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K-way Season 1 Episode 7

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A lot of people want to debate music like it exists in a vacuum, but we don’t live in a vacuum. We’re talking about the real world where “jokes” about George Floyd get laughs, where celebrity worship turns grown people into unpaid defenders, and where Black pain gets minimized the moment it becomes inconvenient. I share why that kind of comedy isn’t harmless, why I’m done with excuses, and what it says about us when we stay silent in the room. 

From there, I get personal about racism and profiling, including the way treatment changes when people think you’re an athlete, and what it felt like navigating hostile spaces like Texas A&M. I connect those experiences to the constant vigilance a lot of us carry, the fear that can come with crowds, and the hard question of whether it’s worth bringing kids into a world that can turn dangerous fast. If you’ve ever felt your nervous system stay stuck on high alert, you’ll understand exactly where I’m coming from. 

We also hit life updates like wedding planning, premarital counseling, therapy, forgiveness, and the kind of boundaries that protect your peace. Then I go all the way in on the Drake conversation, the fan culture around him, the streaming record headlines, and why I keep coming back to one point: fuck the music, we talking about the character. If you care about accountability, anti-Blackness, and how parasocial relationships shape our standards, this one is for you. 

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Cold Open And The Tone

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Drake makes music for men that wear denim blue dream shorts to an all-inclusive resort. And women that crush up their plan B pills to put in their drink. Let's start the show.

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In the government played test with a stolen boy. Jordan saw the slame hands with the mouth. Then they call it fair with a belly box. Tell me who's still there. Take our boys to make confusion. But I see the team, I see the stuff. I see the dog gets what it's to vote. And it hurt my chest when I heard him laugh. White mouth on the black pennies for that while it's gonna still be what the headline for my sister need a stuff and step with the people who forget that with a full bit of make it stick a bad and I'm picking the students and be done if they didn't have a flow on the flow. Every boot on the spoon made the next step. I was buried in the tea.

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Yes, yes, yes. Welcome back to another edition of Heavy on the RB with your man K Way. That is me, he is I. Welcome back, people. What is week seven? This is very consistent, unlike me, should I say. I'm

Gratitude, Consistency, And Being Private

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very proud of myself because my my fiance will tell you every day I just don't be feeling like doing shit. Like I don't, I mean, like, I don't know, man. Sometimes I feel like it ain't worth the create, but um man, I I really appreciate all of the feedback and the comments, the positivity that I'm getting on the pod. Um, man, everybody just checking me out and just and just showing love, man. I I think it's good to to uh get that genuine love, that genuine connection. So yeah, man, I I appreciate everybody that has checked me out, man. BXc Money, uh Black Humminbird, Carolyn McDuffie, Concept, Kat Williams, Mariposa, Justin Hunt, Lloyd Racer, M Reed, Miss Hummus, uh the Catherine, uh Dr. P, Dre Taylor, man, um, gosh, at gosh, gosh darn it. Um, shoot, who am I missing? Breezy Blue, uh, Zachary Harris, man, so many people that I've seen send those comments over, and I appreciate it because it is very difficult in a world full of uh muddy waters to try to create substance on a weekly basis, let alone on a daily basis. That's why I don't I don't know if I could like do reactions and stuff. Like, I'm thinking about um recording myself because I mean I got all this, I got a drone, I got two drones. Hey, I got the Osmo Action 6, and of course I got the greatest phone in the world, the S26 Ultra by Samsung, and then our our cameras are amazing, so yeah, man. I got everything I need, but part of me is like I kind of like being underground. Um, you know, I I put up a post thanking people for 200 followers. I know in the grand scheme of things, that's not a lot on YouTube, not a lot at all. But I look at it as if I was in a room and 200 people had their eyes on me and they was asking me questions and they was commenting commenting on things that I've you know, so I would probably be overwhelmed. Yeah, I'm getting overwhelmed just thinking about it. So 200 people, whether it's is in real life or I don't even I wouldn't even talk, I don't even have, I wouldn't even invite 200 people to my wedding. I am a very like private, um recluse, like I'm I'm a chill person. I'm very um I'm very routine. Like I live in a routine, you know. I'm I gotta be at the gym at a certain time, or it ain't gonna happen. I gotta be at my in in my evening workout, which I'm going directly to after this, or it ain't gonna happen. Like I just I'm I'm very like to myself and I observe a lot and I don't let a lot of people in. So man, letting 200 people subscribe, subscribe to my channel, check out my content, and pay attention to the words that are coming out of my mouth, and the words of Chris Tucker, um it's a blessing, and I'm gonna keep going no matter how hard it it is, because I mean well, I'm probably what a day late recording this and and putting this out, but somebody will find it, man. So yeah, man, uh week seven, we here. Seven in in biblical terms. I think this is week seven. Um, in biblical terms, seven means perfection or completion. And uh sevens and eights are all riddled throughout my birthday. I

