got finessed. I'm like, yeah, they came and sat down there Good job ladies, I'm like go ahead.
Speaker 1I wasn't sure if I would buy myself at the table, I wasn't sure if I would, but you know they got to getting you know a little bit.
Speaker 2They saw you like skinny. It was like you know you look around the room. They was like doodoo, doodoo, doodoo, doodoo, doodoo, doodoo, doodoo, doodoo. Okay, I'm going to go over there and sit down first.
Speaker 1But this is what threw me off. When one offered to give me a drink, I said yes, she's trying to hit on me. I'm like let me get the fuck up out of here, man.
Speaker 2Why you ain't stay. No, I just said, man, you making it hard for y'all to date. No, I'm not dating, that's my thing.
Speaker 1She would have listened. Like I said, I look like that could have been an aid. I said a couple of them like they might have BBL or something going on. I said because a couple of them grandmothers asked that wagon was dragging, I'm like shit, it'd be just my luck. I stepped on it and be ready to kill it.
Speaker 3All the people have homegrown.
Speaker 1No, the waist was too small for me. Let's have one of them. Good ass girls on.
Speaker 3That was the thing with that, but that's what makes you a little BBL.
Speaker 1I'm cracking a joke about it. I didn't think she had one, but I'm like I'm cracking a joke, I'm like damn that's somebody's grandmother.
Speaker 2What's crazy is that. I just think it's crazy that that's even like the BBL. Shit is unreal. I always say that, but the shades not saying you just threw in it because you said you were joking, but since it flopped on the table, I think the BBL shade is un-fucking-real. Man Like I just don't give a fuck that much about what somebody else did to their body. I think people shouldn't either, god damn. So shout out to the rules.
Speaker 1I left rules, went to the roll house. Shout out to my cousin Dinkett Tez. I went there. That motherfucker was water, water.
Speaker 2You were just bar hopping without a Courtney. Did you get a call?
Speaker 3or something. Yeah, he know, I ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 2There you go, but he did call you. No, no, he's supposed to still reach out. And let us say no, I did reach out something?
Speaker 1No the fuck you did. Go look at the check there right now. He didn't say what y'all doing?
Speaker 2Yeah, that's why.
Speaker 1Courtney said.
Speaker 3So, Courtney, when did she be on your side? Who would have received? That's what you're facing the bitch with Never finna. Look all alone.
Speaker 2No, I had to go back out bitch, because I'm going to the messages.
Speaker 1You said you was at your mama house watching the game. I said for you to look.
Speaker 2Wednesday no.
Speaker 1So while she's saying it, so then you know, I went to the row house. That was cool, so I slid back to rules, so the crowd had changed. Now you know what I'm saying what time did you go 6 o'clock you? Gotta think it's two games. No, you take me at 8.25, though that's when I went to the row house. It's two different games going to games Started at 3 o'clock, then into like 11.
Speaker 1So then we went back up. I went back up in rules and you know what I'm saying. It was a whole different crowd. But I'm drunk as fuck now. You know what I'm saying. I'm out there, you know when the lines just lost. I'm drunk as hell. I ended up going to Norfolk. I didn't even know they had that motherfucker back over. Shout out to Chris man.
Speaker 3It's nice in there, carioca and everything.
Speaker 1Yeah, it's nice, man, I make it home to 4 o'clock. I said, yeah, this is not for me, man. It took me a day to recover from that shit. And I said, yeah, it wasn't for me, but that's what I've been on. So we about to start off with them segments. Now, you know what I'm saying. We're going to be faithfully to them. You know what I'm saying. So we're going to start off with Misty. What we got going on.
Building a Roster
Speaker 2Well, first of all, I'm going to try to stop starting off with me. You always start with me, you the lead hitter, I'm not the lead, you the lead off. No, I'm not. Um, y'all know that I had said that I was giving up the six boyfriend thing because I did, I did, I eliminated my whole roster on my birthday and I was starting from scratch. So, um, as of right now, I got two on my team right now and I don't think I'm starting off real well because they are my own boys and, um, I don't think I'm starting. It's not going the way I thought it was going to go because they. It's just not going the way I thought it was going to go. I'm going to have to spend the block and let y'all know what's going on. I am not fucking anybody, so I am not doing anything wrong. I am just weighing my options.
Speaker 1All I'm worried for for coach Misty. Now you GM Misty. See you went from coach to GM Misty.
Speaker 2So how you got?
Speaker 1to find your star players.
Speaker 2I'm like. I'm like I like own the team at this point. You know what I'm saying. I'm like elevating.
Speaker 1Don't end up like M J, because once he got with the hot hornets and the bycast, that shit ain't never went nowhere. He ain't never went nowhere, as on.
Speaker 2Okay, no, but seriously, though, let me. Let me just put it out there because I won't try to. I need y'all to take this serious, because I'll be dead at series. Okay, cause, I'm not wrong, I don't think I'm asking you, rob, here I go. Big brother, listen, one guy is like kind of like bullshitting. You feel me? Like I don't, you know, we barely talk. You know what I'm saying. I don't even know why you cut into me. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2So, boom, your boy snuck. I don't know if he snuck behind you or not, I don't even really give a damn. That's y'all. I needed to handle that, your friends, not me. So, boom, his boy spent the block. You know what I'm saying. Like happy birthday, you feel me. I'm like, damn, not, you Tell me happy birthday before your boy, you feel me. So I ain't really think too much of it. But then you know what I'm saying. When I said thank you, he spent the block again. Like where are we going? So I was like, oh, this might be a thing. I think he's shooting this shot. You feel me. But your boy Bullshit. Until the end of the day, I ain't beating my feet, I'm moving around. No, I'm going to keep it real with you.
Speaker 1Go with the one that's applying the most pressure.
Speaker 2That's it. That's just real. Yeah, I ain't got time for that.
Speaker 1I just kicked the other one to the curb. That's how I would do it, mm-hmm. Well, I think I'm going to hold on?
Speaker 2No, I just want to. Yeah, I definitely kicked the other one to the curb. Y'all seriously, I'm not talking to homeboys, but that shit dead with my men's, Because I just ain't got time for that for real, Like I ain't going 20, 24-yard of death. But we definitely got to stand on business, even with these niggas, and if you ain't doing what I need you to do, I'm moving around. That's that on that.
Speaker 3Okay, go ahead.
Speaker 2So RIP to him. He did not make it fast, and by RIP I mean off the team. He didn't make the cuts, he didn't even make the cut.
Speaker 1Listen we, you who I play sports, you know when you going up.
Speaker 2I'm in a draft right now. You look for that list right there.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah yeah, his name was not on it. You ain't know that much I just feel like if you just not committed to needing the one of nobody, it shouldn't everybody suffer grabs.
Speaker 2Yeah, I feel like that too, because I done already told you I don't break up no happy homes, but I run through a motherfucking apartment and that's what these be little apartment Ain't nobody.
Speaker 3And not to say that they have girlfriends, I'm just saying like motherfucking to me if you ain't married and I'm married and you ain't say we together and we ain't having relations, we not fucking, we not doing nothing, Everybody, everybody.
Speaker 2I don't get fucking. We fuck. Keep it moving. And that's just me being me. Keep it the fuck moving. I just I read I had heard a poem y'all I'm a shared on my Instagram and on my social media. Y'all can listen to it so y'all can see her. And she was saying, like the poem was all about her not waiting out for the sex. You feel me. And she like it was deep because she was saying, like a lot of women use pussy as they number one value and she like that ain't. She was like you can fuck me and still not get in my heart. Like that's not what it's for.
Speaker 1She like, but I'm not gonna waste my time, I gotta give her some claps. I'ma send this to you that's real Because it's deep.
Speaker 2It's deep. She was like I'm not gonna waste my time. You know what I'm saying Trying to build with somebody and then I started liking you and shit, and then you give me no orgasm. You know what I'm saying. It was crazy and she was just, and I feel her.
Speaker 1Send that immediately, man Cause I'm on the transition according to. But I gotta say this, I have been saying this for the longest the average female, the biggest. Whatever you put your most emphasis on is what you value the most. What you value the most is what's most important to you. That's your most important thing. And females always about put it ain't time it's pussy. I'm not giving you no pussy if you do this. I'm not giving you pussy if you do this. So you're saying the most valuable thing you have is between your legs.
