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What's Up, and Welcome to Triparency! The Ultimate Guide to Modern Relationships and Culture. Join us as we dive deep into the intricate world of dating, sex, and culture; relentless realism from three raw and transparent point of views from a married, single, and dating perspective.
Get ready for thought-provoking debates, insightful discussions, and a healthy dose of laughter as we navigate the complex landscape of human connections. In each episode, we explore the fascinating intersection of relationships and culture through candid conversations. From deciphering the intricacies of modern dating to exploring the ever-evolving dynamics of intimacy, our podcast is your go-to source for understanding the challenges and triumphs of love, living, and lust in the 21st century.
Our hosts, Bobby Frost, Jus Mystie, and Courtney- Lynn bring a fresh and conversational tone to the table, making you feel like you're catching up at a red cup affair. With a focus on authenticity and openness, we're here to provide valuable insights, share personal experiences, and engage in lively debates that challenge societal norms and beliefs.
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"Matching People's Energy: Navigating Negative and Positive Vibes in Relationships,"
Welcome to another thrilling episode of Triparency! This week, we delve into the intriguing world of energy dynamics within relationships. Whether you're dating, in a committed relationship, or managing friendships, it's vital to understand how to align or control the energy of those around you.
In this episode, "Matching People's Energy: Navigating Negative and Positive Vibes in Relationships," our hosts Bobby Frost, Jus Mystie, and Courtney-Lynn will discuss:
The Impact of Energy on Relationships: Examining how positive and negative energies influence the dynamics among partners, friends, and family.
Recognizing Energy Patterns: Advice on discerning whether someone's energy has a positive or negative effect on you.
Balancing Act: Techniques for harmonizing your energy with others to foster connection and balance.
Managing Negative Energy: Guidance on handling negative energy in relationships while preserving your positive aura.
Boosting Positive Energy: Methods for developing and spreading positive energy to enhance your relationships.
Personal Stories and Insights: Our hosts recount their personal encounters with energy dynamics and their strategies for managing them.
Join us for an engaging conversation that will enlighten you on the significance of energy in relationships and equip you with the means to forge more rewarding and balanced bonds. Whether you're confronting a difficult colleague, a vibrant partner, or just aiming to better your social skills, this episode offers insights for all.
Tune in to learn how matching people's energy can revolutionize your relationships and contribute to a more contented, harmonious existence. Don't miss this insightful exchange – press play and let's dive in!
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Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost. And Bobby Frost Media Presents Tri-Parency. I'm with the beautiful lady Just Misty.
Jus Mystie:Oh, you so used to saying lady, I did. I said lady, it's ladies. I caught myself, yeah.
Bobby Frost:And I'm not gonna start over, we're gonna stick with that.
Jus Mystie:Okay cool, hey y'all, hey. Oh, I just wanted to say again that I know we have been doing this for over a year now. Every time you say Bobby Media presents, I just, I, just I feel like you over us Is. You are a pimp.
Bobby Frost:No, Sad, sad, no Cause I need to be pimpin' right now. What do that?
Jus Mystie:sound like to y'all Bobby Frost Media presents, and I'm with the beautiful ladies. Do you be telling people you sell us? No, did you promise I need.
Bobby Frost:Do you promise? Because I think so. I promise I be telling people you sell us, no did you promise I need. I need you promise because I think I promise I need some pros, because now that I'm down and I can't work I need some pros.
Jus Mystie:Pros probably help out a lot at this point. So do you got somebody that want to buy some pussy from me because I'll sell something for you this one time at least that's the best.
Bobby Frost:That's the best product on the market always.
Jus Mystie:And seeing you threw my jeeters away and look what I'm willing to do for you, and seeing you threw my Jeter's away and look what I'm willing to do for you, that's insane. Listen this friendship is not 50-50.
Bobby Frost:And I didn't even and this is the thing I didn't even throw the Jeter's away and I still, lightweight, reimbursed her because I gave it to her for the Jeter's. And I did it out the bottom of my heart and she made it seem.
Jus Mystie:That's the last time I'll bring up the Jeter's and Courtney Lynn. It's been a year Right.
Courtney Lynn:I don't feel so pretty. Why not, girl, the fucking facial Face peeling and shit? The seasons changing, it's hot and muggy as fuck out here, like I'm aggravated.
Bobby Frost:You know what's funny about that? She said that I done talked to a lot of females in the past and Niggas don't notice that shit, don't notice what, like what she said. Like I've been looking at her the whole time, I didn't see none of that.
Courtney Lynn:I mean like up in here, like it'll start peeling, it'll get real dry.
Jus Mystie:That's cause y'all be Y'all be focused on. Like not, not what y'all supposed To be focused on anyway, it's just like our lips being ashy or nothing. I have literally been fucking.
Courtney Lynn:Y'all would take a picture and post us with a fucking slime on the side of our mouth or some shit. Y'all don't give a fuck.
Jus Mystie:I've been talking to somebody before and then got back in the car to make a TikTok or a video and was thinking like now, why in the fuck didn't he say my lips was this dry? Because he don't give a fuck.
Courtney Lynn:No, because you don lashes d-type. I mean, of course you ain't gonna know, you ain't gonna know the types of the lashes, but I bet you know when I take these bitches off.
Jus Mystie:No, I ain't got no attention to them.
Bobby Frost:I'm gonna crack a joke because I know that get on her female skin, but I don't give a fuck about them. Caterpillar okay.
Jus Mystie:So this is what made me know that it was for real and niggas be just lying. Y'all know that my maintenance man one of them is from cuba and the other one is from mexico. I'm talking about straight mexicans. You hear me in cuba and they damn near I can't understand what they're saying. Every fucking time I come to work with no lashes on alejandro be like misty. What's wrong? Nothing. You keep asking me that shit, nothing.
Bobby Frost:And guess what, when I say I don't got no lashes on alejandro, he'd be like right right yes, so you can't tell me why he's doing that, though I bet the first time he probably seen you yeah so now he's looking like you do look different.
Jus Mystie:Okay, when I see you on the regular without lashes I don't care, okay, but see, that's what my niggas do. It too, though not now. I didn't have homeboys. They'd be like you don't need them. And then I go pull up on or something and I ain't got none on, and they be like damn, like what's wrong. And I'm thinking like what do you mean? Because he custom to see with him.
Bobby Frost:He don't give a fuck about it. He just again. If I see you too many times, I'll ask is it gonna be like damn, what is misty going through something? Because I don't catch you like that all the time, so it's just natural. It's's like a prime example you fucking with a nigga that got dreads and he keep his shit lined up, or keep his shit twisted, and his shit ain't like that. You like what's going on. Or a nigga with a haircut you like Nigga ain't cut his hair in months.
Jus Mystie:Yeah, you like what's wrong.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, that's it, so I get it. That's how I go pretty.
Courtney Lynn:No, yeah, I just need a facial new hairdo. That's it. She just got her hair braiding. I need some more. But um shit, I'm, I'm just here that's it.
Bobby Frost:She be killing with them braids. I I told her uh, she posted about a week ago something like that. I told her she be killing with them braids.
Jus Mystie:I sent her a hairstyle too, with some braids. I wanted they like.
Courtney Lynn:They was like some big twist things that was I'm like, yeah, that's probably my next, my next ones. I like anything quick and big. That was real.
Jus Mystie:Yeah, I like her with the braids too. I years and years and years ago. She had cut her hair one time like she never been a friend which none of my friends have short hair but me. But courtney did it at one point. You did the holly berry man, it was because she had a little bit, it was so cute like that?
Courtney Lynn:it wasn't. It's like a bob, like a short bob, I don't know.
Bobby Frost:Did you like the chick From?
Jus Mystie:Incredibles. She looked like Kelly. Yeah, it was giving Kelly Okay Rolling.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, but I I've been chilling, I've been healing, I've been, yeah, just chilling and healing, that's it.
Jus Mystie:Not spiritual healing. Healing because I whooped her ass the other day and she got stitches. It was bad.
Courtney Lynn:I got surgery. I'm fucking healing and yeah, this shit Nah, I'll never again If this hernia grow back, I ain't getting this shit took out.
Jus Mystie:You just gonna rock it out. I'll rock this shit out. My dad had it and his didn't grow back, but they do say it's possible.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, terry, mama's grow back.
Jus Mystie:I be feeling like, if it grow back, it was meant to be there. Lord, fuck that surgery.
Courtney Lynn:I ain't going up under the knife again. Then you got a robot doing it, so this robot been under my skin telling me to fuck up. They don't do it.
Jus Mystie:That's scary. Now to think about the progression of surgery and all of that shit. Now it's like I know that robots could possibly be more precise, but what if that motherfucker, what if the power shut off in the middle of my surgery, but a robot don't have the sense of.
Bobby Frost:Care.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, care, yeah, that's what I'm saying Like guess what though?
Jus Mystie:Now that's going to be a topic we have to talk about, because do you want precision precise, or do you want a motherfucker to care?
Bobby Frost:You want both.
Jus Mystie:Like, just because you care, don't mean you're going to do it right, you're going to do what the fuck it's programmed to do yeah, you want both.
Courtney Lynn:It keeps doing it.
Bobby Frost:You kind of want both.
Jus Mystie:Can y'all put a heart in the robot? Does it have a heart? Y'all heard the Tin man wanted a heart.
Bobby Frost:Because I might as well get into what I'm doing, because this can piggyback off Courtney, because I'm healing up and I can see the one when it was a couple of doctors and they shot me so many motherfucking time in different spots in my leg before they did the surgery.
Courtney Lynn:So did you have to get the beta blocker. It's called a blocker.
Bobby Frost:Uh-huh, what's that? Block your nerves.
Courtney Lynn:It's another thing to put you the fuck out before they, oh, okay.
Bobby Frost:And he talked to me about it because I'm like damn, he like yeah, we gonna wait, we could do it now. We gonna make sure you all the way there. And see a robot probably gonna be like.
Courtney Lynn:I gave him four.
Bobby Frost:By the rule of thumb, this motherfucker supposed to kick in in 15 minutes, let's get this bitch rocking in 15 minutes, but everybody different. So you know that's the Karen thing like that, but that's all I've been doing. So when that surgery kicked my ass, man, I had to get pins in my bottom of my heel bone to reattach my Achilles tendon. I had the worst type of Achilles tendon tear you can have and I just really got out of like a real depressed spot.