Week Seven Meaning And New Beginnings

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ain't gonna give you my birthday, but it's it's all that's pretty much you know riddled throughout my birthday. Eight means new beginnings. And I remember as a young kid, my granny told me, she said, um, you know, God has his hand on your life, your your numbers, um, this is what they mean. And she was telling me, you know, completion, perfection, new beginnings, um, uh, new, new financial prosperity, just a lot of things that hurt just bang my knee up against this damn thing. But uh, yeah, we back, man. Another week of nonsense that has happened, but you know, we just gonna we gonna start with some positivity before I I don't think I'm gonna go on a rant. I'm gonna I'm I just got some questions. So yeah, man, just recapping the week. I think uh the first thing I wanna say is Kevin Hart shame on you. You um you let that white man get up there and

Kevin Hart And A Joke Too Far

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just make jokes in the name of George Floyd, which is why the song you heard Float on, that's one of my favorite songs in the world by the floaters. Oh RB group, man. Oh, old RB. Just play us. I'm talking bell bottom pants and and periwickle suits. Um man, when did that song come out? Uh I think that song came out in like the 70s, but my my grand, my grandfather, he used to play it a lot. Me, um, my mom's father, he and I were really cool. Um, and then you know, as I got older, I don't I honestly don't know what the fuck happened, but um, you know, we were really cool. Then on my dad's side, we were really cool. His dad, grandpa savage, uh, we we enjoyed wrestling together until I found out it was racist. But anyways, that song came out in 1977, and um it's it's a it's a great song, man. It's it's putting you up on game. It got some questionable lyrics though. Like, everybody came on the track so smooth. Like everybody just came on hella smooth, man. And um man, should I play this shit? You know what? Let's play it. I'm I want y'all to I want y'all to hear this, man, because I'm a cancer, right? So everybody I'm gonna set the stage and then you know we'll get back into the pod. So uh everybody

Live Reaction To “Float On”

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came on the track like super smooth and just like real chill, but the dude that had my zodiac sign, like he was I don't know, I think he was special needs or something. Let me see if I can get this going. So it's it's it's like these brothers in these three-piece tuxedos, and they just smooth with it. Look, he said Aquarius.

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And my name is Rabbit. Now I like a woman who loves her freedom.

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Said you like a woman who loves her freedom. Hold her own, pay the bill.

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Come on.

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Say if you fit that description, take my home. Oh damn, I think they sing throughout the whole one, but man, you know what? Forget it. This is like my first live reaction. It is what it is. This is where I sampled my intro song from. So I'ma see if I can skip it. Yeah, let me skip this.

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Libra.

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Libra, he sounds smooth.

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And my name is Charles.

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I don't know about that part now. My name is Charles. No, I like a woman. Say I like a woman that's quiet. Miss Universe, he got a strong list. Don't say nothing to him. He likes a woman that's quiet. Y'all better not bother Charles. Domestic disturbance in that house. Let me skip to the next one. Let's see here. Who's next?

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Leo.

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Leo! Alright, Paul. Oh, he's a whore. He likes all the women of the world. Biblical Paul. Shout out to Paul.

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Alright.

