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The Power of Independence: Embracing Singlehood and Personal Growth

• Bobby Frost • Season 2 • Episode 66

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Have you ever wondered why some seemingly trivial social interactions, like women asking for $40, reveal so much about our societal norms and perceptions of value? Join Bobby Frost and Jus Misty as they kick off this episode with a light-hearted yet thought-provoking discussion on reading Shakespeare in school and its influence on our views of authenticity. Jus Misty brings a unique twist as she hilariously dissects the phony behaviors people exhibit daily. This amusing yet candid conversation sets the stage for a deeper dive into the curious dynamics of social requests and what they say about our relationships and societal expectations.

Pack your bags for the next part of our journey where we explore the enriching world of solo travel and singlehood. Bobby and Misty swap stories of their adventures in places like Jamaica, where the allure of luxurious resorts meets the charm of authentic local life. From savoring fresh seafood to navigating the intricacies of cultural immersion, the duo shares tips on planning stress-free travels that foster genuine experiences. They also tackle the fear of being single, highlighting how solo adventures can be a powerful avenue for self-discovery and personal growth, emphasizing the rewarding aspects of independence.

The final leg of our conversation centers on the profound impact of embracing singlehood for self-reflection and meaningful relationships. We challenge societal pressures to couple up and discuss the importance of understanding oneself before diving into new romantic ventures. With personal anecdotes and honest reflections, Bobby and Misty underscore the value of learning from past relationships to become better partners in the future. This episode is a blend of laughter, wisdom, and heartfelt advice, encouraging listeners to view singlehood as a pivotal time for personal development and ultimately, creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships ahead.

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The $40 Dilemma

Bobby Frost

Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby Frost Media presents Tri-Parency. I'm with the beautiful lady Just Misty.

Jus Mystie

Yo, yo yo.

Bobby Frost

And we back back at it Midsummer. What do I call my uh uh Shakespeare? Those are mids, midsummer nights.

Jus Mystie

Nigga, you ain't never in your motherfucking life listening to Shakespeare.

Jus Mystie

That's a damn lie If you really get on my nerves.

Jus Mystie

Getting in here Trying to be something. This ain't the internet, bro.

Bobby Frost

I'm genuine. That's one thing about me for sure. I definitely read that. Shout out to Miss Bailey, she's still teaching.

Jus Mystie

Oh, nigga, you had to read it in school. Yeah, nigga, I didn't say. I picked it up off, gp. I know I like the way you did that. I like the way you made it seem like you a nigga that picked it up off GP, but you neglected to say that you read it at school, though, so you tried to make it seem like you was one of them. Intellectual ass niggas.

Bobby Frost

What that gotta make intellectual cause. I read it in school

Jus Mystie

Cause who the fuck reads.

Jus Mystie

No, that's why you didn't say you read it in school. You left that part out.

Bobby Frost

A lot of my best books I read was in school.

Jus Mystie

Man, fuck off Rob.

Jus Mystie

You know what you just did, Ladies. This nigga's not intellectual. He read Shakespeare because the fuck he had to.

Bobby Frost

I had to. Yeah, I ain't just picked it up off the GP. No, I have went back and checked it out, though. That's the truth.

Jus Mystie

It's niggas like you that make bitches like me single, because y'all are so fucking phony.

Bobby Frost

That's not phony I had to come break down when I read it.

Jus Mystie

Hey, you know I read this, but I read no, this is a rapping source. You tried to make it seem that.

Jus Mystie

This is a rapping source. I read this motherfucker back in 11th grade what? Yes, you should have said that I asked like hey, oh my god, they got jitters on sale today. Is you gonna give?

Jus Mystie

me some money. Where is jitters on sale at the cut? Shout out to the cut on north on north door highway. Give me um some money so you can repay me back for them jitters that she still listen, this is amazing, y'all.

Bobby Frost

This shit is over a year past I don't give a fuck.

Jus Mystie

Jitters cost a lot of money bro.

Bobby Frost

I ain't knocking it, I feel.

Jus Mystie

Tuesday I'm going to tell you what the fucking special is and you're buy one get one.

Bobby Frost

I think somebody got her when they dropped that motherfucker. They got high as hell.

Jus Mystie

They buy one, get one. So let me just tell you how much you can give me. Can you give me? Can I get $40? Can you give me, can I get 40 dollars? 40 dollars is like the minimum, like that you're supposed to ask for anyway. 40 bucks, even your, like I don't give a fuck if it's your brother, because you're not supposed to accept under 40, because what the fuck can I do? I can't do nothing with 40 dollars, but since they're on sale, I can and my shit went.

Bobby Frost

You know, I'm saying went to the left when you said that because the 40 dollars.

Jus Mystie

We all know what the 40 dollars and I always thought that was a funny thing.

Bobby Frost

I'm not talking about. It just made me think about it because it was always funny, like I always said like damn, what made it 40 bucks?

Jus Mystie

I always said to myself, like what you know it used to be. I always said it too. I don't know what made that 40 dollars.

Bobby Frost

I don't know who came up with that at the at the round table $40.

Jus Mystie

Right.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, like the minimum is going to be 40. That's the hotspot. What.

Jus Mystie

Cause, I think it was. I think it started out as a joke Like she a fuck for 40. And then from that it just started out like bitch, you got to at least get 40 now, damn.

Bobby Frost

Like 40. I don't know where they got 40 from either yeah, I always said that 40, you know, that's just crazy if he's trying to distract me from looking up these g, no look him up. I'm just laughing. When you said the 40, I'm like where? Because? You said play with him. You said 40 is the minimum to ask a nigga. That's why I went to that. I thought about, I said damn did so did a woman. Did a woman come up with the 40 for sex like was that the thing?

Bobby Frost

like no or was it a man?

Jus Mystie

or maybe he, maybe she took 40 and he ran with it as a fucking joke like this bitch fucked me for 40, I don't know. But whoever did it bitch you dead wrong and you and you. The game up for everybody, because I that shit was the dumbest shit that's why I asked 40.

Bobby Frost

You know I'm saying 40 bucks like who the fuck does that?

Jus Mystie

you ain't so 40 40 dog, that's two, two, two, two, 20s man and we were you know you can't even get me to smoke with you for 40 if you don't get the fuck out my driveway boy that's why I said the 40 was just why you ain't even in the driveway, because you don't even know the address. You fucking idiot. 40, oh god damn it. And I can't even be mad at the me and that offer, because obviously a bitch took it, that one that's what I'm saying like.

Bobby Frost

That's like you see now, like they went from a quarter, four quarters for, you know, four bags of chips. Now is it went. I'm here. At one time it was three chips For a dollar. Now it's two chips.