Speaker 2It's a very valuable thing but it's not the most valuable. I feel like it's never.
Speaker 3I never just have a time. I never had a time limit on where I should fuck. Oh, I just met him, or it's only been this. If I want to have sex with you, I'm going to have sex with you, because that's what I'm going to do. Exactly Now if I don't want to, I just don't fucking want to, and that's just pretty, pretty, pretty clear.
Speaker 2There we go. So yeah, that's what I'm going. I'm building my roster up. I'm in full blown draft. Y'all better jump in that DM while y'all can cause baby, I'm not, I'm recruiting right now.
Speaker 1Send your highlight tapes in man.
Speaker 2Yeah, let me see. Let me see what y'all got.
Speaker 1Send your highlight tapes in what you got for us, Courtney.
Speaker 3Um, I'm just a lot of shit on social media that's been going, but the main thing is is y'all auntie? Cause? I'm not a a bar, never have been. I'm not a hater, nothing like I fuck with her back with young money and shit like that Fuck man.
Speaker 2she going to be, she going to have her, she going to be on her ass, she going to be on her ass.
Speaker 3I'm going to be on her ass, god damn. It's good publicity, it's bad, whatever. I'm just not. I'm just not loyal to a celebrity at all. Beanie, who Y'all auntie, is cutting the fuck up Like she needs to leave the drugs Hold on, for starters. Like, let's just take the coke off the table please Off the plates wherever it's at.
Speaker 2Clean it up coke board Clean it up, clean, clean it up.
Speaker 3I'm sorry, nikki, like she's my bitch though I'm just not a barb, like let's just, let's just say that Like I can second that. Um, her and Megan the stallion, like I really don't know what, the initial B-fizz, because I just don't be into that shit. It just be so much. They just been sneak-distancing each other back and forth without saying nobody's names, until Megan came out with his and she, she kind of did her end on that one.
Speaker 2So that's crazy, Cause his was the first time I ever even heard a direct, a direct blow. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3It wasn't direct. It's always been indirect on both of their parts, but I guess Megan Nikki been double teaming with her ex friend and she get information, doing chatty ass shit Cause bitch you grown. I think that's fuck and, like you, went on fucking live for 48 hours On a rant.
Speaker 2On a rant.
Speaker 3And then turned around and made a diss song about the whole 48 hours, like the same exact shit you said for 48 hours on the diss.
Speaker 2Yeah, I think her diss fucked herself up on the diss when she released it because of the way she did that. She had said all the stuff she had already said. But I feel like, um, I think well, first of all, I just want to say that I do fuck with Nicki. I'm not a buyer, but I fuck with Nicki. She got bars. You hear me Like she hard Granted. She wrote him a night. I'm not here, right, it don't matter. It's ghost writers everywhere, you right, but my thing with Nicki is I will say that she's a bully. I have never found any reason or and I didn't listen to music, I didn't follow it. You know you don't like female rappers, but I do. I don't know why she don't like none of the other female rappers.
Speaker 3That's coming up behind her. That's coming up behind her. I never understood it.
Speaker 2And she say that they don't be paying lineage and shit, but they do Like I don't. And then they. You don't even give them a chance to Like. So I don't know what's going on with Nicki. I wish she had just rest and just wear her crown and sit back like all the other OGs do. Yeah.
Speaker 3It's not like, okay, if they're not paying homage to you. It's like you think they just supposed to come in a game and be like oh Nicki, like what if they was never a fan of yours? To pay homage to you. And it's not like they sampling anything. You're doing Exactly and then just don't acknowledge you at all. Like.
Speaker 2I just you know, when we come with female rappers, my favorite female rapper contrary to what people may believe, because I never listened to her, I ain't gonna say I never listened to her. She don't really make shit, no more. But I fuck with Remy Ma. That's a real rapper. Remy Ma can get out on the street and battle rap in the street with niggas. You know what I'm saying. She got real bars. I like the music that Nicki and Cardi B then put out, because it's good music.
Speaker 3It's entertaining.
Speaker 2It's entertaining, but when it come to bars that like for real bars, I fuck with Remy Ma. So you know what I'm saying. I ain't really too much into that little beef right now that they got going on, I ain't on no side.
Speaker 3I'm not on the side, I just really think it's like a health not a health, but it's kind of one of those things like you just watching somebody just spiral in front of your face and it's like why ain't her team or nobody helping her?
Speaker 2Because it's definitely one of them things that we want. I'm like ready to jump into the future so I can look back and see like damn, that's Nicki Minaj. You know cause? Like no shade, I love Whitney. You know what I'm saying. Whitney was a beautiful singer, but our parents watch that go down. You get what I'm saying. So, like we saw, they saw her from that in the end and I think that's what we doing watching Nicki go down.
Speaker 3I hope not. Somebody just got to take that phone from her cause she's on live. She got to be on live to not too too fucking much. You know what?
Speaker 2Like maybe Roman is, like I think, real as fuck.
Speaker 3It could be some fucking help.
Speaker 1I just think that's just part of the culture when it come to hip hop and it's just like that, cause I don't see it happen with other females rappers. Like I told you before we started, I didn't know that Lotto and Ice.
Speaker 3But they don't sit on, live and be 48 hours talking about nothing.
Speaker 1I get that, even though they made songs about each other. That's what they do.
Speaker 3Making songs is what motherfuckers do Like. If you don't say some shit said in the song, make some money off of it. Right, if I?
Speaker 2got a million dollars. If I'm a millionaire, I just don't see myself having 48 hours to sit on, live 48 hours straight and talk about Courtney for 48 hours. What the fuck was I doing for?
Speaker 148 hours. I just think like she's felt like more or so threatened by you know. Okay, get in the studio Because there's one point in time like this is the truth and I could. I'm wrong, I could be wrong.
Speaker 3Everybody has their day.
Speaker 1I feel like this with Nicki Minaj, with that situation, I feel like that's what it was a point in time when Nicki Minaj literally was like the best rapper, female rapper I wouldn't even know, she didn't have no competition.
Speaker 3She didn't have no competition.
Speaker 1Well, nobody out there. And then my first time. You know the little Kim situation I got. It was just changing the guard, but when I seen the little B came between her and Cardi, that's when I'm like.
Speaker 3For one. It's a lot of rappers, it's a lot of people. It's not easy, it's not hard to get discovered here. If you're a rapper, you just go on YouTube and throw a cover bars. People started resharing and she reposting your shit. You can make it quick. So that's why it wasn't enough female rappers to compete with, like when Nicki was up it was just Nicki yeah it was just Nicki Really and she was all.
Speaker 3she was young money, all the dudes Like. She had the little Barbie thing, the little you know like she definitely came out of the woods with her time.
Speaker 2What is the?
Speaker 3thing she be doing, like the animated stuff or whatever like that. She had everybody in Choco. You understand what that. But now is so many female rappers and she's getting older. She's not young anymore. We all know she's going to a midlife.
Speaker 2And these bitches, these new, like the younger bitches, they coming hard. You know how? You know how they been doing this whole little females only rapper by sucking dick. This is not these new little young bitches, and I ain't talking about sexy red, and I'm talking about these hood bitches that you got to look on YouTube right now just to still see a couple of bitches from Flint. You know what I'm saying. I'm talking about they coming bars.
Speaker 3We just like cashed out. Like cashed out. She don't talk about fucking and sucking on niggas. All the damn time that bitch be talking about getting her own back, her own Cubans, her own jewelry, her own everything, and not sucking dick or fucking over there. Fuck the case. Maybe, like it's a different way, that we got a bar Different female rappers.
Speaker 1You know this rap as a whole. Again, I'm not. I'm not. They call me old head, they want to. As a whole, I think wrapped and went down a lot because a lot of niggas don't put enough I was talking to John, when he's up here. They don't put enough work into their albums Enough fucking trying to find the quickest tiktok song and go viral and shit like that.
Speaker 1I mean because it's steady, but when it comes to the female side of it, I feel like this is strongest the females have been ever, because it's so many different females.
Speaker 2It is, and I know another one.