Jus Mystie:If you felt like somebody hit you in the back with a basketball when it popped, I'm very sure it was the worst type.
Bobby Frost:No, that's how any Achilles sit. Feel Anybody tell you that Any Achilles, that's how you know it's Achilles. It feel like somebody hit you. You're going to look behind you like what happened.
Jus Mystie:I know that that shit got to hurt. Have you ever hit the back of that motherfucker on the bed?
Courtney Lynn:Baby will fuck you up for the whole day, okay.
Jus Mystie:You bitch. It's a funny feeling, man, that shit hurt right back there.
Bobby Frost:That's a funny feeling and I just I got out of the press Because if I ain't kicked in Like nigga, You're not about to be walking.
Jus Mystie:Why you ain't tell us you was depressed? We would've came and visited you.
Bobby Frost:Because for me Telling somebody I'm depressed, for me I be feeling like Damn, I'm bringing that little Dark cloud around.
Courtney Lynn:You don't even have to say you depressed. You could've just said Y'all come over.
Jus Mystie:Y'all know I ain't doing to.
Courtney Lynn:You want me to bring something, you want me to come over. We want to be no burden. So you that? Friend, we gotta just pop up on, but we can't pop up on.
Jus Mystie:She know who the fuck we is. We been doing this podcast for a year and a half.
Bobby Frost:And that was the thing. When you have a major injury To where you can't, you're not mobile. No more, that's the shit really fucks with you. Damn I gotta piss. When you have a major injury to where you can't, you're not mobile, no more, you're immobile. That's the shit really fucks with you. Like damn I gotta piss. I gotta really work hard as fuck to get to the bathroom, then work hard as fuck to stand up or sit down or don't.
Courtney Lynn:Let you get comfortable and you gotta pee yeah, that's how it happens it can definitely get you get up off this, which is why people that have surgeries like that.
Jus Mystie:Like that's usually why they get addicted to the pain medicines, because it'd be a mixture of depression and everything. I was really young when I tore my ACL and I'm happy I didn't tear it older, but it was very depressing having to wait for Rodney and Aaron to get in between classes to literally come help me, go to the bathroom and like I'm sitting here waiting. No, it wasn't just them two, but then was my, then my brothers was helping me, but it is depressing like being on crutches period.
Jus Mystie:It's fucking depressing like normal shit, like I can't still lift up anything over five to ten pounds that's why I always be saying you know, when myspace and facebook first came out, they would put them things up right. They'd be like you could take a pill for perfect health or get a million dollars a month. I never thought of the perfect health pill, do you hear me? It was never an option. But now that I've, now that I'm older bitch, if I could be perfectly healthy my whole life and never get any, I'm picking that pill because I don't like being sick, I don't like being injured, I don't like y'all being injured. I'm on the team with the injury reserve both of y'all fucked up like today, like that's.
Bobby Frost:You know. I was depressed about that. It was my first time drinking. Yesterday I hadn't drunk in since I hurt myself.
Jus Mystie:Clap clap, clap, clap, clap, Because he was going hard for a minute. Y'all Proud of you, yeah.
Bobby Frost:I drank last night because it was like damn, I really wanted to go to the tailgate. I ain't missed the tailgate. Shout out to Northwestern. I got to get another clap because it was a tailgate.
Jus Mystie:It was a tailgate today it was.
Courtney Lynn:I mean, I know it, but I didn't know, yeah, today's the North Western tailgate.
Bobby Frost:Oh, today, not yesterday. And what I always say About our tailgate Is the truth there's never been no issues there.
Jus Mystie:No, and I and you know, when it comes to that's always been A flint conversation, right. Everybody always be mad and I'm a beat your Bucks to the death.
Bobby Frost:But y'all definitely.
Jus Mystie:Didn't start it, though, was the first to do that on the yard, like how they do the all-class reunion. I think Northwestern was the first to do it. The tailgate shit. I liked that.
Bobby Frost:And one thing about Northwestern tailgate, the reason I tell people, even with them, young niggas that be out here with the pooch ices and shit on, they don't do shit because they grannies great aunties everybody be there. So you have to conduct yourself, you so you have to conduct yourself. You know what I'm saying and everybody usually leave out at the same time.
Jus Mystie:Well, I don't know about this year, because these motherfuckers right now don't give a fuck. If they mama there, they daddy there.
Bobby Frost:I say even the Rylas and niggas, like when they see certain family members they're going to see that. They know I got to be on my, what you call it, so I catch you nigga on this Listen.
Jus Mystie:That's crazy because I really don't know now. A couple years ago I really felt like that and now I don't know the only reason why I said that, man?
Bobby Frost:because I had to go check on a little homie at beecher. This is like about a month and a half ago. I had to go check on a little homie at beecher and um, I popped out and it was like 36 cars. They was in his business after flint graduation a little bit, you know that day and I got out. I got out with my gun. I looked around. I said hey, let me put this bitch back in it. One of these little niggas might see this bitch bulging or something.
Bobby Frost:Man and it was crazy and I seen like three kids that was from the center. They came up mr will, what you doing up here? Mr will, what you doing up here? I'm like, and I say they changed how they was. You know, I could see how they was walking up and when they seen it was me whole posture change. And I always tell people I can fuck how crazy and bad the kid, it's always gonna be somebody in their life that they see I'm gonna straighten up for this person. Now it might not be a multiple one, because a good kid gonna do it for any grown-up they see, but it's always one person in the family.
Jus Mystie:It could be a granny, great auntie, mama, older brother, somebody that I gotta straighten up for I believe in general, like for real, for really it is always one person though I didn't even been around a little situation where I'm thinking I didn't ask my son like what the fuck was this going on? And then, like the next day he was like I ain't gonna say the little boy name, but the next day he like he said he was finna fire on him, but you was right there, so they didn't want to start. No, you know, I'm like OK, but these motherfucking kids are something different.
Bobby Frost:That's why I love the Northwest. It's always love that bitch be rocking. You have him up in classes From 1971, all the way up to the last class. Everybody be there. So, like I said, you see him up On grandmama, mama.
Jus Mystie:I think you just like it, cause that's your school, cause I like beachers too.
Bobby Frost:No, it's just not. Just not school, because I done seen northern, I done went to northern Before and they you got fights and shit.
Courtney Lynn:Going on or Northwesterns or whatever. Like Beecher, I'm from Beecher, but I'm not from Beecher. I don't fuck with nobody when I go to the tailgates. It's like I don't even have nobody comfortably like to go sit around or be. It's just like I'm an outcast when I'm there.
Jus Mystie:At Beecher's? Yeah, I don't fuck with nobody.
Courtney Lynn:Like I could say hi to certain people. I'm not finna chill with they family. I'm not finna chill with they family. I'm not finna sit, chit-chat, dance, nothing, it's like let's wrap this shit up Like I literally don't.
Jus Mystie:And I fuck with all of them just because I play basketball. So I know somebody from each and all of them, like I know.
Courtney Lynn:but like being comfortable, like my aunt is from Northern. So usually when I go to Northern like my aunt and all her kids, they from Northern. Like my aunt and all her kids, they from Northern, so they be having like tents.
Jus Mystie:Their little tent sucks and they all up there.
Courtney Lynn:And then her husband. He from Northwestern, so they had eight tents and all that different type of shit there. So it's like I always went to Northwestern's because, like, that's like home.
Jus Mystie:I think that one year that everybody like it was the all-class reunion just period and everybody had theirs in different spots, had theirs in different spots, like where they. I think that first year they did it. That was the best fucking one. Baby, I was riding from northerns to northwesterns back to beechers what central y'all chatty because I had whoever central had one yeah, they had a couple I had never been to.
Courtney Lynn:I think I always had something to do they have more older people there at theirs.
Bobby Frost:That's what I noticed. Central is just central has always been.
Jus Mystie:that's crazy, because that's the school that has always been Central, like it was Central.
Courtney Lynn:Like what happened to Southwestern.
Jus Mystie:Southwestern was the bougie kids.
Bobby Frost:They probably had that shit inside of a building. I remember one time they had it at like Ballinger Park or some shit like that.
Jus Mystie:Southwestern was bougie people like I said Fuck them Southwestern Knights. We knew y'all was chatty.
Bobby Frost:Yep, they was the Knights.
Jus Mystie:They was chatty. Yeah, I always said that I mean, y'all was chatty too. Wildcats no for us and everybody. What the fuck is a Wildcat? What type of Wildcat is? You ain't no Bobcat, you ain't no lion. You a fucking Wildcat. No, you just a mixed breed ass wildcat. I'm out here.
Bobby Frost:Damn. Letting him know I'm out here.
Jus Mystie:Ain't got no buck pride you ain't got.
Bobby Frost:You ain't no Viking, you just a fucking wildcat, we out here, you gonna know what you gonna get. That's the thing. That's crazy.
Jus Mystie:Cause mascots really matter. My son knew school where he at I fucking cobra. He was like oh, I said that's chatty, I don't want you to be a cobra why not.
Bobby Frost:We switch in school, not just because that's chatty man. I'm wrong with a cobra, no mascot. Some mascots be cool. Then some mascots be like trash, like what is that? Millendon, I think they mascot is like an atom, it's a chemical.
Jus Mystie:I'm not adam, but uh not I know what you're talking about a little atom. Yeah, that's chat. How can I dress up? How can I dress up as an atomic bomb? Adam, I'm whatever.
Courtney Lynn:I know exactly what you're talking about. You're supposed to a mascot's. Supposed to be like the hype man.
Jus Mystie:How do I got a snake mascot costume?
Bobby Frost:That's a snake. Yep, that sucks Okay. So what you been on Miss?
Jus Mystie:Nothing. I so what you been on, miss Nothing. I'm getting prepared for my test y'all. I decided this time that I'm not going to tell nobody when I'm taking the test, or nothing. I scheduled it. I'm not going to tell nobody today. I'm just going to study hard and I'm going to go do it and I'll be a real estate agent in about 60 days. That's it, and yeah, that's it.
Bobby Frost:Big things, big things.