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I think my dude coming up next. This this makes me so mad. Let's fast forward this. Here we go. Cancer. Oh my god. And my name is Larry. Oh my god. He sounds so slow. Cancer! And my name is Larry. God damn, he makes us look stupid. That shit pissed me off every fucking time I hear this song. It's like I got a cousin that's special needs. He talked just like that. He like 40. But like he's special needs by choice. Cause he getting never ain't gonna put his business out there like that. But let's just say he gets a free government check every month because he is special, allegedly. Anyways, that's the song I sampled, man. That's float on by the floaters. Um, you know how we do on heavy on the RB with K-Wave, just the rhythms and the blues of life. I try to find an RB song every pod that is kind of relating to my mindset at the moment, or just some of my favorite tunes. That was the floater, that was float on by the floaters, that's 1977. My brother was born in 1977, old ass nigga. Um shoot, I don't even know what I was talking about, but anyways, man. So just going back to the intro song, um, shame on Kevin Hart. That I don't know, man. Like, that's why I put the lyric in there. We got white miles making fun of black paint pain, and you got other

Why Racial “Comedy” Isn’t Harmless

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black people just sitting by laughing idly, like somebody should have whooped his motherfucking ass or knocked him off that stage. Like, where was Will Smith during all of this? Like, should have gone upside that nigga head. Like, I don't I don't play them games, man. I think I'm getting to an age where I just get like like I don't know, impatient. I don't want to say like old or mean or grumpy because I think I think grumpy people are just like you're grumpy for no reason. Like you you don't like the way the corn fakes pour it flakes uh excuse me pour it out the box. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like you just get mad at the way that the ice cubes touch each other in the glass, like you just petty, like you just wanna be mad. I think with me, I'm very justified in the shit that bothers me. And it's like, how many times as we we as black people are gonna let people play in our face and Kev? Like, what are you doing, dog? That shit was not even funny. It wasn't even funny, it wasn't it wasn't even a funny joke, wasn't even a funny joke at all. Like, if you're gonna be racist, at least be funny before I whoop your ass. I'm still gonna be your ass, but like, still be, you know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, it depends on what kind of ass whooping it's gonna be. It might be a gruesome one, or I might just piece you up and go about my day, but that that shit was not funny. Um, shame on Kevin Hard and shame on shame on every black person that was there that laughed at that shit. Like, I I lived in Houston at the time of the whole uprising with George Floyd. I remember, I mean, like I said on in the previous pod, we we we lived up the street from where Sandra Bland um lost her life and where they did her dirty. So, and you know, activism runs deep in my blood, man. Like, from you know, my grandmother being first cousins with Emmett Till's um mother. So, like, it's just I don't know, man. I don't find that shit funny. I never will, and shame on whoever was in there laughing. Don't give me that old, it's just a joke, it's comedy. Nah, it's not it's not comedy because what you're doing, I don't know when this became cool when we just started making fun of people, like that's not here no more. And you see that a lot in in our hip hop community, you know, smoking on your ops and this, that, and the third. Like, that shit is not cool, it's not funny, and it just it should have no merit and hold no weight. And I don't know, man. Maybe we just need to get back to just socking niggas. Like, I don't I don't know, man. Let me stop. I ain't really trying to get too violent, but you know, um, I it's it's it's crazy because I used to be the biggest Cav fan. And I like Cat Williams, but I didn't like him as much as I liked Kev. So I think the older that I've gotten, and I've identified some of the privileges that I've had, just being an athlete, hell, being tall is a privilege. You know, the way that I'm perceived and the way that I was I was treated. Um, but it, you know, I think getting profile and pulled out of out of my car by the police and college and stuff like that's that stuff, that stuff sticks with you. And it happened more than once. Um, I remember when I was at Texas AM, I went to the mall and uh we had a banquet or something, so I needed a belt. I went into the store called Buckle. One plus one equals two