Jus Mystie

Now you just dropped Our pussy, comparing it down to chips Ain't that a bitch? That's the real problem. You motherfuckers Don't value our pussy enough. That's crazy. For a motherfucker To even offer Forty dollars For some pussy, some shit you can't Never give back Ain't that a bitch?

Bobby Frost

I'm about to walk out. Okay, again just so that wasn't Missing screwed I was not over here Trying to fuck Rob, for I just want $40. Damn, you know. So the $40 is like the bare minimum for pussy.

Jus Mystie

No, who made that?

Bobby Frost

I'm so sorry.

Jus Mystie

I don't want to say yes, I don't want to say yes, I'm not going to say yes to that. I'm just going to look at you Like I'm going to look at you, like you, right, but I'm not going to say yes to that. I'm just going to look at you like I'm going to look at you like you're right, but I'm not going to say yes to that, because no, $40 is absolutely not the fucking minimum for me.

Bobby Frost

I'm trying to think what can you get for $40?

Jus Mystie

I mean, depending on the type of tank you got, you can get like a type of tank you got. Depending on your car, you can get like a half to three, four you can call me because Cause you saw me and was like, oh, let me just drop this 40 in your tank and then you come back out and be like Call me. Okay, i'ma call you, but you can't, 40 can get you A decent meal 40 can get you my fucking phone number.

Bobby Frost

It can get you A decent meal.

Jus Mystie

It can't give me no meal at Sagano's. That's like $2 too short and that's sad it's over. I don't want to talk about it no more because I'm getting upset. Give me the $40 for the fucking weed.

Bobby Frost

Don't get mad about the 40, because we got it as educational it's not, I just want to get the weed.

Jus Mystie

I'm getting so stressed out. Do y'all hear my voice starting to crack? Just give me the fucking money for the Jeters.

Bobby Frost

You know what I'm about? To go holler at some of my player partners, man, and see where this originated from, because it's really bothering me now.

Jus Mystie

The $40 is no good, throw it out. Change the rule.

Bobby Frost

I want to know the $40.

Jus Mystie

I want them to change the rule. I want to know. You know, I'm about to get off of it.

Bobby Frost

I'm just thinking. You know, I got an imagination Like how the fuck your granny used to give you the money you fold it in the handshake type shit.

Jus Mystie

Can you listen to what I'm trying to tell you? Listen to what I'm trying to tell you.

Bobby Frost

Or is it like can I cash app you 40? Zealot.

Jus Mystie

You make me sick man. I'm serious man.

Bobby Frost

I'm trying to figure that one out. That's a new one. So, besides that, what you been on, man.

Jus Mystie

The Jeter's is buy one, get one. I need fucking $40 so I can get a two gram Jeter and I'm going to get another one for free, and then I'm going to get a $9 fire stick.

Bobby Frost

What they ain't change. Weed so much.

Jus Mystie

Right. So I does not talk about it, just give me the $40. Does not talk about it, just give me the $40.

Bobby Frost

What is it? Why the fuck will you keep?

Jus Mystie

making me ask you for $40? That's damn near you making me sound like I'm begging.

Bobby Frost

We gonna you know I'm gonna give it to you, but it's gonna be off the show Just cause. No, the problem is you don't wanna say you gonna give it to I know you're a lawyer, so you're gonna try to use that in your defense exactly.

Jus Mystie

No, I'm cracking the fuck up, courtney. I'm so mad you're not here, friend. This is it this was it.

Bobby Frost

She's trying to use it. I know she want to be a lawyer man, no, if I didn't know that I knew she this part of her defense. It's the evidence and everything's how she's gonna try to run with evidence.

Jus Mystie

If you did not throw them out, why did you feel that you should have given me the $40 when I asked for the $40 specifically to replace the ones that you threw away?

Bobby Frost

Had.

Jus Mystie

I just said, Rob, can you give me $40 for some Jeters? Then that's different.

Bobby Frost

That's why I said let me move around it and talk about it after the show, because she's going to make it seem like I lost her jitters and I didn't. And this is what you have to do, man, fellas. You have to pay attention, man, because they will walk you into a corner and you won't even know you getting guided there. Oh, what the fuck ever Rob. You gotta watch fellas.

Jus Mystie

Okay, I said I wasn't gonna even continue with this. I did admit to Courtney that I may have very it's a slight, slight, slight chance that I may have thrown them away myself, but it is a very, very slight chance. It's like 99% you did it and it's that 1% chance that I may have done it.

Bobby Frost

Listen as long as there's a chance, that's you back in court. It had to be a what a reasonable doubt.

Jus Mystie

So I give you just one percent. I may have it's there.

Bobby Frost

So what you've been on this I have been on nothing.

Jus Mystie

I had a rough week a little while back. Everything is, um, just now calming down a little bit, getting back together. I have not taken the real estate test yet. Um, I probably got it scheduled, probably towards the end of July. I will take it before the end of July is up, before 30 days for me taking the class, but I just want to study as much as I can. Um, so I ain't really been on shit studying and I'm still on my journey. Y'all know I didn't say nothing to y'all about it last episode, but I very much am still on my little spiritual journey. I haven't still been reading the Bible as much as I want to, or as much as I was, but that's because it's been hectic this last month, like this beginning of this summer. Let's just say that's all I can say. I feel like the blowing smoke emoji because it's been a lot, but I'm pulling it together and that's that on that, if y'all need a crib holler at your girl.

Exploring Solo Travel and Singlehood

Bobby Frost

So what I've been on, really really, really been on. Right now I gotta get this fucking pad. I'm waiting for this passport to come back where we going you can roll out. My dogs wanted me to go to jamaica with them, uh for the uh one of their birthdays, and I'm like One of them dogs, my dog.

Jus Mystie

Who is he? No, don't tell me, can I go?

Bobby Frost

Yeah, I wanted to see why they wouldn't want you to go. So I'm like, yeah, jamaica. I'm like, yeah, that's cool, we can get out there. I told them already like.

Jus Mystie

I'm not telling y'all to come with me, that's just me. I'm going to where I'm trying to see, uh, uh, what was his name? Lennox from bailey. I'm trying to go see my dogs like that. Oh no, fuck that you know.

Bobby Frost

Seriously, though, they tell you not to one draw too far.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, that's anywhere you go and it's crazy because when we went you it's definitely gonna be a good time it was five of us, but it's crazy how it's just like over here like you literally can be riding and it'd be nice as fuck these be the motherfuckers that got money and then you hit a corner and then they shit with shacks and houses, with motherfucking torps on tarps on them and shit, and it's like damn, how did that switch up that fast like, but it's the shit, I liked it no, that's why I said what I said.