Jus Mystie:Same shit. I got another property Damn Every time I get on here. I got another property. But at the end of the day I was on the phone with my boss of the day and she was telling me, like this is what I need to do. And I'm like, ok, now you got me hiring and firing people at this point. Bitch, cut the check. Am I the district manager or not? So she was like we working on it, so I should be district manager soon around the Flint area. That's awesome. And then I'm going to be a real estate agent. So I just been chilling studying and getting my fun.
Courtney Lynn:So when you become a real estate agent, what does that do for your job?
Jus Mystie:For my nine to five? Really nothing. But for me now I can go sell houses and um, you know, I gotta I will have to get under a broker, so which my brother is a broker, so I can really just hold my license with him. But I really just want to sell houses. You know, my ultimate goal basically is for the real estate to pay for law school. You know what I'm saying? I'm only 37. I want to be a lawyer by the time I'm 42. So we don't get it rocking.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, I'm going to start calling you, mrs Pennybags little Monopoly dude. That's what his name is, yeah.
Jus Mystie:Look, my boss just asked me today, so you coming to the open house at the uh cause I got a senior facility and I'm like, uh, I got to record my podcast first. Right, she like what. You have a podcast too.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, bitch, I got to get it popping. Okay, and I'm going to pull up.
Jus Mystie:Yeah, I'm going to get it, but I mean, you know, just doing life.
Bobby Frost:That's the move, man. Keep it all going. So we're going to get into the topic. We're going to do it a little bit longer, but I like it was my fault because I usually keep a track on it, but I'd be happy to have my whole crew.
Jus Mystie:Oh, I thought you was going to say your hoes. Look at me.
Bobby Frost:I was wrong with her, with the whole thing, because obviously.
Jus Mystie:I heard that you said that you'd be selling us. I wasn't going to say shit, but I heard that you said man, whoever said that they lying to you? Let me call your homeboy, because that's what's happening Calling and shit.
Bobby Frost:I'm about to say shit, nigga, that's the case. Shit, I need some dividends. You ain't saw nobody on a blade. I ain't been pulling up.
Courtney Lynn:These hoes keeping their $40 on their own. They don't need no pips.
Bobby Frost:That's what put the shit in the game.
Courtney Lynn:Do you know how fucked up we would be? Because I could just imagine being a kid, because I don't remember that era. I never saw the strip with the hoes and pips and shit. Just imagine if we had that shit. Now she's a hoe.
Jus Mystie:I think we didn't see it because where we live at I don't think it was that kind of like state, but I'm sure we had a little track like on door highway, north saginaw, but not like places like oregon. I've never met nobody from oregon but I've always heard it's nothing but pimps and hoes down there. And then I finally met somebody from oregon and she definitely clarified it. She was was like man. It is pissing holes everywhere.
Bobby Frost:It used to be pissing holes up here, the only thing that hit when crack hit. It fucked the game up. Because now, instead of baby, you about to go turn this trick for this amount of money, these hundreds and hundreds of dollars. I'm about to go turn this trick for a $20 rock Crack is whack and it's cheap In my Whitney voice.
Bobby Frost:I always say this and then we can get into the topic. I always say this when you go out west, oregon is west. When you go out to the out west states, that pimp shit is there. I'm moving. They, man, pack your shit up, son. They there. I done ran into them being to a female and you think the female talking to you. You know she's.
Courtney Lynn:No, that shit be having me cracking up and motherfucking, spying a bitch Like. Why do y'all think y'all can fuck bitches in Vegas?
Bobby Frost:What you mean.
Courtney Lynn:Like they actually want to fuck y'all, just to be fucking y'all and not get paid. You know what?
Bobby Frost:You will get If you run into, and that's getting off track. But if you run into a group and females hate this because they don't want to get aired out in front of their niggas, and I'll be like stop the gang in line. If you run into a group of I'm on my girl's trip, it's six girls. Do the math, do the odds Two out of them, six fucking. Now what you got to do is figure out what two it is.
Jus Mystie:No, we talking about how y'all try to go get it be bitches on the street, literally passing like passing out cars.
Bobby Frost:No, you know any nigga don't know that out they mind she's prostituting. This will give you like they if you don't. I don't know. No, nigga don't know that.
Jus Mystie:I want a car for my pussy too.
Bobby Frost:I don't know. No, your girl, your family, they still gonna slack that bitch on you A business car for pussy.
Jus Mystie:That shit blew me when I saw it All on the floor. A business car for pussy? Yeah.
Bobby Frost:I said I'm moving to.
Jus Mystie:Vegas. I am moving to Vegas. Out West it's niggas and can you just imagine with social media now nigga.
Bobby Frost:That's what I'm telling you Most of them OnlyFans girls, girls if you look at them top, only fan girls. Go see where they stationed at out west.
Jus Mystie:I'm moving that's that shit at the ripe age of 40, man, it's, it's a trick for every age group, every and every race, ethnicity, it doesn't matter.
Bobby Frost:Every fetish, it's motherfuckers.
Jus Mystie:Some tricks want a midget no, what it is is what I've always told y'all sex sales, no matter what. I don't give a fuck, pussy is the greatest, it's the power of the P-U-S-S-Y.
Courtney Lynn:It's the greatest product it is, but it's like it's the power of the pussy. But we be want dickies Just as much as y'all want pussy.
Jus Mystie:They don't know that Cause we already know, wasn't shit y'all you could write on.
Bobby Frost:I agree, I agree with you.
Jus Mystie:100 cc was wrong I agree with you 100 y'all. Y'all just not as smart as us. I didn't tell females that before all I want y'all to know is on some real shit before we getting this up. What would happen if every woman in the world said we ain't putting out, y'all would die off. Not because we ain't putting out, y'all will die off Not because we ain't giving birth, but because y'all ain't fucking.
Bobby Frost:Nah, I'm going to be honest.
Jus Mystie:If every woman in the world collectively cut the pussy off, baby y'all would.
Bobby Frost:I'm going to be honest with you, and this is not me, so I hope don't nobody get dumb enough to, even because humans are dumb, just period. But neither are there. Niggas are fucking niggas now, anyway. So, like, is it going to be niggas fucking niggas Now? They're going to say that's why you laughing, because they're going to be out in the open with it. Now, nigga, shit, I had to fuck this nigga. I couldn't like. You know what I'm saying.
Courtney Lynn:Niggas are fucking niggas anyway.
Bobby Frost:So it's been like that, but we're going to get into the topic. So the topic I have seen a post one of my Facebook friends and, like I said, I always go to the major comments of the actual post, not when the person reposted. I've seen it. It went like this I don't want a man matching my energy, I want a man leading and for me, when I looked at the at first, I thought about it from a different standpoint. Like she's saying she don't want a man being, I guess, masculine and taking lead of the household. But again, that's why I read the comments. Once I went through the comments I seen what the fuck it was and I never understood this with females and not all females, but this is a general statement. You mean you can do dumb shit, bullshit, but this is a general statement. You mean you can do dumb shit, bullshit and I'm just supposed to let you just roll with it because you're a female.
Jus Mystie:Elaborate on dumb shit and bullshit, because I don't know what you mean.
Bobby Frost:Like. Here's my point. If I'm in this bitch starving and you take forever to get the food to me, it's like alright, cool Nigga. It's alright If a female get like. You never hear a nigga say I'm hangry, that's not if I hear one of my homeboys say he hangry nigga what type of?
Jus Mystie:But y'all be feeling it, dog.
Bobby Frost:You know what I'm saying. Even if you feel it, you can't come out and say you hangry, but a female, I'm hangry, fix it. Like right then, and there like what? Or like I'm spoiled. What the fuck did that mean? You spoiled? Your parents did shit for you and went above and beyond. Okay, who's to say my parents didn't go above and beyond?
Bobby Frost:I can't tell you I can't watch a female so I'm spoiled. She gonna look at me crazy like you trying to like. They say you zesty, you trying to be a bad bitch. What you telling me I'm spoiled for so it's certain shit excuse for them doing dumb shit or fuck shit because they're female and I'd be looking like what. So you'd be a prime example Female. Get an attitude about something very small and make a big ass argument about it and what you supposed to do is just be like, well, she a female, she doing it, let her blow her steam off and then we get back on track. Fuck no, because now if I catch an attitude, I'm tripping.
Jus Mystie:I think that's crazy, because I didn't take that from when I read it, because I saw that post too.
Bobby Frost:Did you read the comments?
Jus Mystie:No, I just read it, because if I made a post like that, I wouldn't be talking about me getting an attitude. I would be saying, when I say I want a man to lead and not match my energy, I mean, like I didn't literally heard a nigga be like, um, I want to put it the right way. Like I didn't literally heard a nigga, basically like what you're going to do for me, what, what do you? What do you mean, what am I going to do for you? Like I don't want, I'm going to match your energy and let you lead. Like you know what I'm saying. Like I, I will match your energy. I think you're supposed to match somebody's energy, that's just. I think it was more so. Like what you're giving out as a man yeah, you know what I'm saying. I thought that's what she was saying. Like what you putting out, like I'm not supposed to put out what you putting out, so don't match my energy. I'm the female. This is feminine energy over here.
Courtney Lynn:And that's how I took it at first. Okay, right, the comments are well, the status of the pain too. But just like I have put up a, I put up a post that said what what's hard about dating you, dating you. Half of everybody who commented said what somebody else does to them never what was hard about dating them. People just don't read at all, because I ain't, I ain't putting up with nobody's shit.
Jus Mystie:I think that ain't yeah that ain't what's hard about dating you.
Bobby Frost:I said what's hard about that's the reason why I read the comments, because the a lot of, like you said, a lot of times somebody posts I'm gonna go viral. The real intent of what was said wasn't what it was too, and then you see how the general masses Feel about this, and that's why I read it.
Courtney Lynn:I think it's illiterate, like cause you're not reading.
Bobby Frost:Cause, like when I think.
Courtney Lynn:Just like when Y'all said the post said about leading, like a lot of dudes Be want us, I don't Lead too. Or like why you keep asking me. Or like we go back and forth About who finna do what they want us to do, and it's like you're the man lead, like I'm taking, I'm following. Whatever you do, you're supposed to lead, and I don't know if that scares y'all when we be like a man's supposed to leave, but a man is supposed to leave, like what the fuck I'm supposed to go? Get the nigga in the back. I can't go to the nigga in the back to leave me. It's the nigga that's supposed to be in front of me.
