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Logic vs Emotion: The Battle in Relationships

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Can emotional decision-making lead to better outcomes than rational planning? Join me, Bobby Frost, as I explore this contentious topic in today's episode of Triparency. We'll take a deep dive into the vibrant hues of Michigan's fall, the joys of autumn fashion, and, more intimately, my personal journey of navigating birthday plans amidst an Achilles injury. But the real crux of our discussion is a provocative quote that questions the ability to have logical conversations with women due to societal conditioning. This claim sparks a fascinating exploration of how logic and emotions clash in relationships, featuring real-life scenarios that you won't want to miss.

Imagine planning your future together, only to face emotional decisions that upend logical financial strategies. I'll share a personal story about a partner's choice to move into a luxury apartment instead of buying a house, shedding light on the financial and emotional implications of such decisions. We also address controversial topics like the misuse of sex as a weapon in relationships, the influence of societal norms on gender communication styles, and the importance of balancing logical thinking with emotional needs for a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership. 

Finally, we discuss the broader societal dynamics of logic and accountability, critiquing illogical complaints about gym attire and public behavior, and examining the interplay of power and financial decisions in relationships. We also spotlight some of the hardest-working artists in the industry—Curren$y, Larry June, Jay Worthy, and West Side Gunn—while inviting fellow gamers to challenge me in NBA 2K25 and NCAA College Football 25. This episode promises to be a compelling blend of personal anecdotes, thought-provoking discussions, and community engagement. Tune in and join the conversation!

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Bobby Frost:

Yo yo yo, it's your boy, bobby Frost, and Bobby Frost Media presents Tri-Parency. I am solo dolo. No beautiful ladies today. Yeah, my co-hosts. They had prior obligations, they couldn't get in, so you got your boy, solo man.

Bobby Frost:

We starting off in fall. You know, fall just kicked in. We fresh in the fall. This is my favorite season. I'ma say that before.

Bobby Frost:

I love fall man, I love fall all the way around. I like the foliage, you know the leaves. I love that man. The burgundy, the orange, the red, yellow, gold, all the colors. You know what I'm saying for the leaves. And I think Michigan got one of the most beautiful backdrops you can have in the fall in the world.

Bobby Frost:

Um, I like the holidays, I like halloween, I like thanksgiving, you know even for like you can go on walks with your lady or lady friend. You know a lot of ladies don't like insects and stuff like that. So a lot of time, like in the summertime and stuff, you can't even go on walks like that because they running and swatting and all that. But in the fall, you know I said a lot of the um, you know they go to. I think it's called overwintering or something like that. I have to look it up for the correct term for it. But the insects go inside the trees, they go on the leaves, they go underground and they, when a certain temperature comes, they go into like stasis. You know what I'm saying. It's just chill. So they out the way so you can go. It ain't too cold, especially beginning of fall, middle of fall. It ain't too cold. You can go on a nice walk, chill.

Bobby Frost:

And I feel like you can dress better In the summer. I feel like you can't really get your dress on like you want to, because you're going to get hot, you're going to sweat and shit like that. But Hoodies, nice jackets, you know what I'm saying Like, yeah, bombers, all that, you can really get your dress on. You know what I'm saying? I tell people all the time nothing like a good pair of Timbs, wheat, butters, depending on what region you in, what you call them, put them joints on them. They're like, yeah, man, you can put on your sweatsuits and get comfortable. You know, still be looking nice. Yeah, fall, my know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

So my birthday coming up and I had a bunch of plans to do, couldn't do them, y'all know. As y'all know, I rushed through my Achilles, so your boy trying to heal back up. I'm on the road to, you know, recovery. I'm on that journey but I'm in a boot so I don't know. I might figure something out for my birthday.

