No Filter in Paradise
Two friends, one's straight one's Gay, with different backgrounds, interest, upbringing & outlook in life come together to have a Fun & honest conversation and discuss their opinions on different topics... with no filter.
No Filter in Paradise
Crafting Success Through Self-Love with Semii Marten | 207
What happens when passion meets purpose? Semii Marten—radio host, singer, dancer, and teacher from Bonaire—brings electric energy to our studio while revealing the surprising truth that she's actually a homebody at heart.
From hosting imaginary radio shows with her cousin as a child to commanding real airwaves with her morning program "Morning Flavor," Semii Marten's journey exemplifies how following your authentic path can lead to multifaceted success. She candidly shares the moment she nearly abandoned her music career two years ago, and how recommitting to her true self created a visible transformation that others now recognize as her "glow."
The conversation takes unexpected turns, from her karate training (reaching brown belt before pivoting to dance) to her passionate advocacy for Bonairean cultural traditions like Dia de Rincón. But perhaps most compelling is Sammy's wisdom about self-love and personal boundaries. "If you have self-love, you're happy, you're doing what you want," she explains, noting how people often feel threatened by others' success when they haven't addressed their own insecurities.
Currently single by choice, Semii offers refreshing perspectives on dating in small island communities, emphasizing the courage it takes for authentic connections. Her philosophy—that positivity moves faster than negativity—permeates everything from her Afro-Caribbean music to her approach to life's challenges.
Whether you're pursuing creative passions, seeking balance in a busy world, or simply looking for a dose of Caribbean sunshine, this conversation will leave you inspired to embrace your authentic rhythm. Follow Sammy's journey and discover how aligning your actions with your true self creates a life of purpose and joy.
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Speaker 3:We really want to know, guys.
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Speaker 4:Oh, wow, yes, All right.
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Speaker 1:So let's jump into this.
Speaker 3:All right, yes.
Speaker 1:A little small description. Who is Sammy Martin?
Speaker 2:Yes, sammy Martin. Yes, the question is always the same. Yes, sammy Martin, how do I say it? A person with half race? He's extroverted. So I always like to go to the party of dancing, singing, acting Turkish has to do with being on stage. I like to go to the small room. I like to go to singing, acting. Turkish has to do with being on stage. I remember when I was a kid, I used to have my own room, for example. I used to play, I used to have my own radio station.
Speaker 1:So I used to host with my cousin. Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2:I used to host with my cousin on the radio station on the radio show. I have videos too With the.
Speaker 1:I don't know the video name, with the radio show and the radio channel or whatever I'm talking about it's because the day I did it the time was 999.
Speaker 2:So September 9th and 96th. So if you call it, it's 999. So, when I started my radio it was like 999, everything was 999.
Speaker 3:What was it? 99, 99, 99, 99,.
Speaker 1:You're not the only one. You're not the only one.
Speaker 3:It's good so you're 26 years old, she's 26. 26 plus yes, continue. So who else? Radio station yes, this is me.
Speaker 2:This is always my favorite part continue, continue, continue. So who else? Radio station yes, so I, so I always like to be part of the tour so that I am on on a stage so performing, singing, acting. When I was a kid I also I used to talk with people you know energetic. So if you watch my video, I have another video with people who don't know how to was energetic. De si boa de mi video back otro video con oran nosa canta de cor tur de domingo le ato le tur mucho otro mas sorry.
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Speaker 2:I'm like I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry. I'm like I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry, I'm going to cry.
Speaker 4:I'm going to cry.
Speaker 2:I'm there, but I like my alone time. I like to be at home, my favorite moment. Yes, my favorite moment is when I'm at home. I'm in the room, I'm on the television and then yes, but don't snack on the band.
Speaker 1:Yes, I eat my baby, I eat my food that's my favorite moment.
Speaker 2:Or if I sing, I dance with someone I like, but it's super out there. No, I like being at. I love it. I'm a homebody 100%.
Speaker 1:I love it.
Speaker 2:I'm a homebody. I have a perception. I don't put on makeup, I put on a singer or dancer? I ask myself hey girl, I want to go to a party. You go out, I put on a dress. No, I don't like parties, don't invite me place.
Speaker 3:I love that. The simple stuff, yes, I love that. I love that I mess with that. Okay, so back in our conversation. You've always been into dancing, then, by the way where did it stem from?
Speaker 2:um Folklorico, and my mom Also danced in group A, so now she's older she takes over and my mom also dances In group DJ, so it was like a Two, three generation Type of thing. Okay, so we danced With my family as dancers, if you want to dance, sing or play an instrument.
Speaker 3:So you do one of them.
Speaker 2:You gotta do one, it's like it's part of it, yes, yes. So my dad, industry, you gotta do one. Yeah, it's like it's part of it. Music dancing I had to have and she's like you know what?
Speaker 1:I'll take all three. I'll take all of them. I'll take all three you'll do one. I'll do all y'all, all three. Who's the favorite child?
Speaker 2:my mom will sing and we'll do song festivals and stuff like that my dad is a skibby, he's a painter, so I was like challenge a little bit of everything, give me all except I swear I got, can you?
Speaker 1:I'm sidetracking. Can you imagine an episode of us three with Amy?
Speaker 3:no, that would be epic. What do you call Amy?
Speaker 2:not personal but with the number energy to match it legit oh okay okay, interesting I would.
Speaker 3:I would pay to watch both of those.
Speaker 1:Honestly both of those are good podcasts, for I would pay to watch.
Speaker 3:Honestly For sure, for sure.
Speaker 2:We should make that happen.
Speaker 1:Even like the way you talk.
Speaker 3:The mannerisms are crazy.
Speaker 1:Similar Amy is definitely one of our. The most Holland season. Oh, our longest episode Ear size for sure. Amy is definitely one of our. What's her name? Holland season. Oh, actually, our longest episode. It's like ear size, but like it was so long we had to make part one, part two, it was like two and a half hours. It felt like an hour.
Speaker 4:Yes, you can't go wrong with this.
Speaker 2:I like that I like that we, I like that we should do that.
Speaker 1:Amy, at some point in the future. I don't have a plan no.
Speaker 2:But, Amy be a woman.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yes, that's a good idea Of the ABC thing, bullying or so.
Speaker 2:That's a good idea.
Speaker 3:You'll make it an ABC thing, for sure, for sure, so sorry.
Speaker 2:The dancing, the dancing thing, for sure, for sure, the dancing the dancing um um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um um um, um, um um um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um yeah.
Speaker 1:Keep looking at it that way, huh.
Speaker 2:Side eye, of course Not karate.
Speaker 1:A tomboy face Fuzz.
Speaker 2:I was at blue, I was at brown to get it, but I stopped. I focused on dancing and singing more.
Speaker 1:I'm done breaking my nails.
Speaker 2:Get me brownie black, but I was a karate girl, so you can teach her something.
Speaker 3:You can teach her something, all right, mr.
Speaker 1:Miyagi. Hey, okay, wax on, wax off, yes.
Speaker 2:They were like oh girl, you is brutal, you got it. I'm girly, but you know I'll beat you up.
Speaker 3:Don't test, my girl Don't test her.
Speaker 2:Yes, that's an interesting fact. I was like I was planning a lot.
Speaker 4:I was planning a lot.
Speaker 2:I was like I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this, I'm going to do this I, but it's good you create a discipline in yourself.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2:Always doing something, always daring, so I never have fear. So if I listen to a show they know, always dancing On the side, always acting, I'm always in it. I'm always in it, yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'll just be the cactus in the back, I'll be the rock.
Speaker 2:They were good cactuses.
Speaker 1:You guys did your best. Listen you guys did your best In school.
Speaker 2:I love it Go cactus.