Jus Mystie:That lead, like lead and then my energy and I can match yours like once you can lead me.
Courtney Lynn:Now I know what the fuck to do. I'm following. Like now, I'm following you. Now shit can start, the train can start moving. Like once you move, I'm moving.
Jus Mystie:I think that right and that's a perfect sense. The train I think that a lot of dudes think that we be it, ain't that we want you to put up with our shit. It's almost like tame it, nigga. And then I know that if you feeling like I got attitude not supposed to just be like, are you supposed to just be like whatever she got attitude?
Courtney Lynn:no, nigga, check me, missy, what the fuck, you have that's, but what if I don't know I'm having an attitude? Because, I've been doing it for so long and that's where I was getting that.
Bobby Frost:That's the point I'm making. Like god damn, like we adults now, when they're younger, I can understand these type of things. You get what I'm saying. But when I'm like I'm in my mid 30s, if I'm talking to somebody Around my age bracket or older, like it's certain shit Now that I expect, like why am I taming it?
Courtney Lynn:Like, if I go get a dog, I'm not, it's not necessarily taming. If it's something that I don't know, that's a problem with me, right?
Jus Mystie:You supposed to check if I'm your bitch and then if you're not, if you don't, I hate that we may be using the word tame that's probably why I sound fucked up, but if you don't tame it and make me accustomed to our relationship, how am I ever going to be the bitch you want me to be? Because sometimes we have attitudes for real, though, and it's unconscious, like literally, or it's not an attitude, right, finna, come on, because I'm tripping today, but it took me a minute to realize like you're snapping on everybody.
Bobby Frost:And this is my thing I'm saying again, and you know y'all hate my analogies, but they always gonna come Like and I know y'all like dogs. So how many times have y'all went and got a grown ass dog?
Courtney Lynn:I don't like animals, but you know, when did?
Bobby Frost:it have y'all when it got a grown ass. I'm talking about a two, three year old dog, big ass dog, I ain't saying you know I did it one time in my life.
Jus Mystie:I did and it was the best dog I ever had. And I'm not bullshit.
Bobby Frost:But that's my point. It's not normal you do that. If you're going to raise a dog, you're usually going to get a younger. How to act when your period come on, like you don't know how to? I ain't saying walk around this bitch and be cheerful, that's not what I'm saying. But to be sitting around this bitch like you still 14, 15, 16, 18, 19 you don't know how to maneuver with that motherfucking period okay, besides the period, it's unconscious because you don't know how you, you don't know, I don't know.
Jus Mystie:But I have been on the phone with at work with a resident right and when I get off the phone my co-worker then came in there like bro you have, why did you just like you sound like you have a shitty ass attitude and I'm like, damn do I?
Courtney Lynn:and I don't realize it because you literally don't realize, just like you broke your, you just tore your achilles. Yeah, you probably don't think your attitude is shitty. You probably think you just, you know, just talking. But she can take it as you snapping at her like snappy she's not supposed to be like. And see, listen, this is my different and you don't notice that you're doing it no, I've been in the city space because it's just not natural.
Bobby Frost:Achilles getting to. I get what you're saying, but achilles don't happen. All the time you've been having this fucking period, for you have one every month, but you can't you sometimes you can't control it just like, okay, another one, not even have an attitude.
Jus Mystie:I've also been sitting there watching. As a matter of fact, it would be crying for no fucking reason. The green mile. I don't watch the green mile a thousand fucking times, but this time, one particular time, I'm in this motherfucker like I can't believe they killed this mouse. I'm really crying and then bitch you have watched this motherfucker step on his mouse 17 times. Looked at my calendar, I said oh okay, your period come on in three days.
Bobby Frost:You don't know and that right there don't work for me. I get what y'all saying that work, like when I hear motherfuckers say, of course you don't, you don't, you don't easy, like now, you sounding like the politics who want to tell us about our fucking bodies.
Courtney Lynn:You don't know what we go through when we have those cycles. We don't know like, oh, we're not using it as. Oh, I'm finna, come on my period. I'm finna, be a bitch. You don't know why you're going through these different changes, just like I don't know how it feel to have menopause, but you go. You go with an older woman who's having menopause. She's losing her fucking shit. That she can't control. But I can't, since I don't have it. I can't be like why are you sweating?
Jus Mystie:just like you don't know what they call the men's thing, midlife crisis, we don't know what it's like for y'all. You don't know what it's like to go through midlife crisis because you ain't went to me it's still a difference, because that's not a recurring thing.
Bobby Frost:When you, when, like if you what you just said, but it's still a thing so bad that you it's fucking with you. I get that. I done been around females that when they period come around, they know it's coming and they tell you I'm about to come on my period yeah, you know, so you're telling me. You know you acting this way because you're coming on your period, because your period come every month so you know we know why our feelings we know why our feelings is shifting.
Courtney Lynn:Now it's starting to make sense on why, like even though the money's here, we don't just think about our period 24 7, right, but if I know, I've been crying every time I watch tv. You tell me a story, I'm crying or I'm snappy or whatever like that. I'm just thinking like why the fuck am I having those mood swings? And then that's when you think like, oh shit, my period is gonna come on this week. That don't give us an excuse.
Courtney Lynn:No, I'm not saying all my period, for this week Not going to be a bitch, but no, that ain't what that's, not what that is.
Jus Mystie:And so what you saying to tie it Cause I mean we're not all talking topic, but to tie it to the topic, you're saying that when I come in and and I have an attitude this day, even if it ain't- I'm not about to keep putting up with your attitude because you're telling me who said you got to put up with it.
Bobby Frost:That's why I'm going back to the. I'm not saying just anybody, I'm saying the people. How I seen that mass of the general public feeling with that talking. So you feel like you can snap, snap my head off, do all this other shit and it's supposed to be just pushed to the side because the anatomy of you is a female. That's crazy. You giving yourself an excuse to be on bullshit because you're a female.
Jus Mystie:It's the same. You give yourself an excuse when you cheat. That is bullshit. I'm a man, ain't I Hold on.
Bobby Frost:I wouldn't sit up in front of y'all and tell y'all that's correct. That's bullshit. I can't go fuck mad bitches and be like, well, you know what? I got a dick between my legs. I'm saying you being manipulative, that's bullshit. You using something not to take accountability. You want to justify your bullshit If I go fuck around and fuck off on my girl and the first thing I tell her is I'm a man, that's why I did it. So really, what I'm saying is fuck taking accountability. I'm on bullshit, but this is my crush, I'm a nigga.
Jus Mystie:Huh, okay. So if I match your energy when you come in and be like damn, I fucked up, you know what I'm saying, I cheated, boom, boom, boom. And then two, three days to I'm gonna say two, three weeks later I come in and I'd be like I fucked up, I cheated. I'm matching your energy, not saying you said you would do it, but some men do. Now you know what? Now that's being petty, that's just not matching energy, because now we're gonna keep doing that, we're gonna keep matching okay.
Jus Mystie:So I I think that was a good thing you brought up, because is matching energy petty anyway? Because sometimes I saw somebody just make a status and it was referring to people not coming to events right, like, oh okay, I'm not coming to nobody event either. I think that that can be petty to a certain extent, but I also feel it, though. Don't show up, but don't not show up for me and I show up for you. That's that's on a friendship level, though. So I get that. But if you, I feel like, to a certain extent, matching energies is petty, especially when it's on a negative end.
Jus Mystie:When it's on a negative end. I think that's petty.
Bobby Frost:That's the keep tit for tatting it Because, like, this is what I'm going to say. This is me in a relationship. If I see you keep having little attitudes, I'm going to give you a pass first couple of times. You know what I'm saying and I'll try to talk to you about it. But when this shit continues to keep going like that and you think like the next day we're just supposed to wake up and it's just with attitude, you gonna get to see how my attitude is my thing is, communication is key in every fucking relationship friendship, relationship family.
Courtney Lynn:We definitely stress that, yeah whatever ship it is, it should always be open line of communication, whether it's gonna hurt or anything.
Bobby Frost:When like I'm gonna coin that the um, what you calling what? What she just said, I'm gonna coin. I was thinking she said no communication gonna sink the ship yeah, it is. It is so like I'm posting on facebook like you said like.
Courtney Lynn:You said like you get it. What if I was with somebody for five, six years? He let me. That's how he let me talk to him. That's how it was. So I don't think it's nothing for Me to work on Because he groomed me this way. So now I'm with you. You didn't let me slide A little bit, so now we Six months in Whatever. However, months in Now you're talking to me About how I talk to you. Why didn't you talk to me? Why you didn't put a, a nail in that shit Right when?
Bobby Frost:it happened Because you thinking that again I don't, how can?
Courtney Lynn:I fix something that I don't.
Bobby Frost:I don't know what's broken or is a problem that's what I said, because in my, in my mind, if that's a situation, this is what I'm thinking. I'm thinking this is not going to be a pattern, this is not going to be a reoccurrence. You just really have some shit that overwhelmed you at the time.
Courtney Lynn:You got an attitude, but I know you can see like for me. I can see it for myself. I talk aggressive, like I don't talk loud, but I talk aggressive. I talk with my hands like I don't be meaning to be like. You know, for me it's a bitch that. That's just how I talk and if you don't like that, nip that shit in the bud, because now we all these months in now I think you're just picking with that, but you know that ain't just friends, that ain't just relationships, though.
Jus Mystie:The way somebody do the best, that's friendships too.
Bobby Frost:We've discussed that with her. Remember I told you that.
Jus Mystie:I've had to be like Courtney. I ain't did shit to you, bitch, Not today.
Bobby Frost:Right. That's why I'm saying like, that's why I said this one. For me it was a good topic because it went. It's for all ships, you know, friendship family to me.
Courtney Lynn:I feel like it is petty, but it's like you gotta do you can. You gotta do what puts you create a safe space and peaceful space, okay, so what?