Bobby Frost:

I'm saying but, um, I want to get into a topic, man, you know, uh, I had I seen a quote and the quote was you cannot have logical conversations with women and, with that being said, like any other things we touch on and talk on, it's it's not be all in all. You know what I'm saying. It's always going to be outliers and exceptions to the rules. But I kind of felt where the guy who said this quote was coming from. And I done been in multiple relationships marriage, you know all that and for the most part that's true. You know you can't tell a woman not to be in her emotions. That's a comfortable place for women to be at. They're raised and even by society to be conditioned to be in their emotions so they're more comfortable there. So that's a natural state. When anything arises, especially anything with adversity, they're going to go into that emotions. So by going into that emotions, you feel what I'm saying Like logic goes out the door and that always was like a bumping point with me talking to my lady. You know in the past, any of my females, my exes and things like that or you know women period. And there's some guys that I hate to say it like this, but there's some guys you can't talk logical with either. You know what I'm saying and again, this is not the be all end all, but a lot of guys that's been raised by a lot of women. They have feminine energy. They like to argue because they lead with their emotions. You can't have a regular conversation.

Bobby Frost:

Men can have real men. When I say real men, this ain't got nothing to do with you being a man, meaning your morals and values line up, your upbringing lines up with being a man. Being a man don't really got nothing to do with all other stuff people think Having a man, being having a bag, this, this, having a car, this, all that None of that stuff really makes you a man. It's your morals and values, the essence of who you are, your character. So real men can logically talk a situation out. That's the honest truth. You know what I'm saying. Real men, you can honestly talk. You know you might have a disagreement, you can agree or disagree, but you can come to terms. I mean, like if you go back and you know, you look back at the crime families back in the day Lucky Luciano, all them cats, you know, I'm saying the fine crime family, genovese and all that If you go check them out, you know a lot of time they avoided big conflicts by having sit downs, conversations, you break bread and you talk out the problem.

Bobby Frost:

Could you use logic? And the one thing about logic is it's like math, like I always say. Like you ask a person you know, especially females, but you ask you know people in general what's their least favorite subject in school and the first thing that come out is what they say math. Well, why do they say math? Well, I know why they say math. They say math because math. Again, that's logic. Well, I know why they say math. They say math because math again, that's logic.

Bobby Frost:

There's only one answer, unless you're doing it with like extraneous solutions and that's you know. But other than that's one answer, there's multiple ways you can get to the answer, but there's one answer. It's not subjective. You can't put emotions into doing a math equation. You got to use that formula. That's why people don't like it. When it comes to writing, you can write and write this way, write that way, and it's still subjective.

Bobby Frost:

One professor or one reader might feel like this is the greatest work of all time. Another person might feel like it's trash. But logic, logic is just that you know what I'm saying. You're using facts, you're using your head, you're thinking in a way without emotions. That's logic and I heard Charleston white talk about that before too, and a lot of people talk about that.

Bobby Frost:

Females get rid of her and I can understand. You know rubs in the wrong way, things of that nature. I could get it, but that's the truth. It's like logic and emotions and when you think of logical, like a, the computer thinks logical. You know it's not using emotions. So when you're having a conversation with a lady, you know what I'm saying. The most time it's going to go she's upset, or you know it's might not be upset, she could be angry. You know she's not baseline behavior and all everything she's saying to you. She's going to listen to respond, not listen to understand. She's listening to respond and that's in her emotions.

Bobby Frost:

Talking logic ain't going to work because she ain't trying to hear that shit. It's some females, man. You can argue with logic and when they find out that you're right. They still not going to roll with it. They're still going to figure out a way not to take accountability. And that's where I think a lot of times females have a bad problem with that taking accountability Because that's logic, it's logical. Again, you know the big A word accountability. They don't want to take accountability because that's logical. You're taking accountability for your actions, you're being logical. That ain't something they gonna whirl with. So, like the quote I heard in the clip, it makes sense.

