Friends in your relationship

Misty and I, Bobby Frost, know all too well that juggling life's demands with relationships can feel like a circus act. On our latest podcast, we trade stories of our workaday world, chuckling over dropped bags of herbs and plotting escapes to Dallas and Vegas. But it's not all laughs—we get real about the tug-of-war between career ambitions and the thirst for adventure, and even consider roping in our scholarly pal Courtney for a candid chat on the show. Get ready for a wild ride as we peel back the curtain on keeping connections alive in the midst of the chaos.

As we wade into deeper waters, brace yourself for an unfiltered look at how friendships can make or break the bonds of love. Have you ever found yourself torn between your partner and your pals? We've been there too, dissecting the challenges of navigating disapproval from a significant other's friend and the dicey dance of delineating friend from foe. From the politics of being a wingman to the struggle of appeasing a partner's worries about our friendships, we're laying it all on the table. Join us for a heart-to-heart on why, sometimes, flying solo feels like the simpler choice.

Transcript

Relationship Dynamics and Friendships

Speaker 1 0:00

Yo yo yo, it's your boy, Bobby Frost, and Bobby Frost Media presents Tri-Parency. I'm with the beautiful lady.

Speaker 2 0:07

Hey y'all.

Speaker 1 0:08

Damn, you didn't. Let me say just Misty, it was coming out.

Speaker 2 0:09

I was wondering what you was going to say you the one starting, Like you fucking retired today.

Speaker 1 0:13

It was coming out God damn Well, it don't usually come out that slow. So I said maybe he forgot to say the name day girl. Then hey, that's what the next uh topic gonna be for the podcast misty's doing a weekday and misty on saturday.

Speaker 2 0:30

She's way more cheerful and ready to go at the work. Cb works monday through friday at nine to five and I'm up at five o'clock every day, so yeah so speaking on that man, I see, congrats man, tell him what's been going on I just I'm tired, I can't even. I'm so tired.

Speaker 1 0:43

That's all I'm doing. The good stuff, man.

Speaker 2 0:45

That's it, Girl you been making moves. That's it. That's it Working inspections, trying to get investors it's a lot. I'm tired. That's that. On that, I'm tired of working. I can't wait to work for myself.

Speaker 1 0:59

You can't be at Nate Janitorial Services with that type of energy. We need you amped up.

Speaker 2 1:04

Nah, nigga, it is Tuesday. I fought that Jeter. That's how I know, that's how I know you don't like 9 to 5.

Speaker 1 1:10

Nah, you ain't fought that Jeter and that motherfucker, and that bitch is in Ohio. It made me think about it, because of our snap, when I had posted that memory came up, so it was that's fucked up that you still ain't bought me nothing.

Speaker 2 1:22

That was $70 worth of Jeter's. That's crazy.

Speaker 1 1:25

She looked and we got the camera and all, so I ain't going to be able to see the visitor. She looked up the minds got big when I said that Jeter's she still holding on to that shit a year later.

Speaker 2 1:33

Because why would you throw somebody weed on the way we?

Speaker 1 1:36

going to be old as hell and she still going to be breaking that shit up.

Speaker 2 1:39

That's crazy, Crazy and you would never understand, I guess until you smoke. But that was the stupidest shit in the world.

Speaker 1 1:45

Yeah, we got to get on another trip, man, because I'm thinking about going to Dallas. I would have loved to go on a trip with y'all to Dallas.

Speaker 2 1:51

That would have been dope, I'm going to Atlanta. I don't know why you keep saying Dallas. I don't know who the fuck is going to Dallas. I'm going to Atlanta.

Speaker 1 1:59

June 8th party down here I might try to make that it's called take flight I didn't want to go back there because we already did a trip to atlanta. I wanted to go somewhere else, but I might still go down there and fuck with you on that I'm booked, I'm going wherever the money go.

Speaker 1 2:11

That's what you should do girl congrats. You know what I'm saying. Let's get that clap going. So my home girl doing big things. So I ain't really been doing shit, man. You know it's at the end of the semester so like I went from in one class, I'm not proud of this, but in a week and a half span I went from like a 55 to now I'm at 80. But I was busting my ass getting assignments in Like man. Stress the fuck out. Getting them assignments in Trying to make that bitch before before 12 o'clock hit Like fuck man, I'm scared to go.

Speaker 2 2:43

I'll take the real estate class. I think I start May 13th. I don't even want to. I ain't been schooling so long, no type of class, no, nothing, and it's only a week. You got it, though, girl. Yeah, I'm not worried about it, but damn, I'm old. I do know that I'm definitely. That's definitely setting in. Oh, at, vibes is setting in.

Speaker 1 3:04

Yeah because, like I said, right now I'm on the fence. It's Tuesday. I'm on the fence about going to Dallas this weekend. I was thinking about Vegas or Dallas. I looked at the Expedia package for Dallas. I looked at the Expedia package for Vegas. I'm on the fence about both of them. I'm like ready to pull the trigger tonight on one of them. One of them going to get pulled, though, for sure.

Speaker 1 3:28

But you know, I was going with my sister to Dallas, but she, when I called a couple of my homies, they're like you know, it's the Dallas to Flint picnic. I'm like I didn't know nothing about that. I was really just going out there to fuck with sis, to get away for a minute, because I ain't been nowhere in 2024. Like I ain't been nowhere, I'm like, yeah, so I'm definitely about to book me up about four to five trips in the next, like four months, four to five months. I'm getting the fuck up out here, in and out, in and out. So, yeah, that's, that's been it. Oh man, you know what? I should have phoned her ass in If she at home.

Speaker 1 3:58

I should have phoned Courtney ass.

Speaker 2 4:00

Courtney is in class, or else her ass would be here. What time she get out. She said again she have class from five to nine or five to eight or something like that she better be glad.

Speaker 1 4:07

I don't know when she get her little break period, because I call her, and when he let her know she on the show I call her like it's a regular call.

Speaker 2 4:13

Yeah, no, you know what?

Speaker 1 4:14

Figure that out, like yeah, and put her on the show. She ain't going to know. I ain't going to tell her until she listens to the episode.

Speaker 2 4:24

Yeah, Courtney was, is she? I asked her today too to see what she had to do, but she go to class five, she being that bitch late as hell, she's in evening classes.

Speaker 1 4:33

That's what I got. I got one, though. That's it them motherfuckers. They seem cool like you're going to be, like your whole day is now booked and gone.

Speaker 2 4:43

Yeah, I did that shit. That's what I'm saying. I'm straight, like I'm done with school. I did that shit with a baby and playing basketball and fuck that, I'm done. I don't even think that I could go back for like, yeah, I want to go to law school and I don't know Shit. I don't know Because I am getting old, rob, I be time to sleep right now. What time is it? Yeah, I get off work at five. I'm usually at home In the shower, my boy Laying down Sleep right now.

Speaker 1 5:11

I get it, man, I ain't knocking, I get it. I get it for sure he's preaching to the choir. So let's get into the topic I had. Well, I'm going to start doing this Because a lot of times we just brainstorm as a team of what topics we're going to come up with, but I've been getting a lot of feedback from you guys, so I had two topics to go between and I chose this one.

Speaker 1 5:30

I had the topic to go between when shit get real like you know how relationships are. You got stages. In my opinion, you got stages. You got just feeling each other out stage. You got the kick in the stage. You got to where it started getting kind of, you know, exclusive. And then you got when shit get real them titles and when you move in together. That's when shit get real, and that's one of the viewers that hit me up with that one. Like yeah, talk about staying together, how shit change when you move in together. That was one topic, and the other topic was a good one too friends and your relationship. I have never been one of them dudes like Martin that disliked Pam, like I ain't never had that friend.

