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Men, Take Note: Here's How to Date Your Wife
Dr. Latifat and Olushile are a Christian couple who offer faith-based advice through their show, The Anchored in Christ. Together, they explore life, love, and legacy from a biblical lens, encouraging listeners to build Christ-centered relationships and marriages.
In this episode, they explore a wife’s perspective on the popular phrase “Can you just plan the date?” The hosts unpack what women really mean when they say it — and how husbands can love, lead, and pursue with intentionality that reflects God’s heart.
Key Takeaways:
1. Pursuit doesn’t end at “I do.”
2. Planning shows love.
3. Schedule childcare to make time for your dates.
Timestamps:
00:40 Why this message is for the men
01:10 The “can you just plan the date?” convo
03:25 It’s deeper than logistics
05:00 Women want to feel pursued
07:20 Planning dates = intentional love
09:45 Breaking the cycle of resentment
12:00 Why leadership isn’t about control
13:50 Loving her the way God calls you to
15:40 Final thoughts and reflection
17:00 A prayer over husbands
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