Bobby Frost:

Like when you with your lady man, you know you want to keep shit down A lot of times, man, like you got to make your decision without her input and just don't talk logical to her. Man, hit her up when you want to watch Netflix. Like, and just don't talk logical to her man, hit her up when you want to watch Netflix. Like the guy said, you want to watch Netflix and get a laugh on. Or you're going to sit down and watch one of her shows with her, or some shit like that. That's going to keep your shit happy. When you start bringing logic into it, you're going to bump heads with the average female every time, even females.

Bobby Frost:

I know females that went to college and took logic and reasoning classes and they still don't think logically. It's crazy. You know what I'm saying? Like it's wild. I even bump heads with my co-hosts a lot on that, because a lot of time that's what make us work. They ain't thinking logical, they thinking with emotions.

Bobby Frost:

And this is the crazy thing about emotions. You feel me Like anger never lies Meaning. When you get mad, you are mad. Anger never lies Meaning. When you get mad, you are mad. You're not playing mad, you're mad, you pissed off. You can't fake being mad. You piss, you piss, but that don't mean you correct on that, it doesn't mean you mad and you get mad and you laugh, shout and things of that nature. But that's not logical. You just in your emotions. And I had to step away from that and figure that shit out Cause that he used to piss me off arguing with my woman and I'm using nothing but logic. I'm, I'm, I'm played by playing it. You know what I'm saying. It's like we again using that comparison analogy. It's like we using that comparison analogy, it's like we're doing a big math problem.

Bobby Frost:

And you know, I used to tell kids this when you're doing math, when I was tutoring kids or at my job helping kids out. You know math. You learn math vertically, meaning, like you know you have blocks. When you was a kid, if you made a tower, if you grab any block in between the top to the bottom, it'll fall. Can't grab no blocks. That's how you vertically learn math and that's logical. Now there's other stuff you can learn horizontal or latitude-wise meaning. You can learn history. You know. You can know the 1300s, 1400s, 1500s, 1600s. Skip the 1700s, 1800s, no, 1900s, 2000s, 2010s, 2020s and still be great at history. You only missed two centuries. You got all the other ones down pat. Can't do math like that and that's how logic is.

Bobby Frost:

So I used to get mad. I used to be so frustrated Like man. Like why are you making it so hard in this conversation, knowing that I'm using facts step by step, why, where you went wrong or we went wrong, why you shouldn't have done this and did that, and it gets you nowhere. I remember I had you know this is in my marriage. Never forget we got into it right around my birthday. We got into it. You know what I'm saying. So I didn't end up spending the birthday with her.

Bobby Frost:

She made a rash move emotionally move, rash move and she went and moved in these luxury apartments Okay, and for me it was like I didn't want to move in another apartment again. We had a department. I didn't want to move, I wanted to buy a house and I was so upset and it was like a big sticking point for us in our relationship for a long time. So I got over and realized like I can't be mad at her, I got to let it go because I'm not being logical. Why would I be mad? I know she's dealing with her emotions. She's in her feelings. Ladies deal in feelings and that's why women, if you talk to a woman, the number one thing she's going to talk about especially talking about her exes, baby daddies, anything is don't play in my face, don't play with my feelings. That's what means the most to them. Feelings, not logical. I mean I didn't even talk to females and broke shit down to females Like this. Shit seems like it's one plus one equals two. You know, like my wife I told her I said man, we're playing. At the time we moved into this environment, it was like this. I said man, we're playing.

Bobby Frost:

At the time we moved into this apartment it was like this years ago they started off $1,350. By the time we left out that motherfucker was $1,700 a month. Now for y'all that live in bigger cities I'm talking about in Flint. Now if you're living in fucking four or five years ago, you're living in, let's say, la or New York, yeah, that's probably a one, a one bedroom in the ghetto somewhere. But, and at the time in Flint, michigan, like if you're paying $1,500 a month for rent, that was insane. Or in the Flint surrounding area. But I was like man, I just did the math real quick. I said man, in 10 months that's $15,000. In a year that's 18 grand. That's 18 grand. I could have been on the house.