Speaker 3Just listen, just just just imagine back in the day. The shit you used to have to do to get discovered used to literally have to try to find like what senior take somewhere senior take somewhere. Try to be a very good see them somewhere, Gotta see perform in front of them and type Like you gotta you gotta prove to yourself. All you gotta do now is put your shit on fucking tiktok or social media and motherfuckers keep sharing your shit.
Speaker 2And that's how you can just tag the motherfuckers.
Speaker 3Yeah, keep tagging, keep tagging. Y'all tell him look at my shit. Y'all tell him look at my shit. Muffuckers, be in a room just like this, scrolling down social media trying to find a next, they next whatever person they want.
Speaker 2Next, it's a room full of motherfuckers Just like this, like oh, you see her.
Speaker 3she kind of hired this, this and that, Like it's so easy for motherfuckers to get discovered.
Speaker 2I'm with you. Why can't wait for Tyler Perry to run across me? Because baby, baby, ready, bobby, bobby, did I do? Did I nail it? Cause I can play Whitney if I want to. I'm with you. Who I need to be with?
Speaker 1I'm with you. Look at her Snacks. I ain't arguing, I'm with you.
Speaker 2Did y'all see me do my Whitney?
Speaker 1So I'm gonna get into Mize then we can go get into the top Hang out up here. Okay, Mize, is you know saying so in light of black history month, I'm gonna use black history saying Clap, clap, clap, clap, clap, clap. So I'm gonna use the one from Michael Maxis, Michael Maxis. But the one I'm gonna use is cause I was gonna use the one about the haircut, and that was when he said that if a man spends as much time, how you gonna say you was gonna use him.
Speaker 1I'm still gonna say it, but I'm not gonna go on, don't confuse me.
Black Men and Interracial Relationships
Speaker 1I'm not about to go into that. What it means, you can take it for this. He said if a man spends as much time with his brain as he do with his haircut, he'd be better off. And I got what he said, but I'm about to go on it. If anybody catch that, they can catch it. You know what I'm saying. Yes, the one I'm gonna use is if you have no critics, you're likely doesn't have any success. And that's something I see with a lot of people, from average person to you know the people who out there with big clouds, big following, actors, entertainers, whatever If you don't have nobody saying nothing about you you not doing anything Like you not really getting there you gonna. If you start becoming successful at anything, you gonna have people that's gonna have shit to say to you. You just have to learn how to deal with that shit. You don't get mad because somebody say something about your critique.
Speaker 2Oh, you mean you saying it like not negative, but like negative or positive?
Speaker 1Yeah, they criticize you whatever it's gotta come. I don't.
Speaker 2it's people that move in silence for sure and never get the acknowledgement of what they've been doing.
Speaker 1So I don't think that they have critics, even people who move in silence, they might not have the critics out there's somebody critiquing them. You're not gonna be successful because somebody gonna see you being successful and have something to say. You just not gonna be successful. Nobody not gonna say that I don't give a fuck how quiet you do it, because somebody.
Speaker 2They have something to say if you fail.
Speaker 1That's my point, like they have something to say to somebody On the cross. So when that one, I'm with that one. If you got critics, man, you gonna have to have critics if you gonna be successful. If success comes, it comes with it. It might be good critics, bad critics, but it's how you gonna react to it.
Speaker 2I was just gonna say I can take critics.
Speaker 3And another thing like what made the stabbing when she was discussing like the so-called beef or her and Niki or the case, maybe she also had like a valid point when she said like she been going through some stuff, she been healing, she been going to therapy or whatever like that so she had to remove herself.
Speaker 3I guess a lot of her friends or her people she used to be with feel some type of way because she moved herself away from them Like it's no beef, it's no, none of that, but some people you just don't need to sit with, no more. And she said her friends knew how bad social media got to her, so like she just want to go out, like she'll be happy whatever the case may be. Hicka, her friends showing her shit, that motherfucking saying on social media. She said she don't have social media downloaded to her phone, so her friends would be the one like basically make her cry. She like I'm that person once I see negative shit on social media, like it had me fucked up my whole day or fucked up and my friends was the ones who kept showing me the negative shit. People would be saying about social media and all that.
Speaker 3She like you know that shit brought me down. So she said she has stepped away from that type of stuff or whatever like that. You know what I'm saying. She, she on this other journey or whatever like that. So she like she don't fuck with people no more. And people think it's beef. It's just I'm not, it's not beef, you just not good for me. And I feel like some people, like with real life, they can't understand, they always think it's beef. When you kind of separate yourself from certain people or you act funny because you with this person or you're acting funny because you with that person, it's like no, you just, you just not growing. I am.
Speaker 2Hey, you know what they say everybody can't go with you to the next level.
Speaker 3I don't know and they don't understand that shit.
Speaker 2These next 365 days, I don't know who gonna be here, but whoever ain't fuck them.
Speaker 1That's the real. I mean that's. You can't say no, better than that. So we're gonna get off into the topic man, and you know this is funny to me. I'm trying to find the little clip, the actual lady but when I find, I'm gonna give her a credit. But I remember seeing this and I sent y'all to click the do, remixed it and made it funny. So it's a chick. She's on social media and she got a lot of following from just uplift and black man. Again, I go to the comments. When you go to the comments, black men.
Speaker 2I need you to be specific and tell the followers that this is a Caucasian woman.
Speaker 1Yes, a white woman. I was getting to that and I was trying to find her IG and they be cooking her dog when I was saying to them black girls being on there cooking her, yeah, you go, fuck whatever you want to. Our food is going to taste like this, so you're going to have cats on the counter. They be cooking her and I'm like damn why she can't uplift black men.
Speaker 2OK, ok, so did.
Speaker 1You want to go get a Becky? Go get a Becky.
Speaker 2I'm like Ain't nothing wrong with her uplifting black men? Do we do do as a, as a black woman? I don't think anything is wrong with a white woman uplifting a black man, if she is genuinely uplifting.
Speaker 3A black man Type of shit, or not just being a this is your niche on social media.
Speaker 2Yeah, see, that's what's hard about social media. You don't know if people do it for social media or not. Just like you know all of these people that come on there on TikTok and you see it by the top. Somebody had been enrolled them and said why don't you talk like you regularly supposed to talk? And then they get on there and it's a white girl and she talking hood is just like us and she like no, they see, is how I talk. You feel me Like. I mean, it's some ghetto white motherfuckers that was born and raised in the hood.
Speaker 3In the hood and they talk just like us.
Speaker 1And I found their name is bootybree on IG. Bootybree1 on IG. And it's just crazy. Cause, you know, and regardless cause I seen people in the comment like I don't ever see you with a black man, and then I went through her shit and I looked, I said she got to you know.
Speaker 2And some people. That's another thing. Why do she got to be with a black man to uplift a black man?
Speaker 1It's like I don't you know, and I get mad cause Dr Umar might be on my ass, cause I clip off since y'all my man was cracking the joke. That's it. Funny as hell to me.
Speaker 2It was funny as fuck.
Speaker 1Dr Umar and be like to me. It's like it fucks me up and I ain't about to go down this rabbit hole. I'm going down another one. This one I'm not. It fucks me up because I have some of these. You know what they call them hotel, hot tech, whatever. So I type brothers, come here kicking this shit. We all, everybody, come from us, we come from Africa, we, the original man, I'm like all right?
Speaker 1if that's true, then why the fuck does it matter if I fuck with her or not, cause she come from the same spot. I come from right.
Speaker 2Okay, my thing is but why are you Bioracial? Yeah, bioracial.
Speaker 3No she come about like going with a white woman.
Speaker 1Yeah, if we all come from the same spot, what's the problem you talking to this white woman?
Speaker 2I think that their stance isn't so much about where we come from, Is there the perspective that white people have of black people? I think that Umar, he said a lot of stuff that I agree with, but some stuff I do be kind of on edge with. But basically, for me, I feel like his basic stance is that we will basically, in layman's terms, we will never be them. They will never look at us as equal. They will never respect us. No matter what, no matter if we have kids by them, no matter if we marry them, they're always going to look at black people as the inferior. So I think his thing is why would you be with somebody that looks at you as an inferior?
Speaker 1And this is my thing, am I trying to?
Speaker 2draw. Am I using the right word, cause it sounds like I'm hot?