Jus Mystie:okay. So what about? If, okay, I'm a person like this, i'ma just use a. Okay, i'ma use a key. The kids, for example because I know a lot of women be big on this like no, them bitches ain't coming to my kids birthday party. You feel me? Okay? Boom, I throw a birthday party. Right, courtney, don't show up. You know I'm saying, and everybody else do. Or two of my friends don't show up. When it's time for courtney's son birthday party, I feel like bitch, I'm coming because I fuck with your son. You know I'm saying bitch, you, you didn't come to my kids birthday party. Whatever the reason was or whatever, I don't know. Maybe you didn't come just because you didn't want to, I don't know. But I fuck with your son, my son, fuck with your son. So I'm not going to be petty and be like no, no, we're not going because I will give you, I will give you a handful of passes for that.
Courtney Lynn:When I see this is a, what they say, a continual occurrence, it's like, oh, and then I see you show up for everybody else, I see you post so is that the only thing?
Jus Mystie:when it's a person, show up for other people? Yes, because it's me it's me and whoever.
Courtney Lynn:But what really? What really? Because I, I'm all about kids, I'm all about supporting the kids and I and I was like that. But when my kids see what people well, everybody has to know, when my kids start noticing shit is bitch, fuck you and whoever it's fuck their daddy, it's fuck family, it's fuck anybody.
Courtney Lynn:When I know, when my kids know, we show up for everybody and after everything is over and they get to like why such and such ain't come, like my son that ran down all the people he thought should have been there my daughter would run everything down there. She thought she would be there. So when my kids start noticing shit, like damn this, they second time not coming. You, we always pull up on them. You always buying a gift for them, you always doing this. And it's like once my kids start noticing shit, I don't give a fuck how you feel about how I'm reacting, because once my kids start noticing shit is fuck whoever now is I mean.
Jus Mystie:But I can get that when you're as far as, when it's time for the, yeah, when your kids expect, but okay. But I've also had a situation like that where I was like I'm gonna be petty, right, I'm like fuck that, I'm not going. This bitch don't ever come to none of my shit. I said that. But then the son called like is you coming to my open house, blah, blah, and I'm like, okay, now, now I can't be petty, I gotta step into auntie mode because he called me. You know what I'm saying and I would go off of some shit like that. But did I go and give and talk to just him and give him his shit and then moved around. Yes, I'm not staying here, bitch, because I ain't got to be here for you. I don't know. I just feel like, like I said, being petty on a negative, tip?
Courtney Lynn:It's really not. I feel like it's putting me at peace, because if it's bothering me I'm not at peace, even if I go, if it's still bothering me whether I talked to you before about the last situation. You wasn't at work, you wasn't nowhere else, even family, I get it. So it's like you show up for every. You pick and choose, just like we say niggas, pick and choose who they want to spend time with and who they don't want to spend time with. Friends, do the shit too.
Jus Mystie:Family do the shit too, so is it possible to be friends with somebody and just not?
Courtney Lynn:I don't have the energy for anybody. Nothing that's fake Like friendship. We do grow old. We do have we not kids? No more. I'm not going to be at your house 24 seven. We not probably going to be on the phone all day. It might be a day we don't talk. It might be a day you probably just don't want to talk at all. Nothing is wrong with you working, don't?
Jus Mystie:even ask your phone when you get off work. That's why I just saw, I just I forgot the celebrity girl name, the one that the one that was like uh, the girl that said uh boom you didn't. Britney ain't give it to you. Whatever her name was, my mans gave it to you.
Jus Mystie:Uh, at the table when she was yeah yeah, she had just made a, uh, a status that see, I mean she had. It was a little clip of her and she was saying like when you don't talk to somebody, like why do you feel like she mad at you?
Courtney Lynn:like why you?
Jus Mystie:don't have to have that thought like, why are you trying to like figure out why she's not talking to you? It could just be because you know what I'm saying, she's been busier. Whatever the case may be, but I know people that be like, oh, courtney ain't talking to me all week, like fuck her, I'm not see, I never I never felt that way or nothing.
Courtney Lynn:That's why anybody I have I have what you call it like um, come back and talk to. The energy is still the same as if we talk every fucking day. Like I can go hell, even janae, I don't went years without talking to her on the phone. But when we finally do talk back, we catch up. It ain't nothing that. Oh bitch, you been fake, you been with your other friends. It's never none of that type of shit. Like Courtney, I don't talk to her. She would text out the blue. I would text her out the blue. Bitch, what you doing. Like you all right, you good down there. It ain't shit. Like we are grown with our own own problems. And then I feel like we're grown enough. If you know, I'll talk to you every day, regardless if it's a text message, a tiktok, or I come to your job or anything. If you know, a couple days have went by. I ain't talked to you. Why would you feel like, oh, she must be mad at me. Why you just can't check on me to make sure I'm fucking good?
Jus Mystie:as a grown up like the more I grow, that is how I move about it like, because, it being specific, that's really pretty much how I go too, though Courtney baby is somebody I used to talk to every day while she was here in Michigan, but now that she's moved we kind of don't talk every day. Um, darissa is somebody that I don't talk to every day, but I out the blue, text her like baby mama. That's the, the friend I call my baby mama. I text Darissa like BM, bm, you good, or she would text me, but it'd be crazy, because when it's somebody you don't talk to, sometimes when they text you, you'd be like, oh shit, something wrong. Every time Dorissa texts me at first, if she texts me first, I'd be like what the fuck?
Courtney Lynn:But I feel like our instant thing shouldn't be motherfucking mad at you or does some shit. You done some fuck shit to them.
Jus Mystie:I don't think you should match energies and know none of your relationships on a negative side. I think I'm talking about negative.
Bobby Frost:I'm on the negative side.
Courtney Lynn:I just rather cut you off.
Bobby Frost:I'm so I'm so at a point.
Courtney Lynn:I'm at a point to where and that's where I have been I probably have a handful of friends. I might have associates. They might have associates, they might be misty's friends and I might be cool with them when they with her.
Courtney Lynn:but I have my set of fucking friends like I'm not that person that's gonna have 40 fucking best friends, or people like because that's my expectations on friendship is is not being met like I want to me. Don't have friend me and be friends with motherfuckers who can care less about you, like that's who you, you praise and all that type of shit. But they didn't want to come over here and give me the bare minimum of friendship. So I'd rather just keep the friends that I have and call it a fucking day.
Bobby Frost:My thing. Like I said when I started matching your energy, that's the last, that's for you, that's to be the red flag.
Courtney Lynn:You should know something is wrong. Yeah, you should know something is wrong. Yeah, you should know we're there, Not even friends for real.
Bobby Frost:Whatever, my relationship, friendship, you know friends, family, actual, you know relationship partnership, whatever Once I start matching your energy, your energy fucked up. That's the last warning shot to let you know yo fix it or I'm out, because again I just I don't get when people do that shit and think it's cool. I even tell my kids this this is honest truth Because you know they're all different ages and my two kids that bump heads the most is my youngest daughter and my second oldest daughter and they bump heads a lot. And I had to talk to my youngest daughter because everybody knows that's my baby, even though she's not the youngest, my youngest girl, that's my baby. I had to tell her like you can't keep doing shit to your big sister and think she's just going to like keep giving you to the past because you're a little sis no-transcript, or I ain't finna do shit to her.
Courtney Lynn:You shouldn't have been fucking with her.
Bobby Frost:Because you're at the point that you think that I'm the princess, I can get away with doing it Like she'll do some wild shit to her and be like can you come fix me something to?
Courtney Lynn:eat. Oh yeah, my daughter do that to my child. Yeah, well, you know, that's the big sister dynamo, little sister, big sister, big brother, little sister dynamo, I think that having siblings is.
Jus Mystie:I mean like if you have an only kid and that's it, that's great, I get it. But when I tell you having siblings is a must man it just is I really think that's true.
Jus Mystie:You, I did that to Brennan before my. Rest in peace, my baby, I love my brother so bad, but I did that to him before laying in the bed when we was little, fucking with him, fucking with him, fucking with him. And so you reached over and bust me in my motherfucking mouth so hard blood squirted to the ceiling, do you hear me? And my mama was like I told you to leave him alone. It's just that's. What siblings do we got?
Bobby Frost:but you know what? I only said that because I'm trying to teach my daughter this, because you will start feeling that entitlement yeah, we're everywhere, we're everywhere I can do shit and other friendship.
Bobby Frost:Your boyfriend, you know, that's where the shit, that motherfucker don't start from yeah, that's why I say everything the way a motherfucker acts stems from somewhere. It just don't come out the blue. It's been conditioned somewhere where courtney said that's me, I'm not. If you, if I get in a relationship with somebody and you telling me this is how your other relationship was, well, this is the first thing I'm gonna tell you off the dribble.
Bobby Frost:You shouldn't and it's hard to tell somebody that, compared to doing it, you shouldn't come in with that anyway, because apparently it wasn't right, because it didn't work it's my personality right, I get it, and so for me, the first couple times you do it, I'm not seeing it as a pattern yet, because I haven't seen it to be a pattern yet, right, but then afterwards I'm gonna, you know, I'm gonna kind of communicate with you once you keep doing this shit. My next thing is oh, let me give you a taste of your own medicine. If that don't fix you, I'm out the door okay I'm out the door talking about energies.
Courtney Lynn:Why is it so hard to match good energy when you're in a relationship?
Bobby Frost:I'm a big friendship, I'm a big component.
Courtney Lynn:If if the energy is good. Like I'm I'm a nurturer and a carer when I'm in a relationship, like I'm not affectionate. But I need to quit saying that I'm not affectionate because I'm affectionate to who I want to be affectionate with. So people I wasn't affectionate with, obviously I didn't fucking like them, like clearly. But a woman will submit naturally to a motherfucker who leads and match your energy as long as it's like good energy. Like you take care of me, I'll take care of you.
Bobby Frost:I'm going to take that a step further because, like I ain't saying this to be, this is how I really feel. All my friendship, like all my homies I don't know a homie I got that I can sit up and say, and I don't count favors either. I'm just saying just how I feel about it, that I feel like I sandbagged them with some shit, meaning that I'm I'm probably giving more out of our friendship than my friend do, but that's just me. Naturally, it ain't no like oh, I need a pat on the back. I'm saying it because if I fuck with you and you fuck with me, I'm always going to try to match.