Bobby Frost:

You moved into these apartments and we got into it. You got mad and you wanted to show me that you can make moves and do stuff without my input or say so. And you did it. And then you know, we went through our little squabbles and we got back together and boom, I'm like well, now, this is not the plan I had. The plan I had was logical. You know, go drop 20 grand on a house for the down payment, 20, 20, 30 grand for the down payment, and we'll keep going from there. But you know, and I was mad about it because I'm like no, you didn't sign the lease, you didn't give him the money you got to pay to break the lease. It's more money out of it. So I just stuck with the apartment for a minute and got out of there.

Bobby Frost:

But the thing was like again it was that was her and her emotions. We had got into it. She was upset, she felt like she was upset. She felt like, you know, she wanted to show me that she can handle stuff without me. And I'm not saying she couldn't handle stuff without me, it was just a point like you didn't have to. It's not thinking logical. I don't talk to females about shit like this. It's like the dumbest shit in the world. And again, this is emotional, not logical.

Bobby Frost:

You go talk to a dude who's known to be ladies man, smooth, um, womanizer, all that shit, and then, when it should go the way logically will go with you, you upset. How? Why are you mad? What you upset about? When you met the dude, you knew he had options. He had a bunch of options and you figured out you know it didn't work. And he cause he had options. Well, you knew that from the jump. You know what I'm saying and that's not logically thinking Now, if you hate to say that, say that phrase in line.

Bobby Frost:

If you were bringing something to the table that separates you from the pack, then yeah, that makes sense. But you came in with the same thing that the other females had Looks. I guess you thought she said she gained with A1. You dress nice, you put on eyelashes, you keep a nice wig on. You know, boom, you didn't separate yourself from his options.

Bobby Frost:

So, logically, what you think was gonna happen, he was gonna be loyal to you in your mind, meaning, like, just have sex with you is crazy, like another topic that, um, I'm gonna touch on deeper. But it's another logical thing that when a lady's on another logical situation with women that just don't make sense, like, oh, why would you think holding out sex is not going to make a nigga cheat? And then once he cheat, you're mad. You was, you was using sex as a weapon or form to get back or hurt him or get him in line. And well, you just knew what was going. Come next. That's logic. You know what I'm saying. Like it don't be making sense to me, man.

Bobby Frost:

A lot of time with ladies, I said, but once you get to a mature step, state in mind and you get more, even deep, and logic and logically thinking, you realize, like, don't be mad, that's them by nature. There's no reason to get mad about that. There's no reason to get upset, you know I, there's no reason to get upset. You know what I'm saying. Like that's why when you ask a woman, hey, what do you want to eat, they don't know Because, logically, they're not using logic In their mind. It's I want you to pick, but I don't want you to pick. You know what I'm saying. Like there's no logic there, there's none. They don't use logic, man, it's. It's, it's wild.

Bobby Frost:

Like I done had some conversations where females get so fucking mad at me about stuff. Using logical thinking, they'd be like man, it's crazy, like you. Just if you look at comments on certain reels and posts throughout social media you look at females coming you can tell there's no logic there, there's none. Like I done heard a female say this before and some of the stuff I'm talking about. We didn't touch on the other episode.

Bobby Frost:

But again, logically thinking, you get upset because guys are gawking at you in the gym but you got on nothing but skin tight clothing. Where was the logic at you? Think they wasn't going to be looking at you. If I come in there, motherfucker, with tight zone, like I'm about to go do a WWF um prep review females going to look at me. So there's going to be some some guys. That's the only other way they're going to look at me.

Bobby Frost:

Should I get mad? No, I set myself up for that. Hire a female. I could dress. I mean, I remember talking to one female. She taught me some of the dumbest shit. I can walk down the street, but naked. Shouldn't nobody be looking at me, making me feel uncomfortable? Where is the logic? You don't Stupid?

