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• Bobby Frost • Season 2 • Episode 69

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Can modern relationships survive without breaking traditional gender roles? Join us as Bobby Foss, Misty, and Courtney Lynn navigate the intricate dynamics of contemporary love and commitment in this lively episode. Misty shares her excitement about becoming an empty nester and her cautious steps into the dating scene, while Courtney reveals how she's been filling her downtime by binge-watching shows and expertly maneuvering through life on crutches, much to the amusement of her friends and family.

Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we confront the frustrations many women face after years of performing "wifely" duties without a proposal. We challenge the conventional wisdom around who should pop the question and dissect the practicality of traditional roles in today's economic landscape. With humor and candidness, we debunk outdated expectations and highlight the modern reality where both partners often need to work to maintain a household. Financial responsibility, budgeting, and the importance of mutual recognition and effort in relationships are also on the table.

To cap it off, we address the complexities of moving in before marriage, the evolving gender roles in relationships, and the often taboo subject of sexual preferences and boundaries. We explore societal pressures, personal anecdotes, and the crucial need for clear communication about future plans. Tune in for an episode that's equal parts enlightening and entertaining as we navigate the expectations, standards, and financial realities of love in the 21st century.

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Bobby Frost:

Yo, yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Foss, and Bobby Foss Media presents Triperacy. I am with the beautiful ladies, just Misty.

Jus Mystie:

Hey, y'all hey.

Bobby Frost:

And Courtney Lynn.

Courtney Lynn:

Hello.

Courtney Lynn:

Oh God God.

Courtney Lynn:

I swear to God, bro, I did that shit on purpose.

Courtney Lynn:

It's always Courtney.

Bobby Frost:

Courtney, it's always Courtney man.

Courtney Lynn:

Always hey y'all.

Bobby Frost:

So what y'all been on, we gonna get into it man, I miss my homies.

Courtney Lynn:

Your enthusiasm, I'm um.

Jus Mystie:

No, my little cousin said Vibe check in this group chat Is a one out of ten. I said yeah, I hate to be the old bitch In the group, but what the fuck is a vibe check? She was like the morale of the group.

Jus Mystie:

I said, bitches, 8am we all have work Like, if you don't get the fuck out of here.

Jus Mystie:

But no, I've been chilling, working per usual, getting ready for this freshman year for my son and preparing to live the life of a bachelorette.

Bobby Frost:

Ooh, I got to give you a clap on that one, ooh.

Jus Mystie:

I have never Empty nester.

Courtney Lynn:

Listen okay.

Jus Mystie:

Technically. And it's so crazy because I was on the phone with one of my other kids and he went through the timeline because I'm like nigga, I am here by myself and he was like that's crazy, because first it was Dynasty, and then it was Dynasty and Mooch, and then it was Mooch and me and then it was just Mooch. He went down the timeline and I said damn, I have never lived by myself, ever, so this is crazy.

Bobby Frost:

Now you can walk around just ass.

Jus Mystie:

and I'm doing the ball, dancing dance okay, I am excited so we'll see. I hope you just don't get lonely and get them cats and shit going in there.

Jus Mystie:

I ain't gonna get lonely because I got a little boo thing right now. Oh, a little. Yeah, we're gonna see how that work out. I don't even want to tell y'all about him yet, because every time I tell y'all about him it go bad. So I'm just going to let y'all know that I'm dating somebody. Oh my God, exclusively. I got my six boyfriends on the bench and I did not say that I stopped coaching the team Because I don't know where this is going to go, but I do got them on the bench and they not getting no playing time.

Bobby Frost:

Damn. Well, it happens. So what you been on to Courtney.

Courtney Lynn:

I literally been sleeping my life away. Mm-hmm, that's it All right. Sometimes you got to rest up.

Jus Mystie:

I always got to chime in on her shit. That's it for real. I really ain't been talking to Courtney y'all for real. Like I saw her today and damn near wanted to hug her, like hey, um, you've been going out again. We said this last time, but every time I look at your fucking snap, you're somewhere and you ain't told no shit about it.

Bobby Frost:

I'm going to tell you how it happened Me staring at the walls day in and day out, like literally. I got every app you can think about and I'll start watching the show and just put it on. Give me some of your passwords.

Jus Mystie:

Why Can you got Disney Plus? I need that one.

Bobby Frost:

I don't watch nothing because I need Paramount.

Courtney Lynn:

No, I need Disney Plus.

Jus Mystie:

I ain't got Paramount.

Bobby Frost:

Paramount and Peacock is the only two I don't need my mama got.

Jus Mystie:

Paramount. I need Disney Plus for real so I can watch Deadpool before me and my little yeah, go on a date to see the new one.

Courtney Lynn:

I don't think I seen All the last season yeah.

Bobby Frost:

Coco Jones. I didn't like it. I got a crush on her Like a motherfucker.

Jus Mystie:

I wasn't feeling that series. I ain't gonna lie, I tried it, but I wasn't feeling it. Just like I don't think I'm gonna be feeling this new Martin one that they coming out with.

Courtney Lynn:

I know.

Jus Mystie:

The prequel.

Courtney Lynn:

I think I'm gonna like that Simpsons that's a new one.

Jus Mystie:

Like just like, just more episodes movie it's a movie oh, okay, okay, I fuck with the simpsons lord they finna tell us about the end of the world. We got to watch this. We got to watch the simpsons.

Bobby Frost:

But like you know, I get tired of sitting around all the time and just staring. So I literally got out to go to the store to grab me something to drink and I said you know what fuck that I'm about to? Because I'm like it'sny I thought it was corny, I'm like what the fuck? I look like going on crushes to a bar. But I said you know what, tired of looking around this bitch, I ain't had a lineup in over a month. I'm like, yeah, I don't give a fuck, I'm going to go in there.

Bobby Frost:

I went in that motherfucker and it was because I went on seats at the bar. You think you can put a seat, because they take all the seats away from the bar. Oh, okay, like, yeah, I got you and I came in that bitch and, surprisingly, not man. I was getting mad love in that motherfucker being on crutches.

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, that's like bringing a kid somewhere or a dog somewhere. That's getting all that attention.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, I'm like damn, I'm like cool, got up. I said, boy, I don't want to fall on them.

Courtney Lynn:

Your arms going to be heavy as hell on them, crutches oh.

Jus Mystie:

God, you was leaning all on the crutches. Them bitches snapped from the bottom, but I made it through, so it was cool man. So that's all I've been on, so how much longer you got right? I was just going to say how much longer you got on them crutches. I don't.

Bobby Frost:

I won't walk like my. The earliest I'd be walking on my own and that's everything go great and I'm healing like super fast, we'll be in Christmas. Well, that's why I said 24 was done. I'm like well, that's why I got up. So we're going to get into the topic man. So it's a great topic because it relates and we always talk about relationships and the marriage thing that I hear females say why do you wait To give a man your all?

Courtney Lynn:

It's really not even us, it's y'all saying that to us. To where y'all program that narrative in our fucking head.

Jus Mystie:

Like. What would they be saying? Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, Y'all say that shit, y'all say that shit, y'all, the ones who be.

Courtney Lynn:

Y'all got us scared. It's just like everything else because we think we're supposed to do that shit.

Jus Mystie:

But now y'all and y'all, fuck y'all, open y'all, because we do it and we do it for so long, and after I've been doing this wifely shit for five years and this nigga ain't asked me to marry him trying to figure out what the fuck going on. And then, when we bring it up in conversation, he say, well, if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

Courtney Lynn:

I think that y'all don't realize how much y'all.

Jus Mystie:

Even though, even though we independent right these new eras, these bitches is independent, we do everything by ourself it is still natural for us to be submissive.

Courtney Lynn:

I don't give a fuck what lead. So when y'all put out a stigma out there, then it's just all we, we. It's natural for men and women to be together any fucking way. The world can't go wrong wrong with just men. The world can't go wrong with just fucking women.