Bobby Frost:Whatever positive you do, I'm going to try to match it or go above and beyond, because that's me showing my appreciation, that's you keeping it 100 with me, you keeping it real for me. I can depend on you. So I always try to match good energy. I try to take it a step above. My matching goes both ways. I'm going to match good energy and bad energy and I'm just not going to do anytime you get bad energy. Anytime I see good energy, I'm going to match it Bad energy. I'm not going to match that every time. It's when it becomes a pattern when I start seeing this shit over and over. Yeah, you got to the point where you think you entitled to act ass or do bullshit and I'm just supposed to get for a visual gender. Or, like I said with friends, I have some friends that like that. They feel like you know they can get away with talking, crazy, doing while shit and I got not a friend, because now they're right held you.
Courtney Lynn:That's how she act. Y'all know how she is every time we take her somewhere, she acting a fool, like you know. That's how she is. Nobody checked her, nobody said nothing.
Bobby Frost:I'm gonna clip that. I'm clipping what she just said, cause I done seen that I ain't gonna touch on a bunch of different subjects and situations, but I done seen that situation go so far left with a motherfucker getting the title because motherfuckers been letting them get away with.
Jus Mystie:This is your behavior I think that some behavior is like I, I get it when it's really fucked, like how she said that yeah, that was a trip. Like you just feel like you can do anything. But I feel like, when you was just saying, like how you matched a good energy and I feel like you also got to know somebody. And it depends on your relationship too, because, like I'm saying, I I always use courtney, for example, because that's now that's the friend I talk to the most. But I feel like I know that she's going to go days without calling and talk. Like you know, I'm saying, at first, when she started doing it, I probably was like damn, why the fuck? You know, because we were talking on the phone every single day. You know what I'm saying. We always did that our whole life, every single day.
Jus Mystie:So now I just be like a couple days go by, like she said, I just be like, oh damn, let me call and make sure she's straight, though, because she ain't calling me. I don't be like I'm not gonna call either. I'm gonna wait till she called me. I don't do that. I have another friend that the bitch might call every day and I eventually I'll be like okay, I'm not answering the goddamn phone because she keeps calling. She don't want shit. You know what I'm saying and she might be like Misty acting funny. I'm not acting funny. Please don't match my energy, just stop calling a little.
Courtney Lynn:And I don't want to say that because now I'm acting funny, because I'm telling you to stop calling me so sometimes people right, that was my point.
Jus Mystie:Sometimes people throw off energy that ain't meant to be negative, but the person perceives it like that. Now you're reciprocating energy and now we finna fall out. But sometimes.
Courtney Lynn:That's why I just be feeling like healthy boundaries is met. Just like you said. You probably talk to that person all day and she called again there's nothing to it. What if your social battery is just fucking low?
Bobby Frost:But I'm going to go back to what Courtney said. That's why I said I'm going to coin that no communication sink ships. So what you just said with Courtney, if this is how Courtney is, if I let you know, I don't want you to change. But damn, I don't always want to be the one first reaching out all the time. That don't mean you got to reach out every time after that, but sometimes, hey, sprinkle a little reach out.
Jus Mystie:No, and in her case, and sometimes I don't say let me call and check on her because I be thinking like she straight.
Bobby Frost:See her post on. So she ain't dead, she all right. No, I won't call, I'll wait for her. I'm gonna flip. I'm gonna flip it. Now. I'm saying, not saying courtney does this, but I'm saying now, this is where I say I will match your energy. So then let's say, a couple days gonna pass, I for whatever reason I've been busy, I didn't call courtney. And then courtney break it out to me like damn, you just ain't been talking to me then I'm gonna be like bitch, you haven't been talking to me, get the fuck on.
Jus Mystie:I was busy.
Bobby Frost:Because now see what you said before. This is Courtney. It's not negative that she doing that. This is how she process things.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah it ain't.
Jus Mystie:But, when you start doing it and.
Bobby Frost:I do it back to you.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah.
Bobby Frost:And you upset about it.
Jus Mystie:Now I got to match up energy, yeah now you being a bitch because you do me like that, like yeah, but sometimes it's because motherfuckers take it as, oh, you're doing it, because I do it. But no, I'm never not talking to Courtney because you went a couple days without talking to me, bitch. It just so happened that we went a week without talking to each other. It ain't never been a week, I mean right.
Courtney Lynn:Like, even like if today didn't slip past, like it's been a day like damn, I ain't talked to nobody today, like I probably slept the whole day. I probably slept the whole day. If somebody called, I probably answered and got off, got on social media and whatever. It just was like today was just a day. I didn't talk to no fucking body. No pun intended, no, it wasn't no reason, it was just like I went through life today.
Jus Mystie:I'm afraid that they're going to let it go that many days? I don't give a fuck who you is, not if you somebody I talk to every day. Like I said, I'm not tripping because that's never been our dynamic. You get what I'm saying. I haven't talked to Miyoshi in months, but Miyoshi gonna call and say hey, you got an apartment. I got a client da, da, da, da da, and that's fine. I still know that's my bitch.
Courtney Lynn:If something happened to pop up at her job, like, okay, I'll sit at the damn job, I just saw you today, so I mean that's how I know she missed me and she feel like we ain't talked in a minute.
Bobby Frost:That's what I mean by she be at my job all day you ain't gotta match that energy. You get what I'm saying. That's the dynamic.
Jus Mystie:But when a motherfucker do something, and then when I do it, I think you don't I think friendships is different, though, from relationships, because in relationships, I feel like when you're matching each other's energy and y'all going tip attack, I think that ruins the relationship. You know what?
Jus Mystie:I'm saying but on a positive, on the positive energy in a relationship, how long is you supposed to like stay positive? You know what I'm saying. Like if I'm study, doing stuff with this man and I'm like I want that, I'm cooking, I'm cleaning my energy lit list, we argued I don't want to argue less, but your energy is always negative. Instead of matching it, I'm going to sit down and have a conversation with myself and say you know what, maybe he doesn't want the same thing I want. I feel like if a motherfucker not matching your energy, like unconsciously, and it ain't just flowing, something needs to be discussed, because that means we're not equally yoked and this ain't what it's supposed to be you can't like me if we ain't it's not organic
Bobby Frost:yeah it's not a grant. I go back to that all the time. It's not organic and like that's, that's my thing, match energy shit. Sometimes I think that you have to do it, because now you about to figure out where the person at, like I said if I go back to what you said, courtney, I'm going to use me. I used to be a bad communicator, as in the point of this, I wouldn't come out and tell you about how I feel.
Courtney Lynn:I don't know how to express my feelings.
Bobby Frost:Like I know what I'm feeling. I don't know how to tell you what I'm feeling, so I really just say I'm good, yeah, and I know how to tell you I just it, really I'd be. I'd be more so with the trust issue. And when I say trust, people think trust. When I say I don't trust people, I think they think like, especially in relationships with females. When I say I don't trust, I think they take it as me trusting, saying you're going to fuck somebody and ain't just that I don't trust you, that I don't trust you to. If I tell you my feelings, you really gonna throw it back up in your face not even throw it back.
Bobby Frost:Are you really gonna, really? Be, fragile with my care, my feelings, because you might do it in the conversation but what happens down?
Bobby Frost:two, three weeks down the line, I told you this is, this is that, and you still not careful with it. So if you did I, I'm going to get pissed off because I done told you I might as well just keep it to me. And now, when you don't do what I expect you to do, I'm not tripping no more because I don't have once I tell you how I feel about something. Now my expectation goes up If I don't tell you my shit, stay low.
Jus Mystie:You can't let me down. Think about other relationships that I know about and people that inbox me. It just blows me how much communication is so fucking important, bro.
Courtney Lynn:But you know what communication wasn't really on top, on top of my list, like you know, like what, what you want out of relationship and shit, like that communication wasn't. It was just like okay, I just want somebody.
Jus Mystie:Basically, now communication is like that's what I think that's why you're supposed to be dating somebody before you, because that's when you get to know. I just talked to a motherfucker last night and it was not a date, like literally we were sitting in a fucking car like just talking for five hours. When we left I said I should text him and tell him that was the best first date ever. And it wasn't even a date, but it was because we were literally communicating. Oh, you don't like that like just some fluke shit. I was telling him like how I? He like his feet rubbed right. He like I work every day, like I expect to come home and my woman not every day, but he like rub my feet, blah, blah. I had to stop the conversation. Okay, wait a minute, I don't fuck with feet at all. He like wait a minute. So you mean to tell me yeah, so is this something you can compromise? Because I'm not rubbing your feet, I can't. I you a machine, you know I'm willing to compromise and do that.
Courtney Lynn:I'll buy you a machine. That's great. That's how I rub your feet.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, you'll get that before it become a big issue, and that was breaking up because but guess what he said?
Jus Mystie:This is what I. I said it because of the matching energy thing he didn your feet. He was like, well, do you mind getting yours rubbed? Because I like to rub, I want to give you feet massage and I and it do bother me, but I said, yes, it bothers me, but I'm willing to try you. We have to work on it, though, because when I'm getting a pedicure, I literally be sitting there like, oh, my stomach is rolling. I don't want her to be touching my feet. I don't want her to be touching my feet. So it's going to be an obstacle, but if I had not communicated that to you and we fuck around and start fucking with each other and now we in the bed and you trying to figure out why, every time you put your legs on me, I'm moving mine he going to be like why the fuck she don't want to be up on me?
Bobby Frost:It's not that I just don't want your feet on me, you have to communicate it, this kind of go off. We got to do another topic on communication, just that, because communication is a very multi-layered thing. Like people think, communication is just talking, that's not communicating. People think listening is just communicating. It's not. It's deeper than that. Are you really understanding what?
Courtney Lynn:I'm saying You're supposed to listen, to understand.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, can you understand Not?
Courtney Lynn:listen to reply.
Bobby Frost:Because some people can't. Some people can't really just understand, like they don't know how to.
Courtney Lynn:No, they listen to reply. They want to give you a comeback as soon as you say something.
Bobby Frost:That's what I'm saying. They don't know how to conversate and understand. They know how to try to get. Processing is just going in the ear and eventually out the other. So that's another thing. Matching energy that's my thing. With matching energy, I got homeboys I used to be real close with and I'm not close with, no more and family members as well too. That's the reason why it happened like that, because I let you a couple times go with this Cool. Then, once I do it and you get an attitude behind it, oh motherfucker, every time you do something I'm going to match it.
