The Confident Coach Academy Podcast

Embodying The Next Version Of You

Kushla Chadwick

Discover how embodying the energy of your desires can transform your life and business! Today's episode in our Manifest Anything You Want series is packed with insights on becoming a vibrational match to your aspirations. Learn about the powerful "flow" and "go" approaches to manifestation, and how small habits, like keeping an organized wardrobe or a full fruit bowl, can bring your goals closer. I'll also share a personal story about how my return to church made previously hard tasks feel effortless, changing my actions for the better.

Ready to take your business to the next level? This episode will guide you through the profound impact of adopting an organized mindset for business success. Hear my journey from scattered chaos to six-figure success by integrating simple organizational strategies that made me feel more supported and less overwhelmed. Reflect on embodying the mindset of someone who has already achieved their goals and unlock the growth potential within your own professional life. Love and sunshine, and I’ll catch you in the next episode!

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This is part two of our special Manifest Anything that you Want series, and in this episode I'm going to dive into what you've got to do to embody being the person who has the results you want. Now let's go. Hey, welcome to the Confident Coach Academy podcast. I'm your host, Kushla Chadwick, and if you have an audacious dream to really be of service in the world, build a profitable coaching business online and have an awesome life offline, then, my love, you are in the right place. Together we're going to talk strategy, mindset, manifestation, thought work, energy work, all the things. So let's dive in. 


Hey, my friend, how are you? I hope you're amazing. I am really excited to jump in today and talk to you about the second part of manifesting in our manifesting series, and if you haven't listened to the previous episode, where I speak about part one of the process, I invite you to go back and listen to that after this episode. But today I want to talk about the second part to it, and this is the part that often a lot of people get stuck on and want to give up on, or often it's the fourth part as well that a lot of people find difficult, but we'll get to that. We'll get to that one today, let me talk to you about embodying and like the two ways that you can approach manifesting at this level. Okay, so I have two processes, and one's called flow and one's called go. When it comes to the second stage, okay, so let me explain those two processes and what you can do so you can manifest what you want. So, basically, the second stage is about embodying and becoming a vibrational match to what you're manifesting, whether it's something like, you know, a certain income level or a number of clients or a health goal relationship, whatever it is. It could be an object like a number of clients or a health goal relationship. Whatever it is, it could be an object like a piece of furniture. So it's either embodying, being the person who already has the thing, or just simply thinking about it as being a vibrational match to it.


As an example, when I have thought of myself in the past, of being a wealthy coach, one of the things that I knew was a vibrational match to being that was being the person who, being the woman who always had a full fruit bowl, which sounds so like you know, so minor, but I feel really wealthy, I feel really rich when I have a full fruit bowl, but I feel really wealthy. I feel really rich when I have a full fruit bowl. Another thing is when my wardrobe is organized, I feel really rich. It's a vibrational alignment for me of identifying and being someone who's like a wealthy coach right. Another thing which I do I'm just like listing all these small things right as a wealthy coach. Something that's in vibrational alignment for me is having an organized laptop and an organized computer desktop right and being able to locate what I need very, very quickly on my computer.


Okay, so sometimes, when I say to become an embodiment of what you're manifesting, even though it hasn't shown up in the 3D world for you yet, it can seem like a fun thing to do, and other times it can. For some of you and for myself at times as well, this has been been the case it can feel really difficult because we've got some inner work to do and the truth is, if you've made a decision, a lot of that inner work gets taken care of immediately. Like you will find, when you've made a decision, there are just things that you do now which for some reason feel super easy, where, if you had tried to do them before making the decision they felt difficult. I'll give you a non-business related example. So when I was 19 years old, I was someone who I spent a lot of time with my friends and would go out a ton, party a lot, and I had been raised in a religious home, but I had stopped going to church when I was 12 years old, around the time that my mum and dad separated, and when I came to live with my older sister, I did not continue to go to church. She didn't make me, she didn't go to church, and so it was cool, I didn't go to church. And you know, when I was 18 or even younger, I would go out partying with my friends a lot.


And then I went back home to New Zealand, where I was born, and I went to the chapel where I would go to church as a child, and I met a lot of the old, familiar faces who I knew as a child, and one of them invited me to this religious instruction class which I ended up going to. I actually had an appointment on at that time, but I ended up finishing that appointment early and decided, hey, like something about that invitation really struck me and I decided to go and I went to it and I really felt the spirit there and I was like man. And suddenly all this stuff comes rushing back to my mind, all this remembrance of things comes rushing back to me. To go back to church, I decided that I would be someone who was religious again, and more so than I'd ever been. And suddenly, like if you would have asked me like two weeks before or the week before making the decision to come back to church and be active in my faith, if you would have asked me, like to say, dress a certain way or to you know, say you've got to go to church, it would have been too hard. It would have felt so hard because it would have felt out of alignment with the decisions and choices that I was making in my life then and I wouldn't have been a vibrational match to it. But when I decided that I was actively going to participate in my faith and be a church-going young lass, young girl again, things that would have been really hard for me to do before suddenly became super simple. Like I changed so much of my wardrobe, going to church on Sundays was suddenly easy. So you see what I mean.