Jus Mystie:

We need each other yeah, and and I need for you to recognize that I've been doing wifely shit and bitch it's time to say will you yeah, marry me.

Courtney Lynn:

I can't marry myself, and that's just one thing. And and I ain't gonna ask you, Chrissy fucked that up for us man.

Bobby Frost:

Ever since she asked.

Jus Mystie:

Jim Jones that and still ain't got married. What I didn't even fucking know that I thought he at least took the bitch to the courthouse after that. No, Listen.

Courtney Lynn:

Jim Jones, you a rough motherfucker. 15 more years and they still ain't married. He tried to, but she declined it and basically was like basically oh you gonna marry me after. I didn't ask you to marry me because she's not even feeling that shit no more. It was like a couple years ago he tried to, but it was on some we might as well get married type shit, not no yeah so it's like I'm you living here and I'm living there, like we ain't gotta do shit if we my thing always been with.

Bobby Frost:

That is like when I hear females say I understand it. I don't think it's right. I'm like it's dumb as hell to me. But I understand the train of thought. I'm not going to give you everything.

Courtney Lynn:

I thought you were talking about women proposing to men. I don't think nothing wrong with that.

Jus Mystie:

Bitch.

Bobby Frost:

She almost called you a bitch. That's my line.

Courtney Lynn:

She ain't never called you a bitch. You can call a robber a bitch, I don't.

Jus Mystie:

She almost called you a bitch, that's my line. She ain't never called you a bitch, she just. You can call Rob a bitch, I don't.

Bobby Frost:

I don't think there's, no, there's. I don't think nothing wrong with that. I mean like, because I'll go back to this If we gonna be traditional, be traditional with everything. No pick and choose, we gonna be traditional.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, but that's good For a man, it's tradition for a. That's what I'm saying. That's traditional.

Bobby Frost:

So if you're, going to be traditional with therapy, traditional everywhere else. Don't pick where you want to be. Traditional Meaning Everything Like if we're going to go that way, let's go back to what it used to be you and that motherfucking barefoot, pregnant and put on our babies, and you sit your ass home and shut up.

Courtney Lynn:

Okay, no, no, no, no. And he tailored. You got a tailored shit to your relationship. I don't give a fuck what if you're not a billionaire or rich. Ain't no man? Can't no man take care of a woman and let her sit at home barefoot and fucking pregnant? In this day and age, everything is high as fuck. Both of you bitches gotta work.

Bobby Frost:

No, I think you can do it, even if you this is what I'm saying.

Courtney Lynn:

This is what I'm saying you gotta be making an hour for her to for you to take care of the kids and her I'll break this down real quick.

Bobby Frost:

I done this before plenty of times. My house, I'm talking about 2024. Shit is high you look, it really goes to where you stand at, so I'm just gonna use where we're at in flint and surrounding areas. It's not super duper high compared to, like, prime example, million. If you had a million dollars in genesee county your bank account you're living decent, real good. Okay, we ain. You had a million dollars in Genesee County, your bank account.

Courtney Lynn:

you're living decent, real good. Okay, we ain't got a million dollars in the bank account.

Bobby Frost:

No, I'm just saying if you had a million dollars living in San Francisco or California or New York, that million is going to look like $100,000 here. So I'm saying that to say this. I have brought this down. I said you have to look at stuff real quick and I'll run around. Let run around. Let's say your mortgage is 1300 1200. Let's say your consumer power is in the winter I'm gonna go with the winter 400. That's 1600. Let's say your water bill is flint. Water bill is highest help. In other places they only have to pay this three times, so I'm gonna use the flint one. That's the highest one. Everywhere else they put that shit every three months, which is crazy if you own your home yeah, so we got 1600.

Bobby Frost:

Let's say your water bill per month is $150. So now we at $1,750.

Jus Mystie:

What who? Water bill $150 a month in Flint. Get the fuck out of here. My water bill $2,496 right now.

Bobby Frost:

No, I'm saying it depends on what you're doing with it. You know what I'm saying, I know. That's why I said 1800 phone bills, depending on how many kids? We're gonna say just y'all two phone bill gonna be about 150 ish because you're gonna be paying for the newest iphone per month. So now we at 1950 round it off to 2000. Grocery shopping, if you're gonna grocery shop, just though it's two of y'all I like to cook and eat, so yeah, I'm to be honest about that, because that shit done went up, let's say, $600.

Bobby Frost:

So now we got $2,600. You got your personal hygiene. For both of y'all that's about $100 a month. Car note.

Courtney Lynn:

On both cars.

Bobby Frost:

We got $2,700. Say car note, we're going to say $600 for both car notes, insurance $1,200 plus $2,700. You have $4,100. Insurance should be about $300.

Courtney Lynn:

That's a piece.

Bobby Frost:

No, not a piece. It depends on where you at with that, Because mine is Well give me your insurance.

Courtney Lynn:

people Write fucking out of here. No, this is different.

Bobby Frost:

I do it with mine. I pay mine every six months. Oh okay, and break it down. So now we're at $4,500. You done took care of everything you need to take care of. Now you got your extra shit you can do. That's $4,500. So, net pay, you're going to have to be bringing home about $1,100 a month. I mean a week. You can do that $1,100 a week.

Jus Mystie:

Yeah, you think we can survive off that, because we can't.

Bobby Frost:

I just said 45. I just covered everything you need to cover for $4,500. I just did it.

Jus Mystie:

And what about leisure?

Bobby Frost:

Now, that's what I'm getting to now.

Jus Mystie:

This is where shit changes at Lineups is $50.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's where shit changes at Now. If you bring the leisure now, this is where shit goes left at how much are you going to? What's your leisure? Because everybody different. You know what I'm saying. I I had this happen before. Why I keep getting raises but I don't know where my money going. I tell you where your money going. Every time you get a fucking raise you start getting extra shit. You living above your means. So now that's why I said so. Like say, you got a job again, you got a job making about 25 an hour. You're gonna be close to clocking, close to clocking a thousand. You might have to get a second job. Once you get that second job, you'll be clocking about 1300 a week.

Jus Mystie:

You can cover and this is only with the man working with the man so here come the problem.

Bobby Frost:

Hold, let me finish this problem now.

Jus Mystie:

If you get that second job, guess what you don't have time for the woman okay, this is what I think realistically, though, I think that was something you just said was the main reason it happened. All the time People live outside of their means because a lot of shit that you see and again, this is only what we see and what people post. But I've also seen motherfuckers on TikTok where not saying it's only him working or her, but they got regular income. You know what I'm saying? They ain't rich. Them motherfuckers travel all the time. They travel all the time.

Jus Mystie:

They got two, three kids, but they budget like a motherfucker you know what I'm saying I don't think that I'm not, and I'm about to say I think black people just getting hip to this budget and shit for real. For real and because it gets done.

Courtney Lynn:

I wasn't taught in my household like my mama will spend money on what she want and pay bills last, like figure out how to pay bills last, and that's because she had money. She worked in the shop all her life, so it was just like she did shit backwards and she had my stepdad so she could blow a check and he was going to cover it, but then, when they broke up, it's like now you don't know how to manage motherfucking money.

Bobby Frost:

Because women are different. I just said this me and my daughter shout out to my have a job as long as her bills paid. Let's see, got $1,000 over left for the month and the bills paid. She's not putting that $1,000. She about to go see Boob Raw. I'm about to go get a purse. I'm about to go get eyelashes, me and my girl about to have a girl night. We about to get that $1,000 gone I.

Courtney Lynn:

But like I was just joking when I said I was, I'd be at home sleep, no, I'd be at home because as soon as I walk out that fucking door I'm spending money.