Courtney Lynn:I just feel like if it's Jeopardy I'm so big on peace right now and boundaries Like I used to be entitled like just like I think a couple long episodes ago when we were saying like what, if I don't want to talk after 9, o talk early, ass, motherfucking. 9 pm, I mean 9 am but the entitlement will be like oh fuck, what misty said, I'm her friend, she want to talk to me like it.
Jus Mystie:Don't apply to me like she said she don't want to talk I, I still call in the morning and I know she don't like to talk in the morning.
Courtney Lynn:If I got something to say, I'm calling, but when she don't answer, I don't be like this bitch, I just be like but it's like you, it's not entitlement I don't want to say entitlements, because sometimes motherfuckers forget, or whatever it's her pee but it's like I would say, energy is not kind of like tit for tat, it's kind of like protect your peace. Because if I still feel a way that you do something now, I'm accepting. This is the way you are. I'm sure enough for you knowing that you're not finna, show up, this is the way you are.
Courtney Lynn:I'm sure enough for you knowing that you're not finna, show up for me, and it's fucking and it's still gonna hurt my feelings because if I throw something else and you don't show up and organically my feelings gonna be hurt. But I'm trying to train my mind not to get hurt because I know this is you. So it's either I'm a septus of being you or get the fuck on that's deep. That's why I'd rather get the fuck on, because I expect that's what I give what I said you know like I can use.
Bobby Frost:I had a birthday party, my 35th birthday party, first birthday party I had since I had been like in the fourth grade and it's a lot of people didn't show up and initially I was like damn because I overbooked with the food. Because people didn't show up, I, and initially I was like damn cause I overbooked with the food and one cause people didn't show up I overbooked with the food you know what I'm saying.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, but I let it go Now. This is my thing. Now, if I fuck around and cause, this is what I would. Nah, here goes how my mind gonna work. So somebody asked me to go to your shit, just to go. But here's the difference. What you just said, say I had to work a double. I'm tired. I really want to go home. Yeah, I'm taking my ass home.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, it ain't supposed to be a priority. If I go, I go, I can understand, even if it is a priority.
Jus Mystie:I can still understand that you went going when it motherfuckers won't even give you an excuse, right, or it'd be some chatty shit like I was.
Bobby Frost:I was tired, not not not, you went to work and was tired, but you didn't. You just didn't get your lazy ass about the bed to come to my event because you was tired. I've been in these situations before. I didn't see motherfuckers get mad at me, even if I told them I was tired, because they so used to me going above and beyond that they like no, he didn't do it this time.
Courtney Lynn:But you train your friends. You train your mates, you train your friends, you change your family. That's just like how Misty said it she go days without talking to me and she going to call you, training me, like. Okay, if I don't talk, misty going to call anyway. You not giving me the chance to call you because I know Misty is going to call, like so we don't know. That's training somebody.
Jus Mystie:And if I don't and if I don't call, I know she's going to pop up to the job. So it's like you do train people.
Courtney Lynn:So if a motherfucker know you're going to come, regardless whether you work 16 hours, they know Rob going to come tired and all he going to come, but they going to protect they fucking hell. Because they tired they don't have to come, but they know you're about to come. That's the magic energy.
Bobby Frost:You see what I'm talking about, cause sometimes that's how you what you just said, training a motherfucker, how to deal with you, that magic energy gonna let you know if you can train this motherfucker or not, because that's I give you a prize up. This is happening. A while ago, got right normally when you ask here well, this time I didn't do it right. Bumped into him in the club, motherfucker really didn't speak, gave me a quick one of these. I bullshit you not and I'm like the old me would have been like maybe something was on on a mind, maybe someone's gone there, but then about it?
Courtney Lynn:like you ain't giving them money.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, that's where it was from, because then the other time you I ain't going to say break your neck to try and be funny or nothing, but seriously you would come across the what's up. But now it was a quick what's up.
Courtney Lynn:They feel the way? Yeah, because they wonder why you ain't giving them that money.
Bobby Frost:Yeah, now you know, and I'm like damn you know what I'm saying. So now, at that point you know what I'm matching energy. So now, if it's come across some shit like that, I'm going to give you the same little. I don't know about my business. And if you ain't cool with that, then let me know.
Bobby Frost:Well, you think, for whatever reason, your entitlement is that much above our friendship and our shit like that. Well, you can stay, you and your autonomy can stay over there, and that's just how I move with it now. And what you said, protecting peace, that's one of my ways of protecting my peace. You're not going to do anything to me that I can't do to you, and that becomes the issue, and I'll tie it up for me back when I seen the post. That's just from the relationship side. But friendship, whatever, you're not about to do nothing to me, man, that you think that you can do negatively, and I posted a seven. I can't do it back to you, cause now you, I want to get an entitlement out of it. That's what it is. You're telling me, you, you good enough to do this. It's your shit.
Jus Mystie:Don't stink is as far as like the whole tit for tat thing and just my thing is, if I'm okay with it, like me, not if you okay with it, and this could sound fucked up to some people but if I'm okay and it's not upsetting me and I would I don't give a fuck if we're going tit for tat. If I'm okay with us going tit for tat, then that's just what I'm okay with. When it starts to fuck with my piece and I start to feel some type of way, then that's's when I'm going to just cut it off. I'm not going to go tip a tat. Good energy, bad energy. If I'm okay with it, I roll with it and that's how I protect my peace Long as Misty's. Okay then, whatever it is, I don't give a fuck what the situation is. If I'm okay, then that's fine. Now, if you're not okay, you decide to exit the situation or whatever, or switch up how we doing things, and that's on you. That's just that. On that I'm just. I'm gonna move how I move. You feel me. I'm not going to.
Jus Mystie:Um, like I said, I'm still going to call courtney at nine o'clock when I get up, because that's when I'm up. You're not up, bitch, soon as you wake up, call me back. Then it's a habit almost to call all my friends. I know that this bitch said I try not to talk the first couple hours I wake up on the phone because I'm getting myself. Well, bitch, I've been up since five and I'm ready to talk, so it needs to happen. And do she answer all the time? No, that's fine, I'm still. I still call and she even asked her sometime and I'll be like what you doing. And she'd be like, oh, if I end the bed.
Courtney Lynn:I'll be like, oh, if I answer because I've probably been up since five and my two hours is up.
Jus Mystie:Oh yeah, I just don't.
Courtney Lynn:My thing is, like my mom and dad, I try to find some type of sense of peace and like declutter a lot of shit.
Courtney Lynn:So when I read, like when you wake up in the morning, like quit grabbing your phone and not even downloading like all this negative energy, all this old shit, because we go and I go instantly from my email, from my email to my credit score. After my credit score I'm going on Facebook, tiktok, instagram, so you download, like I ain't even prayed yet, like I'm just still in the bed. Bitch don't even know that she can walk for real, just on social media or whatever the fuck the case may be. So I'm like, try to pray and I try to just, you know, be collectively in my thoughts and just a peace of mind before logging on my phone.
Jus Mystie:And I try to respect that. But if I can't cause something happened that night before. That's what I say. I call one time when she don't answer our texts and say bitch, you have got to answer, I got it. That's community, I mean.
Courtney Lynn:I still answer because I probably because I do be up at 5, just because I don't you know what I'm saying. I do be up. So 7 o'clock I can't talk on the phone. 8 o'clock I can't talk on the phone. So it's like I mean I try not to download a lot of shit for me before I can handle the day bottom line is y'all need to.
Jus Mystie:We always end ended with that. Communication is key.
Bobby Frost:It is.
Jus Mystie:In every relationship. Friendship, even with your kids, even everything Like communication is definitely that's a big word.
Bobby Frost:No, I tell you, we got to do a real. I want to have a desk for that too, but we got to do one on communication, like the layers of communication.
Courtney Lynn:But like, okay, and another thing, this could be another one Like being friends in a relationship with communicating, like, of course, everything be all good because we're, we're new, so it's easy for you to say you fucking with somebody, it's easy for you to communicate and say anything, because it's new, it get hard to communicate when feelings get yeah, yeah, it definitely is. It's definitely kind of like a how do I, how do I tell this person, how do I tell this person is?
Courtney Lynn:all right, that's real and some people don't know how to um, how is it orally? Say it, uh, talk it out orally. Yeah, I don't. Don't text me your feelings.
Jus Mystie:You have to fucking call me okay, so I ain't gonna even go into that, because what if that's the only way I can express them, dog.
Courtney Lynn:Okay, once you text me that paragraph, just know I'm calling you, so I won't misconstrue shit you had in your, because you probably said something. Now you snapping on me.
Jus Mystie:Okay, but after you elaborate and check my temperature, we gonna get off the phone and finish texting, right? Because I can tell you better in text what I was trying to say.
Courtney Lynn:I mean, you probably can Some people can't verbally, but if you tell me that I won't have to always call you, because why the fuck is he texting me these long-ass paragraphs? When I'm calling, I will know, like yo, you're not confrontational. You know I get loud when I talk and you want to make sure you get everything out through a text, because if you talk, you never really get everything out through a text. Because if you talk you never really get everything out. You want to say because I might buddy in or whatever the case may be. So if you tell me like I communicate, like I really text you, okay, that's fine, get it.
Bobby Frost:So we're gonna wrap it up.
Jus Mystie:What, uh what you've been off of, missy, what you've been uh vibing to um, I've been on my r&b shit, but I just tapped into Lucky Day and that's D-A-Y-E. I mean, I've been tapped into him a couple weeks ago but it was only the song. Um, that's you. That shit go hard. But I didn't just start stepping off into more of his music and what I'm realizing y'all about me, because I'm about to tell you two other songs that I've been having on repeat.
Jus Mystie:It's so crazy my taste of music like it's changing. Because I do like rap, I'm always like rap, but like I fuck with that. Mulholland drive by October Is his name, it's October something, but yeah, I fuck with that Mulholland drive. Like it's like the. The tune I want now is more relaxed, like even our new school new R and B. I really I like the way they switching it up, because mahalan drive is a new guy. You know I'm saying so it's like I like the way they're switching it up. I don't like the typical r&b, no more. I ain't gonna say I don't like it, but I've just been switching up my music for real, for real, just catching the vibe. I've been listening to old school r&b. I don't know bitch getting old, goddamn what about you court of now, I don't know.
