ERGO
Ergo../ˈəːɡəʊ/..Latin for “Therefore…”پودكاست ايرجو فيه بنفكر ونتناقش في مواضيع كتير بتهمنا في حياتنا..مواضيع ليها علاقة بالإيمان ومعنى الحياة والأسئلة الوجودية..بنحاول نتعمق فيها ونطرحها من زوايا فلسفية ونفسية واجتماعية
ERGO
ليه بنتجوز؟ | د. ماهر صموئيل ويوسف يعقوب
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لماذا نتزوج؟ هل الزواج وصول إلى الاستقرار، أم خروج من حالة استقرار؟
في هذه الحلقة من بودكاست Ergo، نناقش سؤالًا أساسيًا: ليه أنا عايز أتجوز؟
أهم الأسئلة والموضوعات في الحلقة:
❓ لماذا نتزوج؟
❓ لماذا لا نسأل "لماذا نتزوج" لكن نسآل "بمن نتزوج" و"كيف نتزوج"؟
❓ ما أشهر الإجابات الخاطئة عن سؤال: لماذا نتزوج؟
❓ الخوف من الوحدة والخزي والصورة المجتمعية ودورهم في قرار الزواج؟
❓ هل الزواج من أجل الحب الرومانسي سبب كافٍ للزواج؟ هل الحب الرومانسي هو فعلًا ما نحتاجه لتأسيس زواج دائم وناجح؟
❓ ما الفرق بين Passion (الشغف)، Intimacy (القرب)، Commitment (الالتزام)؟
❓ ما معنى الازاحة الوجودية (Existential Displacement)؟
❓ هل الزواج هو الذي يعطي لحياتنا المعنى؟
❓ ماذا يحدث عندما نحمل الزواج أكثر من حجمه وأكثر من طاقته؟
❓ لماذا نكتشف بعد الزواج أننا لم نكن نعرف أنفسنا أو الآخر كما كنا نظن؟
❓ ما الغرض الصحيح من الزواج؟ و كيف تساعد العلاقة مع شريك الحياة والأولاد في تطوير إنسانيتنا؟
❓ هل الشخص الذي لا يتزوج يتعطل في تكوين إنسانيته؟
❓ هل الزواج وصول إلى الاستقرار، أم خروج من حالة استقرار؟
الحلقة مع د. ماهر تناقش الزواج والحب والعلاقات الإنسانية من زاوية نفسية ووجودية، وتحاول أن ترجع بالسؤال إلى بدايته: أنا ليه عايش؟ وأنا ليه بتجوز؟
د. ماهر صموئيل | استشاري طب المخ والأعصاب والطب النفسي، ماجستير الفلسفة والدين، دكتوراة الفلسفة في دراسات التثاقف - جامعة ڤوپرتال
يوسف يعقوب | ماجستير فلسفة العلم والدين - جامعة إدنبره
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00:00 ليه جوازات كتيرة بتفشل؟ ولماذا نتزوج؟
06:55 ليه الناس بتتجوز؟ أشهر الإجابات الخاطئة
11:21 هل الحب الرومانسي كفاية للجواز؟
18:11 ليه الشغف بيفقد في أسابيع؟
28:44 هل الجواز هو اللي هيديني معنى لحياتي؟
33:47 طيب لماذا نتزوج؟
#marriage #الزواج
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SPEAKER_01Bess yani arfit to ul e al Nis Ilhuma biolakanam sendin sa ashersin with gawazin wa bin hebabadilis okay andihombayanu hagatania real hobbilkan filmu.
SPEAKER_00Okay. Ya lameulak andaliya asharsine um hobby biyanmu, ale fikre inta meyye filmeyemana arfak menta insane. Get aliq l-hazat bi it mstoy ilu uddemek, met ulishinidam hassal akid, akid hasl. Yeah, besi illibi ħfazak filwa teda, achlaqak, elbit ulak, the shariq hayatek, winta amil commitment, winta andak dafot, winta airf ayubak, uul akhar andu ayub, ula budda annat kabal, ulabuddinastagal ala alanf sina ma'abad, alishanna totaw ila lovd.
SPEAKER_01Meshi, tai bas anadwati k any mut haiir swayamasan lefi tolo ot kitira gidden betasal muba kirenfig goes. Yaani umalhethnof nafkaf beofkat f E Sabia. Oh, Sabi I mean ewwmanit abel.
SPEAKER_00Yeah. Shekhafkat f E Sebia. Uhtira ewi ba minhom beafka the shekaf felfatra lehebal musahba or lema barov shantobit sem mu edelwa t beat fi haget kitira ewi. David an Ariftin ifya haget Mishha Arifhatri talking, uba din define the relationship, uba din l dating, uba dinl musahba, uba din biasal proposal, uba din bi bufi khutuba, ye tksa ta' weila awi, beof ka the sharif n kida okay fe tagishema. Okay, beof ka the sharif, besbio ba feel excitement. Khatu gai. Okay. Lemata salda haizeid. Lemaasaldi hazid. Laket mehiga ba mudu a gawez, la mayg gawez ba atoba the top. A top. But ginausalna lil echer fugitna bil ehbot la anum at ta' bitatikat muhtalifet a moman uh la tabona liba ish ba itomri if ashankar kalatha.