Bobby Frost:

I remember talking to females about like and this is a real sensitive subject. You know what I'm saying, but I love talking about shit that's sensitive. You know what I'm saying. I like talking about that shit. That's me. But like, when I'm saying logic, when I'm using logic this is what I mean by using logic.

Bobby Frost:

Talked to a female once in a time about rape and she got upset about me because she got put in a position where, you know, she ended up getting raped and I wasn't insensitive to her being raped. I was telling her what did you think? You went over with your friend, while she's going to get her back blown out. You know it's another guy there. So if you want to instill rest in that other guy, why would you go? You know what's on his mind. This is logic in here. So why even go? Baby girl, you go out by yourself. I'm not going. Why would you go? That doesn't make sense. It's not logical. I'm not saying it's right that you got right. I'm saying where's your accountability at? Why did you go? That's not logically thinking. I'm not about to go under a hornet's nest and get the plant around under the hornet's nest and then sting the shit out of me. Then I'm playing victim. No, it's not logical thinking Like the PDD situation you know we had touched on that when that shit first happened with Cassie.

Bobby Frost:

But like I see a lot of people, I seen some what they call them IG models. I seen some IG models getting mad about that Like it was crazy. I seen some IG models getting mad about the situation with Diddy and I'm like I seen it on the shade room. I was going through the comments. I'm looking like yeah, I know why you mad. You're an IG model, you was chasing fame and you probably been in one of them predicaments with Diddy or some other type of entertainer or personal power, and you feeling like, no, it shouldn't happen like that.

Bobby Frost:

But again, logically, if I'm over some man with power, I'm over his house, his mansion or his yacht, and it's one o'clock 2 am. What do you think he's looking for? If you're not going to work off your talent alone, alone off your talent and that's a longer road then you got to compromise yourself. And ain't that the man abusing his power? He's not. You're abusing your will, your free will, because you're putting yourself in a compromising position. Let your talent speak for you. Don't sit up in there and get put in a position and then play victim. That's not logical. You know what I'm saying? There's nothing logical about that, and that's females. Kill me with just the logic, logical thinking man. That's why females ain't good with money a lot Because they not thinking logically.

Bobby Frost:

I done talked to females before and me and my homies having conversations about stuff, and it was like prime example, female will go pay all her bills and feel like the rest of her money is just blow it on nonsense. Going to get a dumb ass bag she didn't need, going to get some hills she didn't need, and then be upset that she doesn't have any money. What did you need that for you? Just what they call therapy shopping or something like that. Like that's not logical. If you don't have the money to therapy shop, you shouldn't be therapy shopping. You know, like even with the, we done touched on the 50-50 thing before. Here's logic.

Bobby Frost:

If I'm paying all the bills, you don't have no say so. What say so do you have? If I'm paying all the bills, you don't have no say so. What say so do you have? Do your kids have say so in your house? I ask any single mom this Do your kids have say so? And be honest, don't lie. Do your kids have any say so in your house? No, they can put their input in, but it don't hold no weight because at the end of the day, the first thing you tell them is I'm paying the bill, which is correct.

Bobby Frost:

If I'm paying all the bills, you don't have no say so. You are now a grown kid, that's it. You know you don't have no say so. So stay in your place, Be quiet. This is what you wanted. You wanted the soft girl life, or to be what they call a well-kept woman, cool. Well, you can't get all the pros and none of the cons you know. Sit down, be quiet, keep your mouth closed. You're a trophy wife. See what you do. You don't do nothing else. You got to keep your mouth closed. There's nothing else for you to do. You know, that's it. You make sure house clean. I'm fed and I'm fed and I'm fucked. Because there's three F's in life Fucking, feeding and financing. I'm doing the financing, the biggest F. You gotta do the other two F's Fucking and feeding, and that's it. And even with the fucking fee, now I'm buying the groceries and I'm fucking your bet. So I'm doing all the Fs. You're doing really two. So that's logic. Now, when you go 50-50, you got to say so because it's half and half. You have to say so.