Bobby Frost

You know I'm saying I'm not gonna be trying to go right, but I'm I got. No, I'm not staying on the resort if I go to jamaica, I want to experience the real culture. That's not spending the culture when I'm around a bunch of other tourists. I want to go where I can. Really, if I go to a dance hall, I want to go to a real dance hall. You know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, we got, we we didn't stay, we stayed in a villa and then we were Like we went out, we didn't stay on a resort, we went out and did our own thing. Um, I think I told you before, like it was dope, like they really be at the foot, they really Catching Fresh crab, fresh fish.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, I wanna see some of that shit.

Jus Mystie

Like it was the shit and he was really Our chef was going to buy it From the man at the ocean Like Right at fuck a stove. He at the ocean front like here you go off crap. It was really nice. That's just me.

Bobby Frost

Enjoy yourself I got a snapchat friend and I say snapchat because I don't really don't know her real life, but I follow her on snapchat and I think she was just like in greece or some shit like that and, um, that's my shit. If I go somewhere, I don't want to stay on a resort, I want to go around because I, to me, I'm not getting the culture, like I said. I just said this before on the podcast a couple times. When I go in any state in america, I go to the hood. Am I going exactly all the way on blocks in front of motherfuckers, traps and shit like that? No, unless I know somebody. No, but I'm going. I'm going different than the hood, like I know I'm cool every time I want to get the culture like.

Bobby Frost

I want to go to new orleans yes, I'm not about to be going in, no motherfucking projects, you know what I'm saying. But I want to get. I want to go into new orleans. I'm gonna stop at a corner store or something like that. The guys won't. You know that's just me. I mean, I want to get the coach, the real coach, a little bit of it at least. You know what I'm saying. So that's me. So that's what's up. I got to get ready for my birthday Maturing.

Bobby Frost

I've been saying that a lot. Y'all going to be saying that. You know that's going to be one of my things. I'm going to be putting on my pages Maturing, and then give an example of what you mean by maturing. But maturing like now. Start planning for your birthday. Mine too. Yeah, when I was younger I'd do that shit right when my birthday my sister, 12th of October, as soon as October hit, I'm about to figure something out. Fuck that. Start planning ahead. I don't want to keep doing shit on whims, no more. I'm planning ahead. I'm getting this, this, this and that, because when I go I want to be able to go and have a good time. Worry about shit. Everything is already paid for and done. You know what I'm saying. I even got most of my fits. I'm gonna roll with. Let some shit, some shoes come out that I gotta coordinate and I'm with that.

Jus Mystie

That's how I'm looking at um, I'm gonna tell you, this year I turn. Well, next year my birthday is in january, y'all, so it's always at the beginning of the year. Um, I turned 38 and I think I'm gonna take a solo trip. I don't know where yet, but for me it's not even really about you know, a girl's trip, having fun. I love girl's trips, but I just want to do some shit by myself. I want to do something I ain't never done, and taking a solo trip is one of them. So that's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna go sit on me a beach somewhere and just kick it in hell. See what?

Bobby Frost

There you go. Don't bring no sand to the beach, it's already there. Go check it out. So, um, wanting to get into the topic today, man, you know I had talked about it with a couple of people and I think this is a bit. We talk about relationships, a lot and different aspects of relationship in that realm Single, I feel like a lot of people are afraid of being single, like I think people should be a more emphasis to me on being single than it is in being in a relationship.

Jus Mystie

I do too. Why people be so scared to be single? Or why is being single looked at as a negative thing instead of, um, a good thing? I think that being single allow a motherfucker to learn who they are. I think it allow you to learn what you want. You know what I'm saying. I have been single for quite a while and I feel like at first it was like I was never bored. I ain't gonna say that I had a lot of motherfucking fun, but, um, at first it was so much like fun, fun, fun. This is fun, I can do this, I can do that, I can do that. But now it's more so like I'm not settling for that, that that, even though I probably want to be in a relationship or something. But it just gave me a lot of time to figure out what I wanted. You know what I'm saying. I think being single was dope as fuck, and until you ready to actually give yourself 100 to somebody, you should be single anyway. Yeah, I'm with it.

Jus Mystie

Maybe that's why.

Bobby Frost

When we go live.

Jus Mystie

I'm going to ask who said we was going live? Are you going live from your phone?

Bobby Frost

I can't. We got to go live because I want to ask.

Jus Mystie

Because he be killing me y'all. You think you're going to just keep using me for my fame? You need to get active, my boy.

Bobby Frost

That's why it's called. That's why it's called a team. It's called a team work. Make the dream work. No, no, no, here we go. David ruffman, ain't nobody coming here to see you.

Jus Mystie

All this, get you get you a motherfucking facebook and get your shit popping, because what this is?

Bobby Frost

this is the craziest shit you know I don't want to.

Jus Mystie

You ain't gonna keep using me. See, see it's using. Yeah, that's exactly, it's not teamwork Make the dream work. That's exactly what it is. Y'all see what I got to put up with Using a motherfucker. That is insane.

Bobby Frost

David Ruffin S there you go.

Jus Mystie

That's David Ruffin-esque. I already told you that's my Ain't nobody coming to see you, otis.

Bobby Frost

I want to ask People like what's? It'll be my thing. That's why I said, when we get a little bit bigger, I'm definitely going to have A set up when it's going to be Anonymous spot, where people can come in Anonymous Because I know when people can see who coming.

Jus Mystie

No, he not. That's a lie, that's a damn. No, he ain't ran that past. Nobody that you don't come on Triparancy.

Bobby Frost

if you want to be anonymous, I didn't say come on, I said they can drop it and we can say about it. You don't speak on.

Jus Mystie

Triparancy if you want to be anonymous.

Bobby Frost

Because people don't want to tell the truth.

Jus Mystie

Well, then go on another podcast.

Bobby Frost

Because I want to see right now with this question about I would like the truth.

Jus Mystie

Hey y'all, hey Listen, negative thing or why is it um frowned upon like? Why is it so much good emphasis on?

Bobby Frost

being in a relationship versus being single. I want to know what's the longest people that have been single? Because I know when you say that and you somebody can see you saying it then somebody go back. You don't misty, I can't speak on you, that that's misty, misty. Everybody ain't moving. Everybody don't have balls big as Misty's.

Jus Mystie

I just wanted you to know that you wasn't doing that. You not talking on our shit. If you think you anonymous, bro, only way you anonymous is, if you wanted, by the motherfucking government, and we don't want you to get caught On behalf of us cause snitches, get stitches. Other than that, you showing your motherfucking face and you gonna tell us how long you been single.