Speaker 1:I was a cactus In my little play for school. That's what I imagine.
Speaker 2:Was it a traumatic experience or was it? No, it wasn't.
Speaker 1:It was like this little foam thing. You were a cactus, I was a cactus. I'll find the picture. I'll find the picture. I hate this for you. No, it wasn't. It was just like this little foam thing, you were a cactus.
Speaker 3:I was a cactus. I'll find the picture. I'll find the picture.
Speaker 1:Sam, I hate this for you. You were a cactus, I was a cactus, I was a good cactus, though, oh, that was disrespectful. You were a supporting act, 100%, nobody could have never asked me to be a cactus.
Speaker 3:I didn't even doing it for one minute. A cactus, oh hell no.
Speaker 1:But all you saw was my face.
Speaker 4:No.
Speaker 2:It's okay bro.
Speaker 3:Because of a cactus, I at least had to get like a roll up Up front moment. I would dance the cactus Like what a cactus.
Speaker 2:Because of a cactus, I at least had to get Like a roll up Up front moment For me to. Oh, solo I would dance the cactus, something Like what a cactus do what a cactus say yes.
Speaker 1:I'm just chilling as a cactus in the back.
Speaker 2:You didn't even say anything. Minding my own business, ni canta.
Speaker 1:Ni canta.
Speaker 2:I didn't want to.
Speaker 1:I didn't want to. The year after the next year Front row Ah. Bahal in Un poco, it's okay. At least that 100% hey now I go to MC festivals. Okay, it's a progression. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm screwed.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we definitely stick to this.
Speaker 3:It's a beautiful bag. Namo ora For sure.
Speaker 1:Yeah, okay, it's not that.
Speaker 3:Anyway, so music-wise, okay, how important was implementing the dance routine to your music. How? Because in general, or in terms of For you wanting to do this um um, I like creating something around it all around experience visually and like audio exactly, jlo, she did that.
Speaker 2:She gave us a lot. She couldn't sing, for shit. Purba, give the most. Si portaba uno por cantar, at least a head roll, jlo she did that.
Speaker 3:She gave us a lot. She couldn't sing, for shit Pero.
Speaker 2:I did not say that.
Speaker 3:I said it. Yeah, I definitely said it. Jlo, you can't sing, baby. She used Ashanti tracks them vocals from Ashanti. I said it okay, but she gave us a show, every single clip.
Speaker 2:Time, every single time, energy.
Speaker 3:Every single stage. Energy J-Lo gave you a Nice.
Speaker 2:I'm still. I'm still Jenny from the block Used to have a little. Now I have a lot. Hey, I ain't prone.
Speaker 1:Hey, you just forget that little part in the middle.
Speaker 2:It's okay, jennifer, the block is important. She is not that girl.
Speaker 3:Okay, it's not no, beyonce. It's not that you have to know the lyrics. It's Jennifer, the block like it's whatever but yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:So I always incorporate looking at the big artists. So I always go to the cast every weekend. I like to see my shows on TV, I like to see the DVDs of the artists in the concerts live.
Speaker 2:I like to see Jennifer Lopez in her concert in Puerto Rico. She's in her hometown. I like to see her concerts front to back. I like to see Michael Jackson in front to back. I like to see Janet Jackson in her shows live. I like to see Whitney Houston. Anyway, I was already interested in the show and to be like, ooh, I want to create, I want to do this, I want to create things, I want to explore a lot of ideas from scratch and to create from nothing. I want to do something. So it's always going to fascinate me looking at other great artists.
Speaker 3:And then I was like okay, I would like to create shows, so what was the first performance or the first song you felt like you could implement?
Speaker 2:I don't know I want to. I had a song called Saka, which is a good song. It was like a dance hall beat and then I performed at the Regatta Festival in Bonaero and that's how I created a show with dancers, so I had a single dancer. I trained in dance to the choreos, so I did Pida Koi Bon, one of the first beat songs that I did, and I thought, oh, oh, I can do a choreography.
Speaker 2:So I thought, after I finished mellow songs and then I went back to the Caribbean, but back into the dance hall feeling that I could really put that in what's the choreography? Yeah but it's not the the pop and the energy.
Speaker 1:You can pop it like a drop it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah it's more chill and then the girl who comes in is more.
Speaker 1:Okay, show out pop it like a drop it yes, so Tyler push push the star, jump.
Speaker 3:It gives jump, it gives jump I want to say it's like it gives jump, it gives jump.
Speaker 2:It gives jump. It's true, I like this beat. I was like, okay, can we create something in this?
Speaker 3:Jump on something let's make it happen, yes, so normally To create something in this Life, jump on something, let's make it happen and do it in the Caribbean. Yes, yes, so normally, what is your genre?
Speaker 2:Anything Afro, just Afro Zouk. Afro Beat, afro Dancehall, afro R&B. Anything with Afro. I like Caribbean things. In some way we have a Caribbean vibe. I want to be like a Caribbean person. I don't know. I want to visit ABC Islands when I was little. I want to feel proud when I was little. We showcase ourselves In any type of way Music, talent, every which way, in any type of way music and talent. So I really, every week with my por, I have African roots somehow Afrobeat. I mess with that.
Speaker 1:I don't know if you guys already spoke about it on the radio this is the filter. I understand, but maybe you guys already spoke about it for example, people speaking in Dutch or Dutch people speaking in Dutch. I speak in Dutch, so I don't speak in Dutch. Talk about, for example, people who will be in the UN, or Hulanda, or people who will be in the UN.
Speaker 2:I'm from Hulanda, so I'm not from Hulanda, but I'm from Hulanda, so I'm from Hulanda.
Speaker 1:So 10 years ago, oh wow crazy when you start thinking about it.
Speaker 2:Oh, so you were 16 right.
Speaker 1:Oh, yes, 16, so you were 16, right.
Speaker 2:Ooh.
Speaker 4:Yes, 16.
Speaker 2:That's crazy. I finished my studies. I finished my studies in a course, so I finished one. I studied for Pedagogical Learning. I always liked to go to Forty Young, to figure, always like to be part of the young. So think, figure out if you have certain issues, and to talk to you To find out what's the root of that. If you have a behavior that is a little destructive, there's always a root to it. And if you go back to your trauma or go back to your past, you heal that and you heal everything. We have three different ways. So in terms of therapy, which I always liked, I think it's one. But there are things that anything that has to do with psychology, that we have to figure out how to treat different disorders. So I say, but you have to do it. And then I come back to Bonero, and then I went to the music part so I had to watch the radio sing and all, and they were like, oh, but you didn't do anything else or something.
Speaker 1:No darling.
Speaker 2:No, I did. So I went to one. Then I came back, focused on singing hotels radio, everything with music. Then two, focus on singing hotels radio, everything with music. So we're going to do that. But again I said, okay, let me go back to school. And then I went to a pedagogical school Because I had the skills to prepare as a teacher to go back to school In Aruba. I don't know what it's called but MBO.
Speaker 3:Mbo is Marvel. I feel like it's Marvel.
Speaker 4:No Of.
Speaker 1:Colegio Urbano.
Speaker 2:It's because people call me Marvel EPI? Yes, Okay. I'm a teacher at. I'm a teacher at MBO, so I'm a teacher at EPI, so I'm going to incorporate it's something like a PhD, a study program. So I'm going to do my last DSA as a teacher now too. So yeah, two years. So yeah, okay, sammy, jesus, amen, listen. Your mom had you working a schedule right from a young age prepare my powerpoints and deliver my things for my exam.
Speaker 1:But a girl that is motivated- Amen, listen, your mama had you working a schedule right from a young age?