Bobby Frost:

Again, women don't think with logic. A woman think well, I should be able to come in this motherfucker, you bust your ass, you work, I can argue, I can debate, I can fuss, I can do whatever I want to do, even though I'm not bringing a lick of finance to this motherfucker. Because and I said this before like logically thinking With women who don't think logic, in that situation, in that point it don't make sense because what you got to offer I can go pay for them. Services I can pay for somebody to fuck me. I can pay for somebody to fix me a meal. Restaurants I can even pay for somebody to clean my house, to have cleaning services. There's no fucking services where that's going to take care of you. There's none. I mean, I guess you can go with like welfare, but even then you still need a dude to get on welfare. You got to get pregnant, so what you're asking for a dude to do financially, that's something that that services doesn't exist. There's no service that's going to take care of you for free. There's none. So everything you want a man to do, he can go find that another woman or he can go find it in a service that's provided Logically thinking.

Bobby Frost:

You know what I'm saying, it's just logical. You know what I'm saying, man, I got so many examples of just like I said, my past relationship kicking it, listening to my homeboys. It's crazy. Like get another one Vacation. I remember talking to one of my dogs about this in the vacation and you know we was talking about females and shit like that. Why would I take you on a vacation, logically speaking? Why would I take you on a vacation where I'm going to have to foot the whole bill and all you want to come to this motherfucker do is lay down and eat, sit. You want to go to a bunch of restaurants, you know. Get your clothes on, look pretty, go to a bunch of restaurants occasionally, shop a little bit and lay down. You could did that shit here. That's not why I took you on vacation. It's not we bought the sightsee. I need you to be fun. I need you know I have a good time. I'm not. You know. That's logically thinking, though why would I put the bill to do some shit that we can do at home? You know like that's logically thinking. You know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

I done heard like I done heard a female say a man should put me in my place. Why am I putting you in your place? That's not logically thinking. Why are you doing that emotional, dumb shit in the first place? It's crazy and like the guy was saying, like when you, the woman never looks stupid arguing with a man, but the man looks stupid arguing with a woman because you know to another man you're going to be like dog. You knew you shouldn't have been doing that because you're not thinking logically. Ah, man, let her have it. You know what I'm saying. That's it. And I say this like and I heard ladies get mad at me my co-host said like you know, said like God is gay. No, if I want to have a logical conversation, I'm going to go talk to my dog, not talking to you.

Bobby Frost:

You're not about to come from a logical standpoint, you come from your emotions. You're not even going to give me good advice. Your advice is going to be on logic is again on facts. Facts remain facts. Emotions are temporary. Facts are forever. So you're giving me advice that's temporary, temporary advice. How is that temporary advice going to help me in the long term when it's just temporary? You're feeling a certain way at this moment. You're not going to be feeling like that all the time. Nah, give me some logic. I need facts. That's the foundation and you know, that's the biggest thing.

Bobby Frost:

Even when I think about all the things, for the most part that didn't go my way or I didn't execute the way I wanted to, because I took logic out of it, everything, it ain't an incident I can think of for real that I got the short end of the stick that I use logic with. And again, a lot of times, logic is cold. It's cold because, again, ain't no emotion in there. So ain't no, I'm going to smooth you over. I'm going to butter you up. I'm going you know what I'm saying, I'm going to sugar you up. No, it's straight. What it is.

Bobby Frost:

Logic is code, and women like to be swooned. That's why I said, man, instead of just asking a woman something from a logical standpoint, man, like the dog said in a little real life scene it's the truth, man, just fuck that. Don't do that with a woman. Hey, man, let's go. Hey, bae, let me rub your feet. Let's go watch Netflix. Go watch your favorite show. You want to go get something to eat. Long as you're doing that, she's going to be cool. She'll never get out of pocket. You get to talking to her about some real logical shit. It. You might as well do that shit and don't even have a conversation with her when it comes to finances. She's not going to be there for you for finances. For the most part, she's not going to understand it. Get you a financial advisor. That's why I talk to you with logic.