Profiling Stories And Learning Privilege

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to me. I'm going here and Buckle and find me a belt. I didn't know it was like a white denim cowboy boo Shania Twain music video type shit. I didn't know that. You know what I'm saying? So they profile me, they followed me in every aisle, kept asking me, do you need help? No, I'm I know what a fucking belt looks like. That's all I'm here to get. Leave me the fuck alone. So after I cussed them out, I was like, I mean no, I'm gonna do something. I'm gonna I'm gonna come back maybe like three weeks later. Came back three weeks later, I had on all my track shit. Like I'm I'm fresh out of practice. Everything was Texan them tracking field, Texan them tracking field, dude. The shoes, the uh the pants, the sweats, the t-shirt. So I noticed very nice. Greeted me, didn't follow me around the store, got to the register, wanted to have small talk. Oh, you run track, how is it? See, you got the new stadium, like, yeah, you stupid. Oh, you was the one that profiled me last just three two, three weeks ago. I ain't really got much to say to you. And I think going through things like that, I understood the privilege that I had, but also I ain't like it. Um It's weird in a sense, it's weird that I wanted to go out of my way to kind of I don't know if it was just to like go against the system, which I've always done in anything that I've I've did, or just like be extra black. I mean, well that sounds stupid. That's that don't yeah, that's like saying the tallest midget being extra, like I'm black, you know what I'm saying? Like I come from where I'm from, like it's it's in me. I mean, even doing my uh African ancestry, and one side I'm Sierra Leone and the other side I'm Nigerian, and then I'm just a you know uh a Negro. I'm gonna quit calling myself the N-word. Shout out to M Reed. I'm just a Negro from the Midwest, you know what I'm saying? It's stuck in my ways. I know what it's like to put that Louisiana hot sauce on that pig feet. So anyway, I don't know. I just going through that, I never really wanted to be a part of that system, which is why I ended up transferring from Texas AM. Um, by far the most racist school I've ever been to. Uh actually, maybe Rand Lake was, yeah, southern Illinois. They had a noose hanging from the the uh courthouse. But Texas AM is is hella racist, and I think the what bothered me the most is a lot of the black people that I encountered. Um, shout out to my boy Kid, not him, he's a rebel just like me. Um, but a lot of them was like, you know, don't don't come over here doing all that, don't make no noise. Like, I'm like, damn, nigga, we free. Put some bass in your voice. I'm not, I'm not on nobody's plantation. I'm sorry, sir. I don't dance unless I hear the groove, and I'm not, I'm not fucking, I'm not, you know, censoring myself for nobody. But AM had dumb shit, like, don't walk on the grass. It shows respects to the veterans. Man, I'm late for class. I'm cutting through this fucking student center grass, and they don't do nothing but look at you and chastise you. Like, I remember one time a ministry was like, you know, we can expel you for that for walking through the grass. Hey man, I told I told it made me so mad just thinking about it. I told I told whoever this professor was, I said, please move along. It's gonna get bad if you don't move along. This is back in the time, like this is what 08, 09. I told y'all I was there when Obama got elected. Um, the second term. The second term, and they threw eggs. Um, that was the first term. Was it was it 08? Yeah. No, it was uh one of them turns. I'm I'm it's escaping me. It was either it was either 08 or it was um was it 2012? Whatever it was, man. Forgive me, because I was there for both. Um I was I was at a different school, but one of the terms, I believe it was the first one, I was there when they threw um eggs at us and called us niggas the night Obama got elected. And all the black people on campus, we was happy, we was in the student center, we was going crazy. It was like like probably I don't know, I've experienced that kind of joy being black. Maybe probably like three, four times. Because when Obama got elected both terms, it's when Kendrick beat up on Drake, just that that kind of joy. The underdog, the all the cars that stacked against you, you know, the the fight is fixed, and you still come out on top. And and Bud Crawford beating Earl Spence and Canelo because nobody was giving Bud Crawford a shot in hell to be either one of those fighters. And he did it, and he did it so convincingly. And man, just just going through that, it was though those are the times that it's like, man, I'm very, very, very grateful and proud to be black. If I died and came back to life, I think the worst thing, my biggest fear is coming back as a white man. That like having I don't I don't ever want to be that. I don't I like my skin. Um, I like the struggle uh because the struggle that I've been through it builds character and going through all of those things, man, it allows me to speak in uh a clear mind and also convey my thoughts across to the world where I'm talking about a Kevin Hart and what I what I went through when I what I experienced and being in Houston during that time, it was not a good time, and we were all on edge, it was hot as fuck. That was like the hottest summer in Houston ever. Um, I remember getting cut off by a dude with a confederate flag and and traffic, and and like I really wanted to get out because it's open carry state. I could have thrown my life away because uh best believe I had it. Best believe I had it on me. I had one in the car, a few in the house, in every room, you know what I'm saying? And it was some I had I had fire. I'm hey, best believe I had it, and I ain't talking about no little, you know what I'm saying. This was this was the big joints, but yeah, man. Shame on Kev, shame on everybody that laughed. That shit was not funny, and I I really I'm really starting to see who these people are and why celebrity parasocial worship is very bad and it's a detrimental thing in our community. It's like the new COVID being so infatuated with these celebrities that wouldn't wouldn't do nothing for you, you know. I'm saying you all you are is a consumer to them. Um most of them, I'll say 99%. You got a few, you know, that are uh very giving and things like that, but um, yeah, shame on Kev. Um man, NBA, the conference finals are here. I'm I'm rolling with the Spurs. If you have never seen Victor Wimbenaba play basketball, it is a sight to see. A seven foot five Frenchman that can

