Return To Love: Part Two

What if the most powerful change in your marriage doesn’t come from better arguments, but from a safer heart? We explore the often-misunderstood role of a wife as a true helper—comforter, advocate, and counselor—called alongside her husband to steady the home, guard trust, and spark courage when life hits hard.

We unpack a raw story of financial turmoil and how loyalty, careful words, and shared resolve pulled a couple through bankruptcy and back into purpose. From there, we break down Proverbs 31 in modern terms: wise work, strategic thinking, generosity, and a public reputation that lifts a husband at the gates. The theme is consistent and practical—create a place where a man’s heart can safely trust. That means no weaponizing of vulnerabilities, no ego-bruising jabs, and no public undercutting. Instead, speak life, protect confidence, and let wisdom and kindness set the tone.

You’ll hear why “won without a word” isn’t about silence; it’s about conduct that lands when constant talking won’t. We get honest about nagging, communication ruts, and the moment a partner’s voice gets filed as noise. Then we offer a hard reset: prayer before speech, clear timing, concise asks, and respect that opens ears. We also draw a sharp line between influence and manipulation—how godly influence builds unity while control erodes authority and intimacy. When roles align—authority honored, influence stewarded—the home shifts from rivalry to partnership, from parked to moving.

If you’re ready to swap friction for peace, control for influence, and noise for change, this conversation gives you scripture, stories, and steps you can use today. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review with the one shift you’ll try this week.

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Wives As Holy Spirit Helpers

SPEAKER_00 0:05

Let's get to the women. Well, let's go with the points first. First, wives do what? They represent what to their husbands.

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So, right wives, we represent Holy Spirit to our husbands. So, so when God describes us, he describes us as a helper. Remember, I quoted the scripture in Jesus.

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So the paraclete. Read the point, uh, the the whatchamacallit. Lord, I don't know why she comes up here and I always not have her glasses. No, you can't see past your nose.

unknown 0:39

I can use yours.

SPEAKER_00 0:42

The wife represents Holy Spirit in a marriage. Our paraclete. That's what Holy Spirit means. Paraclete. A paraclete in the Gospel of John, a Greek Greek term meaning one called to the side of another. Do you hear that? One called to the side of another, often translated as advocate, counselor, helper, comforter. Are you a comforter for your husband? Or are you just drama for him? An advocate. What is an advocate? An advocate is a lawyer. Someone who pleads a case, defends, or speaks on behalf of another. Do you speak down on your husband or do you speak on his behalf? Because you ain't being a helper if you're not. A helper is a comforter. One who comes alongside, look at this, to give strength, support, and comfort. When?

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In difficult times.

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In difficult times.

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So in difficult times, so let's let's talk about apostolin. When we were going through financially, and he, as the head, led us into financial turmoil.

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Terrible decision. Terrible decision.

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Bad decision after bad decision after bad decision. And so as a helper, I could have, in diff in that difficult time, I could have kicked him while he was dangerous.

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She could have killed me right there, took the life out of me.

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But I was able to offer support. How can we come out of this? You know, he would encourage me in times that we here, but we're not here. Stick with me, I'm gonna take you all the way to the top. You know, all of those words, but I was there also to help, help, help him understand that I'm here and we're gonna ride this road together. Together. We're gonna ride this till the wheels could fall out because I didn't see anything but success between the two of us.

SPEAKER_00 2:42

Come on.

Comforter, Advocate, And Counselor Defined

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We were gonna get to where God had for us. There was no fail, failure was never an option for us. Come on. So I knew that we we I didn't know how, but I just knew that we were gonna make it out of this. And so I was able to help by my words, by not kicking him while he was down, by not saying, you ain't nothing, you ain't you worthless. Look at him. What condition we in?

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You got us in this message.

SPEAKER_01 3:07

Yeah, you got us in this hole, you got us in bankruptcy court, sitting here looking pitiful in bankruptcy court. You know, our kids ain't even got food to eat, no diapers. You know, I could have gone in on him. But I was a wise woman in that moment and said, hey, we're gonna, we're gonna overcome this. We're gonna know, we're gonna pray, we're gonna seek the Lord, you know, something's gonna come through. But I never said anything negative to kill his pride or kill his ego or just damage him altogether.

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Helper, comfort.

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I was a helper in that moment. Amen. Also, a paraclete is a counselor, one who provides guidance and wisdom, especially regarding the truth of the gospel. Also, helper gives strength, provides courage and help, helps believers and fur and stand firm in faith, especially during persecution.