Courtney Lynn:

So if I really don't have to be outside. I'm. I'm disciplining myself, cause I used to be like, oh, it's a nice day, I need to be outside, but I'm not. I'm outside doing what? Right, if I gotta go to a doctor's appointment or go visit somebody, I will. But if I'm just outside now, I'm in unnecessary stores. Now I'm in Target, I'm in TJ Maxx, I'm in Burlington, I'm spending money like. I got it and I'm not even working right now.

Bobby Frost:

So I stay my ass in the house. That's why I go back to traditionally. If you're going to be, I'm going to be the breadwinner, bring on a nigga. If you, oh well, well, I'm at work and shit. I'm about to be at my friend's house, I'm about to be at this bar and be at this and shit like that. Hell, no, because now you adding yo, you become a bill. You just yourself, you becoming a fucking bill. You hired in the mortgage department. That's why I said you have to tailor shit like I get traditional.

Courtney Lynn:

That was traditional back then. We got to figure out what's traditional and the new age, new age shit. Just like that man. I don't know who that white man was in Congress or whatever when they made the working shit in 1942, this is 2024. Like that shit. That law need to be tailored again Like that's some shit going on from 1942.

Bobby Frost:

That's why I said I don't have a problem with a woman proposing in today's time because you're doing what's better for you. If you feel like this nigga ain't ready and I'm going to propose and see what he go with, I'm not going to look at you.

Courtney Lynn:

I don't think that's right, because a man's supposed to find his rib. We're not supposed to find ours, that's all traditional it is, but it still should be like that tradition.

Jus Mystie:

No, the bible is tradition it's religion. It's a religion and tradition these things that been taught?

Courtney Lynn:

okay, okay, wait, so you don't think you need to find your rib, your wife. For me, I'm a man who finds a good woman finds a good wife, like it's not the other way around.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not arguing with y'all, I'm saying that's this what I'm saying. That's one part of the bible you use and that's one part of tradition you're still telling it, because if you ain't gonna follow the whole bible, how you gonna pick and choose?

Jus Mystie:

no, the question at hand is basically what we originally started with was buying the milk, buying the cow, when you already got the milk. My question to you as a man is how long is it gonna take me to show you that I'm a wife before you? Because, even though you're saying that you gonna be, you are the man that'll be like, okay, damn, she doing everything right, blah, blah, I'm gonna ask her to marry me. Do you know? Niggas will let you do everything right for years and years, and years so you got the wrong.

Bobby Frost:

You're dealing with the wrong nigga. That's all back on you. You. You got it's up to you what you gonna give out and what you not gonna give out. I just think it's dumb. If I'm fucking with you and shit like this, I ain't gonna be sucking his dick this way and I ain't gonna let him put it in my ass. I'm just using the sex part, so I don't know what all I'm getting from you sex. So I'm hoping I marry you and you get freakier. This is my thing on that.

Courtney Lynn:

We don't have a problem with doing that. Y'all ridicule women who do that and be like you do that with everybody you think I'm finna this bitch be sucking on everybody, or whatever like that. It's y'all's stigma that y'all have on us that's making us be like that, like when I come in and shit Because if I'm with you, I'm thinking we're going to be together. So, yes, I'm pulling out all the tricks because I'm a freaky motherfucker, whether I like it or I mean I like it, but I'm a cook because I cook.

Bobby Frost:

I was just about to laugh at that what about that, she being freaky like she can't hold it.

Courtney Lynn:

She don't like being freaky, but I'm saying though it's like I do all that shit but y'all talk Like this bitch, do this and that why would I wife her?

Jus Mystie:

and shit like that, like she ain't saving shit for her husband. And then they say and then in return it makes women to tie that together. It make us be like I'm not finna, like teach this nigga for the next bitch.

Courtney Lynn:

You know what I'm saying, because now you think I'm too nasty to be your bitch.

Jus Mystie:

I'm showing you how you supposed to get treated, but then you turn around and go and leave me for the next bitch and ask the bitch to marry you and didn't ask me. That's.

Courtney Lynn:

And I didn't tie, I didn't do every damn thing.

Jus Mystie:

That's why Charles Gonna always pay for what the fuck he did To.

Bobby Frost:

Helen, this is the problem coming with that. That's the type of the individual man that you're dealing with, because A more mature man gonna understand yeah, she had to be able she giving me this sloppy, toppy Hawk 2E 3000. She had to learn it from somebody, but I ain't worried about who the fuck she did that with. I'm happy that she's doing it to me and only me. That's why I'm fucking with her.

Jus Mystie:

That's me the problem. They don't think we doing it to only them.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, now of course, a nigga go off a dribble, because you're going to know, like how the fuck did she learn that?

Jus Mystie:

Like I know she didn't, you ain't came straight in the first time you did this shit. I'm only 37. Do you think you the first dick I sucked? That's what.

Bobby Frost:

I'm saying A mature man going to understand that. So I'm glad you came in here with some experience. You know what I'm saying.

Jus Mystie:

Like shit. I don't to teach me that. Like when I came in here I wasn't sucking dick Like Ply said bitch, he taught her all of that shit. Now she hate lanes. You hear me, but I might be with another nigga, that ain't you.

Bobby Frost:

But this is the thing. Right here I'm going to say this and again I'm breaking bro code, but this is the truth. Niggas say anything from Barbershop Talk. Don't no nigga want to have to teach a female everything to do. That's bullshit, you're going to say to make her feel you're going to say to make her feel good, like, ooh, he love me, or he dig me so much.

Jus Mystie:

Say that one more time for the ladies that didn't hear it in the back.

Bobby Frost:

Don't no nigga want to have to teach a female what to do sexually. Freaky the game I'm gonna make you feel good that girl, I'm teaching you this.

Jus Mystie:

Do you see how we say y'all contradicting, though, because if we come equipped and sucking, your dick from the back.

Bobby Frost:

Listen what I'm about to tell you.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be honest with you think I want to teach a grown-ass man how to eat my pussy or fuck me or do anything?

Courtney Lynn:

so this is what you're gonna have to, because what the last bitch like you probably thought I like and I don't like that shit. So now I gotta teach you what I like over here. And as well as that, you probably don't like me putting two hands on your dick when I suck your dick. You probably want me to just use my fucking mouth, but I don't know that if you don't tell me to lose my motherfucking different with y'all and I'm gonna say this and I'm going biological, but it is different y'all sexual organ is completely different than ours.

Courtney Lynn:

It's the truth.

Bobby Frost:

So if you can suck a good dick, listen ain't, you ain't gonna. If you suck dick and five niggas told you great fire ahead, that six nigga ain't gonna come in that bitch. You know what, courtney, I don't like the way you lick it. He gonna be like this bitch is on boy. He gonna be telling man, this motherfucker, headhunter boy, like give you prime example.

Bobby Frost:

I don't know if y'all ever heard this story, but the truth I know. Y'all probably read the book Confection of Video Fixing with Kareem Stephens. She said it Method man fucked with her regardless. He didn't help her when she got put out this, this and that he and his marriage so did Shep, and you know why. Again, she knew what the fuck she. Now they might have not wifed her, but they wouldn't let her go nowhere because she was that fire in bed. When you got a fire, when you get with a chick, that's fire. I'm being honest here. That's the hardest thing you're doing. Fuck getting out your relationship and going into another relationship. When you got a chick you've been fucking with and she really knew what the fuck she's doing in bed, that's the hardest thing to get rid of.

Jus Mystie:

The rest of that shit you can get rid of. That's because y'all think with y'all dicks, and that's the problem. That's why they say we ain't supposed to fuck y'all until we get married. That was never going to work, See. Yeah, we need to rewrite the Bible. Hold on record this. I want you to put this on snap.

Bobby Frost:

This line right here is going to get you. This is true. This is what women dictate. Y'all dictate sex. We dictate marriage.

Courtney Lynn:

Of course we can't marry ourselves. Well, duh.