SPEAKER_01Bas ili bi yhasal yna budu bahtoshwa ili bi bihasal, badik gawesi libi kheli feg anis, kenu'ababad fa'loka, lemudit teratarba sininin, khamas sininin, wa difag ekteshf no mushmanasbin labat. Yani illi realization alakama aha.
SPEAKER_00Ha kan fi elakama asura, fi dihnu yatameha. Ubi hawili labisa alal akher, uma dash nafsu forsa ebeden, inu ekteshif nafsu, aw y aktesh flach. Hawa shi qhribrib, wa dekil bhikka shedin no af nafsu. Umen nah etanya andu sura mwayana anil akhar fi haga shaba habin lif sura lifzihanu wachar farahmele bisahu.
SPEAKER_01Sa, famafish intimacy mfish korb.
SPEAKER_00U kaben, lemhanigi ba'al karemta b ilkaradu sah li gawez, hanigi lin notadi innu ana bishekli naam, mishbesfik gawez, anaf inni misha if nafsi. Wa aktar hagebtiqshifniya anafsi he'a laqatibil akhareen, wa aktar elakha, bainal akharin, ilhat khalini aarf hayat nafsi heya, toraf al akhar, sharik al hayat, fadaqh alak Iza tarraf al nafsi, wa aizatarraf aliha, wafalan aiza femha, wayzafem nafsi, waraga anafsif Hagat kitira, yatara sahya, tara galat, lek a kalem the kulum shware de use of the kh. Huwa biba wa zak me nafsu kwa fem nafsu, anabakalem alal il a shkhasal intahabium al umri ila talak siriya. Ma ottar nafsu, ana hairafanamin, umena tanya, andu sura mu ayana an shari kill hayat uhmelabisa alal akher ubi ataber hobbil pashan ho wa delil inu shahzdahwa il munesi binzbeli fabi himshi uhinibun al sazda. Wa wa wa topkalikalem erik from yedri and nahu mundaf an a hayat heatha shaqshs beheatha shakaf huban min el farah ulwehhda will halal adam listakrarufi fa aw illa ma'ana fabi trimiya alal akhr lawamil baqiyy ba liptit fa andasli goas.
SPEAKER_01Mesh, Yani il Hob Romancy uh bilbil Tarif al-Hadak ultu lohan samiba hobbi sherif wahdu mish sebeb gayid inu inungaus.
SPEAKER_00Da ismuhawa ismuharom Dali il ageniptranna annu. Ayu. Dali ayunaktofuni Da ilalu ultu al hobbu eitu ali il aipfi kumyaf haweb kum lek il hobbi aine ali. Da fa'hobl'eni dahawa shaf. The shaf. Dha ma ibnijbi yut da la yoslohlita si zaweg de im wanega. Tabioslohlizlohano zay il Arifet al-krim shantia la torto ya.
SPEAKER_01Wala sharor al uula lithaliniya hawa la ptidi lba itil anuya al-hobel korbal iltiz.
SPEAKER_00Sharar al-ula l-hagal btidi ta' mu asha getar ragil il-muhtaram del amal nazurepta al-mufala's that al enulawta wafer al commitment to l intimacy, um official sha biba. Gifba gif.
SPEAKER_01Umbzabba barduganam shaisaba. Yani dayb alakki bumroti. Okay, quaisani. Yani hobbel sharefel axin bitulinu hawa hadmentalat an ansor bit kali goez you gowensian. Liz. Okay.
SPEAKER_00Uh, like in menfashid bin ali, karor gawaez. Kharor gawez, aktor gidden gidden men enna katuk di rehla lotifa ma awa hebb bit heb. Lgawez rikedahals. Okay.
SPEAKER_01Type Ablumanigi l sabel sahir, uhes al asbab sahegawiza uhatani l uh seba alharak ultu can swe mehtag swe at ultifi uhzeha u gude. Yes. Uh wahh wa good.
SPEAKER_00Auzel hegralugud.
SPEAKER_01Zale hegeral gude, malish any teni aula cana fekiri, wesahani umadowar cansen ala ala mana l ugoudi, shaishayati uh um Fodya ewerigha, ubaulinu wahdem al haget il uh il mumkin fall in te kalini ab uh layalasma fidinya dni, inabama hadbu hibbini unubamaabadu nibni bitmaabadu nibni elamabadu fair nidga was. B s l ilam shahid bailiminu na delwati be eight heart ital shahsal ochharda, hag uhbar bikti min inushahswe hadi adori la biha go way. Famahma amar shahsida, hayub uh mu kosr.