Speaker 2:Yeah, my mom is a teacher at school too, and my mom is also, so basically music and teaching in the family. That's crazy. My mom is into dancing and music and everything. My mom too, and my mom is a teacher and they teach. My mom is a teacher and my dad is a teacher, so I have two teachers in the house, so education was a very important thing in our house. So it was like you can do whatever you want as long as you can go to school.
Speaker 1:Do your thing.
Speaker 2:And then afterwards you go to every party and they do your hobby thing.
Speaker 1:Yes, so your happy ding-a-ches. Yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes. Yes, yes, I need to leave yesterday done yeah, a girl with a day, if I had a moon, done yeah done.
Speaker 4:A girl with a mission, a girl with a mission.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, so yeah so with your what you're going to study in the course, will you be able to implement what you're going to do in your music?
Speaker 2:yes, I think so. Yes, but if I think, in my music in general I don't sing anything negative it's either about love, it's either about enjoying or a way of self empowerment. So if you think about how it correlates, I really feel like if you're not good, you will not good, if you're not good, you will not do damage to others. And so, even though my music doesn't promote anything, if you go down or go down or go- down but it's just, it's self love uplift.
Speaker 2:Yes, it's all about love, it's all about encouragement, being good and being happy with yourself, and when you want it, you can always play music one way or another yeah, okay, and so let's talk about good times.
Speaker 3:So you've been living here for quite some time. I mean, it's an island that you probably isla que más seguro vos estimas. So much, yes. ¿qué tipo de cultura significa?
Speaker 2:Ah cultura de manera criolla. The food and everything, the whole experience of Buneiro. Um, I love it being an island girlie principalmente like food. I love food.
Speaker 1:I love food. What's your go-to?
Speaker 2:Um, yeah, me, but mainly food. I love food, I love food. What should we go to?
Speaker 1:I'm a little bit hungry here. What are the top three? I like a tutu?
Speaker 2:with what Tutu? You have a tutu. Yes, you don't know what a tutu is no. It's a type of bean.
Speaker 3:It's a little bit sweet.
Speaker 4:I had a curacao.
Speaker 1:You don't want it no.
Speaker 2:No, no, damn, I guess not. I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know, I didn't know I didn't know. I didn't know. I just learned something today and I want to try it. I'm so surprised.
Speaker 4:I just learned something today and I want to try it.
Speaker 2:I like food imagine it with beans and you put like salt fish on the side.
Speaker 3:I've been in Hamadou. I can't say I can't be hitting whatever you say.
Speaker 2:Yes no, do you guys have bananas?
Speaker 3:I don't yes, but it's not like a big thing, we go crazy for it yeah.
Speaker 2:I like colostoba galinhas galinhas papaya. What's that slang thing, girl? I don't know. I don't like food, just keep it a book.
Speaker 3:I don't like food.
Speaker 4:We buy food.
Speaker 3:I do too. We buy from the Chinese.
Speaker 1:We buy fast food, we get all of that. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 3:Really good.
Speaker 1:See, that's what I want to eat right now yeah no but we can't not right now not yet, not yet she said not yet, not yet no but yeah, I like the food and the music.
Speaker 4:No, but see, it's not my name.
Speaker 2:it's all like. I like the food and the music is also Korean. I have a lot of great things to say here. When you think of the past, a generation of young people is not into it, but in the future it's growing, but it's a generation of young people who are really alive. It's culture, it's part of the Korean One day you'll never.
Speaker 3:That's what they say. Dia de rincón means something Regata.
Speaker 2:Regata.
Speaker 1:We kind of talked about it this year If it fits in our schedule. But it's not a fit. But regata no next year. See.
Speaker 2:Next year see Next year. Yes, next year. Yes, bonairuta is very, very. Andomita is a very beautiful place with a culture Like. I don't know if you've seen it a lot of times, but I think, when you think about our culture of course traditional rock. No, our Kinana, they love it they love it.
Speaker 3:Okay, so give us what is Dia de Rincón? What is that?
Speaker 2:Dia de R. So back in Erut, you can find a lot of old people in Antillas. Okay, yes, yes, fun fact, let's go. Yes, girl.
Speaker 3:Educate. Let's go maestra. Hello, she is a teacher. For no reason. Educate the people.
Speaker 2:Let's go. Yes, so back in the day you can find a lot of people, you can see Turkish people, but you can feel a little bit back in the day in the traditional area. You would eat traditional food that you sell and the restaurant that you have in Simadán. Before Simadán you were very famous in the harvest period Raining. No, In the harvest period you would have food with a cultural cultural and they're celebrating their cosecha. They sing the re or they're happy because they're happy with they got food now.
Speaker 2:Yeah, this is like a okay but just here is like, okay, yes, just with the focus traditional, okay, but just there is like okay, okay, okay, yes, yes, just focus on what you play in traditional music so you can listen to back in the day with legends of good music that you sing, so they relive it. So actually it points to a little bit of the past and combine it with the future.
Speaker 3:Where we at now.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, when we at now. Yet now, and then you understand that there's a frame in a way before. So I really have a feeling. But when I hear that people are so busy, I can't imagine in this way. It's a carnival. The people who are there and who are talking to me, I find just a little. So you go to the corner, aruba, bonaire, anywhere in Caribbean. We're all together, we all have the same idea and everybody's in a good vibe. So there's no negative vibe. You can film yourself in a three-way. There's a protocol to sing a hymn, there's a show with music, there's dance halls to present and you just walk around. And culture, you can walk around. You know, eat king. You can eat something. That's not easy. You can eat a day, of course.
Speaker 1:For real. I Of course Doesn't help that you're a celebrity. Yes, yes.
Speaker 2:Yes, let's. Dia de Rincón is one of them, with Angelic. Why don't you go? Why don't you go?
Speaker 1:Let's look into it another time. Let's get back to the two seasons, maybe.
Speaker 2:Dia de Rincón vlog no it sounds great.
Speaker 3:Tyler.
Speaker 4:Tyler Ah, with Tyler, god damn it, she's on it, she's on it.
Speaker 3:Listen, don't play. Don't play with my girl Samy, don't do it.
Speaker 2:Okay, I hope you will. No, we will, it has to happen. April we can look into it for sure, you must. It's like May or something. April, april 30th. Okay, we can look into it for sure, we're going to make it happen. Y'all must. We're going to make it happen. We're going to make it happen, we're going to make it happen.
Speaker 4:We're going to make it happen. We're going to make it happen.
Speaker 1:We're going to make it happen.
Speaker 3:We're going to make it happen.
Speaker 2:We you going to be nos?
Speaker 1:no, okay oh he's just looking she's so sweet. He's like oh no, no, I'm okay, she's just fucking with you yeah yeah, yeah, no, but yeah as long as, as long as you're like guillenose, of course I would. She just said yeah, she will. Another fun fact, so I work at my dance hall, as long as you're not getting a nosebleed, of course I would. She just said it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she will, she, will, she will she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will, she will. So anything that's Creole, afro, creole, of course, vampire.
Speaker 4:Girl.
Speaker 1:Wait, what Hold on no.
Speaker 2:No no.
Speaker 1:No, I don't know. Wack. No, boy, boy. No, I'm a stick, yet I'm a stick yet.
Speaker 2:Hello, this is Madame Finata, this is Madame Union. You're running, mach, join back, mach Join. I'm a stick, but you're going to go Kadushi.
Speaker 3:You're going to go Like why would you come all?
Speaker 1:the way here not. To go.
Speaker 3:Yes, the fuck.
Speaker 1:So I'm telling you I don't know that song, I don't know the artist, but I know the song. Okay, sammy.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Don't push it. No, we want to push it To the fucking limit, no.
Speaker 3:You're pushing it.
Speaker 2:Too bad, they can't see this waistline.
Speaker 3:They're about to, though. They're about to, though We'll be done. They're about to.
Speaker 1:God.
