School of Self-Worth
School of Self-Worth is a purposeful podcast and community for the ambitious woman who knows she is worthy of an astoundingly great life. Join us weekly as we redefine success, set and sustain boundaries, and reclaim your self-worth.
Hosted by Nicole Tsong, bestselling author, former journalist, and work/life balance coach, who helps professional women live an aligned life. We will have diverse and meaningful conversations with successful women from all walks of life who share insight about what it takes to be brave, joyful, and yourself every day.
Every single episode is thoughtfully designed to leave you feeling empowered, with tangible tips and advice that will lead you to your next breakthrough.
School of Self-Worth
119: The Thing Asian-American Women Get Wrong about Gravitas
Have you ever gotten the feedback that you lack gravitas? Or that you don’t have the presence of a leader?
In this episode, I dive into just what gravitas is — and the essential thing you’re getting WRONG about gravitas (and what you really need to understand about it to get your next promotion.)
Gravitas is often misunderstood, especially among Asian American women, who think it's about emulating the people who have it.
But here’s the thing you’re missing — real gravitas can only come from inside you. It’s part of your unique presence and power.
In this episode, I dive in deeper on how to access your inner gravitas, including simple techniques to step into your power and presence.
Gravitas CAN be simple! You don’t want to miss how easy to make it, so tune in!
The top learnings from this episode:
- Understanding gravitas and its real meaning for leaders. [00:01:51]
- How cultural conditioning impacts your leadership. [00:05:06]
- Why gravitas comes from authentic self-power, not imitation. [00:05:48]
- How to build presence (and stop thinking out loud.). [00:08:03]
- Simple vocal techniques to project authority and confidence. [00:08:46]
- Steps for moving from feedback to self-empowered leadership. [00:09:31]
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