Speaker 1No, you said inferior, that's the word. If I'm not trying to, if I'm getting with somebody because I like the way they treat me and I feel like this for me, this ain't for my whole fucking race, this is for me, yeah, yeah, If she makes me happy. What a fuck I can't. If she was fucking green.
Speaker 3My thing is that I don't, I don't.
Speaker 3I don't have a problem with white people at all. I didn't which I'm kind of growing, I should say I don't like. I can't say I don't, like I don't care for what you call that I don't, you don't care for by interracial relationships, interracial interlock, that I don't care, I didn't care for it. But if that's your thing, that's your thing. But my thing is, when you get with the white man I mean a white girl or black, vice versa I just feel like don't throw it up in the next black woman face.
Speaker 1That's where I have a problem.
Speaker 3That's how I feel about it when you trying to down a black woman, like cause I don't have them problems over here, or she don't nag over here, and that's where we, we, that's where we start beefing with each other is because, okay, we think white women are stupid, they think they do whatever y'all say or whatever the case may be. And then the thing with us that they use on us, like oh, they like us. Like all you do is nag you a bitch, you this, you don't do that, so it's like you.
Speaker 3You men are putting us against each other to where, like no, we don't like the white woman or the black woman or the case maybe is because men get with a white woman and think they just instinct or some shit, like oh, it's better over here, like I don't go through that at home, it's peaceful, is this? And that Like that's. What I don't like is when they try to put us against each other. If you like your white woman, like your white woman. Don't compare us, yeah.
Speaker 2Not even my thing ain't even putting us against each other, cause, at the end of the day, like I said, I feel like at the end of the day, we're always gonna be against each other because of history and because of how y'all feel.
Speaker 3And you can't understand me as a black woman and you can't understand me and guess what?
Speaker 2I can't understand you, ma'am. Just like you said, I can't understand why you want this cat to run around this house and be on your stove and all of that shit. I don't. I don't get it. I can't understand how you can go in here and you have white privilege. It's a lot of shit I don't understand. But if you genuinely are not a racist and you're with a black man or not with a black man, but you genuinely uplift black men, I don't see nothing wrong with it, it's just like I said, I'm with what Courtney said.
Black and White Women's Relationship Challenges
Speaker 1I'm not. I will talk about it, cause it is a different. For you know, talking to a white woman, average white woman, to a black woman, but I don't sit back and I'm not. I might crack jokes about it, but I would never throw it up into another black woman's face. You know what I'm saying. Like, it is a difference, right.
Speaker 2It is.
Speaker 1I'm not saying it is, but it's a difference because we are different.
Speaker 3Okay, no, okay, and this might be going on. Another, another rabbit hole.
Speaker 2Start with them. Old phases Rob.
Speaker 3But it's like. It's like okay, am I wrong because I was raised different? Is something wrong with me? Because I'm raised different from a white woman, like from our household. We are raised to be. We didn't have our dad in the household so we raised to be independent. We raised to go get it on our own. We raised to be strong and shit. We raised to be tough like a boy. So when we get with a man it's kind of hard to like cause in our mind you're gonna fail us, you're gonna leave, you're gonna whatever. So I gotta, I gotta have the business on our own. But a white woman she always had her mom and dad granted or whatever they. They talked to be submissive, they talked to take care of a man, cater a man, do this, be loving and all that different type of shit. So I can't help it that I was raised to be strong and have an opinion and all this type of shit and a white woman don't.
Speaker 1Right, right, I'm with you, like you know. But it's just like I said, I didn't seen this and it's for me it's a big thing because I don't see the post. But for me, like I said, like what you just said, your environment is gonna shape how you are looked at and how you raised and, like you said, I know for a lot of black women they're not coming from. You know homes where the mom and dad been together the whole time.
Speaker 3Showing us how to love.
Speaker 1Yeah, showing you how to be this and this and, like that, you coming from where you had to survive.
Speaker 3So you and half the time it's not even survived because my mama was well off.
Speaker 1When I say survive, when I say survive, it's just I haven't seen her where.
Speaker 3My stepdad was there but they wasn't loving like I don't know, like they just wasn't affectionate like that. But I didn't see, like you know, like the loving, the hugging, the kissing, all I love you are coming in the house kissing and hugging. Hey kids, how y'all day going. I didn't experience that type of family or whatever.
Speaker 2I don't like to see. I'm sorry, I don't like to see. This was a random thought I was just having. We're not really random. I don't like to see a black man being in a relationship with a black woman and his and like is not no support, is not no uplifting, you not being the man, you not lead, you not taking care of home, like what the fuck. And then we see that same black man and you know what I'm saying you leading your household, you saying she doing this, like. I don't think that black, I don't think that black people give each other enough chance in relationships. That's just that on that. I think our relationship is our relationships within our own culture is failing because we don't give each other like we don't give each other a break at all.
Speaker 3We don't build each other.
Speaker 2We don't give each other no break. It's like the black women do make it hard you know what I'm saying and then y'all do make it hard, like y'all don't understand y'all. It's like the black men fought us for being independent. But it's not really our fault, it's your daddy's fault for not being in the house. It's just an ongoing issue.
Speaker 3But I feel like. I feel like we everybody know what they want out of a relationship. Rather, you keep posting it on social media. You say you want flowers, you want dates, you want hugs. You know that's something you want, and men say the same shit. So it's like if we all want this type of shit, why we just can't come together.
Speaker 1Cause I'm gonna say like this like I said I'd never be that person. Like I said, I'm about to be sitting out here. You know down, and if I was talking to a white woman, I'm not about to be down in a black woman. But there is different, like what we was just talking about, when you a lot of white girls coming from a household where it's more so traditional, the white girls, that don't act.
Speaker 3Black.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's what I meant. I ain't talking about the one you talking about, real Becky. Yeah, I don't wanna say that, but you can say that, real Becky. They come in from a household where it's still traditional most you know what I'm saying. Like the dad is in the household, they're married, ain't no outside kids. For the most part, dad taking most of the financial, mom is there to make sure the house is going.
Speaker 3Not stressed. You know what I'm saying. So that's the difference they're living the American dream.
Speaker 1They are, for the most part, more submissive than the average black woman. But I'm not gonna tear the average black woman down either, because he's more submissive, you know.
Speaker 3And eight out of 10 dudes do that.
Speaker 2They do that, but then they also were not providing and doing what they're doing for that white woman, because it's natural. Y'all making it hard for us. That's what we need.
Speaker 3It's like y'all want us to see our true colors and we gotta see you broke, we gotta see you emotional, we gotta see you all this but then, when you get with a white woman. It's like oh, now you this, hercules, ass dude. You. You a provider, you a counselor, you this and you wanna make sure that household. But you just ran me to the mud. That's crazy. That all makes sense.
Speaker 1And, like I said, and the thing is the flip, by essence y'all was funny. Because you have guys like Dr Umer, you can't date outside the race. Why the fuck I can't date outside the race If she's making me happy and it's quote, unquote. You hote, hot-tep, but however you call it nigga saying that we all come from Africa and we all from the same. I don't even know that word, that's why, but listen none of the people that you see coming in this business. They get to talking about all that extra other shit.
Speaker 2They just so. The energy, the vote people, the vote people. This is my thing. I feel like it's a mixture of what you believe, and I mean like spiritually or religious, wise or whatever, like what you believe. Morals, history is so much, because Umer be really saying some good shit and I get what he's saying. We're supposed to breathe within ourselves. We're supposed to love within our same race. You know what I'm saying. And his only thing is we, as a culture, break down faster than any other culture there is in the world. We do not stick together. You know what I'm saying In all honesty, how many Chinese people you see with mixed kids? Not a fucking lot. I've never seen a mixed Chinese kid. Okay, I've never seen.
Speaker 2I haven't seen. I've never seen one. I can't say that I've never seen Chinese with a black man, or you know what I'm saying. I've never seen the relationships, but I've never seen a kid.
Speaker 1I've never seen kids.
Speaker 2You know what I'm saying? They breathe within them and I hate to use the word breathe, but that's what it is. They do it within themselves. You know what I'm saying? The Chaldeans and the Arabs, they do that shit.
