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 In this special Father's Day episode of the Defeating CAN'T Podcast, Andy sits down with his longtime friend, business partner, and the voice behind the Defeating CAN'T intro, Keali'i, for an honest conversation about fatherhood, family, loss, and legacy.

Broadcasting from his home in Kōloa on the south shore of Kauaʻi, Keali'i shares stories about growing up with his father Lambert, the lessons that shaped him, and how those experiences continue to influence the way he leads his family today. From teaching him responsibility, respect, and hard work to inspiring his lifelong passion for construction, music, and community, Lambert's impact remains deeply woven into who Keali'i has become.

The conversation explores the joys and challenges of raising children, supporting their dreams, building a family legacy, and creating a home where everyone feels welcome. Keali'i reflects on being a proud father to his children, the importance of showing up, and why opening his home and heart to others has become one of his greatest purposes.

Along the way, Andy and Keali'i discuss grief, honoring the fathers who shaped them, entrepreneurship, community leadership, and the simple but powerful philosophy that guides Keali'i's life: "Less stress, more progress."

Whether you're a father, missing a father, or simply grateful for someone who helped guide your path, this episode is a reminder that the greatest legacies are often built through everyday acts of love, sacrifice, and showing up for the people who matter most.

Happy Father's Day from all of us at Defeating CAN'T. 

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