Bobby Frost

Cause I wanna know, want to know how long people been single man, because it's like it's frowned upon, like even I say this plenty of times too, so I can't say I'm out, you know out with it. I haven't said this to a female a lot. If I'm gonna talk to a female and she look nice, she, as this first thing pop up like why are you single?

Jus Mystie

like how the fuck nobody's trying to talk to you, why are you so cool talking to me, but you see how that's the, that's you being negative.

Bobby Frost

I just said that though why are you single?

Jus Mystie

because the fuck I want to be.

Bobby Frost

That's why I just said it. I can't say I'm not part of that either.

Jus Mystie

I I am too. No, I think that niggas try to use that lame ass line as a why you single to make it seem like you shouldn't be.

Bobby Frost

When that's lame, don't say that no, niggas don't be using. If I'm lying, no, it's not niggas, be serious, because this is I'm saying again I can't be the only nigga that shot a shot at you. So why?

Jus Mystie

because obviously, because I want to be. So that is a dumb question. If you look at me and you know that I am, I'm, I'm that, and you just, I can't figure out why you single after you didn't say you single and yeah, you have to know that it's my choice, obviously no. What do you want me to open up and say when you say that, oh, because every time I get into a relationship I get suicidal, or oh, I get crazy. Then I go stab a motherfucker. I'm single.

Bobby Frost

Cause my boyfriend won't get stabbed. No, motherfucker, no, motherfucker, no, it's because that's crazy no, I know it's not gonna get done, but that's what you be wanting, because this is the truth I didn't have this happen.

Jus Mystie

What if that's not the truth? What is the what if the truth is just because I am?

Bobby Frost

that's, that's that's it. That's the gamble because I am that's the gamble, because a lot of times I could say this, and I know the fellas gonna agree with me when you see a chick just single to be single and they hit you with that, I'm just single because I'm single, shit. Yeah, that shit be like. Yeah, that's a line you hit me with, just like you feel it's a line because it's the reason why you're single and you figure this shit out once you start fucking with her.

Bobby Frost

Once it gets to that situation, you put yeah, she had this crazy shit in her and it's just not popping up. This is the reason why and the one thing I say about females.

Bobby Frost

That kill me, man, because I talk back and forth with a lot of the fans and stuff like that. I interact and talk to them on different social medias and stuff like that. They all say the same thing Y'all play with feelings, y'all bring it out. You justifying you doing some wild shit? No, you can't justify doing no wild shit. You got a right to your feelings, but that'll make your feelings right. You can't do no wild shit and then be like justifying it like, yeah, like it's his fault.

Jus Mystie

No, nigga, you could have reacted a whole different way, you always have some shit happen exactly because ain't. No, I don't understand why he's a part of the negative, the negative, uh, the negative stigma on being seen I just said that.

Bobby Frost

That's why I said I wanted to talk about it.

Jus Mystie

Y'all make females act crazy. Keep it real. Who said that Y'all do?

Bobby Frost

Oh no, we don't. I can't make you do anything.

Jus Mystie

Yes, you can, because if you just come in here and tell me that we're not going to be together, I'm just fucking the shit out of you like this, because this is what I do love you. It's not because I want to be with you because I got a bitch at home, or maybe I just want to be single, but this is what I want to do. If I decide, okay, let's do it, then no, I can't act crazy. But if you don't say that and then you come in and you treat me like we go together, then I'm going, in return, act like we go together yeah, I don't need you doing that sexy red shit with me oh baby, I don't need that man.

Embracing Singlehood for Self-Discovery

Jus Mystie

Listen you better. He ain't answering the question, y'all so.

Bobby Frost

But I will flip the side. Like I said Originally talking about, I think people need to be single more. So I ain't looking at the Thing I'm gonna put up on my Facebook, the lie. But yeah, ask them, ask some of the viewers, ask them what how long have they been single?

Jus Mystie

How long y'all been single Toya? You know, once you start acting like we go together, we go together. How long y'all been single? Anybody that's on here tapping in let me know how long have you guys been single?

Bobby Frost

Yeah, that's a question. That's a good question. That's a big thing I think on People should focus more on being single than being in relationships.

Jus Mystie

That shouldn't be a thing. I think that if you focus on yourself while you're being single, then it makes your relationship way better.

Bobby Frost

I believe that. I definitely do. I think people should be single more than they should be in a relationship.

Jus Mystie

That's just me. More so than not.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, because give yourself a chance to figure shit out in life. You know what I'm saying? We don't give that, we just hop straight in relationships.

Jus Mystie

I just went off live. Wasn't nobody on live? Where everybody at this morning? You know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost

So, yeah, that's how I feel about it, like, yeah, and, like I said, I'm part of that stigma that I make it where you know why?

Jus Mystie

what if we see a man that's been single and he single and after conversating he may have an all right income? No kids, handsome. What are we supposed to think? That you're gay?

Bobby Frost

I never heard a female say that before.

Jus Mystie

I don't think that. I think that there's nothing wrong and I don't think there's nothing wrong with not wanting to be in a relationship. I just think that people put way too much emphasis on being in one. Ain't nothing wrong with not wanting to be one. Ain't nothing wrong with one today. Rob, tim, dick and harry. Ain't nothing wrong with one today. Uh, just rob and and terry, ain't nothing. Just I feel like be single and enjoy your life and do what the fuck you want to do. I don't think that anybody should be pressured and be in a relationship because I mean, I guess they right, but no, I know they ain't all of that. Everybody I know that's in a relationship don't seem fucking happy and it's bad because they never took enough time to be single. No, motherfuckers, break up and jump right back in a relationship.

Bobby Frost

And sometimes I can work and the other times they don't. You know what I'm saying. That's, that's a big thing I feel about it. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, you gotta take time to understand yourself and if you're in a relationship right after you just got done, then yeah, you're not gonna have time to heal, learn yourself, things of that nature. And I don't like the stigma. I'm gonna be honest. I don't like the stigma behind it. That's that's me being honest, truthful. I don't like the stigma that being single because I think that's the the problem with relationships you, you don't get a chance to understand yourself. I even look at myself like, damn, how long have I been single? The longest periods I've been? I ain't ever been single. No, three years, four years, two years.

Jus Mystie

Have you ever been, even for real single anyway?

Bobby Frost

Yeah, I'd have been single before.

Jus Mystie

I feel like, from how long, how long you been married, going on 10.

Bobby Frost

Oh, how old are you 36.

Jus Mystie

Oh, that's good though.