Bobby Frost:

No, I'm saying, I'm going deeper. We can't marry ourselves. This is the thing. Y'all dictate sex. Because this is how it goes we entering y'all. So you're going to tell a nigga when he can fuck how he can fuck? Is he using the rubber? He's not using the rubber. Y' so we dictate marriage. That's marriage. No, it ain't always At the end goal. Most females not every female, not every female, but the end goal for every female is to be married. A nigga end goal, ain't that?

Bobby Frost:

A nigga. End goal is to knock the stuffings out your ass.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, that's what we want to know. When did that change, because?

Bobby Frost:

that was supposed to.

Jus Mystie:

Yes, it was.

Bobby Frost:

Unless, I'm going to break it down.

Jus Mystie:

Oh, you's a motherfucking lie, Because back in the day they married them bitches.

Bobby Frost:

You know why you married. Again, I'm going back to what it was. Marriage literally was back in the day was more of a business arrangement.

Jus Mystie:

It is still now.

Bobby Frost:

That's what I'm telling you. It was never. A nigga felt like he wanted a marriage because that's what he wanted to do, like he wanted a marriage because that's what he wanted to do. He felt like, oh, I'm going to be a good Christian or whatever your religion is, and I want to have. No, it was an arrangement. I'm fucking with you because, let's say this right here, your daddy might be the top. He got the top supermarket in the city. Let's say I got a nice farm. Well, I marry your daughter. We all tied in, you getting my meat, you selling at your supermarket, we benefiting. You can go farther than that, back when you was putting a house together, another house together, a kingdom with this kingdom. Y'all watch the.

Courtney Lynn:

I know y'all just watch the new- Bridgerton, not Bridgerton, but that's on there too. Bridgerton, not Bridgerton, but that's on. There too, bridgerton, it's on.

Bobby Frost:

Bridgerton If you watch Game of Thrones, bridgerton, but I was going way less than that Coming to America. The second one.

Jus Mystie:

Oh, okay, yeah, you heard what?

Bobby Frost:

he said To keep our nations from beefing you post a marriage.

Jus Mystie:

Well, even on the first one, he even had to do that. Yeah, they made him do to him, though but listen, think about it.

Bobby Frost:

How the fuck do you think back in the day they had arranged marriage?

Jus Mystie:

I mean, I get it. That's what I'm saying is okay. So nobody has ever married for love. Oh my god, it do happen.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not saying it don't happen to do, but I'm going back to the real basis of it. Is y'all dictate sex men dictate marriage.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, okay, pause for two seconds. So if y'all know that, and that's what it is, why in the fuck Do y'all ask what we bringing to the table? Because, Because, y'all already got it In.

Courtney Lynn:

Y'all fucking mind that all we bringing Is sex to the table.

Bobby Frost:

So what the fuck?

Courtney Lynn:

I'ma tell you why, why keep asking what do we bring to the table? I'ma break that down to you again.

Bobby Frost:

Because times has changed now and that's you can look for your traditional mate and you might find that it might take your ass a week. It might take your ass 20 years, who knows. But, like what Courtney just said, you have to tell her to what the fuck you got going on. Now, if you come into a nigga that well you know I need a little bit. I don't want to just deal with a female that I'm being a breadwinner and we keeping it traditional. Now he looking like what you bring into the table finance you might get with nigga. Like me, I never asked a female financially what you got going on, but I am gonna ask you, besides me getting a nut, what's separating you from the next bitch?

Jus Mystie:

and when I was saying brand, to say well, hey, can you man you like? I said?

Bobby Frost:

I said, yeah, I said this in the episode before you might be on erica bardu shit you might get me to like y'all use the word manifest. I ain't never believed in that shit, but you might be so good with what you're doing?

Jus Mystie:

Do we got you a little? Do you believe a little bit more? See what I mean.

Bobby Frost:

And that's why I brought it up Y'all done, had me think about it, you get what? I'm saying Y'all done had me think about it, so there might be a female that can do that. You might be able to know how to farm from the land, grow from the land.

Jus Mystie:

And you don't, and you putting that on me.

Bobby Frost:

That's the shit you bring Into the table. So go back to the guy. But if you going traditionally, yeah Y'all sex Cause how you, how do a woman post Come into the marriage Traditionally and we going by Bible?

Courtney Lynn:

Aversion. I'm supposed to, so you're dictating sex, you, sex, you.

Bobby Frost:

coming in a virgin, I'm giving myself, my body to you, my virginity. Right so that's telling you from the Bible.

Courtney Lynn:

To bear fucking children, to bear children, children, yeah.

Jus Mystie:

First of all, sex is. I'm not going to say it's not supposed to be pleasurable, it's not supposed to be.

Bobby Frost:

It's supposed to be for reproduction, yeah, so okay, if that's the case, then why are we fucking if you can't take pieces and bits out the bible or quran? Wherever you got, you got to take the whole thing, because now you you're telling your shit. If you're gonna do it one way, do it the whole way, because that sex not supposed to be pleasurable, it supposed to be to reproduce, just like okay.

Jus Mystie:

So the way they do it on handmaid's tale, that is crazy. You know, like it's literally one position, missionary, ain't no? And the wife is in there, right, because I guess the wife can't bear kids. The wife has to be in there holding the hands of the handmaid. And I'm talking about this straight missionary, about 15, 20 pumps, and then it's done, that's it, ain't no, like none. No hugging up, no foreplay, no shit. And that handmaid is there too strictly. Had a baby after she get pregnant. Had a baby. I think she would stay around y'all gotta watch this shit, but I think she would stay around the nurse for a little minute, but then she go to another house Cause she finna have another baby For somebody else.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, and if you go back Until like again you watch the Game of Thrones or shit, all that type of shit. It show you shit like the real reason why A woman even be bearing kids Is really to come out. If you get a daughter, that their family where y'all can have a connection, or you're really looking for air I think that's why women fought so hard for rights and shit they did because you know what treat us like a piece of meat.

Jus Mystie:

No, this is why this bitch go around this is why I say what I say.

Bobby Frost:

If you go the way that a woman was positioned in the bible, that's why I say they started twisting it. But if you really go how a woman positioned the bible, that's what you really are a helpmate. You ain't got the same rights I got. You ain't got the same rights I got. You ain't got the same shit I got. That's why, if you look at the Bible, how many female and I'm getting off topic, but I'm going to bring it back around how many females you see in the Bible? They own books. Think about it. How many? You can Google it. Google how many females got their own book in the Bible. I think it's one or two. Off the top, I think it's one or two. I don't read the Bible. It's one or two. So that's why I said, when people bring little certain stuff out of the Bible like you ever bring out the Bible, I mean.

Courtney Lynn:

I guess the Bible worked back then. They need to tailor that motherfucker now.

Bobby Frost:

Again, this is what I'm saying because the world is different.

Courtney Lynn:

If you go back to the way you got to work back, then this is a whole new day.

Bobby Frost:

That's why I said women got to the point like this Cause.

Courtney Lynn:

I hate when people do say traditional and it's like, okay, our, our traditional is way different from back then. We're not living in that time anymore. No, we not cave men and women, no more.

Bobby Frost:

We need to come pick this bible up and rewrite this bitch a little bit, because we are in a different time. That's why I said what I said. So now women got to the point where you know what I'm tired of? This shit. I'm being, you know, looked at as an object. I'm getting passed off to this family. This, this man not he get to go fuck that, and then so, when a woman opened that up, that's the pandora box. So now it gets to this point. Now, now you get you fast forward a hundred years, thousands of years, decades. However you want to go, what period you want to take, start from Now. You get to the point where next action is what do you bring to the table? Cause, back then, what would you bring to the table? I knew already what you're coming to the table this week this, your family. Now it's coming to. Now you got rights. It's like what?