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When you read and keep your glass on, please. No, why should keep trying to take them bifocus off and not leave them on? No, you when you read and keep them trifocus on.

SPEAKER_01 4:12

All right, so y'all get the understanding about the helper in that regard. Now let's go to scripture.

SPEAKER_00 4:20

Amen. So look. So let's go to Proverbs 31, beginning at verse 10. But this is the thing I want you to think about. You wives are representative of Holy Spirit to your husband. So as we're reading through these scriptures, I want you to see what your role is in your marriage toward your husband. So look, it's it's up on the screen.

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It says, Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trust her, so he will have no lack of gain.

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Now notice her husband safely trust. He can't trust you if you bruise in his ego. That you use in a discussion as a weapon against him. Our egos are so fragile. Yes, we're strong and muscular, but emotionally, you can bruise us that we'll never trust you again.

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Come on.

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And have internal resentment against you.

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Oh my gosh. Because you can't use something that he was vulnerable to tell you, vulnerable enough to tell you, and you use it as a weapon later on. So he his heart won't truly trust you because you have damaged that part of him. Amen.

SPEAKER_00 5:49

That's that's how a lot of people have men have gotten into adultery, and then when you look at who get he got in adultery with, she can't compare with the way his wife looks. She don't even look that good. But his heart could his heart could trust safely in her. See, she learned how to let his heart be safe with him, with her. And that's something you hadn't learned. Yeah.

Financial Crisis And Loyal Support

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The heart of her husband safely trusts her, so he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax and willingly works with her hands. She is like the merchant ships. She brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night and provides food for her household and a portion of her for her maidservants. She considers a fill and buys it from her prophets, she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength and strengthens her arm. She perceives that her merchandise is good and her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the dis staff and her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor. Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, for all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself. Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gate.

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Now this the part right here.

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He sits among the elders of the land.

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Men want to look a certain way. So when you treat him the way he, when you go out and you carry his name right, you make him look a certain kind of way. He's known at the gates. So when people see my wife, they know, oh, she's well taken care of. Or they see how how she responds or treats me, and that brings about a certain status within a man.

unknown 7:58

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 7:59

Because we want to look a certain way as men. It's all about ego and competition for men. That's why they want a video game and this and that. Everything is about competition for men. But she helped him to look that way. She helped him, baby. Listen, you need to do this right here. And you here you're going for a promotion. She done gave some suggestion, and you get to go up because of her wisdom that she helped you with. This is what he's talking about that the that the wife who's like Holy Spirit brings to her husband. Keep going.

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When he sits among the elders of the land, she makes linen and garments and sells them and supplies sasses for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing. She shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness.

SPEAKER_00 8:55

You know, sometimes wisdom is not to say nothing.

SPEAKER_01 9:00

That's right. It's wise to say.

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You just got to say it. I gotta get this off my chest. How did that work for you? When you should have just gone into the prayer closet and talked to daddy and laid it at his feet and said, Lord, I really want to say something and I gotta, I'm frustrated and I'm getting tired of you should have just shut up. But you didn't know to do that. Because you just gotta say something. How have you changed them in all this time? No. So you should have just been quiet.

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I remember when the Lord told me, Y'all don't believe the Holy Spirit taught to you like this, but he told me.

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Say it with force the way he said to you. Don't say it weak.

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He just told me to be quiet.

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I believe he said shut up.

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He may have said shut up.

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Ain't no, he may have said, I know he said shut up. I know the Lord said shut up.

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I think he did.

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See, you ain't gotta think he said it.

SPEAKER_01 10:03

It was all the same to me for Holy Spirit to talk to me that way.

SPEAKER_00 10:07

Be quiet and shut up if they they work different.

SPEAKER_01 10:10

It was the force in my spirit that he was trying to get me to understand that your you your mouth is creating more damage than you think. It's creating more damage than the emotions that you're feeling. So be quiet. And what better ears to hear the things that you are dealing with than the Lord who can actually do something about it?

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Hallelujah.

SPEAKER_01 10:34

A lot of times we are just talking, talking, talking, thinking they're gonna change, and we're gonna do something about their behavior without much talking, but it's not. God, Holy Spirit told me, you're not going to change him. So stop trying. And in essence, God started changing me. And when I was changing, I looked around and he had changed.