Speaker 2 6:08

But see, I think Martin and Pam I think he disliked. I don't think he disliked her, I think she was just the person he wanted to fuck with. And now motherfuckers really be like dead set on your homegirl being a hoe and you birds of a feather flock together Whatever the fuck that saying is Like they be dead set on that, and that's a different type of dislike. Like when your homegirl not even comfortable coming around your dude. Like it's different.

Speaker 1 6:32

So that's the one I picked. I picked that one Because I felt like they both was good. I might run that other one back Saturday or if we get some more good suggestions, but that's the one I picked. I liked that one. I have never experienced it really on my end. I have experienced it on another end, but never on my end. I never really care like that's your friend, that's your friend. I ain't one of them niggas that want to be around you 24-7. Anyways, I like spending time with who. I'm spending time with with my girl.

Speaker 2 7:00

I don't even think it be about them spending time. I think it be. What the fuck do you do when you with that friend? I'm not going, none of my friends', boyfriends or significant others probably like me. I mean, you just got to think about it. I do see that I say that I'm on. I got six boyfriends, blah, blah, blah. So yeah, he don't want his girlfriend around the bitch to think, as soon as I do something, she going to encourage my bitch to do shit. You can do what you want to do and if it's your real friend, they're only encouraging you to do something that you already said you wanted to do.

Friend vs Foe in Relationships

Speaker 1 7:29

I'm sure of it what you just said is how I feel about it. Make sure you tag me on that one too. Like that's how I feel about it. You know, that's exactly really how I feel about it. Like why I'm gonna get mad at your friend. You grown as fuck like we ain't in high school, middle school, if she, if you do some shit, that you was out of bonds in a relationship. You wanted to do that shit because she gave you a little nudge, don't mean shit. It ain't like she put a. You know like uh, craig, uh Smokey told Craig man, you know what I'm saying. Like nobody put a gun to your head Like you wanted to do it, so why would you get mad? But I done seen that In other situations.

Speaker 2 8:11

It's like that with girls too, though. I mean we know Like every time he with that nigga he come late or in the house late, or whatever the case may be, but I just don't think that I take it to the extent Of not liking your boy. It's just I know what type of shit you be on when you with that nigga. I mean you grown. Nothing that somebody else do can make me dislike.

Speaker 1 8:28

Somebody like that ain't got shit to do with us yeah, and that's how I feel about it too, like that's, that's wild to be in those situations and it'd be like I'm gonna go with mine. I'm gonna literally go with what happened with me, my situation, I'm mine's one. I'll never forget this. This is wifey. So you know, I'm sitting back chilling and she had a friend and I didn't know the girl from like two cans of paint. This is really I never had figured knew this chick ever. And, um, you know, we got the kick out. I didn't know she disliked me. No, I didn't really know she really disliked me till wifey came and told me one day, like she you do know that you can't watch my live while you on there oh, I did not know that you don't hear it in the background no, I had it on, I had my music on.

Speaker 1 9:13

So, yeah, I figured that out. Yeah, I didn't know that. But um, yeah, like um, she was tripping and she was hating on me because she was on some shit, like I got a new car and she was like, oh, this nigga think he did shit Cause he just got a new wife. Yeah, he think he did. This is like in the dating stage Real deal.

Speaker 2 9:33

Okay, okay.

Speaker 1 9:34

I'm like I ain't never gave off that type of vibe or nothing. She like, yeah, this nigga don't that and I'll fall for it and off and he think he the shit because he got a new Chrysler 200. I'm like, yeah, I'm like I never gave that vibe off. I'm assuming.

Speaker 2 9:49

That don't even sound like a girl that don't like you for her friend. That sound like a girl that liked you and just don't want her homegirl to like you Listen.

Speaker 1 9:56

it popped in my mind, but I didn't.

Speaker 2 9:59

I feel like when you don't like the homeboy. Like I said, that's not a new car, ain't significant enough for me. It's got to be like every time I catch him cheating he's with you. Or every time he doing some fuck shit he's with you. It has to be a significant reason to not like your homeboy For me to even give a fuck to think about whether I like your homeboy or not, because I don't even really give a fuck.

Speaker 1 10:20

That's your homeboy, not mine. And my, like, I said that it was that. And then we had another little situation. We had went out to eat and, um, I brought my uh, my cousin, along with me, went out to eat and it was crazy, man, because we was at uh, what's that shit called hooters and she just was acting like stuck up and shitty acting. You feel what I'm saying? I'm like what the fuck? And I'm like anytime I'm around I get a vibe from her like she'd be on some you know, almost anti-social type shit. You know what I'm saying? I'm like, damn, and that was the only time that ever happened. All my other past relationships I've been in, I never had a problem with none of their friends.

Speaker 2 10:53

But I don't get too close to the friends anyways, like if I see you, I say what's up to you, but it ain't gonna be like, do you even get to your home, to your significant others, boy, well, homeboys, or whatever the case may be like is your boy my boy?

Speaker 2 11:08

I got somebody who I definitely can't even say what they is to me or nothing, but this person has her ex. I ain't gonna say it's her ex-boyfriend, but her dual friend always calls her, always checks on her. I'm talking about always, okay, I'm talking about sent the bitch her favorite type of flowers for her birthday, type shit. And I'm like bitch, he like you and she like no. I'm like bitch yes, the fuck he do, and she just don't believe it. But I'm like listen, see, that type of homeboy. I don't know. I can't say that she let him on or nothing, because I really do think that she's like green to the fact, she's like what he don't like me. But I'm like, yes, the fuck he do.

Speaker 1 11:50

Yeah.

Speaker 2 11:50

I wouldn't know that that's shit that can't happen. Like yeah, I'm like I don't know if you. How do something like that even happen? Like how do my homeboy fall for you that hard though?

Speaker 1 12:09

And then, as my homeboy, why is you paying that much attention that you know what type of flowers? My bitch like, right, I'm with you, 100 with that too, because I that's that's tough. Like I like a birthday gift or something, if she cool enough I know that she really hurt my sense, something like that but like yeah, I don't know what type of flowers.

Speaker 2 12:16

that's what I'm saying. It was for you not knowing, not calling and saying hey, rob, I want to. It's his wifey birthday. I'm gonna send her some flowers, you feel me, whatever, you know what I'm saying, what kind she like, and you say oh, she like da-da-da-da-da, then I send those in your home, that's different. And then I done already told you that I'm sending them, you feel me.

Speaker 1 12:31

Yeah, that's tough.

Speaker 2 12:32

No, he didn't tell the boy, he didn't say nothing. Now, yeah, that sound like some. Yeah, I'm trying to, yeah, I did, that's what I'm saying. So stuff like that is why I can't let my friends we ain't hi everybody, yeah, um, everybody that's tapping in right now on my live. We are talking about like your friends, not liking your significant other or vice versa or vice versa, and how much do that affect your relationship?

Speaker 2 13:01

like your girl not liking your homeboy is if this been your homeboy since y'all was little. As you like, bitch, fuck you. I'm still. That's my dog. Do it be worth you saying I mean, I ain't got listen? That's why I don't know if I want to be in a relationship, because I'm not stopping talking to none of my friends because you don't like them bro now I never heard this before from females and y'all didn't even crack them type of jokes before too.

Speaker 1 13:23

Like I'm not going to sit up and say like you know, I ain't going to listen to my significant other what she got to say, but for sure, if this my dog like you're going to have to have a valid reason even to be mad at him, because most of the time I'm just going to leave you alone. Like, fuck, that sound like some old, childish petty shit okay.

Speaker 2 13:43

What if my valid reason is that every time you come in the house past three o'clock in the morning, you're with him? Why is that?

Speaker 1 13:50

and that's gonna be my thing too is like again, this is what I want to do.