SPEAKER_00Ya ni khalina abda uul and nohoa shahs uh kwaisu no bebab hat anil man ali hayatu. Oh Mishai'ayatu tob uh no shab uh just to be gru muta uhwala had to be fucker best fill career bit uh ho eyes ice haiatu tobeliamana. Kiru and a gawez ho a le sayoti lehayati man that of kirhot a gawaz here musomam aplicayoti kil man hamilt gawez aktor menhagmu wa aktor men tuktu wudalibi semmi Victor Frankel isa wugude existential displacement in fi haga ma mula ludur mu ayan entorhtumle bishadour aktor min tuketa. U shabbihu bi lze el higra l wugude, and o fi wehet be hager min beladu. We sip kulhage rohmanunege febeladu. Beslei sep kulla haga or rah hager. Dulatimkin man darchin olha awi la anu ye anifimo barerat kitira l'hegegra fil alamal arabi. Lekin henakat batoba zuruf kwaysa and the badal ashas, basi hager, lanushle imana li wugudu hena, fio la keger le imana barra. Fatile tabirda, al higra l wugude, lebit hager, mishle k' the kways, mishle nakle ishokle kways, mishle anakasta tower menafsa kfegama ofishulana hegger alashen, tagid ma'ana, le wugude kle nak fakid almanahan. Tadanafsi kalambiam al hegra ba se hegra minal uzubeya ila iszawek alas innu iagid al-man. Fa ihtilef ishua analinta ultu enu howtu t dur mish alas shariq, howtu tuddur al al gawez nafsu. Bisbanma biktushif, badma big gawez, wishuf ba mustal zamatik gawez u mesuliyetu, ta'abu, biktushfani zawagma ha eqsh kalamda. When zawag mishbian fa'idil ħayat man. Fa mish bi rega nafsu e nana hati el eb eda ala gawezla bulana gaust ghulot. Fahena ilebbi s shrik el embaya.
SPEAKER_01Okay, fawa Yanihawa il hai and home fem gawez gholot lekin bier miloma ala echtiorul shrik.
SPEAKER_00Ya madam nozareya shahz.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_01Tovdalinzare shahset tenida hayda or you bafdalyan.
SPEAKER_00Gawezet tanyya with the Rasebba kula tulin goazetanya, dayman, akhtar feshal and meni goazul ul foros nagahaal. Foros nagahaal. Leken home ghir shin nazarea, maybe regashinafsu weul wanali goist, wana kutmun tozer im niggawaz, may salshinafsul es iledi, fabi eidl gal totin. Uminat thehaya baafil Musibadi, ilachr al akhrul atfal. Albi laatfal Yani il-Duraset kulahe il Ma'amulah bitwa akid andul atfal, bi wa'anu, even saheyin, al-mana' atta m bit il Dira sat il-takaddu mid Drasib ta' m bit assar, l kimidl in harfat bit is dead, l-Htimel ta'atul muhadarat be is dead. Kulla naweh Takwinit the kura filwale, takwina lunutha fil binti beit assar. Mishhaga ismo ennum al atfal mishat assar.
SPEAKER_01Tabba yani lawa nafil heta di uh in na muzagil n il Yaninasbi ishumaabad to'asar, okay, al shakotril ayel.
SPEAKER_00Yaniza ul uhid mish healthi li homul ayel, basilhal mish nahna, kolo hadiruhl halo and civil ayal okay.
SPEAKER_01Uh algu nigil headl elegdi fil ek tai um okay uh uhiz mishlil hob, u mishli egadl manafilhay, uba eta kamas hagalhak ul tomil istakrar, will hrubin ilwehda o kolhaged uh limeda eden at a zawag.
SPEAKER_00Ana ta no so elimather yambag an yas bek tafkirak figgawa. Ablimat ulime at a zawag ulimather an ash one ashli. An ish fitine. Say, Bassiani, mawa gara delhayat, mahuama an al haiat. So El Amir Lilai Zim Shia Saha, so al Amir Lilai's Hayatim shaklama's boat. An a laba goes. An Ashangaw sah an aliba goes, Mahenta Bardo Ashantil. I is alsoal the an alia goes, A kito shakh sa amir sa Tilkayan Hatar aftar no menal usli bigaw an ali ayish fiddini, an alima good fiddini. When a wig nozari igapti alhadh suel il gawtahmaak lema kunaf hala ablikida an elfarak. Anamo gutfi heel hayat deke agid nafsi. Nefsi fidehili imkenea potential tosruh fidehil to read and tektemil, to read and tesdehir, to read and tenmu. Ureda nat hakak, urid an agid nafsil hakakia Tasal amalitl individuation ilbi kalem anha karliong. Ausal ila an akun insen atatawar fi inseniti, wa akun insan mutmer gamilan minaddehil mutmiran fil-cherig ne fi'an haiza ba insan wa insan firid. Fa na urid an insaniti ta tatawa. W lawtiftiker ana ultufil halakat ta' al-farh, inu il-ecosystem, ilfiyak temil il- insan, beastelzim alakama'a l-transcendent, ma'al khalik, lakin alaqahama'a, al-akhar, wa ilaqama'at ta'biyah. Wa shaqkida ra'ul al-zawagwa l-amel, il-litnindul, min aktar il-ashieh il-gamilef il-hayat, il-letit tostahqat ta'ab what ħayya, le ennahet tusim bishek la avim fita quin insaniiti. Fa' anadehl al al gawez, bi shakaf, uhim tillek al-akharwa m tilak gasud al-akharwa wa tqikikul sa'ada wa t'hikik al-stakrar waqkelem bil hetitul istakhar di kunamukali kalifiya, anabashufinizzawaq wa chhruug min halit-saqrar, mishal husul ila l-istaqrar, uhana dehil la anni urid an akun insen wa akun nafsi. Da wudeman hagi mish bas mina ħati gawazi anamjba gawa ba ulayakil hai mum. Okay. Aki taba anha hadah is tas khafni dula'ti la wul, ana urid an atazawa glik akun insan e akun nafsi laqma so chiket, besaqsu din nek ablimatik gawiz, bit fakkar bitari ami kafi hayatek, innak aiz haga gamila le ħayatak, aisikun ugudek lahukima. Fa' ilu wugudulha hukhima, uhazawa gwatakathar, lek il wugudul la hukhima inni akun insan wa akun nafsi, wa akun insan gamil wafarid wa mutmer, wanefah, il ħaiyah wala winta bit fakar batori, alaqtak, mainfashit haa, illa fi kifeh ma' alhayat bilaman, wa illa fi alak ma' al-aqhar bishakli intimate.