Jus Mystie:

you bringing so because we asked for rights. That's what made it go different.

Bobby Frost:

Yes, Wow, but that's with anything, because here come my thing right now. Like I just said back again, you see, you've been sending LBGTQ, whatever community. You've been fighting for rights for a while now, right. So it's going to get to a point where it's not. It's already shocking to see a gay person doing this, this and that, so now it's gonna get to a point where like, yeah, like them, right, y'all was fighting for. Now shit, they got to you on the level playing field.

Bobby Frost:

So not like I'm gonna give you the prize that with the olympic situation when they were saying a woman, she supposed to be a man but they can't find out she wasn't transgender, she just had a lot of uh to test her own getting up in there, it's gonna get to a point where now that's gonna be the side effect you're gonna have niggas that was born niggas. Now they're female, they doing female shit and the female can't complain I do not think.

Jus Mystie:

I think if you were, whatever you were born is no, I'm with you just like it's back in the day.

Bobby Frost:

Certain men, still man to this day, feel like no, a woman shouldn't have all the rights. You should be in this bitch bearing kids.

Courtney Lynn:

Shut the fuck up, cook and clean and it'd be mostly them niggas who can't do shit for you who says that I have really never met a man who really argued that shit down, that was able to let a bitch be barefoot and fucking pregnant. It's always the motherfucker who can't do a fucking thing, because can I stay at home for real?

Jus Mystie:

or is you gonna to tell me I should get down there With kids? It's not me and you that you're taking care of.

Courtney Lynn:

It's me, you kids, and now it's my kids, your kids. No, it's always a nigga who can't do shit that want to live by that fucking logic.

Bobby Frost:

He telling it only for him. That's why I say A person only going to tell her this shit to they advantage yeah. It's not going to be both ways. So that's why I say with the, I get the marriage thing. Why am I coming to this bitch and give you the suck fucking this? I'm cooking every day, I'm cleaning every day and you might end up fucking another bitch and leave and I just gave you all that for what?

Bobby Frost:

That's what we mean yeah. On the flip side, for me, I'm looking like I'm not sitting in this bitch playing a motherfucking lotto or I'm at the slots hoping that once we get married I'm going to get the jackpot.

Jus Mystie:

I need to know. Now, I get that too. I get that too, right. But so the point was but then, after we marry, what do I have to give you if I've given you everything?

Bobby Frost:

There you go, that's everything. I don't want to lose you, you done. Show me, that's me. I'm not saying for every nigga. For me, you done show me everything I wanted to see and some shit I didn't even know. I know. Nah, I don't want to live without that. So I want to tie you down with a marriage. I am, I want to lock this in forever. That's the marriage. But for me, a woman and I done talked to females in the. It was automatic. They didn't know. I'm like, yeah, you through, we get to hypotetically talking yeah, I ain't doing all that fuck, no, nigga, I'm just shacking up with oh, so I mean, and that's crazy, cause you could've probably missed your motherfucking.

Bobby Frost:

I probably did, cause I'm telling you I feel the same way.

Jus Mystie:

I will do enough.

Courtney Lynn:

You know what I'm saying, but I don't wanna be taken advantage of and I know, just like you said, it's up to us whether we should leave or not. But it's like I guess I don't even really have an answer for that, because now I will say I'm not doing years with no nigga, like I'm not going to put an ultimatum on you, I'm not even going to throw one out there, but I'm not doing more than three years with a motherfucker.

Bobby Frost:

You know what you just said Courtney, that's what a lot of females should do. That's real. Coming into that motherfucking. When y'all start getting serious, you see that we. So we talk about the white red flags. We talking about now the white flags or the green flag. We looking at the green flag, there's a lot of green flags going on with this guy. Hey, okay, so I got a plan in five years. This is where I see us okay, because say three.

Courtney Lynn:

No, whatever it is, that's you but I will say that I will say that what are y'all doing to make us even want to do all of that for you?

Jus Mystie:

That be the problem too, though. A motherfucker want to know what we bring into the table. And show me that you ready to be a wife, nigga. Show me you ready to be my husband. Again, because I'm over here doing everything and everything, but yet you're still asking for that.

Courtney Lynn:

Nigga, he's making you want to do that. So he is doing what he's supposed to be to show you that he is a husband. I hope you're not doing all that to a nigga who is half-stepping with you. But what if they're thinking the same thing we?

Jus Mystie:

thinking I'm not finna, show this bitch. That's what I'm about to get to.

Bobby Frost:

I was going to that next. That was my next point. That would sound crazy. So so let's say again you with a nigga and a nigga feel like, well, I ain't taking care of all the bills in the house until we get married, but y'all been living together for a year. You're going to be like nigga, what I got a roommate Because that's the first thing a female say what I got a roommate.

Courtney Lynn:

I feel like if we're living together, then that's stupid. You're going to pay the fucking bills. Because if we splitting bills, you might as well stay in your house and I'm going to stay in mine. So if you're living in my house, still asking half on rent or whatever the fuck like that, it would have never made it to a signed deed like we have. We would have never made it. And listen, that's why I say it go. You still stay in separate homes. And then when we get married, I guess when we get married we'll figure out if this nigga pay all the bills or not. But if you come to me talking about we splitting bills and we get in the house together, that's, it will never go.

Bobby Frost:

I'm with you because that's again the same way you flip it. That's like me dealing with a female and you. You know how mad I'll be.

Jus Mystie:

I found out, so you had all this in your bag this whole fucking time, the two years we was living together, and then you got married you mean to tell me you a real ass nigga, and you a man that I can follow and you ain't do that shit these whole two years. That's the point I'm making.

Bobby Frost:

Again. It goes always gonna come back to what you gonna roll with and what you not and tell you because if a nigga come and tell you I ain't giving you all of me, what, if what? What do it mean for a man not to give you all, all of him and y'all living together? So y'all answer that question what could a nigga not give all of you and y'all living?

Jus Mystie:

together. But that's also why I do feel, like I just recently told my little yeah, like I don't think that I want to move in with nobody until we're getting to marriage, because at the end of the day, I feel like I already know what you was about to say. If we don't live together, then I have certain standards and you have certain standards, and long as you meet knows, then I think we should go to okay. Well, we everything vibing and he I see what's on your table.

Courtney Lynn:

What's on your table.

Jus Mystie:

You see what's on my table now let's get married and move in together quit moving in with each other because that's the shacking part. Yeah, yeah, and I get it that motherfuckers be like well, you don't really know how a motherfucker live until you move with him, you do. You will if you take your time and date, bro.

Courtney Lynn:

Yes, I don't know, be friends first.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know, listen how can I not know how you live if I'm standing out of your house, you standing out of my house?

Bobby Frost:

The only reason why I we talked about this before in podcast episodes. This is the truth. It's a pro and con everything, and this motherfucker is a real deal pro and con. This bitch a 50-50. It'll kill you. It'll love you. Comfortability Once I get comfortable enough, I'm self-consciously going to slip up on certain shit.

Courtney Lynn:

You get what I'm saying. You will, too, if you're in your own house too, and I'm staying out of your house for a week or two.

Bobby Frost:

So that's what I'm saying. So when do I get comfortable? I might not never get super comfortable with you if you only coming to spend night here and night there.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm not, finna, figure that out when you. I just feel like people our age rush into moving with each other. People did, they got married and they moved with each other. Now they see that they can't stand a motherfucker eating or whatever. The fuck the case may be, or whatever. When people move in with each other, I think the focal point get lost because we didn't, we did the ultimate, we didn't move in with each other. So what's the rush on marriage?

Jus Mystie:

What's the rush on marriage? What's the rush on everything? Because in together is the ultimate. I mean, yes, marriage is the awesome, but I think that right there is, like she said, we rush, that's every everybody once we move in with each other.

Courtney Lynn:

And even if you do move in and you pay all the bills and I do what I'm supposed to do, what's the point of getting fucking married?