Speaker 3:Okay. So speaking about music, I want to talk about radio.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:Radio. What's the station? What's the name of your program? Wow, what's the station? What's the name of your?
Speaker 2:program.
Speaker 1:Wow, how did you get?
Speaker 2:into it. Yes, Radio is. Let me think there's a lady Sulaika. Is it Diaruba Sulaika?
Speaker 2:I know this name Sulaika, frances, but Sulaika is from Diaruba, correct. She has a radio program here and she has a sister who is sick of being in Brazil. And because I knew her, I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like yes, that's why I was hoping on. And then I said I'll do it, I'll do it. So DJ was like Look at schedule, Sammy.
Speaker 3:Here she goes again adding something else.
Speaker 2:So I was like I'm going to do it. And then I had a show with a camera and a short reading with music topics, topics. So I put it live on Facebook, so it's live on television, so the radio is connected to the TV, so it's broadcasting. So in the evening I could click the stuff and the things. I went for a week and I was like, oh, I like this, I enjoy, so now it ends, I come back. I remember a year later my mind was like the radio thing. But I was like that moment I I was like I didn't push it, but it was in the back of my mind I want to do this. So I remember the next year there was a Crips that was on the radio and there was a DJ radio host and he was very good at starting up his radio called Radio Breezy. So I remember he sent me a direct message. He was looking at the news radio host. In my mind I was like there's a sign there's a sign.
Speaker 2:I thought it was a sign. But I said, okay, let me just walk. And then he said there's a message from him. I was like, but seeing this message, I was like, yeah, I accepted. Today is the day. That was the message I got from him. He started a radio and we were walking for like a week and we were trying to do a recommendation and he was like she did it good last year, what about you contact her? And I'm grateful for him, eric. Shout out, shout out. What about you contact her? And so I'm grateful for him, eric.
Speaker 3:Shout out. Shout out to Eric.
Speaker 2:I recommend this and I'm like, yeah, sure, I'm just going to go back to my studio. So I was like, how do I figure out what I'm going to do with my studio? That was the plan. And so I was like, how do I put time in each other? And then I and he asked me for a morning show. So normally office hours are the result of the day. It's the morning. I was thinking how am I going to do it? I said to myself I'm going to do it like Monday, two or three days so, and afterwards I thought I'm going to go all the way, I'm going to do it for a full week. And then I also decided it's time to I have work, I work with you, great and all. But I'm gonna focus on Radio Passion, of course, with my dad.
Speaker 1:So From now on, as a young person, you can take risks. Yes, because once you're in your 40s, yes, you don't have to regret Nothing Correct.
Speaker 2:If you're still a boy, you can think oh, what if yes, just take it that. What?
Speaker 1:if kills you. Yeah, you're gotta be like 67 year olds, like yeah, what if I actually took that radio gig one of my best days of my life?
Speaker 2:yours. Yours, like 5 to 6 years now, happy with it every morning enjoying it.
Speaker 1:The radio is like one of your main things yeah, like I do it daily.
Speaker 2:I have a song, I participate in a song. I have a week with my team, I sing. If I have a song, I will participate in the course. If I have a week, I will sing. I'm sure I will travel by being a performer. I will have a free time but, thanks to God, the radio is flexible. I am happy from the day I came back. I will have a full job. I have the freedom to do whatever I want to do. Music is unpredictable.
Speaker 2:It fluctuates a lot yeah, it's just um, when I have the time of the opportunity, I'm like, if I have the time, do it and then come back. I'm very grateful for that. And six years. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 3:I'm not lying okay, so do you have an intro or do you want to?
Speaker 2:start. I have a radio song, how do you say it? My show is called Morning Flavor, so you can hear it. Yes, yes, yes, yes, that's the intro.
Speaker 1:I'm pretty sure people will watch like hey, I know this, I know this intro, Somebody's gonna, somebody's gonna.
Speaker 3:But loyal listeners. They get a thing to a T yes, and they be like yes and they be like I'm like. One day I'm going to not take it, but I'm going to send a message yes, yes, and the other time I'm going to be back.
Speaker 2:I'm going to send a message to my wife. I'm going to go.
Speaker 1:You know, it's like guys like girls, can't take a vacation, excuse me, yes, radio, not in vacation.
Speaker 2:So I never vacation, because when I go to work, it's work, I don't vacation, vacation it's work it's work.
Speaker 1:I have the same thing. I always have my laptop. I have to edit something, I have to do whatever.
Speaker 2:And then I remind myself look, I'm young now, Great to grind, great to move, but I have to look at the time to enjoy. So I'm always thinking what's the next step, what's the next step? And then I have to look at the momentum. And now You're only this young now reflect on it yes, no reflection. Ooh, that's. That's another topic importante. I feel like hoping you let's talk about that.
Speaker 3:Yes, let's talk about it let's talk about that.
Speaker 2:Let's talk about it.
Speaker 1:Stay in your lane, don't go left, don't go right. Yes, stay in your lane, don't go left, don't go right. Yes, yeah. See, that's it Don't do too much.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and so um me me por ahí para que, según que me te filmen. Ah no, ah me que hacer algo otro, me que me que do things bigger. But in standpoint by environment, I you're used to being with someone and you're sitting here. It becomes a little bit difficult, so you have to randomly, like I said, if you're always like, okay, now I'm going to push out there, sometimes it's okay, sometimes they don't, they don't really like you sometimes, you know, and then I'm like, okay, let's do this. I want to have a good hobby, for each person to take time to reflect on themselves. So I feel like there's a lack of self-love and happiness. When you look at someone else and they're moving, grinding and progressing. You have self-love, you're happy, you're doing what you want and it's not good.
Speaker 3:I know because you're looking for a way to help them.
Speaker 2:Yes, you know what it's like, you know how it feels. So I feel that we're not making it easy. If you have goals, don't be afraid, because then you'll get tired when you see another do it. You'll get tired for no reason. Self love, reflection, positivity is a big mystery. So self-love, reflection, positivity I feel that's missing a lot. And we also choose to bring awareness to it.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, If not you're going to be stuck in a room.
Speaker 2:And bringing awareness.
Speaker 3:there are three of us, Of course. Some heat, some backlash, some. No, I don't want to do your thing. I'm going to shut up. Okay, sweet, but you still sound unhappy, Clearly exhibit.
Speaker 2:A yes. So if you're happy and you're not irritated at all to look at someone shining and you're not irritated at all and you're happy, you don't spite negativity with words that you have and then Like words, you know it's like so I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like I was like it's like oh, I don't want to be around that. I cannot like a reflection of, okay, how we're gonna get better and that's that's something. You should do. That just instead of taking a time, let me see what she is doing or what Shark is doing, or what Kadushi is doing.
Speaker 2:Let me take the time and see what I can do, how I can be better, become aware of yourself. Know your boundaries, figure out yourself important. Know what you can do, what you can do, what you can accept, what you can accept for me important. You know why. What do I achieve? What do I go for? What do I look at? What do I accept, what do I not accept from other people? So, knowing each other is good, but I want to put hope at peace. So, if you have, you know what happens in the traumas of life. We know that you feel stressed, you feel pain. I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I don't know I Okay. If you're going to do it, get over it and deal with it. If you're not starting to do it, if you're with your family or your circle, if you're with your family, if you're with your father, if you're frustrated because the first step is to be frustrated if you're not with your family, maybe you're with a therapist, maybe you're with your father tell them about it so they can help you reflect better on what you're thinking.
Speaker 3:And then you can heal yourself. Let's normalize therapy. People Get help. It's not a bad thing.
Speaker 2:Jesus.
Speaker 1:No, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes.
Speaker 2:Yes, talk to yourself. You know how you do. You did something. You know you were wrong.