Speaker 3More people probably like our age, are probably doing that our age, but what you mean like?
Speaker 2branching out. Yeah, man hold on man.
Speaker 1It's funny as hell. He said I'm not dating nobody. That would have sold me back then.
Speaker 2No, for real, Like cause. That's what I'm saying and that's the part I'm saying Umar be thinking. Umar be feeling like how the fuck can you even spin the block and wake up and look at this motherfucking thing about the shit that went down? He be really thinking like that.
Speaker 3Or, and then I'm gonna just spin the block like on GZ, and GZ is my favorite. Everybody should know GZ is is my nigga, like he can't do no wrong, but this one was like a slap in the fucking face For one. You date, whatever she is, is what is she? Asian, what is she? I don't know what the fuck she is.
Speaker 1I don't know what she is, but I can say she's Oriental.
Dating Preferences and Intimidation Factors
Speaker 3Yeah, she's different, that's the way I'm, but it's like that's who you chose to marry. You were so happy this, this and that, and then, when shit don't go right, when she don't understand you or this, now you need your black queen, now you need a black woman that understands you.
Speaker 3Now you want to be alone because you want to spin the block on a black bitch that can make you feel like you king again, or whatever the fuck the case Me and I just don't accept that shit. Gz has lost me as a motherfucking fan.
Speaker 2I feel like personally not personally yeah, personally not as a fan I feel like it'd be just crazy, because we have to sit back and watch y'all get towed on and watch bad shit happen to y'all especially celebrities, though, Soon as they get a little money and they go get them a white girl and again, I am not a person that's racist but soon as y'all go get y'all a white girl, they do shit, just like Jonathan Mayer. Now you didn't. We saw that video. He was pushing her back in the car to stop fighting her. She got out and chased that man and blocks away though, and now you getting domestic violence. Y'all gonna let them white bitches tear your career down.
Speaker 3They gonna have back by our black men, and then we didn't want us to kill you or pick you back up.
Speaker 2You want to come back after you have four kids by her and you paying nine million dollars for child support.
Speaker 1I used to feel like that but it changed and this is why I'm a change. You know I'm a play devil advocate on that one. I see black sisters tear the niggas down.
Speaker 3That's after we get towed on.
Speaker 1That's not true. I'm gonna stop you right here. I agree, we definitely want to, but we don't go straight to the white man.
Speaker 3We don't go to the white man. We're gonna get another black man.
Speaker 2So I'm gonna ask black man Hold on hold on.
Speaker 1You can be another black woman. You tell that another black man. I use one right now. I watched Mike Tyson end up going down. That nigga lost his whole prime fucking with the chick.
Speaker 2Okay, but this is what I'm saying, Hold on his whole fucking prime.
Speaker 1This man was at the peak of everything.
Speaker 2What he doing, he, he, he guess what.
Speaker 1She said he raped her. Now here comes the thing raped or not, I'm not there for that. I'm saying you show your ass up to motherfucker Mike Tyson, the richest nigga in sports, at this time at 2 AM. What the fuck you coming to his room for at 2 AM?
Speaker 2No, it's not Okay. No, it's no. We still know that.
Speaker 1Listen, I'm not knocking that. I'm just saying why the fuck did you even come there?
Speaker 2Okay, guess what? Did he go to a white woman after that? No, no, he didn't. Thank you, mike Tyson, for still standing behind the black woman and keeping it real. And this is my thing again. Like I said, shout out to you, here we go.
Speaker 1If I'm dealing with a white woman, I'm dealing with an Asian woman, I'm dealing with who the fuck I'm dealing with?
Speaker 3We don't call the police, we don't do none of that shit. We don't go to jail. Y'all get cases.
Speaker 1That's not true either, because I can name women's.
Speaker 3We not saying that it don't happen, we not saying we don't fucking happy? Yes, the fuck they do.
Speaker 1I'm not gonna sit up and be like all white women do it too. It's the person. It goes back to the person. Just because you get with a white woman don't mean because you with this white woman, she automatically gonna be.
Speaker 3And some people who been with a white woman. They shit happen, no scandal happen nothing happen.
Speaker 1It's genuine love.
Speaker 3But I bet that black man wasn't tearing down the next black woman when he got with that white woman.
Speaker 1If you gonna date outside your race this is what I'm saying I don't have a problem. You could be for the movement of a better and black people have a. I didn't see people get mad about this If a person got a white wife or an Oriental wife or whatever a different race and they're still trying to propel the black race. I see motherfuckers won't even listen to them and say sit to them, because they automatically why you with her, nigga. I'm with her, dr Umer. I'm with her because she makes me happy.
Speaker 3Umer a white wife? No, he was on a podcast. You man. Let me tell you honestly, one of the dudes on the podcast got a white wife or whatever like that. He couldn't say nothing for real because you got a white wife. So you came vote show painted on shit because he had a white wife.
Speaker 2Y'all know how I feel about people and their opinions and how they care so much about people in life. I'm not saying don't be woke, shout out to Dr Umer, but he is the person that I feel like you just let your emotions and your opinion get the best of you in like he just really be like fuck a motherfucker when they associated with white people. Like you can't do that. You gotta be realistic too. This is America. You feel me? I'm a business woman. I gotta deal with white people. You know what I'm saying. You know you can't just make it seem like we supposed to, just we ain't in segregation. That nigga be tripping. Sometimes he act like you ain't even supposed to say one word to him.
Speaker 1Like they everywhere. That's where I get off at with it. You know, whoever make you happy, make you happy.
Speaker 3And definitely.
Speaker 1Now I have a problem with this. Now I know some black dudes that only fuck with white women. Now that throws me off and like and I ain't gonna say no names, I'm serious, I know homeboys like that. Like you only did a lot of fuck with you Only, and I never. When I was younger my grandmom used to kick that shit to me. I ain't gonna lie. But as I got older and got to move around, I'm like if I run into a white woman and she's cool, I'm fucking with you.
Speaker 2Okay, the saying is that a black man that has never dated a white woman is intimidated by a black woman and I don't always blame it on, like you know. So I think it could be some level of intimidation. The black woman can be intimidating, especially for a man who ain't got no confidence, so he gonna be drawn to the weaker white woman. Not all white women are weak. I'm not saying that. I don't want you to exile me, but in our eyes that's just how it goes. They choose the white woman because they're weaker than the black woman.
Speaker 3I hear a lot of immature men. I'm not gonna say real men or whatever, I'm just gonna say they're immature. I hear a lot of men basically say when they date a white woman they can do whatever over there. Right, we nag. Of course you ain't coming in my house late as hell. Of course you can't fucking cheat on me. Of course you can't do this. Of course I'm not finna. Give you all my goddamn check or whatever the fuck the case may be my daughter, I'll say.
Speaker 1just said that black dudes that only fuck with white women because black women never was interesting to them. Now that one I can understand that. Now that makes sense. It's some, and I see you looking like that. I get what he's saying.
Speaker 3I mean, if that's what it is, that's what it is.
Speaker 2No, if everybody is not interested.
Speaker 1Hold on, I'm getting what he's saying. What if you I done seen this too you going to one of the school females in your school once showing you no love? You wasn't getting you know, or they wasn't just making it known that they would fuck with you, didn't you just?
Speaker 3say that. I just said that. Let me tell you something that's intimidation.
Speaker 2Let me tell you that is not a good excuse. I know a lot of niggas that went to meet you. I don't know that. I'm not saying that's intimidation.
Speaker 1I get what he's saying from that standpoint. Like if you wouldn't get in check for, like that.
Racial Identity and Dating Preference
Speaker 2I'm about to tell you.
Speaker 1And you go. Let's say you get to high school or you go somewhere and you start getting around white girls and guess what? They start hollering at you and so you're interested. Okay, I get that you might feel like that's what I'm going to fuck with.
Speaker 2That's what I'm saying. If you was chatty in school, you was chatty in school now. That don't got nothing to do. That don't mean that ain't no black girl interested in you.
Speaker 1Hold on. That's why I'm getting that you what you consider.
Speaker 2No, it was. Don't mean I'm black, she black. Just because you changed me, don't mean you change her. You should have went to another black school.
Speaker 1This list high. Just because your mama puts you in the school don't mean that you got the ability to leave.
