Manifesting Series Part 1

Welcome to the first part of our 5 part series on Manifesting. If you want to manifest more clients, money, health, better relationships or anything else, you'll want to pay attention.

In part one we have a look at the very first thing you need to do to really begin intentionally manifesting.

 Also, if you want a simple to-remember checklist of how to manifest anything you want, go to https://www.confidentcoachacademy.com/manifest 

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Chapters

• 0:00 Manifesting Your Dream Life
• 7:08 Unleashing Your Manifesting Power
• 11:40 Empowering Manifestation Support and Guidance

Transcript

Hey, this is part one of a five-part series on manifesting, so if you want to manifest the life and business of your dreams, make sure you stay tuned in. Also, if you want to, we've got a checklist to make remembering this all so much simpler for you. So go to confidentcoachacademycom, forward slash manifest to grab the checklist. All right, my friend, let's dive in. Hey, welcome to the Confident Coach Academy podcast. I'm your host, Kushla Chadwick, and if you have an audacious dream to really be of service in the world, build a profitable coaching business online and have an awesome life offline, then, my love, you are in the right place. Together we're going to talk strategy, mindset, manifestation, thought work, energy work, all the things. So let's dive in. Hey, my friend, how are you? I hope you're doing amazing.

I have had a really interesting past couple of weeks some real great highlights, a lot of fun, and then I've also had moments where I felt like I really needed to slow down and go inward and reflect more, which I have done, and one of the things that I came away from this time with is this thought of like I really want to speak about manifesting more with you guys, because I am so incredibly grateful for the things that I've been able to manifest in my life and also the things that I know I am going to continue to manifest. And so I know some of you, when you come to me, the challenges that you come to me with and the opposition you might feel you have in your life, can make it feel like manifesting what you want is hard. But I want you to know, I 100% believe that you can manifest what it is that you want and that the life of your dreams is absolutely one of the options that you have. You know, like, if you were to choose, like and say I've got nine lives like a cat right, you know, one of the lives you could choose is the life of your dreams. I 1000% believe that for you and for myself. And so I think it's really important that we step into this realm. And it's it's funny because I also I run another life coach school called the Unashamed Life Coach School with my business partner, Erin Anderson, and we train and certify women to be trauma-informed coaches right, and they can use that in whatever niche that they want to.

But it's just being able to be a more phenomenal coach and really understand the psyche of people and the hearts of people and know how to help them heal faster and, in my opinion, manifest faster, right? So there's like this very practical got to deal with things side of me which can sound and feel like it's an opposition to manifesting, but they all work together in one beautiful whole, and so what I want you to know is maybe you're going through a really great time right now. Life's sweet and that's awesome and you know that's great for you in terms of manifesting more. And some of you feel, like you know I can't focus on manifesting because, like, my nervous system is shot or this feels just too hard. But I am going to tell you life does not wait for things to be perfect for people to manifest Right. Otherwise, like what would there be no need to manifest if, like, life was like exactly as we wanted already? Okay? So there's always going to be this space in between Right, there's always going to be a space for creating more, feeling more, and that does not mean that we're not grateful, like really, really grateful for where we are now and and just can just sit in the energy of like, ah, everything that I have now is just so awesome. So I want you to know you can sit in the energy of everything. That's great that you have now. That's really amazing and really awesome. And still, you know, do the work of leveling up and manifesting. They're beautiful and can go hand in hand. So let's dive in. Anyway, I want to do five episodes and if you haven't yet, grab my checklist. Go to confidentcoachacademycom. Forward slash manifest is where I believe it's at. You can check the show notes, but grab the checklist because I lay it out. Keep it super simple so you know what to focus on in each of these episodes as well. Moving forward, so they go hand in hand.

All right, let's dive in part one, part one we want to look at what it is that you want. So the first step in manifesting is getting clear on what you want. Now this, for some of you, can happen in a hot second, a split moment of inspiration, a split second and observing something like that's what I want. And other times we've got to do a bit of soul searching and a bit of digging, and either way is completely fine, but in any case it's still really simple. So here's what I want you to know, what you want to manifest. There is going to be some amount of light or energy that you feel towards it, and so you want to check in and check in that you're feeling this light or energy towards the thing that it is that you want. But for some of you you're like, well, I don't know what I want yet, so like, let's just start at the beginning and see if you know what you want. And you can just like put on a timer for a couple of minutes, like you know, brain dump, like for two minutes the things that you want, and the rule would be, like, anything that comes to the surface of your mind, you've got to write it down now. Um, for some of you you'll write things down and then you'll. You'll go away, take it, you know, have a drink, take a couple of breaths, come back and you'll see.