There are things like this where if you decide. It's not necessarily that the tasks themselves don't have challenges in them or like that they're going to be easy every day. It's like an athlete, when they've decided that they're going to compete at a certain level. The training sometimes might be exhausting, might be really hard one night or one week or whatever right, it's not always easy. But getting in the arena to do the things itself is easy. So getting up to go to the class or getting in the car to drive to your training like that's not something you think about, you just do it. And it's the same thing with business goals training like that's not something you think about, you just do it. And it's the same thing with business goals, like going to do your writing, your content you just get in and you just do it. Because you've decided that I am a, let's say, seven figure coach and you know what's in alignment with being a seven figure coach is having like the right amount of visibility for your offers and your programs. And so you're like well, you know there's an increase of visibility. Okay, I'm gonna go increase my visibility. And so there's this thing where you're.


I said at the beginning there's two ways of of manifesting and one's go and one's flow. So when you make a decision to embody being a person and being a vibrational match that's usually when you're in go. That means that your decision is going to leave red crumbs and you're going to manifest through becoming that person and identifying with being the person who has that. So that's one way and that's usually the way that we focus on when you're being coached and you're getting a business coach and maybe you're getting some kind of other coaching to support you and growing and maybe your relationships or whatever, so that you can be the person who has the level of income that you're manifesting. The other way of manifesting is what I call flow, and that's flow I just look at as fun. So there are other things that you want to manifest and you don't care actually if you don't. So what do I mean? I'm like so sometimes there are things like maybe a piece of furniture or I don't know just something, where you're like it would be cool if, but you're not attached. You know, if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, right, it's totally fine, it's just non-resistance. It would be cool if, but there's non-resistance to it not happening as well. Okay. So I'll use an example.


My husband and I. We have vastly different interests for the most part. There are some things we've got similar interests in, but an example is I really love k drama. As you guys know, this it's a hobby of mine and you know I've been to Korea a few times. I'm going again soon and in the kdrama group that I'm in, a few of my friends, their husbands watch the kdramas with them, and I thought that's really cool, you know. But my husband had no interest and he would tell me like I am not interested in watching those right, and I'm not interested in watching those right and I'm not interested in going into career, and I'm like that's fine, that's cool, you know, whatever.


But then I got to this stage where I was like, well, I kind of would like it if we did sometimes, you know, but it's not something where I want to put an effort to make it happen, but it would be cool if it did. And so this is where I call flow manifesting, right. It's just like it's really cool if it happens and if it doesn't, no big deal, right. And so this is what you do if you want to manifest in this way, right. So if something's really cool if it happens, but it's no big deal. If it's not, then I just put it out into the universe in some very concrete way and then I let it go immediately, so you may not see actions follow through, because it's not like I've made a decision that this is what I'm manifesting, but it's like it would be cool if I did. It'd be cool if it happened, right.


And so, with my husband, I just put it out, I said it, I'm like it would be cool if we watch kdramas together. It would be awesome. It would be cool if he wanted to go to Korea. It would be not sorry, not if he wanted to. It would be cool if we did go to Korea together. I just put it out there and then I let it go.


And so I said that in like spoken form, you could write it down, you could put it on a vision board and then, just like, put the vision board away, like you know, look at it once and then that's done, like it's in creation and when it comes and happens, it happens right. But I'm non-resistant to it not happening, but I'm just putting it out there. So that's just going with the flow, but you're still being clear about what the order is right, and so one way, just to be clear, is when it's go, it means like I've made a decision and I'm following through, I'm in alignment, I'm being the person who already has the result in 3D world. And the other way is flow. You're like it would be really cool if this happened. I'm putting it out there, this is what I'd love to happen. Then you're letting go and seeing what gets delivered to you, and that can be a lot of fun. You can like play little games about manifesting things daily and that kind of from that flow form, and that can really help strengthen your ability to intentionally manifest the things that you want. So anyway, I hope this has been helpful for you.


I will add actually I will give you some homework. I think I said I'd give you some homework. So think about when it comes to when it comes to, like, getting in go mode where you're being the person who already has the results, you're embodying that person now. So think about, like, what are the beliefs that you have that support what you've manifested, right? Uh, what? Uh, what is your environment like as the person who's already got the results? How do you feel as you go about your day as a person who's already got the results. What are some of your habits that have really supported you and and did support you to get the results? What are some of the things you let go of and that you no longer do that you used to do but you stopped doing so that you could get the results? So, and what really lights you up as someone who has these results? What are your relationships like as someone who's got the results so you can get into really the mind of being that person?


Now I come back time and time again to talking about my. My massive growth and income happened when I decided I was that six-figure coach who was organized like that was a massive piece for me, and so I did. I instituted a lot of different things to bring organization to become part of who I am, and I had naturally been organized in a lot of other areas of my life, but my business was one of the areas where I really was still too scattered and when I made that decision, it was amazing and beautiful to experience not being scattered and being organized in my approach to my business as well and feeling supported because I was organized in my approach to my business. So anyway, I hope this is helpful for you, and you will take some time to write out some of the things that you think and feel about being the person who's already manifested what you've decided to. All right, my friend, love and sunshine. I will catch you in the next episode.