NBA Takes And A Netflix Recommendation

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handle like a guard, he he moves like a gazelle. He ain't like a he's not a big stiff, you know what I'm saying? Like it's like poetry emotion. I ain't never seen no shit like this in my life. Um, and it's it's a pleasure and a joy to watch him hoop. And I don't like OKC. I don't give a damn about uh SGA, even though he's a Kentucky Wildcat like myself. I just don't appreciate his brand of basketball, um, all that foul baiting and shit. And you know, in the East, we got the Cavs and the Knicks. I'm rooting for Coco Jones, man. I'm rooting for Donovan Mitchell, I'm rooting for the Cavs. I don't really care for James Harden. Um, but you know, we'll see if they can do it. And yeah, man. Uh this week, oh, Nemesis. Great, great show. If you ain't if you ain't caught it yet on Netflix, please check it out. It's it's um it's directed by Courtney Kemp, who was the director of power, you know, and did all of that. Um, you know, not supporting 50, but Courtney Kemp, I'm supporting that black woman. Shout out to her. Um, man, it's it's a really, really good show. And we binged it, got through it, and I'm like, damn, we're in season two coming out. We needed something to watch because from if anybody's watching the show from like right now, this last season, I don't know, man. It's it's it's a no for me, dog. It is, it's ass booty. I don't know what's going on this season. That just uh this this previous week, spoiler alert, spoiler alert. This previous week, we saw some Raggedy Ann dolls come to life out of a fucking river and try to kill people. I don't man, I don't know. This shit, it's I don't know, dawg. Like, I just feel like when when the contractual obligations are up and you really want to get out of the show, you just start writing anything, like, because some of this shit don't even make sense, it's ridiculous, re damn diculous. But that's it, man. Uh oh, had an experience with overt racism. I feel we're trying to sell our condo, and anybody that's a realtor out there and you selling properties, you know, like you, if you black,

Condo Showing And Overt Racism

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you gotta do little shit like take your black art off the wall or take your black pictures off the wall. Because for some reason, white folks, when they buy homes from black people, it's like I don't know if they think it if it depreciates or the walls, it ain't four walls, or I don't I don't know what goes through these people's mind. But I'm we showing it, you know, we showing uh showing the the unit or whatever, and I opened the door, and the lady just looks startled. Like she ain't never seen like and it's San Diego. I ain't never really you know had to deal with that out here, but it just goes to show you that oh how far we've come and we still have so far to go. I often say that the most dangerous place in this country for a person of color, um, be it black or brown, is not necessarily like at a festival where you know there's a mass shooter or a school or um a church or you know, anywhere they decide to shoot up, which is literally everywhere. I think the most dangerous place in this world for a person of color is inside the mind of the wrong white person because on any given day they could just wake up and say they don't like us because of the color of our skin or our religion and take a gang of us out. And I'll never wrap my head around that, I'll never understand that. And I always caution people, man, move with caution at all times, move with with vigilance. I'm not a person, you're not gonna find me at no festival. I just I don't see the point. I'm cool, I don't even like being around that many people, you know what I'm saying? Like, I don't I don't know if it's because of PTSD and things that I've been through in my life, you know. I've been at large concerts and and there's been a stampede, you know, sort of like what happened with Travis Scott concert. I've been to something like that. I I've been I've been I've been in that club before, and and you know, me and my homies done had to go back to back and fight our way out just because we was from a different neighborhood. Like, I don't know, man. It's I don't know. It's just it's crazy, man. And just stay cautious, you know, stay dangerous out here too, as Nipsey would say. Um, just yesterday there was a shooting at a mosque here, a Muslim mosque here, and then uh black man, a black uh cop, uh he was patrolling, you know, the the uh the building, and he ended up losing his life because of a white boy here in in the city, and then shit like that that just it kind of deters me from like, do I really want kids? And and I know my fiance, she can't wait to be a mother, and some days I can't wait to be a father, but I often ask myself, is it worth it? Is it worth bringing a child into this cruel,