Jus Mystie:

they move in. And they move in because it's subconsciously saying I'm gonna know everything rob doing.

Bobby Frost:

He gotta come home at night, no pardon your clap, because when I used to tell female this, they used to look at me crazy. When I said this, I said why do you want to get married if we're already in a house? Yeah, what, why do we need? I said, outside of the you know, heard me say before, outside of the state of Michigan, recognizing my relationship With a marriage certificate, yeah, right, why did I get married? I'm giving you all of me now, yeah.

Jus Mystie:

Nothing's gonna change If I get married. That's why I'm not moving in With no nigga Ever again. I lived with my baby daddy and I was the last motherfucker I lived with Anybody else that lived. They didn't live with me, that shit.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not moving in with no nigga until we're married and I'm going to tell you one of the main reasons why you end up moving in and that kids Because once you get pregnant, ain't nobody going to be pregnant in a relationship.

Courtney Lynn:

But it's a little different for me because Courtney ain't having no kids.

Bobby Frost:

No, that's what I'm saying.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm in a different time, not rushing the relationship and I'm not relation the move in.

Bobby Frost:

Like even that that right there, that's done to me. When a female said you ain't gonna give me All of you, but you cool having my kid, mmhmm, that's wild work right there.

Jus Mystie:

Let me tell you First, of all, the only thing I say About a kid is we ain't gotta be. This has got to be a choice between me and you, because what you don't know is I will drop this motherfucker off to you. I am a great mother, but if you act like we did not decide to have this baby together Because see this coming from a single mom Okay, so bitter Whatever the fuck y'all want to call it I will drop this motherfucker off To you and whoever the fuck you with.

Courtney Lynn:

No, I already said you got to sign a promissory would come have.

Jus Mystie:

I'm leaving with the two cause, I'm not.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm not and I'm being single mama three, but that's the funny part I just said.

Bobby Frost:

That's the part that's crazy to me. Like I said, I hear girls say that well, not girl, let me say that cause I don't want to disrespect females. Women say I'm not not giving you all of me to be married, but you will give you have a kid with me it's crazy think about that, that train of thought you're not gonna give me all of you, but you cool with having a fucking kid with me. Which one more important?

Bobby Frost:

the kid motherfucker like so that's crazy the women, like women be, and that's why I say men do not have the same level of society societal pressure as women and that's why I say women math, girl math. It don't add up because it'd be so much of that traditional or societal pressure coming in that make them think like crazy.

Courtney Lynn:

Because even if we do be together a long time, like I, get people we can we can always say like they, we hate what is it like we go somewhere and I don't care what people say, but it is, oh, you almost 40, is y'all gonna get married? Is when is this? When is y'all gonna tie the knot? Y'all been together for a while now. Y'all did this like that's the pressure too and it's like I don't give a fuck what nobody say. But in all actuality, we do sit back and think and be like when the fuck is we gonna get married?

Courtney Lynn:

like our biological clock is ticking. Who's marrying 40 year olds? They always go younger, like when the fuck is it gonna happen? Listen, that's why I'm not spending five years on a nigga Two, two and a half at the most because they say y'all know right when y'all be with a bitch.

Bobby Frost:

Might not be today but two, I know if this the bitch or not. So why the fuck am I waiting three months? That's a lot too. That's like some hallmark shit you don't know. One of my friends was as soon as a man meet a woman, they know that's gonna be their wife.

Jus Mystie:

Man, that's a goddamn lie. Well, they say it in the movies.

Bobby Frost:

They be saying it in the movies? Yeah, that's that.

Courtney Lynn:

But listen, I done heard. How the fuck do you?

Bobby Frost:

think I know you're going to be my wife. What made me know when I first met you I mean not the first, I mean the first month, two, three months, a year the only thing I could say you must have got some fire ass pussy in your head, because what else is going to lock me in in four months to know that I'm going to marry you? Right, Logical.

Jus Mystie:

We talking logical now. I know motherfuckers that got. We know somebody from Flint that got married that fast and they doing just fine.

Bobby Frost:

I'm not saying it won't happen.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm saying Because if y'all both got the same goals, the same whatever it's like, I just feel like you got to find somebody who want you just as bad as you do.

Bobby Frost:

And my only the way you could lock me in like that, you didn't show me. Or six months you didn't gave me. All of you, all of you didn't gave to me Not yet I'm not seeing everything I can get from you. I'm like hell, yeah, I don't want this going on. Where let's get married Now, I wouldn't know Cause, like I said, if I'm sitting around I'm gonna give you problems. I just no-transcript. That's what I was saying.

Bobby Frost:

This is my thing. When I debate with anybody, they think if I disagree with your, your opinion, I, I don't understand it. I get it, but my thing again. Once again, I really don't have to have a three, I gotta wait. You know that threesomes don't usually be for the woman, unless the woman is into women. So again. So I'm sitting around just paying bills, I'm doing this, I'm doing that and I gotta wait to get a threesome till I get married. Why the fuck I not? It makes sense, more sense, logically, if you gave me this shit, I'm like damn, she don't know, let's just be fine, and she bring another bitch in there. I ain't letting her go, nowhere else.

Courtney Lynn:

I ain't about to let another nigga get that With that attitude. Now I probably did that for you because I know you wanted it. Now you, in your mind, just like you said, I don't want this she doing this, I'm not doing it again, I'm not doing that shit again. Like this is gonna be some shit that we gonna be having fun with, because I don't like girls. You don't know how uneasy that was for me to have this threesome just to make you happy. It was your birthday, whatever. So when you, you thought you was wifing me because it's the type of time I'm gonna be on, no, this, that was just a time that ain't gonna be a time that you're gonna keep having and I'm with you.

Bobby Frost:

That's the thing I say. Like you have to find a mature person, because a mature person understand like, hey, you know what? She did this just out the love for me. If she, if she'll make herself uncomfortable to do it for me, let me lock in with her you make yourself uncomfortable for me and have a threesome with a boy yeah, see, some niggas might do. I wouldn't, but you know, that's my thing that's so we.

Jus Mystie:

That's a whole nother rabbit hole, but that's so unfair. I think that's crazy nobody's asking you to suck dick. Nobody's asking you to let him smack his balls on you, but why can't I enjoy two men?

Courtney Lynn:

at one time, because, if I have, you know what, I'm gonna say this right now and I'll stick a note in and we can talk about it at another date.

Bobby Frost:

Stick a note. I talked to one female about this and I was the dopest conversation. I ain't gonna say dope is one of the dopest conversations I had because she kept it real and we discussed it. I never say her name to nobody, but we discussed it and she said, yeah, that'd be a lot of females Fantasy, but they ain't gonna come on and say they wanna have To diss at the same time.

Courtney Lynn:

I've been saying On previous episodes If I have, if I have the threesome, it's gonna be with men.

Jus Mystie:

The average female. I do get what she's saying. We'll be like no, I don't give a fuck. No, that's not right, nigga cause what. Dick everywhere oh my god, I'm in heaven.

Bobby Frost:

Again, I told you I'm fair to the floor. I always thought about that. This is me logic. I'm like, damn if I'm and my niggas and a lot of my males are Want two bitches in the room or three bitches in the room and we're freaks. If the female freak and she's getting pleased by a dick, why will she not want to have more than one dick?

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, logically, it's not like a great fucking time.

Bobby Frost:

Logically, you know what I'm saying, but I know the reason why a woman can't come out and say it because societal norms yeah.

Courtney Lynn:

You a hoe. You a rat bitch you a runner, you having a train Like yeah.

Jus Mystie:

That is the one thing that I would have to say. I like about myself most, and it's not a facade, it's not fake, it's just that I just truly don't give a fuck and whatever I want to do, I'm going to do it. And I've actually had one of my male friends tell me like I think that's the dopest shit two dicks at a time, and if I can get three bitch, let's get it, cause I want to experience it. To me that is what you call me.