SPEAKER_01La ta andiba kaza suel ba'a yan ya.
SPEAKER_00Wa' laq ma'al qha' lakta.
SPEAKER_01Okay, yani bas di la tyanika suel um ke enimitlah bot sinna huwa ilfer emabilhaqbit ulu, waqam saba lakuna bin ulayhem in shuye.
SPEAKER_00Yea. Rakam saba' inu heza zawag huwa lezi sey mnahil manafil ħayat ba uldu lwati ni zawag sey mnaħniil manafil ħayat. Lakin nezzawag, wa aħadl arkenil hem, al leti tu se'edni, fi guz imin izzawiya lammarasamtil musallazda, ultu alakam al-qhalek, wa ilakam al-aqhr, bisekla qam, wa ilakam attabiam al-hayat fil-fisurah, lika y ubdi awa untigwa ungiz wa abtakir, fil elakam al-aqar daraget, mishkul il-alqhar fi ħayatek, lihum nafs, al-dargah, fa' il ilakam al-azduqaq, giril elakam al-abul um, ghiril elakam asharik al-hayat, giril elakam al-awlat, defi daraget, akwa daraget il- elak heil bitu ta'wur fiq in sanitek il-alakam asharik al-ħajatul elakum al-awled, il omam murtabutin biz zawek. Fa' izza ultin naħad erkenil musala stalat, wa al-elakam al-akhhar fa' aham guz fil elakam al-akhar huwa izzawek. Okay, mishma'na kidan izawak huli bidini, al-ma'.
SPEAKER_01Ta'manas alakutalya muhtalifa tablaw had Yani medga wishab Milzbeb. Heldemanehe inu te queen l- inseni epne ta' omishwar, it te queen dawil muhtami Araf Oktar albinarf il nafumda zi shuf il uhismahal atatil foroh uh hell demaneu beataatl omjetaatal beh bat sefebed.
SPEAKER_00Awalan halinan ul inu dalis tisne. Il mshbigos. Ah, okay. M shkedh? Nah, nintela handaked. Ma satani. Whaashan kedal insella tower.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_01Katevan kid.
SPEAKER_00Ah, insella yata tower. L'insani ahtag ilal elakatul mulzima, wehtag ila inul layu merisil ginscherig is zaweg, we kun mul tezimbe elaka wa ila misha ta tawa fi inseniitu.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Il ashkasalistis na i ndulla, smani baateni, zawitil musalez ba uli elak ma'al akr. Bi a darwi ya tatawaru fiya elakatu mal akr, biltizem, wa emena, wa sutka, wa ata, bihesunu miya awadu nuqta ili horimumumin hab sabab adamiz. Sof sada kot masalan aw u tle awgeda, tl ibi a tabanna ašqhas tila'i bi mentur nes tile ie bi bi bi bi ibzil magud gabbar fi alakatu, lak matar sha shuf insen illa ezikan andu eaqah, mwayana, nafsija aw gesedeye. Fi ifi halat il eaqatin nafsia waw gesedeye, de mudu ateni. Lek in l ašqasil eswe labud inuya ta' tawa elakati in mefish insen sewi mish alakati. Tameem ta' iakar elak faalin tul zimak alatwir nafsek gawez. Gawezelf. Ya ani leta ta' qhayal hagbata gaiur la anashuftuf Hayati B sebab gawesi. Usebab ubuwiti Anamab ichil inseneli ohib an akunu wa atower ilabseb Zawag Ulhelf.
SPEAKER_01Okay, Tai manishabuduhargayani ha keni bawul Fhamil Hagbut ulum inhireni keni aselo as ila real sakeda. Il tolerit kalema fi bihan Radil Hayat o El Hayel il Lehnan Fudnaeshaia Mishwar inni uhu alfagu ma bin anamin delwati wa anan mafrudab amin.