Speaker 1:At least I'm aware. Yes, put something.
Speaker 2:Or you can put something wrong and then think okay, next time what can you do to fix it? Take Miami to fix it. I don't know, I don't know. Yes, yes, yes, when?
Speaker 3:I say I don't fix it in half an hour. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in.
Speaker 2:Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami. You can't even live in Miami you can't even live in.
Speaker 1:Miami. You Stop, stop, no Stop, stop. We do it. It takes time sometimes, but you're a very high energy positive person.
Speaker 2:Whatever the low point it would be like. Yes, I remember two years ago I was in the field and I didn't want to sing anymore. I didn't want to do anything else. I was looking for an average job and it's done for me. I was in a period where I was looking for An average job and then it's done for me. So I was in a period when I was feeling like this. So, according to me, I wasn't satisfied With where I was. And then it's funny, because I was Looking around and I was thinking how can I ever think that we see you Doing so much? And, kiko, but I want you.
Speaker 2:You also have a strafe, a thing that puts a strafe in it, and then you have to feel, if you're not doing it, something's wrong. You're not doing it of doing something good. So I gave you a point where I said I want to stop. But I remember when you're going around, you're very motivated. You say no, but you try out something 10 times, 10 times, no, bye, you try 10 times, and then you just keep trying. So don't forget, it's part of the music to stop everything don't forget to get discouraged.
Speaker 2:I was thinking when I was young. I used to put negativity and it would get faster. So there was a period where I was irritated, so I used to put I used to put positivity, it always moves faster.
Speaker 1:Why are you mad?
Speaker 2:What are you to you? How does this bother you? I don't have a big issue. I don't have a big issue with my friends doing something, or you know, they're not happy with themselves. So I'm like bring that. And then I was like, okay, done, I stopped thinking about the negativity part. I didn't want to be a slave of a country to open up. So no, I'm just going to keep going. So I started looking at what's going on with the world here. So I started thinking I'm just gonna keep going. And then I look at it and two years later I'm here with the award. And then I'm going to get up and tell myself, hey, we see, I don't know, I look at a difference in my body. I'm glowing in some way, because two years ago it was not, but it was just I'm not with a better moisturizer. No, it was just whole inner inside. I started feeling better and to feel more confident and to think you do better, you act better yes it's a domino effect of good energy yes, and to that's.
Speaker 2:That's that moisturizer?
Speaker 4:guys moisturize and facials the gym.
Speaker 2:Let's go tambi, you know. I hate the gym yeah, yeah, you gotta hit the gym. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you gotta hit the gym, or you're good, I gotta, I've been slacking, you're good.
Speaker 1:No, I'm good, I've been slacking, I've been slacking. But like I'm good, I'm getting back into it, but it's like this oh.
Speaker 2:Consistent book a man.
Speaker 1:My schedule, the structured way. What's that?
Speaker 2:Ah, so your schedule.
Speaker 1:And I can wake up in the morning and be like is it like excuse or? No, it's saying let's change the topic.
Speaker 2:Oh but I wanted to know, like, but that's why.
Speaker 1:A lot on my plate.
Speaker 2:A lot on your plate. I just never make it.
Speaker 1:We just never make it, because I'm working all day and I'm like I go at least twice a week, but I used to go like five, six times a week. That's a first hill. Yeah, do you feel it?
Speaker 2:Oh, 100% Energy low, energy is low and everything. Trust me.
Speaker 1:I used to be very no, no, damn right, you can find ways to do things if you want to do them.
Speaker 2:Just a question If the camera is on, you don't turn it off. No, it's not like that.
Speaker 1:It's just that the battery is dead.
Speaker 4:Okay, okay.
Speaker 1:Yes, normally when I turn it on, people are like hey, turn it off and I don't turn it off.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 1:So you don't turn a laptop in the hotel.
Speaker 3:That's what I work on before.
Speaker 1:And then I put it in my lap, do you?
Speaker 2:want to see it. No, I'm just looking. Yeah, exactly that.
Speaker 1:It's like a bully episode, you know, but it's not a bully.
Speaker 2:But scientifically, if you're active for 30 minutes, it's okay.
Speaker 1:I almost broke my jump rope. I didn't bring it.
Speaker 2:Almost.
Speaker 1:I left in a hurry. I forgot on the sofa.
Speaker 2:Guys, this is how not to be when you want to achieve goals.
Speaker 3:Amen.
Speaker 2:You know what?
Speaker 3:Speak facts, baby Wait till.
Speaker 1:You see me in fucking Rincon when.
Speaker 2:I come back Next year Deal Deal.
Speaker 3:Deal, oh, it's on camera. Deal, deal, it's on camera.
Speaker 1:Are we doing wait?
Speaker 3:Uh-huh, I Not just weight and schedule, because you're not going to try to make it one thing only and no weight and schedule.
Speaker 1:Because the weight equals the result. So if I go twice a week or six, I have to have like, are you?
Speaker 3:talking about schedule for life, because clearly your life schedule is not correct.
Speaker 1:No, we're talking about weight right now.
Speaker 3:Don't try to make it seem nice now.
Speaker 1:No, I'm talking about physically.
Speaker 2:Physically, if I talk about how physically you will see physically different six pack body less fat, lower body fat percentage, for sure more definition.
Speaker 3:You have a whole year a whole year less than a year.
Speaker 1:Either way, I'll show you Before picture and I'll come. I'll come back to this.
Speaker 2:No, I don't want to. Ah, it's weird I don't want to, I don't want to, I don't want to, I don't want to. Yes, you don't want to, yes. No no, no, I don't like it. I don't like it.
Speaker 1:Oh God damn, let me show you. Keep talking, I'll come back to it.
Speaker 2:Okay, okay, okay, deal, I love it. I love it, god damn.
Speaker 1:Shit, what did I do?
Speaker 3:Okay, so let's talk musical inspiration. Yes, Okay so from my understanding, we had this conversation already, so you did the. I don't want to call it slow music, but you did like the lower tempo. Yeah, now tap more into like the up tempo, but kind of mentioned cool like beyonce was one of your musical inspirations performance wise yes yes, yes, performance wise. Yes, michael Jackson, the Janet.
Speaker 2:Jacksons? Yes, whoa Exactly.
Speaker 3:That's the facial reaction for me.
Speaker 2:She was like so now, like I've been listening to you like before, before, before, before Before.
Speaker 4:Before, before, before, before, before, before, before, before Before.
Speaker 1:Before than COVID.
Speaker 2:before COVID so you were ready for if the world here I was training for a triathlon.
Speaker 1:Wow, it's a pro sprint, can you?
Speaker 2:just do this for me to just just check it just to see something I like oversized shirts.
Speaker 3:That's it you can come up. Yeah, for you, yeah it's there, it's there.
Speaker 1:You know muscle memory is a thing, so see no, that's why, back in tense.
Speaker 2:It's gonna pop like.
Speaker 1:That's why I know, I'll be back interesting
Speaker 2:we're gonna see this.
Speaker 4:I love it.
Speaker 2:I love it great shape.
Speaker 1:I'm very happy.
Speaker 2:Anyways, let's go back, put a reminder like the day of the goal the day of the. Put a reminder every Monday like Dia de Rincón Go, dia de Rincón Go. Just.
Speaker 1:Sam Martin's watching.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, I'm watching.
Speaker 1:Kadushi, I'm watching.
Speaker 2:Yeah, your phone screen saver. Follow me on Instagram.
Speaker 1:Oh shit, like hey, I'm watching, I'm watching gym, I don't post anything.
Speaker 2:Every Monday. Just a reminder Today is. I would have been 27 Every 27.
Speaker 3:No, I was 28, I was 29, actually Sorry what.
Speaker 1:I was 27, what I was 27.