Speaker 2 13:53

Don't blame him what you mad at him for but why is it every time you with him, though it's never when you by yourself? So, nigga, if you want to come in at three o'clock in the morning, come to fuck in at three o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 1 14:02

Come the fuck in at 3 o'clock in the morning on your own, and this is what I would say. The best thing I would say about it would be like this is the truth. Like that nigga is the nigga that he ain't gonna tell me. Like, yeah, you making a bad decision.

Speaker 2 14:12

He gonna roll with it. Oh, so see no that's what I'm saying't.

Speaker 1 14:24

Do that.

Speaker 2 14:24

And then I got some homeboys gonna be like well, nigga, that's what you with, I'm with it well, it's a somebody that I think might be one of your homeboys said it depends on the reason why your partner don't like the friend. They could be a bad influence. Okay, I get that, calvin, but what I'm saying is is is conscious, grown, uh adults who can make decisions for themselves? You should, should, be able to how can your significant other come and say that another adult is making you make bad decisions? See, I don't ever want nobody that I'm dealing with to think that Courtney or Courtney or Candace, nobody can make me do anything and I can't make them do nothing. I do a whole lot of shit that my friends don't do, and my friends do a whole lot of shit that I don't do. I can't influence another grown woman to do nothing. We ain't little. This ain't peer pressure.

Speaker 1 15:08

Right, that's how I feel about it, like, yeah, you can't influence me and do nothing.

Speaker 2 15:12

So therefore, you ain't going to tell me I can't talk to her?

Speaker 1 15:14

Yeah, that's me. But then what you said, like I understand this. It never happened to me, but I'm seeing other like my homeboys and shit, they got, they girl got a homegirl. That's just always saying some old Hayden underlying shit and it make you dislike them, like you always in a relationship.

Speaker 2 15:36

You always got. But that's different when I, when I come at you and say Rob, and you say listen, she always saying some hating shit, she always trying to make you mad at me.

Speaker 1 15:50

That's different versus you saying she's always making me do something negative, right, yeah, no, because like that's that. Now, I ain't never experienced that, but I done seen it from the other side. Like that, because I done seen that happen from both sides, male and female. Like you and your friend relationship too much. It's hard to give a couple of advice here and there, but now you and this bitch like refereeing a relationship, like wait a minute back up, like that's their relationship, Let them have a relationship. I had to deal with that shit but, like I said, with the one girl she was in my you know she ended up cutting her off, but before it was like damn, tell me, no something.

Speaker 2 16:21

Okay, calvin said so. Birds of a feather is not true, no more, it never was true. I think that people took that saying and like literally, just they abused it. That don't mean that, because, first of all, when I'm going out to do something, my girls is dropping me off. I just said I was with them. If that's the, I don't know how to answer that. No, it's not true. I'm not going to say that. It's you a hoe, he a hoe, he a hoe. That means this last one got to be a hoe too. He might not be a hoe, he might be. Just looking at y'all like y'all do y'all. This is what I'm going to say.

Speaker 1 16:54

If everybody in the clique a hoe, yeah, if I got a hoe. I'm with my significant other and she got five hoe girls and all five of them hoes yeah, I might have a hoe out to click. You might have one that like the start shot to click, you might have a quiet one. But everybody a hoe and you not.

Speaker 2 17:14

Yeah, I can't roll with that one God damn, what's the difference between everybody not being a hoe and it being one hoe? That steel birds of a feather did not flock together.

Speaker 1 17:23

That's not birds and the feathers thing Like I got certain homeboys that's into like boxing.

Speaker 2 17:36

Birds and the feathers mean that we do have some shit in common.

Speaker 1 17:39

It don't mean everything is all I'm saying.

Speaker 2 17:41

So why do it always gotta be the whole shit?

Speaker 1 17:46

that's the flock together. That's why I, the viewers, can comment on it. If you got five friends and five of the friends hoes, even four out of the five is high enough Like goddamn. All of them hoes, bae, yeah, they is so when they doing their hoes shit what you doing on the sideline.

Speaker 2 18:00

I am covering for them, bae they not married. I am.

Speaker 1 18:02

Like yeah, why can't that be it?

Speaker 2 18:06

It can be.

Speaker 1 18:07

I'm going to ask that question like nah, damn baby, like they all hoes. So when they out there sucking dick what you— and that's the answer.

Speaker 2 18:13

Then what's your—I'm covering for them. You just in the house chilling they with me. They didn't tell they niggas. They with me. That's different.

Understanding Wingman Relationships

Speaker 1 18:19

But I'm saying, like—i'm going to say this Do you think that I physically go you? A perfect example Again if me and you together and five of your friends it's five friends and four out of the five are hoes, they know hoes, they move like hoes. They know hoes, y'all go on a girl trip. I know they out there getting their back blew out home.

Speaker 2 18:48

What you doing when all four of so what the fuck Do them going to suck dick and be hoes Got to do with me. Y'all on a girl trip.

Speaker 1 18:53

What the fuck is you doing While they sucking dick? I'm the wingman. Ain't no wingman on a girl trip? Yeah, it could be. So you just said Now that's what a wingman mean. No, no, you better tell me.

Speaker 2 19:05

What your wingman mean, what I am with rob. Rob at home, we on a girl's trip and you want to go talk to that dude over there and it's another dude over there. Let's go over there. Now when we go over there, just because I sit over there whole conversation with this nigga while she exchanged numbers and do that, what do that mean? I ain't did nothing wrong. Now I'm gonna. All I did was distract him and held conversation with him until my girl and old boy finished doing what they doing. I ain't exchanged numbers with the nigga or nothing. What? What's wrong with that?

Speaker 1 19:29

I'm going to read this one. I said that's a tricky situation. Some partners be genuinely concerned about the company you keep and others have some use as a tactic to isolate you for the benefit, to pull the wool over your eyes.

Speaker 2 19:43

I agree with that, exactly so how do you know the difference, bree, if you let a motherfucker take it? Let me tell you something. I'm doing. What the fuck I want to do? That's why I think I'm going to be single forever, y'all. That's the problem, because I don't want you to tell me what to do and what you just said.

Speaker 1 19:58

Go back to what you just said. Now, wingman like for us and I know anybody else said wingman. I'm not saying your interpretation is your interpretation. I'm going to take one from the team. I might not fuck this shit, but I'm going to entertain it so you can get off with this shit.

Speaker 2 20:12

Right. So why is that cheating If we're at a bar? We're at an open bar. I mean, I ain't saying cheating, but what did I do wrong? We're at an open bar and it's four of us sitting at the table. Oh, we ain't did shit, but took shots. Why they kicked it and exchanged numbers Because I'm with some hoes. What did I do wrong?

Speaker 1 20:28

That's one situation for the wingman. Like I said, take one for the team. That's why I said I know this from being on trips and shit and this shit do go down like that. So it's four of us on a trip. If I'm wingmanning it, I'm in it.

Speaker 2 20:40

Now I might not do nothing, but I'm in a hotel room with y'all said that's why I said that it's different I think wingman depend on the situation, but I just don't think that a wingman mean that you have to literally take one for like, I gotta fuck with this nigga. No, it's a distraction. I'm just a wingman to distract his company. Who's he with so that y'all can do y'all right, that's it and that's all you can be a wingman in the public setting. You can be a wingman in the private setting.

Speaker 1 21:10

And now we didn't say the setting was private yeah, that's why I said it depends on it and my thing again. But like that's again from another person, I'm saying for another person, especially somebody might be insecure about shit like that. That might be an issue because they like shit.

Speaker 2 21:23

If you around this, you might be opening up and there was box even being around these hoes all the time you have to trust that I am not going to Pandora's box is if it's closed while I'm in a relationship, it's closed Everybody can't do that. That's right. You should know your significant other.

Speaker 2 21:39

You aren't supposed to be able to trust somebody to know that, no matter who they are around or where they are, you can still trust them to be them. Now, if you know that I can't be around no whole lot of niggas without getting off and doing whatever I'm gonna do, then you you knew that from the jump. My friends ain't had nothing to do with that. I was a hoe when you met me hold on.