Speaker 2So just because it's white girl, say you cute, don't mean that she like it. Did you hear what I just said?
Speaker 3Because then it's the complex. Did you been the only black kid and all the white women? Won't you? Did you see, get out?
Speaker 1Listen what I just said. The fuck, I'm with you. But you listen, I just said that's what I'm saying. I'm talking this not up because you been around black women. They been showing you know, so you go around white women and build false confidence.
Speaker 2It's still.
Speaker 2It's not, that can't tell you what a black man supposed to be. Okay, that's, that's what I mean when they say keep it shit in your race. This shit can really get deep, because this, if you are, that's why people grow up. When you go to a white school, your whole life, right and I'm talking about whole life from pre-K to high school you went to a white school, not a white, black school like Carmen. I'm talking about a white school. You went to fucking Owasso. When you come around your family in the hood because your hood, your family from North New York, you feel me, but you didn't believe in an Owasso your whole time You're going to be different, right? Because they can't show you how to be black. They can only show you how to be white, what they are. So if you only been around white girls and they the only ones that attracted to you or whatever like, then you're not even you what they want you to be.
Speaker 1But this my thing. You go back to it again.
Speaker 2I get where you come you ain't give us a chance to like you in school. I'm getting from the other. You know we didn't like you because you ain't talked to us.
Speaker 1That's what I'm saying. That's the other side. So I'm getting that. If you can sit back and say hey, man, nobody was. I'm seeing other black guys, other guys, because it's a black school, y'all is checking for them or whatever. Whatever reason you check, you check for them. I'm not getting checked for. But then I finally get around a different race of women and they fucking with me.
Speaker 2Naturally you ought to find out why. Why the fuck did my race did not? Okay, listen, when a fucking monkey is with a group of monkeys and they kick him out and he had to go live with the fucking lions, you don't think he gonna be thinking like why the fuck didn't the monkeys want me? Yeah, he might become a lion, but what the fuck? Why didn't y'all? I gotta figure my own people but listen you don't care. You don't care, I'm not missing it.
Speaker 1No, you thinking like that because you grew up in a black area, in a black school.
Speaker 2I went to white school.
Speaker 3No, I'm not. I'm thinking that, as in she went to white school too, I went to fucking public.
Speaker 1I mean um, I'm gonna read this comment Saint John, vianne, black, men with white women because they're weak or because their mothers was belligerent, which made them never want to date their own race.
Speaker 2That could be true. That could be true. Kid trauma we already talked about that. I didn't talk about that. Shout out to Chia. We talked about Kid trauma.
Speaker 3The thing is with that I had one to double back on with the men and women situation, when going with white or going with black is the fact that if I've been in a household, you're a man that was in a single household or whatever the case may be. You knew how your mama had two jobs. She's struggling, she's doing this. She's independent. You seeing that you don't want to when you finally get in a relationship, you don't want to flip that, reverse that and beat a man in the house or whatever the case may be. Like right, you want your bitch to be. My mom had two jobs. She worked full time jobs. Why would you want your bitch struggling when you see how your mama was Exactly?
Speaker 2It seemed like you want the opposite, just like people who daddy ain't there. It seemed like you would want to be a better daddy.
Speaker 3You know what I'm saying. You would think that. You would fucking think that.
Speaker 1No, I'm with you. That's why I said I get both sides of that situation.
Speaker 3The only thing I have about the race is that she is throwing this shit up in my face.
Speaker 2I just feel like that school shit was some bullshit because out of the whole fucking high school of black kids that some bitch talked to you and not you specifically. But so that's an excuse and I don't really think I liked that part of our conversation because it is no way that you went through whole school and nobody showed you no play.
Speaker 1It was a fucking girl that showed you some black.
Speaker 2That's not true. That's not true. Yes it is. The chatty is people at our school. I ain't gonna say no names and they're gonna know we thought they was chatty, but the chatty is niggas at our school that we show no play to right now is married to black women. This is what.
Speaker 1I'm gonna say and I'm not Shout out to y'all. I'm so sorry for this, and this is me being honest. I know dudes who didn't get any play in high school.
Speaker 2I mean, what is no play when I say no, he didn't tell you, he got his dick sucked about a little retarded black girl in class. Listen.
Speaker 1Somebody fuck with you. No niggas who didn't get no play in high school. This ain't me just saying this.
Speaker 3I understand you say that they didn't get no play.
Speaker 1I don't believe that they didn't get none, so this is my thing. That didn't mean once they left high school they didn't start getting play, but when they were in high school they wasn't getting any play.
Speaker 2I don't believe. No, play. The ugliest motherfuckers who was getting niggas dick sucked at feature I didn't go to beach. I went to.
Speaker 1Martin, I went to Northern, I went to Hones, I went to Northwestern. I know niggas who didn't get any play like them, so they left out of high school virgins. Yes.
Speaker 2You're a fucking liar. I know niggas who left out of high school virgins. Y'all ain't no real niggas, cause our seniors made sure all our seniors played. Listen, this is my thing.
Speaker 1I was about to say nigga, if you ain't getting no ass, you ain't getting no ass. That had nothing to do with me, nigga. I'm not advocating for you to bust a nut, nigga. You better get on them tristes, because they were so scared to open up and say something to a female if she didn't come say something to them.
Speaker 3I can't help it if you ain't got no fucking confidence. That's what turned me to fuck off on you any guy in the way. So how you gonna put off that insecurity.
Speaker 2You got no confidence on me.
Speaker 3Motherfucker, you already showing me you can't leave.
Speaker 1You work for goddamn, but listen all I'm saying is I'm giving the other side of the game. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2Ain't no other side of the game. That is the other side. Now, listen, listen, you have no game.
Speaker 1Cause this is my thing again Most black girls I went to school with. When I was going to school with they one the ones that made that initial move. Now, once you make the move on them, they talking to you, but then it make the move initially.
Speaker 3So again just cause you're chatty and you don't know how to pursue a woman is my fault.
Speaker 1You, with the white people, Hold on.
Speaker 3You keep calling them chatty, but this is my Okay. Is it the word that's fucking you up? No, it's not the word, it's cause you're not confident.
Speaker 1No, it's not the word. This is what's fucking me up. Well, to this race, the way I act naturally act. I'm not chatty to them. I got confidence in them. What?
Speaker 3the fuck. We just saying that's what we're saying you have the confidence to step to a black woman, but you chatty enough for a white woman, is what you're saying.
Speaker 1No, I'm not, I'm not gonna use that.
Speaker 2That is exactly what you're saying. No, I'm not. No, we are saying the same thing.
Speaker 1I'm not no, we are saying the same thing. I'm not gonna use that to target where it's word Okay, whichever way. Because this is my thing, I'm not gonna say that. Same shit, tomato you chatty, because this black girl didn't want. Do you want?
Speaker 3her flavor. Okay, well, confident. You're not confident to step to me, but you're confident to step to a white woman. Why?
Speaker 1Why you just missed what I said. That girl probably stepped to him first. Whichever way, yeah, so that's the difference. I can't get mad at that situation because this brother only wanna talk to white girls. You just bruised us right there. That's what he's talking to you with.
Speaker 2That's why y'all fucked up, because the white woman approached him and that's how he ended up getting his little confidence. Y'all supposed to date us man, but again, you supposed to date the woman, you supposed to approach the woman, so they didn't fuck up already. That whole correlation you just said was bad. That's why y'all had to have it.
Speaker 1Yeah, and the black correlation's cool because I look after this at that point. I'm gonna use this my own situation Again. I went to school with all blacks. I can count in my school every school I've been to, except for Northern, because I went there long enough Every school I've been to. This is no lie, Any nigga that know me. No, I ain't lying. I got some of my dogs in here right now. My dog, the, bar the Zika in there Girl stop hating, so I know how many black people.
Speaker 2Don't call my friend. No, hater Lysian.
Speaker 1I know how many black people you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2How many black people's in your school?
Speaker 1No, how many white people in school. I can't tell you how many black people.
Speaker 2How many?
Speaker 1white people's in school when I went to Martin it was the one.
Speaker 2What's that name? I'm gonna go.