Bobby Frost

You got. You got married young, in your twenties, but that's why I go back to saying that like how much better I would have been if I would have been single longer.

Jus Mystie

You know what I'm saying you think you would have been a better man to your wife, or you just saying just a better person in a relationship, all the way around?

Bobby Frost

I believe that's me. That's a hill I'd die on, I believe, all the way around. I would have been way better if I would have just been single, because that's my question Like people, don't be single for no time.

Jus Mystie

That's true.

Bobby Frost

Like motherfuckers be having bad girls already.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, but yeah, I think yeah, you're absolutely correct. I just saw somebody that was just in a relationship. It's so crazy. I can't even say who she is because she's super close to me, but I just saw her in a relationship y'all. And I'm talking about happy kids, big crib, they doing a damn thing. I bullshit you not. I just found out they broke up like um a week ago and he literally just posted the bitch yesterday.

Bobby Frost

Yeah he'd be having bagels already, like what the fuck like uh future say man, it's a cold world.

Jus Mystie

But I think that you have to have that backup because you don't know how to be a good man or a good woman. I feel like you already know that you finna put yourself in a situation because you haven't taken time to learn yourself and I feel like that started all the way from like young, like these kids be—I was a kid like that in an old, serious ass relationship at 15, 16 years old and shit. You know what I'm saying. That shit happened and then you don't realize that you finna be out of school. So, boom, 18, come quick and you still in love with this same motherfucker. So you blink and you just spent your whole motherfucking teens, your whole beginning of your twenties, with this same motherfucker. Like you don't even know who the fuck you are, you don't even know what make you come, you don't even know what the fuck I mean. You haven't learned yourself. You ain't learned yourself, you ain't learned nothing and you think that this man or this woman is every fucking thing and they not.

Bobby Frost

I feel like being single is so fucking important, bro and that's why I want to talk about it, get the stigma out, because it's a stigma behind it. That's the truth. It's a stigma that people feel like if you're single, then you know that's something bad. But it's nothing bad about. That was why. Why am I, you know, being downplayed because I'm single? That doesn't make sense, like it doesn't, but that's how society got it set up and to me it's. It's crazy. That's crazy work. You know, I'm saying to sit up and I'm single and I'm getting looked at like I'm fucked up because I'm single.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, I'm getting looked at fucked up because I'm single.

Bobby Frost

And you shouldn't. You know what I'm saying. You shouldn't, that shouldn't be even part of it. You know what I'm saying? Like what, yeah, you single, okay, cool, I'm working on myself. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, enough people don't be single man. That's just that's how I feel about it. Enough people are not single and you hop in these relationships. You're not hilt all the way. You don't know yourself. Like once you start dating, I don't care what age it is. You know what I'm saying when I said I'm serious, like you can start dating at high school level, whatever, usually, from then on, you be in a relationship, like really think about that you know.

Jus Mystie

But yeah, for sure, everybody like literally that's I. I didn't know if that was a flint thing or or what, but yes, they get into relationships and then they be younger than a motherfucker yeah, you're in a relationship for the rest of your goddamn life and that's crazy like you never get a break.

Bobby Frost

You never get a break from not being in a relationship.

Jus Mystie

So you never learn.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, it's crazy, like, but that's how it go. And I said, man, we got to fix that stigma. Man, there's nothing wrong with being single. You should focus more on being single to be in a relationship. Really learn yourself. Learn your triggers, learn the things that you don't like, the things you do like. Figure it out before you're going to make a commitment with somebody and then fuck their shit up because you wasn't ready. And fuck your own shit up. You know what I'm saying?

Jus Mystie

No for sure I teach my son. My son is 14 years old and I really definitely I have a 14-year-old, Whether they come for me or not. Right now I got a 14-year-old, a 19-year-old house. Right now the 26 year old is in a relationship with a baby on the way. The 19 year old just got out of his relationship and my son is 14 and he is just doing whatever we want to do.

Jus Mystie

It's just crazy to see him from so different uh, many different ages. You know what I'm saying. I think them good age gaps. I got going there, but I tell them all the same thing man, Like these relationships y'all in right now with the lady sitting on the plane, they are not real.

Jus Mystie

Like, come on, Y'all are so young, Y'all don't even know what type of woman you want to like. You know what I'm saying. Make you feel like the man you supposed to be, because you don't even know the man you supposed to be yet, because you're a kid For real. You know what I'm saying? You ain't experienced nothing Like at 19,. I want to be out. I traveling these kids now, especially with everything they got. I don't want to be tied down to no motherfucking girl at 19. I want to be having fun Fucking bitches, going to school, learning what I supposed to learn in college or whatever the fuck the case is. I don't want to be tied down to one female, I just don't. If I could do my shit over again, I would not have been in that toxic ass early ass in love ass relationship at 16.

Bobby Frost

I'm with you, like that's what I said for me, just me myself.

Bobby Frost

If I would have sat back just thinking about myself, if I would have sat back and would have waited before I hopped in a relationship and just got to know me, really figure out what to do, even like a lot of people call it what the quote whole phase, like whatever I would have got to learn myself Even every relationship I would have been in.

Bobby Frost

I didn't take enough for me, I didn't take enough time to be single. That's why I said, like your viewers, I'm going to ask them what's the longest you've been single? I ain't never heard them, up until too many, let me say never heard. But I heard, said never heard. But I heard a lot of people say I was single, I've been single two years, I've been single a year, like if somebody's been single a year, two years, three years, they get a bad stimulus, like there's something wrong with them, like they fucked up, they crazy, something wrong with them, you know. I said like no, you get to know yourself, you get in a lot of people I do feel like be needing to be in relationships too, like they feel like they need to be.

Jus Mystie

I feel like, those people that feel like that is people that's only been in a relationship because that's all you know because yeah, because you, that's what you're comfortable with. It's hard being single. In reality, you know what I'm saying like because the fuck, just thinking about the love part of it, that means you're a single guy for being, you got kids. That mean you're a single parent. So that mean you taking care of all the bills, you taking care of kids, you, you cooking, you cleaning, you working and you trying to date man. Listen.

Bobby Frost

And again, that's why I say what I say, like I don't think, like I know some people be. I'm going to talk to females. They once they got a relationship they used to being held every night.

Jus Mystie

Yeah.

Bobby Frost

So something like that. It make them go jump in another relationship because that's what you used to, that's your comfort zone.