Speaker 1 21:58

Uh, she said. Rack said the wingman get the girls for their single friend not a wingman.

Speaker 2 22:05

It's supposed to distract them. Like if it's me and my home girl and he want to talk to me and his homeboy really don't want to talk to her, he'd be like, fuck it, I'm an entertainer. Until you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 22:17

That's what I think the wing man is for wing man supposed to be there yeah, and that's why I said it's different thing, because I'm not some wing man like I back in my days. I don't have to sit out there. I said we have the crib and we chilling, I might be at my dog crib, we might be at shorty crib, and now I got to entertain this chick so she won't be all in her cock blocking, so you can go ahead and move off with her. Now what I just said.

Speaker 2 22:39

So are you a hoe because of that, Again what I just said? Should I be mad at your homeboy because you wingman for him?

Speaker 2 22:46

Some girls will be. You might not be like that that. You might not be like that. That's what I'm trying to say is nobody should be like that. A grown ass man or a grown ass woman should be held responsible for their own actions. Not because your homeboy said do it, so you did it. No, your homeboy put the plug in your ear, but you, as a grown man, decided to do whatever the fuck it was you wanted to do. So I would never be feeling no type of way about no homeboy that nobody had. But that's just me, though.

Speaker 2 23:12

Cause I feel like Every adult should, be like Held, accountable for their action. I'm with you 100%.

Speaker 1 23:16

That's the truth. Taking one for the team Is a real thing. Hey, heck, you already know Back in the day, baby. Yeah, hey, taking one for the team Is tough.

Speaker 2 23:24

No, okay, she talking about If her friend shy, she for it. No, you playing shy, she playing shy. Brother, you ever saw the temptations? That's what she doing, acting shy. And you're gonna go. Oh, I'm gonna do that too. You really ain't did shit wrong with that, ain't even but wingman, and that's a sis. That's a sis. You're gonna go get the player and bring you back to your girl.

Speaker 1 23:45

It depends on a person man because, like I said, I'm not, I I've never been one of them. I'm not gonna trust you. I'm into that. You're going to make your own decision. But I know some people do have insecurity about that. They feel like your friends are hoes. They feel like why are you around them? Because they doing hoes shit. They may tempt you to do hoes shit Because I like watching them.

Speaker 2 24:00

Do hoes shit. I ain't no hoe, it's boring. Hoes do what they do. I don't know. Hoes do look like they have fun. They have a grand time. I'm not one. I'm not one, but I heard they have an awesome time. What's?

Speaker 1 24:18

up girl Jordan. That's my dog man. Hi Jordan. Yeah, I think I will say this no disrespect, ladies, so don't jump on me about it. Hoes are fun to be around. Hoes are Right, just just like you know, like, oh, I ain't gonna get off too far, I ain't gonna get off either because, yeah, I don't get too far before we I said this before too, though like hoes are cool to be around, because hoes be around bunch of different niggas. So if you like.

Speaker 1 24:41

If you like being around the hoes what make you think I don't want to be around my own friends if it's fun how you mad at my friends for enjoying their life and you got me at home bored to death.

Speaker 2 24:53

I mean, if you bored, I'm just saying you shouldn't be bored in a relationship, but you just never know If I want to be around the hoes and that's exciting. That means that it's boring at home.

Speaker 1 25:01

Yeah, I always say, the hoes have fun.

Speaker 2 25:10

If the person can give you genuine reasons why they don't like your friend other than the flock of a feather mindset, then it's just an isolation tactic, because flock of a feather has a double standard meaning, which is a form of manipulation. I agree, okay, but Bree, tell me this what is a good reason? That's what I've been trying to search for, that's what I've been asking him. Like we keep going to the hoes and that's the main thing everybody usually be talking about. But what is a good reason for your significant other to say you shouldn't be friends with misty or I don't like misty as a friend for you?

Speaker 2 25:35

hey, niggas do love hoes jordan because they fun to be around they man, just like, just like the girls dealing niggas.

Speaker 1 25:42

Okay, you have a grand time I'm gonna give you a promise up about that shit. Man like shorty red she seems like they love her she gonna have a good time, no matter where you go.

Speaker 2 25:50

Nigga it's sexy, sexy Shorty Red. Nigga Is sexy Sexy Red, my bad Sexy Red. I'm sorry, don't do her, I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 25:55

I don't listen to that music.

Speaker 2 25:56

I know it's something and in case don't nobody know, that's Drake, baby Drake love her, it wouldn't be surprised.

Speaker 1 26:03

They love the ghetto hoes, they have fun, what's up? Too cool. You know what I'm saying. If you at the club or you at a function any type of function you at, and there's some hoes, then a hoe's going to make the function fun.

Speaker 2 26:14

The hoes bring everybody out. I don't know why everybody don't like hoes. What's the problem with hoes?

Speaker 1 26:19

I can tell you that much. That's easy it could go for the niggas.

Speaker 2 26:24

You love them when you ain't. It's like you love them when you want.

Speaker 1 26:27

You don't like females, don't love hoes, because what you just said, yeah, man. He happy to be around a hoes because the hoes having fun. I always say this man, I remember this. Shout out to Kira. I went to a motherfucking rooftop party. I got in that bitch and I looked around.

Speaker 2 26:40

I said I ain't single girl, I got five boyfriends. Y'all see, it went down to five, not six.

Speaker 1 26:47

Yikes, I said man God damn, I wasted my money Coming to this bitch.

Speaker 2 26:49

The fine girls sit around and do nothing, do nothing.

Speaker 1 26:52

I said, yeah, what the fuck did I spend this money to come to this bitch? But I seen a couple chicks I ain't gonna call them hoes, they like they had Ho tendencies and they was turned up In that bitch. And that's when the party Got live.

Speaker 2 27:01

This is what I'm gonna say and I'm gonna say it To is what's a hoe? Like what, if a very promiscuous woman, if that's what I want to do, why you got to put a title on me, though god damn why it's such a bad title too she said they can't stand that the hoe is gonna be hoes that's it right there. Just let them do them, though just like. Just like the hoe is gonna be hoes, I feel like the niggas gonna be niggas. You feel me, and I ain't never been hoephobic.

Speaker 1 27:32

I'm putting that you feel me and I. I ain't never been ho phobic. I'm putting that on the record right now. I ain't never been ho phobic.

Speaker 2 27:39

All right, I love the hoes man I just, I just don't know what's a good enough excuse, y'all for your friend, I can give you some good scenarios like I said oh god, what is a whole example? Okay, example. Example of a good reason Could be they notice this person don't celebrate you the same way you celebrate them, or they only call you to gossip, or when things are going bad, et cetera.

Speaker 1 28:02

Okay, Bree called me Let me get serious Bree. Let me get serious Bree.

Speaker 2 28:06

That's why I was going with Bree. No, if my man can sit me down and really be like listen, every time you and Bree around each other, your vibe be off. You know what I'm saying. She come around, she negative, she don't. If he come at me like that, then I'm going to sit back and I'm going to be in. Probably had to peep it out myself. You feel me, but I'm still not going. I'm happy he brought it to my attention, but now I got to peep it out myself to be like oh okay, that's accurate, you know what I'm saying. He might be right, but for the most part I feel like people know that type of shit already. Bri, I already knew that. You know what I'm saying. So if I still got a bitch around me that don't really celebrate me like that, or whatever the case may be, I think that I probably would already be knowing. But you're right.

Speaker 1 28:55

Some people be blind to to it. That is a very good example and I guess, yeah, I'm gonna tell you something. I I didn't have this happen before too that I didn't dislike the friend, but I knew when I seen the friend what time it was. We got a, we got kids. Why the fuck you always need a handout? Every time you come around, this bitch you're begging to the point. Now you asking me and I'm not that type of person like babe can you give me some money? I gotta give such, give such and such. I'm like damn and I say I'm funny.

