School of Self-Worth
School of Self-Worth is a purposeful podcast and community for the ambitious woman who knows she is worthy of an astoundingly great life. Join us weekly as we redefine success, set and sustain boundaries, and reclaim your self-worth.
Hosted by Nicole Tsong, bestselling author, former journalist, and work/life balance coach, who helps professional women live an aligned life. We will have diverse and meaningful conversations with successful women from all walks of life who share insight about what it takes to be brave, joyful, and yourself every day.
Every single episode is thoughtfully designed to leave you feeling empowered, with tangible tips and advice that will lead you to your next breakthrough.
School of Self-Worth
105: The Power of Non-Attachment
One of the biggest myths about being visible at work and hitting your goals is you have to go for your goals at all costs.
That’s not how the top 1% do it.
The secret? Getting recognized isn’t about volume — it’s about strategy.
✅ The right decision, made at the right time.
✅ Intuitive insights that creates demand for your expertise
✅ A simple structure that allows you to flex and flow when unexpected changes come up.
What if you only needed to give up needing to know HOW you are going to reach your goal… and that changed everything?
That’s exactly what has happened for so many of my clients and what I talk about inside this episode.
This is the blueprint to be smarter, not work harder.
THE TOP LEARNINGS IN THIS EPISODE:
- Understanding Non-Attachment and Detachment [00:01:37]
- Cultural Perspectives on Attachment [00:02:47]
- The Impact of Detachment in Career Advancement [00:04:35]
- Distinguishing Between Attachment and Commitment [00:07:25]
- Personal Journey with Detachment in Family Planning [00:08:34]
- Self-Reflection Questions for Tackling Attachment [00:12:53]
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