SPEAKER_00Okay, uhrudab amin Yani what I should be and what I could be. Ah, okay. Ya mishbasel Mafrud akun mean like anamkin. Okay. Hagakamila, mumkin aba achlamkeda meet marsah.
SPEAKER_01Hello, Yani, Besatori odifikalim an Rodil Hayek enab bithali elhaya about me, Yanni, an Aiza anan Izam shilmishwarda, Isausal Ahhla Hagga Odrab Eha, uh, wa Azam Haga Odorab eha msha. We gwaz hai side ni ab Akeda Yani ka in no azbah the wila lokamachaklaba itkena wa sile lhorad asma be damahurhawa laya.
SPEAKER_00Da yeani Arifinta uhmutail Suelda Oh Mutheltori tfkirdi Khalina okayen. Actor she uh be him makfil headhu anafse Wiza ultili in no ana ana shahid anhodohe behad alfigra andabdahe behadakash to ba mohim alashent tahza bilbutula. Alwola klaizin nahadabil Botula, likein Ayu Anta Mesula and Nefsek, tower nefsek, we temba benefsek, wa hebbenfseck, o mahadish haya khtani nefsek illenta, o mahadish hai salah nepseq illa inte fa will inlek to kun bit hebbenfsakbisheklusahya.
SPEAKER_01Yani il abilibni nefsu layelu aw bi dahi beula weetu mutatul leglimroto dehs bord widor al nepsu Ya emma inu mustemta abedeamil kedahomit kaddur.
SPEAKER_00La mustemta abedeh, actar mut be saadu fideh inu behesed inhobe tatawar, ubihese in nohoa, gamil fi ay nafsu inno erfia dahim an egglal akarin, anakida no tit nata fi tohori l insanny. In a vegetalfhtar hagababitumaizu to fula s orfizet anaba kedushi fino anala anabadahi alishan chat or auled anakidahka and aish de hayad gamila. If I had let if a said belebiamelo Ib Aradi and Nefsula and shah her the kimtu Shaar nubiatowa u sha'arin u ledwa alar rahir gabi. Wal totheatul hobi amilha lekinhoa kashaqs amel ygbar fa'anin nafsu wa sthakfalan kibir fa anin nafsu. Oh no, al akhar laisa wa seila, lekina al akhar Khalina ul, who al megael al levi eskubufi nafsilikea totawar. Ya la ultili a rofli l insan soril insane. Haul akarnob meen bilmeka al makina Tamil. Just Tamil.
SPEAKER_02Okay.
SPEAKER_00Akarno Bel Hawen Al Hawan Ya kul wa use tehdem. Ya kul wa us tehdem. So Hatalbi Rabbu club fil bi to uhuswa adagidembu biun fekwa alihom kitir. Lanubistahdumbi dilu haget al partner mabid thehalush, awul akhar mabid thehalush, fahua biestesmer fiatal anul hawan, zaymal ragalil karwif said birkab al humar al kalbi bidalani fa tia get muhtalifa baseg. Hawan yustahdab mish. Il wahashi el tehim. Sah, il insanal mafrut fi egma al swar ofsurtu sayih, mish fi agma sofsur tu sayha, ke'in fa''id yan seqib. Kein fa''id yan seqib. Waalishenkitha wa kein karim, ha wa kein yanyaiza ul gamil wa mutameyz, n nu qadr ala, qadr ala al-fayodani yaskub lil akharin, qadr ala an na wugudu yusbaalan wugud akhalina ul nefer wa mutmar lil akharin lakharin bestafidu min wugud. Heidil in sene, fukar fukul sufa gamil ekna benos of be al in sene. Hadlea murtabata diaman be shaqsu biaskub nafs.
SPEAKER_01Mukas aksuar imkinitala sena bolonodwa senergateni yani k anywa kedgabi tarif themin. Yanilho wadel insen. Okay, il mazdar il beusta kaminu tarif zakid.