Speaker 2 29:14

But I said this shit for like that's definitely a thing she ain't giving me no ass. Fuck, I'm right. She's standing right with us, you know what I'm saying, what the fuck?

Speaker 2 29:27

Like why am things that go into, why it's so hard to be in a relationship? I think that people really play on relationships a lot and they don't know how serious it is and how hard it is. Like marriage and all of that shit is hard to keep up. So, and when you mix in all them personalities and all them characters which is your friends and your family and all of that into you and his vibe, it can fuck some shit up. But that's where you just got to know that this is what Misty going to do. This is Misty. You, that's where you just got to know that this is what Misty going to do. This is Misty. You know what I'm saying. If I go out and fuck up, I want my man to already know I don't give a fuck who she was with. She chose to do that shit. She did that shit on her own, because that's what it is.

Speaker 1 30:00

You know what I can use? This too, the wingman thing you just said. I can show you the opposite of that shit too. Your homeboy end up making you look bad Cause every time he out doing some dumb shit you the motherfucker that he used. So now she looking at you like damn nigga, you ain't good for shit. You don't respect our relationship. You always gotten doing some dumb shit all along. You like nigga, you just been throwing me under the bus.

Speaker 2 30:24

Yeah, but okay. So that's why I did. You see, on Tik TOK, everybody had talked about the black dude that went viral because he said he was with his homeboy and his homeboy married and his homeboy was like something about getting a girl number and he said he was like nuh-uh, like nigga, you ain't make me stand out there wetting and spitting all this money on this suit just to cheat on her. Hold your nigga accountable. But what you got to know is if it's your real friend, if it's your real friend, they done already told you when, when I say, bitch, I'm finna, go this, this, this, and that rob at the crib, he ain't gonna my home run, and already said bitch, you know damn well you do not need to go do that shit, but if you're gonna go do it, they support. Yeah, I mean, I mean so they don't be the ones that's telling you to do nothing.

Speaker 1 31:08

See, god, what you just said is the far guy. I've been used for the far guy so many times. I got some homies won't even tell a nigga they used. Like you know, you've been used as a far guy but you won't even give a nigga a heads up. So I come over and shit. I see why I'm getting the side eyes and shit I don't know. Like damn, she on a period, she having a bad day, nigga, because you done been on some bullshit and you done told her you was with me.

Speaker 2 31:31

Yeah, that's true. The far guy definitely is never the good friend Like damn nigga Again, though we should be old enough to discern that. Why does nigga always say Rob did some shit? That's a lie. Eventually, I would be like come on now, rob ain't making you do all this shit. You got me fucked up.

Speaker 1 31:46

But that's me. Ain't shit worse than that to being like that. But I'm going to say another one. Another thing I've seen before and it ain't happening with me, but I've seen this before is that like you have some friends that be like hating.

Speaker 2 31:57

No, that's absolutely true. But what you got to know is we know that it's very rare. It's very rare when somebody don't know that one of their friends is hating on them.

Speaker 1 32:07

If, friend, they, you be in. It's like the old saying you can't see the forest because you amongst the trees. You got to step about that bitch you don't know because you've been like you're not seeing it because she's been doing this to you for years. You're not really seeing it, yeah but I okay.

Speaker 2 32:19

So I think that come with age and just knowing stuff, because my thing is my friend, this same friend came every time you call me, you telling me something my nigga did you feel me? That's, that's a red flag for me. That's something I'm gonna be thinking about. Eventually I'll be like bitch quit telling me shit he do, because why is you the one that's always telling me? You pick up when a motherfucker hating no, it's deeper than that.

Speaker 1 32:41

I'm talking about like some shit. Like you might have a business uh idea and they hit you wearing some shit, but they make it sound like it's reason why it's a bad idea. But really they just don't want to see you do it because they know you can see and I haven't seen it happen before.

Speaker 2 32:52

It's like you still peep that stuff out too, like yeah girl such and such.

Speaker 1 32:55

Doing that, such as doing that, like it's not enough money for everybody to do it yeah, no, you peep that type of stuff out, man people, we grown as hell you know I'm saying another one. This is a good one. Right here I'm gonna give you a like getting their ass whooped right. Say it, misty, because you always say, good, what love has got to do with it? I don't see it. What love has got to do with it? You trying to help.

Speaker 2 33:18

I hate you. You know that's my favorite fucking movie, the Kate part man. Oh, you think it's okay to let some motherfucker pound on you. Hey, she was mad as hell. She was like Fuck that, I'm not having it, bitch, your nigga Is not gonna hit me, the fuck I'm outta here bitch.

Speaker 1 33:36

Man, I gotta get you, you gotta say it again, I gotta get the clip With that motherfucker dog.

Speaker 2 33:40

Ain't no motherfucker Putting their hands on me, especially not your nigga Bitch what? He smacked the shit out of her Bitch. You think it's okay To let some motherfucker pound on you?

Speaker 1 33:50

No, For real man Like dog, and I done seen that. So, like I say this all the time, you going to go over there to your friend and shit, and you want to go help her out. Now you bragging me into it.

Speaker 2 34:05

Because if this nigga get to tripping and he put his hands on you, now I got to come do something to him. No, I done had a friend had to jump Me and my friend fought my baby daddy, see what I mean. But I didn't tell her to jump in it, bitch, I was holding my own. But I guess she kind of just felt like fuck that he a nigga, he ran up on you. But that's my point. Now, this is what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 34:20

And then her and my baby daddy never, ever liked each other. She never liked him. There you go. But I didn't tell you to jump in. I got this. I ain't never gonna tell nobody to jump in. My shit. If you jump in it's because you jumped in it. But they did never talk, no more. She showed it, jumped and we tagged reggie ass. See what I mean? Well, he shouldn't have ran up on me.

Speaker 1 34:46

But listen, like with that situation this is what I mean by that, like this is what I mean. I done seen this happen before. So let's just say, in that situation it would've went, you know, left, and let's say, reggie Would've Whooped her ass, yeah, so now Her nigga involved in it too. Yeah, well, see, I and I, I done.

Speaker 2 35:03

Had this happen before?

Speaker 1 35:04

I had to tell one of my my chicks in the past this If she over there getting her ass whooped, you can't geek on her with your Captain, save-a-ho shit on, because if he do something to you now, I'm pulling in it. So now, whatever consequences I get in that bitch, that nigga shoot me in my ass, I shoot him in his ass. I knock that nigga out, he knock me out when the fuck goes. Now I'm sitting. If I gotta go, sit down in a courthouse or in jail, because I don't have to, because your girl won't leave me. And see, say it again, I got to catch you.

Speaker 2 35:31

No, wait a minute, because Bree said some good shit. Bree, this is what I've been saying this whole motherfucking time. Y'all are correct. That's why it's not your significant other's duty to cut a friend off or dictate your friendships. They must trust your decisions. If one don't trust you, why are y'all even together? The why are y'all even together? The real question here should be why do people be in relationships with people they don't even trust? A little that, Brie, that's all I've been saying.

Speaker 1 35:55

We gotta get Brie on here, because she got some good shit going Brie that's all I've been saying this whole time.

Speaker 2 35:59

Why in the fuck is you with me if you think every time I go recording I'm going to suck dick? That's wild.

Speaker 1 36:12

Oh, friends too. And I'm gonna say what, what's up, bro, next time I see they talk his ass together. See, I'm with that too. I'm with you, brie. That's what I'm gonna say. You're not about to get on my, you're not about to get on my ass like the steiner brothers or the deli boys. And then we go yeah, cool, when I see you next time, you might got a good punch in on me I mean we didn't jump our home boy.

