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Still Waiting For Your Manifestation? This Secret Will Shift Everything

• Minnie Courtney

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Waiting for manifestations can be frustrating, especially when you know your potential and have a burning desire for more, but understanding this desire as a spiritual superpower can transform your experience.

• Desire for expansion is a feminine quality and spiritual gift indicating your manifestation power
• Balance is key: feminine expansive desire on one side, masculine logical action on the other, with presence in the middle
• Manifestations can only be received in the now, not in a waiting room mindset
• True acceptance means not wishing reality were different than it currently is
• Imperfection is part of the divine plan and allows for growth and learning
• Success is inevitable regardless of your suffering or doubt—the journey is your choice
• Surrender and acceptance lessen suffering and actually accelerate manifestation

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if you ever feel like the frustration of waiting is just too much to bear, if you ever feel like you're doing everything right and you're just not seeing the results that you should be seeing, or if you're wondering why isn't it working out for you yet? This episode is for you and I feel your pain so much, because I know what it feels like to know so deeply what potential you have and to have this spiritual superpower that a lot of spiritual women have of having a huge desire. Right, some people are just happy to settle or just happy to continue on with receiving whatever shows up for them in life, but not actually pushing past that whatever is normal for them, not actually asking themselves the question of where could I go if no limitations existed? Could I actually maybe have a love that feels magical and is healthy and is exciting, and somebody who really truly sees me for who I am and chooses me? Wouldn't that be amazing? Could I actually have my own business? Could I be able to make my own schedule, walk along the beach and have like money literally dropping into my account while I'm soaking up the joy of life, or the next promotion, or a better wardrobe or an even better level of fitness or an even nicer friendship circle, etc. Etc. Etc. There is so much potential of things for our hearts to desire, etc. There is so much potential of things for our hearts to desire. And when you have that spiritual gift of seeing the potential and having a burning desire within you, it is a sign that you are capable of manifesting huge things. It's a sign that you are a real player in the spiritual game of manifestation. But with every single superpower I've said it a million times, I'll say it again every single superpower can also be our kryptonite.

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And with this desire that we have, which is a very feminine quality as well, it's a staple of the divine feminine to always be wanting more, because we're like a, an open vessel to receive and in some ways we can never be filled up right, which is what allows the feminine to keep expanding to bigger and bigger and bigger things, rather than just like a masculine tick the box. What is the next logical step? The, the feminine, goes beyond that. With that, with that vessel of constantly wanting more, can come impatience, can come frustration, can come confusion of why it's not here yet, why does it never feel like it's enough? And so, as with everything we need to not just run away from these things that hurt us, but actually elevate them to a balanced place.

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So the desire is on the left, let's put it that way. The desire for more and more and more is on the left. We need something on the right to keep us grounded, to keep us balanced, and that is acceptance and gratitude for exactly where we are now seeing, exactly what is the next step in front of us. So that's that masculine logic. And then we also need something in the middle, like a balancing thing, and that's just being present right, like a balancing thing, and that's just just being present right. So we have the feminine on the left, which is expansive desire, expansive desire and all this potential that we have. We have the masculine on the right, which is logically seeing okay, what is my next actual step to get there? What do I physically need to do right now to move in that direction? And we have the central column in the middle that balances us, which is our presence in our body, our acceptance, our gratitude. This is what we want to do, because if we overcorrect ourself too far which we have a absolute tendency to do as humans, right, because we're like you touch the fire like. This is bad. Never fire again, right?

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So when we, when our manifestations get to a point where we're like why is nothing working? Are like, the first thing that might come to our mind is like let me just drop it all, let me just give up. This is never going to work. Or let me just stop manifesting altogether. Let me just give up, this is never going to work. Or let me just stop manifesting altogether. Let me just focus on where I am completely and forget about all these dreams, because they're just not happening, right. Neither of those things are going to bring us closer or bring us to a higher vibration or to a higher timeline. It's always balance that brings us to a higher timeline. Almost never is extremity going to bring us to a higher timeline. Almost never is extremity gonna bring us to a higher level of consciousness.

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And what we know is that whenever we're waiting around for these things to drop in, we're disconnecting ourself from the vibration that actually manifests things, or the, just the space which actually manifests things, because when, when have you, where or when have you ever received something? It's always in the now, right, and that's why it feels magical when you receive it, but it also feels like it's just in the flow. It feels like it makes sense because the only place that we can receive our manifestations is in the now. That is all that truly exists. Every moment that we spend not in the now that we spend in a waiting room an energetic waiting room that we spend in the past over analyzing what we should have done differently to be at a better place by now, what that we spend in future wondering how is it going to feel when it's going to come? What's going to make it come? When's it going to be? What if something gets in the way?

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All of these things are us transporting ourself out of the present moment, where all of the things that we want are available to us, and into a different realm where we can never quite put our finger on it. And so the key to evolving past frustration is deepening into the now, is deepening into the now. When we deepen into the now, we might not find that everything is exactly as we want it to be, but what we will always find is everything is manageable, that there are miracles happening right here, right now, that we can miss if we're not here and now to see them, and that there are lessons that we can learn right here, right now, that will unlock the manifestations, the business success, the soulmate partner, whatever it may be, to be able to materialize into our physical life. And we can again miss these lessons or take longer to learn these lessons if we are not focusing on the here and now. When frustration comes up, there's a second wave of separation that happens from letting us be in the here and now and letting us accept our manifestations and actually get closer to the higher times that we want to be in.