Purposeful Singlehood and Meaningful Relationships

Jus Mystie

But just like being single is a comfort zone too, though I'm not used to being held every night, I don't want you to sleep over here every night, like it's just. I mean, I feel like being in a relationship and not be. They both got their cons and pros that you can get used to, depending on how long you haven't done either one of them. Like I said me, getting a relationship is something that I really really think hard about. Because am I? Yes, you want to be loved and you want a partner and you want to do life with somebody, but that mean I gotta change a lot of shit. I do right, and you know what I'm saying. I gotta be willing to do that. So, yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie

I told we I say this all the time I gotta have somebody that understand that I'm a promoter, that understand that I'm gonna be in a picture With a thousand niggas that night Just because that's what the fuck was going on at the party. You know what I'm saying? I don't know. I'm a podcast host. I talk shit. I say I'm gonna suck dick all the time On here. That don't mean I'm sucking somebody's dick Other than yours. Is you gonna be tripping every night. I don't know if I'm ready for that, and that's why I said what I said man, seriously, people don't like.

Bobby Frost

I done heard mad women say I'm dating with a purpose. Right, I hate that shit. But I done heard mad women say I'm dating with a purpose. So okay, we got that. Why are you not being single with a purpose?

Jus Mystie

Yeah, being single, you got to.

Bobby Frost

Being single with a purpose.

Jus Mystie

I had a purpose being single, you gotta. I mean being single. I have a purpose. I had a purpose being single. After I got my feelings hurt and dragged through the motherfucking mud like that, I said I gotta figure this shit out, is it me? If it's me, okay, let me tweak this now. Let me be the woman that I want. Let me be who, what I'm trying to attract. So me being single this whole time was definitely a choice. I've had a couple motherfuckers want to be in a relationship with me, but I don't think that you can be in a relationship with me. I don't think I can be in one with you. So I'm not going to waste our time.

Bobby Frost

And that's that's big that you said that. Because, again, the thing about relationships to me is like I always say this if you're getting in a relationship, not for like gain, what I mean by gain is something you're gaining out of it outside is being with this person. It could be clout, money, political status or position, anything, but I'm talking about you really with the person, because you like the person. Then I'm assuming once you say I'm with somebody, you with them, with the intention to be with them forever. So I'm 36. If I get with somebody at 36, I want to be I'm 80. What if they live to?

Jus Mystie

85? And them motherfuckers don't be realizing how fast time goes when you think about it. When you do think about them little relationships you was in I mean not even little, or even if they was serious ones, like you said I know when you literally say 10 years out of your mouth and knowing that you were married for 10, you was with her longer than that that's a long fucking time, bro. School, that's what it be. Because you be in school, right, and you start going with this person in seventh grade. You know I'm saying y'all be going together on and off seventh, eighth grade and then ninth grade come, and then now it's for real. Right, now we go. Now, now we go to get we in high school now. Now that's seventh, eighth, ninth. That's already three fucking years. You feel me and guess what? We're gonna break up again. We're gonna 10th, 11th, nigga, that is five years of your life that you've been with this one person and you're a kid still.

Bobby Frost

You know, and that's why I say, be single Like, even as an adult, like I can look at my homeboys, me, other people. It's like you was in a relationship. The relationship didn't work, so to me that's dramatic. If you've been in a long-term relationship and that didn't work, to me that's dramatic. So, with that being said, you go right back in another relationship.

Jus Mystie

Yes.

Bobby Frost

How is that healthy? Now I ain't saying it can't be. I'm not saying it can't be, but just on average. How is that healthy? It's not. It's not a healthy thing. So you putting yourself in a predicament where you know you not healing, you not understanding, you didn't even get a chance. Forget the healing. I'm going to go further than that Forget the healing. You didn't give yourself enough time to learn from the mistakes that you made in that relationship. You know what I'm saying. That's the one thing I hate saying that, but that's the truth.

Bobby Frost

I hate saying that, but that's the truth.

Jus Mystie

I hate saying that, but that's the truth when you in, when you in a relationship, huh, it's dead today yeah, it could be for any reason.

Bobby Frost

Usually that's how I try to uh always do it before time.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, okay, but um go ahead like you don't.

Learning From Past Relationships

Bobby Frost

You're not learning and I hate to say that, but that's the truth. Like I heard some people say people come in your life. Females usually say Come in your life a season, and I agree with that To a certain extent. So If I didn't got a chance To make this mistake In this relationship, I'd have learned for it. So I should be better For the next relationship, but I should be able To understand the mistakes I made.

Jus Mystie

Let me give it some chance by myself and understand I made back another mistake listen, my little cousin just told me it was so crazy because he was in a relationship on some same shit, like with the same person all through high school toxic, untoxic. We love each other, blah, blah, blah. He did all of that, you feel me, but then he ended up fucking with somebody else and having a baby, and he was just talking to me like I don't want her to feel, like like it's her, because it's not her. You know, I'm saying he like I just don't want to be in a relationship. He like this is my first apartment by myself. He like I want to do this by myself, like I just need me time, and I feel like that was some real shit, because you need to develop as a man so that you can be better for the next relationship. You feel me Right Now.

Jus Mystie

On another breath, I know somebody that's going through this and he's trying to be a better person, for his new girl Right and his new girl right and his old girl be throwing it in his face and he'd be fucking him up because he'd be like man. I like I'm trying to be a better person, though, and she making it seem like I'm fucked up for trying to be a better person and I'm like it's not that she you fucked up for trying to, because you're being a better person, because you're learning from your mistakes is that that person still care about you and she see you being a better person, and that shit hurt that's why why I go back to what I said I done been in that situation several times.

Bobby Frost

You should learn from every mistake or some relationships. I'm gonna be honest, this is how I look at. Any relationship that didn't last was a mistake, so you should learn from your mistakes. And that is gotta be a fucked up feeling. When you look up and you've been with somebody, it could be two years, six months, three years, five years. You look up and you've been with somebody, it could be two years, six months, three years, five years. However, and you see them go get with somebody else and the shit that you was on their ass about they're doing it now the right way ain't?

Jus Mystie

that some shit. You like you'd be ready to kill them up, yeah, but that's when on some real shit. That's why I feel like I'm so happy that I'm mature now, though, because that's really when you have to really look and be like I. I mean, you got to just say it like that's what's up. He learned like this is what he was supposed or this is what she was supposed to be doing. You know what I'm saying. Maybe I wasn't the person that was supposed to be doing it for you, but I'm sure that that person taught you something too.