SPEAKER_00Okay, hellani shokra nagbsanisualda analeya almost our bower bain sanamori shokla na girkit Bafakar. Ba rait fi, udarestif'e kti ewi mal adeb. Wal adebab keshefli khsusal adabbal arabi. Wal adabl eggnabi. Keshefli ktir ewi husan itnin minul udaba al orda ma nagib mahfuz udoz three veske. Elitnindul Keshafuli nafsil insaneye, wa alamunia anin nafsil inseneye. Walamatehra way di tear teshuf menfeshala and yakun insenan u men nagha niakuna insenan wa rehla bain alfeshal wa nagaha. Fil adab ya ani biharu wa ushagga alhas. Wudaba da atwana'yeer, l-felsaf, karat kathiran giddan fil-felsaf. Wal felsafal ugudea bizat. Martin haidiger itkalib ktir awian heathel wugud in nefa il mutmer heatha tahkhir le insenitek, ilmonkin fa'alan fil echir tobamuta meyeza wa farida wanfa'a l'akharin. But in the rest ktier awi psychology baqma thasusi katobib nafsi. Erik from biarf el thatal asila, an authentic self. Mindim ni se metiha, al arba hatla arba se met muhimma giddin, al hobitarifu, and nakato feedbal ata l'al akari. Wadin the rest for sociology. B sevab the rastifi dokturab ta'ati and ukunta banakas il- tatarruf fil-hal al-masriya wa ruqiat il-muqtama al-masrifitarihu, fa al-madar l-il arbar bain sanadul, ghariqan fil-edab ufis psychology, ufil philosophy, uf'i sociology, atakadia atin il-hakq an u kadim ruqyatin niha'eyeh, lima a anih bikil mit sen. Biladufa ila ta gripti shahseya, wa tagarubi ma'a azduqa mufakirin, ya ani la ma bawod ma'a azduqa mufakkafin u mufakkiriin, wa unakash ma'um, hadihul umur, yani adilak misel basit gidden ala fikrit and teskub nafwa an twahti il-aqhharin. Nagibmahfuzlam ma' Hassal ala gazit nobel fa ba'ullu adei ehna faqhurim bik. Wana kuch shab suhajer. Baulu. Ba'ullu adei ehna fa'hhurim bik. Adey ehna sha'reen innek nafa'atina nafa' ghira adi wahira nil'alam qaddarak. La ansa evadanq alli ana anaha malti e katap swaet hawadit, bitikshif il-waka lekin il-qatubba il-lihtaraw adweya. In nasil lihtaraw e ghiza tusa'id in nasit ta'ban, hum badul alin ula alihum is tahql, il-mafum da mafum insani. Sa beul innu qyeas kimet il- insan tu kaz behagb isamu fi nafaulil akharim. Di il-laqdarul kawinit andi headal mindset. Bil qdafa ba'l ilfuqda kullu inta'rif, enubardu andi daraset il-lahuteya. Sa wa imani l-shaqhsi bil il- imanil mesihi, wa tubati bi shaqshs yasuwa al-mesijah. Ana shuftifi hazannu muzik. Fa fa ana yani ra'ayitu yeskub nafsu uhitelia ana ba shufin u tarif al-haqikil insanhuwa ikti meelil insenia wa tata wurha, behaitu takun kadira, alal fayodan, bisek bis salah, lil akharin iladina haula. Okay.
SPEAKER_01Fanadilwaati lwa kotba tarifdah, in shukanta shariq tinibil nambutakinalma nesbitmaharak bitkalim bani bhokeda bat tarif biba andumil su elda yani gif tarif them ninfe mapsubil bil Igabedi. Fe lawanafahma gwadwati sah elgawez la bositlo ale innu megel wumseha fi other eskubnefsi bettori oddi, other uhish benefa waato l insaninitl o khareen filha dina betensen, ubabo lbanutun no totl harakit kalim ta'anhedi, wusaitha ilm ilgawez me baesh etibekeda hagabetidini ilman lekin nuba um haga il Megel, il ecosystem.
SPEAKER_00Zot yani. L-manech il-munesim. Okay. Kul nepta tahtag ilabi a munesba. Okay, az zaweg bi a munesba giddan, khalina dilak metal Bardo, Martin Buber, failasuf il-azim, elbi kelem anil alakat, ya nawa kakul Martin Buber kalemu anil alakat. Fabiul analma ba amal al- akher, metin saj zawitul musalisubalakit ta'mul ma'-aqr, muhem litotwir insaniti. Bshkidah, yala wgiptu wa tuf hazaltu, wa titutu udi ma' wa ta' takribba ta' amalit fallen, mish ameluha bisayak, hassal tkidah, fifransa, tuflil kaf fidal yufkaf, an azal minuho baby anil bashar, fa ken mandushluga. Ubi tsarfzal haiwanet. Fa' intamat dar shit ulfi and sen bedunil akhar. Besul tillak al elakam al-akhar daragat, tosal ila aksa daragatul kurbil ilk tusak, bi sharik alhayat. Andta ul akhar bitobu waet. Martun buber bi ulfil elakam al-akhar intam andeqshira ebar tejn, gumlitin bi bi hum ma basil tistamilhom fukul ħayatek. Ai thou ay it, ya imma bašhufak insan ya emma beshufak shiq. Wadin al kilm m khatira gid. Kulma ba' amlek insan inye araw al chhudur fiik, ħudur insanitek, wahtafi behadal khdur, wa uraheb bi, waħdduru ilike bikulli, wa a stakbilak bikulla kema anta, wa ħtafi ba hdurak, kulli ma ba shufak dev, anabab a dw. Kulli ma ba amlak ala innak it anabab a it.
SPEAKER_01Beta ka berga alwara fil mishwar betay is niaba insane.
SPEAKER_00Bza katah. Okay. Fa ana iza shayeye tal akhar wa gaaltu wasila, anan hefsi beta shayeye.
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SPEAKER_00Udali khalina arfudu innu zawag wasila, zawag mishwasila. Zawag Magel. Magel. Uwala gharat.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00Lakanwal Magel. U Magel Izaul yani uh uh intelazim to gunfakam al akhar, Mish Magelia ani optional.
SPEAKER_01Magel famael yni Magal impactwa al internetub amin ali ewi lenglos choksi uhinnak shaktul wa ta ishmaq tultifana husband anni ema dhy or y emma uhad.