SPEAKER_00 10:59

Because the Lord would deal with me in the closet, in the secret place with him, and the more she tried to change me, the more I'm resisting. Because you don't lead me. I lead you. So you're trying to force me into a change like you the head of the house. And so I'm purposely, because remember, you you creating competitor, you you bringing the competitor out at you. And so, until God had me shift that, we wasn't gonna go nowhere. And she was just gonna be constantly getting more and more broken and more and more damaged until he had to check me. But her words were not gonna fix me. So you can talk all you want, that wasn't gonna change nothing.

SPEAKER_01 11:42

We were both sitting in park cars, not going anywhere. He was in the park car in front of me, and I was sitting in the park car behind him.

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That's good.

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Both of us had the potential to move and go places. But because we were not on the same page, we were sitting in a park car, not going anywhere.

Trust, Ego, And Safe Hearts

SPEAKER_00 12:03

Now we're talking about wives, you are like Holy Spirit to your husband. You're a paraclete, you called alongside to help, not to hurt. Let's look at 1 Peter 3, 1 through 6, if we get there. You're such a wise woman.

SPEAKER_01 12:31

Wise, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands. That even if some do not obey the word, they without a word may be won by the conduct of the wives. When they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear, do not let your adornment be merely outward. He didn't say don't omit it, but just merely outward, arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel. Rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle, come on, lady, say it with me. A gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.

SPEAKER_00 13:18

I want I want you to go back up to verse one and read that again.

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Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands. That even if some do not obey the word, they without a word.

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Hold on.

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Without a word.

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Even if they don't obey, without a word, how do you win them?

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Without a word, may be won by your conduct.

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Okay. How they won? By without a word.

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Without a word and by their manner of the won without a word.

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Without a word. How are they won?

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Without a word.

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Without a word. How are they won?

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Without a word.

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Without a word. But conduct. What's the conduct? The manner in which you live. So it's not your words that's gonna change your husband. It's the way you live that's gonna change him. And it ain't your outward adorning of how you got your hair done and your nails and your eye face made up, your toes done. It's without a word and the way you live, the way you move with him. Come on. That's gonna create change in him. Your words are not gonna change him, other than when you speak in life to him.

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Amen.

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Without a word.

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That's good.

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And some of you, you can't help yourself because you saw other women with a word.

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Too many words.

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So you need to see what God said without a word. So you don't change them with a word, you change them without a word. Now go go on down. Verse uh four. Start at four.

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Rather, let it be the hidden person of the heart with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit.

SPEAKER_00 15:06

What? Wait a minute. A what?

SPEAKER_01 15:08

A gentle and quiet spirit.

SPEAKER_00 15:09

Let me let me help you, ladies. Men are very simple. Majority. You have a few exceptions to the rule. But most men very simple. You you they got them something to eat, being able to play their game or watch TV or and get some intimacy. And they they cool. Ain't a whole lot that it takes. Women a little more complicated. Because women need more things and and they they emotions, they want to. Men are very simple, majority are very simple. And so if you let it be the hidden person with an incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, that's the key right there. That's half the battle. That's that's 90, 90. In more than half, 90%. Keep going.

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Which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God.

SPEAKER_00 16:12

Wait a minute. Who?

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The holy women. The who? Holy women.

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The what kind of women? Come on, said women. Holy women. So that means you want to please God. Because holiness is not to man, holiness is to God. So the holy women, the one that presented their holiness to God, they did what?

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Who trusted in God also adorned? Hold on, they did what? Trusted in God.

Proverbs 31 Applied To Today

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See, to do this, you gotta trust God that if I do what I need to do toward my husband, I'm gonna get what I want.

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Come on.

SPEAKER_00 16:43

So you're not trusting in him, you trusting in God that if I do your word, God, if I do and submit and I got a quiet spirit, then I'm gonna still get what I want.

SPEAKER_01 16:56

Amen. Keep going. Amen. Hallelujah. Women who trusting in God also adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.

SPEAKER_00 17:17

So you still afraid that I'm not gonna get what I if I if I do that, he already taking advantage of me. So I can't be doing that, looking all weak and all that. He ain't gonna treat me like I'm some fool. See, that's the problem. You got two philosophies in one person. You got your world philosophy, and then you got what God said. Those holy women who trusted in God, who had a meek and quiet spirit, and now they're beginning to do what they supposed to do, and so when they don't fear, they now begin to reap what they're sowing, and change begin to happen. Because now you're giving God something to work with in your husband, but you letting them off the hook because you're bringing your flesh out instead of walking in the spirit and letting God vindicate you. You didn't hear what I said. See, long as you're getting in your flesh, he can fight flesh for flesh. But how he gonna fight Holy Spirit? He can't fight Holy Spirit when you're doing what you're supposed to do. Now God said, How dare you messing with my daughter like that? How dare you begin to treat her and the way she honoring you and submitting to you, and now he Holy Ghost walk in the room like when she was going there snitching on me to God in the prayer closet. I can feel the things that's pricking me and dealing with me, but her mouth didn't move me. But Holy Spirit moved me. He will move them, but you letting them off the hook because you're getting in the flesh, because you ain't trusting in God. You think you're gonna change them by how you say it, and and you you know the ones that go real low and cut them deep. How that's working for you.