Some things on that list might not actually be genuine for you. It might be something that someone else had which you thought would be cool, but if you're checking, it's genuinely. It's not lighting you up, there's no energy towards the thing. Right, some things you know like just going to cross off your list. It's not even about manifesting. You know what to do and it's totally fine. Some things are going to be easy, simple and free to do. Some things might require more work, right, and you might be tempted to go into a bit of a fear response about that, but just hold your horses, just chillax, right, if you notice that.

So what we want is we want you to know that what you want is something on one level. You already have it, okay, and the thing that you've got to decide is like, which things are you going to allow to manifest in like? Is like, which things are you going to allow to manifest in like in real life, in 3d world, right, so you can physically touch it, feel it or experience it, right, and um, so what we need to do then, once you've crossed off the things off your list that you know you thought you wanted, but it was really for someone else or what someone even told you you should have, or go for, maybe to be responsible or whatever cross those off your list if they're there for that reason. But we want you to go in and have a look again at the things that are there to light you up and you feel some energy towards towards it, for whatever reason, and it doesn't need to be justified. This doesn't have to be like, because it's a right reason. Again, I'll tell the story.

You know me, the year I went to Italy, which seemed like such a big deal, going to Italy from Australia, like traveling around Europe for a month, like at the time it just felt like, like, logically for me to look at things that were happening in our family at the time and expenses and costs and, you know, living whatever. It wouldn't have seemed like I could do that. When I was 38, about to turn 39, I was like I had this thought I want to go to Italy for my 40th. That would be amazing. And I just had this image of an old Italian woman going, mama mia, like some pizza guy. Right, it wasn't the architecture, the art, the fashion, the food, the history, any of those amazing things about Italy, it was just the fact that, like, I had this, this thought, and it gave me energy, it gave me light, it made me feel like so much light when in my body, when I imagined it, and so I followed that light and it was life-changing for me. Um, the trip was amazing, like the trip was so cool, but more than the trip, it was who I became in the um manifestation of the experience.

So I want to say to you, even though, like, we're talking about what you want and it might sound kind of, you know, very surface level, and for some people it might be even, um, you know, selfish, or they might put any number of labels superficial or whatever on it, like, just throw that out the window I want you to know, every time you manifest something, you're going to have a personal up level in some way, shape or form, and that is good.

And it's not that you're like, not amazing as you are, but the thing is we're all here on this journey to, to grow as we go, and so one of the things I love is, when we get into this process, um, and understand it, that we really are becoming more of who we are wanting to become, and that's an amazing thing. So, um, that first step is get clear, follow the light and, uh, that sounds, sounds like an afterlife experience. But, you know, follow the, follow your energy towards what it is that you really want. And now, for some of you, if you've listened this far and you're like, actually I can't even think of a thing that I want, I feel stuck, and I have worked with clients who feel this way sometimes, particularly if they've had, like, some significant trauma happen in their life and they've kind of got habits of kind of pushing down what they want or always putting other people first, things like that, right, behaviors like that and um.

So one of the things I do and I recommend if this is you is to do an anti-dream list first. So instead of that thing of like you know, two minute brain dump on what you desire, if you're going to do that and your page is empty or you only come up with one thing and it hasn't got light in it, start off with the anti-dream list. So just write, do a brain dump of all the things you don't want, uh, and then what that gives you. It gives you contrast of okay, so what's the opposite of what you don't want, right? So if you don't want to have, like, um, debts, you know you don't want to have to struggle to, you know buy, like cover your bills and your expenses, and you know you don't want to like not travel, you know whatever it is like, what's the opposite of it, and you'll find that that helps you to get clarity on what it is that you want and desire. So the universe wants to help you and again, I'm not supplementing the word universe for God, like you know, the universe is the cake, god is the chef kind of situation if we look at it like that. But it's perfectly ordered and it has your back and God has your back and we just need you to have your back and so, yeah, put that out there.

And you know, some people say, put your order in. I don't look at it like putting your order in, I'm just like saying you know, this is for me, this is what I want, this is what I'm claiming, so what we want. If I was to break down the steps within the first step, it would be like number one. You know, get clear on what you want. And then you want to move that up to a desire, get clear like which one of these are genuine? So which ones do I genuinely desire? And then, from that, which ones am I going to make a decision about? Right, so you want to make that decision like. This is what I'm manifesting, this is the thing that I feel energy towards, this is the thing that I want, and then we can get in and do the rest of the work, which we will cover in the upcoming episodes.

But anyway, I hope this has been helpful for you. I would love to hear what it is that you want, what it is you want to manifest. Again, I'm here to support you. I know that what you want to manifest also wants to see you on that journey and, yeah, I'm thrilled to be able to help you Again. Go to https://www.confidentcoachacademy.com/manifest to grab the checklist to make it this simple and fast as well for you, and I will see you in the next episode. Bye, my friend.