Ambition Without Compromise

91 | Designing a Slow-Season Sabbatical, Exactly How I Did It

Monique R. Shields

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This week, Monique walks us through how she designed her July slowdown and worked at 30% capacity on purpose.

She shares why the pause was not about burnout, vacation, or checking out. It was about making room to think, create, rest, play, and reset before life and work became too full again.

Monique also talks about the fears that can come up around rest, including the fear of losing money, momentum, reputation, or progress. She explains why pausing does not have to mean losing something and how planning ahead can make rest feel safer and more supported.

As she breaks down how she planned the month, Monique shares the role of vision, clear expectations, blackout dates, boundaries, and choosing what truly belongs on the calendar. She also offers practical ways to decide what stays, what moves, and what can wait.

This episode is a clear reminder that you do not need a perfect setup to design a pause. You can start by deciding what the space is for, protecting it with intention, and allowing yourself to make room for what your mind, body, and life are asking for.

GEMS DROPPED

“​We ​talk ​about ​giving ​ourselves ​permission ​to ​do ​things. ​And ​I ​think ​that ​the ​permission ​comes ​once ​we ​believe ​that ​we ​deserve ​it ​or ​that ​something ​is ​actually ​a ​necessity ​to ​us, ​and ​that ​we ​can ​have ​it.”

“Pausing for me is not about just doing nothing. It’s just making room for what matters.”

“You do need to start with a vision. Your vision, the vision you set for yourself is really the anchor, and it's what allows you to say no, without flinching. It's ​what ​allows ​you ​to move ​with ​a ​lot ​more ​confidence”

“You ​can ​design ​whatever ​you ​want ​and ​need ​for ​yourself. You ​don't ​need ​a ​perfect ​setup. It's ​a ​generative ​exercise. ​It's ​about ​cultivating ​something ​important ​within ​yourself ​and ​in ​your ​life, ​and ​you ​can ​give ​yourself ​over ​to ​it ​and ​then ​decide ​what ​it's ​for ​for ​you ​and ​protect ​it.“​

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