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It's not.

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You are Holy Spirit, as a representative of the Holy Spirit to your husband, and as a helper, you're not helping if you hurt it. You gotta die to your old ways.

SPEAKER_01 19:25

I've never been in a situation where Holy Spirit hurt me more than helped me. He was always there to help me in every way, shape, and form. And so that's what we are to be as wives to our husbands. Helpers.

SPEAKER_00 19:47

Okay, let's uh Yeah, we got two more. Proverbs 14.

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The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands. The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish would pull it down with her own hands. When what what is representative in hands? Everything she touch. But the wise woman will build it. You build it by by creating an atmosphere conducive to be a helper to your husband. You build it by making sure there's peace in the home and you're not brawling that he don't want to run out and climb on the roof.

SPEAKER_00 20:39

We're reading that verse next.

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That's next. That scripture is next. So that's how you build your house.

SPEAKER_00 20:44

Let's go on over there. Proverbs 21, 9 and also 19.

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Because I know how we can be, ladies. I know how nagging we can be. What verse?

SPEAKER_00 20:58

I didn't know the women can get that quiet. Verse 9. I didn't I didn't know. I I heard y'all roaring earlier. Yeah, they didn't get mighty quiet.

SPEAKER_01 21:09

We know how we can be.

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Go on, talk about how you can be.

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We can be very naggy. When we want something done, we want it done then. Come on, ladies. Amen. And so we can become that that Charlie Brown teacher. Into in the ears of our spouses.

SPEAKER_00 21:33

So now you you're gonna give him make him have husband ears. Because instead of him hearing the value of your words, your words just know us to him. So he's toning out everything.

SPEAKER_01 21:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 21:46

So you d you got some words that could really help y'all get to the next level, but he don't even hear you no more. Because your your voice has been placed in a category called nag. So anything you say that's That's all he hears, nag, and you ain't even nagging at that time. But you made his ears think that you nagging every time you open your mouth to say something to him.

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When actually God gave him to you to be a helper. And so if he becomes like that, then you're gonna be stagnant once again in that part car.

Quiet Wisdom And Prayer First

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And you hurting, you hurting the whole. Because if you're the helper, the helper gotta help us get to the next place. That's right. And so this is the thing you gotta understand. God has given us as husbands the power of authority. But wives, he gave you the power of influence. But see, if you're not careful, your influence can become manipulative. That's why you gotta kill what you want above the whole. And you gotta let your voice be an influence, not a manipulation to get your way. And that's what prophet is talking about. You know how we can be, why, so you just stay on him, stay on it, stay on it. And now he he gonna bend to your will now. You don't wanna be that way. You a helper, you're not the leader. You helping the leader, you not the leader, you helping the leader. But if you manipulate him, you now have usurped his authority and you have taken the wheel, but he's sitting in the seat. But you purping in him.

SPEAKER_01 23:26

That's good.

SPEAKER_00 23:27

No, we need to stay right there. No, we need to, I need you to deal with that more because I feel it in the room. So talk to that some more.

SPEAKER_01 23:36

Well, the Lord the Lord would deal with you if you're being manipulative and trying to bend or break his will through your control. That's really witchcraft. That's witchcraft, and God hates it. He hates witchcraft, and so he's going to begin to deal with you because his authority is his authority. And he places there whether he's a low authority to you or a high authority, whatever ranking you give him is still.

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Or whether he's right or wrong.

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It's still God's authority. And so God honors authority. And so those who dishonor authority, God is going to dishonor, he's going to deal with them.

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Do you always agree with me?

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I don't always agree with everything that he says, but I don't look at him as my source. He God is my source. So if I have an issue with some of the reasons and the reasonings and the things that he's, the decisions that he's made, I take it to my father, who's my daddy first, and I'm his daughter first. And he's going to take care of me. He's going to bring some comfort to me in regards to the decision that I have had to agree with, or I've had to go or submit to, because submission doesn't always mean agreement, but I've had to submit to. In other words, if you are doing, obeying and submitting and doing the things that I've told you to do, you're not going to lose in the end. So it may look like you're not getting what you want, but I guarantee you you won't lose in the end. When you do it God's way, you're going to get his results. Amen. Amen.

