School of Self-Worth

124: Dealing with Judgemental People

Nicole Tsong Episode 124

Have you ever held yourself back because you were afraid of what other people might think?

If the fear of being judged has ever stopped you from speaking up, showing up, or going after what you want, then this episode is for you.

In today’s episode, I explore one of the biggest fears that keeps Asian American women stuck: the fear of being judged.  Listen to learn how you can stay grounded, compassionate, and confident—no matter what anyone thinks. You’ll walk away from this episode with concrete strategies for dealing with judgmental people in your life, and a new outlook on judgment that will set you free. 

THE TOP LEARNINGS IN THIS EPISODE:  

  • Understanding the root of judgmental behavior 
  • The distinction between judgment and discernment   
  • Why not to react to judgmental people 
  • Simple responses to diffuse judgment   
  • The link between self-judgment and judging others  
  • Breaking free from the cycle of judgment  

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