Courtney Lynn:I just I'm listening to Boston and Richie right now Like I don't know TikTok be putting me on a little song, a little music and shit, even though it's probably been out for a while Like I've been listening to, like him and Sir.
Bobby Frost:That's my dog.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, I've been listening to Serves, so it's kind of like I'm on a mixture of shit.
Bobby Frost:That's what you know. He got the song to John Rancorn. That's like a song that I could play like six times in a row.
Courtney Lynn:No, I can't, I don't know. Would it do to you Like I could dance a different dance from the dance that I just done? To the whole song, like I don't know what that whole song, like I don't know what that shit.
Bobby Frost:It's just smooth. I didn't like. I remember I put that shit on snapchat. A couple females out there about like you're going through some shit, huh, no, no, it was just the song. Just so much of a vibe I get the sipping and, yeah, I'm about to write up john red corn by sir I gotta look.
Jus Mystie:Is it slow song? No, not that song he got a couple. It's John Redcorn for me he's R&B. Yeah, I got to look it up. John Redcorn yeah, hold on J-O-N. Or John, you ever watch King of the Hill? No, I used to when I was younger, you don't remember.
Courtney Lynn:It's nothing, even matter, that's it.
Bobby Frost:That's my song, yeah that's the one man yeah, he's nice from la john red corn. You remember misty, the dude that talked uh what the fuck is his name I? Can't think his name, so let's say john red corn. Sir, that's the name of the song. Yeah, sir, uh, what's dog name? Man on king of the hill? Uh, um, hank hill homeboy, the one with the glasses that his wife he got like an indian kid and he can't tell that his kid is not his. You know what I'm saying okay, wait a minute.
Jus Mystie:John red corn is the dad. John red corn is the name of the song. Yeah, okay, and sir is the artist, so I need to click on sir and I need to add what song? John red corn. Let me, then.
Bobby Frost:This is r&b, right yeah, I'm gonna add it to the right, sir, nice man you out of, uh, la, okay, add it to her.
Jus Mystie:Okay. And then what other man he out of LA? Okay, add it to her. Okay. And then what other song? Nothing, even matters, he got hits man, because y'all know when y'all say, nothing even matters. I'm thinking about Lauryn Hill and D'Angelo. That's what I'm thinking about. Okay, okay, hill and Bob Marley, grandson or some shit. That redo was hard did y'all hear it?
Bobby Frost:oh yeah, he's fast, he's nice, just whatever. Like I said, we miss whatever been going on through Miss Hill life last 30, 20 years. We done missed out on a lot of good music. If she could have been in the right space, I think her and Erykah Badu is some people I need to like her Erykah.
Jus Mystie:I love Erica.
Courtney Lynn:Her Erica Badu and Drieke Gates, is somebody I just want to just have like a whole conversation with.
Bobby Frost:Drieke Gates is lit too, I will say this I wouldn't want to fuck her man because of the shit that Kevin Gates said. I don't know if all that shit is true, what do you do? And I just hate to say it like that, because she is a beautiful woman and I like her femininity.
Jus Mystie:It's like yeah, it's woman and I like her.
Courtney Lynn:I like her femininity. It's like yeah it's crazy, because her femininity to me is is very strong, and it's like I don't even wear fucking makeup and she's gorgeous. That's what I'm saying.
Jus Mystie:I like it, I mean I'm a person that don't. I mean, makeup is cool, you feel me. Now she do have a bitch popping, but when you can look like that without makeup, yes, that bitch gorgeous.
Courtney Lynn:No lashes long she's a beautiful woman Body.
Jus Mystie:look like it. Can I swallow it whole and I ain't never ate no pussy she makes me feel with the Erykah Badu situation. I get some of that pussy and be like I'm scared of Erykah. Y'all see what she did to Andre.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, I always say you have you in the wintertime Camera. Comments like everybody Jay.
Bobby Frost:Electronic. I said that before in the episode. She man, hey man, she'll have you in the motherfucking wintertime Dead winter February With Dashiki on Grocery shop.
Jus Mystie:Okay, what you going to do. Get some food for bae, yeah.
Bobby Frost:Organic shit too. Yeah, whole food All in organic no in the backyard. In the fucking got four items, that shit. Nine hundred dollars, all organic. Yeah, like I said, drink I just I, I I'd like man, she bad, I just think like her femininity is just like yeah, you can't fuck the shit out of her like he do. No, that's the thing I'll be thinking like damn, it's like some of that shit that, if that's the shit, gotta please you, I can't get down with some of that shit.
Jus Mystie:Dog like you spending miles and shit like you know, courtney like that yes, that's I ain.
Bobby Frost:I ain't knocking it I can't get comfortable with that shit, cause you spitting in my mouth my dick gonna go instantly. So I'm like whoa Bitch what did you just do?
Courtney Lynn:I don't know what y'all be imagining. When y'all think, it's not like they don't be imagining.
Bobby Frost:You can slive in my mouth. I'm still gonna be trying to dodge that drop. Like what the Drip, drip it on me.
Jus Mystie:Like that, no bitch, don't put your spit on me at all.
Bobby Frost:No I've been listening to everything, man because, like I said, I was in the press mode and it's like, uh, I'm just gonna give y'all the songs, because normally I give y'all a project, but since I've been depressed, I'll just be listening a lot of different shit. So in my rotation I'm looking right now at my um, what they call a heavy rotation, like if you got Apple Music, you have a heavy rotation mix. It's these the songs I got. Party Next Door no Chill. I vibed with that motherfucker all the time. That's my shit. Been bumping Project Pat out there. Dmx, look Through my Eyes and Trust by Brent Fires.
Jus Mystie:Have you been listening to Don't Save Her? I ain't listened to it. In a listening to Don't Save Her, I ain't listened to her in a minute, but that Don't Save.
Bobby Frost:Her Out here. That's my shit, man.
Courtney Lynn:No, I like Brent Fires too by the way, but that's my favorite toxic nigga, brent Fires. Yes, he's fucking toxic.
Bobby Frost:That's my dog man. I've been fucking with him since like 17.
Courtney Lynn:and got a whole fucking girlfriend.
Bobby Frost:I don't know if that's true or not. I don't follow him too much outside of the music. I be hearing shit about him. What the fuck?
Courtney Lynn:they be having us going through. And this nigga, a whole family man around this bitch Ain't that crazy, but they said that though, when.
Jus Mystie:Who was it? Carisha, when she had her baby and was with her boy.
Bobby Frost:She like yo no, I always tell people that listen Once you find out what sells.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, you gotta run with it. You have to run with it, but do you think that fuck up your relationship though? Like okay, say like we all Was in a relationship. Like we said when we date people, we be like the shit I put on social media Is not really like.
Jus Mystie:I think communication Will save you, but that's what.
Courtney Lynn:I'm saying they say they okay with you putting this shit on social media, Like, oh, that's what you got to do. I only think you got a podcast. You do this, but when?
Jus Mystie:I think if I was doing it before you, you're going to have to roll with it.
Bobby Frost:I think that shit only I ain't saying this is true, I just look at some of the celebrity. I think that shit only work if it's like a motherfucker that was with you before you got big Snoop Dogg shit on his next flick special with Cat Wimps and all of them. She just flashed me, man. That's why.
Jus Mystie:My panties was in my booty. I'm sorry. So listen. Sorry, I didn't know, you spent your time you stood up, so listen.
Bobby Frost:Anyways, like I was listening to dog, like snoop dog been talking about bitches, ain't shit you know his whole life, but his, his girl, his wife yeah, was there from high school on up, so it's like she got the the just to get to understand like I can look at the era when he was a shit I just just think, if you know your partner man, and you know your partner and you trust your partner y'all communicate, it's healthy jealousy, okay.
Courtney Lynn:Healthy jealousy yeah.
Bobby Frost:We got to put a pin in that. Pin in that. What the fuck is healthy jealousy?
Courtney Lynn:I think that might be our next episode, I mean because I'm just saying like I don't want nobody that don't feel a way like about me at all. Like you can have confidence in me, like you know I ain't finna fuck around, but I want a nigga to feel a certain way, like you see
Jus Mystie:like not crazy jealousy, but like a little healthy one. Yeah, cause when I walk out the house with my ass cheeks out, I want you to be like bitch, don't get beat up like shit, like that, like not really seriously, like you gotta take that off, you finna go yeah, yeah.
Courtney Lynn:I don't want none of that. I just want like a little healthy.
Jus Mystie:We gotta talk about that alright, alright.
Bobby Frost:Shout out to my exes man, cause that fucked up almost all my relationships. Man now shout out to my exes, seriously, cause I ain't that type of dude. That's why I wanted I need some therapy no, for real.
Courtney Lynn:because, because I shouldn't seek compliments from everybody else Before I walk out the house. You should be my biggest fucking fan and I'm going to be your biggest fan. I'm big on compliments. Tell me I'm sexy. Tell me this you don't do none of that. Why the fuck do you like me? I like it. Yeah, I got to talk about that.
Jus Mystie:Tell me you're going to beat me up when I get home.
Bobby Frost:See that.
Jus Mystie:Don't get up. When you see my snap and I'm at work promoting the party and it's ass shaking what Cardi B say. I be shaking my ass on my story. Make the photographers horny, don't play with me. He better be in my inbox Like I'm whooping your ass.
Courtney Lynn:Yeah, do some shit, but don't really be mad, Cause you know that I'm coming home. You feel me Like, oh, I see you throwing that motherfucker we got to talk about.
Bobby Frost:Run them numbers up. Hey, tap in On all Platforms you can get the podcast that's Pie Bean Apple Podcast, spotify, amazon Music, iheart Radio, pie Chasers, all of it, man. Youtube, check it out, man. Go run them numbers up and hey, support, support, support, support, support. So ain't nothing, man. Three dollars. You know what I'm saying? To be a supporter. We gonna shout you out and what you call it and episodes and all that, man, and be more interactive. I'm begging all Tri-Nation to do that and I appreciate everybody that give a listen and tune in, all that appreciate and love y'all and we out.
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