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So you gotta watch that witchcraft, that Jezebel spirit, where you try to manipulate your husband to doing what you want him to do. That don't mean you can't have a discussion, but once he makes the decision, you can't try to usurp and switch it the other way because that's what you want it to be. That's right. And so if you keep doing that, Holy Spirit is gonna step back, he's gonna keep letting you do that, and he's gonna allow you to shipwreck the family because you're out of position. That's not your role in the family. Your role is to be Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit, he don't speak on his own. What he hears, he speaks. He listened to the father and the son. He don't have an independent thought of the father and the son. That's right. And so you as a wife that try to bring independent thoughts apart from the agreement of your husband is gonna create problems for you and your family. Does that mean you don't have an independent thought? No, I don't hear me say what I didn't say. You know what I'm talking about when you try to manipulate the process.

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And so you may think inside that, hmm, I got what I want, but really and truly what you got is an impending judgment. Because the Lord will judge you for working that type of witchcraft. He's not pleased with that. Amen.

SPEAKER_00 26:32

And you are undermining the authority of your husband, and you're causing him to drop in the realm of the spirit because instead of him being a leader, he's turning into a follower in his own home.

SPEAKER_01 26:47

That's so good. That's real.

SPEAKER_00 26:50

Because, see, you may have certain skills and understanding of things that he don't have, but what you don't have is delegated authority that only God can give. There are people, let me use an example. There are people in our church that are more educated than me, they more whole lottery than me, but they not in my position. God gave it to me. So whatever you are gotta be submitted to what I am as the leader.

unknown 27:17

That's right.

SPEAKER_00 27:18

And so it don't matter how much you know more than your husband, it gotta come submitted as a helper, not as the leader. Show mighty quiet in here. Yeah. Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_01 27:29

That's good teaching.

SPEAKER_00 27:30

Let's go.

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Proverbs 21 and 9. Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop than in a house chair with a contentious or brawling woman.

Won Without A Word

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So you got to get that tension out of your house. Uh, I could remember early on that, you know, I was wanting to take the long way home, hoping she sleep or whatever when I got home, because I didn't want to have to deal with her mouth. And then I made up my mind once I got myself together, I'm not gonna be taking a long way home. So that means we gotta deal with some things. And so a lot of you, you got a long way home type of relationship because he don't want to have to deal with your mouth. So your your words are not life to him, they're contentious. He gotta be battling you. And it's one nag after the next. You can never be satisfied.

SPEAKER_01 28:22

And ladies, we can talk about how the art of communicating in the marriage. That's one of the main things we realize. Mary cultures are in the world.

SPEAKER_00 28:29

Y'all talk about that when y'all meet.

SPEAKER_01 28:30

Yeah, so we can talk more about, you know, how do you get what you want? Because we know the power of the influence that we have, and we have to use it in a wise and holy way because it's powerful. Amen.

SPEAKER_00 28:47

But see, I hear her words now. I didn't hear her words when she was nagging. Because every time you open your mind, we got what she wanna talk about now. No, when he keeps rolling his eyes at you, you done put him in that position. Take a hand.

SPEAKER_01 29:04

So now y'all need a hard reset on how to communicate.

SPEAKER_00 29:09

So now he needs to, he needs the value of your words. We we wouldn't be where we are in our life, our marriage, our ministry, our everything if she didn't get that right. Because I needed, I need her as my helper. And so if I couldn't hear her, how I'm gonna let her help me. And so some of you, you're not walking in purpose because y'all not walking the way God says you're supposed to walk. And so I don't care how much you pray, you hinder, you praying over here, they're trying to come as an answer, but then you undermining your prayers with your decisions of nagging and doing all this, or you not leading right, husband. All of that is what's happening. But when we got on the same page, it allows us, allowed us to thrive because we we operate in our roles. Me represent as Christ to her and her as being Holy Spirit to me. That's right. So some of you stuck, even though you're praying, and then you're upset and think it's the devil holding you up when it's really your own uh decisions you're making.

unknown 30:11

Amen.

SPEAKER_00 30:12

Thank you for tuning in to Team Wade Live. I know you were blessed by everything that you heard on today.

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The Forever One Conference was an amazing conference. We look forward to seeing you next time.

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And remember to return to love.