Speaker 3:Oh, I changed my phone thing, that's why. Oh I was 27, yeah, I thought I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28. I was 28, I'm 28. I'm not paying for cookies, okay, makes total sense.
Speaker 1:Hey, it's your birthday in exactly one month, I know, hey.
Speaker 2:How old are you? 25?
Speaker 3:32. Okay, 32? Yeah, I love my birthdays, I love aging Really.
Speaker 2:Can you show me 32? That's why you like it. No, I don't care. Oh, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 3:Okay, okay, I just love aging. I like to celebrate an era like okay, now we in, like my you know 32 era. You know, this is what we doing, this is the knowledge.
Speaker 1:This is where you at mentally, especially like with documenting to see the growth why would I say that don't go, look at our first episodes no, ooh, but trigger me, didn't catch it.
Speaker 2:And the walking on the delante in pool, hey in hotel hope you send it.
Speaker 3:Okay, do you freestyle?
Speaker 2:not really. I can try, not me, I'm beat go for it.
Speaker 1:Why are you looking okay?
Speaker 3:so wait, okay, so this, this is what we're going to do. Okay, you have to give us one balashi, one magic mango, oh, shit, and then one chili oh you want to.
Speaker 1:You want to use the words. You have to use those names, these names okay. Put you on the spot.
Speaker 2:Whoa okay, no.
Speaker 1:No filter, no corrections.
Speaker 3:You that girl, it is what it is. You that girl, hide me up. Let's go you that girl. Don is what it is. You that girl, hide me up, let's go, you that girl.
Speaker 2:Don't play with it, okay, okay.
Speaker 1:Oh, we doing this.
Speaker 2:A veribachel, nos da un mango, nami da un balache, pa vos mira how your man go, you know what she did.
Speaker 1:You know what she did Got up Distract, distract, distract, distract, distract Behind your man go Leah, I get it.
Speaker 2:I used all the words.
Speaker 3:I did, you did, you did, I did that you did, nicki Minaj.
Speaker 2:Nicki Minaj I didn't know, I didn't know Nicki Minaj.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm a Barb. Oh, I'm a Barb and I'm a Navy, so I don't know shit, I love it, yeah.
Speaker 2:So don't know shit, I love it, yeah. Do not comment on say for me rap freestyle. I'm not a rapper, you're not.
Speaker 3:So we fucks with this.
Speaker 2:Yes, we fucks with it. Heavy on it.
Speaker 3:Yes, yes, yes, oh, let's go, okay, sorry.
Speaker 1:Sorry, sorry, I had fucking spot because why not, you know?
Speaker 2:like why? Yes, and the man at least no, it's giving.
Speaker 3:Okay, it's definitely giving even a holler just saying so, kadushi's petty too.
Speaker 1:Just a little bit, just a little bit no, I palm.
Speaker 2:You did great yeah, yeah, yeah, you gave the names. You did all of that and you're not a rapper so and guys.
Speaker 3:I used the body and guess what? They still saw. They still saw that waistline. They still saw the waistline. I was like the human era of otro. I have to show it. They still saw the human era of otro. I'm to show it, they still show it.
Speaker 4:This is my moment this is my moment.
Speaker 2:That's how you do it though that's how you win in life.
Speaker 3:Okay, you seize opportunities.
Speaker 2:God damn it. Manifesting deal. I'm coming for you let's go 27 27 27 ok three days prior to you're like at a taco bell.
Speaker 1:I was gonna be drunk on his birthday.
Speaker 2:Oh, what you like taco bell no, I'm, I wasn't. He was drunk on his birthday. Oh what? Did you ever go to Taco Bell?
Speaker 1:No, I've never been to Taco Bell I wasn't, you didn't know right Like new food chains, so you're not supposed to go to KFC.
Speaker 2:I went to.
Speaker 1:KFC Okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:But I'm not going to lie, it's a Jew, thank God please don't come to me Because you don't have to you don't have to. You don't have to Because, look, when I was a kid, I used to eat healthy, but when I was a kid I was always drunk. So I used to go to McDonald's Kiko Kiko and eat.
Speaker 3:Guys, don't do that, it's just for my goals. Good morning. Good morning I'm going to say something. Yeah, I love keep that recipe because we fucked it up, okay? Oh man, one minute. I have a smokehouse, I have a giant smoker.
Speaker 2:I'm putting like brisket, you're putting this extra, extra high.
Speaker 1:One with a fucking wok.
Speaker 3:Too many options. We got way too many options, and that's why people don't really cook.
Speaker 1:I'm like keep it coming out.
Speaker 2:I'm in a struggle Like keep it on the stove, I don't want to. I don't want to if I can buy it but you can buy home cooked healthy food.
Speaker 3:That's the difference.
Speaker 1:I used to buy meal plans.
Speaker 2:That's what I used to do guys, by the way she knows, in the meal plans.
Speaker 1:Si, oh, there you go.
Speaker 2:Ting ting, ting ting, that's what I used to do Ting si, si, si si. That's what I was in shape, guys. By the way, mi porco si, mi porco at my mama's day. She knows mi porco si, I just don't want to. All the guys be watching For anyone that is wondering or done it, then you're not for me.
Speaker 3:So what is your relationship status? Let's just jump on it.
Speaker 2:Wow, we're going deep. That's service level Now that it's the end. It's, it's single and it's dead.
Speaker 1:Is it staying dead or? Are you trying to revive it, not even mingling, I don't even come at me.
Speaker 2:It's a choice, a choice that I make For a while. If I reflect and think, if I stop, I do better when I'm alone and really focused, which goals-wise I'm better, my mind is clearer, I'm more relaxed. So if I can reflect back on that, yes, you have more peace.
Speaker 1:Yes, I don't know who I'm talking to. Who I'm talking to, it's not bullshit.
Speaker 3:But was this based off of your last relationship?
Speaker 2:or yeah, my last was like more than 6 years ago. My last relationship, my last relationship, was more than 6 years ago, according to me. So, yeah, at one point I was open to it. I didn't end up open to it. I think you're right, you never rush anything.
Speaker 2:I really believe in that. I want to, I want to, I want to be conscious, I want to, I want to fly by, not to my band or to another band. I want to be, I want to be, I want to be transparent. Fly by, yeah. So neither for my band nor for the other band. So I'm with a friend who is very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very, very. But I like to talk with people when it's transparent, not on the phone, but I mean in communication or what's going on. I like transparency, I like good communication.
Speaker 2:So yeah, I like to get there easily.
Speaker 3:But you like to talk to people, you like to communicate with people too.
Speaker 2:Yes, For example, if I want to meet someone, I like to talk. Or if I want to meet someone, I like to have a conversation, I like to talk, for example. Or getting to know someone, I like to have a conversation, I like having deep conversations like service levels and I don't like that. But if you don't have the service levels, how do you get to know you?
Speaker 1:how do you get to match or not ambition? What do you do?
Speaker 2:I'm in a moment where I'm just getting to know you just talking, there's still nothing going on. And when I got there, the convo was very surface and I was like, honestly, I feel like we still have a chemistry that we automatically have. We still have chemistry to go deep in the convo. It's not something that you can force, and so I was very honest with him. I feel like we're forcing it to go deep and that just was very honest with him. And I feel like we're forcing it to go deep and that just means maybe we're not aligned.
Speaker 2:And I'm also very honest, I like issues with problems and drama. So if it's not going, it's not going. I'm not afraid at all. I've been there for years. It's not an issue at all. I want to be content with myself. I just need to find a plus one to match that. I need to be conscious. I have things I love. I have things I want to do. I need to have worked on my own things.
Speaker 2:I don't want to be a burden to myself. I don't want to be. I need to have worked on my own things. I really like, uh, chill life.