Bobby Frost:

I done dated women that had to use logic at their job. As soon as we got to the crib, the logic went out the window I had a man, one of my BMs. Man, I ain't lying to you, man, she can't show how to fucking told me she don't give a fuck about shit else but her feelings. I said, man, that's crazy to think like this. But you know, I was honest, though I don't give a fuck about shit else but my feelings. Which was, like to me, absurd, crazy, what? Yeah, man. So, like you know, logic versus emotions, that's where it's going to come from. The Venus versus Mars.

Bobby Frost:

If that's my best advice I can give to you know, men out there, hey, man, don't argue, because you arguing with logic, it ain't going to work. You always going to look bad, it's not going to get nowhere. She's not going to listen to the logical shit you're saying and if she do listen, that's new happens, do list is going to be down the line. So, unless you got patience to see the seed turn into a motherfucking oak tree, you know how long it take a motherfucking seed turn to oak tree, right, if patience to see that, that's a lot of times how they're going to come back around and say it might be three months, it might be three years, y'all might have been moved on, y'all in different relationships. Nah, she's like yeah, he was right, is that benefiting you? Nah, you can say it's benefiting her and you always got love for her, or something like that. That's cool too. But yeah, man like man, I'm just being honest.

Bobby Frost:

And for ladies, like I'm telling you, if you start using logic a little bit more, I swear your relationships go better or you won't even be in a relationship at all. You will see that this ain't where you need to be rocking at. You know what I'm saying. Like, you'll figure that out. You'll know this ain't where I need to be rocking at. You know, because you're using your logic. Again, you can look at it. You might not be. You might be talking to a guy and a guy is say you're talking to a guy and a guy is a guy on the move all the time. Well, you're not on the move, type female. Logically, why would you even go get in a relationship with that guy? Doesn't make sense. Say, you're talking to a guy that's very sexual and you're just not a very you know sexual oriented person. You don't have sexual energy on high. Why would you go talk to a guy that got that? Because soon as you slow down on your sexual energy, you're not going to be fulfilling the guy. No more. Be logical, you know, and that's the truth. Man, you know what I'm saying.

Bobby Frost:

I'm going to end it because I was going to keep this episode short, because it was just me rocking with it. Yeah, man, that's the real issue with relationships, one of the big points of relationships not working Not enough logic in it. Feelings switch, feelings flee. They're not permanent, they're not long term, they're very short term. I don't know nothing too much shorter than the feelings. You know what I'm saying. That's the truth. I don't know nothing too much shorter than feelings. They are tense.

Bobby Frost:

I love using analogies. Some people love my analogy, some people don't, but I'm going to end it with this. This is a great analogy I can use with this. This is a great, great, great analogy I can use with this. This is a great, great, great analogy I can use with this. Real good, this is the analogy.

Bobby Frost:

Feelings are like crack. Anybody who done crack or know anything about crack, been in any of them A's you will notice. The daily thing about crack is it's a tense high, but it's only for a short period of time. It's a tense, a tense high, but it's only for a short period of time. That's what emotions are. They're very intense, but them emotions are only for a short period of time. They flee. And when you make a lot of decisions on your emotions, you're going to end up on the short end of the stick. You're going to make a lot of bad decisions. This is how it go.

Bobby Frost:

You got to use more logic. You got to use more logic. You know what I'm saying. That's the thing and this is advice I use. You got to use logic because when you use logic, you can see things. You can see it. You can see it before it happens. You know, being in your emotions is going to keep you in long friendships, keep you in long business ventures, keep you long marriages, because you're in your feelings. Logically, if you look at it like I posted Ben left. I posted Ben into this. I posted Ben moved around them logics. You know what I'm saying. Them logics. You know I put this post up on my Snapchat about four days ago.