Bobby Frost

I done cracked jokes with some of my exes before and cracked jokes like this and it'd be serious cracking a joke because I really don't care, but it's a joke like when I had to teach you how to suck dick now you can. You ready made to go suck somebody else dick. Or you didn't know how to ride now you ready made to go ride. You didn't know how to cook. That was the illest shit of all time that you didn't know how to cook.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, I had to go through all them stages of you fucking up meals and me sitting up in this bitch acting like like right, and then you't go, bitch, you had to make me a meal. Yeah, now you done got good enough to where now you can cook, right. But I had to go through you fucking shit up Me waving the towel over the motherfucking fire detector, smoke detector and shit. I had to go do that because I had to go through the growing pain. So I made you prepare to go to the pros.

Jus Mystie

But why do we think of it not saying? You just said it negatively, but I didn't hear females even said like so you think I'm gonna mold this nigga for the next bitch? You shouldn't think of it like that, because while you molding him or her, I'm sure you're learning something too. You get what I'm saying like.

Jus Mystie

You just can't you shouldn't be mad at that. You know what I'm saying. But it's. It's natural that a lot of people it don't go like that. They don't be like, oh, that's what, so she know how to cook now, ain't that some shit nigga be mad, like that bitch had me over there eating that burnt ass chicken. Ain't that a bitch? No nigga, I was 14 when I was cooking chicken for you. I'm 36 now. You know what I'm saying, like that's why that's the growth.

Bobby Frost

that's why I said any mistake you make, you should learn from it, and a lot of relationships to me, any relationship that didn't work was a mistake, but you should be able to learn from it, though. You know what I'm saying and I think when you don't give yourself enough time to be single, most of the time you haven't had a chance to learn. You didn't. You didn't because you hopped straight into it. Give yourself a little grace period and you know again. Like if I think, if I go back to it right now me being honest with myself, I should have at least got me like two years to like a I'd say about a one to three year period where I was just single. Really get to understand who am I, where I'm fucking up at, what I really like, what I really don't this dislike, what a deal breaker, what's not a deal breaker.

Jus Mystie

I should have waited before I hopped into relationships like that, but I didn't yeah, well, see a bitch, I didn't wait and I don't give a motherfucker, they be like bitch. You got six girls, but, yes, I got six boyfriends because I don't know who the fuck I. They got to be right the next person I be with, because I don't want to jump. I don't want to be in a relationship in a relationship in a relationship. I am 37. My next relationship needs to be the last one. Okay, so that's how it's gonna be, and you know what I ain't gonna say the last one, but it needs to. It needs to resort to something for me, to something different marriage, uh, or something for real, like that's, that's the truth, that should be, that's it.

Bobby Frost

Once you get to that point, man, like you commend to somebody that's neither here or there. But you know, I ain't going on a rap. That's why I tell you, like, the difference between marriage and relationship to me. I always say that I said in the other episodes I don't see a real difference outside. You know, because if you're serious about it, once you get in a relationship with me, you committed to me, it's supposed to be forever.

Bobby Frost

I shouldn't be in a relationship looking like, yeah, I'm going to see how this is and I'm going to bounce no, if that's the case, then stay single till you know this, the one you know ain't nothing wrong with that and I think it's stigma, especially on females. There's a bigger stigma on females than there is males because you go back to that. That's another topic. But you go back to that hoe. If she out there talking to multiple guys, and when I say talking, not in a relationship, just dealing with different guys at different times in her life, oh, she's a hoe because she's racking up bodies. Okay, listen, no, no, she's not hoe, that's different.

Jus Mystie

I think we definitely need to get two more, we need to have two guests on here when we talk about this. But I think that is an awesome, awesome, awesome, uh topic, because I think that too, like how am I gonna learn, how you gonna learn how to fuck me if we've been fucking each other? They've been going all right, you know I'm saying or how am I gonna learn? Your dick is not his dick, like I feel like they need to stop using that. And I'm not saying Any and everybody Is supposed to have you and y'all. I totally understand you ain't supposed to have sex Until you get married. And I'm not just saying it's okay to be sinning, but god damn it, we already do it and that's just that on that. So my thing is you take that up with the Lord, I'm going to take mine up with the Lord, but until then, what makes me cum.

Jus Mystie

Because if I'm fucking you and you don't make me cum, what I'm supposed to do you would never know. And then it's like what if you yeah, you have to have sex.

Bobby Frost

I go back to cooking, the only way you're going to get better at cooking, because you're just not going to cook everything in the first time you cook it. That shit going to be wow, you have to go through fucking up. Oh, I have to just blend with this season, do this. Oh, if I use this much grease to do this much because you're doing multiple times, if I am 37 and just got the chicken right.

Journey to Self-Discovery and Growth

Jus Mystie

Okay, I had to figure out that you got to cook it in a certain pot. I had to give me a cast iron, a little deep fry, because I ain't got no deep fryer. That's what I want for my birthday, rob. Um, a deep fryer, but anyway. Yeah. Yeah, I had to figure out how to get the chicken right. Every time I made the second batch it was burnt. I was like what the fuck? Now I'm making fucking chicken up. You have to figure that shit out. You gotta figure life out.

Bobby Frost

I go back to what I always say. You know, it's knowledge and wisdom. The difference between knowledge and wisdom. Wisdom is knowledge with experience. I can't be great in bed like how you gonna. Just, there might be some people that automatically just came in out the game. You know I call them. They're like LeBron James. They came out of high school. They was just. They was already ready. Yeah, it's probably, but most people not like that. You have to get your reps in. Most people going to get the greatness, not like LeBron James got the greatness You're going to get. So again, like I always I've talked to females about this and it's funny, but it's the true. Ain't no female looking for no motherfucking virgin, especially if they in their mid twenties? Why would you want to fuck a motherfucker at 30? They ain't never fucked before.

Jus Mystie

Why do two virgins want to lose their virginity together? That's some love shit.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, like you don't know how good the sex is, you don't know what good sex is because you don't know what bad sex is. You have no reference point.

Jus Mystie

you don't, you don't, that's the word right, that you have no reference point and you don't realize. That's especially like how. That's how that's what happened, though they be young, like we just said they be then did it to each other in the eighth grade and then fucked all through high school. Don't even know that it's some dick out there that's gonna blow your fucking mind. You hear me, or some head that she finna swallow your shell, because all you done, had all this time is me but I ain't gonna go biblical, but that's the reason why I say like in the bible.

Bobby Frost

This is true if the the, the tree of knowledge, the fruit of knowledge. However you want to go, if I only have sex with you and only have sex with you, I don't know what's good or bad sex. I just I'm just. All I know is your sex is good, because that's all I know. Now, if you fuck around and start fucking multiple people, that's when that shit come in. You know what you didn't make me come like. I'm pretty sure there's a lot of females out there, cause it's different between males and females.

Jus Mystie

We know when we come cause something about to shoot out, right there's a lot of girls that have been coming, like you know, but not having orgasms.