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And that second wave of frustration, that second wave of separation, is getting annoyed at ourself that we're not being present, feeling shame, that we're not in this peaceful zen consciousness and that we're again finding ourselves waiting and frustrated. As soon as you notice it, that is your. That is the second opportunity for you to come back into alignment, for you to come back into the realm of miracles, not by lowering your vibration even further into shame and into guilt and all of these things, but by neutralizing the energy by accepting it. By accepting it, what does accepting it mean? Because I know that word is thrown around a lot. Accepting it means I don't wish that reality was any different than it is right now. I don't want reality to be any different than it is right now.

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Until you can say that, and until your body feels that and accepts that, you're not in a state of acceptance. You're still in a state of resistance. So you can say to yourself yeah, I know everything's happening in divine timing, yeah, I know it's fine, okay, all of these things. But if I ask you, okay, do you actually wish, is your body actually craving for you to be somewhere different than where you're at, for you to be someone different than who you are today, for you to be somewhere different than where you're at, for you to be someone different than who you are today, for you to be around different people than who you're around today? Then you're not in a state of acceptance yet and we can get really better about this and be like okay, now it's time to accept the fact that we're not in acceptance yet and that's the truth. Every single like millisecond that passes by is another opportunity for us to surrender deeper into acceptance. And if you're waiting for yourself to be perfect at this, then I'm sending you all the best, but that is going to be hugely painful and it's going to create a lot of suffering.

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Because look around you, the world is full of imperfection. Every single person that you love, that you admire, that you cherish, are full of imperfections. Every celebrity, every loved one, every partner that you've had the best memories with, every sunset that you watch, every beautiful flower that you smell, every movie that makes you feel incredible things and you're like I'm going to remember this movie for the rest of my life. Every song that makes you dance it is imperfect. Every song that makes you dance it is imperfect. It is not supposed to be perfect. We're in a realm of imperfection. We're in a realm of growth. It's imperfection that allows us to grow, and sometimes it's not.

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By pointing out the imperfections and fixing them and writing all the things down that need to be fixed, and figuring out the next step and the next plan and okay, how can we do it better? And measuring all these things. There's a place for that. But sometimes it's just accepting that this is exactly how things are supposed to be. If it was not supposed to be this way, it would not be in existence. There is nothing flawed truly, in the divine plan, right, the illusion of imperfection is around us always, but what we learn with acceptance is that imperfection is actually exactly divinely planned and divinely how it was supposed to be.

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There are a million trillion reasons why you might not be exactly where you want to be yet, why you feel like your manifestations of the success or the achievements haven't landed yet. Every single one of those. Again, if you try to figure out what that reason is right now, you don't have the vessel to understand it in every aspect of it. There's too many options. It could be divine timing. It could be that you still have growth, that your vessel's not ready to receive it yet. It could be that you're actually being protected because this is not the right thing for you. It could be that there's a sequence of events that need to play out in a certain order, and you're in the middle of it right now, and literally in the next hour, in the next 24 hours, in the next week. All of this is going to be solved and you're actually going to have that manifestation.

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All of these things are possible, but you're not going to be able to connect the dots looking forward, as they say, right, you're only going to be able to connect the dots looking backwards, and so the only thing that we can do is surrender. The only thing that moves us closer to it is surrender and acceptance. Every time that you think that you've surrendered and that you think that you've accepted where you're at, I want you to pray for a deeper level of surrender, because there's always a deeper acceptance that can be found, and the further that we go into that, the the lesser suffering becomes really, because your success is inevitable either way. You can suffer your way to it, you can drag it out, you can doubt yourself along the whole way, but your success is coming either way, because that is our soul design, and so my goal for you with this episode is to just lessen the suffering and the stress along the way, because it's happening anyway. So, as always, I want to share a couple of affirmations and shadow work prompts and also remind you that I have a process, that I've been working with many, many women to speed up this journey of manifestation, to create insane business results, to heal lifelong romance blocks and traumas and I share this with all of my clients If you want to be one of those and if you want to go through that process with me, if you feel that calling and you know that you're ready for something bigger and you're ready for an actual shift, then you can fill out the coaching application which is in the show notes of this episode. So affirmations for this topic.

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Waiting is just a concept in my mind. My life is happening now. Blessings are available for me to notice every single day. I trust that the whole universe is on my side, even when it doesn't match my plan. I am exactly where I am supposed to be. I am whole, complete and grateful to be alive in this moment. Everything that is meant for me will find me. I trust completely in the spiritual system.

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Shadow work prompts for this topic.

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Number one how did I learn that pressure would serve me? Where did I learn that pressure moves me closer to my goals or keeps me safe? Is this really true and useful, and what would the alternative look like for me? Number two what is it really that I am so desperately seeking? What lack am I trying to avoid by demanding this manifestation? What pain am I trying to avoid by demanding this manifestation? What pain am I trying to avoid by demanding this manifestation? How can I begin to fill that void within me today, in the exact circumstances where my feet are? And number three. If I were to accept where I am with gratitude and complete fulfillment, what am I scared might happen? What small shifts could I implement today to bring in more acceptance and gratitude? I can't wait for you to try these out. This is a must do, I think, for everyone, and I would love to hear how it goes for you. Of course, you're always free to drop me a message over on Instagram. I would love to connect with you, but other than that, I hope you have a beautiful, blessed week and I will see you in the next episode.