Speaker 1I'm gonna break it down to you. When I went to Martin, it got to a point where it's only one white guy in the whole fucking school. He had some brothers that left. Steve, he was like teller trash. You know what I'm saying. That's what they was. You know what I'm saying. When I got the homes it was two white people in that bitch. When I left off that bitch, that's what it was. That's why Zeke put in the old K-star to it.
Speaker 2Do you remember the white, the random guy?
Speaker 1Do you?
Speaker 2remember the white girl Casey. We had a whole. We had Casey. We had a lot of. We had a lot of. We had Richard Emory Listen. B-shirt was different.
Speaker 1B-shirt was different because of where you know B-shirt was a little bit different when I got the Northwestern we had.
Speaker 2It wasn't that much. We only had like four.
Speaker 1We had Andrew. We had Andrew. We had Chris Sprouls and Matt Sprouls. That was it.
Speaker 2Yeah, we had no every school on like.
Speaker 3B-shirt and B-shirt. We all had about five. We had a lot. We had a lot At.
Speaker 2Summit. We had a lot.
Speaker 3So what was the moral of this story?
Speaker 1I'm getting to it so here's my point.
Speaker 1The only for me to talk to a white girl. The first time I talked to a white girl I was literally uncomfortable. Why? Because I had never been around them, so my shit was talking to black, that's all. That was black girls.
Speaker 1When I talked to a white girl I was. You know I'm like how the fuck do I even approach her? I felt awkward. So I could understand the flip side from a nigga that never got nothing from a black. No, you know, no confidence, no love from a black. My thing is I could understand it because I was my first time seeing white girls really really get to see white girls was playing sports, but then you couldn't really talk to them. When I got to the skills center my last semester of 12 grade I got the skills center I said damn, I ended up being in an all white class. It was only three black people in there and I felt out of place. And when the white girls would even say shit to me I kind of felt like when my grandma knew something about it, I'd better not say nothing.
Speaker 3My thing is like why do they feel? Like I don't? I have never felt uncomfortable, like how your definition of what you're saying, like you wouldn't even know how to talk to a white people. They just people to me.
Speaker 2Say something. White man going to me and he finds hell. He went to holler at me. I ain't gonna feel.
Speaker 1No type of way I have never felt comfortable and Any of my dudes in the live right now. Man y'all comment before I'm talking about growing up your first time talking to a white girl. Did you feel confident about it or did you feel awkward or anything uncomfortable about it? Let me know in the comments.
Navigating Racial Dynamics and Fear
Speaker 3I guess that's the difference between men and women. I mean, I never had a confidence complex Like a white person. Granted, I'm not racist, but y'all just saying I feel like y'all not black, but I don't hold y'all to no standard, Like no, it was standard.
Speaker 2It was kind of when I was Look, I had a white boyfriend, I was in elementary, so I went to private school.
Speaker 1So stop right, there, you was around them.
Speaker 3No, but you it wasn't-. I wasn't raised in them. My mama put me in a private school in fifth grade.
Speaker 2You gotta think about what you telling us. You saying Beecher was different and our school was different. And you're right, because the white boy went to our school was Richie Emmerich, richie Black okay, he's still Black to today, so I can't really say all of the white kids that went to Beecher were Black Because they in the same community and all this type of shit.
Speaker 3They don't think they better or nothing like that.
Speaker 2Mama didn't feel no type of way. Richie, mama came home. It's House Full of Black kids. I mean, that's all he got around him. So it's like I can't really put them. You know, like with white, like if I lived out in O'Asa, me going into their neighborhood.
Speaker 1I'm listening. This is a female sentence. I felt uncomfortable talking to a white dude first out of high school. He was hiding me from his parents.
Speaker 3That's because he was white, because he was actually white. He hid from somebody.
Speaker 1That's what I'm saying. See, when I say white and I'm not trying to be again disrespectful to any white person okay, as a person, listen, I'm not talking about, I'm not talking about the ones that act black. I'm talking about when I got the skills.
Speaker 3I wouldn't even say act black.
Speaker 1they in our community Like what I just said, I felt like I was going to jail. Talking to a white girl in Florida first time, that's how I felt it was uncomfortable, like I don't even want to say shit to her.
Speaker 3But why talk to him? So what was your reasoning? Was it fear? Is it fear, or is it just my?
Speaker 1first time talking to him because he said something to me and I'm like you know, I'm like shit. I'm in that bitch Again. I got two grandparents down, straight down south. I never heard the stories. My grandma would tell me not to talk to no white woman. My granite would tell me not to talk. Whatever you want.
Trust and Unease
Speaker 3See, they put fear in you all fucking ready. I'm not telling you it, never did that.
Speaker 1Listen, this is what I'm telling you if you was the average black man growing up around when I was growing up before, hell yeah, you got fear in your family.
Speaker 3You the same age as me, If you go hold on, listen to what I'm saying.
Speaker 1I started talking to girls in the 90s, in the 2000s If you just go back 40 fucking years. What happened to him too? I wasn't 40 fucking years.
Speaker 2We understand that, but that's how we wonder why y'all talk to him and y'all do. Listen, listen.
Speaker 1Listen what I'm saying again. My son has white friends and I don't feel comfortable around her. This my homeboy, shay, it's just, if you didn't grow around white people like we did, I can't say I didn't get to see white people interact with them till I got to fucking spit some. Okay, so when I was no.
Speaker 2So when I was starting to get around like not the people that act black, like we said, not the black, whitey people, but I was able to go around them at a young age because I played basketball and I was under a lawyer named Sam Ragnon. So when I was playing AAU, most of the girls that was good played with black schools, you know what I'm saying. Like Flynn affiliation that's where Tussie and all of them play. That I played with all white kids, you know what I'm saying With all white girls. So I used to go out of town with all white girls it was only me and Lucas Perry. We was the only black girls on the team. So I was able to be around it and it is a difference. But it's crazy because even if they're not and quote unquote racist, it's like they try hard to not show you that they're not racist, but you still see it.
Speaker 1I just think that overall.
Speaker 2I know we almost to it in our sing, but I just feel like overall it's just crazy how that race line can never be erased, no matter what. Even if you genuinely fall in love with a white motherfucker and that's who you have kids with and that's who you marry, it's like the race line is still gonna be there, no matter what you can't say.
Speaker 3Like say, if you're arguing and you're a black man and you're trying to get her to understand where you're coming from, she's not going to understand where you're coming from. She can tell you all day it's gonna be alright, or this, it's not gonna be alright.
Speaker 2You don't understand how I feel the only thing they can do is try to be empathetic with us and we can try to be, I guess, empathetic with them, but I feel like if you decide to be in an interracial relationship, that's gonna take so much.
Speaker 1I'm gonna say the same thing. Shayk man. They told me not to try to trust white people.
Speaker 2That's what I don't. I don't Not like white people. I don't trust them. I would say that that's what I said.
Speaker 1I was told that. Now here comes the difference for me. Once I finally got out in the world and got to be in a row, I said wait a minute. I started noticing when I got out. That's when I got comfortable around white people. When I got around them, I wasn't comfortable at first because I was literally wrong man. When I was at Martin and Holmes, it wasn't even fucking Mexicans there, it was literally just blacks. That's it.
Speaker 2I can say that I will never Like it was just blacks.
Speaker 1I will be comfortable.
Speaker 2I can get comfortable, but I'm never gonna be too comfortable and I'm never gonna trust white people completely because I feel like I hate to have to break it all the way down to that. But I feel like if it comes down to the come down and it's me or you, or me or her, and she white and I'm black, you rolling with that white girl or that family member or whatever the fuck the case may be, I'm always going to be last on your list in my mind. So therefore, when shit pop up, I just don't trust them motherfuckers.
Speaker 1I'm gonna say this Now this is the funniest thing about it too. Now my granddad, like I said but I remember this as I got older he told me a story. He had never told me this when I was young, but I got older and I understand now why he did. He told me like, yeah, but I'm gonna tell you this, and he broke it down. He had a white friend that you said. You know he was down and he had to leave up out that motherfucker because this is what shit happened that middle of the night. Get you up out this motherfucker. That's how I did my granddaddy.