Safety, PTSD, And Fear Of Parenthood

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cruel, cruel world? I don't know. Um, it's one of the things that keep me up at night sometimes, but also it's one of the things that I talk to God about a lot. I talk to him about like Lord, please, please cover my family. Um, you know, my lady will tell you, like, I'm very protective. I tested in the 99th, 90th percentile, uh, basically the top 1%, um top 10%, my bad, of protective instincts. You know, they give you the test in high school. Um, they give you like three different tests, like ASVAB, uh some other tests, like one's the military, then the other one's just about like your your traits as a human. And you know, that was that was the thing what I tested the most on. I'm very savvy, street smart, I'm very observant, like, you know, even you, it can or the shows like it can happen to you, even you, but I'm still you know, I'm still moving the way I move my whole life, and that's just just being cautious. So man, uh rest in peace to the victims, may God send anyone affected, family, friends, may you just be covered it, cover covered, covered by God. And uh man, I can't even get the words out. It's just sad thinking about it, you know. Some kind of peace and comfort to the family to get through this and may the shooter rot and piss and get the death penalty. Well, California got the death penalty no more, but you know, yeah, y'all, y'all, once you get to the yard, y'all know what to do. So, other than that, man, wedding planning, premarital counseling about to start. We about to get the show on the road, and and and uh man, the road to I do will be here relatively

Wedding Plans, Therapy, And Forgiveness

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soon. One thing that I've learned going through all of this is I I've I've grown a lot since moving out here. Um, just I used to operate out of spite. There was a time where I had a list. Baby King said on his album Casino, uh, I got a list of bitch ass niggas that I'm not forgiving. And that was me. That was me. I had I literally had a hit list. I and I went to anger management, I got through this, but I ain't gonna lie, dog. Like therapy is great, I go bi weekly, but um I think therapy for me is to protect me from some of y'all because I am a very loyal person. Um, I don't know if that has anything to do with my zodiac sign, but the way that I move, and then when I wronged, like uh, I gotta wrong you back. Double, triple, quadruple time. So I had a list of people that that flipped the script on me, put smoke on my name when I was going through my divorce, and oh yeah, some of you, some of you niggas was in trouble. Um, and if you hit me up, like I said before, there's been there's been times where former friends and frat brothers have hit me up. Hey, I heard you in San Diego now, you know, what's to do? I don't reply, and it ain't because I'm being an asshole. And if if anybody hears this, hear me and hear me clear, hear me good. It's for your safety. Don't call I like I forgive you, but I ain't forgot. And I don't know what my response is gonna be if me and the person that wronged me cross paths, like, yeah, I'm healed, and you know, I'm I'm still in therapy as a um precautionary, you know, measure, just you know, to sharpen the tools bi weekly and and and get different perspectives, but there's a still there's still there's still a little Kway left in me, you know what I'm saying? Like, there's still a little every now and again that that that fist balls up. So don't call me. If I ain't spoke to you in this many years, I ain't speaking to you again. And I forgive you, but I ain't forget. And I think one of the the most important aspects of forgiveness to me is being unbothered. And as long as you are away from me, I'm unbothered. But don't call, I'm telling you, don't call me, don't ask me for nothing in San Diego, find it on your own. Because I'm I'm warning you, I'm not I'm not going to lead you to greener pastures and safety. I'm not, and that's just the way that I feel right now. And I feel like, you know, a lot of us should feel like that in our circles, and maybe we wouldn't be getting played uh our face, you know, we people wouldn't be playing in our face the way they are right now. But um, anyway, so I've grown a lot. It's funny to say all of that and say I've grown a lot. I've grown a lot, man. And I think the most important thing I've learned since moving here is I've I've mastered my uh my diet as I continue to drop this weight, and I've mastered my horniness.