Speaker 1:No, just talk to me, I talk to you, yeah you know it's a good thing right now, early 20s, like don't get in a relationship, don't do it like have fun, explore, enjoy, experiment as much as you can, do as many things as you can yeah, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1:I like that you said that 100%, because if you're at 23, you don't know what the fuck you want exactly yes, I mean if you can push the relationship a little bit like 26, 27, that's when you feel like you should. What about figure?
Speaker 2:out that make sorry if I can just add to that.
Speaker 3:I feel like what I always tell, like a lot of the the kids that I talk to, is always like that younger age, don't be in a relationship but date exactly we have to normalize, especially in our cultures dating. Dating does not mean you're sleeping with somebody. Dating does not mean you're exclusive with somebody. It just means you're getting to know people. You're getting to know different types of people, to know, like, hey, you know what. This is something I might be able to put up with completely. It's a.
Speaker 2:It's a red flag for me I'm not done.
Speaker 3:I'm not done okay and then that, if that evolved, that evolution to me is what takes you to. You get that is, layers of you getting to know yourself to a certain level when you get to a certain age. Now you're understanding. These are what I'm okay with.
Speaker 4:This is not what I'm okay with.
Speaker 3:I'm okay to put up with this, with a specific type of person Like you know what you are worth it for me to say, hey, you know, cause you're not never going to find a perfect person, but you're going to find somebody that's be like you know what You're worth it and I'll accept. I'll accept your nasty ways.
Speaker 1:Is this dating? Is this dating phase?
Speaker 3:This is when this is what your dating is, what takes you to understanding what type of person you want in a relationship and where you kind of want to go to me. It makes your mindset clearer of it's.
Speaker 1:it's not easy, though it's not it's not easy, though it's hard.
Speaker 3:It's not supposed to be easy, but this is why you date.
Speaker 1:No, I understand you're not gonna get, even if. Even if you're dating, I always believe like the first year is, like it's called, the honeymoon phase, and though, once you get together, but once you become a couple, dating that you, I understand, but are you saying like oh, I don't like this. I don't like this? For example, you can pick that up in the in the early phases, but once you buy, once you're going to see a different part of this person, but once you?
Speaker 1:live together that's where you're going to learn who the real person is you see you're taking it to like relationship.
Speaker 3:Already I'm talking about the dating phases. So, like the younger people, date, get to know people, get to know figure those things out.
Speaker 2:I fully agree, and it's sad enough that I think when you're in a culture where you're not looking at things normally and that's my part, especially when I'm with people I know so I'm very, very still. I'm very mindful to the point that I don't take the time to go out on a date, so I'm just doing it to show that I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 4:So I'm just doing it.
Speaker 2:So I'm just doing it. I'm just robbing myself of getting to know people. And if I'm in a relationship, I'm just doing it to show that I'm in a relationship. I'm just doing it. I'm just doing it. I'm just doing it. I'm just doing it.
Speaker 3:But it's not too late. It's not too late.
Speaker 4:It's not too late. It's not too late, it's not too late. It's not too late, it's not too late.
Speaker 3:It's not too late. It's not too late. It's not too late. It's not too late. It's not too late. It's not too late. It's not too late, it's not too late.
Speaker 2:It's not too late. I like it because they're doing it and I'm like, but I see them doing it, I'll do that too, taking notes.
Speaker 3:Imagine doing that with somebody else, though did you say you know what, let's go to a movie date, let's go to a movie, and then after that, you're going to sit down and say let's go to the parking lot. That's hard, that's hard to do.
Speaker 2:On the good air.
Speaker 3:I want to, especially in our area. It's harder to approach because you look so already polished, you look so Strong. Women are intimidating to men in general. So weak man, so no.
Speaker 2:It is Strong men, don't get intimidated.
Speaker 3:But those cocky dudes where they at, they're already taken probably, or on a whole different level, doing other things. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but those are the guys who they step to you like what's good, what's good, what's good, that's a nigga like sweep me up, daddy.
Speaker 2:It's true. It's true. We don't have the possibility to date without being judged or anything. It's our culture, but it's sad enough.
Speaker 1:It's tough. We have to make it clear, though we have to make it clear.
Speaker 2:And for us to get to know each other, it's even more. I'm still more tough. So I'm like Okay, I'm thinking, the day you see me with someone, that's my man.
Speaker 1:Yeah, at this point the day, you see me with someone, it's because he's my man, yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. We don't mean that, yeah, chill.
Speaker 3:But no guys Date. I think dating is good. It's healthy.
Speaker 1:I'm good.
Speaker 3:Oh wait, last thing Real quick, sammy. What's up with this name?
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, the double eyes Semi.
Speaker 3:Semi. What's up with this name? Oh yeah, semi. Ah yes.
Speaker 2:The double. I's yes, semi. In Korean it's originally Semi Semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi, semi. That's what makes it the thing, though it's like so people can get it right Martin, martin. Okay, so, martin Martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin, martin Martin. My mom is from Santa Maria, smc. Hey, that's easy, that's some gangster shout-outs.
Speaker 2:Hold it for me. Yes, so my dad's name is Martin, but I've been looking for him for over 10 years. I've never met. Martin. My family is from Martin, but it's A barely so I don't know. I don't know Martin's name. That's why I love it even more.
Speaker 1:Unique. Yes, my family, susebake my family, my family is the only one in Aruba. What's your name? Susebake, susebake, susebake Dutch.
Speaker 2:Kadushi Susebake Kadushi Susebake Kadushi.
Speaker 1:Susebake, what a name. I think it's a.
Speaker 2:Korean name that we can invent.
Speaker 1:Please invent it.
Speaker 2:Lamb duck, banana bread and other Kadushi Susebake, kadushi Susebake.
Speaker 1:What's going on with this name? I'm waiting for you to pick up.
Speaker 4:She picked it up.
Speaker 2:She picked it up she picked it up Sprinkle, sprinkle, sprinkle.
Speaker 1:Yo motherfuckers, okay, sorry, sorry, no, no, no, it's okay.
Speaker 3:And if we did Now, what Nah?
Speaker 1:I'm going to tear you up. I'm going to tear you up.
Speaker 2:Hey Kadushi, this Ruby does.
Speaker 4:He's done, Okay. Samir Kadushi, Susebe Kiko.
Speaker 2:Uh-huh Kadushi Susebe.
Speaker 1:Yes, Tutu.
Speaker 2:Tutu Kadushi Susebe. Yes, magis get adopted, tutu.
Speaker 3:Come on. Come on, it's a thing, it can be a thing. Alright, my love.
Speaker 2:Tyler. Hey this is it. Lip gloss, lip gloss. My lip is sick, I can't believe.
Speaker 3:Damn no, poor sick my lip gloss. I can't believe. Damn no poor Shark no poor Boy.
Speaker 2:What's good? No.
Speaker 1:And let me have a question. I'm back to the relationship stuff.
Speaker 2:Oh.
Speaker 1:So keep up with type oh, I can't get there, I can't get there.
Speaker 2:Shark, I'm trying to kill some time Kadushi this is.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to kill some time.
Speaker 2:Kadushi, you're going to be deep.
Speaker 1:You're going to be deep. Oh, you're going to be deep.
Speaker 2:Sorry You're going to be deep. You're going to be deep Type.
Speaker 1:Although I do want Shark to hear this. So you're going to clap back on part of the.
Speaker 2:You better run Shark. I'm going to sing a hard song, or Shark is going to come back here. No, Like it might marinate For a while Like it's temporary, like it's cooked.
Speaker 1:Okay, god damn, I'm not quite. I'm just gonna try, because you're coming back here, he comes. No, we wanted to wait for you Because I feel like it's something you need to hear, because you love shit. You love shit like this.