Jus Mystie:

Listen to me Cause would I still be a hoe if it was Chris Brown, Gotti and another celebrity, or would y'all be like oh, you get what I'm saying and that's dope.

Bobby Frost:

Cause bitch.

Jus Mystie:

I'm sure if Chris Brown would say he wouldn't every hole they want.

Bobby Frost:

I was going to say this because this is for another episode, but I'm just going to touch on it. No, I'm going to keep it. I'm going to keep it.

Jus Mystie:

Keep it in your pocket, because I ain't fucking with you. Moral of the story today, y'all, is don't give them niggas the whole cow and the milk. Fuck that.

Bobby Frost:

Make them work for it and make them ask you know baby.

Jus Mystie:

And if he do that, he ain't the right nigga. You just said that.

Bobby Frost:

He gotta be the right nigga, Because I know you, I look up in that bitch, I'm waiting to see this freak and I'm like, well, you know it's been a year and I know she gotta have better head than this.

Jus Mystie:

And she gotta be tired.

Bobby Frost:

I might bust that bitch. She only get up on her knees for 10 seconds and all the teams and bells pop up on her ass. She can't ride no better than this. Watch this. Let me call this bitch up. Hey baby, you know what I'm saying.

Courtney Lynn:

I just think if people would keep it real and quit trying to go off whatever society or whatever shit and just do them in their fucking relationship.

Jus Mystie:

It would be a better, don't worry because if I let me tell you something, if it, if me and my little, yeah, go and jump into a relationship, I don't give a fuck about what. Nobody think what we doing, where we going, how we doing it, because nobody's in the relationship listen and we can wrap it up what you did in your last relationship I don't give a, I fuck.

Courtney Lynn:

I just know what I can do.

Bobby Frost:

We can wrap it up with that. This is the truth For any people or couples that can say fuck how society see you, they're going to be happy.

Jus Mystie:

Yeah, because, just like how I told you, we black women get so just something black women get so uptight about like they nigga being gay type, shit man, white women be like we be having a blast and that might, that might be they cup of tea again. That ain't shit I wanna be with, or if they ain't, gay.

Courtney Lynn:

They feel like they just freaky, yeah, like even if they don't do shit with other men, they do it with they.

Bobby Frost:

Girls and white people are okay with that yeah, we be like oh my god, that's there you go, and they be so peaceful, they be happy La la la around this bitch.

Jus Mystie:

Fuck what everybody say and do you with your mate.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, they don't care what nobody else say. If you can really feel like that and live like that, you're going to have a great time. But that's if you can.

Courtney Lynn:

I feel like.

Bobby Frost:

If you can, everybody can. Some people say they feel like that and they fronting for the world. People say they feel like that and they fronting for the world. But if you really do not feel like that, I know how freaky I am.

Courtney Lynn:

I know how freaky I am. I think I could, but it's not in me to stick shit up my nigga ass. Yeah, I don't want to. That's not. That's not my nigga, that's fucking with my mental.

Jus Mystie:

I don't want to be able to do anything with my nigga except penetrate him.

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, yeah, that's fucking with my mental right there.

Jus Mystie:

That's fucking with me, for you to be letting me fuck you Now. I don't know. I'm uneasy.

Courtney Lynn:

It don't got nothing to do with society or nothing. It's solely me. I'm a freaky bitch, but when you ask me to stick something up, that ass that's where I draw the line.

Jus Mystie:

Hey now.

Courtney Lynn:

No, that's where I'm finna. Beat your ass now, because what the fuck?

Bobby Frost:

do you mean? It's funny y'all say that, but, like I said, one of my favorite podcasts. Man, that's one of them. They made me really like.

Courtney Lynn:

What Peggy.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, no, that's not the podcast. Oh God, horrible decision, and when I? You know what I'm saying. Start listening to them. You know she talk about pegging. How many you know, guys?

Jus Mystie:

why do we got a special name?

Bobby Frost:

because it's what's been going on it's fucking in the ass. I don't want to know why they give everything when two girls. Well, they pussy against each other.

Jus Mystie:

Well that's because y'all look like a scissor, yeah you are getting paid if she got something no If she got something, no if she have something.

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, that's pegging, yeah, that's pegging you. They not.

Jus Mystie:

I just it's getting fucked in the ass.

Courtney Lynn:

And you know what it's kind of. Look at my freaky ass. I've been seeing videos on Facebook. I don't know if Twitter coming on Facebook. You know the little links. Know it's gonna be something good. But the woman who was sucking her nigga was jacking her nigga off and eating his ass, or rubbing his ass or whatever like that. I. I, I want to see a nigga go crazy you gotta lick ass for that friend, if I have a boyfriend. Don't tell me about it, because I ain't gonna drink, not a nail shot.

Jus Mystie:

If I had a nigga brush your teeth friend, I ain't no, I ain't no if I had a nigga, that was my nigga.

Courtney Lynn:

I know I would have already.

Jus Mystie:

I just ain't got no nigga, I'm not now.

Courtney Lynn:

That's one shit I'm not giving away. And you ain't my nigga, you ain't finna say I ain't your ass girl.

Jus Mystie:

Courtney Trippin wrap this shit up, she talking about eating ass when she get a boyfriend. What you been listening to, Rob.

Courtney Lynn:

No, for real. That's one thing you should bitch you. I guess I ain't getting married because I ain't eating your ass into your mind.

Bobby Frost:

Man. That's why I said I'm going to wrap it up. Man, Shout out to Mandy B. Y'all didn't get to see her when we were down there to the Atlanta podcast, but I had bumped her down there, but Mandy B is the one Sure and she in a pegging. That's when her.

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, I listened to her. I listened to the dude Ford that was on Black Ink Crew. He was one of the dudes who came out and said he's a straight man and him and his girl, or whoever he was with, she introduced him Into the pegging.

Jus Mystie:

Well, because, before we wrap it up again, that's because we know that's where your G-spot at, and once a motherfucker come out of there that one time, then that's just what the fuck you want.

Bobby Frost:

I done, heard it. I ain't never really did too much research because I know I'm not going to do it, I just never.

Courtney Lynn:

I'm not sticking to that. Never say never. I'm not sticking to that.

Bobby Frost:

There's a lot of things I can say never.

Jus Mystie:

That's another. If you do one of those nevers, is you going to tell anybody anyway?

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, no, you're not I would, but you're not putting no peg up my ass. I'm going to say this is gross, but we can wrap it up. I remember when I was young, like 11 years old, 10 years old got constipated. My grandmother had to put the what's it called Potastory Suppository and when I tell you, I was like 10, 11, 10. I felt so fucked up when she did it. I was happy with the release, granny, but once I released, I was like never again and she told me stop eating all that cheese, stop eating all that bread too.

Courtney Lynn:

Well, tell me when you get 40, when you have to go get your prostate checked.

Bobby Frost:

I'm like man.

Courtney Lynn:

Hope he have his ring on Listen y'all know.

Bobby Frost:

Y'all know, because it's gonna be like, damn, I ain't talk to Robin In a minute Cause I'm gonna have to Get back right. Your booty gonna be like oh no.

Jus Mystie:

I don't know if that felt good. They put that Lubert on there.

Courtney Lynn:

They got a check in problem. I don't know if that felt good. I'm kinda stressed Like A finger's in my ass like how fucking. Bernie Mac was on Soul man. Can I get a girl doctor? He was like singing and shit on Soul man when he had to get depressed.

Jus Mystie:

Make sure you call us and let us know listen.

Bobby Frost:

I'd rather be like. I know they ain't gonna do it. Date me man, put me to sleep and then let me wake up when that shit done man that way, I don't even know you're so touchy with your boobies.