SPEAKER_00Kalina is alek so. Okay. Elik the shaftif nafsa, ey you know a mini disability. Oh, ktif nafsa. Anak the shaftif nafsy fa'alan disabilities kitira awi. Uq ta shaftif shariq hayati disabilities. La ma baktif disability fikik hayati, bahawil inni a staweb, la anni mudri kin nana kama andi disability. Fish had the fina perfect. Ana andi da afata andi na ka'is mu ayana, wukullima is dead wayak bina ka isak kulima ada ya ani ta wora kfi insenitek. La winta shayf ruhak, biged, ya lawfi haddi shaf nafsu, bidun disability wa hada da hai'alik. Da a'mah.
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SPEAKER_00Fa kulem ez tanar na akfar, kuli makta shafna disabilities finafsin. Wa nim aktushf disability fisharik hayat. La waqtashafti disability fwahad fisharia ba'adi, lekin ana ishma asharik al hayat, falawud an utawa finafsil imkeneye and lati tagaalni astawa eb a disability di fabez de' anwazin a ishma abat. Wa ana bahebbi shariq hayat ywa aysa ishma. Wahawa kamen bi tawa fi inwa ta kabel my disability. Fatbusla qata na ka is ilifina, beta tfa'ana fi ga women l intimacy, u l-tizam, u shagaf, beta ashaketa un el magel, el magel il-muleh imgidden, l- ecosystem, l-gayed.
SPEAKER_01Fake inu la wana ey'i'akud l kabha gutab shakla mali il mutawakha ini awl madga wiz hadbot fahita keda esmaha il disability tatu.
SPEAKER_00Ah, yeah ni mba runu ba heta ya. Matab. Matab.
SPEAKER_01Okay, welawana mish mustaid bil mindset. Okay, tata wuri fi mr sli disability lakin fi a twa? Okay, uh mgaliban yeim hagrimilgawezi uh anhiha o akamilha, ba seye mafihash korbu mafihesh uh el hobabbil mafim sulesida.
SPEAKER_00Bahki el hike di ktir, anakathibra shah seye. Ya lemakamil na teletin senagawez, fa kuntanu makdaf maken kidamaabad, fa btisani bitulli mehr interabina ngahakitir fayatak, bad teletin senagawez, tither tu uli ehagmi ishemi fina gehak. Fa laul wahla atafar na gehhi tabana nagahdif e nagahtfutubin nafsi nagahdifil uhani uhidmiti nagahthfidrosti isamha eifel hageddi mishle isambiani mishobashab. Bahin tana bahtel al hakika. Soldot Soldam it's il shithulas anti mish ishamik fi ingazeti anti ishamik fi the queen. Fa anemin anabidunik can mustahil akun ana yum ma uhlutat fhaqik untabahtul ghalati wa'lim ta'tizir Arifti ani eh ta' kafitul atazar. U yum menti semhti arifti ani il kufran. U yum menti attazarti u ana semhtik, marist edi il-alak. Yum menti kunti ta'bena u mishadra u ana u toritin niatodarab alas sabr. Yum ma' naza'at, u lumti nafsi ba'dem aza'at tifiki, u ba'adin ult analezim akun aktar huduan fi muna kasheti ma'aki. Yum mahtalefna firra'qi, ukuntu musirra al-raqhi nan ura'qi sah, bes ult alashana fawutul mawkif wa wa'adid dinya uba'danik tashaftu ba'ad disana in nara'qi kansah. It'allim ta' tawaada wa ulfikram mxkul marra terbis inta'anda kibra inkarra jaha mazbut, umarra teni la ma' sarret ala ra'qi wahametik men innik ta' ameli hagga khal. Hedi il ishra ta'wila ma'edha l iza uli tafa' uli kmyehii il yawumi ga aala eda shahhs andama ezab ilayatu yengah, u gala shahhsa andamayang kabba ala drastu yanga. Fa kalikidur fi ta kwini anaka shahs mesh ishem fi ingazeti. Fe zaweg yasna'ani anake insen, beukka wini anake insen, mesh enno khatiminu eya.
SPEAKER_01Okay. Falil gawez, ilgawez, hai snnaani, a hai sehem for swaika in san.
SPEAKER_00What is the ana? Mishal aday di galiya alaya.
SPEAKER_01Nana ba insan.
SPEAKER_00Una ba insan, um mohem binzbeli a gauzmashua fish. Wa shakedaba for robba batalu. A gauz bin nisbelu e hob romansi agains, ta matatar tardo, mena heta.
SPEAKER_01Bzap.
SPEAKER_00Ili the bisakfil commitment.
SPEAKER_01So, l' annu il uh il ksa our narrative il bi uh ilbi hot ta queen il insan uh royal osman il haya mb echm guda. Khalas le annu il insan mish transcendent thutbalek.