Speaker 4:Perfect Thank you now the lips the glossy, and now we're ready.
Speaker 2:Uh-huh, so sad. Glossy, and now we're ready we ain't cutting that shit.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna replay it in slow-mo. So what type type type interesting wait, that's me who.
Speaker 3:Who?
Speaker 2:a guy, a guy oh wow, okay, listen okay, to be honest, physically, I don't have a specific color of color, so I like energy, so I'm drawn to energy. I don't have a specific color of hair, so I like to have energy, so I like to be drawn to energy, to have a vibe and match. But now, honestly, I do like a fit man. When you're training, when you're working, when you're doing important self-care what?
Speaker 3:did you say?
Speaker 2:I'm an old me. I'm 31, maybe let's talk.
Speaker 2:I like it. If we start with the physical. I like it, you know, maintaining your gym, your body. You know, because I do like it. I want it to match. But it has to be like this, otherwise I don't know. So I want it play a match and I know how to do it. Otherwise I don't know how to do it. So I want to be part of it. But internally, if I think about it, I don't have a specific. If I walk back, no one knows that I have a bad thing or something. So it depends on the moment, the conversation, the communication. I like people who don't talk. I like people who like to eat at the show. I like to communicate. I like people who are not women. I like women who like to eat. I like to eat at restaurants. I want a party person. So it won't match with me Because I'm not a party person at all. So people who have an important education. I'm sorry, I don't discriminate anything, but I like an educated man.
Speaker 1:Nothing wrong with that you know good things?
Speaker 2:stabilize a man. Si, si, si, si. No cometa exigiendo por abo, take care of me.
Speaker 1:No, pero we both have to be stabilized just getting our income, o en el culto, en gol mission que tu mira su mes crece anto, mmm, si no, hay que comer más si no hay, I feel like I'm going to eliminate 80% of the women I have Like, fuck, that's not me. Check, check, check, fuck, I'm going to die.
Speaker 3:What else can you add to a type I don't know girl.
Speaker 2:I don't date girl, I don't date. I don't like liars at all.
Speaker 4:I don't like liars at all.
Speaker 2:I don't like dishonest people at all. I don't like people who aren't loyal at all. I don't like people who are problematic. I don't like people who are always you like people who are always like that yeah. I don't like people who are always like that.
Speaker 3:I don't like people who are always like that. I don, for sure, for sure, and you're a person who's a master for allowing you to shine.
Speaker 2:that's, that's that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's that's that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's, that's that, and I'm okay with that. But I do feel like I don't like what I see in the spotlight or I feel insecure like that, like I don't know what to do with my partner. But I want to eventually get to the point where I don't want to have a DJ because, knowing me as a person, as I said, I have a hope, a transparent hope, that I can do something that I'm very, very, very respectful to the one that I'm with, in the sense that, um, I always tell, I always tell that I know that I like to open the door to flirtations if I'm in a relationship.
Speaker 2:Okay, I know that I have certain boundaries that I can maintain. So, um, I do not respect someone who, um, if I have commitment, maintain it. I do not respect someone who has a commitment and things going on and has a space to say I don't do that, I don't do that.
Speaker 2:So if I'm with you, I'm with you. So if I'm singing, performing or singing with a king or an artist, I don't care, because if I'm with you, I'm with you. I mean, I'm talking about my relationship with my father. I'm with you, I'm with you because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with you because if I'm with you, I'm with you, because if I'm with you, I'm with no exterior like that, but but I don't know if I'm going to look for a woman or if I'm going to open it up here.
Speaker 2:I'm like, yes, interesting, but but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but, but If it's you, it's you.
Speaker 3:If it's you, it's you, I don't care about that.
Speaker 2:But if it's you, it's you. If it's you, it's you, it doesn't matter to me. It's my peace of mind and I have that with you. It doesn't matter to me. Risk a good relationship with someone I know. The grass is not greener at the other side, people, but by now them being single. We need to know that. We need to know that no, risk something beautiful For something Temporary. We're not doing that.
Speaker 3:That's my. That's one of my favorite songs oh Love that song Okay, sorry, I will sing it. Oh, I love that song Really. Yes, okay, sorry, I will ask you.
Speaker 2:I will ask you yes, what is good? Okay, wait, I have to wheel it up. My face is not Okay, so there's a camera behind.
Speaker 3:Yes, and tell us, sammy, what, according to me, is good.
Speaker 2:Good. Good is tranquility. That's the best thing. The best thing is to have a mass movement here in Antioquia. We have a way to be with our children, so we have to have rest and chill. That's the best thing. I said my baby before I came back, because I like chill. I like when my child is in a world of pressure, I like being in like when you're in a world of pressure and you're in a quietness. That's what I like about you love it, love it alright alright guys, so Tyler, come on, we're done alright, guys, sammy, thank you for watching what happened.
Speaker 1:So we're done All right guys. Sammy, thank you for watching what's up.
Speaker 3:We didn't do the dance.
Speaker 1:There is no dance.
Speaker 2:She's trying to avoid it. Yes, she's trying to avoid it. Close it off, and then we're going to do the dance.
Speaker 3:We're going to do shit.
Speaker 1:Yes, Anyways, Sammy, thank you for watching.
Speaker 4:Thank you for bringing the energy. I think this I'm going to tell you now.
Speaker 1:This is the longest podcast we've done on this season.
Speaker 3:Wait, it went long.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's an hour and a half. Oh shit, how long did it take I?
Speaker 1:don't know how long did it take?
Speaker 2:I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1:I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 2:10 maximum 40 10 I won same shit with Amy.
Speaker 1:You know longest podcast.
Speaker 4:I told you same fucking energy, god damn, we didn't even know it was a race we didn't know it was a race.
Speaker 1:Anyways, guys, I hope you enjoyed episode A. I hope you got to know St Martin, another DJ. If you're that guy that hit that checklist slams with DMs, that's right, don't approach her personally.
Speaker 3:Please do not slide in the. Dms random guy, random guy.
Speaker 2:I don't like sliding in DMs. Maybe it's a red flag, maybe it's a red flag of mine, maybe it's a red flag of me.
Speaker 1:Okay, how, how is this person even gonna meet up with you like?
Speaker 4:you wanna stalk her like hey.
Speaker 1:I find you attractive. Would you like to grab coffee? Boom, done that approach.
Speaker 3:I feel like a man that is prone to rejection is more of a man like if he is okay with walking up in front of my friends and saying, hey, what's?
Speaker 4:up, that's a strong.
Speaker 3:That's a strong nigga. Okay that, to me, is a man versus okay if he's a man, he's a man and he's a man and he's a man and he's a man and he's a man and he's yeah it's not.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly, it's not, it's not, it's not, I'm going to reply to a story with a heart.
Speaker 4:It's like I know you don't take it seriously oh no, that's not gonna it, ain't it it ain't it.
Speaker 3:I'm not mad at that, sis. I'm not mad at that. It ain, I'm not mad at that If it's not business.
Speaker 2:If it's business, we're talking.
Speaker 3:But if it's business, send me a text from the city too, don't send me a text.
Speaker 2:Yes, yes, okay, bitch, what the fuck I'm going to be like. I'm going to be like I'm going, even opening that message.
Speaker 1:I'm not even opening that message no-transcript.
Speaker 2:I'm not even opening that message, I'm not even opening that message.
Speaker 3:I'm not even. Okay, you are not a man with balls. Okay, you are not a man with balls. You are not a man with balls.
Speaker 2:You are not a man with balls. Amen. You are not a man with balls. Amen. You are not a man with balls Amen.
Speaker 1:Thank you for watching the episode. Subscribe, leave a comment and we will be back with another episode Peace Bye. Thank you for watching this episode. Subscribe, leave a comment and we'll see you next time. Peace.