Speaker 2 36:24

I mean we didn't jump. Uh, shout out to my sister just joined toya. We, we done jumped niggas before. That was out of line. But I'm with you. We went back like what's up my boy, I ain't mad, you mad, you a nigga. You shouldn't have been fighting my homegirl. Yeah, I'm with you 100%.

Speaker 2 36:41

And I'm also with Dana. Real friends stay out of each other's business because you going back. That's the part right there. I stay out of business to a certain extent. I ain't telling no nigga cheating. I ain't gonna lie to you. I ain't telling no nigga cheating. I ain't telling no nigga, I saw out none of that shit. I don't give a fuck what's going on. I'ma say this Friend or no friend.

Speaker 1 36:57

I'ma say this In the past I have wired my homie up on some shit and when I seen that, I wired him up and he was still with it. Flat out to you, toya.

Speaker 1 37:07

He was still, I'm like nigga. I just tell why would I have I ever, you ever caught me in a lie before nigga? Why would you think I was just out the blue, this and I whatever the fuck she had between her legs and her mouth putting on that nigga when they went to sleep together that night? That nigga, look past that shit.

Speaker 2 37:24

Toya said what it is Real friends stick together matter no, I'm staying out that shit, I I mean I am gonna stay out of it, but if I got to jump in it, I jumped in it I'm staying out and why is you gonna be mad at me?

Speaker 1 37:35

now you're about to whoop my ass, you a nigga. We're gonna be back cool after that.

Speaker 2 37:38

I ain't mad and if? You don't want me to come out of your house. No more, move out of the house with my friend because, bitch, I'm coming over to see my friend. I Like, I said I had that one situation. He said Woo Woo said don't ignore his comment. What comment, woo Woo? What did he say? You did tell me help you fight that dude one time. Who, who, who. No, that's who you talking to Woo Woo.

Speaker 1 38:05

I'm trying to figure out cause I'm like.

Speaker 2 38:07

That's DJ Woo. He said somebody who told you to help somebody fight a dude?

Speaker 1 38:11

That had to be you.

Speaker 2 38:13

No, I don't need no help from nobody. What the fuck. I ain't need her to help me fight my baby daddy.

Speaker 1 38:18

Man, you know, you can always come on bro.

Speaker 2 38:22

I yes, you are. You is our, our extra host. You know that Me woo. I told you to help you. Help me find somebody.

Speaker 1 38:33

Nah, who was it? I don't like that. I ain't gonna hold you up. I ain't had that happen but once. But I don't like that. If you got that friend Getting her ass beat, I don't want, I don't. I'm gonna tell you Like you need to ease up off of her because you're going to get me pulled in it?

Speaker 2 38:46

No, okay. What about this? What if it's the opposite, though? Do you sit there and let your boy beat that girl ass? Hell, no, oh.

Speaker 1 38:55

So why would I?

Speaker 2 38:56

sit there and let him beat her ass.

Speaker 1 38:57

Duh, no, hold on. There's a difference there. There's a difference there. First of all, I'm a dog. He ain't gonna whoop my ass like that. He ain't gonna whoop my ass like I'm gonna grab my dog. Let's go, he might.

Speaker 2 39:09

Now see this gonna go different for now, you're gonna be mad at me. It's his girlfriend. Because now y'all ain't gotten to a fight. Because you tried to help me. Because I'm gonna be mad about like you got that nigga on my ass. No bullshit.

Speaker 1 39:19

But like with a female, there's a difference. You can't grab the nigga if he whooping her ass, call you could call the police and some shit like that. But as far as you going over there trying to dictate some shit like no, don't be putting your hands on my friend, and all that type this ain't love, is blind Eve, type shit, it usually don't go that route. You put your hand on Nicky Mack. You already saw he whoop a female ass. He gonna put his hands on you.

Speaker 2 39:40

Now I gotta step in it when you should have left that shit alone man, I can't just let my friend get beat up Like okay, Brie said she got one rule, Her friend can borrow her ear and shoulder one time If the cycle continues. I don't want to hear no more chin up. Chest out, Miss Mamas, until you decide to leave, I'm laughing at bro.

Speaker 1 39:59

Guess what, though, brie, I'm laughing at bro? Bro said if a woman friend jump on me, they going to be mad at her, because why your friend leaving here?

Speaker 2 40:07

listen, brie, I ain't gonna lie to you, I don't. I feel the same way, but see, it's just. I don't tell you you can't talk to me, no more.

Speaker 1 40:14

I just be listening, like like what bro just said, like what big homie just said I done been in that situation. I done grabbed my dog like let's go, bro, let's go. I don't want to see you get locked up, I don't want you putting your hands on her. Let's go. But a female can't do that.

Speaker 2 40:27

You leaving the house gaffed, so you gonna leave the girl in there to get beat the fuck up. I can't be mad at Gavin for that either. Okay, but then when your boy call you from the county because I didn't call the police on him.

Speaker 1 40:36

I ain't picking up the phone, then you know why you in there, don't? Ask for shit either. Now you know what to her baby daddy.

Speaker 2 40:44

Friends, better not comment. I'm cracking the fuck up. Y'all don't even understand how this shit and this is really a real issue and it even shouldn't be because your friends shouldn't have nothing to do with your relationship. We did add the physical part in there because I do know, like I know, a lot of dudes that can't just watch a bitch get beat up.

Speaker 1 40:58

They friend, they girlfriend, but he better not get it.

Speaker 2 41:04

That's crazy, dana, what the fuck. Okay, so you mean to tell me okay, for real, dana, so you can watch one of your homeboys beat his girlfriend the fuck up, like my mans was sitting at that table when she said you think it's okay to let some motherfucker pound on you? His boy just sat there like he stayed out. That shit, he's not he. He used to head out. That. It's not funny, because we we all know that we're not talking about no real deal. Ike turner, okay. We ain't talking about like no motherfucker that really beat a bitch. That we talking about how these couples you know how we do the tussle, you know what I'm saying hold on, I'm gonna stop that if some niggas out here be beating bitch no, but that's a regular occurrence.

Speaker 2 41:43

No, no. My thing, though, is all jokes aside, if it's some shit like that even if I was a nigga I couldn't just leave and let my homeboy beat a bitch ass like that. But what I'm saying is like again, like when me and my baby daddy in the Florida couple it don't be no, I ain't going to no hospital, because it ain't that Now we done tussled a little bit but he ain't finna bitch, you put your hands on.

Speaker 1 42:03

And some niggas out here different than that. And I got what Gavin said, because I done had these homeboys like that before. Like, when I see this shit start going left, bro, you need to chill out. That's what—I get what Gavin's saying. Gavin ain't saying he's leaving in the midst of this shit going on. I already know what Gavin's saying because I do the same thing Before that shit started popping off. You see—like say we at the crib, we playing spades and some shit, and I don't know some dishes in the sink or some shit, and then you start seeing that shit go left. All right, man, I'm going to catch up with you. Got with it tomorrow, bro. Then I'm going to catch up with you. Girl, y'all be smooth.

Speaker 2 42:33

And then, when you see her the next day and her eye is big and her lip busted, what you say?

Speaker 1 42:36

You know why I don't say shit, that shit? Cause Demi, my homeboy Ain't gonna be into it. Cause he gonna feel like I'm hating. I'm thinking to myself Like you ain't thought to leave yet After the first right cross he gotta hit you with a combination. Matter of fact For all my niggas in here watching it and the females, like the Devin Haney Versus Garcia fight you get caught with that left hook once and ain't enough. You gonna keep getting caught.

Speaker 2 43:03

Feel like um dana said he's not gonna let no bitch get her ass beat. I feel that dana man.