Discipline With Food And Lust

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Fellas, any man that can control their sexual appetite and their diet can conquer anything. Those are the two things that can get you off track is lusting and food. Because the food leads to liquor, the liquor leads to weed, and who knows after that. And then, you know, the women, of course, like you just you know, you lusting after every woman you see. That's not healthy, that's not good for you. I think the moment that I stopped operating like that, and I stopped operating out of spite, my life just took off. Like it was just it was it was almost like night and day. I saw the change in myself, and it was just, you know, people around me, even my fiance said that. She was like, you know, when we first got together, I could tell you was in the in a hurt place, but you know, shout out to her for sticking in there with me, and um, man, being a partner, a true partner. So yeah, um, one thing or a few things that I've learned out here. So I'm excited, man. We got a lot of things coming. And um, you know, I think the the ship is is off the the boat is off the dock now, and the the boat gonna turn into um a ship or a yacht, and then the yacht gonna turn into a ship, and man, God is just gonna keep on going and growing. But from this from from now, I think the pod goes downhill, unfortunately. Um I gotta get into this. I really don't want to talk about this dude, but gosh, man, what the hey? So

Drake, Fan Culture, And Character

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y'all know what that beat is. I listened to this song over. I still listen to this in the gym. I'm I'm probably that crazy, but you know, the boy dropped the album, dropped three albums, excuse me, this this uh what was that last Friday? I'm not listening to any of the songs. I I never will. And I just I wanna I wanna talk to the people that are engaging in this, even if you were just going back and forth. I just I I just want to know why. This dude has proved time and time again that he's literally not like us. He continuously disrespects our legends. You disrespect Pac, you disrespect Michael Jackson, you keep mentioning married black women, then you make a whole album basically going at everybody except the person that got you in this shit. You made a you have a song with future, and he's the one that got you in this shit, and you gotta you play a part in that too, because you could have just not engaged. I I will never in my life understand how a nigga can pick a fight, get his ass whooped, and blame the world. What do you what are we talking about here, man? Like, but even besides that, fuck the music, fuck the music. We're talking about the character of a man. The cat the character of a man, this man text 14-year-olds, performs songs called I Wish I Could Fuck Every Girl in the World on a BET Award stage in front of 10-year-olds. He has racy lyrics, high school picks. She was even bit bad back then. Why the fuck would you look at a girl like that in high school? Sierra Canyon parking lot looking like Magic City parking lot. Why the fuck would a high school parking lot look like a strip club parking lot? Like, do you I know you got ghostwriters? Do you ever do this thing called proofread? Do you ever proofread nigga? Like, what are you doing? This is asinine. This is crazy. Fuck the music. Let's talk about the character of a man. The character of a man that will slide into most death's daughter's DMs on her 18th birthday because he thinks it's fun. Most Deaf should whoop your ass. Fuck the music. What how do y'all even bypass all of this? How you gonna sign a petition for artists to have free speech? And when you pick a fight in a rap battle, it don't go your way, and you get smacked around, you then sue the record label? Like, you went you called the police because you he was too mean to you after you said this man's child wasn't his and his wife was a whore and cheated on him with his best friend. Like, how do you not have no culpability, no accountability, and you don't take that into consideration? And then his fans, y'all are the worst. Like, I'm not even exaggerating. There's two things, there's two fan bases in this world that I will never ever go back and forth with MAGA and Drake fans. Drake make music for young niggas that are old niggas, like Drake make music for 60-year-old, 12-year-olds with too many chromosomes. They pour Casamigos in each other's mouths, and the rooms full of women that mismanage their coochie. Like the women that be in the room, their favorite food is rooftop chicken strips and blueberry hookah. Like, this is the kind of shit that we discuss in here. I just leave them where they at, man. I just ignore them. I have nothing to say to y'all. I don't I don't want to engage with y'all. And it's not because, like, I can't defend my points or anything, it's just you don't argue with delusion. There's literally no point in arguing with delusion, and I'm not the person like you just not gonna sit there and talk to me any kind of way, you know what I'm saying? Like, you're not gonna just pull the wool over my eyes. That's just like not gonna happen. I I don't I I really don't understand it. He does so he does all of this, cheats on the test, he's literally stalking Kendrick. Everything he does is very stalkerish. It's damn near starting to feel like Tevin Campbell. Can we talk music video on this motherfucker? His music videos are mirroring and mimicking Kendrick, the shots, bro. Give it up. You lost. Go find you an age-appropriate woman, talk about adult things, discuss health insurance, going to the dentist twice a year, not for no fucking veneers, get a deep cleaning, nigga. Clean your life up. What are we talking about here? Fuck the music. We talking about the character of a man, the character of a man who aligns himself with MAGA and White Supremacists and Hell's Angels and Who Hates Black Women, who's anti-black, but y'all don't wanna. I don't know if y'all don't wanna open your eyes, or you just wanna ignore it. Is it's plain plainly in your face. The White House tweeted out his album cover, and that's a white power sign. I don't give a fuck what nobody says. That ain't no six. Cause I'm old enough to remember when Toronto wasn't called the six. Fuck the music. What are we talking about? Then they did a video with his ice man playing in the background while they terrorized neighbors, neighborhoods, which he branded himself doing. He's the one that drove an ice truck around the fucking city. While we got people here getting killed just for taking their child to school, or filming, or just existing. We got kids locked in cages, in ice cages, dying mysteriously, nobody knows shit. And this is the motherfucker who this is this is who this is y'all's savior, this is y'all king. A tone-deaf beige. Just I can't even think of the most disrespectful things to say. Like he's just I if the if the work ick is in the dictionary, like his face is there. I can't believe some of y'all. If you ain't a music journalist, like what are you doing? Man, this shit crazy. And then lastly, Spotify caught up in a spot of lies. Y'all get caught up. Y'all tweeting this man broke records before the album is even fucking