Speaker 1I ain't gonna go into the details about it, but he told me when he went back down there for a funeral, he said the first person that came to him was a white boy. He used to beat up on and stuff because he was white. They was poor too, but he just because they was white. But he said I was the first person that came there and checked on him. He said now, all white people went like that. But he said he remember I forgot the name of the guy, but he said that's the first person came and checked on me. And I realized this when I got to going around white people hooping and dealing with them, I said damn, you know, it ain't what. I thought it was Exactly when a white woman. The first time he talked into a white woman it was uncomfortable, but after I kicked it with her for awhile I said okay, I get it. I understand the difference.
Speaker 3For one.
Speaker 1they are, they are it was a, and I told him I wanna say.
Speaker 3I wanna say they don't have their guards up, whether we're black or other white people or whatever they more friendlier, we are, more kind of like at a we aggressive, so we wanna know why are you doing this? It's always a why like, why you being so nice to me, why is this white? I got and like white people. They just opened, like you said, your granddaddy went down there and that was the first person they checked on, like they are really like sympathetic, like they wanna know what's going on.
Speaker 2Some of them are really sympathetic. I got a couple of white friends. Me and Courtney had two white friends when we were younger. I talked to them on Facebook from still time to time Jessica and Tamika. Then it was my dogs and when we stayed, when I first stayed night over their house, her granddaddy was racist, like didn't want me there, Like that was my. That was my first experience with like for real racism. Like he didn't want me in a kitchen and it was just crazy, cause the grandmother was not racist. You know what I'm saying. And she down there cussing him out Like you don't treat her like that and I'm tripping like this shit for real, Like he really don't like me all cause I'm black. Like that shit is crazy. You know what I'm saying. Since then I've gained other white friends. You know what I'm saying. Shout out to Ashley, shout out to Erica. I love them. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2I went to Ashley wedding. I wasn't the only black person there, but shit, it was only a couple of dots. But I didn't feel weird. Her family didn't make me feel weird. You know what I'm saying. Not to say that it wasn't somebody in there probably thinking like what the hell is black girl doing here?
Speaker 3But her parents didn't make me feel no type of woman. I just feel like if you're educated and you're not naive or whatever, like that you know how to maneuver through a crowd, Like if you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2You just gotta be aware, you know what I'm saying, and you gotta teach your kids to be aware, cause they are black yeah.
Speaker 3Like be aware of somebody being funny or being ruled or joking with you, but in a serious manner, but they put it off as a joke.
Speaker 1And that's what I'm gonna end it on, cause like this. Now this is the funny part. Now again how I've been raised around nothing but blacks until I got a adult, became a adult. Now my cute, my two kids, in-house kids, they go to Grand Blank. My son been in Grand Blank from day one. Daughter got the Grand Blank, I wanna say fourth grade. All her friends are white. So you know what I'm saying. All her friends are white, they white. And it's funny because when I have conversations with her about certain stuff, it'd be hard to have conversations with her about certain things. But guess what?
Speaker 2All her friends are white.
Speaker 1My son. I crack jokes with my wife about it, with my son, because his girlfriends not girlfriends, but I ain't gonna say that. But the girls that be hitting on him they white, and I be cracking jokes. I'm like when we had that grand kid come here and then the name become Tanner or some shit like that, gunner or some shit like that. So I be laughing about it but I'm like, yeah, I said they gonna come over here with the motherfucking when this thing's given, they got razors and a castle roll and shit like that.
Speaker 2You gonna have to be used to it, and I think it's crazy, because I think that we're more accepting of things like that, like our black kid can bring a white girl or a white boy home and we ain't gonna be like, we ain't gonna take them in the other room and be like what the fuck? But you know what?
Speaker 1I'm gonna say this Me going to Grand Blank, being around Grand Blank, like we used to use the term. This is a racial slur and the racial people used to call them mutts.
Speaker 3I got in trouble for calling them girl a mutt.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's not used no more, because I remember to see a mixed kid when I was growing up. I'm talking about from the age probably like six to like 13, 15, it was like and now they actually glorify me.
Speaker 3You know, lotto name was Mulatto and that means so they told her like that she had the chance. Listen, if you look at the NBA right now.
Speaker 1Look at some of your top players. They're mixed. Yeah, it wasn't like that growing up. I didn't know no mixed NBA players when I was growing up.
Speaker 2Think about it Everybody black shout out to be black.
Speaker 1Now it's more. That's what I say it used to be.
Speaker 3It's gonna be more hard to be racist when you're a grand kid, that's what I always said.
Speaker 1That's how you're gonna end racism. I said it's gonna come into classism. I always said this because once you keep intermingling like it's going, you can't do. And it be weird when I say that when I be at Walmart and shit, and I see it's still weird to me but I've been saying this shit for like the last 10 years. See a white woman coming out of the motherfuckers. She looked like the white woman that would call the police on you. But you look at her grandbaby seeing this motherfucking smile when she got a white.
Speaker 2She ain't got no choice. She ain't got no choice. You right, I got something real quick before we leave. I just wanna see if y'all cause we all been out of school for a long time, so, before we leave, instead of saying what we was listening to, tell me one person from black history and what they did. Right, oh, I can go with a bunch of them, and don't name nobody like Rosa Parks. We already know.
Speaker 1Is it Charles Drew? I wanna say it's Charles Drew. I could be wrong. Nobody can crucify me, Charles Drew, but he was one of the motherfucking doctors that came through with like blood transfusions and things like that. I wanna say it's Charles Drew. Don't get down on me if I it's not. I know his last name, Drew. Okay.
Speaker 3I don't have one.
Speaker 2I don't have one. That's sad. Shout out to Madam CJ Walker David for making the perm cause. I love them okay.
Speaker 3Yeah, I was gonna be cracked. I forgot the person the creepy crack. I'm gonna be cracked. Let me look up real quick.
Speaker 1I know it's Charles Drew man, cause I had to do a report on him.
Speaker 2That's a damn shame, Courtney. You ought to have somebody off the back for that, for black history?
Speaker 3I really don't. I had the hot call. I don't even remember how I was like I was like I don't have one Shit I ain't looked at. No, black history Yep Charles Drew I wasn't.
Speaker 1Charles Drew, you was right. I was right, Madam.
Speaker 2CJ Walker shout out to you my girl, I need this creepy crack.
Speaker 1And that's so. We ain't going yeah, we is.
Speaker 2Was it, Madam CJ Walker? Was I?
Speaker 1right? No, yeah, that's right. Why I'm talking about crack? Cause if I'm mistaken, she like one of the first millionaires.
Speaker 2Okay, yeah, I think I'm right.
Speaker 1I think she like one of the first black millionaires.
Speaker 2I bet she can't do anything with this nappy ass hair virus.
Speaker 1If I am mistaken, she was one of the first black millionaires.
Speaker 3She did the how Come too, oh see.
Speaker 1Let me look her up right now, before we get out of here. Get her a props. I want to say I am not mistaken, she was one of the first.
Speaker 2If she did the how Come? And the Pern, my girl, yeah, shout out to her.
Speaker 1Yep, she is recorded as the first female self-made millionaire in America. Hey. Not just black female period.
Speaker 2Shout out to her. That's why you know right now, today, that that she didn't get invented and invented in different forms. That's why you know today that the black hair I'ma say woman hair period ain't even black hair. That is a billion dollar industry.
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Speaker 1It is Goodness gracious, so it is. So we about to get out of here, give out some social media tags.
Speaker 2Y'all know y'all can catch me on Instagram at Just Misty J-U-S-N-Y-S-T-I-E. Everything else y'all is Just Misty J-U-S-Under-Score NYS-T-I-E. Make sure y'all tap in. I'm dropping content every day. And make sure y'all subscribe to our YouTube channel.
Speaker 3Yep, you can catch me on Courtney Dixon on Facebook, Courtney Malone on IG and Tia Nantik on TikTok. K-r-t-e-n-e-e on Snapchat.
Speaker 1And Bobby Frost Media on all social media and listen, man. Go tap in to the God damn YouTube channel. You know what I'm saying. I gotta upload it more on tryparency. But check in on the Bobby Frost Media. Go check out the podcast, because people always kept hitting me with that shit. Oh, y'all ain't on YouTube. It's on YouTube. Go look it up on YouTube, check it out. We out there, so we out.
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