Bobby Frost

Yeah, you don't know what an orgasm is when you get that first one, you be like what the fuck?

Jus Mystie

What was that? Yeah?

Bobby Frost

that's what I'm saying. You don't know.

Jus Mystie

I have been. When I first had mine, I felt so confused I didn't know what the fuck I was like, what the fuck I should have. Just I've been doing this. This is really how my mind was racing. I was like this is what just happened, like, so I've been wasting all of this time because nothing ever felt like this one. I have really been wasting my time. I should have lost my virginity today at 23.

Bobby Frost

But again, you didn't waste your time, you was learning.

Jus Mystie

Yeah, but I didn't have an orgasm Again. How would you figure out?

Bobby Frost

to get that orgasm Unless you ran into that person. And who's to say you wouldn't have ran into that person If you didn't run into these other people?

Jus Mystie

I love him too, still to this day.

Bobby Frost

I bet he do. If he gave you your first orgasm, how would you not? What's the Betty White song? My first time, I'm going to tell y'all.

Jus Mystie

What's the Betty White song? My first time. How'd she go? I'm going to tell y'all about my very, very first time.

Bobby Frost

That's why I said I know I'm a better man now and I'm better in a relationship now than way before, because I done been in enough trial and errors and I'm going to get better as age go, because I'm going to learn more and more stuff. I'm never going to stop trying to learn, but you know, before I shit nigga. Then you know again, like I said in a previous episode, when I was 21, 22, did I feel grown? Yeah, I felt grown, but did I feel like a grown man down? No, motherfucking household, the correct way, because I didn't know enough to do it. Right, I didn't understand. If I get into an argument, let that shit go. We got to see each other tomorrow, right, 21, 22, we get an argument. We playing a motherfucking silent game. We're going to see who's going to break first. Right, I'll walk past your ass for two weeks, or won't call you, won't text you.

Jus Mystie

That don't help. I think that being single for this long period of time has made me an awesome, awesome woman. Um, I have learned a lot. I have been through a lot sexually, mentally, uh, fucking the household, morally just. I feel like I don't learn so much and I feel like I can actually say now, even though I am still becoming the woman I'm going to become, I really can confidently say that when I get into a relationship he going to be pretty fucking happy.

Bobby Frost

There you go and like just was just saying that, and if you've been single you didn't get yourself to be single You're not scared to be alone. Because you used to be you to be alone, because you used to be, you used to being by yourself. You can appreciate that. But if you ain't never really had that shit, you don't even know how to be alone.

Jus Mystie

Yes, I think about that yeah, I think that learning to be in your own company is something very important. You hear a lot of celebrities say like I just literally heard will smith saying it about bad boys. I'm going to see that tonight because I haven't yet, but I just heard they was on an interview and he was just saying like literally chasing your dreams, even though that's not being in a relationship, y'all. But chasing your dreams is one of the loneliest, scariest times ever because it's so much solitude like you have to literally learn how to be comfortable with your own company, like being by yourself gives it, give you time to learn, time to grow like.

Bobby Frost

Just solitude is so important man that's why I go back to it like if you don't know, you don't know.

Jus Mystie

So get it sexy okay so that's just that lives in my head.

Bobby Frost

Y'all rent free all the time, yeah she only thing I can say about baby girl she it right now, she it yeah, she, she it right now she it, yeah, she is she it Speaking of that.

Bobby Frost

I was just going to say what you've been listening to. You know what I really it's nothing what I've been doing right now on Apple Music. Right now it's a feature on Apple Music called your Favorites. So the songs that you marked that you double tapped on as your favorite. So I'll just go to that playlist. So I got so many songs and I just go through different stuff and it'd be crazy because, like I said, you'll fuck around, I'll be listening to deaf around the corner and then, um, so rick james will pop on, I'll look up and fleetwood mac will pop on so yeah, you just that's crazy, because I got a shirt that say Fleetwood Mac.

Bobby Frost

So yeah, that's what I've been on Like ain't been no specific thing. I'm about to get back in the gym heavy, so I'm about to get back on my gym playlists.

Jus Mystie

OK, yeah, I think that for right now, my main focus is like literally just the real estate test. So I ain't really finna get back into the gym. I'm not going to lie. I'm going to focus very, very hard on this test, and this test only, and after I pass it, then we go to the next goal. I'm actually at a comfortable weight, though, for myself right now.

Bobby Frost

That's real, that's real. So, yeah, I'm going to get back on that because, like I said, I was scared of my knee. So I really haven't been doing anything because I was so scared of my knee, but now doctor cleared me, I'm clear.

Jus Mystie

it's time to go ahead and put this motherfucker back to he got clear last time, y'all, so we'll see this motherfucker, old as hell, his bones is just brimmed I seen a meme and I put that shit on my um instagram story.

Bobby Frost

It was funny one of the funnies when I say it was simple, but it's funny. You start off with a left and right knee, but as you get older that's this wish to you got a good knee in a bad knee yes, I got a good knee in a bad knee.

Jus Mystie

That's crazy damn that's crazy.

Bobby Frost

That's crazy as hell. So where can they catch you at misty?

Jus Mystie

I was just about to steal that line from him. Y'all, y'all can catch me on all social media platforms as misty summers. Y'all check out my tiktok. I'll be on that motherfucker having the most fun in the world. She do y'all. She'd be wild. I don't know what the fuck I'll be having so much fun and my snap y'all. I just be liking to bring y'all into my world so y'all can see what the fuck I'll be having going on and I can see what the fuck y'all be having going on. So tap the fuck in to try Parency and follow me. Just Misty J-U-S-M-Y-S-T-I-E or Misty Summers M-Y-S-T-I-E.

Bobby Frost

I suggest y'all go fuck with her TikTok, Because TikTok Just Misty is different than all others. Tiktok Just Misty is funny as fuck dog.

Jus Mystie

I'm telling y'all she goofy as fuck on there man. A movie is coming up for me real soon, bro. I don't know what is coming up, though Trust me.

Bobby Frost

Goofy as hell, but y'all can catch me on Bobby Frost Media on all social media, and RobertDot87 on IG For my gamers out there. Y'all know that College Football 25 about to drop, so, yeah, y'all can catch your boy, robertdot810. I'm busting fucking heads all summer. That end man, 22k drop. I'm back on Twitch, I'm back about to be streaming and I'm giving our ass with me. So, yeah, catch that one up and, as always, call to action. Hey, love y'all. I love that. Y'all love us. Call to action. Drop them comments. Make this your number one podcast. Try Parency, make us number one in the world. Roll through.

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