SPEAKER_00Sa, l insan makana biology. Bzap. Okay. Another re-mediah, il il hadeya, l'il insan, and uh il insan fil echher hawa sweat turab ta faulat molecules, phthabbat fabadiyya, fa hatal hobbenzbelo ha wa kimya, chemistry. Sodium o potassium bil abu fidmah, beamelu lenta bitzemil, hobb mafish hagisma hobb, haqtihi, di kemia, ufil ekher intaat mutu a tuba turab, ufil ekher kullina bil hadorab ta' etnas an uptala fi thukba aswad wahanintihi. Fa khalina ba' anistemta ya ni waish hayata kumatilzim, snafsa gba ekumsanea ba'ftea mahu insane di kultihi lekil law ana mukmin anni enda ma ekla heathel geset, to get nafsakatakwanet, saterga ila robbiha, wa twege hrobba wa twegehil e khira biha, la ana muhtambi ta quin hazi en nafs a la ofdal Sura, wilana Fahmu enzzawakse use Idni Bishek Likbir Hala Takwin Hazian nafs.
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SPEAKER_01Kheni ilhala adib Yani Hatlubena kaga gariba kedashuaye. Isaak Tidi uh thail ibnak Rafi Nalf in Tandak Ibnin Yusuf Rafi Yusuf Midgawus Khalos, Rafi ilsa Thail Rafi Gay Elakebobo Anna uhibint, okay, Ubafakarnona at Gawezha, Meshi, Wandak Yusuf, Midgaoz ba elo Sanatin o lahaga keda, wandak ana Yusuf, okay, uhs ba Iliashar sini. Ayes to ul haga anikowez likuluhtf view.
SPEAKER_00Yani uhnezbalil uh leak enterwa tis ma lahaga ta' elilil shrik hayatak fanik daiman hatofas libid dignity pta uhle dignity pita shrik hayatak karomtu u imtu elit arfanaqhat anafsak erga shufashia ta hatofuz bil dignity pitachik hayatak fanikar mukadis walabud the an la tohdar ebadan karamatu a dignity. Banizbal Yusuf ebni uhullah mazilt tahte uhlet gawaz uh ila mazid men sana bema'ana atotheya wa tawdiyah el ayam alat yukuntifiha uh ta'ishman aglenaf. Fa entlatim shaishlo fekir falakarti memetuyageto wa kefasata aklama. Nizbal fi uhulla uh winter fi fatritil marifa al hobbal awali bioba sherif uhwal biasud uh fakkar fil intimacy tub sadikah zeytub abtatafaham Hawil tektashif kajfa tu fakkar fil umur, kefat tezin al umur la annu l-intimacy akwamen l-sherif wa u fakir daimanu dashaqsalit hebbin naktuqdi ma'ak ba it omrak wa t el-tezin bi. Fa salat il-duq swaya ala mesalit rifqa, wa tefejhum, wa l-korb, fi ruqiel il-ħajat, wa fi ruqijatul umur, wa fi weznul umur, wa kemen fakkar fil-kommitment. Ja nana yomma ultil ibni Yusuf Mabruk, Awwil Marra ul-ħelu, sa'ltu sual, ultulu min ziru l-imeja. Bnizbit kemm ta' hibbit addi beyye to omrak kollu ma'judi. Fa' ali bnisbit meyeh filmeye, qtulu mabruk. Akuntu ba eisel commitment.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_00Al-Hayat uba mamlua bittakalubato bitta yurat legin ta' ma'a ba e to omrak. Fa kutaba fakarubil commitment. Lanukutu shafinu li fatra ma fa eder a hesun if you korb shedid utaban fi is shakaf. Fabinizbalakinta uli dignityzbal Yusuf.
SPEAKER_01Malkutinahi base iftakwe an fah him na sehta klefi, ufehim na sahtakli Yusuf Beskami Mishwem na sehtakleyen.
SPEAKER_00Be user da afatna uh Uma'al waat Uma a sin benibda tibana alina authoriz zeman Bitbanit disabilities bite now anamusar retenni nafish insen bedun disabilities. Fa ma'al ayam Uma'al omr bitbaned disabilities bite now Taga yura tis zamana alina. Fa ewa atis mahle haga andwa ala a ru'ial karima lisharikal hayat ilifnus al-aisa mil azbebl annu. Afar is zaman dignity. So ma dignity so ma dignity.
SPEAKER_01Thank you, Dr mehir. Uh, I think halamu mayza wa um yaani tahadik bir, la haga mjbirfakkar fi haktir.
SPEAKER_00Yeah al-kalem alana ba uulu da awul ultufil ħala adibishak la khas, muhosh kalem m ya naiza ulnihe e karta, mahošh kalem lukulines, uhumli kafardu ala wa siyya ala ahad, lekin anawaati ra'i minhibritishahsaya, umendra seti uhum enu yanfa', leman you read, like in maba ulchun heyadil kawaninil ilahayal gaweezu, wadal mafum sahi alwahid, wa ra''il akidis sedid, fi khaday tizawaik, fa' argunumay staqbal shkedeyan, and a mugarat in san mahdood, and it's working maya wa katan fa'ma akhari.
SPEAKER_01Shokr meh. Shokrans. Mikera kali wanak. Shokra mutatabetkum when shokum fala atanya min podcast ergo musi musi musi mut musi musi musi musi musi musi munku.