Speaker 1 43:09

But oh gee, no, we got some niggas that he know are I would never out nobody. He know the ones I'm talking about. These niggas are habitual woman beaters. We, you can see it before we get that we get those ones I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 43:23

Let's be real. Everybody is on this motherfucking live and got into a fight with a significant other before and it wasn't no ike turner shit I ain't talking about. Let's be real. Everybody is on this motherfucking live and got into a fight with a significant other before and it wasn't no Ike Turner shit. I ain't talking about that type of ass whooping nigga. If you leave me in here, you know this motherfucker stump mud holes in me when you gone. That's fucked up and it's easy for you to say you know it ain't the first or second time, but I've never been in an abuse, abusive relationship, so I don't know how hard it is for a bitch to leave. So I'm not passing judgment there. I don't know why they stay around, but if I know my friend getting her ass beat like that and I'm over there and it's finna be an altercation, I am gonna try to stall around. We might not jump the nigga, but I ain't gonna leave cause I know when I leave he finna beat her ass, oh, you gonna jump.

Speaker 2 44:05

But if it's some old, petty scrap but, I don't do ike turners. You know what I'm saying. No, I'm with you, listen. I don't even deal with my friends. My friends, that's one thing. My friends can't tell me. A nigga doing like on some for real deal abusive shit bitch. Don't tell me about it, because I ain't for that shit. I don't like the nigga, I don't want him around me.

Speaker 1 44:21

I don't do ike turners at all and that's why I said what I said. I have some homeboys like that. I don't even kick it with them on a heavy tip like that because I didn't like dog like that's some shit I don't condone. And here we go, like you ain't gonna leave her, she ain't gonna leave you, and you gonna fuck around and end up hurting her really bad. You know what I'm saying and like what OG just said, I said I thought it was illegal to beat your hoe. It's your hoe. Like it's a lot of niggas really feel like when I get into my bitch, this me and my bitch issue. You heard what Charleston White said.

Speaker 2 44:52

You better not tell me what's going on. It definitely used to be a thing back in the day.

Speaker 1 44:56

I'm not going to lie. It's still like that it is.

Speaker 2 45:04

But what I'm saying was it was your bitch up. It was not saying it was right, but it definitely was regular.

Speaker 1 45:08

But this is 2024, my boy and I and I ain't your motherfucking property, married or not I can't sit back and watch no shit like that. I don't even like you. I don't even want to be around when you yelling and crawling around our name type shit. You feel me, but that's when I know that this is shit been going on. I'm gonna end up bouncing on about that bitch because I'm like I done broke this shit up a couple times already before.

Speaker 2 45:29

Ain't shit changed, okay yeah now I ain't gonna keep going there. Yeah now, if it's your first time and you shocked, I'm sure you immediately gonna like damn nigga. I don't know that's crazy. I don't know. I mean, my moral of my story is stay the fuck out my business. I'm gonna stay the fuck out yours, um, and then I do what the fuck I want to do as an adult?

Speaker 1 45:46

My friends can't make me do shit. I'm going to take it from the friend's side. It's sometimes friends that kept it real. Like she a hoe. You don't listen. And guess what happened Once you figure out that she is a hoe, first thing that comes out of your mouth is Bro, I should have listened, yeah you should have listened Because we was telling you she was a hoe.

Speaker 1 46:05

The pussy was just so good you didn't understand anything else out of it and that's what it be. That pussy is so good, that pussy packing so much of a punch that you ain't listening to nobody, you blind to the fact we all see that she's, you know she's a very promiscuous woman and you ain't paying attention to it. And when she go to bed and she say what she say to you, all them niggas hating on me, babe, yada, yada, yada, and you get back with her. That's on you. But then once you figure out that your homeboys wasn't lying, you like dang man, I wish I would listen. Damn, I would I listen. They go both ways. It's just like I said, like that's it.

Speaker 1 46:50

It's tough man, because your friend, this is what I always say too, and I had this issue back when I was younger. As you grow older I'm assuming everybody like this when they grow older. Once I started growing older you know what I'm saying, misty I came kicking around my homeboys 24-7. I grew older when I was younger late teens, early 20s, kind of like mid-20s I used to kick it with my dogs a lot and I always said this, and I done had this issue before. My dogs is here before you. Chances are they're going to be here after you, so it's going to be hard for me to cut my homeboys off.

Speaker 2 47:20

My real, true ones, because they was there before you.

Speaker 1 47:23

They're going to be here after you when shit go bad, you break my heart or whatever I break yours, they still going to be here. You're going to move on and going to be fucking another nigga. So you know what I'm saying. That's that if you got real friends. But sometimes, like I said, it's a lot of different reasons why you could dislike a friend. I don't, like I said, I only had one chick man. It was one time me like I ain't never said nothing wrong to you, nothing like that. She just used to always have like negative shit to say when it came back to me from. You know what I'm saying, babe. I'm like damn, she said what, what, like why is she acting like you know? I'm saying like that. So I ain't never.

Speaker 1 47:56

I always wanted to have a friend so I could do a martin, because I grew up watching martin and I always wanted a friend I could fuck with, like martin did with pam. I will say this I take this back. Rest in peace to my dog mike. Shout out to uh, evelyn man, she couldn't stand me as a friend when they first started talking, because I did. I was like we was like pam and martin whenever I seen her come through the door. I got hella five jokes. She got jokes from my ass. It was like this for like two years straight and then, you know, as we got older it grew out that shit we used to always. You know, I'm saying ain't going to say it's a chick.

Speaker 2 48:29

I think that friends help relationships, but they can also ruin or hinder them as well.

Speaker 1 48:36

You might know this chick, you might not. I know you knew her. Take that back, ain't? No? No, you know her, but anyways, cuz we're messing with her back in the day, and she didn't like me, man, because one day I'll never forget, I came in the house not knowing this nigga. On the phone we had just talked literally before I got in the driveway and pulled off, so I'm not knowing you on the phone. I'm like I just walked through the house and he told me what she was doing and I said I cracked the joke like man, it's a dumb motherfucker. You know what I'm saying and I guess you heard it. And from that moment on on it was fuck that nigga. But it was funny. You know what I'm saying. Like it was some funny shit. To this day she don't speak to me and shit that's wild.

Speaker 1 49:11

This shit happened when my nigga was in shit. We had to be like 16 or 17, like see this day. I said she still don't like, she won't speak I don't think I got nobody.

Speaker 2 49:20

You friends, I ain't like. I still tell alvin golden all the time like nigga, y'all ain't shit. Y'all used to be letting that nigga cheat on me, but I wasn't mad at him, and they used to always say the same shit, like how the fuck that's our vice. Be like man, I ain't fucking with y'all. But it wasn't for real, though. I never really feel real dislike somebody, or I gotta give you some clap and the reason why I said that?

Speaker 1 49:39

because what you just said, that's, that's maturity to understand, like, why would I be mad at this nigga? Because he was being a friend. Now, that's a lot of people, females and males that be like, oh, he was in my face, my, what they call females say shit. All the time he was playing in my face you knew he was fucking this bitch. And then I'm like what you want me to do? Say fuck my friend. Like what else? What else can I do? Right, yeah, I did tell this nigga, like, yeah, you know might be doing that. You think he listened to that shit. He could have got that ass, yeah that's wild.

Speaker 1 50:11

Yeah, I told him like nigga, yeah, you shouldn't be doing, take your ass off. You think he? Yeah, bro, you right, he going to get the ass.

Speaker 2 50:17

Regardless of what I say, I think all of to. He's supposed to be able to look back at his boys and you're supposed to be able to look back at your girls and be like man. Shit it did. This is what we did.

Speaker 1 50:33

Went through all of this fault I will say this too I think your relationship will go better if your friends are cool with your significant other and it's a respect level. There too, I think it go back. I agree, because you can even sometimes depend on the personality two people together. You might be able to talk to them about some situation that happened, like damn, why he on this or why she on this, and they can give you some good shit and be like, not biased. It don't always happen like that, but you be biased Because I'm like that with my homeboys the couple homeboys I got that.