Spotify Numbers And Industry Games

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six, four, six hours old. Like, y'all was added to that lawsuit, then he took y'all out mysteriously. But I know why. I see what's going on why now, like, it's it's obvious. So, y'all tweeted out that he broke records, you know, for day one streaming numbers, this, that, and the third. Oh, but them Koreans. Shout out to BTS and all their fans. For mobilizing, y'all could we could learn a thing or 12 from them. They said, not so fast, buddy. That regular belong to us. So then Spotterlies comes out with an apology. A half-ass apology. Actually, it wasn't even an apology. It was a terrible explanation. They come out with an explanation. Oh, this was a uh a human era. Things were calculated manually, and the streams were added from two different songs. Spot a lie. Come on now. Who the fuck? Y'all can't even do long division no more, let alone count shit manually. Who you think we are? I'm sorry, man. We not Drake's fan base. Niggas got law degrees and master's degrees over here. We got health insurance and 401ks. We got properties and houses and condos. Like we know what we doing. We done been through real real life shit. Just like the song I played at the beginning says, man, we know we know wins, we know losses. We know saints, we know sinners, we know bosses. We not stupid. Who you think y'all fooling? Shout out to Spotter Light though. I host my podcast on there. I don't know for how much longer after they hear this, but somebody gotta do it, man. Anyways, a conclusion. Fuck the music. The character of a man or woman is what you are going to have to answer to eventually. So if

Final Word On Values And Power

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you want to ignore all of the racist tropes that are in your face, all of the anti-black speaking points and the disrespect towards our black queens, that's on you. But when the shit hits the fan, whether it's tomorrow, next week, next year, two years from now, whenever, I'll make sure I'm right here on the Heavy and the RB podcast with Kway to say I told you so. Fuck the music. Oh Lord. Well, that was another gripe. I'm sorry, it was a long rant. Um, well, yeah, that concludes today's show. Everybody go touch some grass. It's all good though, man. It's all good. We're gonna be alright. In the words of Kendrick Lamar, I promise you, we're gonna be alright. We just gotta get through these times, and slowly but surely, everything is gonna turn around in our favor. And a lot of people that were silent on these issues during this time, they're gonna try to come back around and ask for your dollars, and that's when you can show them your power and tell them no. Not at all. It's like Mike Jones said, back then they didn't want me. Now I'm hot, they all on me. It's only a matter of time, but, anyways, man. Hey, that's been another edition of Heavy on the RB. You know what I say. Please put value in yourself, put value in each other so we can have a value society. Peace.