Bobby Frost:

Capitalism doesn't go together with morality. That's logic. I can't get mad at this businessman for his business practice because he's not using emotions in his business practice. He's using logic. If I know how I can get into this demographic and I can trick this demographic into doing this. I'm going to do it. That's business. It's cold and hard, but that's the truth. Just touched on it real quick.

Bobby Frost:

Glad y'all been rocking with me, man, for this long, going almost on two years. I appreciate it so much. I said this before, but this is honest truth. I haven't been on a trail like I need to be on because I have an issue with axing people. I'm not going to lie. That's my only flaw I ever had with doing a podcast. I don't like axing. Axing to me equates like begging, but logically, again, no, I got to ax. It's the only other way to do it. So I'm going to start giving y'all some interesting guests on here.

Bobby Frost:

This will be the last time, and only time, you do not hear me on here with another person or three. I mean two, because it's going to normally be three, regardless of the circumstances, what's going on, this will be the last time. You all my listeners, followers you can believe that I will not shortchange y'all. I feel like I'm shortchanging. I talked to a couple of my followers. They're like no man, we like hearing you. It's cool for you to go rock a show by yourself. I felt like, nah, I'm letting y'all down doing that, so this will be my last time doing it. You know for sure, gotta get back out there on the trail. I appreciate y'all, man, go tap in on all the platforms to get the podcast. Go tap in on YouTube, run them numbers up. Tap in on um iHeartRadio. Tap in on Apple Music Apple Podcast type in on Amazon Music, spotify, everywhere you can go get the podcast at Check it out.

Bobby Frost:

And another thing the visuals. I've been playing around with the visuals because I got the camera. I just don't have a cameraman. So I think I'm just going to have to go ahead and invest in paying a guy or a lady to come do my cameraman, because I don't want to set the camera up and y'all just see all of us. I want to be able to switch it, you know like a switcher, so you need a cameraman to be able to do that. You know what I'm saying, but we're gonna bring that too, cause that's the number one thing. I said it about six times, it's true. That's the biggest feedback I get back when y'all gonna put the cameras on. So that's that what I've been vibing to bumping to. You know what I'm saying I listen to a lot of more of the underground rappers and y'all done heard me say this again.

Bobby Frost:

But yeah, his joint nice I've been rocking with my dog, jay Worthy. He got a new co-op made in Tokyo. It's nice time after time. It's nice Also that new Fuzer Pluto mixtape I've been rocking's. Nice Also, that new Fuzer Pluto mixtape. I've been rocking that too. So one of the two things I've been locking up, jay Worthy, man the Chop, that's my favorite song when I join.

Bobby Frost:

Go hard, nice little project. Man, jay Worthy, like I said, man, that's me Personally. Busy Bees, meaning they work hard, like Currency Larry, june, jay Worthy, west Side Gun, them guys that I rock with, artists that put out a lot of music. You know what I'm saying. They don't stray away from what they work, what works for them, and they put out a lot of music. Them the artists I rock with the most, being honest, like I love rocking with them artists. That's how I like it coming. So that's it.

Bobby Frost:

So again, man, you catch me on all social medias Bobby Frost Media on all social medias. Catch me everywhere and on IG. Outside of the Bobby Frost Media, catch me on RobertDye87. You know, tap in, oh yeah for my game. Heads out there, man. Yeah, two things RobertDye810, I'll. Yeah, two things Rob or die 810. I'll bust your head in that 2K25. I'll kick your ass in that NCAA college football 25. And they got undisputed I want to say it's undisputed coming out on my birthday, october 12th. I want to say it's October 12th. Come on, it might be October 10th. One of them. Yeah, I'm whooping niggas ass in that all-way class. Shout out to my nigga Dame on 2 Dame. I'm beating your ass in that shit too, cause you talk all that shit when it drop. Get ready, lace them up. I'm beating your ass in all-way class. So, yeah, that's it, man. So again the call to action y'all go donate. Man, be supporters. Man, go be followers, run.

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