Speaker 1 50:59

I got close with their significant other. If they talk to me about it, I ain't going to never just throw my nigga straight on the bus, but if he fucking up, i'ma tell him like you know, this is it. I ain't gonna be like, yeah, you need to leave that nigga, but I'ma be like you know what I'm saying, like, yeah, he fucking up on this and this and that I'll talk to him about it. You know what I'm saying, go from there. But yeah, I think it's a beautiful thing if they cool, but sometimes Certain shit can happen. Like you said, I know for me if me and my chick was fighting and her friend whooped off in my ass. Yeah, we're not going to be cool because I'm going to feel like you got a couple punches off, especially when it must have stung or something.

Speaker 1 51:36

You've been one to swing a nigga Right. You took that little straight right. You threw it had some pepper on it. You wasn't trying to grab a nigga and let your friend get a couple hits off.

Speaker 2 51:44

Grab a nigga and let your friend get a couple of hits off. You swung too. You definitely got to. That's what y'all said.

Speaker 1 51:47

That's the first thing I thought why didn't you just grab me and let her get a couple of punches off? You swung as well. Yeah, like hell, no, nigga, definitely, definitely, definitely. So that's why I say it goes both ways and I'm with you on that one. It goes both ways except none of her baby daddy's friends. Better not hop in this comment, because it's difficult when you love somebody and that's your friend, and then you see them being mistreated or something like that, or you feel like they're being mistreated. You feel like you should say something.

Speaker 2 52:15

Right and then so many times you can't you can't.

Speaker 1 52:18

Yeah, because, like I said, my granddaddy told me this People always say that shit. Like Shannon Sharp, talk His dad, his granddad, I talk about mine the same way. He used to tell me that shit, don't get in your friend's shit, because you don't go to sleep with them at night, you ain't laying next to them on that pillow, and I went through that with one of my homeboys. Like I said, it hurt me to go tell him.

Speaker 1 52:40

I'm sitting up there, I'm like damn she really going to be all in this nigga face. And she hopped in the car with this nigga and I'm like damn. So I slid it past my man like yeah, she fucking around on you dog. Oh man, I've been hearing that shit, man, but I don't know. Man, if you didn't see her doing it, I'm like goddamn, I got to go in there and record this shit for you to bring you the evidence.

Speaker 2 53:04

You think?

Speaker 1 53:04

like me telling you she in. He found out on his own that nigga, you know, confronted him, and then he text messaged and all that shit. He was like you was right. I'm like, yeah, it's a little bit too late now, though, nigga. Your heart already broke.

Speaker 2 53:15

Yeah, well.

Speaker 1 53:15

I was trying to save you from getting your heart broke. That's definitely how it she was doing what, and it was after the fact. We wasn't even in a relationship. I was after the fact.

Speaker 2 53:27

He said she was doing what you so funny yeah.

Speaker 1 53:29

I did. It was after the fact. You know what I'm saying. Tell me, it came out true. I'm like damn, oh, okay, you know what I'm saying. It was after the fact. I'm like damn, wow, scur. So we about to get up Out of here, man, cause I see you doodling Now. That mean you ready To roll the fuck out, you tired.

Speaker 2 53:48

That mean I don't want the people to see what I wrote this day paper.

Speaker 1 53:51

You done made a whole Fucking Mickey Mouse. They can look at that I told you they don't play Mickey Mouse. Don't play About that shit, man. Let me get my opinion. Mickey Mouse don't play About that shit. The House.

Speaker 2 54:04

I really been listening to R&B, just listening to some old school music, and when I have listened to rap I've been listening to DMX.

Speaker 1 54:11

Still I don't know what the fuck. I've been on you going through some things.

Speaker 2 54:15

I've been listening to X and I plan on listening to that future Metro Boom, and I just ain't got to it yet.

Speaker 1 54:21

I checked it out, but I ain't get to sit with it. Like I said, music goes so fucking fast that you don't get a chance. In my opinion, you don't get a chance to sit with the music. It come out so fucking much I don't get a chance to sit with it. You know what I'm saying? I'd be wanting to sit with it like they had love the drake, this and shit, and then you know they. Just I ain't got a chance to sit and just sit with it like I want to. But yeah, uh, I've been off r b as well as rap too, like I've been off the r album by r kelly. Okay, the album been nice.

Speaker 1 54:55

This is this I've been I've been fucking with that tough you know what I'm saying like super tough, that I don't know if I last week I've been on it. I've really been on that for the last. About the last week. I say about the last week. I've been on that. But I'll say, on a rap tip I be listening to everybody, but on a rap tip, who I've been on of late, like late, that's really listening to heavy man. I've been on Los and Nutty from Detroit, mm Pussy ass niggas, we ain't got no love for them. I fuck with them, niggas.

Speaker 2 55:25

I done heard a couple of their songs. Nothing major yet.

Speaker 1 55:27

Yeah, none of my niggas. I fucks with them tough. So that's what I've been on, man. So what you got up for the weekend.

Speaker 2 55:35

We so far away from that? I have no idea.

Speaker 1 55:37

We ain't that fucking far girl Nigga it's Tuesday.

Speaker 2 55:40

Right, you got Wednesday Thursday that's the weekend. The week just started Monday.

Speaker 1 55:44

That's how I quit that motherfucker go.

Speaker 2 55:46

And that's how I know that you're not even a 9 to 5 worker. I'm just at the beginning of my week. I ain't thought about it. The last weekend just ended.

Speaker 1 55:53

I started thinking about the weekend when the weekend ended On hump day.

Speaker 2 55:56

Maybe it ain't even Thursday yet.

Speaker 1 55:57

I think about my weekend when the weekend ends, because that's how quick the weekend go.

Speaker 2 56:05

That bitch ain't even no point I be focused more on what the fuck? Listen, I'm trying to be a millionaire. I ain't got a lot of time, so I really don't even be giving a fuck about the weekends. I ain't going to lie. Every day is every day. I just be grinding. Every day Weekends is work for me. I'm hosting. I'm hosting at the corn.

Speaker 1 56:25

I'm pulling up. Shout out to.

Speaker 2 56:28

E-Baller All Black Party. They got Tay B coming out. I got a lot of stuff coming up. Like I said, june, shout out to Ray Tyler. June 7th through the 10th I'm gonna be in Atlanta, so I got a question for you.

Speaker 1 56:38

I wish we was still alive, cause Raxxat was funny. He said with that shit, the comments you making, so are you gonna make the hoes great?

Speaker 2 56:44

again. The hoes ain't never not been great. I'm with you.

Speaker 1 56:47

I don't know what the fuck they talking about hoes ain't never been great, I'm telling you, man, you have hoes are fun.

Speaker 2 56:53

Put a hoe in office, america will be greater.

Speaker 1 56:55

I'm with you we're gonna have a. You know what? I wish I knew somebody that was a proud hoe that I could bring on here and just interview them because, like I said, hoes, I say that I was's crazy. I keep talking about it because I was just talking to my dog about this. Like, hoes are fun to kick it with, yeah, so you know that's what it is. So what can they find you at Misty?

Speaker 2 57:18

On all social media. At Misty Summers y'all and just Misty J-U-S underscore M-Y-S-T-I-E. Follow me on everything. I got good content, especially on TikTok.

Speaker 1 57:29

And you can find me on Bobby Frost Media on all social medias Rob or Die 87 on IG, but everything else Bobby Frost Media and we just started a new tribe parentsy page because I want to be able to get I should have waited and I appreciate everybody that was in the old one. I appreciate everybody that was in the old one, but when I made it private, I only made it private so people can talk how they want to talk, but I'm like it's hard for people to find it just off clips and reels and stuff, because the only people can see the reels and clips of the people inside the group. So y'all have to go tap in with that too. Man, I appreciate it and we're going to catch y'all next time. Look out Wednesday.