Bobby Frost:

I am. I've been on man, my dog, larry June. I think this is the best project. Doing it for me. Anybody out there Want to fuck with you know Some shit that you can Vibe to I'm talking about? You can put that album on and get you something to sip Fancy for y'all females that love to be Passenger seat princesses. Man, tell your man To put that. Do it for me, larry June, on, and you can. You're going to have a good ass time.

Jus Mystie:

I'm going to listen to it because you keep saying Larry Jordan, I haven't listened. I did try to listen to Sir. Like Candace Courtney said, my best friend was just here. That's why I keep calling Courtney Candace, okay.

Bobby Frost:

Yeah, I seen her man. That's my dog man Shout out. That's my dog man.

Jus Mystie:

Listen yeah.

Courtney Lynn:

So I tried to listen to Sir.

Jus Mystie:

I remember that day but I don't remember now. But when I played it I was like I don't know this and I keep hearing people say, sir, but I'm obviously not listening To the right songs Because I haven't Checked it out, checked him out. But I'm going to check out Larry Jones.

Bobby Frost:

Definitely check that shit out. Man Doing it for me to shit what you been vibing to, courtney.

Courtney Lynn:

I have a playlist. It's not a certain album that I've just been listening to Jeezy.

Bobby Frost:

She's back to Courtney Kruger.

Jus Mystie:

Yeah, okay, she's back on that trap. Shit y'all Damn she back trapping.

Bobby Frost:

I can tell because you know she's doing her little thing.

Jus Mystie:

What's crazy is when the bitch get in a relationship is when she started listening to Trap.

Bobby Frost:

Me. You know why? Because she's back comfortable, she's back, she's happy, she's back to herself.

Jus Mystie:

That's crazy.

Bobby Frost:

She back to herself.

Jus Mystie:

You supposed to be listening to R&B when you was on Cloud 9.

Bobby Frost:

She back to herself. That's why she smiling.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, listen when I listen to Jeezy Jeezy immediately makes me want to go grab a brick of dope and break that bitch down. I'm telling you so I can't even like for real Jeezy on the regular, I will be a fucking drug dealer, bro. I swear to God.

Bobby Frost:

There you go, she back there herself.

Jus Mystie:

Y'all might as well call me motherfucking Griselda. I can't listen to him every day.

Courtney Lynn:

Not the old Jeezy. Yeah, I listen to the old Jeezy and.

Jus Mystie:

Rick.

Courtney Lynn:

Ross.

Bobby Frost:

It's from Rick Ross to Jeezy yeah, that Jeezy from like oh, what I want to say like oh foe to like Jeezy. I don't even know if that make you feel bad, but I'm just letting you know.

Jus Mystie:

You turn my hustle all the fucking way up. Yeah, so that, jeezy, that is what. It is what you been on, misty. Oh, I've been listening to R&B music she's now she, because he's comfortable now. No, I can't shake Lucky Day y'all. He is the man, okay. Yeah, I bet it, because you feeling everything he's saying, because you got your little room to move Because you like somebody Y'all. First of all. I'm not going to let y'all do that during this relationship, because I've been listening to R&B the last couple times.

Bobby Frost:

It's all right. You ain't gotta act like you don't want nobody to play with your booty.

Courtney Lynn:

That shit happened. You're gonna hear me listening to some shit like motherfucking. Um, listen to prince, you're gonna be. I was about to say princess, some shit. That's my favorite artist. I'm about to be depressed in a bitch.

Jus Mystie:

No, I've been listening to rb and michael jackson. I don't know why I've been listening to michael jackson so much are you really in love no, michael jackson is my favorite artist of all time. You've been listening to human nature.

Jus Mystie:

I've been listening to him no let me tell you, I don't know why he came in my playlist. That's what started it and I was just thinking like and it was actually pretty young thing first and I was like, well, I listened to that, I might as well listen to billy jean. After billy jean went off, I was like, well, I might as well listen to dirty diana.

Bobby Frost:

And I just wrote she's been in a crib by herself, butt-ass, naked moonwalk.

Courtney Lynn:

I ain't been by myself so many really cute, but it's like I know like a handful of michael jackson songs that has never been like an artist of mine that's why she really not my real best friend no, that's your artist, that don't gotta be mine.

Jus Mystie:

No, yeah, I fuck with mike, though Listen when his birthday come and they do all his videos All day. Bitch, I be tapped in. Yeah, I be watching.

Bobby Frost:

That's my nigga, mike man.

Jus Mystie:

I watch that movie once.

Bobby Frost:

And that's all I need. It's crazy. I'm gonna end it for real Cause it's crazy. You just said, it just popped on my mind. Last week I was YouTube the acapella version of Smooth Criminal. You see how he be riding that bitch with this.

Jus Mystie:

No, he the man.

Bobby Frost:

But you know what you?

Jus Mystie:

know who else. A musical genius and they sleeping on him low key, that motherfucking Justin Bieber. And the reason I say that is because they was showing him real orchestra and he telling them when to chime in. You know what I'm saying. Like he feeling it, he ride them, motherfucking, beats he hard. I just think I don't know what the fuck wrong with justin bieber. Mentally pity that, pity, but, but, but but he, oh p diddy fucked that up because he's a musical genius for sure, he was too young man, most r kelly they sold him.

Courtney Lynn:

Yeah, they can't too young they can't fuck with chris brown, though. Fuck that I just hate that they turn this. I just can't stand. I love.

Jus Mystie:

I have a love hate for rihanna, like but you know he talked about that shit with rihanna and and then I'm bad, just supposed to be wrapping it up, but he talked about that shit and I really feel like he felt bad, you know. So he said that that wasn't him. He said he beat the bitch up, he like, but shit, like she was fighting me. It was a fight, you know what I'm saying y'all ain't finna, just make it seem Like I was beating her ass.

Courtney Lynn:

And when she got out the car the neighbor called the police or whatever, like that. She threw the keys out the window and all that different kind of shit and didn't really throw the keys.

Jus Mystie:

You was sitting on him, he was taunting this nigga, so I hate that. Everybody Made it seem like he just Ike Turner'd her. God damn.

Bobby Frost:

Listen a lot of times when it don't be there all the time.

Jus Mystie:

No, no, no, no, tina wasn't doing that. No, tina, no, I don't let you do that. I'm not going to. I'm going to keep it real. You better find your ass.

Bobby Frost:

The shit came out, she was getting off in his ass too, and then he turned the rhyme to get off in his ass, yeah after you done, broke my ass. You done broke my ass. So much of domestic violence on either end, but a lot of females don't come out and say, yeah, I done smacked this nigga upside his head two or three times and then egg demon, and this day he snapped no, we will say that like I hit him first.

Jus Mystie:

But, tina, we saw, everybody saw what love got to do with it. Don't play with me, rob. That wasn't all a hokey thing, but you know, if you think it's Get up yeah that's it.

Courtney Lynn:

Get out of the back.

Bobby Frost:

So where can they catch you at Misty? There she go with her candy.

Jus Mystie:

Courtney just gave me a good one.

Bobby Frost:

I'm saying, you stopped me, since you heard that bag open up like look at that kid.

Jus Mystie:

Okay, listen, y'all can catch me on Everyday Misty Summers, or Just Misty, j-u-s-m-y-s and September 21st I got invited to the Ebony Experience at Northgate Bar and Grill. Y'all come on in, you know I'm gonna be in that motherfucker hopping, yeah I might get to see walking with that one foot.

Bobby Frost:

You know what I'm saying, like my man from the Dip Mat video make sure y'all come support and where can they catch you? At Courtney Lynn everywhere.

Courtney Lynn:

Courtney Dixon on Facebook. Courtney Milano IG. Courtney Dixon, cnn. On TikTok.

Bobby Frost:

And y'all can catch me Bobby Frost Media on all social medias and Rob or Die on IG and we out.

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